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I Hate It When Someone Doesnt Text Back

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    you guys on here are not

    so fun to talk to... /: once I get to know you and actually start to like you, you disappear ... it hurts... if u don't like me, just tell me... not let me sit here sad and confused!
    yeahohwell yeahohwell 13-15, F 13 Responses Apr 14

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    I do not text ppl very much not to bother them

    but When I do and they don't text back it kills me I have a friend which we usually talk in whatsapp, whenever she's alone sends msg and I reply back as soon I could but when I send msg she replies so late
    NazaNEYn NazaNEYn 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    It's even worse when you have an iPhone,

    you can see if they actually read your message. If that little "R" sits there for more than 10 minutes, that speaks volumes.
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Mar 30

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    anaram anaram 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Definitely.....

    Now, before I get shouted down, I KNOW people are busy and don't often check their phones that often so I never expect an instant reply. I also don't get too worked up if someone doesn't respond one time because these things can be easily forgotten. But what DOES get to me is...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    Not Completely....

    If they're busy, I don't mind. If they suddenly had something to do and totally forgot, I don't mind. But if we're in the middle of a conversation or I text them with nothing back for no reason..I ask myself why I even have your number. I don't expect people to talk all the time...
    HappyZappyZaperson HappyZappyZaperson 26-30, T 1 Response Jan 15, 2013

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    Dont Text

    the worst form of communication in a relationship is texting. if your serious about a relationship people should call. if your in a relationship he should be calling or taking your calls at leat once a day
    cowli cowli 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Especially if they're online

    and they still don't message back... There's bound to be some things said. And really I'm sorry but why can't you just message back when I already messaged you?! It really hurts me and makes me think that I'm annoying you or being clingy and maybe I should just stop talking to...
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I hate it -_- Like it'll only take you about 20

    seconds to reply back! It annoys me so much :c
    Mariaaa16 Mariaaa16 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 10

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    My boyfriend sometimes reads my message

    and doesn't respond back. Seriously? Makes me angry.
    ilovemalachai ilovemalachai 13-15, F Jul 14

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    Ill stare at the phone

    or ill not talk to them for a while i guess you could say im clingy
    YouAreAllPesants YouAreAllPesants 16-17, F Apr 5

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    Does This Happen To You???

    waiting for the person to text you back but than you realize you never sent the text lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 16, 2013

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    Mumbaiwali Mumbaiwali 31-35, F Jun 26

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    Don't you hate it when someone adds you,

    sends a message and then you never hear from them again ......
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Don't be offended if someone doesn't text you

    back. They're probably just too busy texting everyone else about how clingy and weird you are.
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    It irritates me a lot.

    I mean it's just like.... Well fine then.... F you too, and don't say goodbye. Just hate it when people forget, or can't find a second to say bye. Like wtf man?!
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    I hate when I try talking to someone

    and they take like 6 hours just to open the text then they never reply.
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Feel Awkward

    You send someone a text expecting a reply but it just never comes it's not to bad if it is just a friend text but if it's important it just irritates me because I'm left wondering what to do about it. Should I send another text in case they never received the first one. But what...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    I Hate When People Dont Text Back.

    i hate that feeling when your texting someone special and then you go and do something thinking when you get back youll have a text or 2 from that SOS and you get back to your phone and theres no new messages >.<
    adriannaann adriannaann 16-17 1 Response Nov 29, 2012

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    Waiting...waiting...waiting

    I hate when people don't text back when it's most obviously a text that needs a response. You sit there waiting and waiting and waiting for a response and it never comes. Quite frustrating really.
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Aug 24, 2012

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    You sometimes wonder

    if they give a **** about you...
    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M Mar 10

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    I Am Guilty Of This.

    *sigh. I am one who does not respond to messages, oh, not through not trying but through lack of time.  The people on EP are so nice and have been very welcoming to me by way of messages, gestures and gifts and I thank them for that, sincerely, but please don't be annoyed with...
    LipsParted LipsParted 46-50, F Nov 14, 2012

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    theres only a select few things

    that aggravate me more than this. i am making the effort to message you, if you dont want to talk to me, just say so, ! dont leave me sitting there refreshing my page for hours, especially when your still online, ! and then when you do reply and figure out that im annoyed dont...
    eviemay6 eviemay6 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Written Off.

    I hate that Facebook and iMessage tell when your message has been seen or delivered, because it makes my feelings for you seem so obsessive. You must know by now that it's hard for me even to trust someone anymore, let alone like them or love them. And you know I do. So why play...
    kristingreco kristingreco 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2013

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    OMG... I don't know why

    but nobody is perfect!
    kaiovinicius kaiovinicius 13-15, M Apr 5

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    !WARNING RANT AHEAD! Okay boys

    and girls listen up and let Aunt Kate give you a lesson on being a decent human being! 1.) if you don't want to talk to someone, don't give them your number.....why you ask? Well let me put it this way. Say you give a girl your phone number because she asks and she texts you...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Friends Frustrations

    do friends really need to text each other from moment to moment just to keep the friendship alive? For me no, as long as the real ones are still alive and will stay friendship still survive.
    19chum 19chum 18-21, M 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    I hate this. It makes me feel like I've messed

    up , said the wrong thing. Or maybe they just got tired of me.
    DanielleMarie12 DanielleMarie12 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 13

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    They freaking seen the meesage

    and dont text back !!! Grrrr !!! It shows you morron that you read it and at what time z stoopid people xD
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    The worst is when you can see

    that they read it. Like why turn that feature on if ur going to ignore people.
    BreakfastSpecial BreakfastSpecial 18-21, F Mar 11

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    Barely 10% Of Girls I Meet And Then Text Ever Reply

    Is it so hard to just tell me to **** off? Its actually a much nicer experience for me emotionally.
    fakeola fakeola 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 25, 2012

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    You know if you had to go do something

    or just don't want to talk to me you can just say so.... It doesn't matter just tell me so Im not sitting here like a duck on the road. Just wish you would tell me this and then there wouldn't be a problem.
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    People Who Don'T Txt Back

    I hate when somebody texts you first and then I text them back and then they don't reply!! What's the point???
    ashley2907 ashley2907 18-21, F Sep 2, 2013

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    Text me if your bored

    and a male. (848) 482-8537
    ColorfulCrayon96 ColorfulCrayon96 18-21, F Jan 6

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    so ******* annoying. We're in the middle

    if a conversation and they just don't text back. Get your **** together people😭😭
    RFlem RFlem 13-15, M Jun 26

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    Like what could you possibly be doing?

    Especially when that person just texted you a second ago. Did you throw your phone down and run? Are you juggling fireballs? Noooo. Or when you take time out of your day to text somebody first...ohhhh that's one way to make me mad. Or completely wasting your time when that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    if we are talking and you can't keep a

    conversation, I won't reply. 😒
    treyabxo treyabxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I don't necessarily hate it

    but if you texted me why am i the one waiting for you text back? It is a waste of valuable time!!!!
    Jewels2145 Jewels2145 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Ugh... Freaking Hate It

    A couple of my friends say that I can talk to them anytime but they rarely text back. They are such liars. I'm waiting and waiting and nothing. Guess its time to move on. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    Hate When People Talk to Me Like Im Stupid
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