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I Hate Infidelity

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    Well...

    It hurts. It sucks. It rarely works out for the best. Please think it through first...please?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29, 2011

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 2 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Pivoting From The Pain Of Infidelity

    My husband's infidelity 4 years ago was characterized by me as an affair, and by him as 'his new life'. I found a support group, and got busy with how to deal, feel and heal through this mess. Part of what I have taken away from this is that people need support, resources and...
    WayfarerIHG WayfarerIHG 66-70 Dec 17, 2012

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    Sometimes They Come Back...

    I posted a story about my husband's affair a while back. We got through it and our marriage is stronger if you can believe that. We had a lot of bumps along the road to get where we are now. Anyways, here's what's going on now. A year after he ended it, she contacted him at work...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    How Being Cheated On Affected My Life

    When I was 17, I met an older man. I fell hopelessly in love and moved in with his two days after my 18th birthday. I worshipped the ground he walked on. In my eyes he could do no wrong. I loved him with all my heart and then some. In the first year we lived together, I went...
    karmeliet karmeliet 22-25, F Sep 16, 2013

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    It Still Hurts...

    The winds of infidelity are blowing in the media circus... and infidelity again makes another attack on my battered and scarred heart. I feel so sad for Elin Nordegrun. My heart goes out to her. I would have thought that I'd be further along on the road...
    broleon broleon 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Honestly it's a waste of time

    and I can't stand when people **** with my emotions.
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F Jun 7, 2014

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    From Victim To Survivor...

    I've been with my husband for 18 years, we have 4 beautiful children. He has cheated on me with 3 different women... First was 6 years ago with his best friends wife after he suddenly passed in a horrible work accident. They were partners. He slept with the widow twice and...
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Word Turned Upside Down.

    I stumbled on this site quite by accident. I was so heartbroken and distraught over my husband's infedelity. I wanted to know what kind of woman knowingly would have an affair with a married man and that is how I found this site. I read many other woman stories and I am disgusted...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I Love Me...

    Coming to think of it, every relationship i have treasured has ended in heartbreak, pain and lots of tears. I remember how at some point my ex and i were so close, doing everything together, the spontaneity, the fun, the adventure, 22 months into our relationship things started...
    AutumnRed AutumnRed 31-35 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Love

    When there is Love, there is no Question.
    LuvvThySelf LuvvThySelf 26-30, F Apr 18, 2013

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    What Am I Doing Today-at This Moment...staying Or Leaving?

    You know I have read soooo many stories of being cheated on here on this site...what is so amazing to me is that whether the victim (and i say that very lightly...you are only a victim if u allow urself to continue to be victimized) is male or female..black, white or yellow..it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    Ok, He Is Not Happy With Me But...

    What makes him think that I am stupid? I don't know him anymore, he is a dishonest person.   Yesterday, while we were at bar with our friends, you know, having a good time,  he was texting her, YES TEXTING HER!!! I was at his side!!! Wearing my...
    sunshine25 sunshine25 26-30 1 Response May 1, 2010

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    Devastation

    Over the last few years so many of my friends have discovered an infidelity in their marriage. Each time I've been shocked and stunned, their marriages and relationships had seemed so stable and secure. Each time it has devastated their lives and their childrens lives. All of...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    I am watching The Bridges of Madison County.

    Though I love Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep but still I am feeling uneasy because I know she is going to do that. Probably because I have been a victim that's why I am feeling uneasy.
    VastCosmos VastCosmos 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    What Do I Do?

    Hi i am in need of some advice see i really love my wife of 2 years she has alwaise ben honest and true too me layely she has ben off she is not in a good place she was in a mental institution last week since she has ben out on meds she has ben worse this sunday she whent looking...
    tommyloveskelly tommyloveskelly 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    Facebook Really Does Ruin Lives

    My husband had a month long affair with a slutty girl from facebook. He didn't even know her and she requested to be his friend, made up a story about how she was an HR recruiter that could help him get a job (she didn't even have a job), and then started coming on to him. I...
    missessadness missessadness 26-30 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 5 Responses May 11, 2010

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    How Long Does the Ache Last?

    Why am I still thinking about my husband's one night stand daily after it's been 8 years?  I don't feel like myself - sabotage myself, I think.  What's wrong with me? He was devastated that he did it, I was devastated.  We are still married. He gives me no reason...
    ruby098 ruby098 31-35 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    I Love Him

    I love him with all my heart i think of him and pray for him  I cannot believe he is doing this to me . Treating me like a nuisance , ignoring me , lying to me  I would spend the rest of my life with him but would it mean a thing to him ? would i...
    passionkilledme passionkilledme 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    So, you know how random folks pm you

    and start talking about their problems? Well this one woman(name will not be shared) came outta nowhere and starts talking about the struggle of being the other woman, how it makes her feel and yadda yadda blah. Even went as far to blame the wife for taking dude away. The...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 30, 2015

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    i had always suspected

    that my wife was cheating on me. i hired the services of cyberphonehacker @gmail com and he helped me hack into my my wife's phone, text, whatsapp, call logs and email. it was after he hacked her phone that i realized that my wife wasn't cheating on me. He helped save my...
    WALTER230 WALTER230 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2015

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    Claddagh Ring

    I don't remember what year it was, whether he was sleeping with his business associate (the affair he hasn't admitted) or with his employee (the affair he "ended"), but my cheating husband gave me a Claddagh Ring. It's lovely green agate in 9 K gold and not overly expensive, but...
    extremeregrets extremeregrets 51-55, F Aug 29, 2012

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    Brings Bad Energy

    I have been the unfaithful one in a relationship and have had someone be unfaithful to me. It's just bad from both sides. I should have ended the relationship when I did cheat, but I was too selfish. Well I am not really sure what the reasons were, why I did cheat...
    notinthemood notinthemood 22-25, F Dec 29, 2009

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    I Am Scarred Forever...

    I hate infidelity. I hate that my former spouse was a victim of infidelity in his previous marriage and that I put him on a pedestal - disbelieving that he could ever commit adultery against me. For years, he became involved with his coworker - despite the rumors and finally...
    digging2graves digging2graves 31-35 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    F This

    It's been 3 months since i experienced the worst thing that could happen in a relationship.  Me and my bf had been together for a year and a half , we live together and not saying our relationship was perfect but it really was amazing we talk about everything , love...
    whymeg whymeg 22-25 Jun 15, 2009

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    because I don't have a gf/bf/partner. if I have one, I won't hate at all lol
    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 1 hr ago

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    Well the story begins when he accused me that i'm cheating on him.. He yelled at me, he said mean thing to me and didn't even let me explain if i'm really cheating or not.. Then...
    Samkd Samkd 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I have been a nurse about a year and a half. And i absolutely hate it. I hated it from the beginning. I knew it wasn't for me since i started working. But i decided to stick out...
    kpatel30 kpatel30 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I loathe myself. I am so miserable. I hate going anyway with my partner he's 31 I'm 23. Woman look at him he looks at them in constantly hideous and invisible. I used to jog I got...
    Ufront1 Ufront1 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    For those who hate Florida so much. It's 16 degrees in Youngstown Ohio as I'm typing this. It's 61 in Lakeland Florida. Doesn't seem that bad now does it? If you never felt 16...
    Floridabound2016 Floridabound2016 41-45, M 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I hate when people lie about rape, domestic violence, and any other form of abuse. I hate seeing someone manipulate the masses.
    chloegoldmine chloegoldmine 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I just hate this day as in. Ugh!
    mabuhayka mabuhayka 31-35, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I hate society and his world, I wish death wasn't the only way out.....maybe I could move to the country away from everyone and have a farm
    Isaokomori22 Isaokomori22 18-21, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I really hate valentines day...not because I don't have anyone to celebrate with
    41la 41la 31-35, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I hate morons who think they are smart and sassy, especially ones on Craigslist who email you trying to be just that all because they misread your post. Someone freaked out on me...
    GoldenHeart69 GoldenHeart69 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I hate my parents because they are always up my *** 24/7. I am turning 16 years old and i feel like they should give me some space. I know i'm a good child, i have good grades, i'm...
    Ihatemylifeforever Ihatemylifeforever 70+ 13 hrs ago

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    I hate my life and myself so much. I'm so ugly and chubby and nobody likes me I'm basically nothing. I get rejected by the lowest of the low. I don't even know why I'm still alive
    katiebuggg katiebuggg 16-17, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I really hate my sister! It's a feeling I can't describe. Whenever she's around I feel like I'm being compared to her. She criticizes my weight and the things I do. I admit I'm...
    oOMissSteriousOo oOMissSteriousOo 16-17, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I do, and I've always felt kind of ...off. Because it's so easy for me to find the beauty and good in other people, even in the worst kind of people, but I can't seem to be content...
    chickenstrips chickenstrips 18-21, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Since I was 7, I'd go to my cousin's house every day after school. Let's just say I wasn't very smart or was sure what I was even doing. I hated their house, I hated waiting there...
    allnamesrtakenx allnamesrtakenx 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wish I had taken the advice from the few ones who informed me that my mother didn't like me and she would destroy every thing for ..I'm 36 today and the last four years I had...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate the White racist owner of grow 40 and I hope karma get the best of him soon ..coz I'm extremely unhappy with how this white racist treated me and referring me as North...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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