I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    So many people judge me

    for being engaged at 16,cause I have acne,cause I don't talk much,or cause I'm out of my fiance's "league" like seriously? why do people have to judge so much?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 7, 2015

    I feel like so many of the 'popular' teenage

    girls always do this. Like if you don't wear a tonne of makeup they will quickly assume you're poor. Or they will think you're weird if you say you don't like a famous singer that most teenage girls do! I hate it so much. I hate it so much.
    taytay1401 taytay1401
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

    People are stupid. They often jump to

    conclusions about you without knowing anything about you! Over time, I've learnt that a friendly smile but tight lips tend to serve me best;)
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Jan 19, 2015

    I hang out a lot. And I am tired of constantly

    being surrounded by people. Sometimes I do go out to have lunch and dinner, and I know people are saying that I don't have any friends just because they spot me being alone. I go out alone not because I don't have friends, but because I need to have a time for myself.
    peterschmidtty peterschmidtty
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36
    22-25, F
    Nov 21, 2012

    Fffs I just realised I don't want anything

    but my ash she was amazing and I miss her ( she committed suiside) she was amazing like she cuddled me would message me 24/7 but would make me go to sleep and would keep me safe and she was just amazing.
    Lasbutterfly Lasbutterfly
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    I can't stand it when people judge me based on

    my age- they assume that just because I'm young I lack intellect
    KaleveraX3000 KaleveraX3000
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 13
    Widesoul Widesoul
    31-35, M
    Dec 6, 2015

    I hate when people judge me according to my

    relatives or when they judge them according to me
    IGtbtlomt IGtbtlomt
    18-21, M
    Jul 27, 2015

    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 17, 2011
    JaysGrief JaysGrief
    18-21, M
    Jul 18, 2014

    I'm gay yes but that's not all I am.

    Before you hate me, get to knew me. Hate me because I'm me not because I'm gay
    icantlivelikethis123 icantlivelikethis123
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    This always happens to me

    and it's so annoying!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 7, 2014

    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    I hate it but keep shaking it off bc at the end

    of the day it dosent matter what they think it's what I think
    Littlesouthrenmamma Littlesouthrenmamma
    26-30, F
    Dec 6, 2015

    First words that people say to me

    when they meet me? "Are you ok?" "Are you mad?" "Do you hate me?" "You look like you're having a bad time" My response: "No, thats just my face."
    stephanieleon34211 stephanieleon34211
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    Guys are so intimidated to talk to me.

    Girls automatically assume that I "get around" and label me as harsh things. In reality, I'm just a shy virgin that trips on air and hyperventilates when boys give me attention.
    TheSilentOnes TheSilentOnes
    16-17, F
    Jan 20, 2015

    I can just walk down the hall

    and I know by the way people are looking at me that they're judging me. I don't know what you can get from just looking at me?
    MagentaBleu MagentaBleu
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    People on this site think

    because u flirt that u are automatically a creeper and don't realize that maybe u want to actually be friends and talk bout ****. How your days goin how life is goin. Just talk yes sometimes I want to trade pics or joke and sometimes I am mad or sad and would like to...
    Kztrust Kztrust
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 2, 2015

    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

    a dude blocked me because i like feet.

    .. he doesnt even know me XD
    Spideroh1 Spideroh1
    18-21, M
    Sep 2, 2015

    My age. On the internet

    when I am talking to people I enjoy it, but then they ask me my age and start talking to me like I am 10. But, I am 13.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 13

    I have had this happen on dating sites.

    people just need to get talking, you never know you might like the person.
    XtechnomamcerX XtechnomamcerX
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 6, 2015

    I hate this people always judge me just cuz I

    sell dope that means I'm a bad person just cuz I listen to metal I'm supposedly satanic or emo Jst cuz I'm quiet that means I'm crazy I'm going through allot and sometimes people won't let meh be
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

    They said many guys from Nigeria are into fraud

    here. This might be true, for we have a lots of them even here in Nigeria. But it's embarrassing when people judge you base on other's ways of life. You don't just assume everyone is here to dupe.. Imagine. a woman, even when am trying to respect her age, and i called her...
    experiencenature experiencenature
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 14

    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    xMikayla xMikayla
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

    After people have gotten to know me they always

    tell me, "when I first saw you I thought you looked spoiled and rich." I was like what.. I'm far from being spoiled and rich ๐Ÿ˜‚ wth
    lunazteca lunazteca
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 19, 2015

    we all did it once but the people

    who still talked to youhowever those are the people you need. They went underneath and took the time to talk and dismissed the way you look.
    justDlight justDlight
    18-21, M
    Jul 14, 2015

    My Fiance and I have been engaged just over 2

    weeks not and his mom and sister haent said anything :/ we know that tey know about it and it hurts they wint even tell us what they think... I think theyre assuming im bad because he said they dont like him being with anyone. Or they dont like his past partners? But im not...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 18, 2015

    I've never had any friends

    or much of a social life, and this is something I've been working to change. I've been so much more active in trying to get to know people, not in an over-involved or creepy sort of way, but just in general going out and leaving my comfort zone. I know this will probably seem...
    Caridinals21 Caridinals21
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jan 18

    I believe that you can't judge a person just by

    their appearance. You have to get to know that person and find out what they are like on the inside and do your best NOT to pass judgment on anyone. We are all human and no one is perfect and we need to learn to love and accept each other without passing judgment on people.
    princessintraining princessintraining
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    they judge me based on my patriots gear then

    make fun of me lol like u don't know me
    CALIFORNIAN945 CALIFORNIAN945
    18-21, M
    Jul 15, 2015

    I hate that happening to me,

    and it happened a lot. but I think it's just karma because sometimes I'm judging people before I even know them. I hope I could fix it.
    anonymous1anonymous7 anonymous1anonymous7
    13-15, F
    Jul 14, 2015

    It's how it is and it's awful .

    Something I would never do . So that's life and sometimes we have to take it !
    LT167 LT167
    31-35, F
    Nov 6, 2014

    I like the numbers 666

    and I use them but, to me, they only stand as a symbol for my name. I understand that those three letters do resemble religious spirits to some people, but it makes me mad when some people just automatically assume why I like them. It doesn't actually bother me until they start...
    Flowerchild666 Flowerchild666
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 23

    one of my biggest issues with people of a

    certain age is how they think they can tell me what I think and what I understand or don't. My 70 year old grandfather for example, was just giving me unasked advice the other day... "People, you know... the first 10 years they're useless, then the next 20 years they are...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 22

    I mean HELLLO!?! You haven't

    even talked to me yet. What the hell is wrong with you?
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2014

    My own father judges his childrenโ€” me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jul 18, 2014

    They say I'm like "Ice".

    . Too cold to be a human being...
    johnnie23 johnnie23
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jan 26

    I believe in God but I hate to be called

    religious and I despise religion. Religion and having a RELATIONSHIP with God are two separate things , the old covenant of the law was all about your love. But the new covenant of grace is all about gods love for you. It is the truth of grace , and not of law that brings true...
    arin19807 arin19807
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    I'm always afraid that people will judge me

    because of how I look and act, before they get to know me. So I constantly feel like people are laughing at me or looking down on me. They probably are, too. :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 15, 2015

    I live in a small religious town

    where people are incredibly judgemental. I don't go to the church here or any other church which shows so I get dirty looklooks and bad attitudesattitudes. Sometimes I swear I live on another planet because people are so weird here
    DanieGirl1 DanieGirl1
    31-35
    Dec 7, 2015

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