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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    Get To Know Me First

    Let me just start off by saying that I hate it when people judge me before they get to know me. In real life people assume im a know it all, and for that they think im an *******, which im not a *******, and second I do know it all. I probably know more than you do, yup.Also for...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    My own father judges his children— me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Very interesting day at school.

    It started off well, I helped some people out and showed them around the school and all, then came time to change classes. I was walking down the hallway, just smiling for no apparent reason, and then I heard them start to talk about me again. "Why is she even smiling?" "Maybe...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M Jul 18

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    I've had so many people comment on my

    expirences like "You're not depressed" or " you're not even a real cutter" can you maybe do what this website was ******* made for and try to understand rather than just being a ***** and trying to be better than me. Yes I have depression I was diagnosed in 6th grade, yes I...
    recklessuntilbreathless recklessuntilbreathless 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I am not a teen mom and I don't know any teen parents personally but I have the common sense to not judge them. Its actually extremely rude to do that. You aren't better than them...
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    I hate when people are mean for no reason like i can be mean but it's either I'm pissed off, stressed way too stressed, upset or just plain busy. I'm weird so yea
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Aug 5

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    One of the things which really annoys me is how humanity always has this tendency to pre judge people before they even know them. Im not just talking about in todays modern society...
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    I hate when professional service people just show up at the door. No call, no appointment. Just because they were in neighborhood and hoping someone was at our house. Here i am...
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    Those who think they know everything really annoy those of us who do. ;)
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 Aug 4

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    I don't really care if others don't believe in the same god as me or they don't believe at all. Also I don't care about the jokes about religion I can smile at it, this doesn't...
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    you know my name not my story you've heard what i have done not what i been thorough. try to walk in my shoes before you judge me
    kyaf kyaf 13-15, F Aug 4

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    There are so many people that judge me for being pregnant when they don't even know my story. 😒😔😞😣
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    I know!! Not everyone is wanting to be with me!!! God, I've been knowing that my whole life!! Not a surprise. I'm use to it. I know I'm not a lot of guys type but to assume that I...
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    I'm a nice guy for the most part, and I try to apologize when I've been an a-hole. However, I have absolutely no tolerance for those who make knee-jerk judgement calls about me...
    TheDivineParody TheDivineParody 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    It's very rude, then to top if off when they ask things that have clearly explained in my stories it drives me crazy! Please people take 5 min and read people's stories!
    enjoyholdingmypee enjoyholdingmypee 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    saix217 saix217 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    tsumakov tsumakov 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    It's not that I hate it. I don't. My friends and people I'm cool with can laugh at me all they want. I wouldn't give a damn. But when someone who ****** me off or isn't nice to me...
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