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I Hate Making The First Move

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    He's Not Sure He's Gay - I am so in love with this boy I knew from the moment I seen him I felt something I had never felt before we have gone out a few times this week and on my...
    NotSureHesSure NotSureHesSure 22-25, M Jun 25, 2012

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    In Love Or Friendship - I am so shy I just bug right up... I can barely call someone I know! When I hide behind a computer screen, though, I am so bubbly, blunt, and/or outgoing. I...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    I Hate It With A Fiery Passion - There is little in this world that I hate more than making the first move; I mean, seriously, if there are two people who happen to have some kind...
    VioletXpanze VioletXpanze 26-30, T 1 Response Aug 26, 2013

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    My Ginger - So I'm not bad at making the first move or anything like that. I just don't like to. There's a guy I like. & I have liked him for like 6 years. he moved away for a...
    Monroe8620 Monroe8620 18-21, F May 15, 2012

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    First Move - Making the first move for me is like asking for help. No matter how many people I have helped it seems when I need help they are always busy, so I quit asking.When you...
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 7, 2011

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    My Reason For Not Asking!!! - My reason, why i would never, ever make the first move is; i know that if i did and we had a row and an arguement, they would throw it back in my face...
    welshbabe welshbabe 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    The First Move - The first move,Why is it always me,Making the move,I hate it,Always being first,Why, for a change?Can’t it be someone else?Making the first move.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 15, 2011

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    Friends? - So, on multiple sites, I have 'friends' circles.  And there are a lot of people in those circles.  And most of those people, I never ever hear from.  Why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 19, 2010

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    I hate it I'm really shy actually if u like me tell me :)
    maybeagain maybeagain 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 17

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    Do I Have To? - As much as it bugs me, I just go for it - aggressively.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Jan 11, 2012

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    When I talk to someone or hanging out, it's so annoying that whenever I ask "so what do you wanna do?" or "what would you like to talk about?" "Would you like me to buy you...
    sc1701 sc1701 16-17, M Apr 1

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    Every time that I meet someone new I know it will backfire. For example; when I started my school year. I met a girl, her and I dated, she called one of my friends ugly and I told...
    dontfeartheripper dontfeartheripper 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I hate it when I have to plan for things, I can't stand it when my friends always plan our evenings to every single detail. I'd rather just see what happens.
    mayarosesg mayarosesg 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Lol my first kiss was in the 7th grade. It was terrible! Middle school days were the worst 🙈😩😳
    KyLeone KyLeone 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    When I was 15 I was very passionate about a friend of mine a long time, we always studied together but never had the courage to say that. It turns out that a friend of mine...
    ygirl18 ygirl18 18-21, F Mar 31

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    doesnt matter the state she said she can get me wherever , im 15 Male , No pervs.
    LunarDream LunarDream 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    1. I’m kind of shy. 2. I do things on my own. 3. I don’t like it when people stare at me. 4. I play guitar. 5. I don’t know why but I’m attracted to girls. 6. Don’t say...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 6

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    I'm supposed to take someone out this weekend. Never met her before and kinda starting to freak out. I have so much anxiety that I almost want to cancel. Simply because I am...
    DigitalBlue DigitalBlue 18-21, F Apr 8

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    London is home and always will be. However, I have always wanted to make a move but it's something that scares me a lot. I am a very strong minded individual and I know I am...
    concon26 concon26 26-30, F Mar 17

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    So yesterday I was at the mall with R my boyfriend and O my friend, and my boyfriend for a while has been talking about kissing me, but I never knew when it would actually happen...
    JustAnOdinaryTeenageGirl JustAnOdinaryTeenageGirl 13-15, F Mar 24

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    Since the passing of Fred Phelps this past week I had been thinking about how I feel about him and his cults message of hate. At first I was happy. No, elated about his death. I...
    missourimule63 missourimule63 46-50 Mar 22

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    1) I really want to stay up on the computer but my eyes are hurting already. 2) People don't have a good reason for messaging me back shortly after I message them 3) I am taking...
    baseCharlie baseCharlie 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    So my husbands parents have always been weird to me. One because they are not happy together and didn't even really raise my husband and they are rude and clingy. So even before we...
    mad4maddie mad4maddie 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Can someone please take their time to read this? Its long, 8 pages but it explains a lot about the situation I am currently in. I think a lot of people could relate to this if they...
    elugo12345 elugo12345 18-21, M Apr 1

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. That's always the situation for me. It also seems like I have crushes on chicks...
    elugo12345 elugo12345 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I don't get why people even judge other people. Understand that they may have problems you couldn't dream of. Understand that maybe they think of suicide. Some people seem...
    rapfordays rapfordays 18-21, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    I feel as though I should not hate my parents, but the more I try not to... the more I do. I am 20. My parents have been apart since I was 4. They has an over 10 year divorce...
    AnimalsAreLife AnimalsAreLife 18-21, F Mar 20

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    My husband is a workaholic. We've been together for 3 years. He was always a workaholic before but now we have our first child (4 months old) and it's worse than ever. He even...
    cmoral cmoral 26-30, F Apr 8

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    I've scanned through several stories, most of which I can relate to. I too, hate being a "stepmom". I'm more of a glorified babysitter every other weekend/holiday. Ya know, the...
    JustMe2209 JustMe2209 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I have mentioned before on here that our education system sucks, and here I will be making another point as to why. Grades. Do you want to know why kids really hate school? It all...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I hate my teeth. I'm seventeen, but my teenage years have sucked. A while back in primary school I was such a happy, care free child. I knew my teeth were different, but it didn't...
    ibak12 ibak12 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I am hoping to find some relief in venting about my personal war on fat. I feel a bit narcissistic posting about vanity, but it goes deeper than my exterior appearance. My self...
    peacockskeleton peacockskeleton 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm not sure how well I will be received here but I am sharing my story nonetheless. I was widowed at the age of 32 and my son was 2 1/2. I was not looking for a relationship after...
    MomofOZ2003 MomofOZ2003 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    this happened in Shiawassee county Michigan. on saturdat 3/15/2014 I came home from work to find out from my now ex girlfriend that her oldest son which I cognitive imparment had...
    kennyeagle13 kennyeagle13 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    It's started since last year. He was my best friend, and we would always hang out. I was his friend and nobody else. But then he started liking me a lot more than I thought, and so...
    Mariella123 Mariella123 18-21, F Mar 26

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    She drives me NUTS!!!! I basically raised myself because she sleeps all day. Ever since I was little all she does is sleep all day. Sometimes I think she doesn't even care about...
    DearYou DearYou 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    White Supremacist Suspect in Kansas Jewish Center Killings Faces Hate Crime Charges OVERLAND PARK, Kansas (Reuters) - The suspect in the Passover Eve killings of three people at...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 46-50, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's longish but Every word is true. Ladies I am especially interested I'm your takes please brutal honesty....... I hope you get a laugh from my real life pains. This is my...
    googielee googielee 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I'm not positive she was my first love, but I fell hard for her long ago even though I couldn't have her. Our first date was 4-5 years after I first fell for her. I was already in...
    FU2Alexis FU2Alexis 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    My new neighbors are a bunch of self righteous vandals and thieves. I've been here for 14 years.-survived the big mortgage meltdown that cost me every single close neighbor I had...
    jayciedubb jayciedubb 46-50, M Mar 29

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    !warning spoilers! People are going to hate me for saying this but I saw frozen and I was a little disappointed. Believe me I liked it. I mean the music and animation was perfect...
    saramariani saramariani 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I don't absolutely hate him, I just hate the things he do. Every time I look at my phone, he calls me constantly. I am the type of person that like texting so that is why it bugs...
    AnimeFan90210 AnimeFan90210 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I was about 12...I know I was young but it did take a while for us to grow into it. He was 13 and we went to a summer camp. (Who says summer relationships don't last) we started...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I hate people. I hate school everyone smells and I'm bored
    cvhcutie cvhcutie 16-17, M 3 hrs ago

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    I long for the day I don't have to come on here to vent. I just found out my SD has been drinking. Like, she's 13! I wasn't of age when I first drank but I sure wasn't drinking...
    Countrychicky Countrychicky 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I am 15 years old and I want to die.. I've been depressed since a young age. When I was in my mothers stomach my real father tried killing me a number of times... Then after I was...
    MissThang69 MissThang69 13-15, F Mar 30

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    Love is a horrible thing. It takes you hostage; You become your own victim, Torturing yourself, Being unable to stop yourself. The pain it develops Awful It turns you inside out...
    pussylover0 pussylover0 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 2

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