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I Hate Kids and I Don't Want Any

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    I don't like the idea of being pregnant.

    The thought of it makes me squeamish.
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    Breeder / Birther Wall At Work !

    Its bad enough I have to see their ugly kid pics in their cubes ! This isnt good enough ! Now we have a disgusting birther wall  of their gross hideous newborns plastered all over the noticed board! What makes it even worse its near the kitchenette sink/microwave. I have...
    Atomicplayboy Atomicplayboy 36-40, M 8 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    I've never understood how anyone could look at

    people with kids or babies and say to themselves, "Yeah, that looks like fun. That would make my life better." How HIGH would you have to be to think that?! Thank you Obama for making vasectomy's free, now let's also throw in female spaying, i'll be first in line. And let's...
    lillydontcare lillydontcare 26-30 Oct 24, 2014

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    Why do people come in here to bash on us

    that don't want to have kids? Do they not realize we have good reasons for doing this? Would you rather we procreate by obligation and then end up miserable and our kids unhappy because we never wanted them in the first place? Think before you speak. We know what we want. If you...
    bluetree88 bluetree88 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    I Hate Kids

    I absolutely hate children. They are noisy, obnoxious, bratty. And they are always screaming and crying. Especially when you are in a nice or upscale restaurant and some kids ruin it by screaming or throwing tantrum. UGH.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Reasons I Can't Stand Kids And Their Oblivious Parents.

    Firstly, I wanted to greet everyone here since I'm new, and say that I am so glad that I am not the only one who feels this way. Secondly, I'll share a little bit about why I cannot stand some children and some parents. When I was growing up years ago, it was so vastly...
    linguistafatale linguistafatale 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    Probably something that always was with me.

    Because growing up I never liked baby dolls for little girls. I just didn't like those toys or ever want one. I just never liked them! Another woman here also is the same. It's not that I 'hate' kids. I just hate the screaming and naughty ones. Now babies? I hate them. Get...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Oct 16, 2014

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    I am very confused about something.

    ..who are all these child-loving people who keep posting here? There's a whole troll war between one of them and one who is childfree. Are you guys trying to convert us or just trying to create drama?
    missbellelettres missbellelettres 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2014

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    Even Though I Am One Myself....

    Here comes the chorus of people chanting that I'll probably be the first one to get married and have ten thousand kids, but no. I feel uncomfortable around people my own age. Let's start with that. I just hate the attitudes of practically every person I've met who is my age...
    juviehall juviehall 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2013

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    When I was younger I like the idea of becoming

    a mother until my nephew became a Father for the first time and his drama mama ex girlfriend keeps calling my mother to babysit so that she can to movies clubs ect. It didn't seem like a problem But unfortunately I spoke way too soon.Whenever my mother agrees to babysit she...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F Feb 8

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    ill never understand

    why other people love them so much. seriously what's so great about brats? i also find it so repulsive how some women are the type like : " oh i love kids i want to have 10 of them" im just like stupid *****
    CynicalIntrovert CynicalIntrovert 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    It's funny. The whole war with

    Juliewashere88/Juliette333 and queenv60 is finally over with. An entire year. Funny how two brain dead idiots can cause that much of a storm, and what for? Neither of them reduced nor increased births. Well, I'm glad it's said and done with. At least, I hope so. We don't need...
    Starscream99 Starscream99 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 20, 2014

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    What I Think Of Kids...

    Kids... oh, the 'joys of life'. Heh, give me a break. Every single day when I travel to my class on the bus it is one horrible night mare. Why? Kids. Babies. You know? Every single bus journey is a challenge: How Strong Will My Headache Be? There is never a moment when I leave...
    BubbleVee BubbleVee 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 3, 2011

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    I Dislike Kids... But I Hate Kid People!

    I joined this site and this group to respond to some comments I have seen here and in other places where being child-free bychoice is discussed. Invariably we are asked about the source of all this "anger" and "vitriol" that we have towardschildren and those who have them. I can...
    luckyblackhawk luckyblackhawk 36-40, M 10 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    Resentments

    I totally hate kids but I try my best to tolerate my friends kids. But last week pretty much pushed me past my limits there. My best friend, her new boyfriend, her 4 year old boy and I, all went to see fireworks on the 4th of July. I was stoked to see them because I absolutely...
    TiaraOfThorns TiaraOfThorns 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Never Have, Never Will

    I'm a vehemently childfree twenty-something woman and just never, ever had a maternal instinct. Growing up, my baby dolls got mutilated and painted over and generally crushed into oblivion...meanwhile, my stuffed animals remained pristine and were taken care of. No shock, I...
    StrawberryPocky StrawberryPocky 22-25, F 11 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    I wish I could talk to my sister about me not

    wanting kids but its just not going to happen. I cant really talk to anyone in my family about me not wanting children. Im NOT a bad person for not wanting them or having them. They are for those who want a REALLY big challenge that could make them or break them. Children are...
    june199225 june199225 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    I'm Fixed And It's Bitchin'.

    I hate kids. I've always hated kids. I hated kids when I was a kid. I am very, very childfree. I finally got a tubal recently - in my mid 20's, no less - and it is the best feeling ever. I keep going back to it and just wanting to dance around my apartment. I have pictures from...
    ChainsOfGonzo ChainsOfGonzo 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    I hate ignorant, inconsiderate breeders

    who take their screaming brats to restaurants and other nice places. They should start serving birth control and other sterilants in beverages.
    Darklady22 Darklady22 31-35, F 2 Responses May 16

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    Could Never Put A Kid First. . .

    I hate kids and hear all the time that "it's different when its your own". I agree it is different, it's WORSE. You can't give the little fcker back. If I had kids, they would come last. After my pets. After my sleep time. After my guitar. After me. The kids would be at the...
    GlassBunny GlassBunny 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    I Love My Tubal!

    I am so glad I got myself fixed at 27. I hate kids. They're whiny, messy, annoying, disgusting, loud, expensive and ungrateful. I'm sure I was a pain in the *** when I was a kid too. However, my parents didn't allow me to pull any of the **** kids do in public, I got my...
    CFAmy CFAmy 26-30 16 Responses Jan 23, 2011

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    Hello everyone, my name is Perla

    and I'm 23 years old and I really HATE kids. I hate them so much with all my heart. I never, ever want to have any kids, EVER!!I've known for a very long time that I wanted to remain child free. I constantly get asked, "So, when are you having kids?" and honestly, it makes my...
    Unspoken15 Unspoken15 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    Can someone please explain to me

    who we are being selfish to for not wanting children? Are we being selfish to our non existent husbands/wives who want children? To our non existent children? To the world? Who? I ask you, who? It would be nice if everyone would accept each other's decisions because all of us do...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    Sick Of Everything Being About Kids

    You know you cant even watch TV at anytime of the day without being bombarded by things for kids, with kids, to kids, about kids. And if that isn't bad enough than we have to see the stupid *** pregnancy commercials about stupid *** women who's only goal in life is to see how...
    LindeyCraft LindeyCraft 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 17, 2012

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    I just wanted to say im

    so glad I found this group. I had no idea that there were so many people that felt the same way I do about kids! It's very refreshing.
    Alanya03 Alanya03 26-30, F Sep 16, 2014

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    I have always hated kids.

    If I'm around children I will act civil and just ignore them. If they yell, scream, or cry while in stores, I would leave the store or leave that section of the store. I just can't handle the noise. I'm so glad that my mom isn't one of those parents who would bug the **** out...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Do You Suppose We Adults Could Get Away With Behaving The Way Undisciplined Children Do?

    For the record, I don't hate kids, but I certainly don't want any, I can relate to a lot of the stories posted here. It is often the butt hurt or ineffectual parent who will respond to topics such as -Stop your kid from screaming in a restaurant- with, "You were a kid once!", "If...
    rudegubmintworker rudegubmintworker 36-40 3 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    In Light Of This Hostility

    Yesterday, I personally became aware of the hostility on this particular group. I would like to make something clear, both to the haters and the trollers-This group does, in fact, says very viscous things about children and parents. I've also come to find out that people take...
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    ... and I hate when people say it's just a

    phase, that I'm too young but when I "find the right guy I'll have kids". I find the "concept" of "looking for the father of my children" so stupid. We're not animals, jeez! I think having kids is giving up on one's own life, especially for women, obviously.
    emmacla emmacla 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    Would Rather Abort

    One thing I defenetly know myself is that I do not want to be a mother... I hate children, all about them, and being stuck to take care of one would be the worst thing that could ever happen to me.. One thing that is good about my current relashionship is that he thinks the...
    Nayma Nayma 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 25, 2010

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    I really whole heartedly hate kids.

    Whenever I say this people think i'm going through a phase, no it is my choice as a fertile woman not to have any. Probably more so hate them bc of the way their parents fail to raise them, so spoiled and bratty and very rude. Don't breed if you are not going to make your...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2014

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    Sorry. I don't like them.

    Except some. But most of them are just spoiled brats nowadays. (no offence!)
    paislin paislin 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    I don't know why, but I don't like them,

    and actually, I'm afraid of having children with disabilities...
    kripunova kripunova 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Just Shut Up

    I hate them! I never want kids, they are so annoying!
    musared musared 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    I'm 17 and I'm absolutely sure

    that I don't like children nor do I want to have any. The thing is - everyone tells me it'll pass/it's just before I have my own kids. And my question for these people is: are you in your right mind or not? How is that responsible? It's the same as telling a gay woman that she...
    Selina33 Selina33 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    I Joined Just For This

    QueenV60: seriously? You're a bit obsessed and too angry to keep trolling here and with Juliewasher. I'm not white knighting here, I just am appalled at your level of venom. How would your kids feel if they saw you posting these stories? You've left some misogynic posts here...
    Pitbullgirl1965 Pitbullgirl1965 46-50, F 6 Responses May 14, 2013

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    Disgusted With "family Values"

    What is driving me crazy is this media OBSESSION with baby "bumps"! and what's with "Pregnant in High Heels"? ok, so you're already married and not pregnant, and you still want to look slutty? MTV and "Pregnant at 16" - MTV, haven't you already leashed enough evil on the world...
    MaryDoll9 MaryDoll9 46-50, F 7 Responses May 14, 2011

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    I was in a plane from Frankfurt (I am German)

    to Shenzhen in China 2 weeks ago for meeting some of our suppliers and there was this fat spoiled Chinese brat sitting behind me, China is a country full of very nice people but the current generation of kids are spoiled and selfish thanks to the one child policy, this boy...
    Eorthisio Eorthisio 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    A short while ago myself

    and a few University classmates were sitting around a table discussing various smalltalk pieces. Eventually, the topic turned to children and when it was my turn to speak, I casually voiced my distaste for them. The looks from about 5 other people were as if I had spoken the...
    protestifications protestifications 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    iv never liked kids..

    .even when I was a child other kids were playing with baby dolls and i couldn't stand them...I would rather play with barbies and video games. from the time i was a child I never wanted children, I always looked at how unhappy parents were and a lot of marriages went to...
    phinixmak phinixmak 26-30 Feb 19

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    I'm sick of putting up with the screaming brats

    everywhere. It's not a "miracle". We are overpopulated enough and it's destroying this planet and other endangered wildlife. Humans are the most invasive species on the planet. STOP BREEDING!
    Darklady22 Darklady22 31-35, F May 16

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    I always knew I was different from other little

    girls. I hated baby dolls, I never wanted to play "mommy" and when I heard babies in restaurants screaming their heads off I wanted to stuff something in their mouths. Would see parents drooling over their kids and it made me want to barf. I knew that whatever else I did when I...
    missbellelettres missbellelettres 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    I Feel Uncomfortable Around Kids

    Don't get me wrong, I know childrens' brains are still developing and they need a guiding hand to help them out in the world. But the way women in our society need to be nice and caring and listen to every ******* thing they have to say or else they seem callous is a tough world...
    anjones000 anjones000 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    I don't hate kids as much

    as I hate their wuss parents for not doing anything about them acting up! This weekend I had a hair appointment. When I went into the salon, one woman's brats were blocking the door so that nobody could get in. They then proceeded to run up and down the salon (bear in mind...
    binky85 binky85 36-40 Jun 29, 2014

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    Never Ever Period.

    I'm a military wife so people expect me to have a child every time my husband deploys so "You can have a little piece of him in case he doesn't come home." I think that is sick. I've never wanted children. For my 16th birthday I told my parents I wanted a chocolate cake with...
    rougefox97969 rougefox97969 31-35 5 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    I go shopping late at night hoping

    for some peace and quite. Nope. One f*ucking brat screaming it's stupid face off. Can't go anywhere at any hour in peace. Can't take it anymore. I am going to strangle your f*ucking brats and make sure you can't pop anymore out. Filthy breeders.
    Darklady22 Darklady22 31-35, F 2 Responses May 17

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