I Hate Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 298 People

    I hate when I'm having a casual relationship

    with someone and you start it with that expectation clearly laid out on the table and then they fall in love and become needy.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Jul 15, 2015
    unknown1501 unknown1501
    16-17, F
    Sep 9, 2015

    Most of the time, people

    who say "I love you" just mean "I want what I can get out of you and when that's over, we're done". After a long life of hearing lies, I've realized that love is evol. I've grown tired of caring and have put up my walls. Nobody else is coming in. People will leave, sure, but...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 13, 2016

    Horrible In Relationships

    As soon as someone starts to like me romantically I know I'm going to have to deal with an uncomfortable situation where they're upset and blame me for how awful it is to be "in love" with me. It is such a pain in the ***. I am an amazing friend to have, but as soon as strong...
    Luthera Luthera
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 27, 2011

    8 months ago today, you cut all ties between us.

    8 months later, I'm still haunted by the bittersweet memories we shared. I know this is terrible to say, but I feel like I’ve been cheated out of all this. This was the guy I thought I was going to marry, the only guy I ever imagined I could, and now it’s just over. You know...
    capitalbreeze capitalbreeze
    18-21, F
    Jan 16, 2016
    lovebug1073 lovebug1073
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2016

    When the love of your life,

    is there and suddenly she's gone cause of that she won't believe in what I believe. She won't see the things from higher perspective as I do. She surrends the love of her life, and lets me go away from her. This is sad and just thing that I myself cannot understand. She was the...
    Kimchie Kimchie
    22-25, M
    Jul 2, 2015

    Things Changed

    I don't know when things changed, never thought that this would happen ! My life has been crap, but you are a beautiful dream.. You make me feel good, you make me feel perfect .. When did things change ? I liked you coz you were a good friend,. but This is a different feeling, I...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 27, 2012

    I like flat out told the person I loved my

    feelings and all they could say was "sorry I don't know what to say" like wtf? Is that how you respond to a person who just told you their feelings.. I texted her back and she took like 3 hours to respond but I see that she posting a lot of **** in snapchat she took the time to...
    MyrkaEspinoza MyrkaEspinoza
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2015

    It's not the breakup

    that hurts most, it's the post trauma that follows it. It is waking up and checking your phone for messages that isnt there. It's like starting your life over again and you have no idea where to begin.
    capitalbreeze capitalbreeze
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11
    26-30, F
    Oct 10, 2015

    What the **** is love anyway!

    Why can't people just give me the straight answer instead of their bullshit excuse of that I'll just know when it happens. Guess what it's not going too because I'm a paranoid, dough bag who has never trusted anyone since the first grade!
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    Sometimes, I get this urge to talk to you,

    and then I remember that you’re a different person now. It’s just sad because I miss you a lot.
    capitalbreeze capitalbreeze
    18-21, F
    Mar 27, 2015

    you said you were afraid to lose me

    and then you faced your fears and left.
    capitalbreeze capitalbreeze
    18-21, F
    Apr 3, 2015

    Oh love, my heart says

    that you keep failing me.And my heart says I can't let love keep getting the best of me.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 20, 2015

    Left At the Alter

    i have known her since junior high, but we were just mere acquaintances. after i graduated from college i moved back home and we ran into each other and pretty much both fell head over heels. we dated pretty seriously for over a year before we moved in together. we talked about...
    gordon916 gordon916
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2009

    Love Sucks..

    I hate love..i may be weird but i can't stand it anymore. Everyone i meet is obsessed with it, their whole lives revolve around it and it's what occupies their mind, day and night. Friendship love just isn't enough for people these days...it sickens me. I don't want love physical...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 24, 2009

    Love is like a cookie machine with defects.

    Even when you keep pressing the button the cookies don't seem to be coming out. 1 out of 10 times you get cookie. So you press again. Sometimes the cookies come consecutively, sometimes they still don't come when you've been waiting after pressing about 50 times. But that last...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 10, 2015

    Let someone so close

    and hold them close for thirteen year thinking it will be forever just so they can stab you in the back and destroy your life
    soma1971 soma1971
    46-50, M
    Jul 27, 2015

    Love Is Like Hell On Earth

    I hate love with a passion... It kills people and it ruins lives. Love sucks you say you love someone and they don't love you back you are in a relationship and the other person dosen't love you back... Love is unfair I don't believe in it as young as I am. Love causes natural...
    Deadlylovely13 Deadlylovely13
    1 Response Dec 29, 2012

    Is it love if it suffocates you?

    I mean. How can it be love where you don't give a **** about your partners needs? Where you don't care about their desires but it's all about you and you and saying that I need you to be around me all the time. And then if they want something for themself they're selfish. I...
    FallingApart33 FallingApart33
    22-25, F
    Apr 14, 2016

    Do you know what the worst part was?

    It wasn't you leaving as harshly as you did, or th realisation of you never loving me. It was the fact that you stole my heart, and instead of giving it back, you smashed it right in front of my face, and took it with you when you left. As if breaking my heart wasn't enough, you...
    capitalbreeze capitalbreeze
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2015
    thadudesixty2 thadudesixty2
    22-25, M
    Jan 14, 2014

    If you leave someone at least tell them why,

    because what's more painful than abandoned; is knowing you're not worth an explanation.
    capitalbreeze capitalbreeze
    18-21, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    I believe in love, there's no question about

    that. But I hate how much power it has over the people infected with it. I hate how much people hurt themselves and others over it; how many horrific and unforgivable and degrading, destructive acts we commit for it. I hate how stupid you act when you're swept up in it, and how...
    TrueBlue94 TrueBlue94
    22-25, F
    Oct 9, 2015
    artlover222 artlover222
    22-25, F
    Apr 26, 2015

    I hate love. Simple as that.

    I hate what it does to you and makes you feel. it makes you believe things that are impossible and makes you want things you'll never have. It makes you open up and let people in, which in the end just causes you to hurt. it makes you want and believe in forever. It causes you...
    WentAway WentAway
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2015
    westsideblues1 westsideblues1
    56-60, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2012

    I Hate Falling In Love

    I seem to always do it with the people that will never like me back. Right now, I'm trying not to fall in love again, or even develop a crush, but I think I'm falling for another one of my friends. Love is too controlling, I don't want to fall in love anymore. I know how it's...
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2012

    Fuckk love it is not real.

    It's just a fantasy until your heart hurts. Nothing last or even starts.
    BlueWings1 BlueWings1
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

    F***k Love!

    Ugh Love is the most annoying word I could ever hear from somebody's f***ng mouth,mainly bcuz, I've been screwed way more over than Lindsay Lohan's career, all of the guys that i've met are some of the most selfish, superficial, ignorant, small minded, vengeful, anorexic...
    Alan132 Alan132
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2011

    There are two kinds of people in this world,

    hopeless romantics and realists. A realist just sees that face and packs it in with every other pretty girl they’ve ever seen before. A hopeless romantic becomes convinced that God put them on earth to be with that one person. But there is no God, and life is only as...
    highscraper highscraper
    18-21, F
    Feb 2, 2014

    Treat me like a queen

    and ill treat u like a king. Treat me like a game and ill show u how its played
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123
    13-15, F
    Aug 28, 2015
    definecool definecool
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    I have been flirting with this guy

    and his name is Adam and we have been flirting and talking and really liking each other and he became my best friend SOOO a few months later this guy Steven starts talking to me and really starts to flirt with me and after awhile he started saying how much he loves me and stuff...
    sarah0079 sarah0079
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2016

    Hate Is a Word I Must Use

      Hate is a word I must use   Love it latterly all around from in music to artworks and even architecture but I hate it. I’m sick of the feeling it makes me feel. I never have been loved back the way I give it out. I just want to know why? What’s the...
    fallenchild fallenchild
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 8, 2009

    I don't hate love. But

    for myself personally I don't want love. I mean it would be nice and all, but the thought of someone loving me makes me nauseous, nor can I really express it. On a friend level, I can love and have others love me. I love my family, and they love me. But on a romantic level, I...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 30, 2014

    love is like a cycle: 1 fall in love,

    2 denial phase 3 acceptance phase 4 betrayal 5 go back to beginning
    randompurpledragon randompurpledragon
    18-21, F
    Mar 9, 2014

    Love sucks. Especially

    when things are going great, then they pull back like a rubber band. Leaving you wonder what's going on. The hurt , the gut wrenching feeling , the tears. Beginning to hate love
    js1276 js1276
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2015
    RosesAndRazors RosesAndRazors
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2015

    had anyone else realized

    that girls are starting to adopt the guys' mentality? like "I will try them out" like trying ice creams in an ice cream shop. But those ice creams are left with an unfixable unforgivable scar. and that just don't care.
    diegosauns diegosauns
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 29, 2016

    Hate falling for someone

    and then next thing you know, they're no longer in your life because of some stupid misunderstanding or drama. Why do I even bother putting myself out there when I seem to be the one that gets the worse end of it?
    akreynolds01 akreynolds01
    18-21, F
    Sep 7, 2015
    Violetblossoms Violetblossoms
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    Love Is Not Real

    For one thing that I hate is love. Love in today's world is just hard core cold evil. You think its good well it's not. Love is only destroy my life and I have been in some relationships that they just leave me! Love makes me sick. No body that I think would ever come to me. Its...
    AGH22 AGH22
    18-21, M
    43 Responses Dec 14, 2012

    "Have you ever been in love?

    Terrible isn't it. It makes you so vulnerable. It opens up your chest and opens up you heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up a whole suit of armor so that nothing can hurt you. Then one stupid person, no...
    shecanfly88 shecanfly88
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 13, 2013

    All the pain that you caused

    and in the end my heart was the one shattered in pieces on the floor, but what I can't believe is that after all that I just wanted you more. It was like I was the stupid moth to your flame, and in the end I got burned and have only myself to blame, I knew I couldn't have you...
    capitalbreeze capitalbreeze
    18-21, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    okay so i've had a crush on my bestfriend

    for almost four years now and one day last week my friend came home with me on the bus with me and my crush got off at my stop. we were walking down the street and my friend wanted to got to the field behind our neighborhood because me and my crush hang out there but she had...
    X0XsadnessX0X X0XsadnessX0X
    18-21, F
    Nov 21, 2015

    Am i the only one who like.

    . Thinks that life would be easier without a woman to make you so happy and then in a split second so sad.
    Imabro24 Imabro24
    18-21, M
    Jan 5, 2015

    It hurts. It brings nothing

    but pain and stress. I just don't see why anyone would want to feel it. It's horrible. I hate it. I freaking hate it. I keep saying I'll close my heart and I keep failing. But I can't fail again, or I may as well end it all by killing myself. Why in the world would I want to...
    Smileydork Smileydork
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2015

    I'll never going to fail in love again.

    It's a death trap once they got you . They use you , hurt you and cheat on you !
    WildCat64 WildCat64
    18-21, M
    Jul 14, 2015

    Its just so sick to me.

    I sometimes get so sick of it i want to throw up. Im sick of seeing it and i hate hugs and kisses. I have always hated hugs and kisses and it really just grosses me out. I dont really feel love because i dont have emotions right now due to my mental state but i doubt i would...
    Insomniac77 Insomniac77
    18-21, M
    May 22, 2014
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