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I Hate Infidelity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 152 People

    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 5 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Devastation

    Over the last few years so many of my friends have discovered an infidelity in their marriage. Each time I've been shocked and stunned, their marriages and relationships had seemed so stable and secure. Each time it has devastated their lives and their childrens lives. All of...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    Claddagh Ring

    I don't remember what year it was, whether he was sleeping with his business associate (the affair he hasn't admitted) or with his employee (the affair he "ended"), but my cheating husband gave me a Claddagh Ring. It's lovely green agate in 9 K gold and not overly expensive, but...
    extremeregrets extremeregrets 51-55, F Aug 29, 2012

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    What Am I Doing Today-at This Moment...staying Or Leaving?

    You know I have read soooo many stories of being cheated on here on this site...what is so amazing to me is that whether the victim (and i say that very lightly...you are only a victim if u allow urself to continue to be victimized) is male or female..black, white or yellow..it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    Word Turned Upside Down.

    I stumbled on this site quite by accident. I was so heartbroken and distraught over my husband's infedelity. I wanted to know what kind of woman knowingly would have an affair with a married man and that is how I found this site. I read many other woman stories and I am disgusted...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    It Still Hurts...

    The winds of infidelity are blowing in the media circus... and infidelity again makes another attack on my battered and scarred heart. I feel so sad for Elin Nordegrun. My heart goes out to her. I would have thought that I'd be further along on the road...
    broleon broleon 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    But I slept with a married man.

    Save the lectures. He made me squirt. Ive never squirted. Im not about to start boiling bunnies but I cant stop thinking about that night. I refuse to do it again.
    ireallylovetacos ireallylovetacos 26-30, F Jul 16

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    Facebook Really Does Ruin Lives

    My husband had a month long affair with a slutty girl from facebook. He didn't even know her and she requested to be his friend, made up a story about how she was an HR recruiter that could help him get a job (she didn't even have a job), and then started coming on to him. I...
    missessadness missessadness 26-30 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    I am watching The Bridges of Madison County.

    Though I love Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep but still I am feeling uneasy because I know she is going to do that. Probably because I have been a victim that's why I am feeling uneasy.
    VastCosmos VastCosmos 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    Honestly it's a waste of time

    and I can't stand when people **** with my emotions.
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F Jun 7, 2014

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    What Do I Do?

    Hi i am in need of some advice see i really love my wife of 2 years she has alwaise ben honest and true too me layely she has ben off she is not in a good place she was in a mental institution last week since she has ben out on meds she has ben worse this sunday she whent looking...
    tommyloveskelly tommyloveskelly 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    I Am Scarred Forever...

    I hate infidelity. I hate that my former spouse was a victim of infidelity in his previous marriage and that I put him on a pedestal - disbelieving that he could ever commit adultery against me. For years, he became involved with his coworker - despite the rumors and finally...
    digging2graves digging2graves 31-35 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    I Love Him

    I love him with all my heart i think of him and pray for him  I cannot believe he is doing this to me . Treating me like a nuisance , ignoring me , lying to me  I would spend the rest of my life with him but would it mean a thing to him ? would i...
    passionkilledme passionkilledme 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    Sometimes They Come Back...

    I posted a story about my husband's affair a while back. We got through it and our marriage is stronger if you can believe that. We had a lot of bumps along the road to get where we are now. Anyways, here's what's going on now. A year after he ended it, she contacted him at work...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Ok, He Is Not Happy With Me But...

    What makes him think that I am stupid? I don't know him anymore, he is a dishonest person.   Yesterday, while we were at bar with our friends, you know, having a good time,  he was texting her, YES TEXTING HER!!! I was at his side!!! Wearing my...
    sunshine25 sunshine25 26-30 1 Response May 1, 2010

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    From Victim To Survivor...

    I've been with my husband for 18 years, we have 4 beautiful children. He has cheated on me with 3 different women... First was 6 years ago with his best friends wife after he suddenly passed in a horrible work accident. They were partners. He slept with the widow twice and...
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    I Love Me...

    Coming to think of it, every relationship i have treasured has ended in heartbreak, pain and lots of tears. I remember how at some point my ex and i were so close, doing everything together, the spontaneity, the fun, the adventure, 22 months into our relationship things started...
    AutumnRed AutumnRed 31-35 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Love

    When there is Love, there is no Question.
    LuvvThySelf LuvvThySelf 26-30, F Apr 18, 2013

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    F This

    It's been 3 months since i experienced the worst thing that could happen in a relationship.  Me and my bf had been together for a year and a half , we live together and not saying our relationship was perfect but it really was amazing we talk about everything , love...
    whymeg whymeg 22-25 Jun 15, 2009

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    How Long Does the Ache Last?

    Why am I still thinking about my husband's one night stand daily after it's been 8 years?  I don't feel like myself - sabotage myself, I think.  What's wrong with me? He was devastated that he did it, I was devastated.  We are still married. He gives me no reason...
    ruby098 ruby098 31-35 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 2 Responses May 11, 2010

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    How Being Cheated On Affected My Life

    When I was 17, I met an older man. I fell hopelessly in love and moved in with his two days after my 18th birthday. I worshipped the ground he walked on. In my eyes he could do no wrong. I loved him with all my heart and then some. In the first year we lived together, I went...
    karmeliet karmeliet 22-25, F Sep 16, 2013

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    Brings Bad Energy

    I have been the unfaithful one in a relationship and have had someone be unfaithful to me. It's just bad from both sides. I should have ended the relationship when I did cheat, but I was too selfish. Well I am not really sure what the reasons were, why I did cheat...
    notinthemood notinthemood 22-25, F Dec 29, 2009

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    Well...

    It hurts. It sucks. It rarely works out for the best. Please think it through first...please?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29, 2011

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    Pivoting From The Pain Of Infidelity

    My husband's infidelity 4 years ago was characterized by me as an affair, and by him as 'his new life'. I found a support group, and got busy with how to deal, feel and heal through this mess. Part of what I have taken away from this is that people need support, resources and...
    WayfarerIHG WayfarerIHG 66-70 Dec 17, 2012

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    i hate the fact she probably needs a tender hug right now and im at the opposite end of the country , feel helpless at times like this
    rockitt66 rockitt66 46-50, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    What I hate more than kids are the breeder parents who only call you to see If you can babysit for unimportant events. If you can't stand having your germ packed filth around every...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    I hate when I'm trying to post something in another group and people ask u the dumbest questions that don't even pertain to anything on your experience list or are just extremely...
    stevo66669 stevo66669 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    So I get to babysit 5 kids.... forced into it, and I get no money for it because they are my boyfriend's sisters kids. One of these kids Is a constant liar while the others are...
    GoldenHeart69 GoldenHeart69 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    My country is great besides the majority being Catholic. But I hate that some folks justify bad behavior Just because It's a cop medical staff parent or any Authority figure.
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I really hate it when people are racist I mean what has the colour of your skin got to do with their personality, I have never got it I have loads of black and white friends they...
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I recently graduated from a prestigious college a year and a half younger than all of my classmates. I've never done anything "terrible" as my parents' child--never gotten arrested...
    Simplicity11 Simplicity11 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I literally hate myself so much. I wish I wasn't even alive anymore. And I am starting to think that suicide is the answer. I mean, what's stopping me? Nothing Yeah, I have my...
    wildfright wildfright 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I don't like to use the word hate often but if I am being honest...I hate myself. I've always hated myself since I was a child. This feeling has gotten to such a low point where I...
    rcmh171822 rcmh171822 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I'm an idiot after more than a year of arguing I'm pregnant and we're not together and he'll text me out of the blue I miss you. we start talking and its right back to the same...
    reynanv reynanv 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    What happened to the other I hate fatties group? I can't see it no more Obviously its okay to have a negative oppinion about everything accept nagging bloated folks who did it to...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    My mother is so irritating!!! I can't stand being around her for very long. It seems like most things about her personality makes me roll my eyes. As a child I used to think she...
    lovehate25 lovehate25 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I've seen way too much hate and bullying than what is acceptable. It's sickening. People are suffering because of it. I know I am. I'm in pain from what others say to me, as well...
    JSylvia1015 JSylvia1015 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    Pardon the shade about to be thrown, but I hate it when people write about how their life is SOOO hard. We get it, you have depression and currently hate yourself. Believe me when...
    vraag vraag 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    Your second experience is "you hate EP perverts", however your top experience is "you are always Horny? I don't even know where to begin really with this.
    JadedLass JadedLass 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    People think they hurt my feelings because they hate me so much. Frankly I don't give a ****. Listen mates not everyone wants friends that bad they bloody beg for you friendship...
    Omegawolf11 Omegawolf11 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I hate getting dressed every morning cause I hate putting on clothes. I wait till the last second to put them on the I take them off the first thing when I get home.
    Nakedtoday Nakedtoday 26-30, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Hi I realize this is a type of phenomenon.... to not like kids from a previous relationship. It s like the evil stepmother fable. You normally like kids but these ones bring out...
    orianaprincess orianaprincess 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    Backstory; these two 14 year olds have always hated me. Calling me words that start with 's' that I can't say on here, and telling me to kill myself all the time. All cause I stuck...
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh 16-17, T 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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