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I Hate Judgemental People

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    My Whole Life

    Being a thick chick, overweight, whatever, you want to call it, I have been judged my entire life.  Even at 30, I know there are still ignorant people out there who are judging me on my appearance.  And I think it's horrible.  Not just because it hurts me, but...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    My Friend Judged Me

    THEY JUDGED A PEOPLE WHOTHEY DOESN'T KNOW WELL, THEY TURN THEIR BACK TO ME,  THEY ALWAYS WANT ME TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO BUT FOR ME, I WON'T SO I BECAME MORE cruel TO MYSELF AND OTHER PEOPLE and some said sttp being CRUEL to other people because if you will stay being...
    incess incess 13-15 Oct 10, 2010

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    I'm around irrevocably narrow-minded people

    who judge people based on the way they prefer to dress themselves, who considers shaving eyebrows a way to attract men ( wtf ), judges people who stopped going to church and considers them as corrupted and immoral, who judges introverted people saying they're depressed when they...
    alltimestrokes alltimestrokes 18-21, F Jul 15

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    There's always a reason

    why people act the way they do. And we are not in any position to judge what we see superficially. There must be something going on behind the scenes. We haven't walked their path or experienced in any way the pain they have been through as everyone has a story we don't know...
    riseandshine18 riseandshine18 26-30, F Jul 17

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    I just hate how people judge a book by its

    cover. If you would see me now, you would think I look friendly, I guess. But my mom judges me based on how I act in punlic and says I do really mean things. But I don't. She compares me to my ex-best friend and says how she's "smart", "nice", and "caring." I'm always wondering...
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Honestly , What rights do anyone have to judge

    another human being. None of us in this world have a similar life.But yet , each one of us judge another. I can understand contempt that is felt for someone who hurts others intentionally. But , without knowing the full story , without understanding the circumstances of another...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 5

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    I am sitting quietly in my room,

    minding my own business just browsing through the EP app when in comes my mom, my sister's BFF and my sister. They immediately start commentating on all my personal belongings and how my room is poorly decorated to there taste. I felt like I was on an episode of "Room Raiders"or...
    NiteOwlet NiteOwlet 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Not All Rich/good Looks/succesful People Are Evil

    I just think it's so judgemental when someone who has confidence issues takes it out on what they perceive as the 'ruling class". It's like everything that happens to them is the fault of someone they perceive as 'rich, good looking or succesful". They don't even know these...
    CityGirl1111 CityGirl1111 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    On the local news a woman was assaulted on her

    way into an abortion clinic. The pro-life people protesting outside the clinic watched a 6 month pregnant woman get out of her car and walk towards the clinic. They tried to physically block her entrance and when she walked past them they pulled her hair and slapped her!! The...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    Scooby Doo taught me

    that real monsters are humans.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    My husband was judgemental

    and he thinks that him, his family and their like are the only "saved people" because they are "born-again christian". we always fight about other people we dont even know( most likely female) everytime he judge them of being something he doesn't even know if its fact. And his...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 4 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I'm not sure 'hate' is the right word.

    I certainly have a dislike of people who rush to judgement and take no account of circumstances, extenuating, mitigating or otherwise.
    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M Jul 20

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    Tattoos

    I'm bothered today by a comment made to me by my sisters mother-in-law. I have 3 crosses tattooed on my forearm, or 3 on a tree as people like to call it, and my neice was touching my arm. My sister says, "She really likes the pretty colors on your arm." The mother in...
    nobodythatspecial nobodythatspecial 36-40, M 5 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    There's no need to judge,

    whatsoever. Judgement was created as a survival mechanism to quickly assess the situation and read someones intention to quickly react in a hostile environment. Racism and demeaning of others is only used to prop up your own self-esteem and is a misguided use of our ability to...
    Draganoth Draganoth 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 13, 2014

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    EP

    People who judge others in my opinion are scum. What right do they have? Life is a complicated entanglement of highs and lows and I never judge others. No one is perfect. Everyone has secrets. If you think differently you are delusional and maybe should take father Xmas for a...
    MissDarkAngel MissDarkAngel 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    My boyfriend is in jail

    because of a drug addiction and it's very hard to deal with.
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2014

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    Sometimes when I say

    that I hate judgmental people and that some are just so annoying. I feel like I'm judging them instead I just ignore them since 2014 cause I felt like I am being a judgmental person too but not.
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F May 23

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    I find the fact that today’s society finds it

    perfectly acceptable to judge a person based on appearance alone, or that the media would have us believe that in order to be attractive you MUST have a 6pack, or look like some movie star. And even for women, they are force fed this image of skinny thin women in bikinis and...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 17

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    Okay so like where I am people judge me

    for being bisexual 🙅 and it just makes me so mad!!!😵
    Karen168 Karen168 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    If what somebody is doing isn't affecting you

    leave them alone.. You can't make someone feel rubbish because you don't share the same Opinions or like the same things ✋
    Leilajames Leilajames 13-15, F 2 Responses May 23, 2014

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    I work with a guy who is a doting husband

    and father. He seems very genuine, hard working, and straight-laced as far as I can tell. Very friendly, too. He looks okay except his teeth are really bad. He is slowly getting them fixed because he can't afford to get them done all at once. What I cannot stand is how the...
    beachlover81 beachlover81 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I think people judge too much.

    How can you get to know anyone if you just brush them off by appearance or what they say? You have to dig deeper. I'm judged all the time but if they got to know me, it would be great!
    spaceylibra spaceylibra 31-35, F Mar 26

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    So I told my friend that I have ex girlfriends

    and she reacted like I went to a killing spree. I shouldn't have said anything :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Judgement is the first thing someone does,

    but we choose whether we tell someone or not, that person might look weird, or walk funny, but you don't know their past, you don't know what they've been through, and you never will, never judge someone, I've always gone by the statement "treat as youd like to be treated" like...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 11 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    Never judge that quiet kid at the table,

    Never judge that girl that wears too much makeup. Never judge that boy that always cries, Never judge the kid with special needs. NEVER judge anyone, because it really doesn't get you anywhere, and you're not doing anything for yourself. It doesn't define them, it only...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    Maybe hate is too strong; how about intense

    dislike. I try hard to not judge others. I make it a point to state what I think without labeling or calling names. I expect the same of others. I am not perfect, so I do not expect perfection, but I demand respect, common courtesy and tolerance for other views. Disagree...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    My friend is 32 years old

    and married. She looks really young for her age because she is short and I guess just has good genes? She looks about 18-20 years old. She has a wonderful 2 year old named Madison. We were at the mall and we were buying clothes for Madison. This one woman came up and told my...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Why the hell are people

    so overly ******* sensitive? I can't even post make a post about a racist hate group without being called a racist myself. I didn't create the group, and my initial post was to combat racism because everyone of every race should stop fighting and get along..............unless...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

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    "We were all humans until race seperated us ,

    religion classified us ,and sexual orientation labeled us" Stop with the judging guys,you wouldn't like to be judged either.And *****, my background or sexual preferences doesn't affect you in the slightest possible way./insert nicky minaj's voice/
    maknaekid maknaekid 13-15, F Nov 3, 2014

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    Everybody is beautiful,

    everybody has faults but our faults don't define us as people. I hate when people get judged on their weight, or hair colour, skin colour, height, basically looks. This generation is so messed up, nobody should be made to feel crap by the way they look or what they wear...
    tjaayx tjaayx 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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    Dont you just love it

    when you know that people are gonna judge you, but you don't really give a flying F. Cause you know that He is the only one who can judge and see in your heart what truly lies inside.
    DearAsha DearAsha 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    hazellboo hazellboo 16-17, F Mar 23

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    thigh gaps are cute no thigh gaps are cute flat

    tummies are cute no flat tummies are cute long hair is cute short hair is cute but you know what isn't cute? making someone feel bad about their appearance simply because you don't like it
    devilit20 devilit20 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 10, 2014

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    badgirl1920 badgirl1920 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2014

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    Judgemental people: You aren't God

    and you have no right to judge anyone because no sin is greater then another.
    GreyCloud13 GreyCloud13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2014

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    Everything we judge in others is something

    within ourselves we don't want to face.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses May 12

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    Which means I hate myself.

    I try not to be but somehow I just am. Probably because no matter where, who and when, I feel like I'm being judged. Which is true because the world will judge no matter what but it's up to one whether to be affected or not. I'm such a moron to be affected by it and thus I tend...
    CallMeShayYeah CallMeShayYeah 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    It Only Takes Them One Freaking Second

    That's all it takes. Seriously, they look at you for like.... one second... and they think they have the right to judge. They also think they know everything about you. Heck, they think they could write your biography in a few days. I've about had it with these kind of people. I...
    silentintrovert silentintrovert 22-25, M Aug 9, 2013

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    Judgmental people are the worse people on this

    Earth and deserve to be cast off this planet. I've seen many a people on here dragging other people through the mud because they might be fake. Okay it's wrong to deceive people. I've been deceived all my life but maybe they wanna be accepted and just don't know how to do that...
    LizzyFeet1985 LizzyFeet1985 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I see some people come here very nice

    and responds well initially.. But despite having all the good intentions, they become judgmental too fast reaching to conclusions without even knowing the other person well... Its just plain immaturity i guess
    mimodsp mimodsp 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    Peoples voices are the creation of the town we

    live in today. We only listen to the things we want to hear. The expanding and growth of a lie makes only the smallest yet spoken truth. We feed off of the weak to succeed in our own home but yet stay absent in their own eyes. It's more than fear that travels through small...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F Apr 3

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    SexyLesGirl13 SexyLesGirl13 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 25

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