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I Hate Judgemental People

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    People who judge others in my opinion are scum. What right do they have? Life is a complicated entanglement of highs and lows and I never judge others. No one is perfect. Everyone has secrets. If you think differently you are delusional and maybe should take father Xmas for a...
    MissDarkAngel MissDarkAngel 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    My boyfriend is in jail

    because of a drug addiction and it's very hard to deal with.
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2014

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    Finger Pointing

    My view of the people in the small town where I now live. They are a bunch of mindless spine less ball less sheep walking around in circles sniffing each others ***** no one with a mind or an opinion of their own. I have been given every conceivable bad label a person could...
    LocaWhetta LocaWhetta 41-45, F May 19, 2013

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    Everybody is beautiful,

    everybody has faults but our faults don't define us as people. I hate when people get judged on their weight, or hair colour, skin colour, height, basically looks. This generation is so messed up, nobody should be made to feel crap by the way they look or what they wear...
    tjaayx tjaayx 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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    On the local news a woman was assaulted on her

    way into an abortion clinic. The pro-life people protesting outside the clinic watched a 6 month pregnant woman get out of her car and walk towards the clinic. They tried to physically block her entrance and when she walked past them they pulled her hair and slapped her!! The...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    It seems like everybody I know feels

    that it's totally okay to be ridiculously judgmental of others. I think it's only natural to judge people to an extent. You make little judgments about everybody that you meet. But there's a difference between making small judgments about the people you come in contact with and...
    wayyfarer wayyfarer 18-21, F Jan 30, 2014

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    My Whole Life

    Being a thick chick, overweight, whatever, you want to call it, I have been judged my entire life.  Even at 30, I know there are still ignorant people out there who are judging me on my appearance.  And I think it's horrible.  Not just because it hurts me, but...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    Maybe hate is too strong; how about intense

    dislike. I try hard to not judge others. I make it a point to state what I think without labeling or calling names. I expect the same of others. I am not perfect, so I do not expect perfection, but I demand respect, common courtesy and tolerance for other views. Disagree...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    badgirl1920 badgirl1920 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2014

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    If what somebody is doing isn't affecting you

    leave them alone.. You can't make someone feel rubbish because you don't share the same Opinions or like the same things ✋
    Leilajames Leilajames 13-15, F 2 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Judgemental people: You aren't God

    and you have no right to judge anyone because no sin is greater then another.
    persayous persayous 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2014

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    Tattoos

    I'm bothered today by a comment made to me by my sisters mother-in-law. I have 3 crosses tattooed on my forearm, or 3 on a tree as people like to call it, and my neice was touching my arm. My sister says, "She really likes the pretty colors on your arm." The mother in...
    nobodythatspecial nobodythatspecial 36-40, M 5 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    I see some people come here very nice

    and responds well initially.. But despite having all the good intentions, they become judgmental too fast reaching to conclusions without even knowing the other person well... Its just plain immaturity i guess
    mimodsp mimodsp 31-35, M Jan 9

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    Why do people judge? I don't understand.

    Just because someone is black or someone is white or someone is gay or someone is straight or someone suffers with depression or someone suffers with anxiety, that does not make them outcasts to this society, it makes them human with their own problems. Why can't people...
    ofmiceandmeggg ofmiceandmeggg 16-17, F Dec 13, 2013

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    mizti mizti 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    All The Same

    I don't hate anyone, not even judgemental people. For if I did I would hate everyone - do we all not judge? We all have more in common then we give each other credit for. There is something to love in everyone we meet - it may be as simple as the way their eyes twinkle or their...
    Bythelight0fthemoon Bythelight0fthemoon 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    I seriously need to rant over this.

    so I hate people who judge you over everything, like I honestly don't give a ****. I mean if you love somebody who is twice your age or like 25 years younger than you. I seriously don't give a **** at all. like as long as they make you happy that makes me happy. if you want a...
    Emmmzzzxo Emmmzzzxo 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    "We were all humans until race seperated us ,

    religion classified us ,and sexual orientation labeled us" Stop with the judging guys,you wouldn't like to be judged either.And *****, my background or sexual preferences doesn't affect you in the slightest possible way./insert nicky minaj's voice/
    maknaekid maknaekid 13-15, F Nov 3, 2014

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    thigh gaps are cute no thigh gaps are cute flat

    tummies are cute no flat tummies are cute long hair is cute short hair is cute but you know what isn't cute? making someone feel bad about their appearance simply because you don't like it
    devilit20 devilit20 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 10, 2014

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    I Really Don't Know,,,

    I hate the way people think they can judge you just because of the way you dress or talk or the type of music you listen to.. It ****** me off so badly. These people don't know half the stuff I've been through and how strong I've had to be, most of the time i am using a fake...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 27, 2013

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    My biggest pet peeve is

    when people assume people with tatoos and piercings are trash. Someones appearance does not account for whats on the inside. It does not mean they are a terrible person. Tatoos are simply an art form and a way of expressing yourself. These people are the ones with the most...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 18-21, F Apr 3, 2014

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    Not All Rich/good Looks/succesful People Are Evil

    I just think it's so judgemental when someone who has confidence issues takes it out on what they perceive as the 'ruling class". It's like everything that happens to them is the fault of someone they perceive as 'rich, good looking or succesful". They don't even know these...
    CityGirl1111 CityGirl1111 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Judgement is the first thing someone does,

    but we choose whether we tell someone or not, that person might look weird, or walk funny, but you don't know their past, you don't know what they've been through, and you never will, never judge someone, I've always gone by the statement "treat as youd like to be treated" like...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 14 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    It’s easy to look at people

    and make quick judgments about them, their present and their past, but you’d be amazed at the pain and tears a single smile hides. What a person shows to the world is only one tiny facet of the iceberg hidden from sight. And more often then not, it’s lined with cracks and...
    LetsAllGoToHell LetsAllGoToHell 26-30 Jan 12

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    I fu***** hate judgemental people!

    I'm more like, oh hey you smoke? Good for you. Oh hey, you drink? Drink the fu** on. You've had sex? Chill. You haven't had sex? Chill. You wear a lot of makeup? Cool. You don't? Well all f******* right. I don't care if you have tattoos or piercings, I don't care if you have...
    prevaricatedjess prevaricatedjess 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Okay, I Have To Rant About This Today. This Is Terrible.

    Okay, so to start off, I will let you know that I am not a teen mom. Just so you know. But what I saw today just made me really angry. There was a picture on Facebook of a pregnant girl (probably like 14) saying "I gave up drugs for you, I gave up drinking for you, because I...
    oliveostrovsky oliveostrovsky 18-21 1 Response Dec 10, 2012

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    I understand everyone has an opinion,

    but to judge others based on your warped thought process is sickening.
    ImLastOneStanding ImLastOneStanding 41-45, M Jan 10, 2014

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    It Only Takes Them One Freaking Second

    That's all it takes. Seriously, they look at you for like.... one second... and they think they have the right to judge. They also think they know everything about you. Heck, they think they could write your biography in a few days. I've about had it with these kind of people. I...
    silentintrovert silentintrovert 22-25, M Aug 9, 2013

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    My husband was judgemental

    and he thinks that him, his family and their like are the only "saved people" because they are "born-again christian". we always fight about other people we dont even know( most likely female) everytime he judge them of being something he doesn't even know if its fact. And his...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 4 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I've checked out a lot of stories posted on

    this site, and one thing that stands out with some of the ones I've read, is that people are extremely judgmental for all the wrong reasons. Not so much with the stories, but the responses people give them. For example, it seems that anyone who believes in allowing nudity at...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Mar 23, 2014

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    Honestly , What rights do anyone have to judge

    another human being. None of us in this world have a similar life.But yet , each one of us judge another. I can understand contempt that is felt for someone who hurts others intentionally. But , without knowing the full story , without understanding the circumstances of another...
    hira0126 hira0126 18-21, F Jan 5

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    There's no need to judge,

    whatsoever. Judgement was created as a survival mechanism to quickly assess the situation and read someones intention to quickly react in a hostile environment. Racism and demeaning of others is only used to prop up your own self-esteem and is a misguided use of our ability to...
    Draganoth Draganoth 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 13, 2014

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    I honestly don't understand what makes some

    people think the best way to respond to someone is in a hateful judgmental way. My cousin just asked my aunt if she wanted to go to a haunted house (Netherworld) on Sunday because it's the only day we can all go since I work Fridays and Saturdays. She decides to respond in a...
    SomniumProeliator SomniumProeliator 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    My Friend Judged Me

    THEY JUDGED A PEOPLE WHOTHEY DOESN'T KNOW WELL, THEY TURN THEIR BACK TO ME,  THEY ALWAYS WANT ME TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO BUT FOR ME, I WON'T SO I BECAME MORE cruel TO MYSELF AND OTHER PEOPLE and some said sttp being CRUEL to other people because if you will stay being...
    incess incess 13-15 Oct 10, 2010

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    Just wanna say this- ALL BLACK PPL DO NOT SPEAK

    THE SAME WAY- NEITHER DO WHITE PPL, SPANISH SPEAKING PPL... THE PURPLE PPL EATERS.. ( haha... That was cute, I know. Lol) And whoever else you'd like to add... And the fact that some absent minded ppl believe that- sickens me.... On with your day EP friends! :D
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My friend is 32 years old

    and married. She looks really young for her age because she is short and I guess just has good genes? She looks about 18-20 years old. She has a wonderful 2 year old named Madison. We were at the mall and we were buying clothes for Madison. This one woman came up and told my...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I definatly prefer people like this but with how our society is today there are not many of open minded and non judgemental people
    Just1OriginalMe Just1OriginalMe 22-25 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate people who are fake what is the point in being someone you aren't because you'll end up with people liking you not for you and I hate when people act so nice to you then...
    theultimatesashacourtney theultimatesashacourtney 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Yes, I really hate fake people. There are a lot of people out there who are ruining your image cause of Insecurity and Jealousy. They just want to get what they want from you or...
    iiEdieCupcakeii iiEdieCupcakeii 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Yeah me and my boyfriend really hate gay people. Yeah , just me and my gay boyfriend
    Froadrickjnr Froadrickjnr 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I absolutely hate old people that say lol. Like damn grandpa your ******* 65!!
    WorthlessXlove WorthlessXlove 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    i hate those people who are enemy of pakistani students who want we stop our our studyi want tell them u do any thing with us but we will not stop our studyand i want to tell u we...
    AKIDIRANY AKIDIRANY 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    i really hated when people ask me for money in the university at home they always ask me for money they assume am rich from my looks but i dont work and i dont have any money i...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I hate fake people and will be blocking them.
    princessthumbelina1 princessthumbelina1 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 18

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    Yes I hate fake people. I want to meet real persons, not the fake ones who only tell lies.
    shethia shethia 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 21

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    I don't mind seeing my sex partner spit on my vajay, though, 'cause that's sexy. But yes... I hate seeing people spit, especially while walking. It's so gross. Like, even...
    TiraVara TiraVara 22-25, F Jan 22

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    Well there is a girl who called 'Blodyn' made a fake experience about me. If someone see that they will think I'm a pervert or a mad man.arghhh I hate these people in EP
    HiddenStar01 HiddenStar01 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I absolutely hate when people don't do their job and blame it on someone else. Take control of yourself and man up and take the blame. You suck at what you do and your out is to...
    Boombah3 Boombah3 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Supposed to pick up my date in half an hour but I haven't heard a word from her since this afternoon. I seriously hate flakey people
    Kwreka89 Kwreka89 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I do too I hate fake people.. Just be real
    horneybear79912 horneybear79912 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago