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I Hate It When Someone Doesnt Text Back

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    Doesn't it just mean you're not

    that important to them??
    NPMEE NPMEE 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 21

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    I really like text sessions.

    Ones that just carry over and on throughout the day. It's like that person is right there with you, experiencing your day with you. Then sometimes things will to this soap opera level of intensity and then.... The lapse. Ugh! It's hard to unglue yourself.
    ShebrewRed ShebrewRed 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    It happens here a lot

    when i text someone and they take 6 hours to answer me back.
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 7 Responses Jan 9

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    Ugh!! I go through all

    that trouble to respond back to you (bc I hate not responding to ppl) and u just leave me wondering why your not texting me back!!! I could think your dead!!! I could think your in trouble or possibly mad at me for some reason!!! Ugh!! : ( so frustrating!!!!
    fivesauce1 fivesauce1 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I messaged this guy yesterday on snapchat

    and I told him I liked him and he said he liked me back and we talked a bit and he just all of a sudden didn't respond back but he posted a snapchat story after. Should I message him and ask him what I did? Idk what to do.
    allieyoh allieyoh 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    ilikemovies172 ilikemovies172 22-25, M 10 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    It sucks when you have an iPhone

    because I can see if they saw my messages but they still don't reply. This is why I call more then texting lol
    kjonesr kjonesr 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 13

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    snowmoon123 snowmoon123 31-35, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    eatmyasslikeacupcake eatmyasslikeacupcake 18-21, F 14 Responses 5 days ago

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    I got one of those crappy dating apps one day

    bcos I was bored and started talking to this girl. She takes ******* forever to reply like she put a message then I'd put one 5 mins later, then she put one an hour later, so then I'd match that putting one an hour later then she'd take 12 hours so I'd match that to not seem...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    the struggle is real,

    very real -_-
    savvy1998 savvy1998 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    me too. at least they should reply

    whenever they are free. yeah sometimes they are busy we can't blame them.
    hitokind hitokind 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    bluehappyness bluehappyness 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate when someone texts you then you

    reply And they just stop texting It's fucken annoying 😒😒😒
    PedroNune PedroNune 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 9

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    I honestly hate it so much.

    Oh and when someone reads my text but doesn't reply for hours.. #1 way to get me upset.!
    Steph3612 Steph3612 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sending a text/message then getting ignored is

    the worst thing ever. It's like you annoy them and that they don't want to speak to you. It happens to me all the time..😒
    TMcr TMcr 16-17, F 10 Responses Jan 6

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    It's awkward when you have to send a lot of

    messages to get a reply. Like did you die or something?
    kmgan kmgan 18-21, F 16 Responses Mar 7

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    it's so rude of someone not to text you back I

    mean I know that people are busy but I think some times people just avoid you
    JayedaG JayedaG 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    it sucks when someone you like a lot doesn't

    text back, like what the hell dude
    ColeSweety ColeSweety 22-25, F Mar 6

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    like she. I ask a question via whatsapp to my

    friend, it take like 2hours for him to answer. WAT
    Jabezzz2 Jabezzz2 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    As I've found when someone doesn't text back,

    you can bet they don't want to talk to you.
    wd402 wd402 51-55, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    One thing a really hate is

    when somebody not text you back when is really important for you and they dont give you sh...
    lenyn lenyn 16-17, F 11 Responses Feb 18

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    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 19

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    If you don't want to talk to me,

    freaking tell me!!! Don't waste my time!!
    randomfaceintheworld randomfaceintheworld 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I send message only once.

    and don't try again unless get response
    manwarkhn manwarkhn 41-45 2 Responses Jan 7

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    My friend wanted to have a game night

    and she won't even reply to say if it's happening or not -.-
    YodaRyan YodaRyan 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 6

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    This guy that I have been in love with forever

    like 10 years now (he was my first love and yes it's weird because I identify as a lesbian but whatever) always will start messaging me and we will be having a great convo and then he just disappears and like never ever responds back. And I'm like.... What happened?? Like did...
    Thatonegreyeyedgirl Thatonegreyeyedgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    You could respond after 15 hours,

    1 day or 2 days but I'll still respond after a minute... Lol. I hate myself... 😒
    TheQuietExtrovert TheQuietExtrovert 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 25

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    Especially when they texted you first,

    like oh ok that makes sense 😒😂
    BeccaK1 BeccaK1 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    It's more than hate especially

    when you know they read it and just didn't respond !!! Even worse if your trying to discuss something
    StephyLynnJoe StephyLynnJoe 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Just text me back! Use your thumbs

    and twittle them until you create a message so you won't leave me in the middle of the Atlantic with just a raft, so you won't cause me to mentally prepare myself for you to drop me as a friend in the next couple of days
    vfsghhju vfsghhju 46-50, T 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Like when you were literally JUST talking them.

    ..then BOOM nothing, zilch. It really gets on my nerves. lol...However, I am guilty of it too. Haha, grrrrraaaahhhhh! *waiting patiently*
    CloudCadet CloudCadet 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I take my time to text him

    and I am so happy when I press send, only to realize it like 2 to 3 hours later and he just killed my vibe and I don't even want to continue the conversation. PEOPLE TEXT BACK cause next time I won't even waste my time eith you. 👏👏💯
    SaVaGeLyssa SaVaGeLyssa 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    Im not a control freak

    or anything but if youre in mid-conversation and they just randomly blank out then obvs its gonna grind your gears
    shazzarr shazzarr 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    yea right doesnt text back right away

    but then you can see that person online like wtf? or after your long texts, you just get 'K' ugh
    Pwriingles Pwriingles 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 8

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    I ESPECIALLY hate when they don't text back

    until, like, 5 hours later. And the conversation is already stale (because it was just dormant for five hours), and you know that, and you know THEY know that, too. All you can do is sit there and stare at the response and do nothing about it because clearly, they don't want...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    you guys on here are not

    so fun to talk to... /: once I get to know you and actually start to like you, you disappear ... it hurts... if u don't like me, just tell me... not let me sit here sad and confused!
    yeahohwell yeahohwell 13-15, F 12 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    I hate it when girls don't text back on

    anything you including here.I'm not saying all girls do it, but in general.What's the point of the average girl to even be on here or anything else if they wink text any guys back off especially when they want to start off with a simple conversation?
    marksaiga marksaiga 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    i was texting my mom

    and she said she joined a commune and said that she was sending us plane tickets (she's in Texas right now) and I texted her back asking if she was joking and she still hasn't texted me back, I'm freaking out right now and I have to look calm so I don't freak my sister out
    anonymus000 anonymus000 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Moschnyy Moschnyy 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    its just so rude. like come on it takes about

    two seconds to at least write "k" something better than nothing.
    love1336 love1336 22-25, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    moshet moshet 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    Ever just lay on the other end of the phone

    waiting for her reply...worst part is she's seen the message... Anyone?
    imaqi imaqi 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 20

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    Oh the irony of "Read @ 12:45.

    " Or whatever. Seriously, texting back, "Your annoying", is WAY better than not being answered at all. Guys this is for you from a girls perspective. Even if it's honest, do it. It makes the girl feel their not worth it.
    RoseDani RoseDani 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 14

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    Why would you not txt them back!

    I always message back when it's possible.
    Ruben32 Ruben32 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    what I hate the most is

    when they're the one who texted me first then when I replied, they will just read it and no reply at all. rude much!!
    Gwapamama8 Gwapamama8 26-30, F 12 Responses Mar 6

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    HouseMommy HouseMommy 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 19, 2014