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I Hate High Maintenance Girls

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    High Maintenance Or Attention Seekers

    I taught a beginners weight training class at the University of Texas at Austin. Naturally there are alot of guys in there that just need a time to workout and there are lot of girls in there who have never worked out (with weights) but would like to learn. So anyways I see...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 7, 2008

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    A Girl's Experience With High Maintenance Girls

      I grew up in the Midwest in farm country with a younger brother that I beat up on a regular basis. While it meant I was a meaner-than-average little girl, I was also thoroughly entertained--we had plenty of trees to climb, puddles to attack, and small fires to start...
    emilyreallyexists emilyreallyexists 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2008

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    Nothing worse than NEVER seeing what your girl

    looks like without make up on. A woman who sleeps with make up on is living a lie. Shameful.
    mythirdeye72 mythirdeye72 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Highly Demanding, Highly Annoying

    Girls who "need" money, cars, jewellery and their every petty need met annoy the crap out of me. Love is not proven by the giving of gifts or excessive attention. What hurts even more is seeing these girls and women use and abuse well meaning men. They get to me with...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 26, 2008

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    High Maintenance Girls Stink!!!

    This list is pretty much what I go through everyday of my life at PHS (Princeton High School) with the preppy-annoying-as-hell girls.  These are my opinions and thoughs so, don't get all pissed if any of these things describes you..just ignore it! 1. I hate how if you...
    punkishgreeny punkishgreeny 18-21, F Sep 16, 2008

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    I Should Be Clear Here.

    Fine, require some maintenance, we all need it honestly. But take 2 hours getting ready? Thats 2 hours I could have been doing something else. Be constantly late? Grrr. Be obsessed with my fashion? Well ok, you can be, just make sure its ok with me first. Compromise here people...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 30, 2006

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    Its Somethin Deeper..

      i think it's something deeper..i mean, always checkin your make up, lip gloss every hair in place. nobody is perfect, if you KNOW you're not ugly, then why must you go the extra mile? as long as you're dressed in a appropriate manner, then you're okay.   it's...
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Apr 17, 2009

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    Material Girl

    For me "High Maintenance" means "Material Girl". If all she wants are things... then let her got get them. If she's in it for me, then the spoiling will come, but I won't pay to keep you around.
    StressRelief4Me StressRelief4Me 26-30, M Jul 8, 2010

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    Not That I Hate Them But Some Think Their Sh#t Smells Sweet

    Often I'm surrounded by high maintenance girls, not that I HATE them but you feel like taking a rough sponge to their face and scrubbing off the mask of make-up. I mean theres nothing wrong with make-up to an extent but when it's a fake beauty mask then that's a bit far. The...
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    I Hate High Maintenance Girls.

    Its annoying when a girl spends hours on top of hours in the bathroom getting ready jus to go to the store. I know a lot of girls that are like that and i just feel like its wasted effort.Plus God  only knows all the damage they cause with all the different products...
    applescruffs applescruffs 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    Why I Hate High Maintenance Girls/women

    why I hate high maintenance Girls/women because they ask too much!!!
    theghostofsabotage theghostofsabotage 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2012

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    Hmm

     when i say high maintainance i mean vain and demanding too much of their partner
    ForeverAutumn ForeverAutumn 18-21, F Jul 15, 2008

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    A Woman's Perspective

    Society's really screwed up a lot of little girls. We're either really nice and obsessed with being approved of or we are total b****s.  As a teacher, I get really scared when I see the girls in their pre-teens idolizing women like Paris Hilton or Britney Spears...
    keepingwarm keepingwarm 31-35 3 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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    Finally, Some Site Where I Could Blow My Head Off About the Issue!

    You know, I've been looking for that "perfect girl" since High School. But the ending was always the same. The girl was never mine. Why? It's either because she didn't like me in return or because there's something I didn't like about the girl. But that was quite...
    theupgrader theupgrader 18-21, M 10 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    Not Me

    Being a girlie myself I have to say I feel sorry for you guys you have clearly had some crap girlfriends! I sympathise as I have had friends like this in the past, though not anymore.  I wouldnt ever do these things to my boyfriend as I respect him and getting dressed up for...
    pixiedust pixiedust 21-25, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2007

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    And That's Attractive?!???

    being more than a little 'bent' myself, i must say i im stupified by the overwhelming success of women like that...but it seems a lot of men (and ive even met other women) who are attracted to that behavior.  theres nothing wrong with wearing makeup and going shopping...but...
    SurferSpaz SurferSpaz 18-21, F Dec 23, 2008

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    I hate it when skinny girls call themselves fat,

    and go into this whole big rant about how they need to lose weight cause they think that they're fat and unattractive, meanwhile they're like 2 pounds, makes me want to actually punch them in the face and tell them to shut the **** up :p Also, complaining to a guy that you...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    Forgetting Money At Home...

    I used to have a classmate at the Uni who was a hottie and I had a huge crush on her. Once we go out on a first date but it was so bad that I ...to this day I hate high maintenance girls.Just to be quick  ...I forgot my money at home when i went with a date with a girl from my...
    spotj spotj 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    A Nation Full Of Women Who Give To Their Man

    There is a place on Earth where women are trained from birth to be attentive and giving to their man. They will cook for you, clean your house (which they sometimes provide for you) give you great foot and full body massages, attend to your personal care, wash your clothes, and...
    M65InThailand M65InThailand 61-65, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2012

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    I honestly believe these are all exaggerated

    situations. I am considered high maintenance. I don't expect my wants to come from anyone but myself. Just because you don't wear as much makeup as me or care as much as I about the way you dress does not mean you have more "confidence" than me. As far as any man's opinion I...
    anjay813 anjay813 26-30, F Apr 8

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    Top Ten Signs You're Dating a High Maintenance Girl

    Gentleman, too many of us fall prey to the High Maintenance Girl. And too many of us don't see the warning signs until it is, alas, too late and we have been reduced to snivelling, weak, insecure shells of our true, pre-High Maintenance Girl days. To that end, I present to you my...
    theTruth theTruth 31-35, M 230 Responses Oct 2, 2006

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    What You Made Them

    We are what you make us - I am not particularly high maintenance, but I have my moments like every other woman. I do wear my make-up and like my clothes to be fashionable- as I have been so used to both my male and female friends tearing apart women walking by in the street...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Hate Is a Strong Word... I Pity Them

     I'm a woman. It saddens me how high maintenance women behave.   I don't Hate them - I am in the category "this group does not apply to me"   I pity them, because I wish they could get over themselves and be lovely role models, as many women are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    Colo Barbie Dolls

    Mattel recently announced the release of limited-edition Barbie Dolls for the Denver market:   "Cherry Creek Barbie" This princess Barbie is sold only at Cherry Creek Mall. She comes with an assortment of Kate Spade Handbags, a Lexus...
    knottypine knottypine 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2007

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    Not This Gal!

    I can be showered and ready to go out the door in thirty minutes flat, fifteen if I'm a-hustlin' (i.e. super late to work).  I can get dolled up to, but at max, with a shower and shaving, we're talking an hour.  I like being a glam goddess sometimes, but not for...
    atali atali 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2008

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    In Defence

    i'm actually really annoyed by the sterotypical views placed on females that dress to impress :p i am FAR from high maintenance, in the sense that i love any kind of full contact sport, enjoy camping, i like big fluffy- gets -hair-all over you- dogs, I enjoy family functions and...
    rylnn rylnn 18-21, F 1 Response May 5, 2009

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    Unnecessary

    I buy all my clothes (the few I do wear) from Wal-Mart and they last me for years. I don't see how those girls can spends thousands on something while they will deem out of style in a few months.
    hadakarei hadakarei 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    Ha Ha, Yes, I Hate High Mainte...

    Ha ha, yes, I hate high maintenance anyone. Life is too short to worry about the little things.
    wanderkid wanderkid 19-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2007

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    Please, The World Does Not Revolve Around You.

    I dated ONE high maintenance girl. We actually went out twice. She had the notion that the world revolves around her. Everything was "me me me!" Sorry, that isn't for CWS. She was left fuming after I filled up her fancy SUV with gas. The problem wasn't the grade of gas, but...
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M 5 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    My Ex-wife Was High Maintenance

    I guess it's not so much that I "hate" high maintenance girls, as much as I hate girls that think the world revolves around them. Uh, HELLO, it revolves around me! I really like a feminine woman: a woman who cares about her appearance, wears liberal amounts of...
    liferiot liferiot 26-30, M 2 Responses May 14, 2007

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    The Bother Me.

    Bother me a lot. With the absolute cleanliness, the constant fixing of apperance, and their personality is annoying also. Just let go and relax one day!
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2009

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    Not Your Average Lady

    i used to be semi high maintenance back when i was younger ... before kids  but it never took me over 45 minutes to get ready .. and as for having men buy me things " no thanks " ill do it myself Do not wanna feel like i owe you anything ..i love the music about...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2007

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    Because They're Always In the Shop

    Top 10 Signs You're Dating A High Maintenance Girl 10.You have Tiffany & Co. on speed dial. 9. You have "If Lost Return To [Her Name]" tattooed on your neck. 8. You remember who was President the last time you were right. 7. Your friends have put your face on...
    ElLagarto ElLagarto 56-60, M 16 Responses Jul 8, 2007

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    Hmmmm

    what does high maintanence even mean?? i would think that it would be circumstancial. and other than that person being vain, i can't see how it would bother other people...
    rylnn rylnn 18-21, F 1 Response May 1, 2009

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    I'm Too High-maintenance For Myself!

    Honestly, the only reason a high-maintenance girl is a pain is because she's not doing the maintaining herself.  The way I figure it, you're allowed to require anything you like as long as you're willing to put in.  Once you start requiring other people to do it for you...
    hAnih hAnih 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2007

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    Junetangcc17 Junetangcc17 22-25, F Mar 20

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    I don't understand why some girls change their

    hair color every time the season changes, honestly your just killing your hair. It's like when people feel the need to be really tan all year round, so they spend half their time in tanning booths, it's not good for you lol. people should love their natural selves. :p healthier...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 6 Responses May 25

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    Okay, I Don't "Hate" You But...

    It can be pretty annoying at times. To each their own, but when that crap overflows into your job and it affects everyone at work, that's when people hate it the most, me thinks anyway. ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 20, 2010

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    'Hate' isn't correct, but...

    I can't say I Hate anyone.  Some people I just don't relate to at all. Those who are high-maintenance tend to be exhausting to me.  I carry a very relaxed attitude and am flexible to a high degree. In my friendships/relationships I don't always end up with someone exactly like...
    gotsalsa gotsalsa 41-45, M Mar 20, 2012

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    Cheap and Quick Last Minute Gifts For Your Girlfriend or Wife That Will Keep You Off the Coach

    Listen, I know you're desperate. Time is running out and you haven't a clue nor an infinite budget. Don't even think about making origami flowers or roadside produce. Whether you need a present for your lady friend on Valentine's Day or Christmas, I've got a plan that fits YOUR...
    theTruth theTruth 31-35, M 27 Responses Feb 14, 2007

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    I'm A High Maintenance Girl And I Think Half Of These Stories Are Wrong

    Okay well I do understand SOME of the stories, however I am high maintenance girl, but I only expect MYSELF to buy all my expensive clothes, cars, houses, etc etc. I even think its ALRIGHT that I might have to pay on the first date, so I am not high maintenance to guys but only...
    beautytakesatoll beautytakesatoll 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Don't Put Up With It!

    I once dated a girl that was so damn demanding. If we wanted to get something to drink on a hot day, it couldn't be a bottle of water, a cup of soda, or something easy to get at any convenience store. I had to be fricken something from Jamba Juice. Whenever we went out, we...
    UpOnDaRoof UpOnDaRoof 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    Too much makeup, proper clothing,

    stop putting icing on every cake you make. Try it plain for once and you'll see the difference.
    MacyManiaz MacyManiaz 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Related Experiences

    Just high cost....! Lol! We all have our issues, but not wearing them as a badge means I am not high maintenance. In fact, I'm quite easygoing really!
    Catram21 Catram21 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I am probably one of the most non high maintenance people you will meet! I'm not super girls although I don't mind dressing up sometimes! I don't take a lot of time to get ready...
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I guess i like to think if of myself as a low maintenance person. Although i kinda do feel high maintenance because I have to get up from bed, shower, brush teeth, get dressed...
    crowe15 crowe15 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Reading through some of these things makes me think we all have different definitions of high maintenance. I like clothes and shoes and make up and I do my own nails/toes (go to...
    notyourgirlfriday notyourgirlfriday 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    You may not be high maintenance on the outside, but if you eat good and I mean no dairy, no meat, no egg, just fruits vegetables water and the seeds from all earthly food, that's...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't use makeup My routine is Shower Get dressed Brush my teeth Brush my hair ( u r lucky if I ever curl or do anything with my hair ) I usually just brush it n leave it...
    Hiddenamoungus Hiddenamoungus 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    WELL I AM ''NO MAINTENANCE. I am basically disposable . Just take me, shape me any way you want me as long as you love me it's alright.
    tastyplanet tastyplanet 51-55, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    taller men but its not okay for a boys to say he only dates thin girls .what happened to equality?
    NathansInTrouble NathansInTrouble 18-21, M Jul 6

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    Best 4 years of your life, huh? Well, that's probably only for the people who are: popular, smart, athletic, involved in school, and loved by everyone. Seriously, high school is...
    Redhy11 Redhy11 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago