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I Hate Kids and I Don't Want Any

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    I'm Fixed And It's Bitchin'.

    I hate kids. I've always hated kids. I hated kids when I was a kid. I am very, very childfree. I finally got a tubal recently - in my mid 20's, no less - and it is the best feeling ever. I keep going back to it and just wanting to dance around my apartment. I have pictures from...
    ChainsOfGonzo ChainsOfGonzo 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    Regret

    Yep, you've got me, breeder-troll. The truth is, I envy your moohood and really regret being childfree. I regret that I know what I want out of life, and what I don't. I regret that I make solid plans and responsible decisions. I regret that I have and the motivation and will to...
    juliewashere88 juliewashere88 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    Boyfriend's Kid

    First of all, I would like say how awesome it is to have such a forum for people like me. I will be on here quite a bit now, LOL. Now, on with my story... My boyfriend has a 15 year old daughter that is the biggest brat and I can't stand her. Actually, "brat" is an...
    LiquidSoul LiquidSoul 31-35, F 9 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Exponentially Stupid

    Hello, I am back again for another installment of the joys of parenting, LOL.  There is an acquaintance of mine who's 17-year old daughter is pregnant. They live in Cajun country Louisiana where racism, drug use, illegitimate births, and a bunch of other non-sensical things...
    LiquidSoul LiquidSoul 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 24, 2011

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    What I Think Of Kids...

    Kids... oh, the 'joys of life'. Heh, give me a break. Every single day when I travel to my class on the bus it is one horrible night mare. Why? Kids. Babies. You know? Every single bus journey is a challenge: How Strong Will My Headache Be? There is never a moment when I leave...
    BubbleVee BubbleVee 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 3, 2011

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    I Hate Kids.

    i was woken up today by my crying cat (who i love very much) and it turns out she had thrown up all overf the floor. my first reaction to this is "if you were a kid, i'd ******* KILL you." then i imagined  it was an actual crying whining, disgusting little kid that had woken me...
    teddybearbear teddybearbear 26-30 4 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    No Motherly Feelings-

    I'm 26 years old female and I can't stand kids nor do I want any. I have always been like this even as a child I never wanted to play with dolls or play house or anything like that. I just recently got married to a man that is 16 years older then me and has 2 kids one that is 18...
    niknik1986 niknik1986 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2013

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    Just Shut Up

    I hate them! I never want kids, they are so annoying!
    musared musared 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    Never Wanted Any

    When I tell people I don't want kids, they say I'm only 18 and one day I'll change my mind. What women who cave to the pressure fail to realize is that those friends, family members, and strangers with opinions won't be there through the pregnancy, won't be there during labor...
    nhammoud nhammoud 18-21, F 25 Responses May 18, 2013

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    I don't hate them.. I dislike them.

    This was the only group that related to how I felt. But I don't want any and I won't be pursued into having any children at all. The problem is me. I can't handle being around kids, I have a short temper and the things they do annoy me quite bad. I think it would only be better...
    RoyalGoldx RoyalGoldx 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 1

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    Disgusted With "family Values"

    What is driving me crazy is this media OBSESSION with baby "bumps"! and what's with "Pregnant in High Heels"? ok, so you're already married and not pregnant, and you still want to look slutty? MTV and "Pregnant at 16" - MTV, haven't you already leashed enough evil on the world...
    MaryDoll9 MaryDoll9 46-50, F 6 Responses May 14, 2011

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    Sorry. I don't like them.

    Except some. But most of them are just spoiled brats nowadays. (no offence!)
    paislin paislin 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    Even Though I Am One Myself....

    Here comes the chorus of people chanting that I'll probably be the first one to get married and have ten thousand kids, but no. I feel uncomfortable around people my own age. Let's start with that. I just hate the attitudes of practically every person I've met who is my age...
    juviehall juviehall 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2013

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    We Hate Children. And Have Good Reason To.

    We're a young, newly married couple from Saint Louis, and one of the main things that attracted us to each other was our mutual hatred for children. They're ungrateful, noisy, annoying, dirty, and expensive. They're also horrendous cockblocks. We know a couple our age who has a...
    JustinAndMaddi JustinAndMaddi 22-25 6 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Could Never Put A Kid First. . .

    I hate kids and hear all the time that "it's different when its your own". I agree it is different, it's WORSE. You can't give the little fcker back. If I had kids, they would come last. After my pets. After my sleep time. After my guitar. After me. The kids would be at the...
    GlassBunny GlassBunny 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Oh, Juliewashere88 Aka Dogfucker...

    I understand the meaning of the word "hypocrite". If I didn't, I never would have been able to detect the hypocrisy of a "feminist" who mocks women who choose to become mothers, all women who are overweight, all women who are older and don't have the body that they did when they...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    My Second Tubalversary

    A few days ago, I passed my two-year tubalversary. It’s amazing how fast time flies when you don’t have to worry about time. I don’t have to take a pill at the same time every day. I don’t have to get a shot every three months. And I don’t have any implants that need...
    juliewashere88 juliewashere88 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2013

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    My Pregnancy Nightmare.

    I guess in order for this dream to make sense I have to say that I am ftm (female to male transgender) and in the dream I am most of the way through transition though in real life I am just starting. In my dream I was pregnant through rape. For whatever reason abortion had been...
    heraldmagekamui heraldmagekamui 26-30, T Jul 26, 2013

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    Another Baby Dream

    It’s very rare that I dream about having children. If I have any memorable dream at all, it’s more likely to be about something that’s actually interesting, rather than what I find to be the most tedious and unnecessary lifestyle in the world. As far as I can remember now...
    juliewashere88 juliewashere88 22-25, F Jul 14, 2013

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    So Now It Seems That Juliewashere88.....

    has blocked me from replying to some of her posts. Now I have you running scared, don't I, ****? I'll be back shortly to post some more poems, when I have time. I think eight or ten more pro-child and pro-motherhood poems will do very nicely, for now. Of course, if you hadn't...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    Another Random Poem

    Blessed by Two The two of you will never know How much my love has grown To be blessed by two When others have so few From the moment you were conceived You were all that I would ever need To hold you, comfort you and love you both Is all that I could ever hope You are my...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 2 Responses May 20, 2013

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    Listen, "Juliette333" Although I Know Who You Really Are...

    You are such a coward that you blocked me from replying to you. But that's okay, I'll just put this here where it will be seen by more people than would have seen it otherwise. Don't hold back from calling me a *****. I can take it, it doesn't faze me. I have no problem...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F Sep 15, 2013

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    Pos Kids

    I've never liked kids, but I think my hatred ignited when my boyfriend's sister had her second illegitimate child with a married man twice her age.  She had her first child when she was 20 with her then boyfriend who she later dumped.  Then she got married to a guy in the Navy...
    Snare Snare 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    It's funny. The whole war with

    Juliewashere88/Juliette333 and queenv60 is finally over with. An entire year. Funny how two brain dead idiots can cause that much of a storm, and what for? Neither of them reduced nor increased births. Well, I'm glad it's said and done with. At least, I hope so. We don't need...
    Starscream99 Starscream99 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    I don't hate kids as much

    as I hate their wuss parents for not doing anything about them acting up! This weekend I had a hair appointment. When I went into the salon, one woman's brats were blocking the door so that nobody could get in. They then proceeded to run up and down the salon (bear in mind...
    binky85 binky85 36-40 Jun 29

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    Breeder / Birther Wall At Work !

    Its bad enough I have to see their ugly kid pics in their cubes ! This isnt good enough ! Now we have a disgusting birther wall  of their gross hideous newborns plastered all over the noticed board! What makes it even worse its near the kitchenette sink/microwave. I have...
    Atomicplayboy Atomicplayboy 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Fire Pits And My Childfree Life

    Recently, my BF and I have finally been able to start landscaping our property. The first order of business what to build a firepit and a red-woodchip path leading to it. The fire pit is stone, rising about two feet off the ground and has a two-food diameter. Built into the fire...
    juliewashere88 juliewashere88 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    Would Rather Abort

    One thing I defenetly know myself is that I do not want to be a mother... I hate children, all about them, and being stuck to take care of one would be the worst thing that could ever happen to me.. One thing that is good about my current relashionship is that he thinks the...
    Nayma Nayma 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 25, 2010

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    If A Woman Smiles At Me And Says "i'm Pregnant!"...

    I won't go "YIP YIP HOORAY!" I'd probably act more like "**** I should have worn protection...". Even if I was rich as hell and didn't have to worry about the cost of kids, I'd still never want one. If I ended up having one it'd be an accidental child like me, i'd treat my...
    MrUntitled MrUntitled 18-21, M 9 Responses Apr 5, 2010

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    They're Not Even Mine And They Ruin My Life.

    Every time I'm around people with kids, they ignore their kids and I'm suddenly watching them!! Does this happen to anyone else? It's like a conspiracy! The child-having friends/family I still spend time around sneak-dump their kids on me and socialize while the kids run around...
    yessumyecrad yessumyecrad 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Children....

    I hate kids. I hated kids when I was a kid, and nothing has changed.
    android654 android654 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2010

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    Kids Are Ruining My Life And I Have Non!

    Because of my age, people expect me to have at least 3 kids hanging off each arm but when I say I have non, people go all sympathetic saying, "awwww, can't you have any?" Like it's the be all and end all of life. When I say it's because I can't stand them, the mood changes. I'm...
    Devthediva Devthediva 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Reasons I Can't Stand Kids And Their Oblivious Parents.

    Firstly, I wanted to greet everyone here since I'm new, and say that I am so glad that I am not the only one who feels this way. Secondly, I'll share a little bit about why I cannot stand some children and some parents. When I was growing up years ago, it was so vastly...
    linguistafatale linguistafatale 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    I'm 17 and I'm absolutely sure

    that I don't like children nor do I want to have any. The thing is - everyone tells me it'll pass/it's just before I have my own kids. And my question for these people is: are you in your right mind or not? How is that responsible? It's the same as telling a gay woman that she...
    Selina33 Selina33 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 7

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    Resentments

    I totally hate kids but I try my best to tolerate my friends kids. But last week pretty much pushed me past my limits there. My best friend, her new boyfriend, her 4 year old boy and I, all went to see fireworks on the 4th of July. I was stoked to see them because I absolutely...
    TiaraOfThorns TiaraOfThorns 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Never Have, Never Will

    I'm a vehemently childfree twenty-something woman and just never, ever had a maternal instinct. Growing up, my baby dolls got mutilated and painted over and generally crushed into oblivion...meanwhile, my stuffed animals remained pristine and were taken care of. No shock, I...
    StrawberryPocky StrawberryPocky 22-25, F 11 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    Never Ever Period.

    I'm a military wife so people expect me to have a child every time my husband deploys so "You can have a little piece of him in case he doesn't come home." I think that is sick. I've never wanted children. For my 16th birthday I told my parents I wanted a chocolate cake with...
    rougefox97969 rougefox97969 31-35 3 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    In Light Of This Hostility

    Yesterday, I personally became aware of the hostility on this particular group. I would like to make something clear, both to the haters and the trollers-This group does, in fact, says very viscous things about children and parents. I've also come to find out that people take...
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    Open Letter To Breeders

    To whom it may concern, There seems to be this strange belief that I dislike children, because I don’t plan on being a mother. I’m not really sure where this came from, but please let me elaborate. I don’t hate kids. I’ll look after someone else’s, I just don’t...
    keeplivinglife keeplivinglife 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2013

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    I was in a plane from Frankfurt (I am German)

    to Shenzhen in China 2 weeks ago for meeting some of our suppliers and there was this fat spoiled Chinese brat sitting behind me, China is a country full of very nice people but the current generation of kids are spoiled and selfish thanks to the one child policy, this boy...
    Eorthisio Eorthisio 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    Hello everyone, my name is Perla

    and I'm 23 years old and I really HATE kids. I hate them so much with all my heart. I never, ever want to have any kids, EVER!!I've known for a very long time that I wanted to remain child free. I constantly get asked, "So, when are you having kids?" and honestly, it makes my...
    Unspoken15 Unspoken15 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 10

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    While I don't hate children I'm defiantly not

    sure I WANT any and this was the closest group I could find to vent and express myself. I'm a fairy successful student who knows what she wants and when, I've got a great future ahead of me, I know what degree I want to do and have been accepted into my dream uni, I have a part...
    LadyOfTheEmeraldNorth LadyOfTheEmeraldNorth 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    No Sympathy For The Infirtile

    Dear Natalist World, Guys, I need to rant. A friend of mine wrote a post on FaceBook complaining about something unrelated to my rant, but did so while making a comparison along the lines of: "If you were childfree, you wouldn't tell an infertile person that you envy them." I...
    juliewashere88 juliewashere88 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2013

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    I Dont Like Kids And Dont Want Any Either

    ... as a woman when I say that people look at me like I have 3 heads LOL! I dont have any kids and that is the responsible thing to do. I dont mind seeing my neice and nephew but I am glad to hand them back so i wont go far as saying i 'hate' them but they do annoy me and I...
    sophiascooter sophiascooter 41-45, F 9 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    Sick Of Everything Being About Kids

    You know you cant even watch TV at anytime of the day without being bombarded by things for kids, with kids, to kids, about kids. And if that isn't bad enough than we have to see the stupid *** pregnancy commercials about stupid *** women who's only goal in life is to see how...
    LindeyCraft LindeyCraft 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 17, 2012

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    I Dislike Kids... But I Hate Kid People!

    I joined this site and this group to respond to some comments I have seen here and in other places where being child-free bychoice is discussed. Invariably we are asked about the source of all this "anger" and "vitriol" that we have towardschildren and those who have them. I can...
    luckyblackhawk luckyblackhawk 36-40, M 10 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    I Love My Tubal!

    I am so glad I got myself fixed at 27. I hate kids. They're whiny, messy, annoying, disgusting, loud, expensive and ungrateful. I'm sure I was a pain in the *** when I was a kid too. However, my parents didn't allow me to pull any of the **** kids do in public, I got my...
    CFAmy CFAmy 26-30 16 Responses Jan 23, 2011

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    Multiple Personality Disorder

    There comes a time When I must sleep to let those beings who dwell within to have a chance and live. They come from memories long past dead holding each with care and key Dreading to remember what they hold something old untold. I wish to break their bonds on me...
    queenv6O queenv6O 51-55 1 Response May 19, 2013

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    A Little Bit About Sterilization.

    My heart goes out for you people who are trying to get sterilized. A doctor has no right to determine your life for you. Keep fighting the good fight, and switch doctors as many times as it takes till you reach your goal. My husband and I were very lucky and had a young, cool...
    Geaniebeanie Geaniebeanie 36-40 2 Responses May 20, 2013

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    To Juliewashere88/Juliette333

    My boyfriend and I aren't married because we don't want to be. We both feel that marriage is unnecessary when a couple doesn't plan to have children, and we both had had all of the children we wanted when we met.
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F Jul 14, 2013

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    Why do people come in here to bash on us

    that don't want to have kids? Do they not realize we have good reasons for doing this? Would you rather we procreate by obligation and then end up miserable and our kids unhappy because we never wanted them in the first place? Think before you speak. We know what we want. If you...
    bluetree88 bluetree88 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    I Feel Uncomfortable Around Kids

    Don't get me wrong, I know childrens' brains are still developing and they need a guiding hand to help them out in the world. But the way women in our society need to be nice and caring and listen to every ******* thing they have to say or else they seem callous is a tough world...
    anjones000 anjones000 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Kids Make Me Feel Creepy Inside

    My hatred for kids has been around for awhile and It's not going away anytime soon. Alot of people can say I'm too young (21) to make that decision and it bothers the hell out of me. I may still be reckless and wild, but atleast I'm responsible enough to admit so. I feel not...
    MamaSquirrel MamaSquirrel 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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