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I Hate How My Mother Doesnt Listen to Me

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    My Mother Hates Me

    it first started when i was 5yrs old my mother never liked me.she started abussing me physically,emtionally and mentaly. let me tell u its not vey nice to be abused i remeber there was time that i was combing my causin hair and my other causin came ann undo it . so i got so angry...
    shaiel shaiel 13-15, F Oct 10, 2012

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    I Don't Want Advice

     My mom is a good mom. Mostly. She and I get along okay, but the problem is she doesn't know me. She doesn't like me because she doesn't know who I am.      I come to her with a problem. I tell her how unhappy I am. I tell her I don't like...
    NotHerMom NotHerMom 13-15 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    I Can't Talk To Her.

    It's not that I don't want to talk to her because I've tried. She has so many inner distractions with her Schizophrenia that it takes her five minutes sometimes up to twenty just to say 'Huh?' and when I repeat myself, it takes her another two minutes to repeat what I said and...
    RustedTampon RustedTampon 18-21, F Oct 3, 2012

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    My Mom..lmaorotf..

    She's Sicilian, she was born there moved to America when she was 16. She had a horrible life, she went through ww2 and saw her little baby brother die. Ok, so life wasnt a piece of cake for her...so she has this 'If I can do it so can you' attitude. Nothing you or I do is ever...
    americanwoman americanwoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    I Just Want Her To Stop.

    I constantly attempt to talk to her, to tell her how terribly her verbally abusive behavior is. She never listens. She gets so defensive, telling me how good I have it and storming away. She's so indifferent to me when she isn't yelling at/verbally attacking me. When I want to...
    cowchicken cowchicken 13-15, F Jun 28, 2012

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    My Mom Lives In Her Own World

    My Mom is one of my very best friends.  We are very close.  So, don't take this the wrong way, she is awesome and did a great job raising us.  She was a little neurotic but a really good Mom.  She gave us a very happy childhood but there have always been...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2009

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    She Doesn't Seem To Get It

    I try to talk to her, but it always ends in a fight. She just can't look at things the way I see it. Like her husband. I don't want to call him "Dad". He isn't my father. And she says that calling him by his name is disrespectful. If I say "Uncle", she says he's not my uncle. It...
    TrueBlueKid TrueBlueKid 13-15, F Sep 10, 2013

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    Not Just Me

    It's everybody. My mother never listens. She interrupts you when you're talking and butts in. Sometimes she doesn't even pay attention, or completely skews your words. Part of it is her being so defensive. She constantly thinks that you're attacking her, and she is offended so...
    occasionallyconfused occasionallyconfused 16-17 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    The thing with my Mother is

    that she hears me, but she doesn't listen to what I'm saying. So when I'm trying to explain something, or point out a fact, she thinks that I'm talking back to her -.-
    LaLaWreckU LaLaWreckU 16-17, F Jun 25, 2014

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    omg where to start lol she tells us how to spend money and manage our time together. she lives an hour away but yet we see her once or twice a week my parents live around the...
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    It's rather hard for me to explain my feelings for my mother. She's very, well abusive that's true. But I still set out to get her approval, I always tell her I love her, and I...
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    As I sit here desperately taking in a breath, my heart aches with sorrow. It's been two days since I spoke with my mother. I still hear her hateful tone echoing through the phone...
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    My mother-in-law was an RN nurse for around 30 yrs. She let it be know she knew everything about medicine. There were 3 of us daughter-in-laws. MY one sister-in-law had 6 children...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 6 Responses Mar 14

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    "A mother's love is forever" "Mother is the mist beautiful word"..... All b*******. Most parents nowadays don't love their child. The children that seem to have a perfect family...
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    Victim Of Tyranny-No I was NOT "stolen" from you by "nosy *** White folks in your business believing my damn lies". I was RESCUED from you after 9 1/2 years under your mediocre...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    ashleycharlie28 ashleycharlie28 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    adviseplease adviseplease 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 16

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    The indefensible. I am marking this as adult though there is no sexual content. I had a car when we got married , so did my husband and then we bought a truck. The in-laws were...
    wordofwarning wordofwarning 51-55, F Mar 17

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    Hello everyone! I'm new here, & I'm just trying to find some relief in venting. Maybe even find a solution to all this mess, & free myself & my hubby from it all. I'm open to any...
    audamom audamom 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    It has been a while not to say that our relationship has become rosie, but rather the amount nor time I spend with the in-laws has dwindled to non existent. So I have had nothing...
    skip79 skip79 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 3

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