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I Hate Judgemental People

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    It Only Takes Them One Freaking Second

    That's all it takes. Seriously, they look at you for like.... one second... and they think they have the right to judge. They also think they know everything about you. Heck, they think they could write your biography in a few days. I've about had it with these kind of people. I...
    silentintrovert silentintrovert 22-25, M Aug 9, 2013

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    My Whole Life

    Being a thick chick, overweight, whatever, you want to call it, I have been judged my entire life.  Even at 30, I know there are still ignorant people out there who are judging me on my appearance.  And I think it's horrible.  Not just because it hurts me, but...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    No Right

    Unless you're perfect and thereby God, you have no right to judge any one about anything. I am not talking religion, only truth.  Everyone makes mistakes.  We have all made a decision that afterwords we looked back and wondered what the hell were we thinking because even we...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 1 Response Oct 14, 2012

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    Listen To My Story

    I went out with my relatives for dinner. It was awkward because I weren't so close to them and I was alone with all the memebers of their family. We went to a BBQ place. So, my aunt decided that there is a specific way for eating bbq meat. Apparently, you don't just dip them in...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Its So Easy to Judge Others

    Someone said when you point a finger at someone you have 4 pointing back at you and that's what I feel.  I rush to judgment but quickly pull up into an alley before anyone sees the foolish moves I've made.  I quickly go over my faults but that takes so long that I...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 5 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    Unfortunately, Almost All My Relatives Love to Judge

    I feel super uncomfortable around my relatives. They make me want to hide.
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    I did wrote my fair share of stories on here

    people judging me how I write, not caring I have a language based learning disability and many other things. I learned need to accept there will always be people like this in this world. However, I can't let this prevent me advancing in life even though there very few people...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Feb 9

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    It seems like everybody I know feels

    that it's totally okay to be ridiculously judgmental of others. I think it's only natural to judge people to an extent. You make little judgments about everybody that you meet. But there's a difference between making small judgments about the people you come in contact with and...
    wayyfarer wayyfarer 18-21, F Jan 30

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    I understand everyone has an opinion,

    but to judge others based on your warped thought process is sickening.
    ImLastOneStanding ImLastOneStanding 41-45, M Jan 10

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    Why do people judge? I don't understand.

    Just because someone is black or someone is white or someone is gay or someone is straight or someone suffers with depression or someone suffers with anxiety, that does not make them outcasts to this society, it makes them human with their own problems. Why can't people...
    ofmiceandmeggg ofmiceandmeggg 13-15, F Dec 13, 2013

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    My biggest pet peeve is

    when people assume people with tatoos and piercings are trash. Someones appearance does not account for whats on the inside. It does not mean they are a terrible person. Tatoos are simply an art form and a way of expressing yourself. These people are the ones with the most...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F Apr 3

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    Tattoos

    I'm bothered today by a comment made to me by my sisters mother-in-law. I have 3 crosses tattooed on my forearm, or 3 on a tree as people like to call it, and my neice was touching my arm. My sister says, "She really likes the pretty colors on your arm." The mother in...
    nobodythatspecial nobodythatspecial 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Finger Pointing

    My view of the people in the small town where I now live. They are a bunch of mindless spine less ball less sheep walking around in circles sniffing each others ***** no one with a mind or an opinion of their own. I have been given every conceivable bad label a person could...
    LocaWhetta LocaWhetta 41-45, F May 19, 2013

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    I seriously need to rant over this.

    so I hate people who judge you over everything, like I honestly don't give a ****. I mean if you love somebody who is twice your age or like 25 years younger than you. I seriously don't give a **** at all. like as long as they make you happy that makes me happy. if you want a...
    Emmmzzzxo Emmmzzzxo 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    Bob Marley Saves Life's

    "who are you to judge the life that i live? i know i'm not perfect & i don't live to be. but before you start pointing fingers; make sure your hand are clean."
    OneLastBreath OneLastBreath 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2009

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    Blah!

    I am sooo fricken tired of hearing judgments everywhere i go from every single person. Arghh, its frustrating, i hate judging people, i accept everyone, i just want peace, and love, thats all. But unfortunately our society, our human race loves to judge, and i get so tired of...
    Breathlifelivedream Breathlifelivedream 16-17 Nov 9, 2012

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    Well, Hate Is Too Negative

    but I don't judge others, particularly in their personal lives, and too many people are too quick to make snap judgements on other people's behaviour. It is the staple diet of the gossip columns and the tabloids, and it both irritates and bores me.
    mizzen123 mizzen123 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2011

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    I Hate Judgemental

    I hate people that is judgemental, looking at me with curious eyes and judge me for just one look. Well, sorry if I'm not that perfect, if you're my friend you'll see more of me. And don't even try to change me, tell me that I should be more like this, more like that, i'm not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    Okay, I Have To Rant About This Today. This Is Terrible.

    Okay, so to start off, I will let you know that I am not a teen mom. Just so you know. But what I saw today just made me really angry. There was a picture on Facebook of a pregnant girl (probably like 14) saying "I gave up drugs for you, I gave up drinking for you, because I...
    oliveostrovsky oliveostrovsky 18-21 1 Response Dec 10, 2012

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    I've checked out a lot of stories posted on

    this site, and one thing that stands out with some of the ones I've read, is that people are extremely judgmental for all the wrong reasons. Not so much with the stories, but the responses people give them. For example, it seems that anyone who believes in allowing nudity at...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Mar 23

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    Who Are You

    I know this may sound like a broken record but who are we to judge others? I know it's in our nature to judge everyone at first which leads to the old saying 'make a good first impression'. But what if you have known the person for a long time, and have become really good friends...
    hecateberyl hecateberyl 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2009

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    Not All Rich/good Looks/succesful People Are Evil

    I just think it's so judgemental when someone who has confidence issues takes it out on what they perceive as the 'ruling class". It's like everything that happens to them is the fault of someone they perceive as 'rich, good looking or succesful". They don't even know these...
    CityGirl1111 CityGirl1111 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    I Can't Stand Judgemental People

    I've gotten to the point where I need somewhere to rant, and this site seemed like the perfect place. I'm not too sure if anyone will read this, but I feel like there are other people out there that could agree with me. Nothing irritates me more than judgmental people... nothing...
    samararedway samararedway 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2013

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    EP

    People who judge others in my opinion are scum. What right do they have? Life is a complicated entanglement of highs and lows and I never judge others. No one is perfect. Everyone has secrets. If you think differently you are delusional and maybe should take father Xmas for a...
    MissDarkAngel MissDarkAngel 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    I Really Don't Know,,,

    I hate the way people think they can judge you just because of the way you dress or talk or the type of music you listen to.. It ****** me off so badly. These people don't know half the stuff I've been through and how strong I've had to be, most of the time i am using a fake...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 27, 2013

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    thigh gaps are cute no thigh gaps are cute flat

    tummies are cute no flat tummies are cute long hair is cute short hair is cute but you know what isn't cute? making someone feel bad about their appearance simply because you don't like it
    d1noRAWR d1noRAWR 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    I hate lazy people. There's always one in my group assignments and group discussions. How can I have a group discussion in my tutorial classes if people don't prepare the work or...
    GoFuckYourselfBitch GoFuckYourselfBitch 70+, M Mar 24

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    I have a phobia, a terrible fear of negative people. I hate when people whining about everything. This is what I hate most in the world. So if you want to talk to me, don't be...
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    The other night I was sleeping at my friends house and because it was a public holiday so she didn't have work the next day so she decided to have like 7 glasses of wine and she...
    Myshelle13 Myshelle13 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I hate fake people and then they clam to be your best friend and yet they don't stick up for you and rub you problems in your face.
    Pluviophile32 Pluviophile32 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    i hate when people cheat on university exams and dont get caught. they do better than everyone else and just dont get caught! LIFE SEEMS SO UNFAIR
    LonelyThoughts LonelyThoughts 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I hate rude people. If you send them a friendly message, the polite thing to do is for them to reply..it takes a moment, and shows that the are not selfish an d up their own arses...
    piers1 piers1 56-60 Apr 8

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    I hate those people you come across in life that are just so.... annoying!
    dplastini dplastini 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I believe at one time or another everyone hates stupid people, but if you think about it, what would keep us entertained? There is a common balance to it I'm sure. Random thoughts...
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I despise people who makes a fake profile. Please don't message me ,i won't reply.
    yornc yornc 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I am not a perfect person. I've made bad choices & displayed poor behavior in my past. I've paid the price for it & I've learned from it. What really gets to me though is, other...
    bethrichards bethrichards 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I see so many people saying that they are open minded! Do they even know what it means? I think not, most are under the delusion that it means they accept this or that latest fad...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm watching Lost and Pretty Little Liars and I just hate Benjamin Linus and Alison DiLaurentis. They mess up with people's minds and it hurts them. They even hurt other people...
    DreamerX01 DreamerX01 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm not sure if this is considered selfish, but I didn't know where else this list would fit. Basically, I hate people act like this: -People who make everything about them...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I guess hate is a strong word. I don't hate anybody; I just hate the way fake people make me feel once they're done with me. :/
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I just started at a new job working in a group home for people with disabilities about a month and a half ago. I know how to help most of the people right now and usually ask for...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F Apr 1

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    I always do someone to **** something up and cause people to hate me or be annoyed by me. I hate annoying others also. Don't like bother people with my problems. But then they...
    PandaHaven PandaHaven 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    ''You should be lucky to have parents, some people don't have them.'' Lucky? I would be luckier if I didn’t have people who I call mom and dad, maybe then other people would...
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I see people keep staring at each others and envy what everyone have...or look down at what they don't have and imagine themselves better then others...i always see people keep...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Mar 27

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    I can't stand people who have the need to "fit in" with every body. Well, let me re-phrase that because I feel the need to get along with just about every one I meet. Its the...
    IO4ever IO4ever 26-30 1 Response Apr 11

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    ESPECIALLY on the web! Okay HATE is strong but still! I dislike people who troll on stories and questions, I dislike people who never say please and thank you, and I dislike people...
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't hate anything more than people who pretend to be something they're not. Don't sit here and tell me that you have multiple personalities, like me, when you're OBVIOUSLY...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I HATE IT. its the worst feeling , especially when it comes from someone you love or care about. I hate that guilty feeling you have when you stand up for your self and say no. I...
    IllecebrousIvy IllecebrousIvy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Hate is a rather powerful word. I prefer dislike. Being pretentious only reinforces the fact you have no identity of your own. I can't understand the need to have a false nature...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't like people who lie. Who play those kinds of games with me. It's unfair. Immature. I hate it when people are effortless. I try to be understanding as I can but no. This...
    thatgirl0821 thatgirl0821 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hate it when people have a dig at teen mothers most of them do a better job than older mothers yeah nay not be able to bring them up but they learn the hard way and appreciate life...
    kelslouise kelslouise 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 24

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    THE EP BOSSY MEN!!!!! I hate them I do, I bet you hate them too!!! The ones that won't take NO, The ones that think pressure will achieve their goal, The ones that keep pestering...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F Mar 25

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    So there's this new girl that moved to our school and I hate her, she's so bubbly and happy all the time and she doesn't get I hate her she won't bloody leave me alone and she...
    TheGreenEyedGirl TheGreenEyedGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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