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I Hate How American Society Throws Good People Away

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    My brother is going to be 40 years old soon and the only time he ever got close to being married was a joke.   He follows every law he's even remotely aware of, has a job (and a car, place, etc), cares about intelligent things and wants a future for himself.  Yet...
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 5 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    I've always pushed people away. I feel better by myself. I've always been independent and hated asking for help....I know that I can't always depend on myself though. So, I don't...
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F Feb 4

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    I push people away because I know nowadays everyone is fake. There's no such thing as real friends anymore. I'm just glad that I have my real friends (even if I'm not close to most...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    People who are told that they are certain way so much allows their mind to think that that way is permanent. The mind gets used to the fact that it's just how it is and how it's...
    pwhite83 pwhite83 31-35, M Feb 16

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    I have a terminal illness and no one knows how long I have and I've been pushing people away because of it. I'm a grenade and the less people in my life the less casualties when I...
    Loislane29 Loislane29 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I have a secret that I hide from regular folks (a.k.a anyone not my family). And Ive been hiding it for a very long time. I dont want people to find out and treat me different(as...
    dat1kiid dat1kiid 18-21 Feb 16

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    I understand why bad things happen to good people but I don't like it. I believe bad things happen to good people so that they can over-come obstacles and become stronger people at...
    2323keka 2323keka 16-17 4 days ago

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    When I hear these stories when bad things happen to such good people it’s hard to stay optimistic, I believe that when you do something bad it comes back to bite you in the...
    SmartnDangerous SmartnDangerous 22-25, F Feb 7

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    my reflection disgusts me. i hate it more than anything in the world. i hate mirrors and cameras because they allow me to see myself, and i don't want that, 'cause i think and know...
    Claudine123 Claudine123 16-17, F Feb 7

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    How old do i look like ?..............
    saraXxdubai saraXxdubai 18-21, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Music videos have no relation to the lyrics anymore and almost every music video has strippers.. It's a disgrace, parents wonder why their kids are sexually involved at such a...
    IrishRedhead IrishRedhead 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    my dad left us when i was 9... now i live with my mom ans sis.. my mom always scold us and use bad words... she blames us for everything due to some reasons.. but she loves us.. i...
    strongbutweak strongbutweak 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I do understand why do I push away guys that have a crush on me. I mean I don't want to do it but is just automatically happens. I hate that not only that but why the **** would...
    Didi33 Didi33 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I don't get why do I keep pushing people way I mean I want friends in this new town and when I'm about to make friends I ignore the person like garbage I don't want to do this I...
    Didi33 Didi33 18-21, F Feb 5

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    Good "nice" guys always complain about how they end up being friendzoned and how women always fall for the bad boy but here's the thing.... I don't feel bad for them! Dating the...
    Notquitesurewhatimdoinghere Notquitesurewhatimdoinghere 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    No matter who it is, friends, family.., I start to feel insecure and push them away.. I don't even realise I do it and it's starting to become a scourge.. I hate it.. 😢
    IrishRedhead IrishRedhead 18-21, F Feb 3

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    Don't ever fuc*king tell people to kill themselves! Not even as a joke. It's really not something to fuc*king joke about! You never know what's in people's minds and how that could...
    JennyAB JennyAB 16-17, F 16 Responses Feb 13

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    Because sometimes people actually do feel that way.. Sometimes, your life feels like it is caving in on you. Sometimes people really do feel like they don't want to exist, like...
    0hSheanBreeze012 0hSheanBreeze012 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    yes. i guess the longer i have known someone the less i mind because in that case, you have probably already tried everything and both have had enough time to know how to get along...
    kpl2014 kpl2014 26-30, F Feb 3

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    I really regret pushing away that one person that was so important to me. We got to know each other via internet and found out we had quite a few things in common. Almost half a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    I maybe have less than 10 OK pics of myself. Seriously I know that I look good but on a picture, when I smile, my right eye is smaller than left one. I just hate my eyes on a photo...
    thatjust thatjust 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So I just witnessed someone have a mental breakdown because they couldn't smoke pot , someone so desperate that they said they would commit suicide because they couldn't get high...
    Goldeneye504 Goldeneye504 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 3

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    Does anyone else look in the mirror and think they look good but then you take a picture and you're like "Dafuq?"
    TrainzRFun TrainzRFun 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 17

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    Great. I just pushed someone who actually cares for me. And I made her cry too. And I made it even worse when I asked her to stay away from me, thinking that by staying away from...
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 18

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    When I look myself in mirror ,I think my face is pretty good ,but in the pic ,my face look like a ****
    YNOVAJ YNOVAJ 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Of all the ways that women often react to inner panic, SHUT DOWN is my primary reaction; just plain disconnection. If something happens that upsets me, or when someone says or does...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Okay, so why do we look different in pictures than what we do In the mirror? I honestly think I look really pretty in the mirror, but anytime I try to take a picture then...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 25 Responses Feb 6

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    yeah i sometimes hate it -_-
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I am pushing away the only people that I want to let in because I just don't want them to see me as a crazy person now they won't reply and I just want to break down and cry about...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I can't stop pushing the people that I want in my life away...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F Feb 18

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    I don't want to But i just do bc I'm so scared that I'm not good enough for them
    lilbiatch lilbiatch 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Sometime back a lovely lady referred me to EP after hearing my life story. At that point in time I was unaware what EP was all about so I never considered asking her username...
    ButterflyTearz ButterflyTearz 70+, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    They think I snapped at them for attention but, I pushed them away and now they pushed me further from them....what do I do??????!!!....
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    I wish i knew how to describe how im feeling properly so that the people in my life could truly understand it. But thats just not going to happen. My moods swings are immense...
    rachlin50 rachlin50 22-25, F Feb 22

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    Given time, people become my enemies. I don't know why. But that's the truth. It happened before, many times, and it will happen again. It can't be helped, I guess.
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    I miss you not because you miss me, but because you taught me how to feel the emptiness when you are not here. I still miss you not because you miss me but because you taught me...
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    I always break their hearts.
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    Life was going great, straight A's, new girlfriend, 1st chair tenorsax, Christmas was around the corner, still a new 13 year old, and then my cousin decides to kill himself and not...
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    When thinking about where my life is right now i wonder where it could be if i just done things a bit different if i would have my own house, wife the whole package instead of...
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