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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    I've had so many people comment on my

    expirences like "You're not depressed" or " you're not even a real cutter" can you maybe do what this website was ******* made for and try to understand rather than just being a ***** and trying to be better than me. Yes I have depression I was diagnosed in 6th grade, yes I...
    recklessuntilbreathless recklessuntilbreathless 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Get To Know Me First

    Let me just start off by saying that I hate it when people judge me before they get to know me. In real life people assume im a know it all, and for that they think im an *******, which im not a *******, and second I do know it all. I probably know more than you do, yup.Also for...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M Jul 18

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    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    My own father judges his children— me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    Mikaylaxo Mikaylaxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Hate When People Talk to Me Like Im Stupid
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    It ****** me off when people touch my stuff. I don't care if nobody cares about this comment if I was you people I wouldn't care either, but I need to vent. Isn't it just so...
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    Someone posted something saying that being a teenager is hard and I commented saying I understand etc as I am one myself, I was then judged and told how I don't know what I'm...
    BrainnahGrace BrainnahGrace 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    People judge me because I have a birthmark on my face
    carmia carmia 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's happened to me so many times in all my years. I just absolutely hate it when people talk to like I'm uneducated, stupid, or even sound like I'm mixing up words in my sentence...
    SamHarris SamHarris 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I hate when I am in the middle of a nice conversation and they suddenly stop messaging me back! The worst part is that I know that they have their phone on them all the time!
    PrincessAphrodite PrincessAphrodite 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Yep they pretend to care when really there just like everyone else they hate me so much that they tell people every secret I've shared thinking they cared shows how smart I am ..I...
    noolybabe14 noolybabe14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I ******* hate it when people pity me. I have to waste my time making them feel better about I am!! Worry about you not me
    mypath43 mypath43 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    okay, let me make this clear. I am a skinny person. I am a size 2 and I eat healthy (hate junkfood) and I do a lot of sports and I love being active. But I am skinny because of my...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I can't stand it when people talk loud on their cell phones allowing everyone around them in on their conversation. That is so rude and it isn't necessary.
    strawberry38 strawberry38 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    What i post is my business. You won't change how i live my life by being dirt bags, i can tell you this much. But guess what people, you will cause me to have a few panic attacks...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Exactly, those think they know everything drives those who do know everything crazy. LOL
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T Jul 11

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    Some people are so quick to judge without even trying to get to that person! Sorry I battle depression, sorry I have paranoia and let words get to me.......... How shallow are some...
    XannaleiseX XannaleiseX 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    i feel like all half my friends do is judge me! i honestly do need new friends! i can only like actually trust and tell 3 friends everything!
    leilanitgod leilanitgod 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Just the other day , I had someone hit me up , pretend to be interested in chatting , even send a pic , and as soon as I gave them a compliment they ran and blocked me. People...
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M Jul 17

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    No one truly has the right to judge anyone else because we are all on our own path in life and we do not know what someone else may be dealing with.
    Christy922 Christy922 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I find it difficult to keep my temper when this happens. What I've noticed is 9 times out of 10, the person talking to me this way talks that way to almost everyone. That makes it...
    Sunburst Sunburst 22-25 3 days ago

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    I lost a 'friend' because of this. She called me on my mobile and we set up plans to meet the next Monday at midday. We have not seen each other for a year and only spoken a little...
    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 10

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    I am so tired of hearing the neverending professional dress code rules applied to males and females but primairly to females. There are many reasons why I can't stand professional...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Talk to me like I am stupid and I will turn it around on you. You will not get the best of me, that is so rude and uncalled for to talk to me like I am stupid. Maybe your the...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    People always leave. At some point it another, they leave. It's like I am a magnet, and I repel anybody who could possibly be close to me. Nobody ever sticks around long enough...
    LiveForAnotherDay LiveForAnotherDay 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    When you go up to someone and call them different, take a step back for a moment and understand this. No one is the same everyone has different fingerprints, taste in music, taste...
    HeatherNightmare HeatherNightmare 16-17, F Jul 7

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    i don't know why people promise to stay forever in my life when they don't do so...............i like my bestiee so much......whenever i text her she replies that she was busy...
    jimmybf jimmybf 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Especially here on ep. Moronically arrogant pinheads do it. At first i blamed texting. Texting does cause misunderstandings. Then mental egos. A psychopath and a...
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 12

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    My friends do it all the time it's annoying like for Fancy when iggy said iggy ti biggiy (something like that) I asked is that her last name they are like no its azelea don't u no...
    justplainawkward justplainawkward 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I also hate it when religious people (mainly christians) classes me as someone who has no moral beliefs and lives in sin. I'm an atheist but I'm also a spiritualist. I have never...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    it just rude and people know there doing it
    paige100 paige100 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Most do but. Did we set them up. Or did life fowl them up. Hurt is ok. But hate??? Hate jerks. Not those who tried.
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    I know I already wrote a "experience" in this "experience" but I just wanted to write a bit more on this topic. I work with people who have disabilities in a residential setting...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F Jul 12

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    I feel invisible . I'm only remembered when something is needed . It's so sad and I'm so over it .
    Goodlifegirl Goodlifegirl 31-35, F Jul 14

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    Wow. I just got blocked by someone whom I was merely encouraging to think for herself and not let people put ideas in her head without understanding why she accepts them. I'd hate...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 1 Response a week ago