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I Hate Guys Who Hit Women

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    The first time I was old enough

    and I saw a guy hitting a woman I lost my cool. I ended up pulling him off of her and I started to hit him back. For me it is one of those things that I detest. I was abused as a child and I can understand what it is like to be on the recieving end of someone being hurtful. Even...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 8 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    Your A Worthless Piece Of Crap

    I can't stand to see a battered woman or child. I don't care what your problem is, if i see you physically,sexually, mentally or verbally hurt a woman or child, we are going to go a few rounds. It's unacceptable.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    As a 14 Year Old Teenager, I Hit a Girl :(

    True confession that I am not proud of, but I can only chalk up to experience.  I was 14 years old and there was a neighbor girl, also 14,  who was screaming at me, making a scene in front of my friends.  I forget what started it, but she was letting loose pretty...
    InTheNameOfLove InTheNameOfLove 36-40, M 71 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    I beat guys who hit women,

    I've done time! (Folsom St. Prison) I got UR backs, girls..💪
    pyeito pyeito 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    it happens all the time to my mom

    and i just hate it but she tells me she will be fine but i dont believe her i want to help her and i will
    austun12 austun12 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 7

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    carriesboytoy carriesboytoy 18-21, M 12 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    I'm a guy myself and I hate guys

    who hit women. Guys are meant to take car of women. Like women give birth to guys, without women guys wouldn't have kids and all. Women must be respected. Just because guys have more strength than most women do, that doesn't mean that guys could hit women whenever they like.
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    Violence

    I was in a rship for 5 years was great at first. He just changed when I became pregnant head butted me when I was 7 months pregnant I was in shock. Then after that it was regular thing. Name calling started him having go at me all the time. I had no life at all we never ever...
    blondebunny77 blondebunny77 36-40, F 18 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    i hate those who even think wrong about women

    and those dont even try to understand them
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 16

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    He's been messaging me lately telling me he

    loves me and that I'm his soulmate. What don't you understand? You beat that love out of me years ago. The hearing loss in my ear is an everyday reminder of your love.
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 19 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    A "man" who hits a women is NOT in the least

    bit a "man". He is a scared little boy that is so insecure about the tiny excuse of a "****" that is allegedly in existence between his legs. How ever it must not be enough to please anyone, because he goes around hitting women. PATHETIC!!!
    ShadowCatt ShadowCatt 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    That's one thing that's not allowed in my house

    I do not like guys that hit women I had a very bad relationship when I was married and I would have never thought of laying a hand on her and one thing I'm sick and tired of hearing is if you're a male and your father hit your mother you well be a abuser to my father used to...
    satinbitch58 satinbitch58 56-60, M 4 Responses May 28

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    I DO NOT AGREE with a man putting his hands on

    a woman. As a man I feel you shouldn't even argue with a female that's some ***** **** in my opinion. But I will say this as a woman do not step to a man like your one if you don't want him to treat you like one.
    MayhemsTreasure MayhemsTreasure 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    I feel like I one day I'm going to end up on

    "Snapped" or "I almost got away with it", If male even thinks about hitting me.... they will die,
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 7

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    Few years ago I went 2 a house party.

    Everyone was on about this lad hitting his lass in front of 10 people not 1 person doing anything about it. Later that night he hit her and u heard it above the music. Every1 just watch him do it again. I didn't just there I went over hit this lad, then he kicked me all over...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, T 5 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    I HATE WHEN GUY ALWAYS HIT GIRLS OR WOMEN AND

    SOMETIMES I GET MAD I NEVER WANT TO HIT A GIRL NEVER HAD NEVER WELL
    DANGELOMOSS DANGELOMOSS 13-15, M May 24

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    my x husband raped and beat me.

    i know this pain. im glad to be free from him today but you never really get free. from the past just heal some
    DeAnnsharon DeAnnsharon 41-45, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    zartashamalik zartashamalik 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Actually I've been hit by my ex boyfriend

    even though I didn't necessarily take him serious. Basically he called me and I was drinking something so I told him to wait. He continued to call me and I said again that he should wait .. anyhow I went to him and he hit me in my face. it didn't hurt but I'm guessing he wanted...
    legzydawly legzydawly 18-21 5 Responses May 9

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    I was driving home from work some years back

    before cell phones and came upon a kid who was striking his girlfriend while driving the car. He was hitting her so hard that his car was veering off the road. I drove up just inches to his bumper and lay on my horn. He looked in his rearview mirror and I pointed to him and...
    bowchickawowow bowchickawowow 41-45, F Apr 5

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    Hands are not for hitting.

    If a man is pathetic enough to put his hands on a woman he doesn't deserve to be with a woman.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I've been hating a guy ceaselessly

    since six years ago!!! He crushed my feelings so roughly,I couldn't forget about what he caused for me,he made me to spend rest of my life in fear and hate!When I remember him,all that old freaking bad memories suddenly fill my whole mind and soul and I totally go crazy and get...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 27

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    My Dad

    Tonight is the night I've been waiting for,It's finally hear. My mom drops me off at the church for the Girl Scout lock in. I kiss her and my little brother goodbye, I'm so excited I'm going to earn my Camping Badge tonight,plus it's the first time I have ever spent the night...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 28 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    If your a guy and u hit women your messed up in

    the head women are all beauty and NoNe ugly :)
    shaun7654 shaun7654 13-15, M 7 Responses Feb 6

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    i just witnessed my aunty being hit by her

    husband. i dont know whats the reason between them,but really...guys shouldnt hit woman. i'd like to stop her husband badly..but what can i do...her husband just too scary even just by looking at him. so i told the security near the complex and he ran to the house only had him...
    alfhyraawal alfhyraawal 16-17, F 8 Responses Apr 17

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    I've been hit by a guy; gave me a black eye.

    .. They aren't real men, they're *****'s.
    NicoleAnn96 NicoleAnn96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 6, 2014

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    Men who hit women aren't men at all.

    They're sadistic, pathetic cowards.
    Azzyyy Azzyyy 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 23, 2014

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    Abuse In A Relationship!!! WHY????

    Define the word Abusive: 1. Extremely offensive and insulting. 2. Engaging in or characterized by habitual violence and cruelty. There are 4 types of abuse in a relationship... 1. Physical Abuse 2. Sexual Abuse 3. Emotional Abuse 4. Mental Abuse Almost everyone known in the...
    johnt0420 johnt0420 22-25, M 13 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    My best friend (who is

    now in foster care) her dad use to hit her mom and now he is in jail for 5 years (he has been in jail many other times)
    melissa10108 melissa10108 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 17

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    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jan 28

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    I JUST HATE GUY WHO HIT WOMEN'S AND GIRLS I

    JUST GET MAD.AND JUST CUSS THEM OUT I GUY ARE ******* P.S. WOMENS AND GIRLS WATCH OUT WHAT EVERY GUY 9R BOY UR MEETING
    DANGELOMOSS DANGELOMOSS 13-15, M 2 Responses May 24

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    I Don't Understand.

    So, we all know what a feminist is don't we? of course we do it's everyday vocabulary and knowledge, i'm going to say before I even get started that I do not oppose or agree to this, "I hate guys who hit women" opinion/statement, but I am going to try to clearly state my opinion...
    xNanashix xNanashix 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    I just want to hit guys

    who hit women and say, how does that feel?
    SweetHeartxxo SweetHeartxxo 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 7

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    But if you'd hit me, I won't allow myself to

    only stand there. I'm going to probably kick you in the balls just then.
    flyoffsomewhere flyoffsomewhere 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    uulalaa uulalaa 41-45, F 37 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    I went on a date once with a girl,

    and at the theatre I noticed she had a black eye, (I didn't notice earlier because she was wearing shades and it was dark outside) I reached out to touch her cheek and she flinched and shied away. A passing old lady called me a sick bastard and kept walking. Apparently her ex...
    CrimsonDrake CrimsonDrake 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    i hate those guys who

    even think about it,women are very much equal to men in every way
    boobilicious4you boobilicious4you 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 28

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    and I hate women who hit men.

    Just don't be violent to people, how about that.
    teenageapple teenageapple 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My friend who lives in my group home has a

    boyfriend that she's been off and on dating for almost a year. She's only 14 and he's 16, meaning he should be more mature, but almost every day she comes home crying and sobbing that he doesn't care about her, and she's told me that he has hit her but she still loves him. I so...
    medicinedreams medicinedreams 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 29

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    I'm a guy & I've NEVER hit a girl.

    & I never will. The man who hits a girl is a coward & should be shot. I don't care if he's had a rough upbringing. That's no excuse to hit one. The plus side is that I don't do drugs, smoke, or drink. So the girl wouldn't have to worry about me coming home drunk or wasted out of...
    sxelatino sxelatino 22-25, M 12 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    I was in this situation 4 years ago,

    my ex fiance even humiliated me in public. He would scream at me and hit me, even shove me to the edge of the sidewalk, throw my things to the ground and walk out on me. Thinking back now, It was a really hard time because I felt that I can love him into changing, or that the...
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 9

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    Possibly Irreversible Damage

    I DESPISE men who abuse women, as well as women who abuse men.  There is no valid reason or excuse for purposely breaking another human being down to the point of irrevocable physical damage that will last a lifetime, or causing them emotional, mental, and spiritual chaos that...
    januarygirl januarygirl 26-30, F 47 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    My father used to hit my mother,

    they're not together any more but I will NEVER forgive him!
    roxymorgan17 roxymorgan17 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 2

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    Guys who hit women are cowards.

    As guys, we're meant to love and protect women, not beat on them!
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 19 Responses Mar 31

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    My dad hates Chris Brown cause he beat up

    Rihanna and other women beaters but yet he smacks and verbally abuses me all the time....
    PersistentRage PersistentRage 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    That's a sing of weakness in my opinion.

    Why don't you bastards hit someone your own size, or are you afraid of your mini skirt tearing up? It's sick
    EvilMiracle EvilMiracle 16-17 8 Responses May 25, 2014

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    After the Ray Rice thing,

    all of these people on the news have been trying to justify it... No. Sorry, there are no excuses to ever put your hands on a woman (or anyone) in a way that she isn't consenting to.