I Hate It When People Say "cheer Up" To The Depressed

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    If i knew what to do to stop feeling like this

    i would! Stop f***ing saying everything is going to be ok, you dont need to be feeling like this ,dont take life for granted blah ,blah,blah ...im so sick of fake people.
    Tamona35 Tamona35
    36-40, F
    Jan 17

    I hate it when people say anything

    when someone is depressed. Like they understand. Screw words, words often make it worse.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 2, 2014

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