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I Hate Kids and I Don't Want Any

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    I have always hated kids.

    If I'm around children I will act civil and just ignore them. If they yell, scream, or cry while in stores, I would leave the store or leave that section of the store. I just can't handle the noise. I'm so glad that my mom isn't one of those parents who would bug the **** out...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Never Have, Never Will

    I'm a vehemently childfree twenty-something woman and just never, ever had a maternal instinct. Growing up, my baby dolls got mutilated and painted over and generally crushed into oblivion...meanwhile, my stuffed animals remained pristine and were taken care of. No shock, I...
    StrawberryPocky StrawberryPocky 22-25, F 11 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    I don't know why, but I don't like them,

    and actually, I'm afraid of having children with disabilities...
    kripunova kripunova 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Sick Of Everything Being About Kids

    You know you cant even watch TV at anytime of the day without being bombarded by things for kids, with kids, to kids, about kids. And if that isn't bad enough than we have to see the stupid *** pregnancy commercials about stupid *** women who's only goal in life is to see how...
    LindeyCraft LindeyCraft 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 17, 2012

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    We Hate Children. And Have Good Reason To.

    We're a young, newly married couple from Saint Louis, and one of the main things that attracted us to each other was our mutual hatred for children. They're ungrateful, noisy, annoying, dirty, and expensive. They're also horrendous cockblocks. We know a couple our age who has a...
    JustinAndMaddi JustinAndMaddi 22-25 7 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Kids are not something I want to have - not now,

    not ever. In fact, the more I am forced to look at my aunt's two screaming obnoxious brats, the more I am forced to spend time with them, the more I realize that I am so very thankful to myself for having the brains not to have any. Childfree for life! Why do I hate kids? let me...
    ChildfreeOlya ChildfreeOlya 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    I'm pretty young to be making the decision to

    have kids or not. Personally, I HATE children and would never willingly have them. How could you love something so sticky and loud? Children are nothing but ungrateful little *****! My boyfriend has a big family and all his siblings have children between 1 and 10. They are all...
    Raven1313 Raven1313 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    Breeder / Birther Wall At Work !

    Its bad enough I have to see their ugly kid pics in their cubes ! This isnt good enough ! Now we have a disgusting birther wall  of their gross hideous newborns plastered all over the noticed board! What makes it even worse its near the kitchenette sink/microwave. I have...
    Atomicplayboy Atomicplayboy 36-40, M 8 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Why do people come in here to bash on us

    that don't want to have kids? Do they not realize we have good reasons for doing this? Would you rather we procreate by obligation and then end up miserable and our kids unhappy because we never wanted them in the first place? Think before you speak. We know what we want. If you...
    bluetree88 bluetree88 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    I Dont Like Kids And Dont Want Any Either

    ... as a woman when I say that people look at me like I have 3 heads LOL! I dont have any kids and that is the responsible thing to do. I dont mind seeing my neice and nephew but I am glad to hand them back so i wont go far as saying i 'hate' them but they do annoy me and I...
    sophiascooter sophiascooter 41-45, F 9 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    I always knew I was different from other little

    girls. I hated baby dolls, I never wanted to play "mommy" and when I heard babies in restaurants screaming their heads off I wanted to stuff something in their mouths. Would see parents drooling over their kids and it made me want to barf. I knew that whatever else I did when I...
    missbellelettres missbellelettres 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    I really whole heartedly hate kids.

    Whenever I say this people think i'm going through a phase, no it is my choice as a fertile woman not to have any. Probably more so hate them bc of the way their parents fail to raise them, so spoiled and bratty and very rude. Don't breed if you are not going to make your...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2014

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    I Hate Kids

    I absolutely hate children. They are noisy, obnoxious, bratty. And they are always screaming and crying. Especially when you are in a nice or upscale restaurant and some kids ruin it by screaming or throwing tantrum. UGH.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Would Rather Abort

    One thing I defenetly know myself is that I do not want to be a mother... I hate children, all about them, and being stuck to take care of one would be the worst thing that could ever happen to me.. One thing that is good about my current relashionship is that he thinks the...
    Nayma Nayma 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 25, 2010

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    Never Ever Period.

    I'm a military wife so people expect me to have a child every time my husband deploys so "You can have a little piece of him in case he doesn't come home." I think that is sick. I've never wanted children. For my 16th birthday I told my parents I wanted a chocolate cake with...
    rougefox97969 rougefox97969 31-35 5 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Can someone please explain to me

    who we are being selfish to for not wanting children? Are we being selfish to our non existent husbands/wives who want children? To our non existent children? To the world? Who? I ask you, who? It would be nice if everyone would accept each other's decisions because all of us do...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    Reasons I Can't Stand Kids And Their Oblivious Parents.

    Firstly, I wanted to greet everyone here since I'm new, and say that I am so glad that I am not the only one who feels this way. Secondly, I'll share a little bit about why I cannot stand some children and some parents. When I was growing up years ago, it was so vastly...
    linguistafatale linguistafatale 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    I am very confused about something.

    ..who are all these child-loving people who keep posting here? There's a whole troll war between one of them and one who is childfree. Are you guys trying to convert us or just trying to create drama?
    missbellelettres missbellelettres 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2014

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    I Love My Tubal!

    I am so glad I got myself fixed at 27. I hate kids. They're whiny, messy, annoying, disgusting, loud, expensive and ungrateful. I'm sure I was a pain in the *** when I was a kid too. However, my parents didn't allow me to pull any of the **** kids do in public, I got my...
    CFAmy CFAmy 26-30 17 Responses Jan 23, 2011

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    ill never understand

    why other people love them so much. seriously what's so great about brats? i also find it so repulsive how some women are the type like : " oh i love kids i want to have 10 of them" im just like stupid *****
    CynicalIntrovert CynicalIntrovert 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I don't like the idea of being pregnant.

    The thought of it makes me squeamish.
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I'm Fixed And It's Bitchin'.

    I hate kids. I've always hated kids. I hated kids when I was a kid. I am very, very childfree. I finally got a tubal recently - in my mid 20's, no less - and it is the best feeling ever. I keep going back to it and just wanting to dance around my apartment. I have pictures from...
    ChainsOfGonzo ChainsOfGonzo 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    iv never liked kids..

    .even when I was a child other kids were playing with baby dolls and i couldn't stand them...I would rather play with barbies and video games. from the time i was a child I never wanted children, I always looked at how unhappy parents were and a lot of marriages went to...
    phinixmak phinixmak 26-30 Feb 19

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    I find it sad that people think

    that the only way to find happiness and true love is if they have children. So, your friends, family, pets, bf/gf, or spouse don't make you happy? Don't they already show you true love? I guess not. I guess their love won't count anymore as soon as you have children. And I guess...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Hello everyone, my name is Perla

    and I'm 23 years old and I really HATE kids. I hate them so much with all my heart. I never, ever want to have any kids, EVER!!I've known for a very long time that I wanted to remain child free. I constantly get asked, "So, when are you having kids?" and honestly, it makes my...
    Unspoken15 Unspoken15 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    I go shopping late at night hoping

    for some peace and quite. Nope. One f*ucking brat screaming it's stupid face off. Can't go anywhere at any hour in peace. Can't take it anymore. I am going to strangle your f*ucking brats and make sure you can't pop anymore out. Filthy breeders.
    Darklady22 Darklady22 31-35, F 3 Responses May 17

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    I Joined Just For This

    QueenV60: seriously? You're a bit obsessed and too angry to keep trolling here and with Juliewasher. I'm not white knighting here, I just am appalled at your level of venom. How would your kids feel if they saw you posting these stories? You've left some misogynic posts here...
    Pitbullgirl1965 Pitbullgirl1965 46-50, F 6 Responses May 14, 2013

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    Boyfriend's Kid

    First of all, I would like say how awesome it is to have such a forum for people like me. I will be on here quite a bit now, LOL. Now, on with my story... My boyfriend has a 15 year old daughter that is the biggest brat and I can't stand her. Actually, "brat" is an...
    LiquidSoul LiquidSoul 31-35, F 10 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Open Letter To Breeders

    To whom it may concern, There seems to be this strange belief that I dislike children, because I don’t plan on being a mother. I’m not really sure where this came from, but please let me elaborate. I don’t hate kids. I’ll look after someone else’s, I just don’t...
    keeplivinglife keeplivinglife 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I hate ignorant, inconsiderate breeders

    who take their screaming brats to restaurants and other nice places. They should start serving birth control and other sterilants in beverages.
    Darklady22 Darklady22 31-35, F 3 Responses May 16

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    I Feel Uncomfortable Around Kids

    Don't get me wrong, I know childrens' brains are still developing and they need a guiding hand to help them out in the world. But the way women in our society need to be nice and caring and listen to every ******* thing they have to say or else they seem callous is a tough world...
    anjones000 anjones000 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Kids Make Me Feel Creepy Inside

    My hatred for kids has been around for awhile and It's not going away anytime soon. Alot of people can say I'm too young (21) to make that decision and it bothers the hell out of me. I may still be reckless and wild, but atleast I'm responsible enough to admit so. I feel not...
    MamaSquirrel MamaSquirrel 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Probably something that always was with me.

    Because growing up I never liked baby dolls for little girls. I just didn't like those toys or ever want one. I just never liked them! Another woman here also is the same. It's not that I 'hate' kids. I just hate the screaming and naughty ones. Now babies? I hate them. Get...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Oct 16, 2014

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    I know I'm still young

    and everything but I've already had people, my parents included, bring something up in a conversation and them saying, "Oh well once you're married and have kids.." like no!!! Not having kids and who the hell says I'm going to get married?! I don't want either!! I don't like the...
    blackheartlover blackheartlover 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    Just Shut Up

    I hate them! I never want kids, they are so annoying!
    musared musared 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    Regret

    Yep, you've got me, breeder-troll. The truth is, I envy your moohood and really regret being childfree. I regret that I know what I want out of life, and what I don't. I regret that I make solid plans and responsible decisions. I regret that I have and the motivation and will to...
    juliewashere88 juliewashere88 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    ... and I hate when people say it's just a

    phase, that I'm too young but when I "find the right guy I'll have kids". I find the "concept" of "looking for the father of my children" so stupid. We're not animals, jeez! I think having kids is giving up on one's own life, especially for women, obviously.
    emmacla emmacla 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    What I Think Of Kids...

    Kids... oh, the 'joys of life'. Heh, give me a break. Every single day when I travel to my class on the bus it is one horrible night mare. Why? Kids. Babies. You know? Every single bus journey is a challenge: How Strong Will My Headache Be? There is never a moment when I leave...
    BubbleVee BubbleVee 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 3, 2011

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    I don't hate kids as much

    as I hate their wuss parents for not doing anything about them acting up! This weekend I had a hair appointment. When I went into the salon, one woman's brats were blocking the door so that nobody could get in. They then proceeded to run up and down the salon (bear in mind...
    binky85 binky85 36-40 Jun 29, 2014

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    I Dislike Kids... But I Hate Kid People!

    I joined this site and this group to respond to some comments I have seen here and in other places where being child-free bychoice is discussed. Invariably we are asked about the source of all this "anger" and "vitriol" that we have towardschildren and those who have them. I can...
    luckyblackhawk luckyblackhawk 36-40, M 10 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    Could Never Put A Kid First. . .

    I hate kids and hear all the time that "it's different when its your own". I agree it is different, it's WORSE. You can't give the little fcker back. If I had kids, they would come last. After my pets. After my sleep time. After my guitar. After me. The kids would be at the...
    GlassBunny GlassBunny 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    When I was younger I like the idea of becoming

    a mother until my nephew became a Father for the first time and his drama mama ex girlfriend keeps calling my mother to babysit so that she can to movies clubs ect. It didn't seem like a problem But unfortunately I spoke way too soon.Whenever my mother agrees to babysit she...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F Feb 8

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    In Light Of This Hostility

    Yesterday, I personally became aware of the hostility on this particular group. I would like to make something clear, both to the haters and the trollers-This group does, in fact, says very viscous things about children and parents. I've also come to find out that people take...
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    I hate autistic and retarded kids.

    They are the ultimate annoyance. Wherever these tards go they act unruly and they know they can get away with it and if anyone dares to say anything their parents/handlers give you hell. It isn't my fault that they LET these retards behave like this in public. They may be...
    SakuraYakushi SakuraYakushi 26-30 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'm sick of putting up with the screaming brats

    everywhere. It's not a "miracle". We are overpopulated enough and it's destroying this planet and other endangered wildlife. Humans are the most invasive species on the planet. STOP BREEDING!
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