Post

I Hate Infidelity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 143 People

    What Am I Doing Today-at This Moment...staying Or Leaving?

    You know I have read soooo many stories of being cheated on here on this site...what is so amazing to me is that whether the victim (and i say that very lightly...you are only a victim if u allow urself to continue to be victimized) is male or female..black, white or yellow..it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ok, He Is Not Happy With Me But...

    What makes him think that I am stupid? I don't know him anymore, he is a dishonest person.   Yesterday, while we were at bar with our friends, you know, having a good time,  he was texting her, YES TEXTING HER!!! I was at his side!!! Wearing my...
    sunshine25 sunshine25 26-30 May 1, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 5 Responses May 11, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Pivoting From The Pain Of Infidelity

    My husband's infidelity 4 years ago was characterized by me as an affair, and by him as 'his new life'. I found a support group, and got busy with how to deal, feel and heal through this mess. Part of what I have taken away from this is that people need support, resources and...
    WayfarerIHG WayfarerIHG 70+ Dec 17, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Claddagh Ring

    I don't remember what year it was, whether he was sleeping with his business associate (the affair he hasn't admitted) or with his employee (the affair he "ended"), but my cheating husband gave me a Claddagh Ring. It's lovely green agate in 9 K gold and not overly expensive, but...
    extremeregrets extremeregrets 51-55, F Aug 29, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Love

    When there is Love, there is no Question.
    LuvvThySelf LuvvThySelf 22-25, F Apr 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Devastation

    Over the last few years so many of my friends have discovered an infidelity in their marriage. Each time I've been shocked and stunned, their marriages and relationships had seemed so stable and secure. Each time it has devastated their lives and their childrens lives. All of...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    From Victim To Survivor...

    I've been with my husband for 18 years, we have 4 beautiful children. He has cheated on me with 3 different women... First was 6 years ago with his best friends wife after he suddenly passed in a horrible work accident. They were partners. He slept with the widow twice and...
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Still Hurts...

    The winds of infidelity are blowing in the media circus... and infidelity again makes another attack on my battered and scarred heart. I feel so sad for Elin Nordegrun. My heart goes out to her. I would have thought that I'd be further along on the road...
    broleon broleon 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What Do I Do?

    Hi i am in need of some advice see i really love my wife of 2 years she has alwaise ben honest and true too me layely she has ben off she is not in a good place she was in a mental institution last week since she has ben out on meds she has ben worse this sunday she whent looking...
    tommyloveskelly tommyloveskelly 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Me...

    Coming to think of it, every relationship i have treasured has ended in heartbreak, pain and lots of tears. I remember how at some point my ex and i were so close, doing everything together, the spontaneity, the fun, the adventure, 22 months into our relationship things started...
    AutumnRed AutumnRed 31-35 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well...

    It hurts. It sucks. It rarely works out for the best. Please think it through first...please?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    F This

    It's been 3 months since i experienced the worst thing that could happen in a relationship.  Me and my bf had been together for a year and a half , we live together and not saying our relationship was perfect but it really was amazing we talk about everything , love...
    whymeg whymeg 22-25 Jun 15, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Scarred Forever...

    I hate infidelity. I hate that my former spouse was a victim of infidelity in his previous marriage and that I put him on a pedestal - disbelieving that he could ever commit adultery against me. For years, he became involved with his coworker - despite the rumors and finally...
    digging2graves digging2graves 31-35 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Him

    I love him with all my heart i think of him and pray for him  I cannot believe he is doing this to me . Treating me like a nuisance , ignoring me , lying to me  I would spend the rest of my life with him but would it mean a thing to him ? would i...
    passionkilledme passionkilledme 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Brings Bad Energy

    I have been the unfaithful one in a relationship and have had someone be unfaithful to me. It's just bad from both sides. I should have ended the relationship when I did cheat, but I was too selfish. Well I am not really sure what the reasons were, why I did cheat...
    notinthemood notinthemood 22-25, F Dec 29, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am watching The Bridges of Madison County.

    Though I love Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep but still I am feeling uneasy because I know she is going to do that. Probably because I have been a victim that's why I am feeling uneasy.
    VastCosmos VastCosmos 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sometimes They Come Back...

    I posted a story about my husband's affair a while back. We got through it and our marriage is stronger if you can believe that. We had a lot of bumps along the road to get where we are now. Anyways, here's what's going on now. A year after he ended it, she contacted him at work...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    With every fiber of my being,

    I despise people who hurt their significant others by cheating on them. I have witnessed first hand my older sister whom I adore to bits go through a very painful divorce with her first love, the man who serially betrayed her for 10 long years ! To make it worse, the bastard...
    AcousticAnne AcousticAnne 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Honestly it's a waste of time

    and I can't stand when people **** with my emotions.
    undrayaaa undrayaaa 18-21, F Jun 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How Being Cheated On Affected My Life

    When I was 17, I met an older man. I fell hopelessly in love and moved in with his two days after my 18th birthday. I worshipped the ground he walked on. In my eyes he could do no wrong. I loved him with all my heart and then some. In the first year we lived together, I went...
    karmeliet karmeliet 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Word Turned Upside Down.

    I stumbled on this site quite by accident. I was so heartbroken and distraught over my husband's infedelity. I wanted to know what kind of woman knowingly would have an affair with a married man and that is how I found this site. I read many other woman stories and I am disgusted...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 1 Response May 11, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Facebook Really Does Ruin Lives

    My husband had a month long affair with a slutty girl from facebook. He didn't even know her and she requested to be his friend, made up a story about how she was an HR recruiter that could help him get a job (she didn't even have a job), and then started coming on to him. I...
    missessadness missessadness 26-30 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How Long Does the Ache Last?

    Why am I still thinking about my husband's one night stand daily after it's been 8 years?  I don't feel like myself - sabotage myself, I think.  What's wrong with me? He was devastated that he did it, I was devastated.  We are still married. He gives me no reason...
    ruby098 ruby098 31-35 8 Responses May 14, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Infidelity while in a relationship is wrong. PERIOD.
    highsandblues highsandblues 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Please make the pain go away...I am too hurt I don't know how to deal with what I have discovered only two days ago about my spouse's infidelity. It hurts and I don't know what to...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate having asian parents. Why? Because they push you so hard in school and wanted a Full marks as always. They wanted me to be a doctor but I wanted to be a vet. I hate it when...
    Mitzeeeeey Mitzeeeeey 13-15, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Is there anyone in this group who wants to be apart of a documentary? You would submit a video to us and the team will contact you if we want to use it for the documentary. We...
    ShyMysticc ShyMysticc 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Is there anyone in this group who wants to be apart of a documentary? You would submit a video to us and the team will contact you if we want to use it for the documentary. We...
    ShyMysticc ShyMysticc 26-30, F Aug 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My oh my, if only I could hang this young dumb-bunny by his eyelids.. I am told I should be upset with my daughter for putting up with his lying, cheating, scabby, shabby ways...
    lorarena lorarena 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    As Everyone Else On Here, I do hate my body. The hate is pretty consistent from day to day. Things I hate include: My mousy brown hair, my weight, my wide feet, and my round face...
    Emilys93 Emilys93 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate it, and i know this sounds crazy, but i hate missing school and staying in bed, almost more than i hate the actual symptoms. Dad told me this morning i wasn't allowed to go...
    bridgetdarcy998 bridgetdarcy998 18-21 1 Response 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It is a tough thing to admit, and for some years I thought of it as more of a love/hate - relationship. But there is little love left now. Only hate, frustration, anger and then...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am so sad and depressed and all I can think about is a drastic change is about to come in my life I was pregnant last year and I has these same exact feelings about my little...
    cherrikisses22 cherrikisses22 22-25 1 Response 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate my family!!! I hate my family!!! All my sisters tell me to do is to watch their kids. My parents are phychotic strict and have me trapped, especially my mom. If I contradict...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't hate immature teens as a whole, hates a little strong. Dislike is more like it, but some teens can't help being immature. I'm still under 21 years of age, I'm an older teen...
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am sick and tired of my parents telling me that they will do certain things and as soon as I ask about them they pretend they never said it and accuse me of lying about it and...
    stuckinchains stuckinchains 16-17, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It sux being here alone wit no one to tlk to...hate being alone...just lookn for sumone to make me feel good
    tonystarkz tonystarkz 22-25, M 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A big pet hate if mine being ignored... Cannot stand it... Not trying to be disrespectful to men or anything... Or cause a stir there, I know all men are different. I have had a...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i hate school to we start september 4 but its halfdays the first two days
    kerri012 kerri012 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think this is my problem a lot of the times. The reason I feel happy, sad, angry, depressed or bored is usually effected by being alone or feeling alone.. On here, I can be...
    heartdeflowerboys1 heartdeflowerboys1 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't hate anything. EP suggests I make my story longer. Is that long enough?
    SamTheMan234 SamTheMan234 36-40, M 8 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wish it would just go away...cramps suck...you get all moody and hate everyone. You bleed for 5 days straight...and you feel gross.
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You are the monster in my nightmares. The reason I want to die and kill myself. You make me cry, you are the CAUSE of my panic attacks. You are the reason I get silent or can't eat...
    Gayminniemouse Gayminniemouse 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate couples so much!!! Idk Why but they are so annoying for me like nobody give a f$ck about how much you love each author and you don't have to post a pic for you both kissing...
    Xproblem Xproblem 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate my dad. He is a selfish, greedy, bigot. I sometimes wonder how my mom ever became attracted to such a man. I think the only good thing he ever did in his life was help...
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everyone has their own lives, and they are not to be tampered with! Grrr I hate nosy people who have nothing better to do than mess with my life!
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate the horrible bunch of ******** who are supposed to be my "relatives". Ungrateful, jealous, greedy, two-faced liars.
    2095TwistedTransistor3684 2095TwistedTransistor3684 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    plain & simple. everyfuckinthing about you. hate it.
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel