I Hate It When My Ep Friends Vanish

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 315 People

    And it just keeps happening.

    .. Another message in my inbox with that guy named deleted. Seriously? You couldn't take the time to say goodbye first? We just talked yesterday and you made no indication that you were leaving... I don't know why I keep letting myself get sucked in to these friendships. You...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 4, 2014

    I lost five circle members last night.

    Three of them got deleted without warning, and I still haven't figured out who the other two were. What's going on, is EP "cleaning house"?
    DoctorOBlivion2 DoctorOBlivion2
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    I got really close to one guy

    but we started drifting apart. Probably because of timezones and I was probably annoying him. Sorry..
    sighselly sighselly
    13-15, F
    Sep 20, 2014

    Don't Go...

    I wish they all would come back. I miss my friends. :(  
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 24, 2008

    Especailly Without Notice :(

    I logged into Ep today, to find my Number one friend was gone :( It broke my heart so bad. I can't believe he just vanished. No trace or anything :( I am really going to miss him....I know he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, because he couldn't handle some things...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Sep 3, 2010

    It Bites

    Once again a friend...a good friend has vanished from this site. Mr. Optamistic is gone. I hope he knows he will be missed. Sometimes I feel like I can't stay here and watch another friend vanish. Is it really worth the pain?  
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Feb 23, 2008

    I miss a friend that was

    so nice with me we did talk one's but now she vanished
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 20, 2014

    I Hate It

    I hate it when people disappear without notice as it leaves you wondering.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    Dec 8, 2011

      Ello there -.

    - I'm just talking to myself •_• yep I am
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    I do, whenever they just vanish

    and stop chatting with or block you for no reason, I find it really annoying, dissapointing and saddening.
    FriendlyDragon FriendlyDragon
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 24, 2014

    Bitkitty

    it made me sad to see that she left. in my opinion, she was one of the nicest persons on this site. she will be missed. hopefully she comes back
    antiyou antiyou
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 23, 2008

    So annoying it's like seriously a bye would be

    nice or at least a gtg ttyl not That hard
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree
    13-15, F
    Oct 9, 2014

    Well, they vanish before I really get to know

    so, I guess I don't miss em.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    They Take a Part of You Away With Them

    Someone who helped me more than I think she knew left EP today. I feel like a hole has been left in my life. I know I can have other friends, but I can never replace her. We didn't write much, but her contributions on the boards was always welcome, even if it was only for a vent...
    Magners Magners
    46-50, M
    Feb 17, 2009
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13
    13-15, F
    Dec 1, 2014

    Where Is She?

    One of my EP friends has completely vanished.  When I saw her gone from my friends the first thing I thought was 'Have I said something to offend her, and she's deleted me as a friend?'.  But she's completely vanished from this site.  Even the gift she sent me has...
    Tibicina Tibicina
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

    I think that if you communicate regularly with

    your friends on EP and then you want to leave, the least you should do is tell those you communicate regularly with, why you're going. Especially in case they would like to keep in touch through some other social media.
    WalterMo WalterMo
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Mar 9

    I miss Danny|1 he was like a brother to me.

    he was treated so bad by his family for being gay and calling him sick minded and queer. i love him and miss him. I will pray for him to find a nice bf and have a wonderful family
    GalacticDaniel GalacticDaniel
    16-17, M
    4 Responses Jan 22, 2015

    Starting to wonder why I continue to chat on

    here. It seems as if you spend days, weeks or even months chatting with someone only to find they have disappeared in the matter of minutes. A simple goodbye, cya later, screw you, or kiss my.... Would be nice. Is it really that hard to say goodbye before deleting your...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    12 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    I have a new friend from tunisia i liked here

    soo much and now she vanished :/
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 20, 2014

    It's why I leave periodically.

    .. I'll meet someone, we'll talk for about 3 days...then they leave I'm grateful for the time spent but when they leave it saddens me
    thatcurlyredhead77 thatcurlyredhead77
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 9

    My Cali friend whom I've spent day one here

    sharing life with is gone. I have his email somewhere but I lost it. I emailed him once and he isn't in my address book because it was an old email. I came here to stay positive and help others stay positive. He was here for the same reason. We would share jokes ect. It was a...
    Jennerrous Jennerrous
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Apr 1, 2015

    Totally hate it when they suddenly just

    disappear but im kinda guilty of the same thing but its nt cuz i dun want to talk to them or anything but we just get too caught in our life . So a big sry for those i neglect 😭😭😭
    00Unknown00 00Unknown00
    18-21, M
    Sep 21, 2014

    Bruh. I'm still here.

    And ik you are too, because it says so right by your name. So ignoring me isn't gonna work forever, if you really don't want to talk to me on here, at Least tell me! :p lol :*
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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