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I Hate It When People Stare At Me

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    Wondering Why People Stare At Me - When I see a person for the first time, I tend to make one look..Then I take back my look..Every normal humanbeings do this I guess..But in my...
    Vijijcob Vijijcob 41-45, M 8 Responses Sep 21, 2010

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    I Hate It! - I actually confront people sometimes because I think it's totally rude. If I feel they don't mean it in a bad way but are just curious about something, I speak to them...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 4 Responses May 31, 2013

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    So Much - happens everywhere! ,and sometimes they did it as a bully tactic:(
    AussieListener AussieListener 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2013

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    Please Don't Stare - Ugh! Possibly the worst thing a person can do is stare at me. It automatically makes me unsettled and nervous. I begin to think that I have something wrong...
    justlana justlana 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2013

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    Take A Pic - I hate when people stare at me take a pic it lasts longer. I know um weird and some say pretty but don't stare. I will call you out on it. What the **** are you...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    Paranoid. - It makes me feel so paranoid like they are speaking about me, thinking about me and don't want to be in there thoughts  I'm not good with criticism but when i...
    aliceXIONU aliceXIONU 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    >.>....stop staring - Ughhh. It really bothers me when people stare. If you have something to say, say it to me instead of giving me looks. Especially when it's some fat old...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    Judgemental Eyes - As it's summer, everyone else is in bright lovely summery clothing whereas today when I went into town quickly with my mum to pick up a couple of things, I was...
    PierceTheChristie PierceTheChristie 13-15, F Jul 6, 2013

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    I honestly don't like when they sit and stare, really!!! What do you want? If you have a question ask it! If you think I'm ugly! Say it! Doesn't matter.
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Feb 27

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    I will stare you down until you look away.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    It's Rude... - I remember when I was a little girl, my mother always said to me, "Don't stare, it's rude." I would like to say that to a person I see almost daily who stares at me...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    When You See A Teen Mom :O !! - When I was pregnant I hated it when people whispered and stared at me all through the store. talking about me. I get a lot of attention . I just wan...
    jadebigfan jadebigfan 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    What Do They Want? - I can't stand it when a person persistently stares at me.  I can understand a quick glance or someone staring off into space, but when they are looking...
    Reeny Reeny 26-30 9 Responses Mar 23, 2008

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    ok so yesterday i went to the mall and there was this group of guys and they were staring at me so bad as if they have never ever seen a girl before . It really pissed me off .I...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F Mar 11

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    I hate being stared at so much! It makes me really really uncomfortable I automatically think you're talking about me or secretly making fun of me. Even if you're admiring me or...
    PrincessAbigail89 PrincessAbigail89 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I Hate Being Stared At. - I ABSOLUTELY HATE being stared at. My bullies will sit in class and stare at me the whole time. Or the other day I was ihop with my uncle and these girls...
    BrittneyJean15 BrittneyJean15 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    I Like Staring At Big Fat Men - I like to stare at big fat men of all ages and races because I am sexually attracted to them.
    stewbee stewbee 51-55 4 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    It'S Ridicilous (From A Guy'S Point Of View) - I really never understood why other guys does stare at girls like x-ray machines It seems too stupid to me I tried to do it more than...
    PiecingMeBackTogether PiecingMeBackTogether 18-21 1 Response May 25, 2013

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    Take A Picture, Why Don't You? - It always bothers me when people stare at me and I make eye contact. I'm not sure if they're staring at me because they like/hate what I'm wearing...
    dxj5069 dxj5069 18-21, M Mar 10, 2012

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    It makes me feel uncomfortable we some one is just constantly looking at me it makes me nervous 0_o
    mia957 mia957 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    Sly Park Camping Resort - Acouple of friends and I went camping in the middle of August at Sly park near Placerville, California. It was $30 a night, and we spent $150 for five...
    RickiiPanda RickiiPanda 22-25 1 Response Aug 10, 2013

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    Seriously. It's the most uncomfortable thing in the world! And the excuse of well they might think you're attractive is invalid. Glancing occasionally with a smile is flirting...
    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    If You're Staring At Me, You Better Have Something To Say. - I despise being stared at. Of course, I can understand why it happens. I'm a really skinny guy with big hair and a...
    poopyloop poopyloop 22-25, M Aug 21, 2013

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    When I just cough in the class all the girls stare at me and I am like "what?" They **** me off.
    Lonelyvamp2 Lonelyvamp2 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Get The Hell Over It!! - Yes I was in a fire,yes I don't look like Justin Bieber,but you don't have to stare at me! When I asked some guy the question "haven't you seen a burn...
    YoungGothicWriter YoungGothicWriter 18-21 1 Response Oct 18, 2013

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    Automatic Thoughts... - I can't stand it when strangers stare at me...When they do all these thoughts come rushing into my head, like voices screaming at me. "Oh they noticed how...
    ABeautifulCurse ABeautifulCurse 13-15, F Mar 11, 2013

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    O' Yes - Seriously people take one look at me and then they're hooked like I'm some kind of super star. And the way I dress isn't really to get attention from guys. Just cuz...
    angelx20 angelx20 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 14, 2007

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    Self-Involved, Much? - I don't know why I let it get to me, I get filled with such an irrational rage. Humans are curious creatures, so I understand glances, but staring is just...
    MGoods MGoods 22-25, F Sep 13, 2013

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    Its Like... - What the hell are you staring at?! Whenever someone stares at me, I start to get self-concious. I always worry if I have something in my nose or teeth or if my liner...
    stripesANDsunshine stripesANDsunshine 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    Its so uncomfortable its very creepy *shudders* especialy when you look at them and they dont turn away
    mia0 mia0 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Great - The gardeners are here & the front widow is curtain less , i guess I'll throw on some clothes . Booooooooooo
    SincerelyJasmineXO SincerelyJasmineXO 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Freak Stare - Well I get a lot of stares I live in Thailand and I do love it but even in Bangkok I get some interesting looks its normal though for foreigners or farangs as they...
    bushi132001 bushi132001 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2010

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    When I catch a person staring at me I hold my phone up as if I'm taking a picture of them and they give the most worried look ever lolololo. y'all should try it.
    parapsychology parapsychology 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    People Make Me Fail When Staring At Me While I Work Because It's Distracting - This happens all the time when I do something while people stare at me, especially my family (I don't...
    ThelaughingSky ThelaughingSky 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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    Surreal Staring Eyes - I am stared at and looked at as if people are trying to intriguingly work me out most of the time - I've no idea why!  It happens most of the time at...
    confused33 confused33 31-35 1 Response Apr 28, 2008

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    ≫:P God Stop It Please? - Example: I walk in the classroom late, everyone starts looking and they look until I sit down and sometimes even then.....WTF is wrong with them, am I...
    NeonGreenRose NeonGreenRose 16-17, F 1 Response May 31, 2013

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    So I stare right back them! O_O
    kaylinrae kaylinrae 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2013

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    My Children Notice Too! - So my sister used to scream and swear at men because they always stared at my bottom... Now my five year old son complains about it. To make things clear...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    How Do I Tell Her To Stop Staring At Me Without Being Offensive? - I work with this woman who comes into the office and stands there to talk to me. During the entire time she...
    vicarious1 vicarious1 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2012

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    Like hoe I'm sexy and I know it no need to stare at all of dis
    truethless truethless 18-21, M Jan 16

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    Dinner And A Show With Little Brother - Having just had knee surgery this past Thursday, my girlfriend, who is on crutches and home bound for a few weeks is already going stir...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    They stare at me. I smile at them. They ignore and keep staring. Well, **** you too.
    SuicidalSilence SuicidalSilence 13-15 Feb 1

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    Please Don'T :/ - I'm paranoid enough as it is without you staring at me.
    IamcalledS IamcalledS 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    All Eyes On Me - People stare at me because of my small size. At lunch, I could feel everyone's eyes looking at me. I'm sure they want to know how much I'm going to eat today, and...
    Natalie542 Natalie542 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    People - I hate when people look at me in general. That is why I have so much anxiety going anywhere. I always feel like people are looking at me and thinking mean things. Im not...
    looklife looklife 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    UGH WHEN PEOPLE STARE IT MAKES ME FEEL SO SO UNCOMFY LIKE JUST SAY SOMETHING DONT STARE
    MIMIEMOUSE MIMIEMOUSE 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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