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I Hate It When People Judge Me Before They Get To Know Me

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    This always happens to me

    and it's so annoying!
    brookmay brookmay 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    It's how it is and it's awful .

    Something I would never do . So that's life and sometimes we have to take it !
    LT167 LT167 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M Jul 18

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    If you have a problem with me.

    ..call me...if you don't have my number you don't know me well enough to have a problem..
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    How can you judge someone over the Internet?

    You don't even know them. You're just behind a computer screen. .-.
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Seriously

    In the words of a brilliant comedian... "Before you judge someone, try walking a mile in their shoes. That way, you are a mile ahead of them, and you have their shoes."
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    I hate this people always judge me just cuz I

    sell dope that means I'm a bad person just cuz I listen to metal I'm supposedly satanic or emo Jst cuz I'm quiet that means I'm crazy I'm going through allot and sometimes people won't let meh be
    teddy714 teddy714 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 5

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    I mean HELLLO!?! You haven't

    even talked to me yet. What the hell is wrong with you?
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    Very interesting day at school.

    It started off well, I helped some people out and showed them around the school and all, then came time to change classes. I was walking down the hallway, just smiling for no apparent reason, and then I heard them start to talk about me again. "Why is she even smiling?" "Maybe...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Know Me First

    I hate when people judge me before they get to know me. I can't say I'm not guilty of doing the same thing, because I am.It's really bad that we judge people before we get to know them. We see them, we hear stories about them and assume things about them. I am definitely guilty...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Nov 21, 2012

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    People Always Judge You Before They Get To Know You

    this one girl said i was ugly so i wasnt her friend. this guy told me i look like a **** because my shirt was a bit tight. my teacher said i look like a rag doll because my hair was up. my best friend said i was nothing important because shes better than me and weve been friends...
    BeautifulVixen BeautifulVixen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    *Did you mean "I hate it

    when life" ?*
    strawberryletter22 strawberryletter22 18-21, F Sep 25

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    Ugh... I know I'm far from being perfect.

    Why do you think I feel that way? I really don't get it... I'm nice to you, I greet you people everyday, I offer coffee and donuts and what do I get in response? A nose stuck up in the air and a **** YOU posted on your forehead. Okay fine I'll keep my distance and allow you to...
    IAmNotPeppercorn IAmNotPeppercorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    I don't like people judging me,

    Especially if u don't know me. You don't know someone just by looking at them, Until you walk a day in my shoes and actually see what my life is really like. Don't say anything simple as that! Lol
    mizzdimples mizzdimples 26-30, F Sep 25

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    I've had so many people comment on my

    expirences like "You're not depressed" or " you're not even a real cutter" can you maybe do what this website was ******* made for and try to understand rather than just being a ***** and trying to be better than me. Yes I have depression I was diagnosed in 6th grade, yes I...
    recklessuntilbreathless recklessuntilbreathless 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    How do you judge someone

    before you meet them? I don't get it. We'll call this moron "M"... M is a big *** teenager who barely fits in the school doorway he bullied me half the school year.M you're a idiot I still to this day don't know how you could say you hate me on the first day of school when I was...
    wassup305 wassup305 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    You Don't Know Me

    You don't know Me,Who are you to judge?I hate that kinda thing,If you want to know Me,Don't judge first!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 2, 2011

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    My own father judges his children— me,

    my sister and my brother. Sometimes even my mom and most of the time our maid's cooking. He criticises everything around him. The only things he doesn't disagree with is himself and his opinions. Any thoughts? Who of you know people who are close-minded and dismissive? Let's all...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Get To Know Me First

    Let me just start off by saying that I hate it when people judge me before they get to know me. In real life people assume im a know it all, and for that they think im an *******, which im not a *******, and second I do know it all. I probably know more than you do, yup.Also for...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    Don’t Judge Me

    Don’t judge me,You don’t know me,When people do,I hate it,It’s just not on,It’s one sure way,I’ll get my back up!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    Just because I'm half black people assume

    things about me that I don't like. I go to an all white school and I fit in more with the white kids than I do with other races. Just how it worked out.
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F Sep 27

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    I hate it when people say: He's a nice person when u get to know him...... Haha just say he's a dickhead but but I'll get used to it I hate when people say They hate someone and...
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    I hate hate hate hate when people say panties. Hate.
    littleindigoviolet littleindigoviolet 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    ychan100x ychan100x 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    I hate when people say ... sorry not sorry. its annoying.
    MsLilyStar MsLilyStar 31-35, F Nov 20

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    I hate when people say: "it's 5 o'clock somewhere" it just....ugh!!! Just shut the ef up!! So annoying, used to work at a bar & heard it one too many times.
    Isayis23 Isayis23 26-30, M Nov 20

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    I hate when people say it is what it is! it's what you make it be dammit!
    iwannabeavictim iwannabeavictim 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    I hate when people say YOLO.... like come on... do you wanna die? jk
    oliviatt oliviatt 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    I hate when people make me feel like I'm going to be accepted just to find out I'm not even important to them. She made me think I was gunna be accepted and needed and she won't...
    DontTouchBestFriend DontTouchBestFriend 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate when I ask someone a question and they don't respond so I ask again and they shout the answer at me as if I was the one being annoying! If you just answered the first time I...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    I hate it when people make jokes about rape and violence towards women.
    TeresaChanaki TeresaChanaki 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    I hate it when people pronounce specifically as 'pacifically', it annoys me more that it should.
    Northlame Northlame 18-21, M Nov 20

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    I hate it when people say I'm to pretty or nice to be single. I want to find the right guy. I'm not gonna settle for anyone just to have someone.
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    Like you think I'm a wimp because I want to end my life well you don't know my life right now I have a very good valid reason to end my life! I don't care what you people say!
    Fitzpatrick09 Fitzpatrick09 13-15, M Dec 3

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    I just hate them because they must be full of themselves. I mean, it's safe to say smokers have been told not to smoke before. In fact, every time they look at their pack it tells...
    bsthebenster bsthebenster 18-21, M Nov 26

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    This one goes out to all of the people who tell me that being a spy is nothing like being James Bond. First off let me state the obvious because there are some very stupid people...
    JoeDog93 JoeDog93 18-21, M Nov 24

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    never jealous that's for certain but when I see someone who just takes what they have for granted (relationships, cars, people, finances, etc). I don't get it! how could they be so...
    Mystique91 Mystique91 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Because 9 time about of 10 they don't even know what the **** they are talking about. It just comes off as arrogant and that is not something you wish to be or you will have no...
    Passionfruit101 Passionfruit101 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 8

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    NOTE: Please be nice! This website is a safe-haven for people who need to get things off their chests! Thank you in advance for not being mean! Let's all just like and love what...
    YuriXWolfram86 YuriXWolfram86 18-21, F Nov 25

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    I don't want you people to feel guilty for not being there when I needed you. Please understand that all you relatives and so called friends weren't just cut out for this thing...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    It really kills the mood. Yeah, when your with me. Sometimes there will be silence. I'm ok with that. When I'm quiet, and I'm around someone or with a bunch of people, they always...
    feint30 feint30 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    I once had a non-orthodox Jewish teacher in my community college. All she ever did was tell her students from India how beautiful they were... It made me sit there and think...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear person who finished the calculus test in 10 minutes, smirked and yelled: IM DONE. I hope you fail and wipe that smirk of your face Sincerely, stuck on the first question...
    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    When there is an obvious problem between people but they say everything is ok.
    spacemonkeyea spacemonkeyea 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 20

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    Why are you always so quiet and serious?! Like, seriously? This is my normal neutral face and some people think that I'm angry or indifferent. Why do they do this?
    anilu1019 anilu1019 16-17, F Nov 20

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