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I Hate Making The First Move

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    I hate it I'm really shy actually

    if u like me tell me :)
    maybeagain maybeagain 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    I Am So Shy......

    I am so shy when I first meet a woman, and I rarely make the first move, so I know I miss out on a lot of opportunity.
    chillsdavis chillsdavis 56-60, M Jan 23, 2012

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    My Reason For Not Asking!!!

    My reason, why i would never, ever make the first move is; i know that if i did and we had a row and an arguement, they would throw it back in my face and i am not about to give them the chance of doing that, no! way!! I would never ask first,. So anything said, they can't say it...
    welshbabe welshbabe 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    It's not even Markung the first move actually,

    it's simply that it would really absolutely shatter me if u rejected me or made fun of me or anything. I think i really need to learn how to love myself a little.
    stonedalone stonedalone 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

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    Friends?

    So, on multiple sites, I have 'friends' circles.  And there are a lot of people in those circles.  And most of those people, I never ever hear from.  Why are they there?  So it got me thinking.  Am I supposed to be responsible for maintaining the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 19, 2010

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    My Ginger

    So I'm not bad at making the first move or anything like that. I just don't like to. There's a guy I like. & I have liked him for like 6 years. he moved away for a while. Now he's back & we're hitting it off. He's just not sure about whether or not we should date. I want to & it...
    Monroe8620 Monroe8620 18-21, F May 15, 2012

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    I Hate It With A Fiery Passion

    There is little in this world that I hate more than making the first move; I mean, seriously, if there are two people who happen to have some kind of interest in one another the opportunity to start something should be equally available to either one, not just one or the other. I...
    VioletXpanze VioletXpanze 31-35, T 1 Response Aug 26, 2013

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    First Move

    Making the first move for me is like asking for help. No matter how many people I have helped it seems when I need help they are always busy, so I quit asking.When you make the first move enough and always hear 'NO', after enough rejection you just give up.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 7, 2011

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    I Really Hate

    if you want me please you make the first move... Because if you want someone you must come on get it...
    Ozgur980 Ozgur980 31-35, M Feb 15, 2012

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    I'm Such A Wuss

    I'm horrible with this kind of stuff. Horrible at flirting, hell, even socializing can be a challenge for me, nevermind trying to seduce someone. I really do wish I was more confident with these sorts of things... my life would be a hell of a lot easier if my scared *** would do...
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 Feb 21, 2012

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    In Love Or Friendship

    I am so shy I just bug right up... I can barely call someone I know! When I hide behind a computer screen, though, I am so bubbly, blunt, and/or outgoing. I wish I could bring myself to put that to practice in real life.
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    Do I Have To?

    As much as it bugs me, I just go for it - aggressively.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Jan 11, 2012

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    He's Not Sure He's Gay

    I am so in love with this boy I knew from the moment I seen him I felt something I had never felt before we have gone out a few times this week and on my birthday he says hes unsure of his sexuality hes been with both guys and girls and he thinks he might like girls more he's...
    NotSureHesSure NotSureHesSure 22-25, M Jun 25, 2012

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    The First Move

    The first move,Why is it always me,Making the move,I hate it,Always being first,Why, for a change?Can’t it be someone else?Making the first move.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 15, 2011

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    Why I Have Trouble Making The First Move

    When I was anywhere between 8th grade and high school I asked maybe 3 girls out on dates. The answer was "no" as could be expected for someone who got badly shortchanged in the looks department and was kind of lacking in social skills but these girls would also publicly ridicule...
    SomeDudeNearBoston SomeDudeNearBoston 46-50, M Mar 5, 2013

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    I just told my mom how much I hate the name "Blake" because I was so badly bullied by him, and everytime I hear his name I have an anxiety attack. She literally laughed at me and...
    gileto gileto 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I really hate that the confessions was removed. I loved to confess things and sometimes remain anonymous. It was like talking from behind a close curtain
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 hrs ago

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    I've mastered the art of indecisiveness 😁
    marianajohnson marianajohnson 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    We were going hostelling with a mate. He'd driven in his red mini, we'd caught the train. Quite near the hostel we saw the red mini and thought wouldn't it be funny to move it...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 3 hrs ago

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    First thing I'm going to do when I get out: go water skiing.
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

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    My ******* dad chose my first and middle names. Why did my mom let him do that?
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Contempt for women: Here is an article I wrote back in 1993 for my little magazine Christian Home: We at Christian Home often point out that women sometimes wear men's clothes...
    TeachingRespect TeachingRespect 51-55, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    "If you, If you could return, don't let it burn, don't let if fade.. I'm sure I'm not being rude, but it's just your attitude It's tearing me apart, it's ruining everything And I...
    1unusualLass 1unusualLass 31-35, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Applying to jobs is soooo boring but my unemployment and medical run out soon so I have to go back to work. I'm trying to get into the right mindset to motivate myself. (Because...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I just read about an "other woman" who complained about her lover not wanting to be texted when he was with his wife. My wife had an affair and left me after 25 years of marriage...
    nozupr4u nozupr4u 56-60, M 18 hrs ago

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    Two birth control babies. Depo-provera and Ortho-evra. In that order. So 10 years ago I stopped using birth control, I haven't had anymore pregnancies either-go figure. Brilliant...
    needatimemachine needatimemachine 36-40, F 18 hrs ago

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    I wonder if other black and brown people in other countries , want to visit the states? .. After all these recent events and violent deaths of black people , getting killed for...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    There is this girl. She is the most beautiful person I could ever call a friend but she only wants to be friends. and I have ever growing feelings for this girl and I don't know if...
    Tiziler Tiziler 16-17, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I fell head over heels in love for my boyfriend. We met at a party, I was drunk and he was sober, he took care of me and made sure that no one took advantage of me. The next day I...
    CheekyXX CheekyXX 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    and it was in high skool that happen and for 2 years we stared at each other and said nothing.its been a year since I dropped out of skool,months later I found out she moved on
    oldskool818 oldskool818 18-21, M 21 hrs ago

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    So, when I was about 10 my dad got remarried to my now Step-mom, at first she acted like she liked me. She was trying to be my best friend or whatever, but I noticed that she...
    IcySongBird IcySongBird 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I didn't start out with that hate, it developed over time. I LOVED elementary school. Had plenty of friends. Learning was broken up by recess time. Everything we learned was so...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Don't understand sometimes life turns for the worse. You have achieved every thing you wanted yet you watch the love of your life just drift away. And worse of all you don't know...
    bsoul9000 bsoul9000 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    hello. I'm not a mother in law, I'm a daughter in law. I have a terrible situation and I need some advice from someone on the other side. I've ruined my husband's family. I didn't...
    thedaughterinlawfromhell thedaughterinlawfromhell 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've never liked to use the word hate. Not many people have made this list until now! Technically she is not my mother in law, she is my boyfriend's mother, and she makes me...
    rebekahmh rebekahmh 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey everyone I'm new here. I have no children of my own, but I am engaged to someone with three daughters. We have been together for more than 6 years. He has three daughters who...
    stepmom2be1990 stepmom2be1990 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've got to get rid of my anger towards my Dad. The only thing I know to do is to write about how I feel. I strongly hate him. First let me just say I was raised right by both of...
    Zach4u92 Zach4u92 22-25, M 5 days ago

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