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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    Three Years

    Ugly, fat ***, ******, gay those were the names I was called for three years when I moved to a new elementary school in 3rd grade. I seriously had no choice whether or not I wanted to go there my parents pretty much forced me to go cause it was closer to both their jobs. I was...
    ConquistadorXL ConquistadorXL 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    Get To Know Me First

    Let me just start off by saying that I hate it when people judge me before they get to know me. In real life people assume im a know it all, and for that they think im an *******, which im not a *******, and second I do know it all. I probably know more than you do, yup.Also for...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Dec 11, 2012

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    I hate when people judge me even thought they don't really no me for me
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    I'm a quarter African American, and when people say this it's not only offensive to me but I know it's offensive to dark skinned people who hear it. They may laugh it off, but it's...
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    I look down when I walk because I don't want people to look at me or judge me.
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    I'm sick of my state it's so judge mental. I get looks all the time because of my skin color and (I'm not gay) but it has the highest rate if gay suicides because it is not...
    sheriff96 sheriff96 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    We all judge. You can't help it! As soon as you see someone you make assumptions based on how they look or sound or what they're doing. That's human nature.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I hate that i cant go anywhere without some twelvie looking me up and down
    ILYBlackVeilBrides ILYBlackVeilBrides 13-15, F Apr 15

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    *cough* my boyfriends mom *cough* She knows nothing about me, and still judges me. Ugh.
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    People who talk to me only when they need to talk to someone. I'm all for listening to my friends vent but not ONLY for that. I'm not a therapist, nor do I plan on being a...
    PitchDaffy PitchDaffy 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Most people I know cannot be honest with what they feel about me, and I hate it. It bugs me when they go drink alcohol so they can have the guts to tell me. Man up and say what you...
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    "Maybe you're depressed and having all these problems in your life because you strayed from God," my sister told me. What bullshit. Even when I was religious, I was depressed...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Yes I make bad choices in my life I regret some I made good choices too I love god and I am not as bad as some people act like I am
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    at some point you have to realize that some people can only stay in your heart not in your life....
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    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Mar 25

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    I finally deleted you, you know? All that time & energy wasted on listening to your LIES. I think the reason you "disappeared" is because lies are simply too hard to keep up and...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Apr 4

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    I feel bad for obese people and they say they cant do it but they can :) the reason i feel bad cause yesterday i say a obese 32 year old guy running and this guy said stop fatty...
    Drags700 Drags700 31-35 5 Responses Mar 31

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    I cannot stand petty offenses of social code and rules. Those who budge a line, ask employees to do things they're not supposed to, manipulate even little things to try and get...
    cybersoupkitchen cybersoupkitchen 22-25, F Apr 10

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    I am african american or black,whichever you prefer to call it,either way I have brown skin.Where I live people use the 'N' word ALL the time,no one says it in racism,its other...
    ShyWallflower ShyWallflower 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am sure that everyone encountered a "know it all" at some point! My problem is, I work with one! This person ALWAYS has something to say about everything!!!! Most days I am...
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    So there's this new girl that moved to our school and I hate her, she's so bubbly and happy all the time and she doesn't get I hate her she won't bloody leave me alone and she...
    TheGreenEyedGirl TheGreenEyedGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    ohitsgracee ohitsgracee 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I was losing my BFF.yep,a reason must be unbelievable and impossible but it truly sure!! They hurt me by making happy moment around me and laugh with others and stare at me as...
    JingNean JingNean 16-17, F Mar 31

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    Especially when they're explaining something to me and don't give me enough information. No, I don't understand. I'm not a ******* mind reader!
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I hate internet dating so much...it's alway never be true!!! Cheater alway cheat! Hurt us so bad!! Anyone had of this experience??
    JingNean JingNean 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Me and a couple people got in an argument about my ex, his sister said it was me and chases fault he was acting like a ****. ( chase is my boyfriend )
    diaperedsammy diaperedsammy 16-17, M Mar 29

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    Look, these people are obese for a reason and it is NOT down to inheritance...... Just saying
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M Apr 2

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    as a toddler, I would always hit my head, and yes, I had trouble pronouncing words too (since thats a sign) but it got better but I still have trouble at times. Anyway, I always...
    KiraAnkoku71 KiraAnkoku71 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I'm pain of hurt..6 people hurt me in the same time :( thank u for hurting me
    JingNean JingNean 16-17, F Apr 11

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    What's more annoying is that the people who hurt you tend to be the ones who said wouldn't hurt you, and the ones you were close with. 😔
    ConcealedWildheart ConcealedWildheart 13-15, F Apr 12

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    That feeling when your friend says hes busy , but you meet him at the store with other friends going drinking. Rude.
    notworthitatall notworthitatall 18-21, M Apr 12

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    Why are looks more important than the real person in the inside?
    Littlemonster77777 Littlemonster77777 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    ~~~~~~~Who doesn't?~~~~~~~
    justaGeneralization justaGeneralization 13-15, F Mar 30

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    Sheslikethewind Sheslikethewind 18-21, F Apr 2

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    I feel like I've just been kind of mini-abandoned. Even if you have to go suddenly, it's not that hard to send "gtg"
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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