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I Hate Judgemental People

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    badgirl1920 badgirl1920 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2014

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    My husband was judgemental

    and he thinks that him, his family and their like are the only "saved people" because they are "born-again christian". we always fight about other people we dont even know( most likely female) everytime he judge them of being something he doesn't even know if its fact. And his...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 4 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I see some people come here very nice

    and responds well initially.. But despite having all the good intentions, they become judgmental too fast reaching to conclusions without even knowing the other person well... Its just plain immaturity i guess
    mimodsp mimodsp 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    My Whole Life

    Being a thick chick, overweight, whatever, you want to call it, I have been judged my entire life.  Even at 30, I know there are still ignorant people out there who are judging me on my appearance.  And I think it's horrible.  Not just because it hurts me, but...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    All The Same

    I don't hate anyone, not even judgemental people. For if I did I would hate everyone - do we all not judge? We all have more in common then we give each other credit for. There is something to love in everyone we meet - it may be as simple as the way their eyes twinkle or their...
    Bythelight0fthemoon Bythelight0fthemoon 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Judgement is the first thing someone does,

    but we choose whether we tell someone or not, that person might look weird, or walk funny, but you don't know their past, you don't know what they've been through, and you never will, never judge someone, I've always gone by the statement "treat as youd like to be treated" like...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 12 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    thigh gaps are cute no thigh gaps are cute flat

    tummies are cute no flat tummies are cute long hair is cute short hair is cute but you know what isn't cute? making someone feel bad about their appearance simply because you don't like it
    devilit20 devilit20 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 10, 2014

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    mizti mizti 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    SexyLesGirl13 SexyLesGirl13 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Which means I hate myself.

    I try not to be but somehow I just am. Probably because no matter where, who and when, I feel like I'm being judged. Which is true because the world will judge no matter what but it's up to one whether to be affected or not. I'm such a moron to be affected by it and thus I tend...
    CallMeShayYeah CallMeShayYeah 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I honestly don't understand what makes some

    people think the best way to respond to someone is in a hateful judgmental way. My cousin just asked my aunt if she wanted to go to a haunted house (Netherworld) on Sunday because it's the only day we can all go since I work Fridays and Saturdays. She decides to respond in a...
    SomniumProeliator SomniumProeliator 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    Maybe hate is too strong; how about intense

    dislike. I try hard to not judge others. I make it a point to state what I think without labeling or calling names. I expect the same of others. I am not perfect, so I do not expect perfection, but I demand respect, common courtesy and tolerance for other views. Disagree...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    I've checked out a lot of stories posted on

    this site, and one thing that stands out with some of the ones I've read, is that people are extremely judgmental for all the wrong reasons. Not so much with the stories, but the responses people give them. For example, it seems that anyone who believes in allowing nudity at...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Mar 23, 2014

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    It seems like everybody I know feels

    that it's totally okay to be ridiculously judgmental of others. I think it's only natural to judge people to an extent. You make little judgments about everybody that you meet. But there's a difference between making small judgments about the people you come in contact with and...
    wayyfarer wayyfarer 18-21, F Jan 30, 2014

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    EP

    People who judge others in my opinion are scum. What right do they have? Life is a complicated entanglement of highs and lows and I never judge others. No one is perfect. Everyone has secrets. If you think differently you are delusional and maybe should take father Xmas for a...
    MissDarkAngel MissDarkAngel 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    My friend is 32 years old

    and married. She looks really young for her age because she is short and I guess just has good genes? She looks about 18-20 years old. She has a wonderful 2 year old named Madison. We were at the mall and we were buying clothes for Madison. This one woman came up and told my...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I understand everyone has an opinion,

    but to judge others based on your warped thought process is sickening.
    ImLastOneStanding ImLastOneStanding 41-45, M Jan 10, 2014

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    I am sitting quietly in my room,

    minding my own business just browsing through the EP app when in comes my mom, my sister's BFF and my sister. They immediately start commentating on all my personal belongings and how my room is poorly decorated to there taste. I felt like I was on an episode of "Room Raiders"or...
    NiteOwlet NiteOwlet 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    My boyfriend is in jail

    because of a drug addiction and it's very hard to deal with.
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2014

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    Dont you just love it

    when you know that people are gonna judge you, but you don't really give a flying F. Cause you know that He is the only one who can judge and see in your heart what truly lies inside.
    DearAsha DearAsha 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    I find the fact that today’s society finds it

    perfectly acceptable to judge a person based on appearance alone, or that the media would have us believe that in order to be attractive you MUST have a 6pack, or look like some movie star. And even for women, they are force fed this image of skinny thin women in bikinis and...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 17

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    Everybody is beautiful,

    everybody has faults but our faults don't define us as people. I hate when people get judged on their weight, or hair colour, skin colour, height, basically looks. This generation is so messed up, nobody should be made to feel crap by the way they look or what they wear...
    tjaayx tjaayx 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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    Judgemental people: You aren't God

    and you have no right to judge anyone because no sin is greater then another.
    SunshineH13 SunshineH13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2014

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    I work with a guy who is a doting husband

    and father. He seems very genuine, hard working, and straight-laced as far as I can tell. Very friendly, too. He looks okay except his teeth are really bad. He is slowly getting them fixed because he can't afford to get them done all at once. What I cannot stand is how the...
    beachlover81 beachlover81 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    It Only Takes Them One Freaking Second

    That's all it takes. Seriously, they look at you for like.... one second... and they think they have the right to judge. They also think they know everything about you. Heck, they think they could write your biography in a few days. I've about had it with these kind of people. I...
    silentintrovert silentintrovert 22-25, M Aug 9, 2013

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    Peoples voices are the creation of the town we

    live in today. We only listen to the things we want to hear. The expanding and growth of a lie makes only the smallest yet spoken truth. We feed off of the weak to succeed in our own home but yet stay absent in their own eyes. It's more than fear that travels through small...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F Apr 3

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    If what somebody is doing isn't affecting you

    leave them alone.. You can't make someone feel rubbish because you don't share the same Opinions or like the same things ✋
    Leilajames Leilajames 13-15, F 2 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Sometimes when I say

    that I hate judgmental people and that some are just so annoying. I feel like I'm judging them instead I just ignore them since 2014 cause I felt like I am being a judgmental person too but not.
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F May 23

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    Tattoos

    I'm bothered today by a comment made to me by my sisters mother-in-law. I have 3 crosses tattooed on my forearm, or 3 on a tree as people like to call it, and my neice was touching my arm. My sister says, "She really likes the pretty colors on your arm." The mother in...
    nobodythatspecial nobodythatspecial 36-40, M 5 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    "We were all humans until race seperated us ,

    religion classified us ,and sexual orientation labeled us" Stop with the judging guys,you wouldn't like to be judged either.And *****, my background or sexual preferences doesn't affect you in the slightest possible way./insert nicky minaj's voice/
    maknaekid maknaekid 13-15, F Nov 3, 2014

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    I Really Don't Know,,,

    I hate the way people think they can judge you just because of the way you dress or talk or the type of music you listen to.. It ****** me off so badly. These people don't know half the stuff I've been through and how strong I've had to be, most of the time i am using a fake...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 27, 2013

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    Everything we judge in others is something

    within ourselves we don't want to face.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses May 12

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    Never judge that quiet kid at the table,

    Never judge that girl that wears too much makeup. Never judge that boy that always cries, Never judge the kid with special needs. NEVER judge anyone, because it really doesn't get you anywhere, and you're not doing anything for yourself. It doesn't define them, it only...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    There's no need to judge,

    whatsoever. Judgement was created as a survival mechanism to quickly assess the situation and read someones intention to quickly react in a hostile environment. Racism and demeaning of others is only used to prop up your own self-esteem and is a misguided use of our ability to...
    Draganoth Draganoth 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 13, 2014

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    I think people judge too much.

    How can you get to know anyone if you just brush them off by appearance or what they say? You have to dig deeper. I'm judged all the time but if they got to know me, it would be great!
    spaceylibra spaceylibra 31-35, F Mar 26

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    My biggest pet peeve is

    when people assume people with tatoos and piercings are trash. Someones appearance does not account for whats on the inside. It does not mean they are a terrible person. Tatoos are simply an art form and a way of expressing yourself. These people are the ones with the most...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 18-21, F Apr 3, 2014

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    Okay, I Have To Rant About This Today. This Is Terrible.

    Okay, so to start off, I will let you know that I am not a teen mom. Just so you know. But what I saw today just made me really angry. There was a picture on Facebook of a pregnant girl (probably like 14) saying "I gave up drugs for you, I gave up drinking for you, because I...
    oliveostrovsky oliveostrovsky 18-21 1 Response Dec 10, 2012

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    Not All Rich/good Looks/succesful People Are Evil

    I just think it's so judgemental when someone who has confidence issues takes it out on what they perceive as the 'ruling class". It's like everything that happens to them is the fault of someone they perceive as 'rich, good looking or succesful". They don't even know these...
    CityGirl1111 CityGirl1111 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Honestly , What rights do anyone have to judge

    another human being. None of us in this world have a similar life.But yet , each one of us judge another. I can understand contempt that is felt for someone who hurts others intentionally. But , without knowing the full story , without understanding the circumstances of another...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 5

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    On the local news a woman was assaulted on her

    way into an abortion clinic. The pro-life people protesting outside the clinic watched a 6 month pregnant woman get out of her car and walk towards the clinic. They tried to physically block her entrance and when she walked past them they pulled her hair and slapped her!! The...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    My Friend Judged Me

    THEY JUDGED A PEOPLE WHOTHEY DOESN'T KNOW WELL, THEY TURN THEIR BACK TO ME,  THEY ALWAYS WANT ME TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO BUT FOR ME, I WON'T SO I BECAME MORE cruel TO MYSELF AND OTHER PEOPLE and some said sttp being CRUEL to other people because if you will stay being...
    incess incess 13-15 Oct 10, 2010

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    hazellboo hazellboo 16-17, F Mar 23

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