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I Hate Infidelity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 143 People

    I Am Scarred Forever...

    I hate infidelity. I hate that my former spouse was a victim of infidelity in his previous marriage and that I put him on a pedestal - disbelieving that he could ever commit adultery against me. For years, he became involved with his coworker - despite the rumors and finally...
    digging2graves digging2graves 31-35 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    What Am I Doing Today-at This Moment...staying Or Leaving?

    You know I have read soooo many stories of being cheated on here on this site...what is so amazing to me is that whether the victim (and i say that very lightly...you are only a victim if u allow urself to continue to be victimized) is male or female..black, white or yellow..it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    I am watching The Bridges of Madison County.

    Though I love Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep but still I am feeling uneasy because I know she is going to do that. Probably because I have been a victim that's why I am feeling uneasy.
    VastCosmos VastCosmos 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    Pivoting From The Pain Of Infidelity

    My husband's infidelity 4 years ago was characterized by me as an affair, and by him as 'his new life'. I found a support group, and got busy with how to deal, feel and heal through this mess. Part of what I have taken away from this is that people need support, resources and...
    WayfarerIHG WayfarerIHG 70+ Dec 17, 2012

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 5 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Ok, He Is Not Happy With Me But...

    What makes him think that I am stupid? I don't know him anymore, he is a dishonest person.   Yesterday, while we were at bar with our friends, you know, having a good time,  he was texting her, YES TEXTING HER!!! I was at his side!!! Wearing my...
    sunshine25 sunshine25 26-30 May 1, 2010

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    Brings Bad Energy

    I have been the unfaithful one in a relationship and have had someone be unfaithful to me. It's just bad from both sides. I should have ended the relationship when I did cheat, but I was too selfish. Well I am not really sure what the reasons were, why I did cheat...
    notinthemood notinthemood 22-25, F Dec 29, 2009

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    Well...

    It hurts. It sucks. It rarely works out for the best. Please think it through first...please?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29, 2011

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    Devastation

    Over the last few years so many of my friends have discovered an infidelity in their marriage. Each time I've been shocked and stunned, their marriages and relationships had seemed so stable and secure. Each time it has devastated their lives and their childrens lives. All of...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    How Being Cheated On Affected My Life

    When I was 17, I met an older man. I fell hopelessly in love and moved in with his two days after my 18th birthday. I worshipped the ground he walked on. In my eyes he could do no wrong. I loved him with all my heart and then some. In the first year we lived together, I went...
    karmeliet karmeliet 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Facebook Really Does Ruin Lives

    My husband had a month long affair with a slutty girl from facebook. He didn't even know her and she requested to be his friend, made up a story about how she was an HR recruiter that could help him get a job (she didn't even have a job), and then started coming on to him. I...
    missessadness missessadness 26-30 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    What Do I Do?

    Hi i am in need of some advice see i really love my wife of 2 years she has alwaise ben honest and true too me layely she has ben off she is not in a good place she was in a mental institution last week since she has ben out on meds she has ben worse this sunday she whent looking...
    tommyloveskelly tommyloveskelly 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    How Long Does the Ache Last?

    Why am I still thinking about my husband's one night stand daily after it's been 8 years?  I don't feel like myself - sabotage myself, I think.  What's wrong with me? He was devastated that he did it, I was devastated.  We are still married. He gives me no reason...
    ruby098 ruby098 31-35 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Word Turned Upside Down.

    I stumbled on this site quite by accident. I was so heartbroken and distraught over my husband's infedelity. I wanted to know what kind of woman knowingly would have an affair with a married man and that is how I found this site. I read many other woman stories and I am disgusted...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Claddagh Ring

    I don't remember what year it was, whether he was sleeping with his business associate (the affair he hasn't admitted) or with his employee (the affair he "ended"), but my cheating husband gave me a Claddagh Ring. It's lovely green agate in 9 K gold and not overly expensive, but...
    extremeregrets extremeregrets 51-55, F Aug 29, 2012

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    Love

    When there is Love, there is no Question.
    LuvvThySelf LuvvThySelf 22-25, F Apr 18, 2013

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    F This

    It's been 3 months since i experienced the worst thing that could happen in a relationship.  Me and my bf had been together for a year and a half , we live together and not saying our relationship was perfect but it really was amazing we talk about everything , love...
    whymeg whymeg 22-25 Jun 15, 2009

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    Honestly it's a waste of time

    and I can't stand when people **** with my emotions.
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F Jun 7

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    I Love Me...

    Coming to think of it, every relationship i have treasured has ended in heartbreak, pain and lots of tears. I remember how at some point my ex and i were so close, doing everything together, the spontaneity, the fun, the adventure, 22 months into our relationship things started...
    AutumnRed AutumnRed 31-35 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Sometimes They Come Back...

    I posted a story about my husband's affair a while back. We got through it and our marriage is stronger if you can believe that. We had a lot of bumps along the road to get where we are now. Anyways, here's what's going on now. A year after he ended it, she contacted him at work...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    I Love Him

    I love him with all my heart i think of him and pray for him  I cannot believe he is doing this to me . Treating me like a nuisance , ignoring me , lying to me  I would spend the rest of my life with him but would it mean a thing to him ? would i...
    passionkilledme passionkilledme 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    It Still Hurts...

    The winds of infidelity are blowing in the media circus... and infidelity again makes another attack on my battered and scarred heart. I feel so sad for Elin Nordegrun. My heart goes out to her. I would have thought that I'd be further along on the road...
    broleon broleon 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 2 Responses May 11, 2010

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    With every fiber of my being,

    I despise people who hurt their significant others by cheating on them. I have witnessed first hand my older sister whom I adore to bits go through a very painful divorce with her first love, the man who serially betrayed her for 10 long years ! To make it worse, the bastard...
    AcousticAnne AcousticAnne 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 7

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    Related Experiences

    I too just discovered infidelity. After seven years of marriage I had the luck of discovering an e-mail between my wife and another man professing their love but needing space to...
    underestimated247 underestimated247 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 11

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    I hate that I keep trying to keep our relationship going when he doesn't even want to be with me :( I'm tired of forcing this. I hate myself..it's all my fault :'( I wish I could...
    Rdelat Rdelat 18-21, F 51 mins ago

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    My wife is so out of touch with the impact that her affair has had on me. Damn I hate cheaters
    Dartanian Dartanian 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i hate when i have a crush on a good girl that i would love to be with but the last guy ruined her and she doesn't let me in.
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 50 mins ago

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    I HATE the world and every stupid thing in it!!!! Why does it continue to hurt me and break my heart!?!?! I'm never caring about anything or anyone EVER again!!!!!!!!!!! The world...
    AleaAndLexi AleaAndLexi 13-15, F 41 mins ago

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    I hate being poor... I hate it when I have to save my money for my next week allowance... I hate it when we don't have any television or dvd...I hate it when we have no money to...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I hate how I'm not like every one I hate how I'm fat I hate how I'm not smart I hate how I don't know what to do I hate how I cut and treat people I hate how I'm not wanted...
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 3

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    I hate my heart for being stubborn. I hate my mind for keeping our memories alive. I hate my eyes when they see your face. I hate my ears when they hear your name I hate my voice...
    susieibeth susieibeth 18-21, F Dec 10

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    I am a girl; I am 17 years old. My sister is 19. This long story is mostly about us two. Therefore, please read this carefully and help me get out of this living hell!:( I hate my...
    Miserabelle Miserabelle 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate myself. I hate being so stupid, and not being good at anything. I hate my face, my nose, my cheeks, my lips, and my eyes. I hate my personality, and my laugh. I hate the way...
    Missprincessgabby Missprincessgabby 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 24

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    I hate him. I'm in pain. I hate being rejected. I hate being told I'm not good enough. I hate being taken advantage of. I hate him. I hate feeling this way, like my head is about...
    classicslove classicslove 26-30, F 11 Responses Dec 2

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    I hate myself I hate my looks I hate my life I hate my body i hate my hair I hate my height I hate my voice I hate my thoughts
    prettybrowneyes1993 prettybrowneyes1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    What a perpetuation of an obsolete higher powering deity, I say to myself most of the time. It's not so much that I hate god, it's that this entity's power or relationship to...
    LDll LDll 18-21, F Nov 24

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    Sometimes I hate everything . This means that I hate my life and everyone else and sometimes even myself. And ironically I hate hating. So then I repeat over and over to myself...
    MentalTravelor MentalTravelor 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    she not even a bad mother. just to me. she just feels like she can control me because im skinny and lanky. she is so nice to my sisters because they look like women they have...
    msworstlife msworstlife 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    Recently, I began dating a guy who my parents absolutely hated. Actually, at the point in time in which my parents hated him, he was barely in my life at all. He and I had become...
    anonymous1129 anonymous1129 18-21 2 Responses Dec 10

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    Dear, boring one. You're a repeated record Hesitating on opportunities Missing life by staring at blank white walls Pondering on words you wish you said Being left out of the...
    crumbling389 crumbling389 18-21, F Dec 12

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    Firstly, I just want to say how pleased I am I found this site, for the last few years I have been feeling like I must be an extremely messed up person to hate one of my step...
    Shimmergirl Shimmergirl 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Firstly, I just want to say how pleased I am I found this site, for the last few years I have been feeling like I must be an extremely messed up person to hate one of my step...
    Shimmergirl Shimmergirl 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i hate that i feel i have to be rude to people to get them to respect my boundary's, i hate watching someone bully someone else, i hate the smell of egg, i hate it when men pee on...
    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I hate family get togethers, I hate Christmas. I hate thanksgiving, I hate Easter, I hate everything. They are all drama, someone always ends up getting hurt from a fight, I'm...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    This may sound cliche but I hated high school because of a boy.I thought I loved him,but I was completely wrong.It all started my freshman year.He was a sophomore who was second...
    Katherine27 Katherine27 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    I Hate Conflict. Every shape and form. Fist Fights, Marital Quarrels, War, Fights between friends, Physical and Psychological Abuse. I hate it. I've grown up with it, I've seen it...
    SydMB SydMB 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 30

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    I hate myself. I know people don't like me. I hate my gender and my skin colour. I hate that I have issues understanding words when others speak to me. I can't finish projects...
    zvezdnyy zvezdnyy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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