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I Hate Judgemental People

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    I honestly don't understand what makes some

    people think the best way to respond to someone is in a hateful judgmental way. My cousin just asked my aunt if she wanted to go to a haunted house (Netherworld) on Sunday because it's the only day we can all go since I work Fridays and Saturdays. She decides to respond in a...
    SomniumProeliator SomniumProeliator 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    There's no need to judge,

    whatsoever. Judgement was created as a survival mechanism to quickly assess the situation and read someones intention to quickly react in a hostile environment. Racism and demeaning of others is only used to prop up your own self-esteem and is a misguided use of our ability to...
    Draganoth Draganoth 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    Maybe hate is too strong; how about intense

    dislike. I try hard to not judge others. I make it a point to state what I think without labeling or calling names. I expect the same of others. I am not perfect, so I do not expect perfection, but I demand respect, common courtesy and tolerance for other views. Disagree...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M Nov 26

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    Unfortunately, Almost All My Relatives Love to Judge

    I feel super uncomfortable around my relatives. They make me want to hide.
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    Okay, I Have To Rant About This Today. This Is Terrible.

    Okay, so to start off, I will let you know that I am not a teen mom. Just so you know. But what I saw today just made me really angry. There was a picture on Facebook of a pregnant girl (probably like 14) saying "I gave up drugs for you, I gave up drinking for you, because I...
    oliveostrovsky oliveostrovsky 18-21 1 Response Dec 10, 2012

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    thigh gaps are cute no thigh gaps are cute flat

    tummies are cute no flat tummies are cute long hair is cute short hair is cute but you know what isn't cute? making someone feel bad about their appearance simply because you don't like it
    devilit20 devilit20 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    Everybody is beautiful,

    everybody has faults but our faults don't define us as people. I hate when people get judged on their weight, or hair colour, skin colour, height, basically looks. This generation is so messed up, nobody should be made to feel crap by the way they look or what they wear...
    teebagg teebagg 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 20

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    My friend is 32 years old

    and married. She looks really young for her age because she is short and I guess just has good genes? She looks about 18-20 years old. She has a wonderful 2 year old named Madison. We were at the mall and we were buying clothes for Madison. This one woman came up and told my...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    My husband was judgemental

    and he thinks that him, his family and their like are the only "saved people" because they are "born-again christian". we always fight about other people we dont even know( most likely female) everytime he judge them of being something he doesn't even know if its fact. And his...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 5 Responses Oct 22

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    Finger Pointing

    My view of the people in the small town where I now live. They are a bunch of mindless spine less ball less sheep walking around in circles sniffing each others ***** no one with a mind or an opinion of their own. I have been given every conceivable bad label a person could...
    LocaWhetta LocaWhetta 41-45, F May 19, 2013

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    badgirl1920 badgirl1920 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I understand everyone has an opinion,

    but to judge others based on your warped thought process is sickening.
    ImLastOneStanding ImLastOneStanding 41-45, M Jan 10

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    If i really was a *****,

    I'd make your life a living hell, but instead I'll just sit back and watch you do it yourself.
    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    If what somebody is doing isn't affecting you

    leave them alone.. You can't make someone feel rubbish because you don't share the same Opinions or like the same things ‚úč
    Leilajames Leilajames 13-15, F 2 Responses May 23

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    Do I Hate Judgmental People?

    My friend always used to say that she thought of hate as a really powerful word(which it is) but sometimes a little too powerful, and every time she would want to say she hated someone she would say instead that she strongly disliked them. I found myself saying the words...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 15, 2013

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    All The Same

    I don't hate anyone, not even judgemental people. For if I did I would hate everyone - do we all not judge? We all have more in common then we give each other credit for. There is something to love in everyone we meet - it may be as simple as the way their eyes twinkle or their...
    Bythelight0fthemoon Bythelight0fthemoon 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Judgemental people: You aren't God

    and you have no right to judge anyone because no sin is greater then another.
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    I really hate judgemental people!

    They always say crap about you and it really ****** me off.. If I get judged by my looks or whatever, HELL WILL BREAK LOOSE!! Now, I'm different.. I'm a war-freak person!
    xxBoyishGirlxx xxBoyishGirlxx 13-15, F Nov 28

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    My boyfriend is in jail

    because of a drug addiction and it's very hard to deal with.
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    I've checked out a lot of stories posted on

    this site, and one thing that stands out with some of the ones I've read, is that people are extremely judgmental for all the wrong reasons. Not so much with the stories, but the responses people give them. For example, it seems that anyone who believes in allowing nudity at...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Mar 23

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    My Friend Judged Me

    THEY JUDGED A PEOPLE WHOTHEY DOESN'T KNOW WELL, THEY TURN THEIR BACK TO ME,  THEY ALWAYS WANT ME TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO BUT FOR ME, I WON'T SO I BECAME MORE cruel TO MYSELF AND OTHER PEOPLE and some said sttp being CRUEL to other people because if you will stay being...
    incess incess 13-15 Oct 10, 2010

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    It Only Takes Them One Freaking Second

    That's all it takes. Seriously, they look at you for like.... one second... and they think they have the right to judge. They also think they know everything about you. Heck, they think they could write your biography in a few days. I've about had it with these kind of people. I...
    silentintrovert silentintrovert 22-25, M Aug 9, 2013

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    Judgement is the first thing someone does,

    but we choose whether we tell someone or not, that person might look weird, or walk funny, but you don't know their past, you don't know what they've been through, and you never will, never judge someone, I've always gone by the statement "treat as youd like to be treated" like...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 9 Responses Nov 17

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    It seems like everybody I know feels

    that it's totally okay to be ridiculously judgmental of others. I think it's only natural to judge people to an extent. You make little judgments about everybody that you meet. But there's a difference between making small judgments about the people you come in contact with and...
    wayyfarer wayyfarer 18-21, F Jan 30

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    But am one. In order to hate a thing we must

    judge. Hypocrasy lives. Unfortunately. In most of us. Even dogs. Hypocrasy is anger transferrence also. So that is the new normal. And ehy dysfunctional is now normal.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Jul 17

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    I seriously need to rant over this.

    so I hate people who judge you over everything, like I honestly don't give a ****. I mean if you love somebody who is twice your age or like 25 years younger than you. I seriously don't give a **** at all. like as long as they make you happy that makes me happy. if you want a...
    Emmmzzzxo Emmmzzzxo 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    Not All Rich/good Looks/succesful People Are Evil

    I just think it's so judgemental when someone who has confidence issues takes it out on what they perceive as the 'ruling class". It's like everything that happens to them is the fault of someone they perceive as 'rich, good looking or succesful". They don't even know these...
    CityGirl1111 CityGirl1111 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    mizti mizti 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I Really Don't Know,,,

    I hate the way people think they can judge you just because of the way you dress or talk or the type of music you listen to.. It ****** me off so badly. These people don't know half the stuff I've been through and how strong I've had to be, most of the time i am using a fake...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 27, 2013

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    Tattoos

    I'm bothered today by a comment made to me by my sisters mother-in-law. I have 3 crosses tattooed on my forearm, or 3 on a tree as people like to call it, and my neice was touching my arm. My sister says, "She really likes the pretty colors on your arm." The mother in...
    nobodythatspecial nobodythatspecial 36-40, M 5 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    I Hate Judgemental

    I hate people that is judgemental, looking at me with curious eyes and judge me for just one look. Well, sorry if I'm not that perfect, if you're my friend you'll see more of me. And don't even try to change me, tell me that I should be more like this, more like that, i'm not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    On the local news a woman was assaulted on her

    way into an abortion clinic. The pro-life people protesting outside the clinic watched a 6 month pregnant woman get out of her car and walk towards the clinic. They tried to physically block her entrance and when she walked past them they pulled her hair and slapped her!! The...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    Why do people judge? I don't understand.

    Just because someone is black or someone is white or someone is gay or someone is straight or someone suffers with depression or someone suffers with anxiety, that does not make them outcasts to this society, it makes them human with their own problems. Why can't people...
    ofmiceandmeggg ofmiceandmeggg 16-17, F Dec 13, 2013

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    My biggest pet peeve is

    when people assume people with tatoos and piercings are trash. Someones appearance does not account for whats on the inside. It does not mean they are a terrible person. Tatoos are simply an art form and a way of expressing yourself. These people are the ones with the most...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 18-21, F Apr 3

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    EP

    People who judge others in my opinion are scum. What right do they have? Life is a complicated entanglement of highs and lows and I never judge others. No one is perfect. Everyone has secrets. If you think differently you are delusional and maybe should take father Xmas for a...
    MissDarkAngel MissDarkAngel 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    My Whole Life

    Being a thick chick, overweight, whatever, you want to call it, I have been judged my entire life.  Even at 30, I know there are still ignorant people out there who are judging me on my appearance.  And I think it's horrible.  Not just because it hurts me, but...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    Its So Easy to Judge Others

    Someone said when you point a finger at someone you have 4 pointing back at you and that's what I feel.  I rush to judgment but quickly pull up into an alley before anyone sees the foolish moves I've made.  I quickly go over my faults but that takes so long that I...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 5 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    "We were all humans until race seperated us ,

    religion classified us ,and sexual orientation labeled us" Stop with the judging guys,you wouldn't like to be judged either.And *****, my background or sexual preferences doesn't affect you in the slightest possible way./insert nicky minaj's voice/
    maknaekid maknaekid 13-15, F Nov 3

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    Lets be honest there is alot of racial hypocrisy from both blacks and whites. Yes There is still racism in this world its sad and trifling but its not just the whites being bigots...
    BurningFist BurningFist 22-25, M Dec 4

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    You know what I can't stand? Rude people honestly their rude comments are not necessary and it hurts me whenever I get called something mean or rude and I hate how people don't...
    Lollipop11124 Lollipop11124 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    So I have been talking to this guy for over a year now. We were close at one point but ended up just as friends. (Never had sex, just want to put that out there) We have been...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate fake people. People who lie. I live and work in a place work everyone is fake and i am starting to see myself being like them. I know i hate it but being with them makes me...
    happysha17 happysha17 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    Everyone is freaking annoying.. Like I hate stupid people.. Does ANYONE have common sense anymore? Or did it die with the last generation, I'm sick of this generation.. Like...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F Nov 25

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    I work with some people who are fake. They put on a front and act different then if you weren't there. People brown nose so bad you can't tell if they're being sincere and it's...
    666Charmed 666Charmed 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    I hate phony people Don't contact me if ur over the age 19 And I hate creeps
    kenzie0514 kenzie0514 13-15, F 6 Responses Dec 4

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    I hate stupid people with their stupid petty problems. Mad over the simplest most useless ****. People in this world have serious problems, sickness, hunger, loss, and there are...
    edemylove edemylove 22-25, F Dec 8

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    I hate when people make me feel like I'm going to be accepted just to find out I'm not even important to them. She made me think I was gunna be accepted and needed and she won't...
    RaisedByTheWolves RaisedByTheWolves 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    I hate when people touch or my stuff without asking.
    TheWiseRedOwl TheWiseRedOwl 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 25

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