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I Hate Judgemental People

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    During psychology class at college we were

    having a debate on how we perceive people. Baring in mind my college class ranges from people aged 19-40, ALL of the older people said that a "bad" person would have tattoos, swear, or for a girl wear revealing clothing, tattoos/piercings, coloured hair. Plus these people are...
    EverlyLeex EverlyLeex 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    There is a real irony in joining this group

    because it immediately makes a judgement! It came up as a choice to tick when I signed up just to get on the site, so I joined. I suppose there's a difference between making judgements - essential to daily life - and being judgemental, which is a negative attribute intended...
    carlton52 carlton52 61-65, M Sep 14, 2015

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    My husband was judgemental

    and he thinks that him, his family and their like are the only "saved people" because they are "born-again christian". we always fight about other people we dont even know( most likely female) everytime he judge them of being something he doesn't even know if its fact. And his...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 4 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    People expect me to change

    for them.I never ask anyone to change for myself.I try to accept people as they are.I am like this as far as I can remember.Maybe,I should stop being nice to people.
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 9 Responses Jan 8

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    Things to never point out on people: - acne -

    cuts - scars - body hair - height - if someone is too skinny - how fat someone is - misaligned teeth Don't. Just don't. Because honestly, a little thing like pointing it out and asking about it, could hurt someone just enough to make them kill themselves, I've been...
    bflyboo14 bflyboo14 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2015

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    I don't judge people everybody should live

    their life the way they want as long as they're not harming anyone and I hate being judged myself because of my likes.
    satinlover1958 satinlover1958 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2015

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    thigh gaps are cute no thigh gaps are cute flat

    tummies are cute no flat tummies are cute long hair is cute short hair is cute but you know what isn't cute? making someone feel bad about their appearance simply because you don't like it
    devilit20 devilit20 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 10, 2014

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    I don't want to have kids,

    and I hate it when people judge me because of it. As if my decision of not wanting to have a child makes me any less of a woman. When I tell people that I refuse to have a child, they look at me like I'm some type of demonic entity. Just because I don't want to have kids doesn't...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm so scared of judgement,

    it terrifies me, if I let someone inflict that, I'm screwed for at least some days, pushes me into a spiral of overthinking that depresses me, and makes me want to abandon things. :(
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I used to be the student

    that gets the good grades. But this year, I screwed up bad. But it isn't as bad as it may seem to others. I made a huge mistake that is very costly. I know it's not the end of the world but it feels like it every time I think about it. I'm worried about the thought of me...
    CloeSmile CloeSmile 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    I hate how you get judged

    for EVERYTHING now. If you're a teenage girl and you don't have uggs? Oh my god, what a freak, everyone has them. If you don't go shopping and by perfect clothes every week? ew, you must be poor, how gross, like a person WHO ISNT FED FROM A ******* SILVER SPOON FROM THE...
    bflyboo14 bflyboo14 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 23, 2015

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    I just hate how people judge a book by its

    cover. If you would see me now, you would think I look friendly, I guess. But my mom judges me based on how I act in punlic and says I do really mean things. But I don't. She compares me to my ex-best friend and says how she's "smart", "nice", and "caring." I'm always wondering...
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F Jul 30, 2015

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    Judgement is the first thing someone does,

    but we choose whether we tell someone or not, that person might look weird, or walk funny, but you don't know their past, you don't know what they've been through, and you never will, never judge someone, I've always gone by the statement "treat as youd like to be treated" like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    There's no need to judge,

    whatsoever. Judgement was created as a survival mechanism to quickly assess the situation and read someones intention to quickly react in a hostile environment. Racism and demeaning of others is only used to prop up your own self-esteem and is a misguided use of our ability to...
    Draganoth Draganoth 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 13, 2014

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    Considering trying something quite new

    for me. A while ago I was talking to an artist acquaintance in another country, and she mentioned painting nude portraits of burn survivors. This intrigued me. Being a paraplegic myself, I've sometimes wondered what it would be like to pose for such a thing, exposing all my...
    BlueEyedGeekery BlueEyedGeekery 26-30, M Oct 24, 2015

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    Not All Rich/good Looks/succesful People Are Evil

    I just think it's so judgemental when someone who has confidence issues takes it out on what they perceive as the 'ruling class". It's like everything that happens to them is the fault of someone they perceive as 'rich, good looking or succesful". They don't even know these...
    CityGirl1111 CityGirl1111 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    On the local news a woman was assaulted on her

    way into an abortion clinic. The pro-life people protesting outside the clinic watched a 6 month pregnant woman get out of her car and walk towards the clinic. They tried to physically block her entrance and when she walked past them they pulled her hair and slapped her!! The...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    SexyLesGirl13 SexyLesGirl13 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2015

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    Everyone judges people at some time.

    Nobody's innocent to this.
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2015

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    My friend is 32 years old

    and married. She looks really young for her age because she is short and I guess just has good genes? She looks about 18-20 years old. She has a wonderful 2 year old named Madison. We were at the mall and we were buying clothes for Madison. This one woman came up and told my...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Judgmental people are the worse people on this

    Earth and deserve to be cast off this planet. I've seen many a people on here dragging other people through the mud because they might be fake. Okay it's wrong to deceive people. I've been deceived all my life but maybe they wanna be accepted and just don't know how to do that...
    LizzyFeet1985 LizzyFeet1985 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2015

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    Why the hell are people

    so overly ******* sensitive? I can't even post make a post about a racist hate group without being called a racist myself. I didn't create the group, and my initial post was to combat racism because everyone of every race should stop fighting and get along..............unless...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97 18-21, M Aug 3, 2015

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    Everybody is beautiful,

    everybody has faults but our faults don't define us as people. I hate when people get judged on their weight, or hair colour, skin colour, height, basically looks. This generation is so messed up, nobody should be made to feel crap by the way they look or what they wear...
    tjaayx tjaayx 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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    people have no right to judge

    but they do anyway but they should make sure their lives are perfect before judging others
    TeenmommyNikki TeenmommyNikki 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    I'm around irrevocably narrow-minded people

    who judge people based on the way they prefer to dress themselves, who considers shaving eyebrows a way to attract men ( wtf ), judges people who stopped going to church and considers them as corrupted and immoral, who judges introverted people saying they're depressed when they...
    alltimestrokes alltimestrokes 18-21, F Jul 15, 2015

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    Dont you just love it

    when you know that people are gonna judge you, but you don't really give a flying F. Cause you know that He is the only one who can judge and see in your heart what truly lies inside.
    DearAsha DearAsha 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2015

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    There's always a reason

    why people act the way they do. And we are not in any position to judge what we see superficially. There must be something going on behind the scenes. We haven't walked their path or experienced in any way the pain they have been through as everyone has a story we don't know...
    riseandshine18 riseandshine18 26-30, F Jul 17, 2015

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    I'm not sure 'hate' is the right word.

    I certainly have a dislike of people who rush to judgement and take no account of circumstances, extenuating, mitigating or otherwise.
    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M Jul 20, 2015

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    I am a trancegender (male on going female.

    ) and ik for a well known fact my dad and step dad well judge me for wearing Japanese school girl uniforms and girl clothing.
    WhitemoonAlpha WhitemoonAlpha 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2015

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    Never judge that quiet kid at the table,

    Never judge that girl that wears too much makeup. Never judge that boy that always cries, Never judge the kid with special needs. NEVER judge anyone, because it really doesn't get you anywhere, and you're not doing anything for yourself. It doesn't define them, it only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 22, 2015

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    I just wish that people should make sure what

    they say before judging somebody.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2015

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    There's a story behind every person.

    There's a reason why they're the way they are.Think about that before you judge someone.
    unknownusername0 unknownusername0 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I broke many relationships

    because 'Judgments'. People tend to judge a lot, even when they are not sure of the information themselves. When someone judges you wrong, it's like they're bad mounthing you with their inner selves. It's not like people can help it, right? I always struggled to keep myself in...
    Idonotcareanymore Idonotcareanymore 18-21 Oct 2, 2015

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    If what somebody is doing isn't affecting you

    leave them alone.. You can't make someone feel rubbish because you don't share the same Opinions or like the same things ✋
    Leilajames Leilajames 13-15, F 2 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Okay so today was along day on this site,

    I have met many people that were on edge quite frankly I don't know what they're going through in their lives that somehow make them entitled to hatefully judge others. Maybe few words I wrote triggered their insecurities and uncontrollably have reveled their weakness. Normally...
    FierceFox FierceFox 22-25, F Jan 31

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    Recently I encountered a woman on here

    who was very disrespectful towards me. I had asked a question which I felt as though was valid. Instead of politely telling me opinion she pretty much just told me I was an idiot. My question involved me asking if it could be possible if I was pregnant. In the description of my...
    jazmin102213 jazmin102213 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2015

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    It's a never ending cycle cause I judge those

    that always judge others lol. Especially those that whine like little babies 24/7 about the poor on welfare programs and they always whine about them saying they are all lazy bums and all are tricking the system and then tell them all to get jobs and just deal with their...
    SLICKT SLICKT 31-35, M 4 Responses Jan 15

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    Okay so like where I am people judge me

    for being bisexual 🙅 and it just makes me so mad!!!😵
    Karen168 Karen168 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2015

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    I hate judgemental people

    who sit back and act like they've never done anything wrong. They wouldn't want to be judged but they judge others.
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    Scooby Doo taught me

    that real monsters are humans.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 21, 2015

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    Everything we judge in others is something

    within ourselves we don't want to face.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 12, 2015

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    To any individual who is quick to judge oneself,

    are the people who feed off of actions, making their own look like pure gold. It only takes one person to look down upon and it's such a high, everyone engages, so we cut deeper and deeper until we've ******** them of nothing. Yet the ones who damage the mentality of a person...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F Aug 26, 2015

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    Oh EPAllie if only you were right with saying

    that EP is a place where you can express the real you without being judged. But sadly this happens like come on people, you have no idea what a person is going through and yet you just decide to judge them for everything single thing because their not perfect for you.
    HatredIncarnated HatredIncarnated 13-15, M Dec 14, 2015

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    You see what do you want to see,

    it's like seeing a mirror.
    iamnotperfect iamnotperfect 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2015

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