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I Hate It When My Ep Friends Vanish

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 291 People

    And it just keeps happening.

    .. Another message in my inbox with that guy named deleted. Seriously? You couldn't take the time to say goodbye first? We just talked yesterday and you made no indication that you were leaving... I don't know why I keep letting myself get sucked in to these friendships. You...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    Especailly Without Notice :(

    I logged into Ep today, to find my Number one friend was gone :( It broke my heart so bad. I can't believe he just vanished. No trace or anything :( I am really going to miss him....I know he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, because he couldn't handle some things...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    I do, whenever they just vanish

    and stop chatting with or block you for no reason, I find it really annoying, dissapointing and saddening.
    FriendlyDragon FriendlyDragon 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    It Bites

    Once again a friend...a good friend has vanished from this site. Mr. Optamistic is gone. I hope he knows he will be missed. Sometimes I feel like I can't stay here and watch another friend vanish. Is it really worth the pain?  
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    My friend 'TheAnonymousTroll' has left.

    And never told me he was leaving. I miss him.
    Huskyforders Huskyforders 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    I miss Danny|1 he was like a brother to me.

    he was treated so bad by his family for being gay and calling him sick minded and queer. i love him and miss him. I will pray for him to find a nice bf and have a wonderful family
    daniel147 daniel147 13-15, M 5 Responses Jan 22

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    I miss a friend that was

    so nice with me we did talk one's but now she vanished
    Teedmozbie Teedmozbie 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    Where Is She?

    One of my EP friends has completely vanished.  When I saw her gone from my friends the first thing I thought was 'Have I said something to offend her, and she's deleted me as a friend?'.  But she's completely vanished from this site.  Even the gift she sent me has...
    Tibicina Tibicina 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Well, they vanish before I really get to know

    so, I guess I don't miss em.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I thought I made REAL FRIENDS on EP

    but I was wrong & it hurts!!!
    jeffster72 jeffster72 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Bruh. I'm still here.

    And ik you are too, because it says so right by your name. So ignoring me isn't gonna work forever, if you really don't want to talk to me on here, at Least tell me! :p lol :*
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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      Ello there -.

    - I'm just talking to myself •_• yep I am
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Starting to wonder why I continue to chat on

    here. It seems as if you spend days, weeks or even months chatting with someone only to find they have disappeared in the matter of minutes. A simple goodbye, cya later, screw you, or kiss my.... Would be nice. Is it really that hard to say goodbye before deleting your...
    Macy21 Macy21 36-40, F 20 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    So annoying it's like seriously a bye would be

    nice or at least a gtg ttyl not That hard
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2014

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    I Hate It

    I hate it when people disappear without notice as it leaves you wondering.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 8, 2011

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    I got really close to one guy

    but we started drifting apart. Probably because of timezones and I was probably annoying him. Sorry..
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F Sep 20, 2014

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    They Take a Part of You Away With Them

    Someone who helped me more than I think she knew left EP today. I feel like a hole has been left in my life. I know I can have other friends, but I can never replace her. We didn't write much, but her contributions on the boards was always welcome, even if it was only for a vent...
    Magners Magners 46-50, M Feb 17, 2009

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    Don't Go...

    I wish they all would come back. I miss my friends. :(  
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2008

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    I have a new friend from tunisia i liked here

    soo much and now she vanished :/
    Teedmozbie Teedmozbie 22-25, M Sep 20, 2014

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    Bitkitty

    it made me sad to see that she left. in my opinion, she was one of the nicest persons on this site. she will be missed. hopefully she comes back
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F Dec 1, 2014

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    Totally hate it when they suddenly just

    disappear but im kinda guilty of the same thing but its nt cuz i dun want to talk to them or anything but we just get too caught in our life . So a big sry for those i neglect 😭😭😭
    00Unknown00 00Unknown00 16-17, M Sep 21, 2014

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    Or my other online friends.... I think I make people disappear :/
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