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I Hate Infidelity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 141 People

    Honestly it's a waste of time

    and I can't stand when people **** with my emotions.
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F Jun 7

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    Sometimes They Come Back...

    I posted a story about my husband's affair a while back. We got through it and our marriage is stronger if you can believe that. We had a lot of bumps along the road to get where we are now. Anyways, here's what's going on now. A year after he ended it, she contacted him at work...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Word Turned Upside Down.

    I stumbled on this site quite by accident. I was so heartbroken and distraught over my husband's infedelity. I wanted to know what kind of woman knowingly would have an affair with a married man and that is how I found this site. I read many other woman stories and I am disgusted...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I Am Scarred Forever...

    I hate infidelity. I hate that my former spouse was a victim of infidelity in his previous marriage and that I put him on a pedestal - disbelieving that he could ever commit adultery against me. For years, he became involved with his coworker - despite the rumors and finally...
    digging2graves digging2graves 31-35 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    F This

    It's been 3 months since i experienced the worst thing that could happen in a relationship.  Me and my bf had been together for a year and a half , we live together and not saying our relationship was perfect but it really was amazing we talk about everything , love...
    whymeg whymeg 22-25 Jun 15, 2009

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    I am watching The Bridges of Madison County.

    Though I love Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep but still I am feeling uneasy because I know she is going to do that. Probably because I have been a victim that's why I am feeling uneasy.
    VastCosmos VastCosmos 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    With every fiber of my being,

    I despise people who hurt their significant others by cheating on them. I have witnessed first hand my older sister whom I adore to bits go through a very painful divorce with her first love, the man who serially betrayed her for 10 long years ! To make it worse, the bastard...
    AcousticAnne AcousticAnne 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 7

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    What Am I Doing Today-at This Moment...staying Or Leaving?

    You know I have read soooo many stories of being cheated on here on this site...what is so amazing to me is that whether the victim (and i say that very lightly...you are only a victim if u allow urself to continue to be victimized) is male or female..black, white or yellow..it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    Claddagh Ring

    I don't remember what year it was, whether he was sleeping with his business associate (the affair he hasn't admitted) or with his employee (the affair he "ended"), but my cheating husband gave me a Claddagh Ring. It's lovely green agate in 9 K gold and not overly expensive, but...
    extremeregrets extremeregrets 51-55, F Aug 29, 2012

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    I Love Me...

    Coming to think of it, every relationship i have treasured has ended in heartbreak, pain and lots of tears. I remember how at some point my ex and i were so close, doing everything together, the spontaneity, the fun, the adventure, 22 months into our relationship things started...
    AutumnRed AutumnRed 31-35 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Ok, He Is Not Happy With Me But...

    What makes him think that I am stupid? I don't know him anymore, he is a dishonest person.   Yesterday, while we were at bar with our friends, you know, having a good time,  he was texting her, YES TEXTING HER!!! I was at his side!!! Wearing my...
    sunshine25 sunshine25 26-30 May 1, 2010

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    How Being Cheated On Affected My Life

    When I was 17, I met an older man. I fell hopelessly in love and moved in with his two days after my 18th birthday. I worshipped the ground he walked on. In my eyes he could do no wrong. I loved him with all my heart and then some. In the first year we lived together, I went...
    karmeliet karmeliet 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Facebook Really Does Ruin Lives

    My husband had a month long affair with a slutty girl from facebook. He didn't even know her and she requested to be his friend, made up a story about how she was an HR recruiter that could help him get a job (she didn't even have a job), and then started coming on to him. I...
    missessadness missessadness 26-30 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    It Still Hurts...

    The winds of infidelity are blowing in the media circus... and infidelity again makes another attack on my battered and scarred heart. I feel so sad for Elin Nordegrun. My heart goes out to her. I would have thought that I'd be further along on the road...
    broleon broleon 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    What Do I Do?

    Hi i am in need of some advice see i really love my wife of 2 years she has alwaise ben honest and true too me layely she has ben off she is not in a good place she was in a mental institution last week since she has ben out on meds she has ben worse this sunday she whent looking...
    tommyloveskelly tommyloveskelly 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    How Long Does the Ache Last?

    Why am I still thinking about my husband's one night stand daily after it's been 8 years?  I don't feel like myself - sabotage myself, I think.  What's wrong with me? He was devastated that he did it, I was devastated.  We are still married. He gives me no reason...
    ruby098 ruby098 31-35 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    I Love Him

    I love him with all my heart i think of him and pray for him  I cannot believe he is doing this to me . Treating me like a nuisance , ignoring me , lying to me  I would spend the rest of my life with him but would it mean a thing to him ? would i...
    passionkilledme passionkilledme 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    Devastation

    Over the last few years so many of my friends have discovered an infidelity in their marriage. Each time I've been shocked and stunned, their marriages and relationships had seemed so stable and secure. Each time it has devastated their lives and their childrens lives. All of...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 2 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Well...

    It hurts. It sucks. It rarely works out for the best. Please think it through first...please?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29, 2011

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 5 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Brings Bad Energy

    I have been the unfaithful one in a relationship and have had someone be unfaithful to me. It's just bad from both sides. I should have ended the relationship when I did cheat, but I was too selfish. Well I am not really sure what the reasons were, why I did cheat...
    notinthemood notinthemood 22-25, F Dec 29, 2009

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    Love

    When there is Love, there is no Question.
    LuvvThySelf LuvvThySelf 22-25, F Apr 18, 2013

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    Pivoting From The Pain Of Infidelity

    My husband's infidelity 4 years ago was characterized by me as an affair, and by him as 'his new life'. I found a support group, and got busy with how to deal, feel and heal through this mess. Part of what I have taken away from this is that people need support, resources and...
    WayfarerIHG WayfarerIHG 70+ Dec 17, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    It absolutely disgusts me to see how many people on here talk about cheating on their spouse. Not only does it disgust me though, it depresses me greatly. No wonder people are so...
    GoddessThemis GoddessThemis 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 6

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    Another one of my high school horror stories. So, for drama class we had to go to the school hall and move and carry things. The teacher wasn't there. I can't really remember much...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 14 hrs ago

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    So another occasion. For a high school requirement, everyone had to deliver notes to classes sometimes. I had it happen twice. I feared it so much. I knew how much I was hated, I...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 13 hrs ago

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    Mainly hate the horrible overplayed music, which is always about SANTA. A fella that doesn't even exist. Who took the place of Jesus, who is what Christmas is all about Anagram of...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I thought I was the only one who could genuinely hate their mom but glad to know im not the only one. I don't call her that anymore she's just Laurie. She was married to my dad...
    kwhite0718 kwhite0718 26-30, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I never hated high school. I mean yeah waking up early isn't fun but that's life. I hated the students there. Just a bunch of idiots which a bunch will end up dropping out. And the...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 11 hrs ago

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    i hate my father so much and i've hated him since i can remember myself
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    I hate her. Not dislike. Hate. Shes 9 and her mother must have M√ľnchausen. Anyway we pay a lot in support but also a lot for insurance. We get the left over bills for all the...
    Juliereneej Juliereneej 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Who likes pimples though? My pimples annoy me so bad!! I'll get them in such hard to pop places! I had one inside like my nose and it was so painful! Then I got like two right on...
    XxDorkyBoyxX XxDorkyBoyxX 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    i'm tired of letting depression get to me. i still have no friends or anything i just hate it!!! if i had real friends then i know i wouldnt be dealing with this but everyone has...
    rhondafelicity rhondafelicity 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Often i have always thought the world to be a wonderful place...the same cant be said about people living in it.... racism doesn't seem to just die with age....racism critiques...
    LAFLOR LAFLOR 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    My mom smokes, and I live with her so I can take care of her. She had a stroke in 1998, mainly due to her smoking. I can't stand the smell of cigarettes- especially her's. They...
    psychologicallydamaged psychologicallydamaged 41-45, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I hate January and not overly fond of October. I know it sounds crazy, but they are the two toughest months of the year to get through. I just want to climb in bed and stay there...
    cocanola cocanola 41-45, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I hate fake people cuz they lie about stuff and can usually get away with it. Why be fake? Being yourself may suck but at least you won't get into a mess when asked about something...
    roxrockman roxrockman 26-30, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Hate them. Being naked most of the time anyway, it's just one more piece of material I have to put on to leave the house. No thanks.
    jenna6978 jenna6978 18-21, F 8 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I hate being a black female. Why because white guys and men dislike black girls. The only reason they would date them is for the sexxxx. Which is wrong but it's true...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I hate living in the south, I am a northerner and proud of it!
    stephaniegardner stephaniegardner 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    One reason I hate being me is I feel I am not smart enough. I can't pass algebra 1 and I can't do college classes. Supposedly when I was little it was found I have a low adverage...
    wassup305 wassup305 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm 16, and have been living with my mother and my boyfriend and his dad for about a year and a half now.But, for the most part, just know I'm safe and okay besides all this. My...
    Tarahkins Tarahkins 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I hate my family. At first I thought it was because of our misunderstandings and fights but as time passed I knew that I really hate my family. I hate my mom for being so...
    Dardar113 Dardar113 13-15 Nov 2

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    I hate him. I hate how he treated us like we're stupid, how he didn't believe in us, how he'll blatantly tell everyone his problems about us even when we're right there. I hate how...
    bhabhablacksheep bhabhablacksheep 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    I am a girl; I am 16 years old. My sister is 18. This long story is mostly about us two. Therefore, please read this carefully and help me get out of this living hell!:( I hate my...
    Miserabelle Miserabelle 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I have a lot of dysphoria. I have hated myself for years, and sometimes, I think I'm getting better, but I still hate myself. I hate my body. I hate my body. I want to be a boy. I...
    savakora savakora 16-17 Nov 5

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    Intolerance, bigotry and racism are all signs of low intelligence and this entire thread is nothing more than a festival of hate. As an educated white Australian from a privileged...
    EmperorJulian EmperorJulian 46-50, M 5 Responses Nov 9

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