I Hate Guys Who Hit Women

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40,183 People

    luketepid luketepid
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Feb 23

    my friend who's still in high school told me he

    say a boy and a girl fighting one girl. Bothered me a bit
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Mar 10

    As a 14 Year Old Teenager, I Hit a Girl :(

    True confession that I am not proud of, but I can only chalk up to experience.  I was 14 years old and there was a neighbor girl, also 14,  who was screaming at me, making a scene in front of my friends.  I forget what started it, but she was letting loose pretty...
    InTheNameOfLove InTheNameOfLove
    36-40, M
    72 Responses Jun 9, 2008

    Hands are not for hitting.

    If a man is pathetic enough to put his hands on a woman he doesn't deserve to be with a woman.
    sdx3 sdx3
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Dec 4, 2013
    BigBigDreams BigBigDreams
    70+, M
    3 Responses Jan 3
    GloomyEyes GloomyEyes
    22-25, M
    7 Responses Feb 12

    Men who hit women aren't men at all.

    They're sadistic, pathetic cowards.
    Azzyyy Azzyyy
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 23, 2014
    Brokenpanda Brokenpanda
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Oct 22, 2015
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Dec 9, 2015

    Abuse In A Relationship!!! WHY????

    Define the word Abusive: 1. Extremely offensive and insulting. 2. Engaging in or characterized by habitual violence and cruelty. There are 4 types of abuse in a relationship... 1. Physical Abuse 2. Sexual Abuse 3. Emotional Abuse 4. Mental Abuse Almost everyone known in the...
    johnt0420 johnt0420
    22-25, M
    12 Responses Feb 3, 2013

    I have had my brother

    who is a year younger than me & my uncle both hit me more than once. It was actually they were saying mean things & I stood up for myself & I ended up paying. On multiple occasions I've been hit, thrown, & kicked. All has been well lately, mostly because I've kept my mouth shut...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Dec 4, 2015

    I don't like men hitting women

    for reason . But if a women where to hit a man for no reason, do any other harm or try to he can hit back. That's self defense and equality
    Kyceyodiditagain Kyceyodiditagain
    13-15, F
    Dec 13, 2015

    After the Ray Rice thing,

    all of these people on the news have been trying to justify it... No. Sorry, there are no excuses to ever put your hands on a woman (or anyone) in a way that she isn't consenting to.
    minioreosarebomb minioreosarebomb
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Dec 20, 2014
    uhimconfused uhimconfused
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 11, 2015
    TrapMusicCreator TrapMusicCreator
    13-15, M
    1 Response Feb 9

    You may as well cut your balls off now,

    because you're no man -_-
    EatingCereal EatingCereal
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    I think this should go without saying.

    . I'm also kinda a pacifist lol. Words can solve my problems 99% of the time.
    jacob3171 jacob3171
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 17

    Don't hit women, but women should not hit men,

    either. Can't have it both ways.
    sarahcantstop sarahcantstop
    26-30, F
    15 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    I hate anyone who hits anyone.

    But self defense is self defense. if a woman hits me I will defend myself, even if it means hitting her back. Same goes for guys. True gender equality.
    damion1999 damion1999
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 12
    carriesboytoy carriesboytoy
    22-25, M
    9 Responses Nov 29, 2014
    uulalaa uulalaa
    41-45, F
    33 Responses Aug 8, 2014

    Guys that hit women are weak.

    They are nothing but cowards. They are alone and would always be alone. They are nothing. These controlling idiots need to know their place. And they don't belong in this world.
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Feb 14
    RupyLaRue RupyLaRue
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jan 3

    Guys who hit women are cowards.

    As guys, we're meant to love and protect women, not beat on them!
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    17 Responses Mar 31, 2015

    I'm not usually a hater,

    but it's really unfair! Women haven't the same degree of muscular size to men, nor bone strength, so for a man to hit a woman is just so totally mismatched violence. Yes, I have experience. One guy I was seeing everyday because I worked with him, had a violent streak towards me...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Sep 30, 2015

    I'm a guy & I've NEVER hit a girl.

    & I never will. The man who hits a girl is a coward & should be shot. I don't care if he's had a rough upbringing. That's no excuse to hit one. The plus side is that I don't do drugs, smoke, or drink. So the girl wouldn't have to worry about me coming home drunk or wasted out of...
    Romanticrebirth Romanticrebirth
    26-30, M
    11 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    I use to be with a guy

    that hit me until he almost killed me that is when i left his a$$ i could not put up with it any more
    sexyblueeyes420 sexyblueeyes420
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Dec 3, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 5

    People will always say don't judge

    until you've walked in someone's shoe.. True! BUT I AM NOT! going to remain in an abusive relationship!! Other men are out there. I'm a very strong individual , I'll leave instantly. Tf. My body is beautiful. I wont allow any man to ruin it. Yes you might love the person and...
    legzydawlyy legzydawlyy
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    i can see both sides of this.

    it's definetely not Ok to start a physical confrantation with a woman but if she's a mugger or murderer or beating you to a bloody pulp shouldn't you be allowed to defend yourself. men do tend to be more muscular but at the same time in self defense law it states that if your...
    Pangy54321 Pangy54321
    22-25, M
    Mar 6
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jan 4

    well, hmm if the women deserved it.

    ... hmm it's debatable this group mostly gears toward physical abuse toward women in relationships where men hit women for dominance and control.
    deleted deleted
    14 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    and a woman is a b*tch

    if she hits a man.
    legzydawlyy legzydawlyy
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Jan 3

    There is a special place waiting

    for guys who hit women and if I catch you doing so you'll beg to be sent there.
    hsb49 hsb49
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Mar 19

    Possibly Irreversible Damage

    I DESPISE men who abuse women, as well as women who abuse men.  There is no valid reason or excuse for purposely breaking another human being down to the point of irrevocable physical damage that will last a lifetime, or causing them emotional, mental, and spiritual chaos that...
    januarygirl januarygirl
    31-35, F
    46 Responses Mar 8, 2011

    Guys who hit women doesn't deserve to be called

    men. Women deserve to be treated like a queen and men who hit them doesn't deserve to be treated like men
    Ihan14 Ihan14
    13-15, M
    4 Responses Feb 18
    DiabolusInMusica DiabolusInMusica
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 5

    It is never ok to hit a woman!

    !! I don't care what the reason is. If a guy hits a woman when I'm around someone is going to get their *** beat.
    MarriedandSexless MarriedandSexless
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    I've been hit by a guy; gave me a black eye.

    .. They aren't real men, they're *****'s.
    NicoleAnn96 NicoleAnn96
    18-21, F
    10 Responses May 6, 2014

    why do some men think

    that it's ok to hit women ? that I have never understood.. maybe there insecure with them self
    flowergirl1997 flowergirl1997
    18-21, F
    31 Responses Jul 4, 2015
    oriondelyx oriondelyx
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    So my cousin went back to her abuser.

    WHAT THE FLYING FAKKKK! I don't care anymore. I actually felt sorry for her. how could she do that?!
    legzydawlyy legzydawlyy
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 27, 2015

    He's been messaging me lately telling me he

    loves me and that I'm his soulmate. What don't you understand? You beat that love out of me years ago. The hearing loss in my ear is an everyday reminder of your love.
    bzylady bzylady
    36-40, F
    18 Responses Aug 27, 2014

    I'd rather they take it out on me,

    and remember she doesn't need your abuse. ladies, I hope you don't allow "him" to continue abusing you. you deserve better!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 25, 2015
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    "The only time a guy should hurt a girl.

    . Is just hugging her too tightly" -.- ☺️😁
    DoorMattress DoorMattress
    13-15, M
    9 Responses Aug 28, 2015

    I've only just started on EP

    and I'm regretting signing up. I thought this would be a place to make friends not get hit on every five minutes. You men who keep asking, "Do you like my c*c*? and "Would you f word me?" To all those pervs I will block you. I'm a foot girl. I don't care about your meat and two...
    LizzyFeet1985 LizzyFeet1985
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    Having surgery on Wednesday to fix my broken

    nose. I hate my boyfriend did this to me. I hate myself that out of fear & pride I covered for him.
    curvycat curvycat
    41-45, F
    17 Responses Mar 4

    I Don't Understand.

    So, we all know what a feminist is don't we? of course we do it's everyday vocabulary and knowledge, i'm going to say before I even get started that I do not oppose or agree to this, "I hate guys who hit women" opinion/statement, but I am going to try to clearly state my opinion...
    xNanashix xNanashix
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 8, 2013

    I like being a women

    even in a man's world. After all, men can't wear dresses. But we can wear pants.
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream
    22-25, F
    24 Responses Jul 9, 2015

    hi there are any problems with the following

    link to the sender immediately by return email and any attachments is for the use of the individual or entity to which it is a good time to get a chance to look at the end of the individual or entity to which
    jersiemmm jersiemmm
    16-17, F
    Jan 9
    stevenbryant stevenbryant
    18-21, M
    9 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    wait wait unless , you're spanking

    that .... if u know what I mean ;)
    legzydawlyy legzydawlyy
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 22, 2015

    Your A Worthless Piece Of Crap

    I can't stand to see a battered woman or child. I don't care what your problem is, if i see you physically,sexually, mentally or verbally hurt a woman or child, we are going to go a few rounds. It's unacceptable.
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Nov 4, 2012

    Related Experiences

    I've always operated with mindset/philosophy, essentially, that the respect you want to be treated with by others......should first be given by you to them. A "you get what you...
    kk1874 kk1874
    31-35, F
    Apr 21
    I used to appreciate cops. I thought they were so brave for putting their lives on the line for the community. Then I dated a guy whose brother was a cop in South Carolina. A lot...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 21
    i have been really lucky in my life to have met such amazing women. My Mom is one of the strongest women I've ever met, She was born in Venezuela and her parents divorced when she...
    WhirlwindR WhirlwindR
    22-25, M
    Apr 21
    Including the sex workers, the strippers, the women who have lots of sex, the women who are repulsed by sex, the muslim women, the lesbian women, the bi women, the housewives, the...
    Grrlpeach Grrlpeach
    13-15, F
    Apr 21
    It happened again. I fell for a guy a decade older than I am. Although he is fun and young at heart. we are having so many issues, i think it's mainly because of me. but seriously...
    QueenofIceandRoses QueenofIceandRoses
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    guys say that they're into someone's personality and intelligence yet they always reject me because i'm in a wheelchair or because i'm not as "pretty" as the other girls
    spiritualvirgo82 spiritualvirgo82
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 20
More Stories