I Hate Judgemental People

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    Recently I encountered a woman on here

    who was very disrespectful towards me. I had asked a question which I felt as though was valid. Instead of politely telling me opinion she pretty much just told me I was an idiot. My question involved me asking if it could be possible if I was pregnant. In the description of my...
    jazmin102213 jazmin102213
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    Why the hell are people

    so overly ******* sensitive? I can't even post make a post about a racist hate group without being called a racist myself. I didn't create the group, and my initial post was to combat racism because everyone of every race should stop fighting and get along..............unless...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97
    18-21, M
    Aug 3, 2015

    Everybody is beautiful,

    everybody has faults but our faults don't define us as people. I hate when people get judged on their weight, or hair colour, skin colour, height, basically looks. This generation is so messed up, nobody should be made to feel crap by the way they look or what they wear...
    tjaayx tjaayx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2014

    Never judge that quiet kid at the table,

    Never judge that girl that wears too much makeup. Never judge that boy that always cries, Never judge the kid with special needs. NEVER judge anyone, because it really doesn't get you anywhere, and you're not doing anything for yourself. It doesn't define them, it only...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    My Whole Life

    Being a thick chick, overweight, whatever, you want to call it, I have been judged my entire life.  Even at 30, I know there are still ignorant people out there who are judging me on my appearance.  And I think it's horrible.  Not just because it hurts me, but...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

    You see what do you want to see,

    it's like seeing a mirror.
    iamnotperfect iamnotperfect
    26-30, F
    Dec 23, 2015

    My Friend Judged Me

    THEY JUDGED A PEOPLE WHOTHEY DOESN'T KNOW WELL, THEY TURN THEIR BACK TO ME,  THEY ALWAYS WANT ME TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO BUT FOR ME, I WON'T SO I BECAME MORE cruel TO MYSELF AND OTHER PEOPLE and some said sttp being CRUEL to other people because if you will stay being...
    incess incess
    13-15
    Oct 10, 2010

    To any individual who is quick to judge oneself,

    are the people who feed off of actions, making their own look like pure gold. It only takes one person to look down upon and it's such a high, everyone engages, so we cut deeper and deeper until we've ******** them of nothing. Yet the ones who damage the mentality of a person...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess
    18-21, F
    Aug 26, 2015

    Not All Rich/good Looks/succesful People Are Evil

    I just think it's so judgemental when someone who has confidence issues takes it out on what they perceive as the 'ruling class". It's like everything that happens to them is the fault of someone they perceive as 'rich, good looking or succesful". They don't even know these...
    CityGirl1111 CityGirl1111
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 20, 2010

    Okay so like where I am people judge me

    for being bisexual 🙅 and it just makes me so mad!!!😵
    Karen168 Karen168
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2015

    If what somebody is doing isn't affecting you

    leave them alone.. You can't make someone feel rubbish because you don't share the same Opinions or like the same things ✋
    Leilajames Leilajames
    13-15, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2014

    Judgmental people are the worse people on this

    Earth and deserve to be cast off this planet. I've seen many a people on here dragging other people through the mud because they might be fake. Okay it's wrong to deceive people. I've been deceived all my life but maybe they wanna be accepted and just don't know how to do that...
    LizzyFeet1985 LizzyFeet1985
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2015

    There's no need to judge,

    whatsoever. Judgement was created as a survival mechanism to quickly assess the situation and read someones intention to quickly react in a hostile environment. Racism and demeaning of others is only used to prop up your own self-esteem and is a misguided use of our ability to...
    Draganoth Draganoth
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    Considering trying something quite new

    for me. A while ago I was talking to an artist acquaintance in another country, and she mentioned painting nude portraits of burn survivors. This intrigued me. Being a paraplegic myself, I've sometimes wondered what it would be like to pose for such a thing, exposing all my...
    BlueEyedGeekery BlueEyedGeekery
    26-30, M
    Oct 24, 2015

    There's a story behind every person.

    There's a reason why they're the way they are.Think about that before you judge someone.
    unknownusername0 unknownusername0
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 19

    It's a never ending cycle cause I judge those

    that always judge others lol. Especially those that whine like little babies 24/7 about the poor on welfare programs and they always whine about them saying they are all lazy bums and all are tricking the system and then tell them all to get jobs and just deal with their...
    SLICKT SLICKT
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jan 15

    There's always a reason

    why people act the way they do. And we are not in any position to judge what we see superficially. There must be something going on behind the scenes. We haven't walked their path or experienced in any way the pain they have been through as everyone has a story we don't know...
    riseandshine18 riseandshine18
    26-30, F
    Jul 17, 2015

    I am a trancegender (male on going female.

    ) and ik for a well known fact my dad and step dad well judge me for wearing Japanese school girl uniforms and girl clothing.
    WhitemoonAlpha WhitemoonAlpha
    22-25, M
    Oct 24, 2015

    Peoples voices are the creation of the town we

    live in today. We only listen to the things we want to hear. The expanding and growth of a lie makes only the smallest yet spoken truth. We feed off of the weak to succeed in our own home but yet stay absent in their own eyes. It's more than fear that travels through small...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess
    18-21, F
    Apr 3, 2015

    Which means I hate myself.

    I try not to be but somehow I just am. Probably because no matter where, who and when, I feel like I'm being judged. Which is true because the world will judge no matter what but it's up to one whether to be affected or not. I'm such a moron to be affected by it and thus I tend...
    CallMeShayYeah CallMeShayYeah
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2015

    Like we each all have different preferences!

    If you don't like others interests, then just shut up and don't judge! @__@
    yayepisoverimsad yayepisoverimsad
    22-25, F
    Feb 26

    Maybe hate is too strong; how about intense

    dislike. I try hard to not judge others. I make it a point to state what I think without labeling or calling names. I expect the same of others. I am not perfect, so I do not expect perfection, but I demand respect, common courtesy and tolerance for other views. Disagree...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot
    56-60, M
    1 Response Nov 26, 2014

    thigh gaps are cute no thigh gaps are cute flat

    tummies are cute no flat tummies are cute long hair is cute short hair is cute but you know what isn't cute? making someone feel bad about their appearance simply because you don't like it
    devilit20 devilit20
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 10, 2014

    Lily Allen's song is

    for you -.-
    seraphim06 seraphim06
    18-21, F
    Mar 23

    My husband was judgemental

    and he thinks that him, his family and their like are the only "saved people" because they are "born-again christian". we always fight about other people we dont even know( most likely female) everytime he judge them of being something he doesn't even know if its fact. And his...
    sunrio sunrio
    36-40
    4 Responses Oct 22, 2014

    Okay so today was along day on this site,

    I have met many people that were on edge quite frankly I don't know what they're going through in their lives that somehow make them entitled to hatefully judge others. Maybe few words I wrote triggered their insecurities and uncontrollably have reveled their weakness. Normally...
    DarknessDepth DarknessDepth
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 31

    Judgement is the first thing someone does,

    but we choose whether we tell someone or not, that person might look weird, or walk funny, but you don't know their past, you don't know what they've been through, and you never will, never judge someone, I've always gone by the statement "treat as youd like to be treated" like...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Nov 17, 2014

    I'm not sure 'hate' is the right word.

    I certainly have a dislike of people who rush to judgement and take no account of circumstances, extenuating, mitigating or otherwise.
    ClownNine ClownNine
    56-60, M
    Jul 20, 2015

    On the local news a woman was assaulted on her

    way into an abortion clinic. The pro-life people protesting outside the clinic watched a 6 month pregnant woman get out of her car and walk towards the clinic. They tried to physically block her entrance and when she walked past them they pulled her hair and slapped her!! The...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 8, 2014

    I just wish that people should make sure what

    they say before judging somebody.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 24, 2015

    "We were all humans until race seperated us ,

    religion classified us ,and sexual orientation labeled us" Stop with the judging guys,you wouldn't like to be judged either.And *****, my background or sexual preferences doesn't affect you in the slightest possible way./insert nicky minaj's voice/
    maknaekid maknaekid
    13-15, F
    Nov 3, 2014

    Sometimes when I say

    that I hate judgmental people and that some are just so annoying. I feel like I'm judging them instead I just ignore them since 2014 cause I felt like I am being a judgmental person too but not.
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX
    16-17, F
    May 23, 2015

    I just hate how people judge a book by its

    cover. If you would see me now, you would think I look friendly, I guess. But my mom judges me based on how I act in punlic and says I do really mean things. But I don't. She compares me to my ex-best friend and says how she's "smart", "nice", and "caring." I'm always wondering...
    Music4Us Music4Us
    13-15, F
    Jul 30, 2015

    Dont you just love it

    when you know that people are gonna judge you, but you don't really give a flying F. Cause you know that He is the only one who can judge and see in your heart what truly lies inside.
    DearAsha DearAsha
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2015

    I broke many relationships

    because 'Judgments'. People tend to judge a lot, even when they are not sure of the information themselves. When someone judges you wrong, it's like they're bad mounthing you with their inner selves. It's not like people can help it, right? I always struggled to keep myself in...
    TheLonelyGreyWolf TheLonelyGreyWolf
    18-21
    Oct 2, 2015

    So I told my friend that I have ex girlfriends

    and she reacted like I went to a killing spree. I shouldn't have said anything :/
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 16, 2015

    I don't want to have kids,

    and I hate it when people judge me because of it. As if my decision of not wanting to have a child makes me any less of a woman. When I tell people that I refuse to have a child, they look at me like I'm some type of demonic entity. Just because I don't want to have kids doesn't...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    18-21, F
    Feb 10

    Scooby Doo taught me

    that real monsters are humans.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 21, 2015

    Everything we judge in others is something

    within ourselves we don't want to face.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 12, 2015

    I'm around irrevocably narrow-minded people

    who judge people based on the way they prefer to dress themselves, who considers shaving eyebrows a way to attract men ( wtf ), judges people who stopped going to church and considers them as corrupted and immoral, who judges introverted people saying they're depressed when they...
    alltimestrokes alltimestrokes
    18-21, F
    Jul 15, 2015

    Oh EPAllie if only you were right with saying

    that EP is a place where you can express the real you without being judged. But sadly this happens like come on people, you have no idea what a person is going through and yet you just decide to judge them for everything single thing because their not perfect for you.
    HatredIncarnated HatredIncarnated
    13-15, M
    Dec 14, 2015

    During psychology class at college we were

    having a debate on how we perceive people. Baring in mind my college class ranges from people aged 19-40, ALL of the older people said that a "bad" person would have tattoos, swear, or for a girl wear revealing clothing, tattoos/piercings, coloured hair. Plus these people are...
    EverlyLeex EverlyLeex
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 29

    My friend is 32 years old

    and married. She looks really young for her age because she is short and I guess just has good genes? She looks about 18-20 years old. She has a wonderful 2 year old named Madison. We were at the mall and we were buying clothes for Madison. This one woman came up and told my...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 1, 2014
    SexyLesGirl13 SexyLesGirl13
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2015
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