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I Hate Love,it Hurts Too Much Sometimes

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    Love Is A Four Letter Lie

    i'm definitely hating love right now. it makes me depressed and i am stuck in a state where i am so distressed. yes it gives you warmth and joy, laughter, sweetness, bla bla bla... but really when the one you love hurts you, the feeling is so sinking you wished you didn't even...
    LovelessAdvocate LovelessAdvocate 22-25, F Jul 12, 2010

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    Lost My Only Sister

    Over the past few months, I've confessed my love, had my first kiss, and lost everything I've ever known. I ruined the only support I had; because I fell for my best friend, my sister. And it didn't work out at all... And now we aren't talking anymore, she won't let me contact...
    Riokutama Riokutama 16-17, F Oct 15, 2012

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    Will I Ever Learn??

    my ex came round earlier. I'd asked him not to, or to warn me first so he could just pick up his stuff and go without my being here.  i asked him to be honest with me, why he couldn't be with me through the not knowing how bad i had cancer and the op i had.   was the...
    aaangie aaangie 41-45, F Jun 20, 2009

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    Love...

    well... *Tear* Yeah my heart got broken....I thought Me & him were ganna be togther for awhile....we lasted two months atleast :'( Things got soo messed up though....I starting gitting depressed wen i was around him..i didn't know what to do...so i ended it...we can barrly look...
    WolfAngel29 WolfAngel29 13-15, F May 5, 2012

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    One Of My Poems

    This is one of my poems. It was for a person I loved (and still love) but didn't love me back. Each time i see you I want to say to you I love you I need you I want to be with you. But then courage fails me and words wont come to me I just sit there thinking sit crying and...
    shypaddy shypaddy 51-55 Aug 28, 2013

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    My Tortured Heart

    I am awaken by silence...complete and consuming silence. The house is still. Everyone is sleeping. I stare, blankly, into the darkness, barely able to make out the person laying next to me. I want to reach out to him, but I can't. I want to feel the warmth of his touch, to...
    rinas4kids rinas4kids 41-45, F Aug 28, 2012

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    What Is "love"?

    I've been told, "It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all". Can this be? What is this "Love" I have heard referred to in such terms of endearment? Is being "in love" truly a depth of emotion, or is it merely a disillusioned mindset? I, too, have felt...
    rinas4kids rinas4kids 41-45, F Aug 28, 2012

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    Painfull Change

    I never thought i will be in love whole my life. I always ran away from girls from celebrities there dressups, behaviour whereas other childrens of my age were busy making them look gud and attractive. I was always ugly really enormously ugly , I never had confident. I was like...
    Karma100 Karma100 18-21, M Apr 16, 2012

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    It does sound laughable when I'm saying I'm fangirling over a celebrity has turned into love , deeply . Harry Edward Styles , I love you too much more than I originally planned . And . And for now . No one believes me , I actually do fall in love with you . Tell me Harry , how...
    chanceux chanceux 16-17 Dec 19, 2012

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    To Love Then Lose,never Again

    Love isn't always a 2-way street.He didn't love me back but I was ok with that.Just as long as he was around I was happy,even if we were just friends.I would've waited the rest of my life for him.I feel like I still do now but at the same time hate him.He's my 1st love and will...
    KindaCrazy KindaCrazy 18-21, F Dec 10, 2010

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    I Hate Being This Way!

    Ok so ill start at the beggening of the story..I met this guy online on a depression group.After awhile we started chatting on like aim.Then not like a few days later he asked to talk to me on the phone so i was like sure whats the harm in that.Plus i really liked talking to him...
    soapfanatic23s soapfanatic23s 21-25, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Love is louder then the pressure to be perfect.

    .. But being perfect is expected .. So there is love.
    PopsicleCitrus22 PopsicleCitrus22 13-15, F Feb 28

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    I Hate The Feeling Of Love!

    Love builds up to disapointment, crushed hopes, shattered dreams. Even tho I know this, I cant get my body to understand this as well. Like I just came home from school, and this girl in my class... I talk to her and stuff and I have fallen for her and I dont like that. When...
    Krie Krie 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Love Hurts

    So there is this boy that I went out with last year for seven months that I broke up with.I don't really know why but I wish I didn't!it was in may.then in september I went out with this other person and that lasted like two months.It just wasn't working out.So me and my first ex...
    Mikobaygerfrank123 Mikobaygerfrank123 16-18, F 2 Responses May 28, 2007

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    No Need For Love

    I don't feel (and never really felt) any need to be loved. When people have no feelings for me one way or another, it's comforting - actually, they could completely hate me, and I still wouldn't care. But if you were to tell me that no one on Earth loved me, it wouldn't bother...
    kiuz645 kiuz645 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 9, 2010

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    Falling In Love With Fading Light

    I don't fall in love with people often: they are too terrifying. Yet ideas, stories, dreams, music, books, words... these I fall in, out of love with several times during only one day. I fall in love with the pattern of various spiderwebs, texture of skeleton leaves... it is...
    ValentinK ValentinK 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 20, 2011

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    On Love

    I hate love, I'm super spiteful, its breaking me.
    VerucaSalt85 VerucaSalt85 22-25, F Jan 18, 2010

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    Imperfection

    Some things in life, things that take your breath away, beautiful and untarnished, that you stand gazing at in speechless awe because no words can match the beauty that is before you, needs to remain untouched...like a vibrant sunset, dancing with hues of color drawn from the...
    rinas4kids rinas4kids 41-45, F Aug 28, 2012

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    You are not mine,I am not yours cant ever be then why does it hurt so much to stay apart. Why it burns inside,why there is no cure,no balm ,no relief ....why does it hurts so much...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 Mar 31

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    My mom is one of those people. Whenever I'm being quiet, she has to talk it up way too much and jump from subject to subject. Also, the people at school who talk way too much...
    laubrown1 laubrown1 16-17, F Apr 11

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    Its makes me sooo angry when someone talks my ear off. CLEARLY!If you're the only one talking its no longer a conversation! Either youre talking much and I cant get a word in...
    tiredoftryingg tiredoftryingg 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I have a question for all of you out there and I really need an honest answer. How do you know if a guy loves you? Give me a list of examples of what guys need to do in order for...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    I feel.. Drained. I feel like a can't cope anymore and I'm just shutting everyone out. I have no friends anymore, because my old bestfriend just used me.. And my other friend...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    Anonymous asked: What happens once you kill yourself? Because I'm ready to go. answered: You wanna know what happens once you kill yourself? Your mother comes home from work and...
    lllie lllie 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Did I remember to lock the door? This freckle is really dark, what if it's skin cancer? My stomach hurts maybe I have appendicitis? They didn't call back they must be mad at me...
    shoxic shoxic 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Yeah well. From the moment I saw him 2 years ago, I love him so much it hurts. It hurts that he doesn't feel the same way, I'm starting to think he never will. But I will never...
    JeciJecii JeciJecii 16-17, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    It was a 5 year relationship. Mostly long distance. I loved her. But I wasn't happy anymore. There was something missing. The sex was bad and little things started to annoy me...
    vanillasmile82 vanillasmile82 31-35, F Mar 28

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    I think far too much, way too much for my own good. What do they mean when they say that? What is that look for? Is Isaac okay today? I wonder what my sisters and brother are up to...
    DeJeKlu DeJeKlu 18-21, F Mar 29

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    You can't even understand. He's an idol while I'm here stuck in a small town nobody knows about. He's halfway across the world and I've never met him before. It started over 10...
    exoflower exoflower 70+, F 2 days ago

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    Everything, I ponder about a little to much. This constantly ruins relationships for me. It hurts the people I love. I'm not sure how to shake this habit.
    smith821 smith821 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    trust and care too much with a person, even love them too much.. make myself hurt so much when that person don't even trust, care and love me..
    UtsukushiFantasy UtsukushiFantasy 18-21, T Mar 28

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    You ever wanted someone so bad that it hurts not to have them? That's something I'm going through. I just want to be together with you . I only love you but like you said your...
    ThisAsianLovesYou ThisAsianLovesYou 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I must set high expectations. Either that or I'm just hanging out with the wrong people....it's probably the wrong people, lol! I enjoy treating people the way I would like to be...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    After being told on Wednesday that the doctors will no longer help my son because of possibilities that he might not live very long any way. It take emotional strength, inner...
    PowerfulWomanSS PowerfulWomanSS 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Good LORD I have heard "you think too much" a lot lately. Too many times. I should probably take this under consideration. For all of my faults; the overthinking and insecurity...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F a week ago

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    Too many unsolicited dramas come my way. Please, I've already too much of my own to deal with, don't force your hate towards me, It's only ******* me off. I need a break, just a...
    SinisterSmile SinisterSmile 22-25 Mar 30

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    Don't trust too much Don't love too much Don't hope too much Because that"too much" Can hurt you so much!!!
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I've been thinking about my ex today, I had this dream and as usual it gets me thinking! I hate thinking about him, I feel like my thoughts are wasted on him! He was so gentle...
    Shortie82 Shortie82 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I care too much, and I end up getting hurt. I'm always the one let down, left behind or given for granted and I hate it. I'm always the one who tries to make up after quarrels, who...
    mynameisarianna mynameisarianna 16-17, F Apr 2

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    Three months ago I almost killed myself. Life became too much for me to handle. I took 20 Doxepin (a sleep/anxiety pill) and pleaded that God finally take me home and apologized to...
    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Why is it when you give a person who you love who disappoints regularly a chance , it never takes long for them to **** you off. My significant other asked me if I could take off...
    shunjustin shunjustin 31-35, M Apr 3

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    I used to be a full on bodybuilder who counted carbs, wen to the gym and all that. I used to think fat was such a gross and repulsive thing and that I could never live that way...
    Johnsmith110 Johnsmith110 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I just love it. They look so comfortable, seemingly without a care in the world. It's a glowing indication of summer, too. Long drives down the interstate are much happier when...
    tickleme345 tickleme345 36-40, M Mar 31

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    This is my favorite endearment/pet name/sweet nothing. ...whatever is clever. I love it live for it and love when someone calls me baby. I dont find it rude...I just love it :)
    aprylshowers330 aprylshowers330 26-30, F Apr 1

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    HI Erica loved your doggy story hope you liked mine. Ladies having sex with their doggy (especially if they live alone is more common than you would think. A lot of my "house...
    71boxer 71boxer 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 2

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    I love it when you call me big poppa
    catchphrasejones catchphrasejones 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    I love it when others block me. They are thinking of what I said and know deep down inside they know I am right. My point of view just eats away at them so they have block me...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Block me. I LOVE IT! It just means your a A hole and can't deal with me. Just means your a wimp and can't muscle through it. So don't **** with me if you don't want me to **** with...
    ThinShadow ThinShadow 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I really do. I love it when I can really talk to someone straight away without feeling awkward. I can talk to people really easily if they're easy to talk to but I'm not as great...
    musicislife00 musicislife00 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Blocked By An Autobot Seems the autobot imback0543 blocked me. The bot sent a message and seems to follow the program characteristics of other autobots: Female, 46 - 50...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    Having broken up with my ex, about 3 years ago, I went through the usual cycle of depression, obsession and craving. Its not unlike an addiction... So while I was in this funk, I...
    v33rh0ra v33rh0ra 26-30, M 11 hrs ago

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    There is a man I'm deeply in love. I met him 6 years ago in an online chat room. I was skipping through a bunch of rooms and I was fortunate enough to end up in the room he was. We...
    oathtoorder oathtoorder 18-21, F 2 days ago

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