I Hate Guilt Trips

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    Poor Communication Skills

    People who try and guilt you into things are just not good at communicating there real feelings and it really gets under my skin. Say what you mean and do what the hell you say. If someone does something you don't like say something if it doesn't change then get rid of it, change...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe
    36-40, F
    Feb 25, 2009

    I don't react to guilt trips by others.

    But my parents...yeesh. My mom and dad seriously guilt tripped me all the time as a kid and teen. They're divorced btw. So I was juggled back and forth between parents. I saw my dad on the weekend and lived with my mom. I didn't get to see friends often, and when I did, I jumped...
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199
    22-25, F
    Jun 12, 2014

    I Don't Put Up With It.

    Although I've never allowed anyone to talk to me in that manner, I still get angry when I see someone 'put down' by a guilt trip.  It's the same as tearing a person's self esteem down! Unfortunately, my step daughter gets nothing else from her biological mother, and I hate...
    rockyj rockyj
    31-35, F
    Oct 31, 2008

    Quit the mopey ****. If you start acting all sad

    and hurt just to make me do what you want, you only succeed in ******* me off. It might work with everyone else in your life, but not me. I know you. I hate feeling guilty, but make me feel guilty for your problems? Makes me wanna knock the wind out of you. Why isn't violent one...
    Manticore17 Manticore17
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2016

    I hate when the people I love try to manipulate

    me by using guilt. I don't respond well to passive aggressive behavior. But it still hurts me.
    Flygirl827 Flygirl827
    Jul 5, 2014

    My Friends Are Pros

    I'm kind of a secluded person, and I very much like to be alone or with my family. My friends never really had time for me in school, and now when I have time I'd rather spend it with myself or at home. My friends think I come from college to see them. I really don't. I'd be...
    mandascooby mandascooby
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2010

    Guilt Trips

    Like my husband said; if I say something, some will have guilt trips.  So I better shut my mouth.  lol
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    Jul 3, 2011

    I Hate Them

    But it's like when you see a piece of cake on display at a shop and you think "I hope I don't get that piece" as you order...and yes, you get THAT piece. I always do. I get them daily. From my parents, from my cats (belive me they do them well) and from my Epeeps...
    AnimaliaAustralis AnimaliaAustralis
    22-25, F
    May 5, 2009

    My dad used to pull them all the time on my

    sister and I when we were younger, so we would feel like everything bad that happened was because if us. And my mom used to get so mad at him for it, even if they weren't together anymore. She's started doing it me too, not for the same reasons my dad did and well does. She had...
    CosplayPotato CosplayPotato
    16-17, F
    Apr 12, 2015

    Here We Go Again

    I swear, my mom's side of the family should be contracted out to the military. They are so good at planning an offensive. When my mom calls me, THE VERY SAME DAY my grandparents will call me about the VERY EXACT THING! They think I want to come "home" for Spring Break...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 21, 2013

    Last night? If you don't do a line of cocaine

    with me, it'll break my heart. It's on my bucket list. Seriously??? You got upset with me because I REFUSE to do cocaine at all ever?? REALLY. I have a neuromuscular disease. This is a neurotoxin. Plus, I'm sensitive. And I am very addicted to cannabis. So. It's like you're...
    prettyprude prettyprude
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2015

    I hate guilt trips from family members.

    But with anyone else, I really don't care or put up with them I don't really care, tbh. So I suggest you don't try and guilt trip me. Cause all you'll get is a sarcastic remark from myself.
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199
    22-25, F
    May 28, 2014

    Dont Need It

    i feel guilty all the time, i dont need help in that department, i dont need people making me feel like crap. i already do and if they think they are helping then they are just the type of person to make me look for my box cutter.
    deleted deleted
    Sep 30, 2009
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