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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    My Fiance and I have been engaged just over 2

    weeks not and his mom and sister haent said anything :/ we know that tey know about it and it hurts they wint even tell us what they think... I think theyre assuming im bad because he said they dont like him being with anyone. Or they dont like his past partners? But im not...
    DrDeathDefying DrDeathDefying 18-21, F Aug 18

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    Few people take the time to get to know me.

    I actually have more friends online because people around town judge me at first glance. Those that judge me hate me, but those that take the time to get to know me often find that their initial view of me changes for the better.
    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M Jul 24

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    they judge me based on my patriots gear then

    make fun of me lol like u don't know me
    CALIFORNIAN945 CALIFORNIAN945 18-21, M Jul 15

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    we all did it once but the people

    who still talked to youhowever those are the people you need. They went underneath and took the time to talk and dismissed the way you look.
    justDlight justDlight 18-21, M Jul 14

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    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    raraggl raraggl 13-15, F Jan 18

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    I hate when people judge me according to my

    relatives or when they judge them according to me
    warmada warmada 18-21, M Jul 27

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    Guys are so intimidated to talk to me.

    Girls automatically assume that I "get around" and label me as harsh things. In reality, I'm just a shy virgin that trips on air and hyperventilates when boys give me attention.
    mightymouse69 mightymouse69 16-17, F Jan 20

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    I believe that you can't judge a person just by

    their appearance. You have to get to know that person and find out what they are like on the inside and do your best NOT to pass judgment on anyone. We are all human and no one is perfect and we need to learn to love and accept each other without passing judgment on people.
    brianna747 brianna747 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    After people have gotten to know me they always

    tell me, "when I first saw you I thought you looked spoiled and rich." I was like what.. I'm far from being spoiled and rich 😂 wth
    lunazteca lunazteca 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    First words that people say to me

    when they meet me? "Are you ok?" "Are you mad?" "Do you hate me?" "You look like you're having a bad time" My response: "No, thats just my face."
    stephanieleon34211 stephanieleon34211 16-17, F Jul 30

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    It's how it is and it's awful .

    Something I would never do . So that's life and sometimes we have to take it !
    LT167 LT167 31-35, F Nov 6, 2014

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    Very interesting day at school.

    It started off well, I helped some people out and showed them around the school and all, then came time to change classes. I was walking down the hallway, just smiling for no apparent reason, and then I heard them start to talk about me again. "Why is she even smiling?" "Maybe...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    Just because I'm half black people assume

    things about me that I don't like. I go to an all white school and I fit in more with the white kids than I do with other races. Just how it worked out.
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F Sep 27, 2014

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    I hate that happening to me,

    and it happened a lot. but I think it's just karma because sometimes I'm judging people before I even know them. I hope I could fix it.
    anonymous1anonymous7 anonymous1anonymous7 13-15, F Jul 14

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    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M Jul 18, 2014

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    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    that's not fair to judging people just by

    appareance... make conversation with him first!
    ARandomBlack ARandomBlack 22-25, M Aug 18

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    I hate this people always judge me just cuz I

    sell dope that means I'm a bad person just cuz I listen to metal I'm supposedly satanic or emo Jst cuz I'm quiet that means I'm crazy I'm going through allot and sometimes people won't let meh be
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I can just walk down the hall

    and I know by the way people are looking at me that they're judging me. I don't know what you can get from just looking at me?
    MagentaBleu MagentaBleu 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M Jul 31

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    I don't like people judging me,

    Especially if u don't know me. You don't know someone just by looking at them, Until you walk a day in my shoes and actually see what my life is really like. Don't say anything simple as that! Lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 25, 2014

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    I believe in God but I hate to be called

    religious and I despise religion. Religion and having a RELATIONSHIP with God are two separate things , the old covenant of the law was all about your love. But the new covenant of grace is all about gods love for you. It is the truth of grace , and not of law that brings true...
    arin19807 arin19807 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    a dude blocked me because i like feet.

    .. he doesnt even know me XD
    Spideroh1 Spideroh1 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm always afraid that people will judge me

    because of how I look and act, before they get to know me. So I constantly feel like people are laughing at me or looking down on me. They probably are, too. :)
    Ranmali Ranmali 13-15 Jul 15

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    Well I may not be white

    but why should someone be surprised at my name here whitesunshine.My real name means white and I added sunshine to signify positivity.Does white always have to be about race?Someone named Mr Green or Mr .Brown can be white too.
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I feel like so many of the 'popular' teenage

    girls always do this. Like if you don't wear a tonne of makeup they will quickly assume you're poor. Or they will think you're weird if you say you don't like a famous singer that most teenage girls do! I hate it so much. I hate it so much.
    taytay1401 taytay1401 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    People on this site think

    because u flirt that u are automatically a creeper and don't realize that maybe u want to actually be friends and talk bout ****. How your days goin how life is goin. Just talk yes sometimes I want to trade pics or joke and sometimes I am mad or sad and would like to...
    Kztrust Kztrust 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    People are stupid. They often jump to

    conclusions about you without knowing anything about you! Over time, I've learnt that a friendly smile but tight lips tend to serve me best;)
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 19

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    I mean HELLLO!?! You haven't

    even talked to me yet. What the hell is wrong with you?
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2014

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    My own father judges his children— me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2014

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    This always happens to me

    and it's so annoying!
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    If I'm pissed off, just back off and keep your opinions to yourself.
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