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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    People are stupid. They often jump to

    conclusions about you without knowing anything about you! Over time, I've learnt that a friendly smile but tight lips tend to serve me best;)
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    Well, hate is a strong word

    so I would say that I strongly dislike when people judge me based on the way I look. I do have social anxiety so I get anxious in crowds. I usually find a place to sit and listen to music or read a book. Most of my friends tell me that when they first looked at me I looked...
    thunderkisses thunderkisses 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    This always happens to me

    and it's so annoying!
    brookmay brookmay 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    Just because I'm half black people assume

    things about me that I don't like. I go to an all white school and I fit in more with the white kids than I do with other races. Just how it worked out.
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F Sep 27, 2014

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    I don't like people judging me,

    Especially if u don't know me. You don't know someone just by looking at them, Until you walk a day in my shoes and actually see what my life is really like. Don't say anything simple as that! Lol
    mizzdimples mizzdimples 26-30, F Sep 25, 2014

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    I mean HELLLO!?! You haven't

    even talked to me yet. What the hell is wrong with you?
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2014

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    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    I've had so many people comment on my

    expirences like "You're not depressed" or " you're not even a real cutter" can you maybe do what this website was ******* made for and try to understand rather than just being a ***** and trying to be better than me. Yes I have depression I was diagnosed in 6th grade, yes I...
    recklessuntilbreathless recklessuntilbreathless 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2014

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    After people have gotten to know me they always

    tell me, "when I first saw you I thought you looked spoiled and rich." I was like what.. I'm far from being spoiled and rich 😂 wth
    lunazteca lunazteca 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Very interesting day at school.

    It started off well, I helped some people out and showed them around the school and all, then came time to change classes. I was walking down the hallway, just smiling for no apparent reason, and then I heard them start to talk about me again. "Why is she even smiling?" "Maybe...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    raraggl raraggl 13-15, F Jan 18

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    Guys are so intimidated to talk to me.

    Girls automatically assume that I "get around" and label me as harsh things. In reality, I'm just a shy virgin that trips on air and hyperventilates when boys give me attention.
    mightymouse69 mightymouse69 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    It's how it is and it's awful .

    Something I would never do . So that's life and sometimes we have to take it !
    LT167 LT167 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    I hate this people always judge me just cuz I

    sell dope that means I'm a bad person just cuz I listen to metal I'm supposedly satanic or emo Jst cuz I'm quiet that means I'm crazy I'm going through allot and sometimes people won't let meh be
    InsaneTeddy InsaneTeddy 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Get To Know Me First

    Let me just start off by saying that I hate it when people judge me before they get to know me. In real life people assume im a know it all, and for that they think im an *******, which im not a *******, and second I do know it all. I probably know more than you do, yup.Also for...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M Jul 18, 2014

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    My own father judges his children— me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2014

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    How come people who think they know everything never seem to know when to shut up? :)
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    Mistakes happen. You can either be a pessimistic *** about it, or you can except reality and just be happy for the pregnant teen. I realize it's not an ideal situation, but you...
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F Jan 17

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    I'm 14 and I think I'm 2 months now me and the guy I'm with have known each other since 2011 and we've been dating for a year now so don't judge not all teens are bad moms
    tequila16 tequila16 16-17, F Jan 17

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    Those are my favorite people. I do my best to put them down and show the ones who go out of their way to show how much better they are that they are just the same as the rest if us...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Jan 9

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    i really hated when people ask me for money in the university at home they always ask me for money they assume am rich from my looks but i dont work and i dont have any money i...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    People who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do. Isaac Asimov
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I absolutely hate when people don't do their job and blame it on someone else. Take control of yourself and man up and take the blame. You suck at what you do and your out is to...
    Boombah3 Boombah3 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate it when people think they know me better, its like they decide how i feel its like they decide what i am saying or doing. I am the one who says the truth about myself, i am...
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F Jan 11

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    I am not saying that I am a great mom or the best in the world but am trying to be. Being a single parent is really hard.My daughter's birthday was last week. She had 2...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 11

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    I can't stand it, so rude when people say they want to chat then take ages to reply or not at all. I mean seriously?
    NotgoingsoloAus NotgoingsoloAus 18-21, M Dec 31, 2014

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    Hmmm... many to say but to keep it short I will just mention the current people I encounter in my day to day life. first my younger brother - for me all people are important and...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M Dec 28, 2014

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    What you do, always comes with a consequence. Good or bad. ------------------------------- So here's a 100% true story, that is currently going on in my life. I won't say names...
    HannahMarieX HannahMarieX 18-21 Jan 13

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    Everyone has their own likings of what they want to do on E.P.But I find sometimes that people take you in your circle and hardly interact with you.I am not being judgemental.Just...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I mean, seriously. Who are you? What brought you to my profile? And most importantly, why are you adding me? What made you notice me long enough to care? I want to know these...
    themanoflegends themanoflegends 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why are you looking at me like that? Who are you to stand there and judge me? I'm just waiting for you to throw that book at me. The black one with the gold letters. You tell me...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    There's this girl who I'm sure will grow up to be a perfect little B*tch. She strives too hard to be at the top of everything, even to the point of being annoying. She never...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I now hate doing favors for people, regardless of how bad I feel sorry for them. I am still waiting to get my money back for helping you out, but I already know it won't happen...
    NicoleDollx NicoleDollx 22-25, F Jan 6

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    In India they say.."Parents are never wrong" i totally disagree.. i was neglected as a child.... they never cared about my depression problems,my health,my studies...and my future...
    lovebug19980 lovebug19980 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 7

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    Whole time I'm there but now all of a sudden the mystical Jamel comes from nowhere with glowing lights just for you to ask for a f****** pencil f*** you honestly you did not know I...
    JamOnly JamOnly 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    Nobody is perfect and everyone has flaws. Before you think about degrading or belittling or saying something offensive to someone who is obese, take a good look at yourself in the...
    hsnpman hsnpman 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    My cousins' story: They lived with their mother and father for a while. The kids slept late. Didn't do homework. Their parents couldn't care less. "Do your homework" is not enough...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M Jan 16

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    if you have to pass a test to drive a car i feel you should have to pass a test before you can have a kid...mandatory birth control for those who fail! just sayin!
    mamaberry27 mamaberry27 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Honestly, I wish people would give me a reason.. That way at least I would know what I'm doing wrong. I mean, I get that it's not all my fault, but at the same time- after getting...
    Harmony242 Harmony242 22-25, F Dec 27, 2014

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