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I Hate Guys Who Hit Women

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    I believe Women are very sensitive

    and beautiful as a flower. But i feel sad when they are mistreated by some men. I believe women should be treated well and respected for the sacrifices they make and love they show towards their family. Most importantly women should be loved. I witnessed and heard many real...
    vinny87 vinny87 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    As a Christian, I'm don't really "hate" anybody,

    so I guess I lied. But my point is more in that I don't believe in hitting women and girls. I would be willing to thug it out with any loser over that. I follow chivalry partially because it's one of the only things in world history that suggests that not all men are complete...
    DarksBane DarksBane 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 7

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    My Dad

    Tonight is the night I've been waiting for,It's finally hear. My mom drops me off at the church for the Girl Scout lock in. I kiss her and my little brother goodbye, I'm so excited I'm going to earn my Camping Badge tonight,plus it's the first time I have ever spent the night...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 29 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    You can be strong and true to yourself without

    being rude or loud. The words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Remember that.......................x
    TheStoryman TheStoryman 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I beat guys who hit women,

    I've done time! (Folsom St. Prison) I got UR backs, girls..đź’Ş
    pyeito pyeito 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 7

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    I really friggen' hate woman beating jokes.

    They aren't so funny when you've been the one face down in the floor.
    XxSweetxSuffocationxX XxSweetxSuffocationxX 16-17, F 17 Responses Feb 11

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    So uh what if you come home

    and your wife had drowned 2 of your kids and she's about I dunk the 3rd one, can I run over and pop her then?
    dakotathebig dakotathebig 16-17, M 4 Responses Mar 6

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    THE Fear

    I know the feeling of being beaten very well.  I was there myself...for many years.  Going to work with bruises and I have to tell a lie to my colleagues. No longer the wife of this man now...I call it quit cos not only did he hit me...he betrayed me for years and yet...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    Few years ago I went 2 a house party.

    Everyone was on about this lad hitting his lass in front of 10 people not 1 person doing anything about it. Later that night he hit her and u heard it above the music. Every1 just watch him do it again. I didn't just there I went over hit this lad, then he kicked me all over...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M 6 Responses Mar 17

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    Abuse In A Relationship!!! WHY????

    Define the word Abusive: 1. Extremely offensive and insulting. 2. Engaging in or characterized by habitual violence and cruelty. There are 4 types of abuse in a relationship... 1. Physical Abuse 2. Sexual Abuse 3. Emotional Abuse 4. Mental Abuse Almost everyone known in the...
    johnt0420 johnt0420 22-25, M 13 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    I Don't Understand.

    So, we all know what a feminist is don't we? of course we do it's everyday vocabulary and knowledge, i'm going to say before I even get started that I do not oppose or agree to this, "I hate guys who hit women" opinion/statement, but I am going to try to clearly state my opinion...
    xNanashix xNanashix 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    My dad did to my mom.

    Proud to say I stuck my thumbs in his eyes when I was 8 and I haven't seen him since:)
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    An update on the Greg issue(if you haven't read

    it, go read a few of my past experiences I've posted about him) I've applied for a peace bond and I now have a court date set with Greg. I just read up how I could of filed chargers against him if I went to the crown, now I can't because everything's been set with the peace...
    HeWasThePuppetMaster HeWasThePuppetMaster 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    The powerfull were created not to hit the weaker

    but to protet the weaker...guys who cant get such simple logic are big time loosers..they should try flexing muscles with someone their size and not someone who is inferior...but yess women to should not provoke or disrespect and then act as victims....
    romell romell 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 25

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    My Fi

    I never speak to anyone about this and I am going to let it out here. My first boyfriend and I met in highschool. I was in swimming and my friend introduced me to this new girl from Mexico. Her name is Ana. We all hung out and I found out she lived just down the street from me...
    looklife looklife 18-21, F 22 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I will never have respect

    for a man who hits and disrespects his significant other. You're a poor excuse for a man. Men who hit women should undergo castration.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 26

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    It's like....why do it?

    :o I mean, I don't like it when anyone gets hit, but when I hear stories of husbands beating on their wives, it just.....Grrrrr! It makes my blood boil! >:(
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 24

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    I went on a date once with a girl,

    and at the theatre I noticed she had a black eye, (I didn't notice earlier because she was wearing shades and it was dark outside) I reached out to touch her cheek and she flinched and shied away. A passing old lady called me a sick bastard and kept walking. Apparently her ex...
    CrimsonDrake CrimsonDrake 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 6

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    I just don't get why guys would actually do

    this to women cause it's pretty sick tbh but no women deserves being hit at all especially by males doesn't matter what they've done
    Joshsmith2012 Joshsmith2012 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 23

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    The first time I was old enough

    and I saw a guy hitting a woman I lost my cool. I ended up pulling him off of her and I started to hit him back. For me it is one of those things that I detest. I was abused as a child and I can understand what it is like to be on the recieving end of someone being hurtful. Even...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 8 Responses Feb 7

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    I'm a very peaceful person in general,

    but I work out 4 days a week and do MMA, and if I ever saw a man hit a woman, child or animal for that matter, I would have no problem teaching that person a valuable lesson.
    sinkingwater sinkingwater 31-35, M Mar 2

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    To me, physical abuse starts with a lack of

    intelligence. People who have to resort to violence just to make a point clearly don´t know how to solve their problems with dialogue. Take my brother, for instance. It´s nearly impossible to talk to him without being hit for saying something he disagrees with. Everytime he...
    Okoshi20 Okoshi20 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 2

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    You want to feel powerful?

    You hit your girl to gain that feeling? Why not take on someone who will fight back? Why abuse the fact that she loves you? Are too afraid to take on someone your own size and strength? You better hope I don't hear about it because I will talk her into calling the cops and...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Seriously I can't stand those kind of men

    who will hit women. My ex always threaten me, he said if you don't do this ill kill your family and friends. When ever I go to his neighborhood it was always him telling me what to do. At the time I was 13 and stupid. And he was 16 and a drug attic. So ya now I'm older and he's...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    Men should never hit a women.

    Even if the woman attacks you first. I've heard the whole " if she wants to act like a man I'll treat her like a man" A woman should be treated like a woman at all times. Take her to the ground and restrain her or avoid the confrontation all together and run.
    xOneLovex xOneLovex 18-21, M 15 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Possibly Irreversible Damage

    I DESPISE men who abuse women, as well as women who abuse men.  There is no valid reason or excuse for purposely breaking another human being down to the point of irrevocable physical damage that will last a lifetime, or causing them emotional, mental, and spiritual chaos that...
    januarygirl januarygirl 26-30, F 49 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    I Hate Them

    I grew up in a home where my dad hit my mom and that really made me hate men because I thought they were all like that but yeah I Hope every guy who hits a women rots in hell
    itsmet itsmet 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    I saw my best friends boyfriend hit her,

    and beat the **** out of him. Ended up with a black eye, but he has never raised a finger to her again
    cyraalana2000 cyraalana2000 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    You should just stop.

    Unless you want the woman to gang up on you, go ninja to cave woman and kill you. Holy cat I would feel so bad for you if that were to happen C:
    Pastelcats Pastelcats 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 17

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    As a 14 Year Old Teenager, I Hit a Girl :(

    True confession that I am not proud of, but I can only chalk up to experience.  I was 14 years old and there was a neighbor girl, also 14,  who was screaming at me, making a scene in front of my friends.  I forget what started it, but she was letting loose pretty...
    InTheNameOfLove InTheNameOfLove 36-40, M 73 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    Aside from verbal, emotional

    and psychological abuse my dad hit my mom. I always ask why would a husband hurt someone they vowed to love for the rest of their lives, someone who's nothing but faithful, loyal and loving to him.. How can he hit her while we beg him to stop, while our innocent eyes watch him...
    FoxxySilverCrow FoxxySilverCrow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Ive withness my dad beat my mom.

    He've been beating since i could remember. Dont get me wrong its not an everyday thing but if they get into a verbal argument he may punch her throw her on the ground stump her. Hit her with something, anything like that. And i know the saying only cowards hit women. Well my...
    litredd litredd 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 1

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    I remember the first time it happened.

    I was innocently tugging on his shirt when he was mad trying to make him cheer up. Something just triggered. He threw me across the room like I was a rag doll. I'll never EVER forget the hate I saw on his face and the fear I felt.
    LaykeyyD LaykeyyD 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 13

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    His name was Greg. It started off nicely then

    he became something he said he'd never turn into. He would make fun of me, call me names, belittle me, yell at me, you name it. Eventually he started lashing out at me, punching walls with such force he broke his hand, pulling out his knife and slashing the wall over me simply...
    HeWasThePuppetMaster HeWasThePuppetMaster 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 26

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    Whether if its physical

    or emotional they should not be tolerated! My heart goes out to those who were victims of abuse!
    1rarechick 1rarechick 31-35, F 10 Responses Jan 7

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    Let Me At Em!

    Men should treat a woman as a queen. Not as an object needing correction. Why a man would want a woman to cower is beyond me. Nothing sexier than a woman that can stand her ground. Not fearing anyone. But not so strong as to chase you off. I am the type of person that would step...
    Ssgsmith77 Ssgsmith77 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    BeautifulGirls4eva BeautifulGirls4eva 13-15, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I saw him hours ago, he knew it was me.

    He continued walking in my direction instead of heading back as if it's like he's intimidating me, trying to make me scared. He walked into the restaurant and kept it so I can see him clearly, afterwards he came back outside and walked to his car. Why couldn't he of just went...
    HeWasThePuppetMaster HeWasThePuppetMaster 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 5

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    I think if a guy hits a women

    or girl they are a fvcking biotch. Okay girls dont deserve to be hit. Men are stronger than girls it can really hurt them physically and emotionally. Getting hit by a guy hurts like fvck. And especially hurts when they say mean stuff after they hit you. They say those mean...
    Anataylor22 Anataylor22 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    I was a victim of domestic violence

    for seventeen years. I finally got rid of my husband two months now. It is tough some days taking care of the kids alone but you know what I am alive and well and things will get better
    Legalaff Legalaff 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Your A Worthless Piece Of Crap

    I can't stand to see a battered woman or child. I don't care what your problem is, if i see you physically,sexually, mentally or verbally hurt a woman or child, we are going to go a few rounds. It's unacceptable.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I'll **** anybody up

    that thinks about doin that ****
    WBGTrappboy WBGTrappboy 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 5

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    Hands are not for hitting.

    If a man is pathetic enough to put his hands on a woman he doesn't deserve to be with a woman.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 20 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I also hate women who physically

    or psychologically abuse guys (works both ways). Sadly the stereotype of the woman being more innocent and feeble leads the alternative reality to go largely unnoticed :(
    twiggy93 twiggy93 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 13

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    Adara999 Adara999 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 25

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    I went out with a guy

    for a year and a half in my twenties, when I tried to end it he kicked me as hard as he would a football, in a public street. My legs were black and blue afterwards. He was 6ft 5 and athletic, and I am 5ft 4. I remember being terrified, it was like in his eyes I was no more than...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    I put my father in law in the hospital

    for hitting my mother in law and as much as it has ****** up my life I would do it again. No man is supposed to hit a woman.
    MTwa8 MTwa8 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    So I just got my restraining order granted

    against an abuser. Last Friday for one of the court dates, a guy walked up to me and gave me his number and everything, right in front of my abuser. (I was by myself) Yesterday, which was the last court date. The same guy from last week waited in the lobby for me, the abuser...
    HeWasThePuppetMaster HeWasThePuppetMaster 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I found out lately that my father used to beat

    my mother and have a lot of hatred for him its awful.I suppose I love him but I don't love him for what he WAS.Dont get me wrong he is a nice guy and has changed but my mum puts me through everything she went through but i can't blame her because i have a lot of sympathy for her...
    SammyLautner SammyLautner 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Really don't hit on me

    or say I'm pretty cause idc girls in fine with guys who need help or just wanna talk ur welcome to I love gays and bi's so talk to me
    nana33017 nana33017 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    Violence

    I was in a rship for 5 years was great at first. He just changed when I became pregnant head butted me when I was 7 months pregnant I was in shock. Then after that it was regular thing. Name calling started him having go at me all the time. I had no life at all we never ever...
    blondebunny77 blondebunny77 36-40, F 20 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I think men who hit women should be lashed at a

    public whipping post…which was actually the proscribed punishment in the State of Delaware until the 1950s. Likewise, men who sexually assault. Believe it or not, men are punished in this manner to this day in Singapore and Malaysia…not exactly a whip, but a rattan cane that...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Two of my stepdad's beat the crap out of my

    mother, one reason why she died. I'm going to find both of them and I'm going to beat the crap out of them! My dad never hit her but he's famous for huge biceps, and pretty much every muscle in his body huge and strong, so I'm a get like that when I get older and beat the crap...
    wdknod123456 wdknod123456 13-15, M 7 Responses Mar 4

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    I fought guys who who hit women,

    even my dad to be honest
    NathanNathanial NathanNathanial 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I would like to point out we are not all the same some of us are looking for meaningful relationships and the ones who use women are just boys, real men respect women.
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