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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    I hate this people always judge me just cuz I

    sell dope that means I'm a bad person just cuz I listen to metal I'm supposedly satanic or emo Jst cuz I'm quiet that means I'm crazy I'm going through allot and sometimes people won't let meh be
    InsaneTeddy InsaneTeddy 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    It's how it is and it's awful .

    Something I would never do . So that's life and sometimes we have to take it !
    LT167 LT167 31-35, F Nov 6, 2014

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    People are stupid. They often jump to

    conclusions about you without knowing anything about you! Over time, I've learnt that a friendly smile but tight lips tend to serve me best;)
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 19

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    I mean HELLLO!?! You haven't

    even talked to me yet. What the hell is wrong with you?
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2014

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    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    I don't like people judging me,

    Especially if u don't know me. You don't know someone just by looking at them, Until you walk a day in my shoes and actually see what my life is really like. Don't say anything simple as that! Lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 25, 2014

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    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    raraggl raraggl 13-15, F Jan 18

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    Guys are so intimidated to talk to me.

    Girls automatically assume that I "get around" and label me as harsh things. In reality, I'm just a shy virgin that trips on air and hyperventilates when boys give me attention.
    mightymouse69 mightymouse69 16-17, F Jan 20

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    My own father judges his children— me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2014

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I've had so many people comment on my

    expirences like "You're not depressed" or " you're not even a real cutter" can you maybe do what this website was ******* made for and try to understand rather than just being a ***** and trying to be better than me. Yes I have depression I was diagnosed in 6th grade, yes I...
    recklessuntilbreathless recklessuntilbreathless 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2014

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    This always happens to me

    and it's so annoying!
    brookmay brookmay 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Very interesting day at school.

    It started off well, I helped some people out and showed them around the school and all, then came time to change classes. I was walking down the hallway, just smiling for no apparent reason, and then I heard them start to talk about me again. "Why is she even smiling?" "Maybe...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    Get To Know Me First

    Let me just start off by saying that I hate it when people judge me before they get to know me. In real life people assume im a know it all, and for that they think im an *******, which im not a *******, and second I do know it all. I probably know more than you do, yup.Also for...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M Jul 18, 2014

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    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    Just because I'm half black people assume

    things about me that I don't like. I go to an all white school and I fit in more with the white kids than I do with other races. Just how it worked out.
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F Sep 27, 2014

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    After people have gotten to know me they always

    tell me, "when I first saw you I thought you looked spoiled and rich." I was like what.. I'm far from being spoiled and rich 😂 wth
    lunazteca lunazteca 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I can't stand smart @ss people, no you're not better than anyone, and don't try to "out-wit" or "out-smart" us either bc I will put you down on behalf of everyone who agrees with...
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    Don't show anything to Koke123 ! It´s a weird person, he always ask questions to you but never reply your questions and if you force him he block you ! He asked me my face :0 i...
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    Props to all of you wonderful mothers no matter what age you are a mother is a very important person and very beautiful gift don't let anybody put you down in any way :) keep your...
    SoCalAssasin SoCalAssasin 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    If you have enough truthfulness, you would not have to repeat your promises over and over.
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    I hate when people say they hate Valentine's Day because they are lonely or that couples do to much ! I love Valentine's Day and how it became a holiday is incredible.
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    I hate when people read my text messages over my shoulder. Just because I'm texting doesn't mean I want you do read my freaking sex wtf
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate when people read over my shoulders. Just because I text doesn't mean I want you to read over my freaking shoulders Wtf.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So, this is a bit of a longer story, and some of this doesn't completely relate to this. Anyway, I hate when this happens. The night before I met my boyfriend for the first time, I...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Happens all the time. I'm constantly there for people when they need me. I'm a great friend and listen to them repeat themselves over and over and never complain. But when I need...
    tvdlover1865 tvdlover1865 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate it when people assume im not who I say I am. I am TheDiamondMinecart. ask me questions to prove it!
    TheDiamondMinecart TheDiamondMinecart 26-30, M Feb 17

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    This really upsets me especially when they call me names and judge me for living my life as I choose. I don't tell them what to do or force them all to wear clothing of my choice...
    louisetiger1 louisetiger1 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    So people have been judging me cause I'm goth...I mean what's the big deal? Just cause they have nothing better to do..they need to learn how to leave people alone..
    Imacrazybiatch Imacrazybiatch 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Please understand that YOU are YOU and another person is THEM which means that its their life and they can do as they please. Please understand that I will do what i want and its...
    MKxoxo MKxoxo 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    No one has ever told me in person, "you're pretty," "you're cute," or any compliments on the same spectrum. It has come to the point where I don't think I'm pretty. I look in the...
    Juliette19 Juliette19 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Some People Don't Get It - If there is anything I hated the most about my trolls/haters, it's that they simply don't get that my werecreature stuff isn't real - I am just doing...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Jan 29

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    i hate European or american guys says ''oh you are from japan??i have always wanted to go to japan!.i think asian woman are attractive more than woman of my country.''lolol they...
    JerryJerryA JerryJerryA 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Ugh I hate it when football fans yell and yell for their teams, with stinking sweat running down their face and backs from all the excersize they put into it. Ugh they're such...
    devinprater devinprater 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    especially when I do. it is human nature to respond to situations. or people based on past experiences. But at times these actions are like assumptions. It is good to learn from...
    simplyafriend simplyafriend 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    he is so weired.. he is foreigner and he asked me to hang out with him. I agree, but i can go along with him after 3 pm because i have go to the church before meet him. Then he is...
    storyboutme storyboutme 26-30, F Jan 31

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