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I Hate How My Mother Doesnt Listen to Me

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    My Mother Hates Me

    it first started when i was 5yrs old my mother never liked me.she started abussing me physically,emtionally and mentaly. let me tell u its not vey nice to be abused i remeber there was time that i was combing my causin hair and my other causin came ann undo it . so i got so angry...
    shaiel shaiel 13-15, F Oct 10, 2012

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    The thing with my Mother is

    that she hears me, but she doesn't listen to what I'm saying. So when I'm trying to explain something, or point out a fact, she thinks that I'm talking back to her -.-
    LaLaWreckU LaLaWreckU 16-17, F Jun 25, 2014

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    I Don't Want Advice

     My mom is a good mom. Mostly. She and I get along okay, but the problem is she doesn't know me. She doesn't like me because she doesn't know who I am.      I come to her with a problem. I tell her how unhappy I am. I tell her I don't like...
    NotHerMom NotHerMom 13-15 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    I Can't Talk To Her.

    It's not that I don't want to talk to her because I've tried. She has so many inner distractions with her Schizophrenia that it takes her five minutes sometimes up to twenty just to say 'Huh?' and when I repeat myself, it takes her another two minutes to repeat what I said and...
    RustedTampon RustedTampon 18-21, F Oct 3, 2012

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    My Mom..lmaorotf..

    She's Sicilian, she was born there moved to America when she was 16. She had a horrible life, she went through ww2 and saw her little baby brother die. Ok, so life wasnt a piece of cake for her...so she has this 'If I can do it so can you' attitude. Nothing you or I do is ever...
    americanwoman americanwoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    I Just Want Her To Stop.

    I constantly attempt to talk to her, to tell her how terribly her verbally abusive behavior is. She never listens. She gets so defensive, telling me how good I have it and storming away. She's so indifferent to me when she isn't yelling at/verbally attacking me. When I want to...
    cowchicken cowchicken 13-15, F Jun 28, 2012

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    Not Just Me

    It's everybody. My mother never listens. She interrupts you when you're talking and butts in. Sometimes she doesn't even pay attention, or completely skews your words. Part of it is her being so defensive. She constantly thinks that you're attacking her, and she is offended so...
    occasionallyconfused occasionallyconfused 16-17 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    She Doesn't Seem To Get It

    I try to talk to her, but it always ends in a fight. She just can't look at things the way I see it. Like her husband. I don't want to call him "Dad". He isn't my father. And she says that calling him by his name is disrespectful. If I say "Uncle", she says he's not my uncle. It...
    TrueBlueKid TrueBlueKid 13-15, F Sep 10, 2013

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    My Mom Lives In Her Own World

    My Mom is one of my very best friends.  We are very close.  So, don't take this the wrong way, she is awesome and did a great job raising us.  She was a little neurotic but a really good Mom.  She gave us a very happy childhood but there have always been...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2009

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    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    UPDATE: ugh, I should've just listened to everyone on here telling me to leave the situation alone. one of my BIL's came to visit Sunday afternoon. we get along great. in the midst...
    audamom audamom 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Today my feelings about my mother in law went from "I can't stand her" to "I hate her!" I went to Home Depot today with my best friend for 45 minutes (total time out of the house...
    LGLlove LGLlove 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I know what that's like. I have a monster for a Mil. She is firstly a catholic fanatic that hates everybody that doesn't fit her ideal Irish Catholic "must think" like she does...
    anonymous1536 anonymous1536 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I don't like her at all. She told me she's fair to all of us three siblings but she's not. She does many things to me that she doesn't do to my brothers. She always don't like what...
    lOvegOoOd lOvegOoOd 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    Victim Of Tyranny-No I was NOT "stolen" from you by "nosy *** White folks in your business believing my damn lies". I was RESCUED from you after 9 1/2 years under your mediocre...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    audamom audamom 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    I just hate my mum so much. She is always making me feel terrible and I find myself crying nearly everyday because of some of the things she says to me. She is pushing me to dance...
    Hatingeveryone Hatingeveryone 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    This is a true story..... And I just can't feel the same about my mother for many reasons. To begin with my mother was admitted to multiple mental health institutions. For the...
    ikilledmyselfinside ikilledmyselfinside 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm f**kin tired of my mother! I don't want to call her mother anymore! She compares me to my sister a lot and she even calls me demon and monster! I don't love her anymore! I'm...
    Sakuranishi Sakuranishi 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Long ago I wrote this title is not totally right for what I feel but let it be, because it is not entirely wrong. I feel the urge to post a new episode of where are we now with my...
    stellera stellera 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    My mother is so abusive and narcissistic but she denies being Narcissistic she does not like me being engaged and getting married she says his family is poor and his family smells...
    Christiancountrygirl Christiancountrygirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Mother doesn't exist in my vocabulary within this family. She degrades me and my hobbies. She degrades my achievements and my interests. She degrades me to the point I am the bad...
    thisisathrowawaysoyeah thisisathrowawaysoyeah 16-17, M 5 Responses Apr 7

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    And live for it. And promote it. Like using plausible deniability. Or improbable possibility. Despite current facts. We watch comedy. Like bill maher. Or john...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Thank GOD I found this forum! My Mom and I were close back then but after I reliazed her true attitude, that's when my hatred started. She likes nagging people, she's very...
    simonrivera simonrivera 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Wow so I was just thinking back on something from my childhood... For several years of my younger years (ages 11-about 14) I had problems with lightheaded-ness. I couldn't get out...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Sometime i wonder if my mother made my life, the way i'm today, or simply broke it, what i could have been! She is completely control freak. now i wonder if i would ever be able...
    Kheya092 Kheya092 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am so afraid of my mom. She puts so much pressure on me and is so pessimistic. She told me to get a job, so i did. Now she isn't happy with the job i got. She talks to my dad...
    ab524 ab524 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I hate my mom. She has ruined life. To be honest shes not my real mom...im adopted so I don't give a **** about her. Shes hurt me so many times.... I bet she has not regretted it...
    fishy0829 fishy0829 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    my mom always shout at me.She had a strange big voice ,i hate her at all.i want to leave this **** home,she doesn't give me money for lunch!she never care about me but that stupid...
    tsochun tsochun 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Ugliest person I know. Inside and out !! Honestly hate her with my entire being.
    Grace1077 Grace1077 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I separeted from my parents for ten years. I separeted from them when I was only 3 months old. Now I have been living with them for almost 7 years. I just can't get close to them...
    Kristen5440 Kristen5440 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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