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I Hate It When My Ep Friends Vanish

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    It Bites

    Once again a friend...a good friend has vanished from this site. Mr. Optamistic is gone. I hope he knows he will be missed. Sometimes I feel like I can't stay here and watch another friend vanish. Is it really worth the pain?  
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    Especailly Without Notice :(

    I logged into Ep today, to find my Number one friend was gone :( It broke my heart so bad. I can't believe he just vanished. No trace or anything :( I am really going to miss him....I know he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, because he couldn't handle some things...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    I Hate It

    I hate it when peopleĀ disappear without notice as it leaves you wondering.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 8, 2011

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    Don't Go...

    I wish they all would come back. I miss my friends. :(  
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2008

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    Where Is She?

    One of my EP friends has completely vanished.  When I saw her gone from my friends the first thing I thought was 'Have I said something to offend her, and she's deleted me as a friend?'.  But she's completely vanished from this site.  Even the gift she sent me has...
    Tibicina Tibicina 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    They Take a Part of You Away With Them

    Someone who helped me more than I think she knew left EP today. I feel like a hole has been left in my life. I know I can have other friends, but I can never replace her. We didn't write much, but her contributions on the boards was always welcome, even if it was only for a vent...
    Magners Magners 46-50, M Feb 17, 2009

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    Bitkitty

    it made me sad to see that she left. in my opinion, she was one of the nicest persons on this site. she will be missed. hopefully she comes back
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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