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I Hate Going to the Gynecologist

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    First Time, So Embarrassing

     A short while ago mom decided it was time for me to see a gynecologist for the first time. Mom has seen the same gynecologist since I was born and booked an appointment. Unfortunately, her gyno is a guy and I asked if she could find a woman. Mom is usually fairly understanding...
    ts92 ts92 22-25, F 41 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    I Hate It When She Goes !!!

    I get so upset when my wife goes to the doctors.  Of course her doctor is a gynecologist and of course he is a he.  The thought of her up there on the table and in those stirrups is to much for me.  I know its pure jealousy, but I can't get over it.
    whatisitlike whatisitlike 26-30, M 5 Responses May 31, 2010

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    Had My Appointment This Week

    Well I had mine yesterday. And yah I still fell yucky.   get naked - check get boobs felt, a lot - check oh don't forget the nip squeeze  - check stirrups, butt hanging off the table, open wide, a bit wider, more  - check relax , , with legs spread...
    mlisak81 mlisak81 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    First Visit Disaster , What a Freaking Idiot !

    I remember my first visit to the gynecologist , it was very awkward and not so long ago . Heres the story . i have a hormonal problem that makes my period irregular , longer than usual or none at all. I can feel hot one moment and cold later . anyways , the first time i went to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 5, 2009

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    I text my friend Megan whose an md

    and im like I hate paps so in the middle of church she's like did u take my advice and was all like just push lol so as revenge I went to Victoria secret got her some super sexy panties and told her I had a present for her for the medical advice and she's like friends help...
    siucgal11 siucgal11 26-30, F Mar 25

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    Gyne-cologist

    Gosh yeah, I hate going to the gynecologist.  I know every women should go, at least for a check up once a year and I still hate it and have a hard time with it.  (It is almost 5 years, I haven't been checked). I remember my first time going; the doc said in english in order...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2011

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    Pap Smear Ughhhh

    Dear Dr White, I am not.looking forward to the usual small talk during the probing of.my va jay jay. It is quite uncomfortable to speak of the weather or current events. I personally don't care about Obama health care while looking at the crown of your head. Please put your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Probably one of the most unpleasant things ever.

    First you worry about how you look, then there is the awkwardness of what a stranger is looking at, and lastly, the discomfort and invasiveness.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Gyn

    I haven't been in ... Anyway, if I would go, there's a question I need asking but I would be too embarrassed to ask, either it is a woman or a man.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Nov 30, 2011

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    Ugh.

    I hate going to the gyn office for two reasons. firstly, i always get stuck with the NP. not that that's a bad thing normally but i have to request to have the actual dr see me. not only that but the NP NEEEVER listeneds to me. all my problems get shoved off as "oh its normal...
    missdanny missdanny 18-21, F Jul 20, 2013

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    siucgal11 siucgal11 26-30, F Mar 11

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    Argh!

    once upon a time i had accompanied my mom to her gyno for her regular check up.,i had to call my cousin to take me out of there immediately...that place was really deppressing ...if one could just stop and loook around all u could see were pregnant deppressed women...women trying...
    l0v3w1th0utrul35 l0v3w1th0utrul35 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    It's Nice Not To Feel "alone"....

    nd tGod, I thought I was the only one who LOATHED Going to the Gynecologist. I have an Appointment on June 28th, and I know that it's only May but It is always at the back of my mind! UGH. And I just got over Breast Cancer so now I have to go through "Trans-Vaginal Ultrasounds, I...
    chemoangel chemoangel 41-45, F 2 Responses May 3, 2011

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    Ughhhh!!!

    Grrri hate going to the gynecologist.i hate it so much that i think if i had the choice of going to a gynecologist app or having teeth pulled... ya i'd rather get a tooth pulled out. lol 
    LittleFerrett LittleFerrett 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 28, 2010

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    That Is Why I Don't Go!

    I remember I got a pap smear and a whole physical once(different thing),it was literally not even five minutes I don't even know what the huge deal is about it is definitely not a pleasant experience but you don't have to get it often.But man I tensed up when my dr inserted the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 18, 2013

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    I Hate Gynecologist

    Never in my life, has their been another type of doctor that continuely ignores my questions or concerns, refuses to help my situation. My issues with obgyn's started when I had my children. Not explaining procedures to me, not taking time to tell me what options were available...
    slynn132002 slynn132002 36-40 2 Responses May 13, 2011

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    Rant

    Intrusive, annoying, and dare I say, unnecessary. This is how I would describe their routine exams. I hate how every time I go to a doctor in this country, every hole in my body is invaded, blood samples are taken, and time is wasted. As I mentioned before, I've been spotting a...
    Elaria Elaria 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    I've never been before,

    but on monday I'm going in for my preconception visit. I'm very nervous. My doctor is male, and it just fills me full of anxiety. I know he is a professional and not some weird pervert but I don't like being in a state of undress... especially not with strangers. I'm still not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 17

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    Gyneacologist

    Is there any gynaecologist here on EP?  LOL  ;) ... I need asking a question.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Oct 8, 2011

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    My mother and sister filled my head with stories

    before the first time I went of how bad just the ultrasound hurts. My mom said it hurt her so much, and that she was going back with me(this is where I Argued and told her I didn't want her back there). I got back there and it does not hurt at all(the ultrasound doesn't at least...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2014

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    I Absolutely Hate Getting A Pap

    Shudders* whenever I remember that metal thingy the doctor just inserted up my hoo-ha, it just makes me shudder. It's a bit painful like someone just pinched you from the inside. Its the time of the year for me to get my annual check up.... shudders again*
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    I hate my doctor, she says all my problems are

    because I'm overweight and acts like I just sit on the couch and eat junk all day, I would hate if I had to do that. I have PSOD, she tell me to go on a diet, I ready eat right lady! And then my over protective mother has to be there for everything and I don't want her there...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    long wait and ppl who are inexperienced and rude : (
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