I Hate High Maintenance Girls

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 938 People

    Don't Put Up With It!

    I once dated a girl that was so damn demanding. If we wanted to get something to drink on a hot day, it couldn't be a bottle of water, a cup of soda, or something easy to get at any convenience store. I had to be fricken something from Jamba Juice. Whenever we went out, we...
    UpOnDaRoof UpOnDaRoof
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 18, 2012

    Not Me

    Being a girlie myself I have to say I feel sorry for you guys you have clearly had some crap girlfriends! I sympathise as I have had friends like this in the past, though not anymore.  I wouldnt ever do these things to my boyfriend as I respect him and getting dressed up for...
    pixiedust pixiedust
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2007

    A Woman's Perspective

    Society's really screwed up a lot of little girls. We're either really nice and obsessed with being approved of or we are total b****s.  As a teacher, I get really scared when I see the girls in their pre-teens idolizing women like Paris Hilton or Britney Spears...
    keepingwarm keepingwarm
    31-35
    3 Responses Dec 10, 2007

    High Maintenance?

    When I hear the term high maintenance, a girl who wears makeup and styles her hair is not who comes to mind. My friend had a girlfriend who, no matter what he did, nothing was ever good enough. If he bought her flowers, they weren't the kind she liked; if he wanted to hang out...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2008

    Unnecessary

    I buy all my clothes (the few I do wear) from Wal-Mart and they last me for years. I don't see how those girls can spends thousands on something while they will deem out of style in a few months.
    hadakarei hadakarei
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2009

    Its Somethin Deeper..

      i think it's something deeper..i mean, always checkin your make up, lip gloss every hair in place. nobody is perfect, if you KNOW you're not ugly, then why must you go the extra mile? as long as you're dressed in a appropriate manner, then you're okay.   it's...
    lostprophet lostprophet
    22-25, F
    Apr 17, 2009

    I honestly believe these are all exaggerated

    situations. I am considered high maintenance. I don't expect my wants to come from anyone but myself. Just because you don't wear as much makeup as me or care as much as I about the way you dress does not mean you have more "confidence" than me. As far as any man's opinion I...
    anjay813 anjay813
    26-30, F
    Apr 8, 2014

    well I don't hate them literally.

    its just that when you want to go somewhere as a couple. it has to be planned out In advanced. not in a moments notice
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 23, 2015

    Cheap and Quick Last Minute Gifts For Your Girlfriend or Wife That Will Keep You Off the Coach

    Listen, I know you're desperate. Time is running out and you haven't a clue nor an infinite budget. Don't even think about making origami flowers or roadside produce. Whether you need a present for your lady friend on Valentine's Day or Christmas, I've got a plan that fits YOUR...
    theTruth theTruth
    31-35, M
    26 Responses Feb 14, 2007

    I'm A High Maintenance Girl And I Think Half Of These Stories Are Wrong

    Okay well I do understand SOME of the stories, however I am high maintenance girl, but I only expect MYSELF to buy all my expensive clothes, cars, houses, etc etc. I even think its ALRIGHT that I might have to pay on the first date, so I am not high maintenance to guys but only...
    beautytakesatoll beautytakesatoll
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 18, 2011

    Top Ten Signs You're Dating a High Maintenance Girl

    Gentleman, too many of us fall prey to the High Maintenance Girl. And too many of us don't see the warning signs until it is, alas, too late and we have been reduced to snivelling, weak, insecure shells of our true, pre-High Maintenance Girl days. To that end, I present to you my...
    theTruth theTruth
    31-35, M
    230 Responses Oct 2, 2006

    A Girl's Experience With High Maintenance Girls

      I grew up in the Midwest in farm country with a younger brother that I beat up on a regular basis. While it meant I was a meaner-than-average little girl, I was also thoroughly entertained--we had plenty of trees to climb, puddles to attack, and small fires to start...
    emilyreallyexists emilyreallyexists
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2008

    My Ex-wife Was High Maintenance

    I guess it's not so much that I "hate" high maintenance girls, as much as I hate girls that think the world revolves around them. Uh, HELLO, it revolves around me! I really like a feminine woman: a woman who cares about her appearance, wears liberal amounts of...
    liferiot liferiot
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 14, 2007

    Hmm

     when i say high maintainance i mean vain and demanding too much of their partner
    ForeverAutumn ForeverAutumn
    18-21, F
    Jul 15, 2008

    Too much makeup, proper clothing,

    stop putting icing on every cake you make. Try it plain for once and you'll see the difference.
    MacyManiaz MacyManiaz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2014

    I'm Too High-maintenance For Myself!

    Honestly, the only reason a high-maintenance girl is a pain is because she's not doing the maintaining herself.  The way I figure it, you're allowed to require anything you like as long as you're willing to put in.  Once you start requiring other people to do it for you...
    hAnih hAnih
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 10, 2007

    Because They're Always In the Shop

    Top 10 Signs You're Dating A High Maintenance Girl 10.You have Tiffany & Co. on speed dial. 9. You have "If Lost Return To [Her Name]" tattooed on your neck. 8. You remember who was President the last time you were right. 7. Your friends have put your face on...
    ElLagarto ElLagarto
    56-60, M
    16 Responses Jul 8, 2007

    Not Your Average Lady

    i used to be semi high maintenance back when i was younger ... before kids  but it never took me over 45 minutes to get ready .. and as for having men buy me things " no thanks " ill do it myself Do not wanna feel like i owe you anything ..i love the music about...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2007

    Not This Gal!

    I can be showered and ready to go out the door in thirty minutes flat, fifteen if I'm a-hustlin' (i.e. super late to work).  I can get dolled up to, but at max, with a shower and shaving, we're talking an hour.  I like being a glam goddess sometimes, but not for...
    atali atali
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 11, 2008

    And That's Attractive?!???

    being more than a little 'bent' myself, i must say i im stupified by the overwhelming success of women like that...but it seems a lot of men (and ive even met other women) who are attracted to that behavior.  theres nothing wrong with wearing makeup and going shopping...but...
    SurferSpaz SurferSpaz
    18-21, F
    Dec 23, 2008

    I Hate High Maintenance Girls.

    Its annoying when a girl spends hours on top of hours in the bathroom getting ready jus to go to the store. I know a lot of girls that are like that and i just feel like its wasted effort.Plus God  only knows all the damage they cause with all the different products...
    applescruffs applescruffs
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2009

    Not That I Hate Them But Some Think Their Sh#t Smells Sweet

    Often I'm surrounded by high maintenance girls, not that I HATE them but you feel like taking a rough sponge to their face and scrubbing off the mask of make-up. I mean theres nothing wrong with make-up to an extent but when it's a fake beauty mask then that's a bit far. The...
    Marowit Marowit
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

    I really wish my ex wasn't high maintenance.

    I just need to find a chick with the right level of "chill"
    PuckDrop PuckDrop
    22-25, M
    Mar 23, 2015

    Hate Is a Strong Word... I Pity Them

     I'm a woman. It saddens me how high maintenance women behave.   I don't Hate them - I am in the category "this group does not apply to me"   I pity them, because I wish they could get over themselves and be lovely role models, as many women are...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 15, 2009

    The Bother Me.

    Bother me a lot. With the absolute cleanliness, the constant fixing of apperance, and their personality is annoying also. Just let go and relax one day!
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2009

    High Maintenance Or Attention Seekers

    I taught a beginners weight training class at the University of Texas at Austin. Naturally there are alot of guys in there that just need a time to workout and there are lot of girls in there who have never worked out (with weights) but would like to learn. So anyways I see...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 7, 2008

    Hmmmm

    what does high maintanence even mean?? i would think that it would be circumstancial. and other than that person being vain, i can't see how it would bother other people...
    rylnn rylnn
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 1, 2009

    Forgetting Money At Home...

    I used to have a classmate at the Uni who was a hottie and I had a huge crush on her. Once we go out on a first date but it was so bad that I ...to this day I hate high maintenance girls.Just to be quick  ...I forgot my money at home when i went with a date with a girl from my...
    spotj spotj
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 13, 2011

    Material Girl

    For me "High Maintenance" means "Material Girl". If all she wants are things... then let her got get them. If she's in it for me, then the spoiling will come, but I won't pay to keep you around.
    StressRelief4Me StressRelief4Me
    26-30, M
    Jul 8, 2010

    A Nation Full Of Women Who Give To Their Man

    There is a place on Earth where women are trained from birth to be attentive and giving to their man. They will cook for you, clean your house (which they sometimes provide for you) give you great foot and full body massages, attend to your personal care, wash your clothes, and...
    M65InThailand M65InThailand
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jul 18, 2012

    Why I Hate High Maintenance Girls/women

    why I hate high maintenance Girls/women because they ask too much!!!
    theghostofsabotage theghostofsabotage
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 21, 2012

    High Maintenance Girls Stink!!!

    This list is pretty much what I go through everyday of my life at PHS (Princeton High School) with the preppy-annoying-as-hell girls.  These are my opinions and thoughs so, don't get all pissed if any of these things describes you..just ignore it! 1. I hate how if you...
    jessjess0625 jessjess0625
    22-25, F
    Sep 16, 2008

    What You Made Them

    We are what you make us - I am not particularly high maintenance, but I have my moments like every other woman. I do wear my make-up and like my clothes to be fashionable- as I have been so used to both my male and female friends tearing apart women walking by in the street...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 6, 2008

    Ha Ha, Yes, I Hate High Mainte...

    Ha ha, yes, I hate high maintenance anyone. Life is too short to worry about the little things.
    wanderkid wanderkid
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2007

    Heh Heh, Tell Me About It....

    Here's another sign for you. Your father was a truck driver, and your mom a home-maker who worked part time at K-Mart....and your girls father is a Dr and her mother a vision therapist....just a sign to look out for. I wouldn't trade my wife for the world, BUT I have hustled and...
    tearsofthedragon tearsofthedragon
    36-40, M
    Mar 18, 2008

    Okay, I Don't "Hate" You But...

    It can be pretty annoying at times. To each their own, but when that crap overflows into your job and it affects everyone at work, that's when people hate it the most, me thinks anyway. ;)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 20, 2010

    I Should Be Clear Here.

    Fine, require some maintenance, we all need it honestly. But take 2 hours getting ready? Thats 2 hours I could have been doing something else. Be constantly late? Grrr. Be obsessed with my fashion? Well ok, you can be, just make sure its ok with me first. Compromise here people...
    anteye anteye
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Nov 30, 2006

    Finally, Some Site Where I Could Blow My Head Off About the Issue!

    You know, I've been looking for that "perfect girl" since High School. But the ending was always the same. The girl was never mine. Why? It's either because she didn't like me in return or because there's something I didn't like about the girl. But that was quite...
    theupgrader theupgrader
    18-21, M
    10 Responses Jul 30, 2008

    Its Not What You Make It

    people think just because you like to look good and crap means your high manitence. no its just really preppy stuck-up people and yea so its not what people think it is. and yes i do hate MOST high maintence people
    lindzo lindzo
    18-21, F
    Jun 18, 2008

    In Defence

    i'm actually really annoyed by the sterotypical views placed on females that dress to impress :p i am FAR from high maintenance, in the sense that i love any kind of full contact sport, enjoy camping, i like big fluffy- gets -hair-all over you- dogs, I enjoy family functions and...
    rylnn rylnn
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 5, 2009

    Colo Barbie Dolls

    Mattel recently announced the release of limited-edition Barbie Dolls for the Denver market:   "Cherry Creek Barbie" This princess Barbie is sold only at Cherry Creek Mall. She comes with an assortment of Kate Spade Handbags, a Lexus...
    knottypine knottypine
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Jan 27, 2007

    He was supposed to call

    and hang out today and didn't. I didn't text, call or bring it up. I'm not going to bring it up. People say you have to train people on how to treat you, but I don't think nagging someone about a missed outing is helpful. if he wants to see me he does, if this continues I'll...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme
    22-25, F
    Mar 29

    Highly Demanding, Highly Annoying

    Girls who "need" money, cars, jewellery and their every petty need met annoy the crap out of me. Love is not proven by the giving of gifts or excessive attention. What hurts even more is seeing these girls and women use and abuse well meaning men. They get to me with...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Aug 26, 2008

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