I Hate Hurting People

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    I'm a compassionate person; have to be to be in

    the career I'm in. If rather be the one hurt than to be the one that hurt someone else. However, sometimes you have to do the hurting in order to save a lifetime of regret. Recently, I hurt someone intentionally but it was necessary. To continue on would have only resulted in a...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 7, 2013

    I keep on hurting those close to me,

    and I just can't seem to fix it. I always have the best intentions in mind, but I just end up upsetting the person in question. I also lie compulsively with those good intentions, which only makes everything worse. Why can't I just be a genuine, straightforward person who just...
    notthatoneguy notthatoneguy
    16-17, M
    Dec 13, 2015

    The best people in our lives always tend to

    hurt us the most. The ability to care so much for someone is incredibly precious. Emotions are everything in a relationship. In any kind of a relationship. Getting frustrated is meaningful. Only a caring heart will be able to get frustrated with someone they love. Don't be...
    SpecialKind SpecialKind
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2014

    So there's this girl

    that is idk like obsessed with me. I'm not even kidding. She doesn't leave me alone even when sometimes I can tell that she knows how much I dislike her. I don't like hurting people's feelings so... what should I do >.< I just want her to leave me alone.
    1Dmadness 1Dmadness
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 27, 2014

    Insert Awesome Title Here

    I don't like to hurt people, verbally and physically. I don't like it when I call people names. I'll be joking around, and then my friends will take it the wrong way, and then they'll be really mad at me and I'll be mad at me and I'll be really upset. :( This is one reason why...
    RestInPie RestInPie
    22-25, F
    Jul 28, 2013

    One of the things about dating online is you

    sometimes meet people who you're capable of pretty profound emotional connection with but then you realize you have no actual genuine physical attraction to the person in question. to my horror this has happened several times and I'm Still not quiet over the intense feelings of...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2014
    GraceIsGone2 GraceIsGone2
    26-30, F
    Mar 25, 2016
    Inlove1334 Inlove1334
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Jan 16, 2014

    It Hurts Me Too...

    I never want to ever hurt anyone. It bothers me when I make people feel bad and hurt. Especially when I hurt someone I care about. It hurts me so much to make people hurt. I want people to be happy and never want them to feel pain, if I were to hurt someone... I would feel like I...
    exsaiyan exsaiyan
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2013
    yousefhousin yousefhousin
    16-17, M
    Apr 2, 2016

    Hurting people, hurts me too.

    .. guess that's why I haven't done it yet... I don't want to hurt anyone...
    saigebeck101 saigebeck101
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    I also don't like hurting their feelings either.

    Someone on here (not gonna say who) would keep messaging and messaging and messaging me until I said, "I'm sorry I don't respond to you, you annoyingly send me like 50 messages a day!" He blocked me and wrote some nasty things on my pictures. I didn't mean to be so rude. I...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    I never do it intentionally,

    but please, if I ever hurt you, please tell me. I want to know.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    18-21, M
    Oct 24, 2015

    I rather get hurt by them

    than me hurting them
    Bimyselff Bimyselff
    18-21, M
    Jan 9, 2014

    Why do people make fun of other people

    if they have a disability or a disorder???
    imsoshady10 imsoshady10
    18-21, M
    Apr 25, 2014

    I Hate It

    I know I have my moments when I loose my temper but I'm not me when I'm mad. I don't like hurting anyone cause I know that everyone is wonderful in there own way. I don't expect you not to be mad at me when I hurt you but I promise I never meant to hurt u . I promise ...
    reddemonsoul reddemonsoul
    18-21, F
    Aug 10, 2013

    Don't Hurt Anyone

    actually speaking i don't like to hurt anyone specially girls cause they are very sensitive and delicate. till now i have hurt one girl by mi stack.
    sanjayk420 sanjayk420
    22-25, M
    Aug 25, 2013

    Love doesn't hurt. Lying,

    cheating and screwing with people's feelings and emotions hurts.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 18, 2016

    Sometimes You Have To.

    Sometimes it's an accident but sometimes you have to be a ***** to get your point across.
    TayTayLynnW TayTayLynnW
    18-21, F
    Oct 26, 2013

    I Try My Hardest Not To

    sometimes i accidently do it...sometimes i get off in my own little world, and i push everyone away. sometimes i do things that only help myself, and it just ends up hurting someone else.
    zydeko zydeko
    Aug 25, 2013

    I took responsibility of my gf son

    when he was 4 he is now 11 and has no idea I'm not his father by blood but I am his father the only man in his life. My question is how do I tell him that I'm not the biological father I'm so scared he is going to hate me and want something with his low life ***** donor.
    mrchago mrchago
    41-45, M
    Apr 26, 2014

    Apparently I'm great at causing people anxiety.

    Yay me... I hate myself sometimes. i don't even know what I do to cause people anxiety... But apparently I'm great at it. Wow... I suck...
    SyrkSefhir SyrkSefhir
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 9, 2015

    I Hate Hurting You

    I hate hurting you I hate knowing your in pain I hate knowing your hurt is because of me I hate that you let people walk all over you I hate you feeling alone even when your not I hate that you don't feel loved ... really loved I hate that you love me I hate that you put EVERYONE...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout
    31-35, F
    Aug 1, 2013

    I never intend to do it,

    but it happens anyway because I am a damned idiot. Some people tell me good things about myself, but I start to hate myself when I accidentally hurt someone.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2015

    I hate annoying ,ppl.

    I hate troubling someone for my selfish desires and when I see people who don't care about others, people who put their desires above others inconvenience or comfort I find it very strange. I couldn't stand myself if I knew I was keeping someone from what they wanted to do , if...
    booklover200016 booklover200016
    16-17, F
    Mar 22, 2016

    I Dont Want To Hurt YOU

    You hurt me...and I hate you for that...but I don't want to hurt you like you hurt me...I don't want to be as evil as you...you are the reason for my pain...but I don't want to be the reason for yours...I know you don't care about me...I get that now...you don't love me..you hate...
    rainbowskittlezz rainbowskittlezz
    18-21, F
    Aug 6, 2013

    I never wanted to hurt anyone,

    but I've hurt so many people in my life I don't know why I want to make friends. I'm just scared of hurting them. I'm bipolar which sometimes causes me go into periods of mania and I release my anger on them. I tried apologizing, and it always felt like my fault that I wasn't...
    HolidaySpice HolidaySpice
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2013

    I did it again. I don't try to at all,

    but then I **** things up. I just need to stop letting out my feelings because it will just cause problems. I feel like **** when I upset anyone I care about, because I care about people deeply and don't want to hurt them.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2015

    It's something I can never forget about,

    even if I'm forgiven, I still feel like an *******. This will bother me for a while...
    ACyanideSurprise ACyanideSurprise
    22-25, M
    Feb 20, 2015

    My friend asked me out

    and he kept begging and I didn't want to say no because I felt bad so I said yeas - I friend I knew only for a year all of a sudden asked me out and I didn't want to say no because she really liked me so I said yeas
    MerpR MerpR
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 30, 2014

    I get angry, sometimes

    for no good reason, and then I lash out, I shout and sometimes hit people, often the ones I care about most. One of those is my little brother and sister. I once grabbed his wrist really hard and shouted, and he cried and looked so scared, and I felt so ashamed. I don't want...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx
    16-17, F
    Mar 19, 2014
    GummiBr GummiBr
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2016
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