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I Hate Living With My Parents

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    I'm 19 and I feel like they never want to be

    happy and they say they want me to make my own decisions, but at the same time they're not alone. I am dating somebody with a record and they say it's my Trois whether I want to talk to me or not, Active same time they're not letting me decide and then see if I keep talking to...
    HELLONWHEELZZ HELLONWHEELZZ 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2015

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    As the middle child I've shared everything.

    After 18 years of sharing everything I finally get my own room. But now my mother feels the need to kick me out my room and put me in the den with my talkative, redundant, video game addicted, autistic 10 year old brother. So no more talking on the phone at night, midnight...
    aroseforleah aroseforleah 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2015

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    As soon as I turn 18 I am leaving this house.

    The air here is smothering me.
    lavijasmine lavijasmine 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    Okay so my mom just told me I'm worthless

    because.... BECAAUUSEE I didn't wear my slippers in the house.... I don't smoke, i don't drink, i don't go to parties and I'm good at school, but I'm still worthless because I didn't tidy up my room after studying and i didn't wear my slippers.... Wow I'm really blessed with...
    IvyNguyen IvyNguyen 18-21, F Feb 12, 2015

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    There Is Only Enough Room In This House For One Overgrown Unemployed Child

    I just graduated and have been living back at home with my parents and 24 year old unemployed brother for about a month. The conversation at the dinner table tonight alone made me google the phrase "i hate living with my parents" and led me to this group. Dad "Ok...
    pushpop87 pushpop87 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Don't Laugh...

    I come from a *very* strict conservative Christian family.  I mean we are a notch and a half below Amish.  To make matters worse, my parents (especially my mom) have a Southern black upbringing that is filled with what I consider some pretty lame and useless traditions...
    WarriorNun WarriorNun 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 19, 2006

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    My mom beats me until I was 12.

    Now I am 15. when I was 13 she says she don't beats me anymore. I am scared. anytime she screams I feels like she is gonna hit me. my teachers saw my strange behavior I feel embarrassed.
    mlplights mlplights 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2015

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    This crap has been driving me up the wall

    for a while now. My parents aren't bad people...I just do not ever want to live with them ever again if I move out. I appreciate what they've done for me, but sometimes. Sometimes. You just can't stand living with some people. SO. First things first, you need to understand my...
    DismyJam DismyJam 22-25, F Nov 27, 2015

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    I've been so hurt before

    that I don't know what to do with myself anymore. And because of that hurt I've hurt others. its pretty great. #hatemyparents
    ripttrip ripttrip 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2015

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    My dad got mad at me

    for sparing half of my money... I was ment to keep those ******* things for my future, why do they want me to be dependant to them when I grew up... This is why I hate living with my parents, **** like this is a big deal...
    RedSaffron RedSaffron 13-15, F Oct 5, 2015

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    I hate living with her,

    my mom. She likes to control and be always emotional. Whenever there are problems she turns to me and expects me to support her and carry all her bad feelings. I'm just a teenager, and even though I do care for her and wants to understand her I also have problems on my own and I...
    sylviaplath01 sylviaplath01 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2015

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    They fight all the time,

    and swear a lot, I just want to travel and just leave everything behind
    Middleeasternineurope Middleeasternineurope 18-21, F Jul 3, 2014

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    I wish my parents could understand how I feel

    about him and that I feel safe with him no matter what he might did in his past. Yes he might have to deal with it for the rest of his life, but he's changed now and a different person. Who's amazing and wonderful and loves me for who I am and nothing more. Today is his birthday...
    HELLONWHEELZZ HELLONWHEELZZ 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Yesterday while I was at work they called

    and ordered supper, pizza, and when I got home and asked if I could have a slice they said I should get a pizza with my own hard earned money. Like what the ****. After my last hospitalization for self harm my mom didn't give two ***** about me. Now, five months later, she...
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 18-21, T 1 Response Apr 12, 2015

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    I love my mom, and my step dad is a cool guy,

    but I wish I could move out. My financial situation makes that impossible though. After student loans and other bills I have almost no money left. Paying rent would simply be impossible.
    StarSage StarSage 22-25, M Sep 27, 2015

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    My mom is a control freak,

    my dad is always screaming and in a bad mood, I feel like I'm suffocating every time i walk in this house. The mere thought of them depresses me. My mom is a house wife so she stays home all day and my dad works all day but comes home at night which is the woooorst. He brings me...
    imnotarobot98 imnotarobot98 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 20, 2015

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    Oh my gosh, mom! First,

    you say that I'm not eating enough fruit. Then, I get in trouble for eating too much fruit? Make up your ******* mind already!
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2015

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    It's hasn't even been an hour

    since I woke up and my frustration levels are out of this world. Can I run away and live with any of you guys?
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 4, 2015

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    I Hate Having To Rely On Them About Everything.

    I hate everything about my family. I hate my dad most of all. My dad... His lacks common sense to such a great extent that i want to sometimes bang my head on the wall. He gets mad at the weirdest thing ever. For example, a mail comes home from Bank of america and he starts to...
    WhymeKami WhymeKami 16-17 5 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Are you ever going to shut up

    and go to bed mom?! You're the reason I want to move out so bad! You're the reason I've wanted to move out since 11th grade! If you only knew how much I want to punch your voice box, your brain, and everything else in your stupid body!
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover 18-21, M Sep 30, 2015

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    When I'm 16 I'm getting my own house.

    get away from them at last
    kindaspoilt kindaspoilt 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    This is the point in time

    when you know your parents don't know a ******* thing about you is when they invite you to events without even asking you and thinking that you'll want to go and you'll have fun. **** my parents, **** my aunts and uncles, **** my cousins, **** everybody in my family right now. I...
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover 18-21, M Oct 10, 2015

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    They don't lie to me per say,

    but they beat around the bush. My mom asked me as soon as I got home if I had homework, I replied not really and she got all mad and said that my teacher called and said I missed an assignment. WHY DONT YOU JUST TELL ME MY TEACHER CALLED INSTEAD OF TRYING TO MANIPULATE ME AND...
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 18-21, T Apr 8, 2015

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    I am 26 and I still live with my parents.

    I know, lame right? Well all I ever get is get yelled at and treated like a child. It feels like I'm even talked to like one. I feel like I cant do anything right even though I have an overnight job. It also feels they refuse to treat me like an adult. They also make fun of me...
    redphoenix02 redphoenix02 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    I honestly think it's disgusting

    that until you turn 18 your parents can LITERALLY destroy your life and your happiness in a split second
    trashspice trashspice 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    My parents got divorced in 2010,

    and it was messy. i was in third grade at the time and honestly i couldn't care less. However, i milked it for all it was worth. Anyways, my dad started dating my step mom the same year he got a divorce. I only met her in 2013, over Easter weekend. She seemed very nice, and...
    24crain 24crain 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I hate having to do things on my parent?

    s schedule. If I want to hang out with friends, it must be on their time, not mine or even the rest of the world?s. My parents make a point to be involved with every aspect of my life so every little think I do has to fit with their schedule too. I miss the days of spontaneous...
    MavisWalker MavisWalker 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2015

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    My parents were away this weekend on business,

    and I had the house to myself. I actually found that I felt more productive, and that I was actually pretty well able to take care of myself, in terms of behavior and keeping my anxiety under control. My problem is, I can't financially support myself. Rent is 800 a month on...
    ncapo ncapo 22-25, M Aug 11, 2015

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    sometimes, i can't believe

    that at 35 im back at home! worse, i dont get along with my parents and my dad has bipolar. i just wish i had someone to talk to or a friend i could lean on. each day i come home, i dont know what to expect. my parents always argue. everyone's always mad at each other. it's no...
    redaxl redaxl 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2015

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    You think you know who I am. But I'm not who you think I am. Because of you and your foolish, narrow-minded ways, I keep who I really am away from you. I keep it protected, far away from my sleeve so you can't take even a slight peak at it. You've never allowed me to be who I am...
    Ibby96 Ibby96 18-21, M 2 Responses May 13, 2013

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    My dad decided to say

    that I must of went to retard school, you know what dad.. YOU MUST OF ******* WENT TO ******* SCHOOL.
    violentsneezes violentsneezes 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2015

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    my phone is monitored,

    I'm watched like a hawk, I have to tell her all my whereabouts. such a manipulative, controlling person who also has control of my finances so I don't have a lot of options.
    kaylakoerper kaylakoerper 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2015

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    I hate my mom shes always rude

    and fights with me Shes obsessed with cleaning ive never seen anyone or other parents yell at their kids for having a small mess she goes insane she starts yelling one day she cried because of a mess i cant stand it i wish she was just normal i try to tell my sister she has ocd...
    noorm22 noorm22 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2015

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    there are always ultimatum,

    intimidation, blackmail and threats. I am treated like a child even though I'm an adult. I regret ever turning to them for anything. my life is criticized and monitored. only time we talk is when I'm criticized. just because I messed up more than a few times does not make me a...
    kaylakoerper kaylakoerper 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2015

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    Need To Vent!

    Okay, i live in Southern California with both my parents. Let me tell you that i think i am honestly losing my sanity!! I do wish to  live a more adult lifestyle but due to money restrictions i cannot afford to move out. I have an extremely poor relationship with my "father" and...
    xSinfulxPleasurex xSinfulxPleasurex 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    All they do is yell at me

    and say how lazy I am They don't understand that I have depression and anxiety and it is infuriating. All they do is berate me and it is really saddening.
    icanonlydeterminemyhappiness icanonlydeterminemyhappiness 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2015

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    Hate is such a strong word.

    I don't hate living with my parents it's just annoying sometimes. I want to have friends over when I want to. Be able to walk around naked if I want ( probably wouldn't). I just want to have the freedom to go and come as I please without the questions or intrusions.
    Eyeofthebeholder23 Eyeofthebeholder23 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    krise17 krise17 16-17, M Mar 29, 2015

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    I'm in my first semester of college

    and I love my classes. But I have an issue with getting assignments turned in at a decent time. A lot of it is my fault as I do procrastinate quite a bit and I worry about whether or not my sentences are coherent enough. But a lot of it is because of my parents also. I have a...
    Triomatix Triomatix 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I hate my parents at times ,

    I m a teenager and my grades r good but they still, well yeah, look down at me for dunno y . They hav bad temper and idk how to deal with them .
    Landsailorgirl Landsailorgirl 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    MY FATHER IS SO ANNOYING.

    He is literally the biggest douche ever! He always has to be micro-managing me and knowing everything about my life! I get bombarded with questions about my life and it's really irritating! He just needs to leave me alone. Like today I was In my room for literally an hour, and...
    JickeryJack JickeryJack 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 27, 2014

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    I Can't Take It

    Today's story: I can't deal with anything anymore. Song I used for the title: Can't Take It-The All-American Rejects So, Tuesday(04/02/13), my sister bitched at me about using these headphones I've been using(they're my Mom's, she let's me use them). It was barely after 6:00am, I...
    Carolynxhorror Carolynxhorror 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2013

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    I hate my mom. Since she opered she change

    so much.She get angry much quickly for anything And when she is angry: Anything you do is stupid, she yells and tells you Drama queen, worthless, She is leo and I am cancer total Opposite: I am sensible;She don't give a ****. She put salts in words and use them against you. I...
    mlplights mlplights 13-15, F Dec 31, 2015

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    My mom is borderline alcoholic,

    her whole family is. I also think she has a personality disorder from trauma in her young life. She refuses help because nothing's wrong in her head. Everyone else sees it. My stepdad and her fight every night. They scream at each other and it's extremely annoying. They're...
    FluteMastah FluteMastah 18-21, F 1 Response May 7, 2014

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    I'm too old for this.

    And I can't get out.
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

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