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I Hate Judgemental People

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    Bob Marley Saves Life's

    "who are you to judge the life that i live? i know i'm not perfect & i don't live to be. but before you start pointing fingers; make sure your hand are clean."
    OneLastBreath OneLastBreath 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2009

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    But am one. In order to hate a thing we must

    judge. Hypocrasy lives. Unfortunately. In most of us. Even dogs. Hypocrasy is anger transferrence also. So that is the new normal. And ehy dysfunctional is now normal.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Jul 17

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    On the local news a woman was assaulted on her

    way into an abortion clinic. The pro-life people protesting outside the clinic watched a 6 month pregnant woman get out of her car and walk towards the clinic. They tried to physically block her entrance and when she walked past them they pulled her hair and slapped her!! The...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    Okay, I Have To Rant About This Today. This Is Terrible.

    Okay, so to start off, I will let you know that I am not a teen mom. Just so you know. But what I saw today just made me really angry. There was a picture on Facebook of a pregnant girl (probably like 14) saying "I gave up drugs for you, I gave up drinking for you, because I...
    oliveostrovsky oliveostrovsky 18-21 1 Response Dec 10, 2012

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    Do I Hate Judgmental People?

    My friend always used to say that she thought of hate as a really powerful word(which it is) but sometimes a little too powerful, and every time she would want to say she hated someone she would say instead that she strongly disliked them. I found myself saying the words...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 15, 2013

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    My friend is 32 years old

    and married. She looks really young for her age because she is short and I guess just has good genes? She looks about 18-20 years old. She has a wonderful 2 year old named Madison. We were at the mall and we were buying clothes for Madison. This one woman came up and told my...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I Hate Judgemental

    I hate people that is judgemental, looking at me with curious eyes and judge me for just one look. Well, sorry if I'm not that perfect, if you're my friend you'll see more of me. And don't even try to change me, tell me that I should be more like this, more like that, i'm not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    No Right

    Unless you're perfect and thereby God, you have no right to judge any one about anything. I am not talking religion, only truth.  Everyone makes mistakes.  We have all made a decision that afterwords we looked back and wondered what the hell were we thinking because even we...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 1 Response Oct 14, 2012

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    My Friend Judged Me

    THEY JUDGED A PEOPLE WHOTHEY DOESN'T KNOW WELL, THEY TURN THEIR BACK TO ME,  THEY ALWAYS WANT ME TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO BUT FOR ME, I WON'T SO I BECAME MORE cruel TO MYSELF AND OTHER PEOPLE and some said sttp being CRUEL to other people because if you will stay being...
    incess incess 13-15 Oct 10, 2010

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    Not All Rich/good Looks/succesful People Are Evil

    I just think it's so judgemental when someone who has confidence issues takes it out on what they perceive as the 'ruling class". It's like everything that happens to them is the fault of someone they perceive as 'rich, good looking or succesful". They don't even know these...
    CityGirl1111 CityGirl1111 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Well, Hate Is Too Negative

    but I don't judge others, particularly in their personal lives, and too many people are too quick to make snap judgements on other people's behaviour. It is the staple diet of the gossip columns and the tabloids, and it both irritates and bores me.
    mizzen123 mizzen123 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2011

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    I understand everyone has an opinion,

    but to judge others based on your warped thought process is sickening.
    ImLastOneStanding ImLastOneStanding 41-45, M Jan 10

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    I've checked out a lot of stories posted on

    this site, and one thing that stands out with some of the ones I've read, is that people are extremely judgmental for all the wrong reasons. Not so much with the stories, but the responses people give them. For example, it seems that anyone who believes in allowing nudity at...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Mar 23

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    Why do people judge? I don't understand.

    Just because someone is black or someone is white or someone is gay or someone is straight or someone suffers with depression or someone suffers with anxiety, that does not make them outcasts to this society, it makes them human with their own problems. Why can't people...
    ofmiceandmeggg ofmiceandmeggg 16-17, F Dec 13, 2013

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    It seems like everybody I know feels

    that it's totally okay to be ridiculously judgmental of others. I think it's only natural to judge people to an extent. You make little judgments about everybody that you meet. But there's a difference between making small judgments about the people you come in contact with and...
    wayyfarer wayyfarer 18-21, F Jan 30

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    Blah!

    I am sooo fricken tired of hearing judgments everywhere i go from every single person. Arghh, its frustrating, i hate judging people, i accept everyone, i just want peace, and love, thats all. But unfortunately our society, our human race loves to judge, and i get so tired of...
    Breathlifelivedream Breathlifelivedream 16-17 Nov 9, 2012

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    thigh gaps are cute no thigh gaps are cute flat

    tummies are cute no flat tummies are cute long hair is cute short hair is cute but you know what isn't cute? making someone feel bad about their appearance simply because you don't like it
    devilit20 devilit20 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    Tattoos

    I'm bothered today by a comment made to me by my sisters mother-in-law. I have 3 crosses tattooed on my forearm, or 3 on a tree as people like to call it, and my neice was touching my arm. My sister says, "She really likes the pretty colors on your arm." The mother in...
    nobodythatspecial nobodythatspecial 36-40, M 5 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Who Are You

    I know this may sound like a broken record but who are we to judge others? I know it's in our nature to judge everyone at first which leads to the old saying 'make a good first impression'. But what if you have known the person for a long time, and have become really good friends...
    hecateberyl hecateberyl 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2009

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    Unfortunately, Almost All My Relatives Love to Judge

    I feel super uncomfortable around my relatives. They make me want to hide.
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    Listen To My Story

    I went out with my relatives for dinner. It was awkward because I weren't so close to them and I was alone with all the memebers of their family. We went to a BBQ place. So, my aunt decided that there is a specific way for eating bbq meat. Apparently, you don't just dip them in...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    My Whole Life

    Being a thick chick, overweight, whatever, you want to call it, I have been judged my entire life.  Even at 30, I know there are still ignorant people out there who are judging me on my appearance.  And I think it's horrible.  Not just because it hurts me, but...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    I Really Don't Know,,,

    I hate the way people think they can judge you just because of the way you dress or talk or the type of music you listen to.. It ****** me off so badly. These people don't know half the stuff I've been through and how strong I've had to be, most of the time i am using a fake...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 27, 2013

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    EP

    People who judge others in my opinion are scum. What right do they have? Life is a complicated entanglement of highs and lows and I never judge others. No one is perfect. Everyone has secrets. If you think differently you are delusional and maybe should take father Xmas for a...
    MissDarkAngel MissDarkAngel 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    Finger Pointing

    My view of the people in the small town where I now live. They are a bunch of mindless spine less ball less sheep walking around in circles sniffing each others ***** no one with a mind or an opinion of their own. I have been given every conceivable bad label a person could...
    LocaWhetta LocaWhetta 41-45, F May 19, 2013

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    It Only Takes Them One Freaking Second

    That's all it takes. Seriously, they look at you for like.... one second... and they think they have the right to judge. They also think they know everything about you. Heck, they think they could write your biography in a few days. I've about had it with these kind of people. I...
    silentintrovert silentintrovert 22-25, M Aug 9, 2013

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    I seriously need to rant over this.

    so I hate people who judge you over everything, like I honestly don't give a ****. I mean if you love somebody who is twice your age or like 25 years younger than you. I seriously don't give a **** at all. like as long as they make you happy that makes me happy. if you want a...
    Emmmzzzxo Emmmzzzxo 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    mizti mizti 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Its So Easy to Judge Others

    Someone said when you point a finger at someone you have 4 pointing back at you and that's what I feel.  I rush to judgment but quickly pull up into an alley before anyone sees the foolish moves I've made.  I quickly go over my faults but that takes so long that I...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 5 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    For Some Reason

    I don't care what they think?, the good thing I can always think of that they will slip on a banana and crack an egg, that's all. 
    Cupcake2 Cupcake2 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    If what somebody is doing isn't affecting you

    leave them alone.. You can't make someone feel rubbish because you don't share the same Opinions or like the same things ✋
    Leilajames Leilajames 13-15, F 2 Responses May 23

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    All The Same

    I don't hate anyone, not even judgemental people. For if I did I would hate everyone - do we all not judge? We all have more in common then we give each other credit for. There is something to love in everyone we meet - it may be as simple as the way their eyes twinkle or their...
    Bythelight0fthemoon Bythelight0fthemoon 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    My biggest pet peeve is

    when people assume people with tatoos and piercings are trash. Someones appearance does not account for whats on the inside. It does not mean they are a terrible person. Tatoos are simply an art form and a way of expressing yourself. These people are the ones with the most...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 18-21, F Apr 3

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    There's no need to judge,

    whatsoever. Judgement was created as a survival mechanism to quickly assess the situation and read someones intention to quickly react in a hostile environment. Racism and demeaning of others is only used to prop up your own self-esteem and is a misguided use of our ability to...
    Draganoth Draganoth 13-15, M Aug 13

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    Related Experiences

    How would you really define "fake"? To me, a fake person is someone who masks their true emotions and sensitivity in order to obtain a flawless image in the eyes of society. "Fake...
    KarmaCycle KarmaCycle 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    So do you hate fake people or fake people who claim to be something they aren't? Hating someone is wrong. We've all lied and have done wrong things we aren't proud of. I notice...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F Aug 22

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    I hate deceitful people.I don't usually open up to anyone. I am a very personal and private person. However I met this woman at my workplace and she seemed like the genuine type. I...
    bird7964 bird7964 31-35, F Sep 8

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    Someone told me to **** off because I didn't reply for a few hours. Hate people that do that, and I hate rude people.
    RunawayTeen99 RunawayTeen99 13-15, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think people are two faced. I ran into many fake people In high school. My pool of friends has turned to a static puddle. I had a friend who found popularity and left me behind...
    Nior18 Nior18 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I just hate those people whose actions dont reflect what they say rather they do the opposite and then try to act very innocent. One of my friend hated this girl(lara)because his...
    tinna20 tinna20 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I just read this on EP: "I pee in the deep fryer at my job at mcdonalds. I don't want to get anyone sick but it really don't like people." What the hell would you have a job at a...
    Maveric0484 Maveric0484 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I absolutely hate when people overreact, especially when they don't understand the situation completely. I was told to go on this chat app to join a group conversation my friends...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F Aug 22

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    Actually I hate all people, I just tolerate some people more than others.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Why can't we all just keep it 100%. I don't understand why there's fake people in the world who have time to be someone they're not. Like, why the **** would anyone put that...
    kushbabe420 kushbabe420 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 26

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    I don't hate gay people. I just want to know why some people do . I mean there's the obvious religious reasons.. but what else is so bothersome about someone else just living their...
    NotSoStrongSuperman NotSoStrongSuperman 16-17, M Sep 7

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    I hate fake people. You either be yourself or you don't exist. It's not a hard concept.
    KaylaJackie KaylaJackie 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Everyone has their own lives, and they are not to be tampered with! Grrr I hate nosy people who have nothing better to do than mess with my life!
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I hate when people treat you like crap, yell at you, rage at you then a few moments later, because they are delusional enough to think it never happened; they are confused that you...
    Close2Crazy Close2Crazy 26-30, F Aug 27

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    I hate fake people because In your face they are your friend And your back they are not your friend the just talk bullshit about you in your back...
    lovewhatweneed lovewhatweneed 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    so i was kinda dating this girl and all she ever did was tell me stories on how this and that person hit on her but BS. lol it was all just to see how i would react to which she...
    UnexpectedSuspect UnexpectedSuspect 26-30 4 Responses Sep 9

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    "Conform, do as you're told, we know best..." No, the best life is the one you enjoy the most because you retain your own values and remain focused on your vision, not simply...
    Summersee Summersee 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 26

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