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I Hate Goodbyes

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    Do I Have To? - I'm not good with good-byes of the heart-breaking sort, so I try not to say anything if I'm ever in such a situation.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 27, 2011

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    Bye Bye Best Friend... - I am used to being an outcast and a loner wherever I go. I don't mind it, though, because I've come to embrace my wierdness. Before I came to my...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    Don't Like Them - Why say goodbye when you can just disappear? Id rather not say goodbye but out of respect for my friends i will.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Feb 25, 2010

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    Losing, But Gaining -   Over the last few weeks has been so many changes that I don't know where to begin.  I have 6 children, two grown the rest 8 and under...
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2009

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    Goodbye - When you walked out the door, you walked out of my life too. You closed the door on me forever, all because you didn’t believe in us. I questioned why you left...
    Vix3n Vix3n 22-25, F Jul 21, 2010

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    College-Bound - There's this person that I've always wished I knew better who is going off to college soon, and it's such an awful feeling!  Every time we were together, we...
    xBraceYourself xBraceYourself 16-18, F Feb 23, 2008

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    Did socialising, 5 friends round a kitchen table. Usual middle age, middle class maul of cannabis and wine. Usual melee of storytelling and disinterest. The goodbyes are telling...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 Feb 15

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    I Hate Goodbyes - i was never like this before. then something happen, i lost someone and i was like hating goodbyes..i like felt that i was abandoned.....
    bluetuliptango bluetuliptango 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 9, 2008

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    Hated This Part. - I had to let him go,it was the right thing to do.
    angelwithoutwings angelwithoutwings 26-30, F May 15, 2011

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    Sorry - i hate goodbyes especially the ones i will be made to do soon. i tryed living my life without being controlled and it has ended badly. trouble follows me. senses i will...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Goodbye's - My last semester of college I hung out with a girl who came from the same type background as I did. We would study together, play on Facebook together, walk to and...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38 36-40, F 2 Responses May 8, 2010

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    Goodbye To A Neighbor - My across the street neighbor moved away today. Although I didn't talk to them very often because they're in their 60s, today the lady said to be "good luck...
    abetterworld101 abetterworld101 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2011

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    It's the end of something that hardly began really, but at least it ended on a good note. X
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F Jan 10

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    Never Again - It's how it feels like. And it's so often so anyway. And sometimes, people even die.I hate it. Even if I stand still, and say nothing. Or if I smile, it happened...
    WickedScullyOfTheWest WickedScullyOfTheWest 31-35, F Aug 31, 2013

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    But oh well, after a couple of weeks using EP I decided to leave.. Thank for the one that helped me when I needed of someone :) goodbye my friends
    Cheesyboy Cheesyboy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I Hate Goodbyes - So I am standing here in the middle of her room and I can hear her breathing and realize I will have to wait what will seem like forever to hear that again. I...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2013

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    Goodbye's - Today at the station i had to say goodbye to my girlfriend and normally i would be in tears but i held them back, kinda shut down until i got to the car and even then i...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F Jul 26, 2013

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    Yearning - Using my time to sit alone listening to the peepers beneath my window; I cling to a memory of bitter taste the actual event refusing to present itself to my frontal...
    AynsleyRosalinda AynsleyRosalinda 18-21, F May 1, 2013

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    I really want to know which idiot discovered this word.Its meaningless.Well instead of GOODBYES its name should have been SADBYES.Because neither sides are good,well,etc,etc. Well...
    Revika Revika 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    That's it then. He'll be leaving in two weeks. My world will soon be OVER! TT_TT
    XxRebelAngelxX XxRebelAngelxX 16-17, F Apr 9

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    Tara! - Goodbyes are bad for me. The emotional impact is bad enough but today I had to wave goodbye to the whole of one side of a National Express Coach because it had blacked out...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 Jan 26, 2011

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    I hate goodbyes now. Ever sense my older brother died while in Afghanistan in a helicopter crash I never even got to say the last goodbye between me and him. I just wish I could...
    drs0307 drs0307 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I hate goodbyes. I'm terrible at them. And goodbyes mean permanent. If I say goodbye to you then we are deffo done. I prefer the phrase "just not here right now"
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F Apr 4

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    This is more to do with dating. But I hate always having to make the first move on someone. Cant someone come up to me for once? Bah, I probably wouldn't be able to realize that...
    Incanto33 Incanto33 31-35, M 42 mins ago

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    I don't goodbyes because that means you're going to leave me alone. Goodbye means you want to go separate ways from me… Don't say goodbye but instead say "See you next time...
    SecretsNeverHidden SecretsNeverHidden 22-25, F Mar 23

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    I told you guys that I hated myself. Now I am in a messy circumstance and I felt everything was falling apart. I might not finish my degree on time when the financial stance is not...
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M Mar 24

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    School is possibly the worst invention ever. I don't hate education, I just hate school. I hate the people, I hate the teachers, I hate the early morning, I hate the uniform, I...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I hate the feeling of missing someone, even though they say it's what makes the reunion more special. I hate the feeling of losing someone, it hurts deep. I hate the feeling of...
    grey019 grey019 31-35, M Apr 3

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    People don't like hate, and it's understandable. It's not a pleasant feeling. However, many self-help and New Age books talk longly and vigorously about how to 'extinguish hate in...
    MidsouthGuy MidsouthGuy 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    Okay….so…..I know this is trivial and probably in the long run very unimportant but I feel like I need to say it. So I used to like this guy a lot, but I never liked talking...
    CantThinkofAUsernameNow CantThinkofAUsernameNow 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Dear ugly sagging boobs, I want to make sure you know that I attribute every miserable moment of self-doubt and self-pity to you. I've hated you the moment I discovered my...
    onnest onnest 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I hate the way that my love makes me fake indifference when your name is mentioned. I hate the way you make me break into a sweat, and talk too loud, and go red, I hate the way you...
    yuichie yuichie 13-15, F Mar 31

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    I hate myself. I hate that I was born with depression. I hate that at age ten I already loathed myself to cut. I hate that at age 11 I was already done with experiencing life and...
    Rawrimabeast Rawrimabeast 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    This post maybe a nonsense... -_- so there's a girl in my class who I hate very much, call her Lucy. She's such an attention-seeker and a crybaby who gets scared of every little...
    Tiffany98702 Tiffany98702 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend. I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hate can take over a body and is a degenerate invasion of  negitive thoughts and emotions. It tries to collect others and is aimed at targeting anyone or anything...
    MsOracle MsOracle 66-70, F 1 hr ago

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    I hate my life. I hate the seconds i have to continue this crap. I wish I never existed at all. I wish I would disappear now. Then everyone could get on with their lives of...
    IAimForHonor IAimForHonor 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Both, human and vets. I hate how their mistakes go unnoticed unless they're really big, I hate how they don't care about emotional wellbeing of their patient. I hate the doctor who...
    LauNaAb LauNaAb 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I hate how I changed when I met my ex. I became this girl looking back that I'm ashamed of. I hate myself for it. Why did I become her? When I look in the mirror I don't hate how I...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I hate everything about me. I hate my hair, I hate face, I hate my nose. I just hate every inch of my body. No one will ever care. Because they'll soon hate me to
    rainsyd2014 rainsyd2014 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I hate PMDD and all its side effects, 50% of the time I had mood swings that no one understands. I hate that I'm under 20 and considering a hysterectomy. I hate how people tell me...
    txaxomel txaxomel 18-21, F Mar 24

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    Hate is a strong word but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    I love the fact that I am not even famous and my name is will known around town not because I am a hoe or that I talk **** or that I am a bad person but because I am a good person...
    Ownership Ownership 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I know it's wrong to hate who I am. God made me this way for a reason. But I hate being female. It doesn't feel right. I can't relate to other girls. I mean, I can relate to girls...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I don't hate my ugliness...I hate people shallowness I don't hate being different ... I hate it when people think being a sheep is smart I don't hate being proud of myself...I...
    AutoLove0 AutoLove0 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I hate my teeth. I'm seventeen, but my teenage years have sucked. A while back in primary school I was such a happy, care free child. I knew my teeth were different, but it didn't...
    ibak12 ibak12 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I have never felt beautiful in my entire 19 years. A few years ago, my cousins who I have always been close to told me I was ugly. I felt really horrible and my self-esteem...
    willneverbepretty willneverbepretty 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Just to start off, I understand I am a horrible child, with pretty bad grades for an indian 13 year old girl. I expect the expectations to be high, but remarks such as "you're...
    dreamyblackcats dreamyblackcats 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I long for the day I don't have to come on here to vent. I just found out my SD has been drinking. Like, she's 13! I wasn't of age when I first drank but I sure wasn't drinking...
    Countrychicky Countrychicky 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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