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I Hate Guys Who Hit Women

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    I Don't Understand.

    So, we all know what a feminist is don't we? of course we do it's everyday vocabulary and knowledge, i'm going to say before I even get started that I do not oppose or agree to this, "I hate guys who hit women" opinion/statement, but I am going to try to clearly state my opinion...
    xNanashix xNanashix 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    I'm a guy & I've NEVER hit a girl.

    & I never will. The man who hits a girl is a coward & should be shot. I don't care if he's had a rough upbringing. That's no excuse to hit one. The plus side is that I don't do drugs, smoke, or drink. So the girl wouldn't have to worry about me coming home drunk or wasted out of...
    latinounico latinounico 22-25, M 14 Responses Jul 19

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    If you are a guy who hits girls i will shire

    as hell ******* rearrange you're face
    bballer12r bballer12r 18-21, M 6 Responses Sep 29

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    like seriously it doesn't make you any more of

    a man to hit a lady that is a #1 rule for me i don't f****** care what the girl did i don't care if she hits you it doesn't give you any right to hit her its wrong and you should be put in jail or be put to death and if your just playing around a smack on the a** is not bad...
    warriorwolf1818 warriorwolf1818 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    There is a HUGE emotional boundary between

    enjoying masochism within safe sex and abusing someone.
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Cowards

    Any man who hurts a woman is a coward. I can't count the amount of guys I put on the floor for abusing their girls. What's sad is that it always happens in public, especially bars. I don't know what is wrong with our world that this has become acceptable. I make it a point to...
    venom777 venom777 41-45, M 13 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    But if you'd hit me, I won't allow myself to

    only stand there. I'm going to probably kick you in the balls just then.
    flyoffsomewhere flyoffsomewhere 13-15, F 9 Responses Jul 19

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    My Dad

    Tonight is the night I've been waiting for,It's finally hear. My mom drops me off at the church for the Girl Scout lock in. I kiss her and my little brother goodbye, I'm so excited I'm going to earn my Camping Badge tonight,plus it's the first time I have ever spent the night...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 28 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    And women who hit guys.

    Domestic abuse..seriously..it's disgusting. That goes without saying. Why do people feel the need to beat the sh*t out of their 'partner' when they supposedly love them?! It's a disgrace, and a horrific thing to have to go through..
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 27

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    I really DO!!! Those guys out there

    who bully and beat women should deserve to be bullied too!! Its just so not fair!!!!
    CNNMelissa CNNMelissa 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    Its crazy that that some guys get away with it.

    .. Ray Rice was going to get away with it until the video went public. Shame on the NFL. Also very unsettled by the fact that his fiance apologized..?? Being in an abusive relationship clearly messes with your mind and emotions.
    ideluca ideluca 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 18

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    I also hate women who physically

    or psychologically abuse guys (works both ways). Sadly the stereotype of the woman being more innocent and feeble leads the alternative reality to go largely unnoticed :(
    twiggy93 twiggy93 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    Abuse In A Relationship!!! WHY????

    Define the word Abusive: 1. Extremely offensive and insulting. 2. Engaging in or characterized by habitual violence and cruelty. There are 4 types of abuse in a relationship... 1. Physical Abuse 2. Sexual Abuse 3. Emotional Abuse 4. Mental Abuse Almost everyone known in the...
    johnt0420 johnt0420 22-25, M 13 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    chris2577 chris2577 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I agree that men shouldn't hit women,

    but I think we focus too much on the gender aspect. No one should hit anyone. As far as I'm concerned, if a man hits a woman, she has every right to hit back and vice versa. What Ray rice and Chris brown did was wrong, but I feel like if a big female star abused her boyfriend it...
    Oscar89 Oscar89 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    I generally hate all kinds of domestic violence.

    I have hit a girl twice in my life and i am not proud of it(guess i hate myself too then). Both times were when i was about 11-14 years old. The reason i hit first time was really childish and the second time i just lost my temper. But i hope they can forgive me for it. I'd...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 10

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    What about the women

    who hit men? Do you hate them too?
    Blizzardpaw Blizzardpaw 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 27

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    There is no reason for a guy to ever hit a

    woman. Well Unless the woman is a body builder and challenges the guy. But unless she want it you shouldn't hit her. Even then you should be very hesitant. Hitting a girl or woman isn't very nice
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 28

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    I've been hit by a guy; gave me a black eye.

    .. They aren't real men, they're *****'s.
    NicoleAnn96 NicoleAnn96 18-21, F 14 Responses May 6

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    I remember the first time it happened.

    I was innocently tugging on his shirt when he was mad trying to make him cheer up. Something just triggered. He threw me across the room like I was a rag doll. I'll never EVER forget the hate I saw on his face and the fear I felt.
    LaykeyyD LaykeyyD 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 13

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    Possibly Irreversible Damage

    I DESPISE men who abuse women, as well as women who abuse men.  There is no valid reason or excuse for purposely breaking another human being down to the point of irrevocable physical damage that will last a lifetime, or causing them emotional, mental, and spiritual chaos that...
    januarygirl januarygirl 26-30, F 47 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    I'm a guy myself and I hate guys

    who hit women. Guys are meant to take car of women. Like women give birth to guys, without women guys wouldn't have kids and all. Women must be respected. Just because guys have more strength than most women do, that doesn't mean that guys could hit women whenever they like.
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    Men who hit women normally are insecure

    and sometimes jealous of what he knows she can accomplish. My uncle hits his girlfriends after having children with them. My mother has been hit by my father but it was only once, and I have been as well by my ex boyfriend in fact it went further then hitting. He shot me in the...
    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 11

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    You can be strong and true to yourself without

    being rude or loud. The words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Remember that.......................x
    TheStoryman TheStoryman 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    sometimes, after he and his friends watch a

    football match and comes home at like 2am, he's drunk = he gets angry way easier. so if I do something slightly wrong or if I don't do something that he tells me to do or that I forget, he hits me... a lot. I get big hand-shaped bruised that last almost 6 days and my 2 friends...
    jayissosadlike jayissosadlike 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 14

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    Your A Worthless Piece Of Crap

    I can't stand to see a battered woman or child. I don't care what your problem is, if i see you physically,sexually, mentally or verbally hurt a woman or child, we are going to go a few rounds. It's unacceptable.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I was hit by a guy before.

    it was during school and on the buss. I remember me and my friend Michael were talking about this kid Anthony. we kind of making fun of him. he heard us and slapped me across the face.he did the Same to Michael. then again he has anger issues. but I still think it is wrong to...
    catherine1028 catherine1028 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 2

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    I don't. There's two sides to every story.

    I'm not saying that they're right. I'm saying that the guy hitting a women is a victim of his problems too.
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 19 Responses Sep 2

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    The love of woman is not her looks it's how she

    uses her heart that's the Beauty of ladies.. Don't hit her if you don't understand hit yourself because we men don't understand what love is .. Ladies I love you but sometimes you make me to die for your love ...
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    Unless she hits first,

    it's never acceptable to hit a woman
    Oscar89 Oscar89 16-17, M 4 Responses Oct 27

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    I believe Women are very sensitive

    and beautiful as a flower. But i feel sad when they are mistreated by some men. I believe women should be treated well and respected for the sacrifices they make and love they show towards their family. Most importantly women should be loved. I witnessed and heard many real...
    vinny87 vinny87 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I used to be physically abused by my ex bfs

    hence why I don't want to **** my bf off
    20andinkedxxx 20andinkedxxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    uulalaa uulalaa 41-45, F 40 Responses Aug 8

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    Hands are not for hitting.

    If a man is pathetic enough to put his hands on a woman he doesn't deserve to be with a woman.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    As a 14 Year Old Teenager, I Hit a Girl :(

    True confession that I am not proud of, but I can only chalk up to experience.  I was 14 years old and there was a neighbor girl, also 14,  who was screaming at me, making a scene in front of my friends.  I forget what started it, but she was letting loose pretty...
    InTheNameOfLove InTheNameOfLove 36-40, M 72 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    Men who hit women aren't men at all.

    They're sadistic, pathetic cowards.
    Azzyyy Azzyyy 16-17, F 10 Responses Apr 23

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    I hate the French white bigoted male

    who persecuted me at hotel du vin Brighton and I hope he rots in his grave and hell Why did he want to run me over by a car I hate him as much as he hated me And I hope if he did that to another dark skinned woman people teach him the lesson that he is not superior to anybody...
    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 12

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    Because I know that if it happened to me,

    a court case for the mutilation of a human being will be opened :)
    Xcinderella Xcinderella 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2

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    ArcticPotato ArcticPotato 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    It was bad enough that she left me.

    It was bad enough that I cried because of her. It was bad enough her being married to someone else. It was bad enough her having a child 5 years later. It was bad enough me getting over her. Only for her to get back in touch with me. To tell me how she is suffering at the...
    specialedition1 specialedition1 31-35, M 5 Responses Oct 21

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    Guys should respect women.

    Women are the ones in college more, work the hardest, and ***** less than guys. So any guys who hit women need to get their thing cut off
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 20

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    The first time I was old enough

    and I saw a guy hitting a woman I lost my cool. I ended up pulling him off of her and I started to hit him back. For me it is one of those things that I detest. I was abused as a child and I can understand what it is like to be on the recieving end of someone being hurtful. Even...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 8 Responses Feb 7

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    That's a sing of weakness in my opinion.

    Why don't you bastards hit someone your own size, or are you afraid of your mini skirt tearing up? It's sick
    EvilMiracle EvilMiracle 16-17 9 Responses May 25

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    Hate is a strong word,

    I agree that hitting a woman is wrong, but I don't hate anyone
    FreddieFootball FreddieFootball 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 2

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    I went on a date once with a girl,

    and at the theatre I noticed she had a black eye, (I didn't notice earlier because she was wearing shades and it was dark outside) I reached out to touch her cheek and she flinched and shied away. A passing old lady called me a sick bastard and kept walking. Apparently her ex...
    CrimsonDrake CrimsonDrake 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Violence

    I was in a rship for 5 years was great at first. He just changed when I became pregnant head butted me when I was 7 months pregnant I was in shock. Then after that it was regular thing. Name calling started him having go at me all the time. I had no life at all we never ever...
    blondebunny77 blondebunny77 36-40, F 18 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I beat guys who hit women,

    I've done time! (Folsom St. Prison) I got UR backs, girls..💪
    pyeito pyeito 31-35, M 4 Responses Jan 7

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    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 7 Responses Sep 20

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    You don't know what I've been through He yells

    and he says You don't know what I've done for you And hits her again - He Is We
    Chrissaysyourock Chrissaysyourock 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 14

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    My best friend, Alex,

    suspects that his female cousins boyfriend abuses her. I was once in an abusive relationship myself, so I can tell the signs of someone being in one. I were walking round with Alex and his cousin (let's call her Sharon and her boyfriend Mitch, even though that's not their...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Aug 27

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    Few years ago I went 2 a house party.

    Everyone was on about this lad hitting his lass in front of 10 people not 1 person doing anything about it. Later that night he hit her and u heard it above the music. Every1 just watch him do it again. I didn't just there I went over hit this lad, then he kicked me all over...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 17

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    Ladies... !!! As I have experienced by viewing

    people beating there wife's ! I don't think this is correct . I'm men myself as I speak for myself when I see someone hits woman's I get soo mad I react and beat the guy . Well ladies sorry what you've experienced and if you had me I would adore you all the time !!