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I Hate It When My Ep Friends Vanish

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 307 People

    I thought I made REAL FRIENDS on EP

    but I was wrong & it hurts!!!
    jeffster72 jeffster72 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Especailly Without Notice :(

    I logged into Ep today, to find my Number one friend was gone :( It broke my heart so bad. I can't believe he just vanished. No trace or anything :( I am really going to miss him....I know he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, because he couldn't handle some things...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    Don't Go...

    I wish they all would come back. I miss my friends. :(  
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2008

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    So annoying it's like seriously a bye would be

    nice or at least a gtg ttyl not That hard
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F Oct 9, 2014

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    Well, they vanish before I really get to know

    so, I guess I don't miss em.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I got really close to one guy

    but we started drifting apart. Probably because of timezones and I was probably annoying him. Sorry..
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F Sep 20, 2014

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    It Bites

    Once again a friend...a good friend has vanished from this site. Mr. Optamistic is gone. I hope he knows he will be missed. Sometimes I feel like I can't stay here and watch another friend vanish. Is it really worth the pain?  
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    Bitkitty

    it made me sad to see that she left. in my opinion, she was one of the nicest persons on this site. she will be missed. hopefully she comes back
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    I miss a friend that was

    so nice with me we did talk one's but now she vanished
    Teedmozbie Teedmozbie 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    Bruh. I'm still here.

    And ik you are too, because it says so right by your name. So ignoring me isn't gonna work forever, if you really don't want to talk to me on here, at Least tell me! :p lol :*
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    I Hate It

    I hate it when people disappear without notice as it leaves you wondering.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 8, 2011

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    I miss Danny|1 he was like a brother to me.

    he was treated so bad by his family for being gay and calling him sick minded and queer. i love him and miss him. I will pray for him to find a nice bf and have a wonderful family
    GalacticDaniel GalacticDaniel 13-15, M 5 Responses Jan 22

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    Starting to wonder why I continue to chat on

    here. It seems as if you spend days, weeks or even months chatting with someone only to find they have disappeared in the matter of minutes. A simple goodbye, cya later, screw you, or kiss my.... Would be nice. Is it really that hard to say goodbye before deleting your...
    Macy21 Macy21 36-40, F 18 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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      Ello there -.

    - I'm just talking to myself •_• yep I am
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Totally hate it when they suddenly just

    disappear but im kinda guilty of the same thing but its nt cuz i dun want to talk to them or anything but we just get too caught in our life . So a big sry for those i neglect 😭😭😭
    00Unknown00 00Unknown00 18-21, M Sep 21, 2014

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    I lost five circle members last night.

    Three of them got deleted without warning, and I still haven't figured out who the other two were. What's going on, is EP "cleaning house"?
    DoctorOBlivion2 DoctorOBlivion2 26-30, M May 1

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    I do, whenever they just vanish

    and stop chatting with or block you for no reason, I find it really annoying, dissapointing and saddening.
    FriendlyDragon FriendlyDragon 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    My Cali friend whom I've spent day one here

    sharing life with is gone. I have his email somewhere but I lost it. I emailed him once and he isn't in my address book because it was an old email. I came here to stay positive and help others stay positive. He was here for the same reason. We would share jokes ect. It was a...
    Jennerrous Jennerrous 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I have a new friend from tunisia i liked here

    soo much and now she vanished :/
    Teedmozbie Teedmozbie 22-25, M Sep 20, 2014

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    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F Dec 1, 2014

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    Where Is She?

    One of my EP friends has completely vanished.  When I saw her gone from my friends the first thing I thought was 'Have I said something to offend her, and she's deleted me as a friend?'.  But she's completely vanished from this site.  Even the gift she sent me has...
    Tibicina Tibicina 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    And it just keeps happening.

    .. Another message in my inbox with that guy named deleted. Seriously? You couldn't take the time to say goodbye first? We just talked yesterday and you made no indication that you were leaving... I don't know why I keep letting myself get sucked in to these friendships. You...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    They Take a Part of You Away With Them

    Someone who helped me more than I think she knew left EP today. I feel like a hole has been left in my life. I know I can have other friends, but I can never replace her. We didn't write much, but her contributions on the boards was always welcome, even if it was only for a vent...
    Magners Magners 46-50, M Feb 17, 2009

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    It's not just about me this time but I like to vent a little about something that makes me anxious that I just want to Hulk smash things without a care. I hate my cousins and I...
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    Some people act like they're your friend but then again they really aren't 'cause of how they act toward you. That isn't a friend that acts like that. I hate fake friends.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I really hate when my brothers go around and use the 'rape', like it's a good thing. Or when someone calls someone a *********, who isn't. Any of those words, now that I've been...
    GoneGirl17 GoneGirl17 16-17, F May 20

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    I hate when people overreact to everything from the public affairs of others, to media and people's personal lives people have to overreact. Why?
    ThereIsNoName3 ThereIsNoName3 31-35, F May 6

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    I hate when someone comes at me saying, "so I heard". Pause. Let's just get things clear. Before you start talking, just be aware that some of the things you hear may be true, or...
    MsBright MsBright 13-15, F May 17

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    i hate when that happenss uhhhhh its sooo annnoying n rude
    heavenlytouch heavenlytouch 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Oh,yes, indeedy, I do. I hate `em. I`m a naturally worrisome person. When I was in kindergarten, I used to recite messages we were supposed to give our parents in my sleep AFTER I...
    WeepGrl WeepGrl 22-25, F May 13

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    Like when you have an amazing connect with someone and then they ruin it by being perverted! Like why not be perverted to start with....no judgment here.... but I wouldn't wasted...
    siobhan4smiles siobhan4smiles 26-30, F 19 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    A certain group of my "friends" are negative, two-faced, and when I'm with them I'm annoyed most of the time. I've tried to drift away from this group, but whenever I find new...
    lauradowns lauradowns 16-17, F 1 Response May 11

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    A year ago, I used to like this guy, but he started avoiding me once he found out I liked him because he was creeped out. Anyways, I got over him, but now for some reason, one of...
    malakhkhalil malakhkhalil 13-15, F Apr 29

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    It seems like none of my friends want to hang out with me anymore. I have like two friends. One of them is in charleston but come to Beckley quite often. She will tell me that she...
    LoveBunnie21 LoveBunnie21 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Had many fair weather friends, ones that want negative things to happen to you because they are jealous deep down. Jealous of your looks, where you stay, your family, your job, a...
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    they tell me that my poetry is triggering and sad, i'm extremely judgmental, i don't have a say, i'm better off dead, spread rumors about me, call me names, treat me so bad that i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 7

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    Ok so I noticed when my friend was hanging out with his other friends that he wasn't himself so I asked h about it later that day and he said oh I'm just going through...
    moneke16 moneke16 13-15, F 1 Response May 8

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    Seriously, I joined a party to talk to them and they start debating who their ex's are and which one was the biggest *****. Really? I Hate how they don't have any freaking respect...
    Destroyer2266 Destroyer2266 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I really want you to know, you seem to think this is easy for me, not talking to you is one of the hardest things ever,... Quitting smoking was easier. I wish everything was like...
    simj1122 simj1122 31-35, M 7 Responses Apr 28

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    I have a bunch of fake friends, actually. I treated them as my brothers and sisters. I don't have any siblings, I'm the only child. I loved them for who they are, but they betrayed...
    iiAmethystii iiAmethystii 13-15, F 1 Response May 5

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    Today in one of my classes, a boy was pretending to cut himself with a pencil. His friend turned around and started calling him emo and goth. I asked them to stop and tried to tell...
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F 2 Responses May 6

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