I Hate It When Someone Messages Me And Say Hey Or Hi

for people who get annoyed with one word messages 599 People

    I'm guilty of this, I'm not really sure what I

    should say. Maybe I should ask a weird question? "What's on your mind right now?" Sounds okay I guess
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Sep 2, 2014

    hey hi or (how are you)

    or any of this kind I will not respond. tell me frankly what do you want
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 30, 2015

    I really do hate that.

    I delete most people when they inbox me and they say hi or hey! I don't block people who say that I just delete the message because blocking someone for no reason is evil and I am a nice person. saying hi, hello, or hey doesn't give me enough to go on. It doesn't let me know...
    Kornisone Kornisone
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Feb 7, 2016

    If you message me and only say something like

    "Hi" or "Hey", I will just delete your message without responding to it.
    BlondOne89 BlondOne89
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    Four guys out of nowhere,

    at different times, messaged me saying hi. And we talk for awhile, then they ask for pictures, and say they like me and need me, and pant leave me alone, until I finally have to block them. Happen to anyone else? I think that's why I don't trust guys..
    smallcurtis smallcurtis
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    I just do it to start off the conversation.

    The interesting things come later if you're interesting. I don't see what's peoples problem with starting off the convo like this is to be honest. I'd rather just say hey or hi and not say what I want to say right off the bat, kind of invasive or pushy if you ask me. If you're...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 6, 2015

    honestly, no I don't.

    I would love it. Fact is, I very rarely even get a "hi". I am happy the times I get a simple "hi" and I try to create a conversation myself with the person because I appreciate the fact the person took their time to send me a message. If they initiate, I'll live up to my end of...
    Resoner Resoner
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    You obviously want to talk to me

    because we have something in common to share, don't bore me with an opening of just "hi", "hey" " how are you" BORING!!!!!! Make the opening interesting and we'll talk.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 24, 2015

    When you send me a message saying,

    "Hi" or "Hey" or "Wassup" or anything just as thoughtless with less than 30-40 characters, it tells me quite a bit about you. 1) You didn't read my profile. 2) You don't care about me as a person, and you don't care about my experiences or stories. 3) You have nothing...
    Boulier Boulier
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    I don't answer messages

    that just say something generic like "hey how r u?". I like chatting with people on here but please only message me if you've read my profile. The other thing is that I am married and I have no interest in anything inappropriate with other EP users. I do want to chat with people...
    lauren71 lauren71
    41-45, F
    Feb 14, 2015

    I'll ignore you. Why?

    Because you're too damned lazy to make the effort to actually make conversation. Why should I bother to make the effort to reply to you? From previous experiences, I'm the one who's end up carrying the conversation anyway, so why bother? Even now, during the last few days on...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    2 Responses Apr 17, 2016

    Sometimes I think people only want to hang out

    because I can drive them around.
    smallcurtis smallcurtis
    18-21, F
    Jul 25, 2015

    It's the worst when they just say that

    and you're not sure what they wanted to talk about and it feels awkward
    will1982 will1982
    18-21, M
    Jul 24, 2015

    If I get another goddamned message saying 'hey'

    or 'hi' I'm going to kick a puppy There are so many things you could open with, and you choose the most bland, boring one? AHHHHH!!!!!! Frustration!!!
    lilmissyawesome lilmissyawesome
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 3, 2015
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 7, 2014

    uggh i know, it's so lame.

    i just know where THAT CONVERSATION IS GOING
    urwright urwright
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2015

    I don't want to sound rude

    or something but I hate people who just add me here because of my picture in my profile and doesn't talk to me afterwards. Saying hi or hello won't catch my attention in a message.
    Charmeeee Charmeeee
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 22, 2016

    So if you don't know someone doesn't it make

    sense to introduce yourself? Let them know something about you. I'll be looking at your profile directly anyway, but still. It would also be nice if you gave some kind of hint of what you are wanting to talk about. At least that way I would know from the start if you just want...
    ktjade ktjade
    36-40, F
    Dec 2, 2015

    especially if we are not friends.

    if you just message me hi or hey i'm most likely not going to message you back. like come on come up with something more original would ya. it's even worse if people just keep sending hi or hey all the time like shut up i don't care.
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    It's such an emotional turn off.

    It's bereft of personality, and I'm here to talk with people, not robots. I know some people are just shy and need to warm up, and I give most a chance to see if they can carry a conversation, but I can't help but feel initially disinterested.
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe
    26-30, T
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2016

    Next time I get one I'm going

    for no reply. Not only is it boring and doesn't grab my attention but 99% of the time the convo ends up being dull. That's what I get, if it starts out boring there's already little promise of it getting better. First impressions, ya know?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015
    GrimthewickedJester GrimthewickedJester
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    Basically if that's all you say

    than that's all you will get back (maybe) so you better have something after that otherwise that was a very pointless conversation.
    sjroo00 sjroo00
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2015

    You just say Hi or hello

    and I am deleting the message. If you want to get to know me let me know why you are messaging me - like my nic, profile pic, experiences, story? Make a connection with a little effort... or don't bother!
    evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    LOOOL how else do you want someone to start the

    conversation? No, cut straight to the chase and tell me how you follow me home and hide in the bushes or some ****. You should be so lucky somebody is even messaging you.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2015
    AlyanWazir AlyanWazir
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 26, 2015

    If you want to get my attention,

    try something else. Only saying "hi" or "hey" is a one way ticket to no-response land.
    deleted deleted
    14 Responses May 16, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    cant they at least type something like "Hey

    Girl" or "Hi, how are you doing?" just 1 word "hi" or "hey" i will delete them without seeing.. lol
    Jasmile Jasmile
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2014

    It annoys me when someone just says "hey"

    or "hi." Like can you at least give some reason for why you are messaging me? Whatever it is I like to have some reason. Even if it's just as simple as "hey I'm bored wanna talk?" But seems like all the people who message me just say "hi" and nothing else. I find it weird.
    DarkandDesolate DarkandDesolate
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    I hate when someone constantly messages me

    if i don't respond dont keep sending me the same message seriously
    NikkiakaOSTCD NikkiakaOSTCD
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    I cant stand small talk in real life.

    Never mind the internet. If your opening message is "Hi", "Hey", "Hello" etc. then chances are I will not reply. Not because i'm mean but because I literally get about 20 messages a day from people I've never spoken to before saying the same thing. I just WISH that they would...
    HeyLookItsGemma HeyLookItsGemma
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 17, 2015

    I used to think that this group was petty

    but now I see that craps annoying . It's always hi hey or hey :). how are you then poof the person is gone like cheesecake at Rosie O Dons house
    Iamalostcause Iamalostcause
    22-25, M
    Mar 22, 2015

    If you want to send me a message

    and talk about something great, I will get back to you as soon as I can. If you send me a message that says hey or hi, I will ignore it. I am here to make friends and help people. I am not here to be your personal entertainment committee.
    venusdi venusdi
    70+, F
    12 Responses Jan 27, 2014

    A bore is someone who debrives you from solitude

    and not providing you with the company. That's how I feel when someone messages me 'what's up' (especially live chat)
    mammabee1 mammabee1
    Oct 9, 2015

    I'm more likely to respond to messages with

    good grammar and smilies than lower-case "hi"s, "hru"s and "can we chat plzzzzzzzz"s.
    emiveritas emiveritas
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2014

    Everyone who's messaged me

    so far with a simple "hi" follows with "what are you up to?" or something equally boring. I'm tired of it. Seriously. If you want to talk to me, don't lead with "Hi." That tells me you have nothing to say, and all of a sudden puts the burden on me to lead the conversation. In...
    drrtymind drrtymind
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    Why can't people start out with an intro

    as to what drew them to you? Much more interesting & it gives you an idea if you're interested where "hey" could mean anything (however I'll call myself out - I'm guilty too).
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 27, 2015

    Like seriously, if we haven't talked before

    and you're trying to start a conversation with me I will never ever EVER answer a message that just says "Hi" or "hey" I won't I simply won't! And I especially won't answer said message if you're 30 years older than me and have 0 experiences in common! WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO TALK...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    when i first joined EP,

    most people messaged just to say hi and ask how i feel, then stopped talking after a couple days. then i found some true friends, and we all prefer to skip the small talk so we can have deep actual conversations. i was left alone with my small true group and was very happy...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2016

    It's not only just that they start the message

    out with 'hi' or one word greetings, it's the entire conversation that's one word. I'll say, "How are you doing?" "Good"...okay, let's try something else... "What have you been up to lately, do anything fun?" "Nm" ..."What are you doing right now?" "Nm, bored" Okay, well, I...
    AdamantSilence AdamantSilence
    Jul 25, 2015

    it really bothers me

    when I reply within the same min and they're not there. dont rattle my chain if you dont have time to chat. you could be interrupting something important, just to say hi? would you knock on my door just to say hi then turn and go away? that would be rude and disruptive. if you...
    jayciedubb jayciedubb
    51-55, M
    Apr 17, 2015

    It is kind of annoying.

    If it is only said in one word "Hi" "Hello". Why can't people be more straightforward or outspoken.
    mauerbauerstraurigkeit mauerbauerstraurigkeit
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015

    This about sums it up.

    .. "This drives me ******* nuts. It's like every single person uses "hey" or "hi". Be original or something, why not message me with why you are messaging me? And if its just to have a conversation - start with that? This may seem like such a small thing but it's super...
    rocketgirl95 rocketgirl95
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2015

    This drives me ******* nuts.

    It's like every single person uses "hey" or "hi". Be original or something, why not message me with why you are messaging me? And if its just to have a conversation - start with that? This may seem like such a small thing but it's super aggravating when I basically have the same...
    banders95 banders95
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 19, 2015

    I'd love it if someone had more

    than a one word greeting. Seriously, where am I supposed to go with "hey"... Then "how's it going?"
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2015

    Need I say more? The photo above describes what

    we put up with!For those who couldn't see the photo,
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire
    61-65, T
    14 Responses May 20, 2015

    this is the MOST annoying thing in life

    honestly. like if you message me and say "hi" I literally already hate you, like you could at least put a smiley face or something!!
    joseph6472 joseph6472
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    Come on, people. Spice it up!

    When I take a chance and press 'accept' I want to be surprised, amused, intrigued.
    Seblett Seblett
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2014

    It's not so much the hey

    or hi , it's the fact that most people who send me that in a message , have nothing to say at all . Hi,hey, K, ok, yup , any one word reply is a pet peeve of mine .
    Iamalostcause Iamalostcause
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2015

    I WILL NOT respond to messages

    that start with "hey" "hi" "hello" "what's up"
    deleted deleted
    Jul 26, 2015
More Stories