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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    Get To Know Me First

    Let me just start off by saying that I hate it when people judge me before they get to know me. In real life people assume im a know it all, and for that they think im an *******, which im not a *******, and second I do know it all. I probably know more than you do, yup.Also for...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    Just because I'm half black people assume

    things about me that I don't like. I go to an all white school and I fit in more with the white kids than I do with other races. Just how it worked out.
    Aepeth Aepeth 16-17, F Sep 27

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    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M Jul 18

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    My own father judges his children— me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    *Did you mean "I hate it

    when life" ?*
    strawberryletter22 strawberryletter22 18-21, F Sep 25

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    I've had so many people comment on my

    expirences like "You're not depressed" or " you're not even a real cutter" can you maybe do what this website was ******* made for and try to understand rather than just being a ***** and trying to be better than me. Yes I have depression I was diagnosed in 6th grade, yes I...
    recklessuntilbreathless recklessuntilbreathless 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I mean HELLLO!?! You haven't

    even talked to me yet. What the hell is wrong with you?
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Very interesting day at school.

    It started off well, I helped some people out and showed them around the school and all, then came time to change classes. I was walking down the hallway, just smiling for no apparent reason, and then I heard them start to talk about me again. "Why is she even smiling?" "Maybe...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I don't like people judging me,

    Especially if u don't know me. You don't know someone just by looking at them, Until you walk a day in my shoes and actually see what my life is really like. Don't say anything simple as that! Lol
    sweetlikesuga sweetlikesuga 26-30, F Sep 25

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    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Sometimes I feel like people do it because they know it annoys me and makes me lose my appetite.
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F Oct 7

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    It gets on my nerves. There was once a time when none of us knew anything and that's why you have to learn. Sometimes people learn things later than others and those who know...
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    I don't have OCD. I probably never will since no one else in my family has it, but when someone touches my stuff, it just drives me crazy. I'm not a greedy person, meaning I really...
    Neixkolai Neixkolai 16-17, M Sep 23

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    i am in mythology studies and everyone thinks i am stupid so this guy starts talking about how I'm so pretty and i'm the Aphrodite of the class and then he tries to explain who she...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    They come in and are like "Oooooooh, I like this!" and then they ******* pick it up, and Im just like " yeah, i like it to, SO STOP TOUCHING IT BEFORE YOU BREAK IT!!"
    JezebelWhitman JezebelWhitman 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I jump or start swinging when someone sneaks up behind me. It scares the crap out of me I can't help. I have come close to hitting people. They start talking and I dont know they...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F Sep 25

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    My boyfriends parents don't like me. How do I know that ? They used to tell me all the time that they love me and they were always checking on me to see how I am.. Well recently...
    sophiajuststop sophiajuststop 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    You know what really grinds my gears? People who love themselves so much that they would attempt to mold and influence another person in that same image. Bigots with prejudices and...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    Ahh, that's my boyfriend. I love him but I hate that trait of his. It's so annoying.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    Get politically correct, in general,but when there's no reason. Or feel they're a spokesperson for a group or face or what have you. Case in point: I dye my hair black. With my...
    TheNerdYouLove TheNerdYouLove 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I feel that it is just to unfair to the person that is being lied to ESPECIALLY if that person BELIEVES in the lie. In that case I find it just so bad anf I hate it when someone...
    hitgod hitgod 18-21, M Sep 21

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    It's hurtful and really hurtful when you want to learn then they call you stupid
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 26

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    Basically explaining to someone how I am depressed and can't do anything because I have a chronic disease which makes me unable to even get out of bed most days.. And he replies...
    MrsKAura MrsKAura 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    And they can eat the dirtiest part of my *** honestly. I'm not sorry ok. If you start talking out of your *** about things you have NO idea about stay ALLLLLL the ******* way away...
    pinkypie5 pinkypie5 22-25, F Oct 7

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    I have no problem if they begin with the words "I think", "in my opinion" or "I believe". That can evoke interesting conversation or debate. Two of the biggest offenders, IN MY...
    HoosierHieny HoosierHieny 61-65, M Sep 29

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    I'm fairly sure this is sort of a quote but I can't remember who said it. Anyway, if you talk a lot, you're hearing what you already know. If you're open to hearing what others say...
    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F Oct 1

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    My younger brother is the know-it-all in my family. Once, he started arguing with me to the point of yelling about whether I colored a drawing of mine in. I mean seriously, why...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    It just annoys me so much, anything that sounds like jelly being mixed with forever kinda annoy me and when I can hear the food in their mouth like if they had Mac and cheese I...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    When my brother touch my iPod or other stuff! It makes me go crazy cause he puts it somewhere else and then it get lost and I get in trouble for it.. I hate it and he is a jerk for...
    williamm02 williamm02 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    I literally wanna kill that person as soon as they put fingers on it! Okay maybe not literally but I get really upset inside. Seriously, I have all my secrets in them. I should...
    MixedEmotions2000 MixedEmotions2000 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Make me love animals more than ever...especially horses and dogs, they are not only intelligent and loving but also loyal and trustable...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Yea I don't know everything. Im going to ask questions so I can learn. That doesn't make me stupid
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 25

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    When I was in highschool I couldn't walk through the halls without hearing "Hey bro how was your weekend!?" "Total kegger man! You know meagen?" "Yea?" "Banged her, man!" "DUUUDE...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 25

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    Personally I hate yelling and being yelled at it makes me feel bad for doing it or for somebody yelling at me
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F Sep 26

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    My music teacher did it to me on my first day in there. He went up to me while I was sitting with my guitar and said do you even know how to play that. As if I was just with it to...
    natashaharuno natashaharuno 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    Oh man! I hate this in general but I got a really close buddy of mine who does this every single argument we have blows nothing into a big huge mess! It drives me nuts!!!! One time...
    FireManMike1 FireManMike1 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 9

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    Anti gay lady hates gays says we need help. Put her settings on private does want to understand she needs help.
    skyboy4545 skyboy4545 61-65, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I feel thorn between annoyance and amusement when that happens. Usually because the people who try to get away with it are quite ignorant and have no idea of how educated I am.
    Sybilla89 Sybilla89 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago