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I Hate Guys Who Hit Women

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    Hands are not for hitting.

    If a man is pathetic enough to put his hands on a woman he doesn't deserve to be with a woman.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    My Dad

    Tonight is the night I've been waiting for,It's finally hear. My mom drops me off at the church for the Girl Scout lock in. I kiss her and my little brother goodbye, I'm so excited I'm going to earn my Camping Badge tonight,plus it's the first time I have ever spent the night...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 28 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    I used to be physically abused by my ex bfs

    hence why I don't want to **** my bf off
    20andinkedxxx 20andinkedxxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    My Fi

    I never speak to anyone about this and I am going to let it out here. My first boyfriend and I met in highschool. I was in swimming and my friend introduced me to this new girl from Mexico. Her name is Ana. We all hung out and I found out she lived just down the street from me...
    looklife looklife 18-21, F 22 Responses May 22, 2012

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    It just proves their insecurity

    and the fact that they have destroyed their manhood.
    usernameunavailabletrylater usernameunavailabletrylater 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 4

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    Men who hit women aren't men at all.

    They're sadistic, pathetic cowards.
    Azzyyy Azzyyy 16-17, F 10 Responses Apr 23

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    Ladies... !!! As I have experienced by viewing

    people beating there wife's ! I don't think this is correct . I'm men myself as I speak for myself when I see someone hits woman's I get soo mad I react and beat the guy . Well ladies sorry what you've experienced and if you had me I would adore you all the time !!
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    There is a HUGE emotional boundary between

    enjoying masochism within safe sex and abusing someone.
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    You don't know what I've been through He yells

    and he says You don't know what I've done for you And hits her again - He Is We
    Chrissaysyourock Chrissaysyourock 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I was younger my mom dated several people

    who hit her, even though I act like it hasn't affected me it does. I keep having flashbacks and nightmares. If your reading this and know someone who is going through being hit tell someone even if you promised not to, especially if she is a mother.
    mjp3898 mjp3898 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 16

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    Cowards

    Any man who hurts a woman is a coward. I can't count the amount of guys I put on the floor for abusing their girls. What's sad is that it always happens in public, especially bars. I don't know what is wrong with our world that this has become acceptable. I make it a point to...
    venom777 venom777 41-45, M 14 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Violence

    I was in a rship for 5 years was great at first. He just changed when I became pregnant head butted me when I was 7 months pregnant I was in shock. Then after that it was regular thing. Name calling started him having go at me all the time. I had no life at all we never ever...
    blondebunny77 blondebunny77 36-40, F 20 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    What about the women

    who hit men? Do you hate them too?
    Blizzardpaw Blizzardpaw 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 27

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    I don't. There's two sides to every story.

    I'm not saying that they're right. I'm saying that the guy hitting a women is a victim of his problems too.
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 17 Responses Sep 2

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    That's a sing of weakness in my opinion.

    Why don't you bastards hit someone your own size, or are you afraid of your mini skirt tearing up? It's sick
    EvilMiracle EvilMiracle 16-17 9 Responses May 25

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    I remember the first time it happened.

    I was innocently tugging on his shirt when he was mad trying to make him cheer up. Something just triggered. He threw me across the room like I was a rag doll. I'll never EVER forget the hate I saw on his face and the fear I felt.
    LaykeyyD LaykeyyD 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 13

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    slymac slymac 36-40, M Aug 11

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    Possibly Irreversible Damage

    I DESPISE men who abuse women, as well as women who abuse men.  There is no valid reason or excuse for purposely breaking another human being down to the point of irrevocable physical damage that will last a lifetime, or causing them emotional, mental, and spiritual chaos that...
    januarygirl januarygirl 26-30, F 47 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    I was hit by a guy before.

    it was during school and on the buss. I remember me and my friend Michael were talking about this kid Anthony. we kind of making fun of him. he heard us and slapped me across the face.he did the Same to Michael. then again he has anger issues. but I still think it is wrong to...
    catherine1028 catherine1028 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    You think you're a bad boy

    but real men hurt guys who hurt woman . It's all image because you're insecure
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    As a 14 Year Old Teenager, I Hit a Girl :(

    True confession that I am not proud of, but I can only chalk up to experience.  I was 14 years old and there was a neighbor girl, also 14,  who was screaming at me, making a scene in front of my friends.  I forget what started it, but she was letting loose pretty...
    InTheNameOfLove InTheNameOfLove 36-40, M 72 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    I Don't Understand.

    So, we all know what a feminist is don't we? of course we do it's everyday vocabulary and knowledge, i'm going to say before I even get started that I do not oppose or agree to this, "I hate guys who hit women" opinion/statement, but I am going to try to clearly state my opinion...
    xNanashix xNanashix 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    I'm a guy & I've NEVER hit a girl.

    & I never will. The man who hits a girl is a coward & should be shot. I don't care if he's had a rough upbringing. That's no excuse to hit one. The plus side is that I don't do drugs, smoke, or drink. So the girl wouldn't have to worry about me coming home drunk or wasted out of...
    latinounico latinounico 22-25, M 13 Responses Jul 19

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    And women who hit guys.

    Domestic abuse..seriously..it's disgusting. That goes without saying. Why do people feel the need to beat the sh*t out of their 'partner' when they supposedly love them?! It's a disgrace, and a horrific thing to have to go through..
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    I also hate women who physically

    or psychologically abuse guys (works both ways). Sadly the stereotype of the woman being more innocent and feeble leads the alternative reality to go largely unnoticed :(
    twiggy93 twiggy93 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    Few years ago I went 2 a house party.

    Everyone was on about this lad hitting his lass in front of 10 people not 1 person doing anything about it. Later that night he hit her and u heard it above the music. Every1 just watch him do it again. I didn't just there I went over hit this lad, then he kicked me all over...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M 6 Responses Mar 17

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    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    chris2577 chris2577 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    Nobody should hit anybody!

    I hate it when women hit men. They usually hit back and there comes the fight. Don't hit anyone, especially, if it's someone weaker than you.
    ReadyToDieMothafucka ReadyToDieMothafucka 70+, T 1 Response Aug 8

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    I shake all over..like shake,

    with so much anger...i watched a friend of mine get ***** slapped cause of a chocolate and i was in shock and anger and well...i hoped there was a hammer, like Thor Hammer to flatten his head like pancake.
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Hitting is not love. If a man hits a woman once,

    he doesn't deserve a second chance. His "I'm sorry" and cry baby tears, are bull ****. Don't fall for it ladies. A man leaving scars and marks on your body, is not true love. A man that hits a woman is not a real man. He's a child. And a coward.
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 11

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    But if you'd hit me, I won't allow myself to

    only stand there. I'm going to probably kick you in the balls just then.
    flyoffsomewhere flyoffsomewhere 13-15, F 9 Responses Jul 19

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    I had to watch it happen first hand today to my

    friend, pathetic coward. And all i could do is watch, why cant this just stop, this isn't right
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 8

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    The first time I was old enough

    and I saw a guy hitting a woman I lost my cool. I ended up pulling him off of her and I started to hit him back. For me it is one of those things that I detest. I was abused as a child and I can understand what it is like to be on the recieving end of someone being hurtful. Even...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 8 Responses Feb 7

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    Men who hit women normally are insecure

    and sometimes jealous of what he knows she can accomplish. My uncle hits his girlfriends after having children with them. My mother has been hit by my father but it was only once, and I have been as well by my ex boyfriend in fact it went further then hitting. He shot me in the...
    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    My best friend, Alex,

    suspects that his female cousins boyfriend abuses her. I was once in an abusive relationship myself, so I can tell the signs of someone being in one. I were walking round with Alex and his cousin (let's call her Sharon and her boyfriend Mitch, even though that's not their...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Aug 27

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    I really DO!!! Those guys out there

    who bully and beat women should deserve to be bullied too!! Its just so not fair!!!!
    CNNMelissa CNNMelissa 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    sometimes, after he and his friends watch a

    football match and comes home at like 2am, he's drunk = he gets angry way easier. so if I do something slightly wrong or if I don't do something that he tells me to do or that I forget, he hits me... a lot. I get big hand-shaped bruised that last almost 6 days and my 2 friends...
    jayissosadlike jayissosadlike 13-15, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    I generally hate all kinds of domestic violence.

    I have hit a girl twice in my life and i am not proud of it(guess i hate myself too then). Both times were when i was about 11-14 years old. The reason i hit first time was really childish and the second time i just lost my temper. But i hope they can forgive me for it. I'd...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I believe Women are very sensitive

    and beautiful as a flower. But i feel sad when they are mistreated by some men. I believe women should be treated well and respected for the sacrifices they make and love they show towards their family. Most importantly women should be loved. I witnessed and heard many real...
    vinny87 vinny87 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Abuse In A Relationship!!! WHY????

    Define the word Abusive: 1. Extremely offensive and insulting. 2. Engaging in or characterized by habitual violence and cruelty. There are 4 types of abuse in a relationship... 1. Physical Abuse 2. Sexual Abuse 3. Emotional Abuse 4. Mental Abuse Almost everyone known in the...
    johnt0420 johnt0420 22-25, M 13 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    You can be strong and true to yourself without

    being rude or loud. The words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Remember that.......................x
    TheStoryman TheStoryman 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    When you get older you no longer want the bad

    boy because if you have kids with them they will be out cheating and drinking and doing drugs. .
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    uulalaa uulalaa 41-45, F 42 Responses Aug 8

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    There is NO such thing

    as a man who hits women because a real man would never hit a woman... If you see or know a man who hits women, you are not looking at a man. You are looking at a foul, timid, worm of a creature disguising them-self as a man. Reveal it for the pathetic monster it truly is and...
    MikjallFimbultyr MikjallFimbultyr 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    He's been messaging me lately telling me he

    loves me and that I'm his soulmate. What don't you understand? You beat that love out of me years ago. The hearing loss in my ear is an everyday reminder of your love.
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 20 Responses Aug 27

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    I went on a date once with a girl,

    and at the theatre I noticed she had a black eye, (I didn't notice earlier because she was wearing shades and it was dark outside) I reached out to touch her cheek and she flinched and shied away. A passing old lady called me a sick bastard and kept walking. Apparently her ex...
    CrimsonDrake CrimsonDrake 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Your A Worthless Piece Of Crap

    I can't stand to see a battered woman or child. I don't care what your problem is, if i see you physically,sexually, mentally or verbally hurt a woman or child, we are going to go a few rounds. It's unacceptable.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    kazamiza kazamiza 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    I beat guys who hit women,

    I've done time! (Folsom St. Prison) I got UR backs, girls..💪
    pyeito pyeito 31-35, M 4 Responses Jan 7

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    lostinmyfight lostinmyfight 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    If a boyfriend ever laid his hands on me he

    would be one sorry ******....
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    I've been hit by a guy; gave me a black eye.

    .. They aren't real men, they're *****'s.
    NicoleAnn96 NicoleAnn96 18-21, F 14 Responses May 6

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    Because I know that if it happened to me,

    a court case for the mutilation of a human being will be opened :)
    Xcinderella Xcinderella 16-17, F 4 Responses