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I Hate It When Someone Doesnt Text Back

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    I literally hate this!

    I feel like such a retard when the person doesn't txt back! I only feel this way though when I text guys I like! It's just embarrassing!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    butterflyofchange butterflyofchange 18-21, F Dec 14

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    When you text someone

    for urgent matter and they end up replying hours later...all that you could think of is "**** you b**th"
    acrehood acrehood 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 16

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    That is the biggest thing

    that hurts me. When I message someone and they read it and they either stare at it with nothing to say or they just read it then go about some other business until they either figure something out to say or they have nothing better to do than reply. Just if you aren't going to...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 7

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    53 outrageous but honest thoughts

    that go through most people's minds when someone doesnt text them back for a couple days! 1. OMG hes ignoring me 2. What a player 3. Probably busy talking to other girls 4. Did I come off too stong 5. Did I not come off strong enough 6. Should I have been more flirty? 7. Maybe...
    Mandycandi3 Mandycandi3 18-21 1 Response Dec 2

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    It's more than hate especially

    when you know they read it and just didn't respond !!! Even worse if your trying to discuss something
    StephyLynnJoe StephyLynnJoe 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 2

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    m here on my way. but it just sucks

    when nobody say helow to me here on mee too
    ankityadavraoshab ankityadavraoshab 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 5

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    When your talking to one person

    and they don't respond
    ILavIt ILavIt 13-15, F Nov 5

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    U send a message to somebody

    and they reply but after a while when u send another message to that same person they stop replying i get that a lot Real annoying
    jrok94 jrok94 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 12

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    I hate when that little thing pops up on my

    iPhone saying that you're typing and then I don't get a message from you lol
    Zac8503 Zac8503 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 17

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    I hate when someone read your message

    and it said so and they don't anwser like wtf?
    piercethesummer piercethesummer 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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    YoungFly YoungFly 22-25, M 6 Responses Nov 5

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    I m the one who doesn t text back.

    .. but I forget :s busy life! and I always warn people abt it! dt take it personally... text me again!
    lebanongirl lebanongirl 22-25 Nov 5

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    it is rude of them not to text back

    or when they stop texting in the middle of a conversation.
    fseanb fseanb 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 10

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    if we are talking and you can't keep a

    conversation, I won't reply. 😒
    treyabxo treyabxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    ladeputy ladeputy 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 10

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    If you don't want to talk to me,

    freaking tell me!!! Don't waste my time!!
    randomfaceintheworld randomfaceintheworld 13-15, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    the struggle is real,

    very real -_-
    savvy1998 savvy1998 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 2

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    HouseMommy HouseMommy 36-40, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ugh!! I go through all

    that trouble to respond back to you (bc I hate not responding to ppl) and u just leave me wondering why your not texting me back!!! I could think your dead!!! I could think your in trouble or possibly mad at me for some reason!!! Ugh!! : ( so frustrating!!!!
    fivesauce1 fivesauce1 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    Especially when they texted you first,

    like oh ok that makes sense 😒😂
    BeccaK1 BeccaK1 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 14

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    It makes me upset when someone doesn't text back

    after days and days later they'll txt back completely ongoing ur first txt. -_- Especially when I invite them somewhere and they don't say yes or no they just don't respond and I would wanna know so I made plans!!
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 18

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    So annoying. Or if they just text back "k"

    or keep saying "ok". So irritating.
    Kierstyne Kierstyne 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I hate when they are purposely ignoring your

    texts! It annoys me so much.
    kingo5250 kingo5250 13-15, F Nov 5

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    bae12m bae12m 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I ESPECIALLY hate when they don't text back

    until, like, 5 hours later. And the conversation is already stale (because it was just dormant for five hours), and you know that, and you know THEY know that, too. All you can do is sit there and stare at the response and do nothing about it because clearly, they don't want...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12

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    I really like text sessions.

    Ones that just carry over and on throughout the day. It's like that person is right there with you, experiencing your day with you. Then sometimes things will to this soap opera level of intensity and then.... The lapse. Ugh! It's hard to unglue yourself.
    ShebrewRed ShebrewRed 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    Like honestly I take the time

    and effort to text u and u can't even text back? Okay I see where I stand
    sixpackbookworm sixpackbookworm 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    ilikemovies172 ilikemovies172 22-25, M 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    you guys on here are not

    so fun to talk to... /: once I get to know you and actually start to like you, you disappear ... it hurts... if u don't like me, just tell me... not let me sit here sad and confused!
    yeahohwell yeahohwell 13-15, F 11 Responses Apr 14

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    If you don't message me back I will

    automatically think that you hate me and probably never text you again in fear of annoying you.
    pkninja pkninja 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    Okay so you know I hate this

    because my friend is terrible at texting back I texted them three days ago and they just got back to me but when ever I don't reply it's like I just committed the worlds worst crime like they just keep texting and texting till I answer and I only text once and I waited patiently...
    Alli13146 Alli13146 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    It's disrespectful (snubbing) - especially

    when you're categorically more "important" than the person snubbing you. SMH
    Onechoice Onechoice 31-35, M Nov 23

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    !WARNING RANT AHEAD! Okay boys

    and girls listen up and let Aunt Kate give you a lesson on being a decent human being! 1.) if you don't want to talk to someone, don't give them your number.....why you ask? Well let me put it this way. Say you give a girl your phone number because she asks and she texts you...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    It really just depends on the person

    or situation. I don't get upset all the time, but if my significant other did this often, I'd definitely be upset.
    BonnieProfound BonnieProfound 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I have a friend who never texts me back.

    I'm starting to wonder if she secretly hates me.
    ParanoidGirl ParanoidGirl 26-30 2 Responses Dec 1

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    it's so rude of someone not to text you back I

    mean I know that people are busy but I think some times people just avoid you
    JayedaG JayedaG 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 12

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    I hate this. It makes me feel like I've messed

    up , said the wrong thing. Or maybe they just got tired of me.
    DanielleMarie12 DanielleMarie12 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 13

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    Lovelife090994 Lovelife090994 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 5

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    I hate when I see that my

    so call friends seen something that I sent them on fb and don't respond knowing that I know they seen it that's kills Me
    ree27 ree27 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    someone and they just stop. There is no warning . They just do not reply. They meesage me, they wait, I message them, i wait , they message me,they wait... I message them, i wait...
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