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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    Very interesting day at school.

    It started off well, I helped some people out and showed them around the school and all, then came time to change classes. I was walking down the hallway, just smiling for no apparent reason, and then I heard them start to talk about me again. "Why is she even smiling?" "Maybe...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    Get To Know Me First

    Let me just start off by saying that I hate it when people judge me before they get to know me. In real life people assume im a know it all, and for that they think im an *******, which im not a *******, and second I do know it all. I probably know more than you do, yup.Also for...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    Just because I'm half black people assume

    things about me that I don't like. I go to an all white school and I fit in more with the white kids than I do with other races. Just how it worked out.
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F Sep 27, 2014

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    I don't like people judging me,

    Especially if u don't know me. You don't know someone just by looking at them, Until you walk a day in my shoes and actually see what my life is really like. Don't say anything simple as that! Lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 25, 2014

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    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    My own father judges his children— me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2014

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    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M Jul 18, 2014

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I mean HELLLO!?! You haven't

    even talked to me yet. What the hell is wrong with you?
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2014

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    It's how it is and it's awful .

    Something I would never do . So that's life and sometimes we have to take it !
    LT167 LT167 31-35, F Nov 6, 2014

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    After people have gotten to know me they always

    tell me, "when I first saw you I thought you looked spoiled and rich." I was like what.. I'm far from being spoiled and rich 😂 wth
    lunazteca lunazteca 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    This always happens to me

    and it's so annoying!
    brookmay brookmay 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    I've had so many people comment on my

    expirences like "You're not depressed" or " you're not even a real cutter" can you maybe do what this website was ******* made for and try to understand rather than just being a ***** and trying to be better than me. Yes I have depression I was diagnosed in 6th grade, yes I...
    recklessuntilbreathless recklessuntilbreathless 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2014

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    Guys are so intimidated to talk to me.

    Girls automatically assume that I "get around" and label me as harsh things. In reality, I'm just a shy virgin that trips on air and hyperventilates when boys give me attention.
    mightymouse69 mightymouse69 16-17, F Jan 20

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    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    raraggl raraggl 13-15, F Jan 18

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    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    People are stupid. They often jump to

    conclusions about you without knowing anything about you! Over time, I've learnt that a friendly smile but tight lips tend to serve me best;)
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 19

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    I hate this people always judge me just cuz I

    sell dope that means I'm a bad person just cuz I listen to metal I'm supposedly satanic or emo Jst cuz I'm quiet that means I'm crazy I'm going through allot and sometimes people won't let meh be
    InsaneTeddy InsaneTeddy 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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