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I Hate Infidelity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 142 People

    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 2 Responses May 11, 2010

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    It Still Hurts...

    The winds of infidelity are blowing in the media circus... and infidelity again makes another attack on my battered and scarred heart. I feel so sad for Elin Nordegrun. My heart goes out to her. I would have thought that I'd be further along on the road...
    broleon broleon 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Love

    When there is Love, there is no Question.
    LuvvThySelf LuvvThySelf 26-30, F Apr 18, 2013

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    Devastation

    Over the last few years so many of my friends have discovered an infidelity in their marriage. Each time I've been shocked and stunned, their marriages and relationships had seemed so stable and secure. Each time it has devastated their lives and their childrens lives. All of...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    I am watching The Bridges of Madison County.

    Though I love Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep but still I am feeling uneasy because I know she is going to do that. Probably because I have been a victim that's why I am feeling uneasy.
    VastCosmos VastCosmos 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    Sometimes They Come Back...

    I posted a story about my husband's affair a while back. We got through it and our marriage is stronger if you can believe that. We had a lot of bumps along the road to get where we are now. Anyways, here's what's going on now. A year after he ended it, she contacted him at work...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Facebook Really Does Ruin Lives

    My husband had a month long affair with a slutty girl from facebook. He didn't even know her and she requested to be his friend, made up a story about how she was an HR recruiter that could help him get a job (she didn't even have a job), and then started coming on to him. I...
    missessadness missessadness 26-30 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    How Long Does the Ache Last?

    Why am I still thinking about my husband's one night stand daily after it's been 8 years?  I don't feel like myself - sabotage myself, I think.  What's wrong with me? He was devastated that he did it, I was devastated.  We are still married. He gives me no reason...
    ruby098 ruby098 31-35 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    I Love Me...

    Coming to think of it, every relationship i have treasured has ended in heartbreak, pain and lots of tears. I remember how at some point my ex and i were so close, doing everything together, the spontaneity, the fun, the adventure, 22 months into our relationship things started...
    AutumnRed AutumnRed 31-35 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    F This

    It's been 3 months since i experienced the worst thing that could happen in a relationship.  Me and my bf had been together for a year and a half , we live together and not saying our relationship was perfect but it really was amazing we talk about everything , love...
    whymeg whymeg 22-25 Jun 15, 2009

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    Claddagh Ring

    I don't remember what year it was, whether he was sleeping with his business associate (the affair he hasn't admitted) or with his employee (the affair he "ended"), but my cheating husband gave me a Claddagh Ring. It's lovely green agate in 9 K gold and not overly expensive, but...
    extremeregrets extremeregrets 51-55, F Aug 29, 2012

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    Brings Bad Energy

    I have been the unfaithful one in a relationship and have had someone be unfaithful to me. It's just bad from both sides. I should have ended the relationship when I did cheat, but I was too selfish. Well I am not really sure what the reasons were, why I did cheat...
    notinthemood notinthemood 22-25, F Dec 29, 2009

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    Honestly it's a waste of time

    and I can't stand when people **** with my emotions.
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F Jun 7, 2014

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    Ok, He Is Not Happy With Me But...

    What makes him think that I am stupid? I don't know him anymore, he is a dishonest person.   Yesterday, while we were at bar with our friends, you know, having a good time,  he was texting her, YES TEXTING HER!!! I was at his side!!! Wearing my...
    sunshine25 sunshine25 26-30 1 Response May 1, 2010

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    How Being Cheated On Affected My Life

    When I was 17, I met an older man. I fell hopelessly in love and moved in with his two days after my 18th birthday. I worshipped the ground he walked on. In my eyes he could do no wrong. I loved him with all my heart and then some. In the first year we lived together, I went...
    karmeliet karmeliet 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Word Turned Upside Down.

    I stumbled on this site quite by accident. I was so heartbroken and distraught over my husband's infedelity. I wanted to know what kind of woman knowingly would have an affair with a married man and that is how I found this site. I read many other woman stories and I am disgusted...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I Am Scarred Forever...

    I hate infidelity. I hate that my former spouse was a victim of infidelity in his previous marriage and that I put him on a pedestal - disbelieving that he could ever commit adultery against me. For years, he became involved with his coworker - despite the rumors and finally...
    digging2graves digging2graves 31-35 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 5 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Pivoting From The Pain Of Infidelity

    My husband's infidelity 4 years ago was characterized by me as an affair, and by him as 'his new life'. I found a support group, and got busy with how to deal, feel and heal through this mess. Part of what I have taken away from this is that people need support, resources and...
    WayfarerIHG WayfarerIHG 70+ Dec 17, 2012

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    Well...

    It hurts. It sucks. It rarely works out for the best. Please think it through first...please?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29, 2011

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    I Love Him

    I love him with all my heart i think of him and pray for him  I cannot believe he is doing this to me . Treating me like a nuisance , ignoring me , lying to me  I would spend the rest of my life with him but would it mean a thing to him ? would i...
    passionkilledme passionkilledme 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    What Do I Do?

    Hi i am in need of some advice see i really love my wife of 2 years she has alwaise ben honest and true too me layely she has ben off she is not in a good place she was in a mental institution last week since she has ben out on meds she has ben worse this sunday she whent looking...
    tommyloveskelly tommyloveskelly 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    What Am I Doing Today-at This Moment...staying Or Leaving?

    You know I have read soooo many stories of being cheated on here on this site...what is so amazing to me is that whether the victim (and i say that very lightly...you are only a victim if u allow urself to continue to be victimized) is male or female..black, white or yellow..it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    my husband loves me still and thats why he decided to tell me honestly that he met someone who he now feels he loves as strongly as he loves me. they didnt get physical yet but he...
    alexiaburton alexiaburton 31-35, F Feb 7

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    Nobody wants to be alone - Crystal Gayle 1985I heard this for the first time a few weeks ago and it really got me depressed. Not because of the words, but the music. I mean...
    BoogiesWoogies BoogiesWoogies 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I really don’t like living, I hate my life and I just don’t feel like if I belong in this world. My family thinks I am dumb and that I will never achieve anything in life. I...
    Miserabelle Miserabelle 16-17, F Feb 13

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    I hate the way I am I hate the way I look I hate that I can't be better I hate that when I try I always fail I hate that my friends hate me I hate being alone when I'm not I hate...
    WhiteRice14 WhiteRice14 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I will count the ways why I hate your religion 1- in my humble and intelligent opinion it perpetuates hate , I and I Hate haters , they are nasty people, why do you hate others ? I...
    missreeedy missreeedy 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    i hate myself i hate my body, my face,my hair i hate how i walk,how i talk i hate looking into mirror i hate how i cant talk to people like a normal person i hate that i see myself...
    yeniC yeniC 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I don't hate myself for the way I look anymore ... I hate myself for the person I am ... I realize how ******* awful I am to everybody!! I'm just so mean to people all the time and...
    suicidalblonde suicidalblonde 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    How can love and hate be so close but yet so far in definition? I would know considering I love the person I hate most. And I now realize that the only reason I hate him is because...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    **** you dad, and you to mom, go DIE IN A FIRE SEE IF I CARE YOU WORTHLESS *************!!!! I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE...
    GayBoyyyy13 GayBoyyyy13 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate everything about my body. My hair used to be long and pretty but I talked myself into getting it cut and my stupid stylist chick made me look like a stupid 8 year old. I'm...
    bmsartwell bmsartwell 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I hate my life so much, I really have been compensating whether or not I should kill myself, but I can never bring myself to it, like it's just thoughts; but seriously Life's...
    Krchan2 Krchan2 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I hate my family..... I think they hate Me too..... I hate my brother... I hate when they be unjust(unfair) .... I hate when my mother say i don't Love him because of my brother...
    xboomx xboomx 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 17

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    I've never been happy with my body and probably never will me. Honestly, my eyes are the only things I like about my entire body. I hate my hair, so I dye it once a year. I hate my...
    Vivrexlxamourxrire Vivrexlxamourxrire 22-25 Feb 18

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    I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you!!! you make me want to ****** out my uterus!!!! I hate you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    badazzbasicbich badazzbasicbich 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 22

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    I know how mean I sound but she is definitely my least favorite person in the whole world. I hate her more than all of the bullies who have threatened me in my whole life and I...
    Currlye93 Currlye93 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate high school, middle, elementary, and I know I will hate college. High school is such a battle for me, socially and academically. Its one of the main causes of my depression...
    LoveLovingElmer LoveLovingElmer 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Too many lame people on here don't seem to understand what a "Hater" actually is. You call a person a hater when you know they only hate on you out of jealousy. That's pretty much...
    BrandonB11 BrandonB11 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    A LESSON TO ALL THE DUMMIES IN THIS GROUP! > I'm assuming the majority of people in this group are racist ignorant low lives and the rest of you people in this group obviously are...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I hate myself but when I say that I mean I hate everything about me no joke I font like one bit of me. I sit in my room in the dark cuz I'm to afraid to go out in the world and let...
    sexybeast1202 sexybeast1202 13-15, F Feb 10

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    Sometimes I wish I was just an emotionless person. I mean honestly enough is enough of this bullshit. I hate the fact that I can't talk to my gf without her feeling like she's...
    MonsieurKJ MonsieurKJ 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I totally understand how pain - being unloved when you need it desperately - can lead to resentment and outright hatred. I totally get how things even just within yourself - guilt...
    scalner scalner 31-35 5 days ago

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