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I Hate How My Mother Doesnt Listen to Me

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    The thing with my Mother is

    that she hears me, but she doesn't listen to what I'm saying. So when I'm trying to explain something, or point out a fact, she thinks that I'm talking back to her -.-
    LaLaWreckU LaLaWreckU 16-17, F Jun 25

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    My Mom..lmaorotf..

    She's Sicilian, she was born there moved to America when she was 16. She had a horrible life, she went through ww2 and saw her little baby brother die. Ok, so life wasnt a piece of cake for her...so she has this 'If I can do it so can you' attitude. Nothing you or I do is ever...
    americanwoman americanwoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    I Just Want Her To Stop.

    I constantly attempt to talk to her, to tell her how terribly her verbally abusive behavior is. She never listens. She gets so defensive, telling me how good I have it and storming away. She's so indifferent to me when she isn't yelling at/verbally attacking me. When I want to...
    cowchicken cowchicken 13-15, F Jun 28, 2012

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    I Can't Talk To Her.

    It's not that I don't want to talk to her because I've tried. She has so many inner distractions with her Schizophrenia that it takes her five minutes sometimes up to twenty just to say 'Huh?' and when I repeat myself, it takes her another two minutes to repeat what I said and...
    RustedTampon RustedTampon 18-21, F Oct 3, 2012

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    Not Just Me

    It's everybody. My mother never listens. She interrupts you when you're talking and butts in. Sometimes she doesn't even pay attention, or completely skews your words. Part of it is her being so defensive. She constantly thinks that you're attacking her, and she is offended so...
    occasionallyconfused occasionallyconfused 16-17 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    My Mom Lives In Her Own World

    My Mom is one of my very best friends.  We are very close.  So, don't take this the wrong way, she is awesome and did a great job raising us.  She was a little neurotic but a really good Mom.  She gave us a very happy childhood but there have always been...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2009

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    She Doesn't Seem To Get It

    I try to talk to her, but it always ends in a fight. She just can't look at things the way I see it. Like her husband. I don't want to call him "Dad". He isn't my father. And she says that calling him by his name is disrespectful. If I say "Uncle", she says he's not my uncle. It...
    TrueBlueKid TrueBlueKid 13-15, F Sep 10, 2013

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    I Don't Want Advice

     My mom is a good mom. Mostly. She and I get along okay, but the problem is she doesn't know me. She doesn't like me because she doesn't know who I am.      I come to her with a problem. I tell her how unhappy I am. I tell her I don't like...
    NotHerMom NotHerMom 13-15 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    My Mother Hates Me

    it first started when i was 5yrs old my mother never liked me.she started abussing me physically,emtionally and mentaly. let me tell u its not vey nice to be abused i remeber there was time that i was combing my causin hair and my other causin came ann undo it . so i got so angry...
    shaiel shaiel 13-15, F Oct 10, 2012

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    I remember being younger and writing on paper that I hate my mother and I would show her the paper. I use to like and love my mother. Now I no longer do. I don't trust her and her...
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    I will not rant or moan and I no longer hate my mother as much as I use to,but I hope I NEVER see her again and haven't since the last time I went before a judge aged 10 and her...
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    It is not so that I hate my mother in law because she in my mother in law. No, no, no. I hate her because she is a bad person. At the begining I wanted to be a friend of hers, but...
    emikolic emikolic 26-30, F Jul 3

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    I wish my dad would put this narcissistic bi*tch in her place and beat the sh8t out of her too..if anyone deserves to be f8cking slapped it's her..i don't know what the hell he...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    i will always hate my mother she made my cry on my birthday......i am sobbing and im writing this i really wish i was born to another family cause she always tells me why my...
    hateherforever hateherforever 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I hate my mom so much. She is such a narcissist and a hyprocrite and a catfish on facebook. Yes she cooks, cleans(lol like once a year) and "does" my laundry. Supposedly, she...
    calvinmacguff2 calvinmacguff2 13-15, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Maybe not "hate" but I STRONGLY DISLIKE her! But its getting there... Is that bad? She still has a long ways to go! :( The funny thing about it all is we used to really get along...
    Story0fMyLife Story0fMyLife 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been going through a tough in the past couple years I'm also recovering from reconstructive surgery on my knee I'm not 100 percent and she used to helped me out she doesnt...
    Robyned Robyned 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was unfortunate enough to land myself in a house that includes not only my husband but along with my in laws, sister in law, her husband, and two kids. Everyone knows and can...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    A lot happened but I'll just tell you what happened last night. It was around 12 am and I was texting my friend happy birthday and chatting with her because for my birthday she did...
    Emma1599 Emma1599 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    In 2008 my Mother in law lost h husband . I tried helping her through his illness and after his death and things were ok.I had never had bad feelings toward her in the past,as a...
    helpless69 helpless69 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I hate my mom. I am a worthless daughter. I hate what has given me life, yet for so long I had only her in mind, in focus. But so it is. Since I have been a child she has...
    unknownfamiliar unknownfamiliar 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 13

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    have briefly read some of the stories around this topic and I feel only some have merit as some are clearly petty and a joke! However I will tell all why I hate this f#cking c#nt...
    sayitlikeitis101 sayitlikeitis101 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate the fact that when i tell my mom i feel alone and sad because no one talk to me and i have no friends. She always says is my fault because i dont open to people, is like, i...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    how I feel about my mother makes me afraid to ever have a child... I don't resent her for the things she's done to me because I know she is mentally unstable... but I still hate...
    MarZipansStory MarZipansStory 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    Have you ever just sat and started to cry?. Because you know that no her you do will ever take away the pain. So it all started at the age of 14 I was a bit bigger than the other...
    anonymousgirl1010 anonymousgirl1010 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Do you ever hate someone so much to where every single thing this person does annoys the hell out of you? Even the simplest thing like how this person breathes and how this person...
    svrrows svrrows 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Apart for wishing my children the best for their life, my greatest wish (if I ever caught a wish-fish) would be for all young wives or girlfriends not to get a mother in law from...
    stellera stellera 51-55, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My parents are divorced. I was still very little so I've always remembered my parents being separated. I loved my father very very much. (I'm speaking in past tense because he...
    Riarza Riarza 18-21, F Jul 18

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    Me and mom have this love hate relationship, it basically all started when I was young; she was a workaholic and my great-grandma for 19 years, has been my mom for me and my best...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F a week ago

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    My mom and father both smoke. Dad had quit for a long time and then a family friend got him back on it. I resent her for it. My mom hadn't smoked in years. Then one day when we...
    jcylee99 jcylee99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I feel like she is haunting me from the grave! The grave of get out of our life! We told my MIL she was to no longer contact us at all period. She told us our son was a mistake...
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    Hate is a strong word. But I can't think of another word that better describes my feelings towards this woman. She is emotionally abusive and has been physically abusive before...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jul 9

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    Hi all. I am new here and for the last 3 years my mil has been a nightmare! From day one she has been telling my fiancé ridiculous things about me. She tries to convince him that...
    areyna88 areyna88 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I don't know how to start this, i know she is mentally stable but these words are to describe her; cunning, vulgar, inadequate, shameful and obnoxious...... She is the reason I...
    Arizv11 Arizv11 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Why? Why? Doesn't she know why? I'm struggling, hurting yet she doesn't understand, I've been sexually abused, bullied, and torn. Yet I keep smiling, keep trying to live and be...
    Annoymous2 Annoymous2 16-17 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've been babysitting my almost 8 year old sister since she basi ally was born. I have been my mothers biggest and best help with her. I am now 17 and think about how when I look...
    lenabroyal lenabroyal 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I can't stand my mum. I honestly don't know what to do anymore, I hate her so much and I cannot wait until the day I move out. Every time she is around I just feel completely...
    emilyyyy1997 emilyyyy1997 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I really, really, REALLY hate my mom. Some people tell me it's just a teenage thing but i can assure you i do. My parents went through a nasty divorce, mostly due to the fact of my...
    puppypanda puppypanda 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    Cant stand being around her cant even stand being in the same room if someone mentions her name without feeling a burning feeling in my stomach shes mean to me 90 percent of the...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jul 23

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    I never really understood the whole "following celebrities" deal. Personally, I can't even name one male celebrity that's just oh-my-god hot. I never really worried about the...
    ColourmeAmb ColourmeAmb 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My partner’s son is turning 20 this weekend. I have known him since he was born. I have never been awarded the role of step mom though. There are a few reasons for that. 1...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I use to have this great mother but she is cheating on my dad and doesn't even care now that I know. She said sorry after I found out and begged for forgiveness, promising never to...
    angelanight angelanight 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    How could a mother want to give up and want to "kill" her own child jut because said child doesn't do what she says? I'm so disgusted.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Please, I need to know if anyone out there is from Brooklyn, or anywhere near or around the city that has dealt with Child Protective Services before. If you've read my previous...
    nikkitatink0411 nikkitatink0411 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I so f****** hate her.. She is one hell of a B****.. Making my and my husband's life a living hell.. N my husband is too jerk to see that its her mother not me who makes everything...
    IgnoredConsistently IgnoredConsistently 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am not even married yet to my fiancé but his mother is already driving a wedge between us. We both work very hard to make ends meet. We live in expensive area and have a small...
    jlathomas jlathomas 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I realized this today when I heard her screaming at my dad, "what you're gonna kill yourself!? At least do it right and get insurance money for it yeah go kill yourself" it...
    shootdownthestars shootdownthestars 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Another great article: Narcissistic Mother-in-Law Breaks Up Marriages http://thenarcissistinyourlife.com/narcissistic-mother-in-law-breaks-up-marriages/ The article says when...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 2 Responses Jul 9