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I Hate How My Mother Doesnt Listen to Me

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    I Just Want Her To Stop.

    I constantly attempt to talk to her, to tell her how terribly her verbally abusive behavior is. She never listens. She gets so defensive, telling me how good I have it and storming away. She's so indifferent to me when she isn't yelling at/verbally attacking me. When I want to...
    cowchicken cowchicken 13-15, F Jun 28, 2012

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    I Don't Want Advice

     My mom is a good mom. Mostly. She and I get along okay, but the problem is she doesn't know me. She doesn't like me because she doesn't know who I am.      I come to her with a problem. I tell her how unhappy I am. I tell her I don't like...
    NotHerMom NotHerMom 13-15 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    She Doesn't Seem To Get It

    I try to talk to her, but it always ends in a fight. She just can't look at things the way I see it. Like her husband. I don't want to call him "Dad". He isn't my father. And she says that calling him by his name is disrespectful. If I say "Uncle", she says he's not my uncle. It...
    TrueBlueKid TrueBlueKid 13-15, F Sep 10, 2013

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    My Mom Lives In Her Own World

    My Mom is one of my very best friends.  We are very close.  So, don't take this the wrong way, she is awesome and did a great job raising us.  She was a little neurotic but a really good Mom.  She gave us a very happy childhood but there have always been...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2009

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    Not Just Me

    It's everybody. My mother never listens. She interrupts you when you're talking and butts in. Sometimes she doesn't even pay attention, or completely skews your words. Part of it is her being so defensive. She constantly thinks that you're attacking her, and she is offended so...
    occasionallyconfused occasionallyconfused 16-17 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    My Mother Hates Me

    it first started when i was 5yrs old my mother never liked me.she started abussing me physically,emtionally and mentaly. let me tell u its not vey nice to be abused i remeber there was time that i was combing my causin hair and my other causin came ann undo it . so i got so angry...
    shaiel shaiel 13-15, F Oct 10, 2012

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    The thing with my Mother is

    that she hears me, but she doesn't listen to what I'm saying. So when I'm trying to explain something, or point out a fact, she thinks that I'm talking back to her -.-
    LaLaWreckU LaLaWreckU 16-17, F Jun 25, 2014

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    My Mom..lmaorotf..

    She's Sicilian, she was born there moved to America when she was 16. She had a horrible life, she went through ww2 and saw her little baby brother die. Ok, so life wasnt a piece of cake for her...so she has this 'If I can do it so can you' attitude. Nothing you or I do is ever...
    americanwoman americanwoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    I Can't Talk To Her.

    It's not that I don't want to talk to her because I've tried. She has so many inner distractions with her Schizophrenia that it takes her five minutes sometimes up to twenty just to say 'Huh?' and when I repeat myself, it takes her another two minutes to repeat what I said and...
    RustedTampon RustedTampon 18-21, F Oct 3, 2012

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    I dont know why I am writing this, I just need to get things off my chest. I don't hate my mother. And that's the worst part because I despise the person she is, yet I feel...
    Bizarree Bizarree 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 7

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    It's been two years now that I've hated my mother. We were never really close to begin with but it also hasn't been like this before. Now I avoid interacting with her as much as...
    jkc0 jkc0 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't hate my mother in law I just hate the things she does and says. I hate how she always has the last word I hate that how she always thinks she's a perfect mother when she...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate my mother. I hate her. I hate her. I hate her. I HATE her! I can't say it enough. Just saying this alone is not enough to express my hatred for her. I gave up everything...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    I hate my mother-in-law. Yep, it's official. My husband and I have been married for a year (and were together for 5 years prior to marrying) but she never really warmed up to me...
    blythe19 blythe19 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Im so glad to have found a place to vent! I am so bitter against my MIL. Long story short: In the beginning of my marriage (5 yrs now) I treated my MIL as I do my mother. We were...
    zamlee zamlee 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I suppose I'm just venting here because it's so hard to find anyone else who understands. I hate when people judge me for hating my mother (I've been called immature and ungrateful...
    dinamarie111 dinamarie111 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My mother has never really been a mother. She had me when she was 17 and i was pretty much raised by my grandparents. We act like friends most of the time and joke around. It's fun...
    littlebird88 littlebird88 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    12 things I observed about my in laws: 1. Inability to recognize and accept change in family relations and dynamics. Your son/brother has new priorities; his wife has taken the...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    The ABC's for Mothers in Laws (those of sons with a negative aura)Acknowledge and accept that your son is married, you may not like his choice but it’s his decision.Be...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    My relationship with my mother got way worse when I moved back in with her last year. When she lost her job this last spring she took it out on me. Almost every time she had a...
    moranne moranne 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm from India and my husband is from America and we have been married 18 years now. In the beginning she told my husband not to marry me because 'you never know where she comes...
    yellowrose2015 yellowrose2015 41-45, F 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I'm from India and my husband is from America and we have been married 18 years now. In the beginning she told my husband not to marry me because 'you never know where she comes...
    yellowrose2015 yellowrose2015 41-45, F 15 hrs ago

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    Counting down! 12 weeks to go!!! Woo hoo!!! My husband, son, and I are finally preparing to move out of our apartment leaving his mother behind as we return back to our home state...
    zamlee zamlee 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    My husband loves me we have 1 daughter but My mother inlaw always jealous of me she always conpet with me specially in cooking....My Sister Inlaw All of them !! They hate me...
    Romechan Romechan 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I am so done. I am just done. She loves making fun of me and talking **** about me to other family members. She never listens, either. All she ever does is use her phone and go on...
    ihatecheese12 ihatecheese12 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    My mother is slowly losing her once impressive command of language. Commonplace items are now routinely referred to as "whatitsname" or "that...you know". But two words that still...
    talkinaftermidnight talkinaftermidnight 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 7

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    My mother I realise suffers from NPD Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I have thrown myself at Narcissistic psychopathic men to simply be free of her. I have got over these...
    BrigdBee BrigdBee 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    ugh. where to start. My Mil has hated me since day 1. she has verbally abused me ever since I got engaged to her son. called me not good enough, a *****, and worthless.. well...
    AngelicInnocence92 AngelicInnocence92 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    That woman drive over 400 miles with half her family just to come to our house and start a fight with me and see how bad she could hurt me. Lucky for me, dad came home and when he...
    thumper15 thumper15 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    My husband and I have been together a little over 5 years (married only 7 months). This is my second marriage. I have two children from my previous marriage, now 15 & 13. He...
    doobiemom321 doobiemom321 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 9

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    My mother in law is a flip flopper. One minute she is acting like my friend and then the next minute she is undermining me about something. You see, I'm African American and my...
    antique10 antique10 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate it when my mom always blames me for everything even it wasn't me who had done it. It's so convenient for her to just pass everything to me and would sometimes call me...
    fleurry13 fleurry13 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 11

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    My mother was never around when I was a child. When my dad got sick she threw herself into her work and forgot that I even existed. She left me alone to fend for myself, her work...
    margotcarter margotcarter 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    I hate close-minded people. My mother is the most closed-minded, opinionated, insulting person I have ever met. She judges everyone who isn't like her or who doesn't meet ther...
    Arija18 Arija18 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    It's true, Beyond the fact that she's my mother and she gave birth to me, I really hate her as a human being. Her personality is ugly and she needs to move one with her life.
    CDragontamer CDragontamer 31-35, T 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My mother is someone I truly hate. We never got along and she would make me feel so ****** about myself on a daily basis. She thinks she has done nothing wrong and pretends like...
    tornapart123 tornapart123 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Well I would write down everything but I think that it'll be too long to write so I'll just stick to what recently happened. Well first let me just say that my mother is really...
    dcisneros1117 dcisneros1117 16-17, M 4 Responses Feb 2

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    My mother-in-law had a farm. She pretty much forced all the grandkids to be in 4-H. There was a lot of work to prepare for the County Fair in that area. The kids had to shovel...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    I can't stand my mil, where do I start, we got along before I had my first son 2 and half years ago,the thing that really annoyed back then was her youngest son,there is a 10 year...
    jrg777 jrg777 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    So my mom isn't a bad person, just it seems like she's always taking everything out on me. Every single thing i say, if dont say it in the nicest voice possible, she starts...
    lonelyshark lonelyshark 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    She is never a compassionate nor loving mother figure. She is a toxic manipulater in our family. I fail to ease my anger towards her. She insults others and always putting...
    phoebesoo phoebesoo 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    MIL thinks I should go to work, take care of kids, clean the house, drive children everywhere, etc without the husbands help. like hell no. I need husbands help. luckily my...
    AngelicInnocence92 AngelicInnocence92 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    Well he's not really my stepdad but there are no experiences that say I hate my mom's boyfriend. Either way I hate them both
    XDBode XDBode 16-17, M Feb 7

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    my mother in law lives with us, because my husband fears for her health and safety. She is an alcoholic and spends every moment off work, drinking and smoking cigarettes. I take...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    You think you MIL is bad, you should have mine. 10 minutes with this witch and you will be begging to have yours back She is the devils spawn. Horrible horrible, nasty old woman...
    kel619 kel619 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    Conversation with CIL This post is a follow up to EP Link I changed all names for privacy reasons but left the conversation in tact. This was via Whatsapp: 9:32, 2014/4/2 - You...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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