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I Hate Infidelity

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    Sometimes They Come Back...

    I posted a story about my husband's affair a while back. We got through it and our marriage is stronger if you can believe that. We had a lot of bumps along the road to get where we are now. Anyways, here's what's going on now. A year after he ended it, she contacted him at work...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    I Love Him

    I love him with all my heart i think of him and pray for him  I cannot believe he is doing this to me . Treating me like a nuisance , ignoring me , lying to me  I would spend the rest of my life with him but would it mean a thing to him ? would i...
    passionkilledme passionkilledme 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    From Victim To Survivor...

    I've been with my husband for 18 years, we have 4 beautiful children. He has cheated on me with 3 different women... First was 6 years ago with his best friends wife after he suddenly passed in a horrible work accident. They were partners. He slept with the widow twice and...
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Devastation

    Over the last few years so many of my friends have discovered an infidelity in their marriage. Each time I've been shocked and stunned, their marriages and relationships had seemed so stable and secure. Each time it has devastated their lives and their childrens lives. All of...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    I am watching The Bridges of Madison County.

    Though I love Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep but still I am feeling uneasy because I know she is going to do that. Probably because I have been a victim that's why I am feeling uneasy.
    VastCosmos VastCosmos 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    I Am Scarred Forever...

    I hate infidelity. I hate that my former spouse was a victim of infidelity in his previous marriage and that I put him on a pedestal - disbelieving that he could ever commit adultery against me. For years, he became involved with his coworker - despite the rumors and finally...
    digging2graves digging2graves 31-35 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    With every fiber of my being,

    I despise people who hurt their significant others by cheating on them. I have witnessed first hand my older sister whom I adore to bits go through a very painful divorce with her first love, the man who serially betrayed her for 10 long years ! To make it worse, the bastard...
    AcousticAnne AcousticAnne 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 7

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    It Still Hurts...

    The winds of infidelity are blowing in the media circus... and infidelity again makes another attack on my battered and scarred heart. I feel so sad for Elin Nordegrun. My heart goes out to her. I would have thought that I'd be further along on the road...
    broleon broleon 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 5 Responses May 11, 2010

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    I Love Me...

    Coming to think of it, every relationship i have treasured has ended in heartbreak, pain and lots of tears. I remember how at some point my ex and i were so close, doing everything together, the spontaneity, the fun, the adventure, 22 months into our relationship things started...
    AutumnRed AutumnRed 31-35 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Honestly it's a waste of time

    and I can't stand when people **** with my emotions.
    undrayaaa undrayaaa 18-21, F Jun 7

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    Ok, He Is Not Happy With Me But...

    What makes him think that I am stupid? I don't know him anymore, he is a dishonest person.   Yesterday, while we were at bar with our friends, you know, having a good time,  he was texting her, YES TEXTING HER!!! I was at his side!!! Wearing my...
    sunshine25 sunshine25 26-30 May 1, 2010

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    How Long Does the Ache Last?

    Why am I still thinking about my husband's one night stand daily after it's been 8 years?  I don't feel like myself - sabotage myself, I think.  What's wrong with me? He was devastated that he did it, I was devastated.  We are still married. He gives me no reason...
    ruby098 ruby098 31-35 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    F This

    It's been 3 months since i experienced the worst thing that could happen in a relationship.  Me and my bf had been together for a year and a half , we live together and not saying our relationship was perfect but it really was amazing we talk about everything , love...
    whymeg whymeg 22-25 Jun 15, 2009

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    What Do I Do?

    Hi i am in need of some advice see i really love my wife of 2 years she has alwaise ben honest and true too me layely she has ben off she is not in a good place she was in a mental institution last week since she has ben out on meds she has ben worse this sunday she whent looking...
    tommyloveskelly tommyloveskelly 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Broken Dreams

    I spent the last 20 years looking for a man I could enjoy life with and I found him in 2008.  We hit it off right from the start and we were both so happy.  We were together all the time.  Strangers would even comment to us how we were so in love and how happy we...
    dbridgers dbridgers 36-40, F 1 Response May 11, 2010

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    How Being Cheated On Affected My Life

    When I was 17, I met an older man. I fell hopelessly in love and moved in with his two days after my 18th birthday. I worshipped the ground he walked on. In my eyes he could do no wrong. I loved him with all my heart and then some. In the first year we lived together, I went...
    karmeliet karmeliet 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Facebook Really Does Ruin Lives

    My husband had a month long affair with a slutty girl from facebook. He didn't even know her and she requested to be his friend, made up a story about how she was an HR recruiter that could help him get a job (she didn't even have a job), and then started coming on to him. I...
    missessadness missessadness 26-30 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    What Am I Doing Today-at This Moment...staying Or Leaving?

    You know I have read soooo many stories of being cheated on here on this site...what is so amazing to me is that whether the victim (and i say that very lightly...you are only a victim if u allow urself to continue to be victimized) is male or female..black, white or yellow..it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    Pivoting From The Pain Of Infidelity

    My husband's infidelity 4 years ago was characterized by me as an affair, and by him as 'his new life'. I found a support group, and got busy with how to deal, feel and heal through this mess. Part of what I have taken away from this is that people need support, resources and...
    WayfarerIHG WayfarerIHG 70+ Dec 17, 2012

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    Well...

    It hurts. It sucks. It rarely works out for the best. Please think it through first...please?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29, 2011

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    Word Turned Upside Down.

    I stumbled on this site quite by accident. I was so heartbroken and distraught over my husband's infedelity. I wanted to know what kind of woman knowingly would have an affair with a married man and that is how I found this site. I read many other woman stories and I am disgusted...
    UpsidedownSnowglobe UpsidedownSnowglobe 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    Love

    When there is Love, there is no Question.
    LuvvThySelf LuvvThySelf 22-25, F Apr 18, 2013

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    Claddagh Ring

    I don't remember what year it was, whether he was sleeping with his business associate (the affair he hasn't admitted) or with his employee (the affair he "ended"), but my cheating husband gave me a Claddagh Ring. It's lovely green agate in 9 K gold and not overly expensive, but...
    extremeregrets extremeregrets 51-55, F Aug 29, 2012

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    Brings Bad Energy

    I have been the unfaithful one in a relationship and have had someone be unfaithful to me. It's just bad from both sides. I should have ended the relationship when I did cheat, but I was too selfish. Well I am not really sure what the reasons were, why I did cheat...
    notinthemood notinthemood 22-25, F Dec 29, 2009

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    Infidelity while in a relationship is wrong. PERIOD.
    highsandblues highsandblues 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Double back stab, never been hurt so much like this I know that I'm not married yet (and now I doubt I will for some time) but I'm currently engaged to a guy. I am 28 and he's 27...
    Necrogirl27 Necrogirl27 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Well my marriage will officially be over this time tomorrow. My ex is getting on a plan to Japan for his new duty station and jettisoning out of my life. I don't know if his...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Ozstra'yin SOCIOPATHS. The word "sociopath" pops up quite frequently in this forum when we are discussing some of the traits that leave room for improvement in the ozzie character...
    Spankerr Spankerr 51-55 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Starting to hate him more and more everyday just found out from my son that he has been bashing me to him which is horrible.then when we have fights he will call me a stupid c**t...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I hate it when someone that i hate keep texting me...don't you understand that i hate you...stop sending me message...i hate seeing your name on my phone
    FelixFelicity03 FelixFelicity03 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    My brother held a Canada Day party at his new house. Funny how when he is building it, he seeks my advice but once it's built, not a single invitation. Lol. That's my...
    singlemom1254 singlemom1254 36-40 2 hrs ago

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    I'm not the scared one, my sister is. She is 13 and hates rides and roller coasters. She scares herself by watching ride accidents and says 'it doesn't even scare me' yet when we...
    mollymillymolly mollymillymolly 13-15, F 49 mins ago

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    I'm not the scared one, my sister is. She is 13 and hates rides and roller coasters. She scares herself by watching ride accidents and says 'it doesn't even scare me' yet when we...
    mollymillymolly mollymillymolly 13-15, F 47 mins ago

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    I absolutely positively HATE love "Why?" You ask? Let's go down the list Love is the most useless emotion, you can survive life without it. It can lead to heart break which can...
    LuckyGuy001 LuckyGuy001 13-15, M 8 hrs ago

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    You know what I can't stand most retail shopping sites other then amazon or local classifieds. Ever go to a site such as a box store and want to search for a certain item, say for...
    Codyj22 Codyj22 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

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    I'm so sick:P I hate I being sick, I can't do anything I want and I'm hurting and I can't eat anything. Ugh.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I hate who ever be lier in my life !
    netozel netozel 36-40, M 6 hrs ago

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    How can you hate food that's helps you, more than what doctors can? Oh my goodness
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

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    AAAARGHHHH I HATE PERIOD PAINS
    fatgirl123fat fatgirl123fat 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I hate those adverts on the tv that show girls just acting normal on their periods.... It's not true! I am in agony! Especially on day 1! Those adverts make me want to punch the...
    PunkAndDisorderly PunkAndDisorderly 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Even though I said I hate fighting.. in the back of my mind i get relieved because it is a wake up call. "Wow, this love is real...we are arguing about what to eat tonight".
    1Lostcause 1Lostcause 16-17, T 4 hrs ago

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    So I went to a show yesterday and I was standing next to a seemingly beautiful black woman, and the crowd warmer said turn to you left and shake the persons hand meet someone new...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I am married. I hate my wife, I don't find her sexually attractive because her attitude sucks. Remember pretty is as pretty does. I'm a staunch constitutionalist, she's now a...
    Jackem82 Jackem82 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    That moment when you're reading through 'I Hate Bad Grammar' experiences and you immediately check for bad grammar. Unless badder grammar is purposefully done. Then that's just...
    MyNameMeansLight MyNameMeansLight 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    The past of others is what affects me. I thought my family was a good, happy family like they show on tv. But no, in the real world like ours, that's impossible. Cheating...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M 1 hr ago

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    I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself...
    Ashley1421 Ashley1421 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Life sucks. I feel like I have no purpose here. I want to die on the floor. If I had acess to a gun, I would be dead. I hate the fact that I can't like myself. I hate that whenever...
    kitkat923 kitkat923 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    How can love and hate be so close but yet so far in definition? I would know considering i love the person i hate most. And i now realize that the only reason i hate him is because...
    verox3 verox3 13-15, F Jul 12

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    If I ever could change ANYTHING in my life, it would have been to NEVER ever have tasted alcohol. It would seriously not been any loss at all! I am no alcoholic. I never drunk and...