I Hate Kids and I Don't Want Any

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 497 People

    I find it sad that people think

    that the only way to find happiness and true love is if they have children. So, your friends, family, pets, bf/gf, or spouse don't make you happy? Don't they already show you true love? I guess not. I guess their love won't count anymore as soon as you have children. And I guess...
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    5 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    We Hate Children. And Have Good Reason To.

    We're a young, newly married couple from Saint Louis, and one of the main things that attracted us to each other was our mutual hatred for children. They're ungrateful, noisy, annoying, dirty, and expensive. They're also horrendous cockblocks. We know a couple our age who has a...
    JustinAndMaddi JustinAndMaddi
    7 Responses Jan 27, 2011

    Kids Make Me Feel Creepy Inside

    My hatred for kids has been around for awhile and It's not going away anytime soon. Alot of people can say I'm too young (21) to make that decision and it bothers the hell out of me. I may still be reckless and wild, but atleast I'm responsible enough to admit so. I feel not...
    MamaSquirrel MamaSquirrel
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Sep 24, 2011

    Would Rather Abort

    One thing I defenetly know myself is that I do not want to be a mother... I hate children, all about them, and being stuck to take care of one would be the worst thing that could ever happen to me.. One thing that is good about my current relashionship is that he thinks the...
    Nayma Nayma
    18-21, F
    23 Responses Apr 25, 2010

    Never Ever Period.

    I'm a military wife so people expect me to have a child every time my husband deploys so "You can have a little piece of him in case he doesn't come home." I think that is sick. I've never wanted children. For my 16th birthday I told my parents I wanted a chocolate cake with...
    rougefox97969 rougefox97969
    5 Responses Sep 29, 2013

    I hate autistic and retarded kids.

    They are the ultimate annoyance. Wherever these tards go they act unruly and they know they can get away with it and if anyone dares to say anything their parents/handlers give you hell. It isn't my fault that they LET these retards behave like this in public. They may be...
    SakuraYakushi SakuraYakushi
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    I have always hated kids.

    If I'm around children I will act civil and just ignore them. If they yell, scream, or cry while in stores, I would leave the store or leave that section of the store. I just can't handle the noise. I'm so glad that my mom isn't one of those parents who would bug the **** out...
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    1 Response Mar 26, 2015


    Yep, you've got me, breeder-troll. The truth is, I envy your moohood and really regret being childfree. I regret that I know what I want out of life, and what I don't. I regret that I make solid plans and responsible decisions. I regret that I have and the motivation and will to...
    juliewashere88 juliewashere88
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Mar 25, 2013

    Whenever I hear a kid crying,

    I feel like it bothers me more than it should
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    Reasons I Can't Stand Kids And Their Oblivious Parents.

    Firstly, I wanted to greet everyone here since I'm new, and say that I am so glad that I am not the only one who feels this way. Secondly, I'll share a little bit about why I cannot stand some children and some parents. When I was growing up years ago, it was so vastly...
    linguistafatale linguistafatale
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Jun 12, 2012

    I Dislike Kids... But I Hate Kid People!

    I joined this site and this group to respond to some comments I have seen here and in other places where being child-free bychoice is discussed. Invariably we are asked about the source of all this "anger" and "vitriol" that we have towardschildren and those who have them. I can...
    luckyblackhawk luckyblackhawk
    36-40, M
    10 Responses Apr 20, 2012

    Boyfriend's Kid

    First of all, I would like say how awesome it is to have such a forum for people like me. I will be on here quite a bit now, LOL. Now, on with my story... My boyfriend has a 15 year old daughter that is the biggest brat and I can't stand her. Actually, "brat" is an...
    LiquidSoul LiquidSoul
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Nov 30, 2010

    Kids are not something I want to have - not now,

    not ever. In fact, the more I am forced to look at my aunt's two screaming obnoxious brats, the more I am forced to spend time with them, the more I realize that I am so very thankful to myself for having the brains not to have any. Childfree for life! Why do I hate kids? let me...
    ChildfreeOlya ChildfreeOlya
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    "Oh when you get older,

    you'll change your mind." I'm not saying youre wrong. But I'm not saying youre correct either. When I get older, I don't see children in my life. I want a career and education that allows me to be happy and financially stable. Maybe after that I'll get myself a man but even...
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    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    I Feel Uncomfortable Around Kids

    Don't get me wrong, I know childrens' brains are still developing and they need a guiding hand to help them out in the world. But the way women in our society need to be nice and caring and listen to every ******* thing they have to say or else they seem callous is a tough world...
    anjones000 anjones000
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 31, 2013

    Out of curiosity. Has anyone here visited the

    Youtube Channel under the synonym Amie Carter? if anyone (like myself) hated kids before. It will only intensify ten fold after watching these disgusting videos. She has this fat little **** with anger issues. Of course chalking it up with having "autism" and this completely...
    NoBabyZone NoBabyZone
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2016
    fauxlady fauxlady
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    iv never liked kids..

    .even when I was a child other kids were playing with baby dolls and i couldn't stand them...I would rather play with barbies and video games. from the time i was a child I never wanted children, I always looked at how unhappy parents were and a lot of marriages went to...
    phinixmak phinixmak
    Feb 19, 2015

    Hey guys. This isn't

    so much a personal experience (thank god) it's still ridiculous though and thought I'd get it out there. Has anyone here read the obnoxious article about a brat in the UK that's "autistic" and had to have his hair cut by a barber on the floor? Of course the internet flooded...
    NoBabyZone NoBabyZone
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    Open Letter To Breeders

    To whom it may concern, There seems to be this strange belief that I dislike children, because I don’t plan on being a mother. I’m not really sure where this came from, but please let me elaborate. I don’t hate kids. I’ll look after someone else’s, I just don’t...
    keeplivinglife keeplivinglife
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

    Sick Of Everything Being About Kids

    You know you cant even watch TV at anytime of the day without being bombarded by things for kids, with kids, to kids, about kids. And if that isn't bad enough than we have to see the stupid *** pregnancy commercials about stupid *** women who's only goal in life is to see how...
    LindeyCraft LindeyCraft
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Sep 17, 2012

    I go shopping late at night hoping

    for some peace and quite. Nope. One f*ucking brat screaming it's stupid face off. Can't go anywhere at any hour in peace. Can't take it anymore. I am going to strangle your f*ucking brats and make sure you can't pop anymore out. Filthy breeders.
    Darklady22 Darklady22
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2015

    I've never understood how anyone could look at

    people with kids or babies and say to themselves, "Yeah, that looks like fun. That would make my life better." How HIGH would you have to be to think that?! Thank you Obama for making vasectomy's free, now let's also throw in female spaying, i'll be first in line. And let's...
    lillydontcare lillydontcare
    Oct 24, 2014

    Some kids I can tolerate.

    Others I just can't. One in particular is my neice. Shes 4 now and is a spoiled brat. You poke her arm and she trys to hit you. You just sit next to her and she starts whacking you with her leg. You tell her to stop doing something and she just giggles and keeps doing it. Its...
    GrinchFairy GrinchFairy
    Feb 17, 2016

    I really whole heartedly hate kids.

    Whenever I say this people think i'm going through a phase, no it is my choice as a fertile woman not to have any. Probably more so hate them bc of the way their parents fail to raise them, so spoiled and bratty and very rude. Don't breed if you are not going to make your...
    Offing Offing
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 4, 2014

    Can someone please explain to me

    who we are being selfish to for not wanting children? Are we being selfish to our non existent husbands/wives who want children? To our non existent children? To the world? Who? I ask you, who? It would be nice if everyone would accept each other's decisions because all of us do...
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    4 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    I never liked kids, and I think I would be a

    very bad mother. Starting with pregnancy, it terrifies me. Labor terrifies me. The whole motherhood is something I wish to avoid at all costs. Everything about kids either terrifies me or makes me angry. I have way too many plans for life to give it up for kids, I am a short...
    Agnete Agnete
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    Yesterday I went to the city

    because the China town has extended with new cool shops. But to my dismay An elder friend had to bring her grandson along because the mother called on the last minute. I didn't have to deal alot with the kid but it was already mentally exhausting by just hearing the bigger nag...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    What I Think Of Kids...

    Kids... oh, the 'joys of life'. Heh, give me a break. Every single day when I travel to my class on the bus it is one horrible night mare. Why? Kids. Babies. You know? Every single bus journey is a challenge: How Strong Will My Headache Be? There is never a moment when I leave...
    BubbleVee BubbleVee
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 3, 2011

    I Hate Kids

    I absolutely hate children. They are noisy, obnoxious, bratty. And they are always screaming and crying. Especially when you are in a nice or upscale restaurant and some kids ruin it by screaming or throwing tantrum. UGH.
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    2 Responses Aug 24, 2012

    Why do people come in here to bash on us

    that don't want to have kids? Do they not realize we have good reasons for doing this? Would you rather we procreate by obligation and then end up miserable and our kids unhappy because we never wanted them in the first place? Think before you speak. We know what we want. If you...
    bluetree88 bluetree88
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 26, 2014


    I totally hate kids but I try my best to tolerate my friends kids. But last week pretty much pushed me past my limits there. My best friend, her new boyfriend, her 4 year old boy and I, all went to see fireworks on the 4th of July. I was stoked to see them because I absolutely...
    TiaraOfThorns TiaraOfThorns
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2012

    I hate ignorant, inconsiderate breeders

    who take their screaming brats to restaurants and other nice places. They should start serving birth control and other sterilants in beverages.
    Darklady22 Darklady22
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 16, 2015

    I am very confused about something.

    ..who are all these child-loving people who keep posting here? There's a whole troll war between one of them and one who is childfree. Are you guys trying to convert us or just trying to create drama?
    missbellelettres missbellelettres
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 11, 2014

    I don't like the idea of being pregnant.

    The thought of it makes me squeamish.
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    3 Responses Apr 9, 2015

    I'm Fixed And It's Bitchin'.

    I hate kids. I've always hated kids. I hated kids when I was a kid. I am very, very childfree. I finally got a tubal recently - in my mid 20's, no less - and it is the best feeling ever. I keep going back to it and just wanting to dance around my apartment. I have pictures from...
    ChainsOfGonzo ChainsOfGonzo
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 18, 2012

    When I was younger I like the idea of becoming

    a mother until my nephew became a Father for the first time and his drama mama ex girlfriend keeps calling my mother to babysit so that she can to movies clubs ect. It didn't seem like a problem But unfortunately I spoke way too soon.Whenever my mother agrees to babysit she...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie
    22-25, F
    Feb 8, 2015

    I'm sick of putting up with the screaming brats

    everywhere. It's not a "miracle". We are overpopulated enough and it's destroying this planet and other endangered wildlife. Humans are the most invasive species on the planet. STOP BREEDING!
    Darklady22 Darklady22
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 16, 2015

    I know I'm still young

    and everything but I've already had people, my parents included, bring something up in a conversation and them saying, "Oh well once you're married and have kids.." like no!!! Not having kids and who the hell says I'm going to get married?! I don't want either!! I don't like the...
    blackheartlover blackheartlover
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    There mom goes again telling me how she "knows"

    that I'll have a kid or possibly 2
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    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    So earlier today (tech.

    yesterday) my mom and I were at Burger King seated down for a nice lunch. Well, what was supposed to be nice. That was until we heard the abhorrent laughing and screaming from a defiant little j*zz stain running around the restuarant. I had tried to tell her a story of YouTube...
    NoBabyZone NoBabyZone
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2016

    ill never understand

    why other people love them so much. seriously what's so great about brats? i also find it so repulsive how some women are the type like : " oh i love kids i want to have 10 of them" im just like stupid *****
    CynicalIntrovert CynicalIntrovert
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    Breeder / Birther Wall At Work !

    Its bad enough I have to see their ugly kid pics in their cubes ! This isnt good enough ! Now we have a disgusting birther wall  of their gross hideous newborns plastered all over the noticed board! What makes it even worse its near the kitchenette sink/microwave. I have...
    Atomicplayboy Atomicplayboy
    36-40, M
    8 Responses Mar 6, 2011

    You at least gotta admit

    that kids are pretty good at fake crying. Even though its obvious they are faking it.
    GrinchFairy GrinchFairy
    1 Response Feb 1, 2016

    In Light Of This Hostility

    Yesterday, I personally became aware of the hostility on this particular group. I would like to make something clear, both to the haters and the trollers-This group does, in fact, says very viscous things about children and parents. I've also come to find out that people take...
    000kefitch 000kefitch
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2013

    Just Shut Up

    I hate them! I never want kids, they are so annoying!
    musared musared
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Aug 27, 2009

    Never Have, Never Will

    I'm a vehemently childfree twenty-something woman and just never, ever had a maternal instinct. Growing up, my baby dolls got mutilated and painted over and generally crushed into oblivion...meanwhile, my stuffed animals remained pristine and were taken care of. No shock, I...
    StrawberryPocky StrawberryPocky
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Jan 24, 2011

    Could Never Put A Kid First. . .

    I hate kids and hear all the time that "it's different when its your own". I agree it is different, it's WORSE. You can't give the little fcker back. If I had kids, they would come last. After my pets. After my sleep time. After my guitar. After me. The kids would be at the...
    GlassBunny GlassBunny
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 16, 2013

    Hello everyone, my name is Perla

    and I'm 23 years old and I really HATE kids. I hate them so much with all my heart. I never, ever want to have any kids, EVER!!I've known for a very long time that I wanted to remain child free. I constantly get asked, "So, when are you having kids?" and honestly, it makes my...
    Unspoken15 Unspoken15
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 10, 2014

    A short while ago myself

    and a few University classmates were sitting around a table discussing various smalltalk pieces. Eventually, the topic turned to children and when it was my turn to speak, I casually voiced my distaste for them. The looks from about 5 other people were as if I had spoken the...
    protestifications protestifications
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2014

    I Love My Tubal!

    I am so glad I got myself fixed at 27. I hate kids. They're whiny, messy, annoying, disgusting, loud, expensive and ungrateful. I'm sure I was a pain in the *** when I was a kid too. However, my parents didn't allow me to pull any of the **** kids do in public, I got my...
    CFAmy CFAmy
    17 Responses Jan 23, 2011

    This image pretty much sums up my feeling on me

    personally raising any children...Now don't get me wrong, I don't hate ALL kids. I actually really like smart kids. I always feel hopeful that they'll do something worthwhile in life (keyword: hope) and it's just good to see that not all of our youth are screwed future-wise. I...
    IsabellaRegaldo IsabellaRegaldo
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2015

    I just wanted to say im

    so glad I found this group. I had no idea that there were so many people that felt the same way I do about kids! It's very refreshing.
    Alanya03 Alanya03
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2014

    I Joined Just For This

    QueenV60: seriously? You're a bit obsessed and too angry to keep trolling here and with Juliewasher. I'm not white knighting here, I just am appalled at your level of venom. How would your kids feel if they saw you posting these stories? You've left some misogynic posts here...
    Pitbullgirl1965 Pitbullgirl1965
    51-55, F
    6 Responses May 14, 2013

    I Dont Like Kids And Dont Want Any Either

    ... as a woman when I say that people look at me like I have 3 heads LOL! I dont have any kids and that is the responsible thing to do. I dont mind seeing my neice and nephew but I am glad to hand them back so i wont go far as saying i 'hate' them but they do annoy me and I...
    sophiascooter sophiascooter
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Nov 19, 2009
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