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I Hate Judgemental People

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    My Whole Life

    Being a thick chick, overweight, whatever, you want to call it, I have been judged my entire life.  Even at 30, I know there are still ignorant people out there who are judging me on my appearance.  And I think it's horrible.  Not just because it hurts me, but...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    I've checked out a lot of stories posted on

    this site, and one thing that stands out with some of the ones I've read, is that people are extremely judgmental for all the wrong reasons. Not so much with the stories, but the responses people give them. For example, it seems that anyone who believes in allowing nudity at...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Mar 23

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    Listen To My Story

    I went out with my relatives for dinner. It was awkward because I weren't so close to them and I was alone with all the memebers of their family. We went to a BBQ place. So, my aunt decided that there is a specific way for eating bbq meat. Apparently, you don't just dip them in...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Why do people judge? I don't understand.

    Just because someone is black or someone is white or someone is gay or someone is straight or someone suffers with depression or someone suffers with anxiety, that does not make them outcasts to this society, it makes them human with their own problems. Why can't people...
    ofmiceandmeggg ofmiceandmeggg 13-15, F Dec 13, 2013

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    My biggest pet peeve is

    when people assume people with tatoos and piercings are trash. Someones appearance does not account for whats on the inside. It does not mean they are a terrible person. Tatoos are simply an art form and a way of expressing yourself. These people are the ones with the most...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F Apr 3

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    Its So Easy to Judge Others

    Someone said when you point a finger at someone you have 4 pointing back at you and that's what I feel.  I rush to judgment but quickly pull up into an alley before anyone sees the foolish moves I've made.  I quickly go over my faults but that takes so long that I...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 5 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    Who Are You

    I know this may sound like a broken record but who are we to judge others? I know it's in our nature to judge everyone at first which leads to the old saying 'make a good first impression'. But what if you have known the person for a long time, and have become really good friends...
    hecateberyl hecateberyl 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2009

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    Do I Hate Judgmental People?

    My friend always used to say that she thought of hate as a really powerful word(which it is) but sometimes a little too powerful, and every time she would want to say she hated someone she would say instead that she strongly disliked them. I found myself saying the words...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 15, 2013

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    My Friend Judged Me

    THEY JUDGED A PEOPLE WHOTHEY DOESN'T KNOW WELL, THEY TURN THEIR BACK TO ME,  THEY ALWAYS WANT ME TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO BUT FOR ME, I WON'T SO I BECAME MORE cruel TO MYSELF AND OTHER PEOPLE and some said sttp being CRUEL to other people because if you will stay being...
    incess incess 13-15 Oct 10, 2010

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    Bob Marley Saves Life's

    "who are you to judge the life that i live? i know i'm not perfect & i don't live to be. but before you start pointing fingers; make sure your hand are clean."
    OneLastBreath OneLastBreath 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2009

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    I Hate Judgemental

    I hate people that is judgemental, looking at me with curious eyes and judge me for just one look. Well, sorry if I'm not that perfect, if you're my friend you'll see more of me. And don't even try to change me, tell me that I should be more like this, more like that, i'm not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    Ok so i just tried having a conversation with

    this girl on ep, I said hello, asked how she was, and the snob nosed shallow stuck up b*tch simply responded with 'ewww your fat' 2 things pissed me off about this. 1. she can't even freaking spell YOU'RE 2. she judged me based on looks, which to me is one of the most...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M a week ago

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    It seems like everybody I know feels

    that it's totally okay to be ridiculously judgmental of others. I think it's only natural to judge people to an extent. You make little judgments about everybody that you meet. But there's a difference between making small judgments about the people you come in contact with and...
    wayyfarer wayyfarer 18-21, F Jan 30

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    It Only Takes Them One Freaking Second

    That's all it takes. Seriously, they look at you for like.... one second... and they think they have the right to judge. They also think they know everything about you. Heck, they think they could write your biography in a few days. I've about had it with these kind of people. I...
    silentintrovert silentintrovert 22-25, M Aug 9, 2013

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    Blah!

    I am sooo fricken tired of hearing judgments everywhere i go from every single person. Arghh, its frustrating, i hate judging people, i accept everyone, i just want peace, and love, thats all. But unfortunately our society, our human race loves to judge, and i get so tired of...
    Breathlifelivedream Breathlifelivedream 16-17 Nov 9, 2012

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    Unfortunately, Almost All My Relatives Love to Judge

    I feel super uncomfortable around my relatives. They make me want to hide.
    Gelfwings Gelfwings 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    EP

    People who judge others in my opinion are scum. What right do they have? Life is a complicated entanglement of highs and lows and I never judge others. No one is perfect. Everyone has secrets. If you think differently you are delusional and maybe should take father Xmas for a...
    MissDarkAngel MissDarkAngel 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    I understand everyone has an opinion,

    but to judge others based on your warped thought process is sickening.
    ImLastOneStanding ImLastOneStanding 41-45, M Jan 10

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    I Really Don't Know,,,

    I hate the way people think they can judge you just because of the way you dress or talk or the type of music you listen to.. It ****** me off so badly. These people don't know half the stuff I've been through and how strong I've had to be, most of the time i am using a fake...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 27, 2013

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    I seriously need to rant over this.

    so I hate people who judge you over everything, like I honestly don't give a ****. I mean if you love somebody who is twice your age or like 25 years younger than you. I seriously don't give a **** at all. like as long as they make you happy that makes me happy. if you want a...
    Emmmzzzxo Emmmzzzxo 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    Well, Hate Is Too Negative

    but I don't judge others, particularly in their personal lives, and too many people are too quick to make snap judgements on other people's behaviour. It is the staple diet of the gossip columns and the tabloids, and it both irritates and bores me.
    mizzen123 mizzen123 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2011

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    But am one. In order to hate a thing we must

    judge. Hypocrasy lives. Unfortunately. In most of us. Even dogs. Hypocrasy is anger transferrence also. So that is the new normal. And ehy dysfunctional is now normal.
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    All The Same

    I don't hate anyone, not even judgemental people. For if I did I would hate everyone - do we all not judge? We all have more in common then we give each other credit for. There is something to love in everyone we meet - it may be as simple as the way their eyes twinkle or their...
    Bythelight0fthemoon Bythelight0fthemoon 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Tattoos

    I'm bothered today by a comment made to me by my sisters mother-in-law. I have 3 crosses tattooed on my forearm, or 3 on a tree as people like to call it, and my neice was touching my arm. My sister says, "She really likes the pretty colors on your arm." The mother in...
    nobodythatspecial nobodythatspecial 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    For Some Reason

    I don't care what they think?, the good thing I can always think of that they will slip on a banana and crack an egg, that's all. 
    Cupcake2 Cupcake2 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    thigh gaps are cute no thigh gaps are cute flat

    tummies are cute no flat tummies are cute long hair is cute short hair is cute but you know what isn't cute? making someone feel bad about their appearance simply because you don't like it
    devilit20 devilit20 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    No Right

    Unless you're perfect and thereby God, you have no right to judge any one about anything. I am not talking religion, only truth.  Everyone makes mistakes.  We have all made a decision that afterwords we looked back and wondered what the hell were we thinking because even we...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 1 Response Oct 14, 2012

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    Finger Pointing

    My view of the people in the small town where I now live. They are a bunch of mindless spine less ball less sheep walking around in circles sniffing each others ***** no one with a mind or an opinion of their own. I have been given every conceivable bad label a person could...
    LocaWhetta LocaWhetta 41-45, F May 19, 2013

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    Okay, I Have To Rant About This Today. This Is Terrible.

    Okay, so to start off, I will let you know that I am not a teen mom. Just so you know. But what I saw today just made me really angry. There was a picture on Facebook of a pregnant girl (probably like 14) saying "I gave up drugs for you, I gave up drinking for you, because I...
    oliveostrovsky oliveostrovsky 18-21 1 Response Dec 10, 2012

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    If what somebody is doing isn't affecting you

    leave them alone.. You can't make someone feel rubbish because you don't share the same Opinions or like the same things ✋
    Leilajames Leilajames 13-15, F 2 Responses May 23

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    Not All Rich/good Looks/succesful People Are Evil

    I just think it's so judgemental when someone who has confidence issues takes it out on what they perceive as the 'ruling class". It's like everything that happens to them is the fault of someone they perceive as 'rich, good looking or succesful". They don't even know these...
    CityGirl1111 CityGirl1111 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I really do hate ignorant people, but sometimes they make me laugh.
    Savi0r Savi0r 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I hate narrowminded people, do you? Are you saying that you are open minded? Does narrowminded people know what is openminded? Maybe not because openminded is out of narrowminded...
    Sphine Sphine 13-15, M Jul 7

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    I have always hated shallow people especially girls who would only look for a guy who's athletic or handsome sometimes even both.This hate started when a girl I have known for a...
    Athenian101 Athenian101 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I totally failed to understand people who do not know me at all and basis their ***** perception they pass the judgment and only behave rudely. I just do not like such people and...
    donotfollowme donotfollowme 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    If you hate stupid people drop them out of your life. It's so easy to not deal with their **** anymore. Take charge of your life instead of letting people annoy you and all that.
    kieshi kieshi 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I came here seeking help and I said iam gay but still dealing with issues I wanted someone to listen to me instead people hitting on me and ask me weird things iam sorry I came...
    brokenV brokenV 18-21 6 Responses Jul 10

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    A more apt experience for me would be "I Hate Dense People", but this'll have to do. Why are people so ignorant to dry humour or sarcasm? My god it's annoying when the joke goes...
    TheRose202 TheRose202 18-21, F Jul 12

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    I hate when people say stay positive, like that will magically just change things. It doesn't, it just gives you a fake or false sense of hope that things will be better when they...
    Kman4You Kman4You 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Have you ever noticed how there isn't a "I Hate White People" Group? Hmm, that gets me thinking? Right when there was it was taken down, no questions asked. Y'all people really got...
    thanamesnyaa thanamesnyaa 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hate fake people. To an extent everyone is. Why is everyone so scared of living
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 11 Responses Jun 27

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    Hate fake peoples To an extent everyone is. Why is everyone so scared of living , why try to hide themself ,,,,
    brownjack353 brownjack353 26-30, M 5 Responses Jun 27

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    My past two LTR's were with men who drank way too much. The first started drinking heavily once his father was diagnosed with sarcoma cancer. We couldn't spend one day together...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I hate when people always make fun of others when they aren't any better . Instead of making fun of others, work on yourself first. It's like a fat person making fun of another...
    7lee7 7lee7 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I hate when people say my main as in my main man or my main girl why? Because that implies that yes he/she is the most important one but that there are others! I don't want to be...
    lovelylady20 lovelylady20 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I hate when people are super wrong about something but they so feel the need to justify their wrongness and make you feel stupid when you know something. Like they really feel the...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Just another profile and wish that girls don't buy this one talk as hate fake people. EP Link https://www.google.com.eg/search?tbs=sbi:AMhZZisa2K2VVQOSDYIfdjF1yR9...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Lying to me is going to get you nowhere. I hate when people pretend like they're interested in the same things that I am, or just lie to me constantly. I'm not going to judge you...
    YoungAndAwkward YoungAndAwkward 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Hate When People Talk to Me Like Im Stupid
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 10 hrs ago

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    The ignorant are the irresponsible and the narrow minded. The judgemental are the weak and the cowards. These elements together lead to apathy, which is the cruelest element...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M Jul 13

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    Well i just found one of Ep's one of many shallow users. I simply messaged her asking how she was, being as polite as i could. And her simple yet judgemental response was, 'Eww...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M