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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    After people have gotten to know me they always

    tell me, "when I first saw you I thought you looked spoiled and rich." I was like what.. I'm far from being spoiled and rich 😂 wth
    lunazteca lunazteca 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    This always happens to me

    and it's so annoying!
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    I've had so many people comment on my

    expirences like "You're not depressed" or " you're not even a real cutter" can you maybe do what this website was ******* made for and try to understand rather than just being a ***** and trying to be better than me. Yes I have depression I was diagnosed in 6th grade, yes I...
    recklessuntilbreathless recklessuntilbreathless 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2014

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    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M Jul 18, 2014

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    I mean HELLLO!?! You haven't

    even talked to me yet. What the hell is wrong with you?
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2014

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    It's how it is and it's awful .

    Something I would never do . So that's life and sometimes we have to take it !
    LT167 LT167 31-35, F Nov 6, 2014

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    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    Get To Know Me First

    Let me just start off by saying that I hate it when people judge me before they get to know me. In real life people assume im a know it all, and for that they think im an *******, which im not a *******, and second I do know it all. I probably know more than you do, yup.Also for...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    Very interesting day at school.

    It started off well, I helped some people out and showed them around the school and all, then came time to change classes. I was walking down the hallway, just smiling for no apparent reason, and then I heard them start to talk about me again. "Why is she even smiling?" "Maybe...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    Guys are so intimidated to talk to me.

    Girls automatically assume that I "get around" and label me as harsh things. In reality, I'm just a shy virgin that trips on air and hyperventilates when boys give me attention.
    mightymouse69 mightymouse69 16-17, F Jan 20

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    People are stupid. They often jump to

    conclusions about you without knowing anything about you! Over time, I've learnt that a friendly smile but tight lips tend to serve me best;)
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 19

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    Just because I'm half black people assume

    things about me that I don't like. I go to an all white school and I fit in more with the white kids than I do with other races. Just how it worked out.
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F Sep 27, 2014

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    I don't like people judging me,

    Especially if u don't know me. You don't know someone just by looking at them, Until you walk a day in my shoes and actually see what my life is really like. Don't say anything simple as that! Lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 25, 2014

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    I hate this people always judge me just cuz I

    sell dope that means I'm a bad person just cuz I listen to metal I'm supposedly satanic or emo Jst cuz I'm quiet that means I'm crazy I'm going through allot and sometimes people won't let meh be
    InsaneTeddy InsaneTeddy 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    My own father judges his children— me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2014

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    raraggl raraggl 13-15, F Jan 18

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    I hate when people overreact to everything from the public affairs of others, to media and people's personal lives people have to overreact. Why?
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    I hate when you meet people on a social website like this and everything goes great at first. Then something happens totally out of your control and they get mad at you for...
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    I hate when someone comes at me saying, "so I heard". Pause. Let's just get things clear. Before you start talking, just be aware that some of the things you hear may be true, or...
    MsBright MsBright 13-15, F May 17

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    it gets really annoying, you try and start a civilized friendly conversation or a conversation you both have a similar interest in. Especially when you used to talk a lot, and then...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M May 14

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    like they know. It's just random luck. telling lies are not going to help or making others feel better.
    unknownpoetx unknownpoetx 26-30, M May 14

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    I really hate when my brothers go around and use the 'rape', like it's a good thing. Or when someone calls someone a *********, who isn't. Any of those words, now that I've been...
    GoneGirl17 GoneGirl17 16-17, F May 20

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    My past two relationships were like that. One day we were fine, no fights, no problems, nothing then one day they just stop talking to me. Lucas and Ken were my last two and they...
    ceceophie ceceophie 16-17, F 1 Response May 3

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    I dont understand why people only talk to me to get requests of art and free comissions =_= they never respond, but when it comes to art they respond instantly
    KatoKangaroo KatoKangaroo 18-21, M 3 Responses May 4

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    I have the feeling that most of the times I attract bad people. Not talking only about lies, but just calling me when they desperately need something and then they disappear. I'm...
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 2 Responses May 10

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    I Hate It At All Time . I Really Hate . I'm Disappointed Every Time They're Doing It
    VampireBam VampireBam 13-15, F 1 Response May 13

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    they all think stupid , Childishness but they are wrong i'm smarter then them, i notice things no know does . that cuz they don't me
    linadabaghie linadabaghie 13-15, F 1 Response May 21

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    A year ago, I used to like this guy, but he started avoiding me once he found out I liked him because he was creeped out. Anyways, I got over him, but now for some reason, one of...
    malakhkhalil malakhkhalil 13-15, F Apr 29

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    This is my first post. I hope to use EP to vent so I don't freak out on people face to face. Lately I've been running into LIES AND LIARS. It's frustrating. My stepson was...
    doveinmypocket doveinmypocket 46-50, F 1 Response May 4

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    but I may also be wrong in thinking that they think that. Right now I am in an cabin at an campsite. And across the grass is someone foreign. But today I am just TIRED, have...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 1 Response May 8

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    I wear scars in more places than on just my heart. My arms are covered, and my legs nearly destroyed. Scars tell stories, that much is true. But they are not beautiful. They are...
    FoolOfATook FoolOfATook 16-17 May 11

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