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I Hate Infidelity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 142 People

    Well...

    It hurts. It sucks. It rarely works out for the best. Please think it through first...please?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29, 2011

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    Ok, He Is Not Happy With Me But...

    What makes him think that I am stupid? I don't know him anymore, he is a dishonest person.   Yesterday, while we were at bar with our friends, you know, having a good time,  he was texting her, YES TEXTING HER!!! I was at his side!!! Wearing my...
    sunshine25 sunshine25 26-30 1 Response May 1, 2010

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    I Love Him

    I love him with all my heart i think of him and pray for him  I cannot believe he is doing this to me . Treating me like a nuisance , ignoring me , lying to me  I would spend the rest of my life with him but would it mean a thing to him ? would i...
    passionkilledme passionkilledme 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    Sometimes They Come Back...

    I posted a story about my husband's affair a while back. We got through it and our marriage is stronger if you can believe that. We had a lot of bumps along the road to get where we are now. Anyways, here's what's going on now. A year after he ended it, she contacted him at work...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Facebook Really Does Ruin Lives

    My husband had a month long affair with a slutty girl from facebook. He didn't even know her and she requested to be his friend, made up a story about how she was an HR recruiter that could help him get a job (she didn't even have a job), and then started coming on to him. I...
    missessadness missessadness 26-30 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    Brings Bad Energy

    I have been the unfaithful one in a relationship and have had someone be unfaithful to me. It's just bad from both sides. I should have ended the relationship when I did cheat, but I was too selfish. Well I am not really sure what the reasons were, why I did cheat...
    notinthemood notinthemood 22-25, F Dec 29, 2009

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    How Being Cheated On Affected My Life

    When I was 17, I met an older man. I fell hopelessly in love and moved in with his two days after my 18th birthday. I worshipped the ground he walked on. In my eyes he could do no wrong. I loved him with all my heart and then some. In the first year we lived together, I went...
    karmeliet karmeliet 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 2 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Honestly it's a waste of time

    and I can't stand when people **** with my emotions.
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F Jun 7, 2014

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    What Am I Doing Today-at This Moment...staying Or Leaving?

    You know I have read soooo many stories of being cheated on here on this site...what is so amazing to me is that whether the victim (and i say that very lightly...you are only a victim if u allow urself to continue to be victimized) is male or female..black, white or yellow..it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    I Love Me...

    Coming to think of it, every relationship i have treasured has ended in heartbreak, pain and lots of tears. I remember how at some point my ex and i were so close, doing everything together, the spontaneity, the fun, the adventure, 22 months into our relationship things started...
    AutumnRed AutumnRed 31-35 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Love

    When there is Love, there is no Question.
    LuvvThySelf LuvvThySelf 26-30, F Apr 18, 2013

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    How Long Does the Ache Last?

    Why am I still thinking about my husband's one night stand daily after it's been 8 years?  I don't feel like myself - sabotage myself, I think.  What's wrong with me? He was devastated that he did it, I was devastated.  We are still married. He gives me no reason...
    ruby098 ruby098 31-35 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    It Still Hurts...

    The winds of infidelity are blowing in the media circus... and infidelity again makes another attack on my battered and scarred heart. I feel so sad for Elin Nordegrun. My heart goes out to her. I would have thought that I'd be further along on the road...
    broleon broleon 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    I am watching The Bridges of Madison County.

    Though I love Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep but still I am feeling uneasy because I know she is going to do that. Probably because I have been a victim that's why I am feeling uneasy.
    VastCosmos VastCosmos 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    Devastation

    Over the last few years so many of my friends have discovered an infidelity in their marriage. Each time I've been shocked and stunned, their marriages and relationships had seemed so stable and secure. Each time it has devastated their lives and their childrens lives. All of...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    Claddagh Ring

    I don't remember what year it was, whether he was sleeping with his business associate (the affair he hasn't admitted) or with his employee (the affair he "ended"), but my cheating husband gave me a Claddagh Ring. It's lovely green agate in 9 K gold and not overly expensive, but...
    extremeregrets extremeregrets 51-55, F Aug 29, 2012

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    Word Turned Upside Down.

    I stumbled on this site quite by accident. I was so heartbroken and distraught over my husband's infedelity. I wanted to know what kind of woman knowingly would have an affair with a married man and that is how I found this site. I read many other woman stories and I am disgusted...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 5 Responses May 11, 2010

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    I Am Scarred Forever...

    I hate infidelity. I hate that my former spouse was a victim of infidelity in his previous marriage and that I put him on a pedestal - disbelieving that he could ever commit adultery against me. For years, he became involved with his coworker - despite the rumors and finally...
    digging2graves digging2graves 31-35 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    Pivoting From The Pain Of Infidelity

    My husband's infidelity 4 years ago was characterized by me as an affair, and by him as 'his new life'. I found a support group, and got busy with how to deal, feel and heal through this mess. Part of what I have taken away from this is that people need support, resources and...
    WayfarerIHG WayfarerIHG 70+ Dec 17, 2012

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    What Do I Do?

    Hi i am in need of some advice see i really love my wife of 2 years she has alwaise ben honest and true too me layely she has ben off she is not in a good place she was in a mental institution last week since she has ben out on meds she has ben worse this sunday she whent looking...
    tommyloveskelly tommyloveskelly 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    F This

    It's been 3 months since i experienced the worst thing that could happen in a relationship.  Me and my bf had been together for a year and a half , we live together and not saying our relationship was perfect but it really was amazing we talk about everything , love...
    whymeg whymeg 22-25 Jun 15, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I found this on the Internet and wanted to share it because it is helpful. 1. Affairs are an escape from the realities of the world. 2. Affairs are not a rejection of the spouse...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    The idea behind getting married is to devote yourself to one person. If you don't want that then don't get married. If you can't do it anymore then get a divorce. Don't go sneaking...
    Sapphire89 Sapphire89 22-25 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    For members of this unique little group , what aspects of infidelity arouse you??
    LJformarriedwomen LJformarriedwomen 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    What the hell. Who would say this. This makes me angry because you can't hate on and entire race just because you want to. I don't hate certain races. I hate certain people. What...
    MEGH0119 MEGH0119 13-15, F 6 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My mom has always asked me why do I hate school so much? well I wish I could be honest but sadly my mother doesn't seem to comprehend anything I say. It's not because she's...
    bunnypop bunnypop 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    What's ******* happened? I'm pretty sure not too long ago being skinny was accepted as a form of beautiful, and I lost a lot of weight to conform to this view. I'm now being...
    BluenetteDiviner BluenetteDiviner 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I hate my body. No, I'm not overweight. I still hate my body. I used to be severely underweight for no reason whatsoever; just was. The boys and girls at school would tease me...
    Missgraycey Missgraycey 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    Its soon gonna be my birthday and all i want is to disappear i dont want to feel this way any more i just don't feel like talking anymore because i either say the wrong **** or...
    Millerbabe17 Millerbabe17 16-17, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I hate my father he divorced my mom didn't want me told my mom to abort me as in abortion never gave me a single birthday card presents basically told the whole family I wasn't...
    RichMartin71 RichMartin71 41-45, M 9 hrs ago

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    this is recent when i got the chance to communicate with my elementary classmate and now we are in college. i don't know what got me but i like to have him!!! hahaha , you know...
    ritztwain ritztwain 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    My first one is fine. I just think it sounds a bit childish (Hari), but my other name is just 'Myu' a mix between meow and moo. I hate it so much, I only let certain people say it...
    AlDhari AlDhari 18-21, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am pretty sure he's just using me, because everytime I tell him to leave during an arguement, the only thing he can come back with is "No, my parents won't let me live it down...
    BluenetteDiviner BluenetteDiviner 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I hate when some random stranger judges me.. I only need friendship and nothing more than that.. I have a bf and I love him too much.. if you wana cheat your gf/wife then I'm not...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Crashing from another high today. I was finally happy yesterday, on top of the world, totally carefree. I went to my captain's dinner for swim with a genuine smile on my face. I...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 5 hrs ago

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    HY I M 25 years old woman and i just lost every hope in this life i think about killing my self a lot so i ll tell my story maby i ll find some hepl from you guys when i was 20 i...
    karizsiad karizsiad 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    I hate this whole thing about how men aren't allowed to be sensitive and emotional. Why is that just supposed to be a girl thing? Is this a way to show that girls are weaker than...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    The girls at my school have a tendency to shout "RAPE! RAPE! RAPE!" when people have their possessions such as their phones, or when things aren't going their way- even if someone...
    Missgraycey Missgraycey 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I can be the biggest drama queen if it comes to certain situations, and yet i hate watching dramatic things...
    hellohowlow hellohowlow 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I hated how I say to people that Im proud of myself and I loved it. I hated how **** I am. I hated how I can be so confident. I hated how I interact with others. I hated how I feel...
    shishishosho97 shishishosho97 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I hate being strong when I know I'm weak...but I act that way so ppl don't look at me with pity I hate being beautiful when I feel ugly, i put on makeup and dress to impress, but...
    boxgirl1987 boxgirl1987 26-30, F Jan 4

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    Yes I hate my self it's sad to say, but I truly do! All my life I've let people down, I've never been good enough, everyone is always looking for a way to fix me or what to do with...
    br00klynn br00klynn 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I had lived in the uk since I was 13 and sadly I have been very unlucky and I had encountered lots of racial abuse and hatred I feel that 99% of white people and especially...
    newyear15 newyear15 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 14

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    I hate you if you have a vagina, I hate you if you have a penis, I hate you if you are religious, I hate you if you're not religious, I hate you if you're black, white, asian, a...
    gumtreejuice gumtreejuice 18-21 1 Response Jan 20

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    Well technically I hate having a male body as there's really nothing male about me other than, I love women. Where do I start with why I hate being male? 1) I hate being with...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jan 3

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    I hate - hate hate hate - I can't stress to you enough about how much I just hate his father. I have pure hatred for that person. I don't even say "man" - because he is not a man...