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I Hate Making The First Move

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 482 People

    I hate it I'm really shy actually

    if u like me tell me :)
    maybeagain maybeagain 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    He's Not Sure He's Gay

    I am so in love with this boy I knew from the moment I seen him I felt something I had never felt before we have gone out a few times this week and on my birthday he says hes unsure of his sexuality hes been with both guys and girls and he thinks he might like girls more he's...
    NotSureHesSure NotSureHesSure 22-25, M Jun 25, 2012

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    It's not even Markung the first move actually,

    it's simply that it would really absolutely shatter me if u rejected me or made fun of me or anything. I think i really need to learn how to love myself a little.
    stonedalone stonedalone 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

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    In Love Or Friendship

    I am so shy I just bug right up... I can barely call someone I know! When I hide behind a computer screen, though, I am so bubbly, blunt, and/or outgoing. I wish I could bring myself to put that to practice in real life.
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    I Am So Shy......

    I am so shy when I first meet a woman, and I rarely make the first move, so I know I miss out on a lot of opportunity.
    chillsdavis chillsdavis 56-60, M Jan 23, 2012

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    I Hate It With A Fiery Passion

    There is little in this world that I hate more than making the first move; I mean, seriously, if there are two people who happen to have some kind of interest in one another the opportunity to start something should be equally available to either one, not just one or the other. I...
    VioletXpanze VioletXpanze 31-35, T 1 Response Aug 26, 2013

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    Do I Have To?

    As much as it bugs me, I just go for it - aggressively.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Jan 11, 2012

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    The First Move

    The first move,Why is it always me,Making the move,I hate it,Always being first,Why, for a change?Can’t it be someone else?Making the first move.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 15, 2011

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    My Reason For Not Asking!!!

    My reason, why i would never, ever make the first move is; i know that if i did and we had a row and an arguement, they would throw it back in my face and i am not about to give them the chance of doing that, no! way!! I would never ask first,. So anything said, they can't say it...
    welshbabe welshbabe 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    I Really Hate

    if you want me please you make the first move... Because if you want someone you must come on get it...
    Ozgur980 Ozgur980 31-35, M Feb 15, 2012

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    First Move

    Making the first move for me is like asking for help. No matter how many people I have helped it seems when I need help they are always busy, so I quit asking.When you make the first move enough and always hear 'NO', after enough rejection you just give up.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 7, 2011

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    Why I Have Trouble Making The First Move

    When I was anywhere between 8th grade and high school I asked maybe 3 girls out on dates. The answer was "no" as could be expected for someone who got badly shortchanged in the looks department and was kind of lacking in social skills but these girls would also publicly ridicule...
    SomeDudeNearBoston SomeDudeNearBoston 46-50, M Mar 5, 2013

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    My Ginger

    So I'm not bad at making the first move or anything like that. I just don't like to. There's a guy I like. & I have liked him for like 6 years. he moved away for a while. Now he's back & we're hitting it off. He's just not sure about whether or not we should date. I want to & it...
    Monroe8620 Monroe8620 18-21, F May 15, 2012

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    I'm Such A Wuss

    I'm horrible with this kind of stuff. Horrible at flirting, hell, even socializing can be a challenge for me, nevermind trying to seduce someone. I really do wish I was more confident with these sorts of things... my life would be a hell of a lot easier if my scared *** would do...
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 Feb 21, 2012

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    Friends?

    So, on multiple sites, I have 'friends' circles.  And there are a lot of people in those circles.  And most of those people, I never ever hear from.  Why are they there?  So it got me thinking.  Am I supposed to be responsible for maintaining the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 19, 2010

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    insomniacc insomniacc 18-21, F Mar 28

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    It was raining and I was swimming at my cousins and they have a nice poop well me and my cousin and crush were swimming this was last July and my cousin was like what's the matter...
    purplelover33 purplelover33 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I break all my promises thats why talking to her hurts her.
    NomadxAngelx117 NomadxAngelx117 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    My dad created that. Then employers. So basically every greedy jerk.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 22

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    Since putting up a better photo of me with big smile and flattering my profile page. Two days ago: 7 views Yesterday: 10 views Today: 4 views Messages? None. Except a wink from...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses Mar 21

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    hellokitty206 hellokitty206 18-21 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I have had several opportunities, but I am not the person who wants to make the first move. All of my friends have kissed people before. And I'm all like... "I now know how Leo...
    NobodyOfConcern NobodyOfConcern 13-15, F Mar 25

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    Today my feelings about my mother in law went from "I can't stand her" to "I hate her!" I went to Home Depot today with my best friend for 45 minutes (total time out of the house...
    LGLlove LGLlove 31-35, F 32 mins ago

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    Where to begin. First off let me say I appreciate each and every comment and opinion, whether you believe it's best for me to move on which I've already heard a million times or I...
    Wantingtofixthepast Wantingtofixthepast 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband and I pay half the rent, the utilities, and buy all our own groceries, but he tells everyone that he supports us. Not only does he not buy us food, but he eats all ours...
    jennytressler jennytressler 41-45 Apr 6

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    That moment you are making love to your girlfriend and shes holding you very tightly and biting you! You dont even realize when you hit ****** you can see it all over you and her...
    Aku7879 Aku7879 22-25, M 31 mins ago

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    Im not sad anymore, Im angry. I hate them so much,i want them to feel the pain they pain the put me through. I moved 20minutes away and went to a new school around 5 months ago...
    SleepIsLife321 SleepIsLife321 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I really want to just leave and never see or speak to them again. Growing up i just never really felt loved by them. They never showed affection towards me, especially my dad. They...
    blooop123 blooop123 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Ever since I was little, I was jealous of girls at school who's moms seemed to always be there for them. Helping out at school, going with them to Girl Scouts trips, etc. I thought...
    sunnysenpai sunnysenpai 13-15, F Apr 2

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    Hi everyone, there's something I need to get of my chest and it's killing me. I'm a 27 year old woman who recently got out of a relationship with a muslim man. I met him about 7...
    Katef88 Katef88 22-25 Apr 8

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    My daughter recently told me she is pregnant. She didn't tell me upfront, I had to ask a few times, because I notice her body changing. She still lives at home, but her boyfriend...
    HeyJ HeyJ 31-35 Apr 9

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    If this is you follow my tips! This is my experience and tips: So this is bacically when your first starting high school in year 7 or it can be for anything really. So I remember...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F a week ago

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    I'm not even that thankful anymore. Now I just hate and detest it.
    jrf9782 jrf9782 31-35, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I went to a SADD (students against destructive decisions) convention and speakers kept telling us that we should talk about stuff that we went through or that we are going through...
    nobodyknows13 nobodyknows13 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    As I write the is, overwhelming guilt best describes what I feel. I have what some would consider a good life: married with two daughters, and employed as a nurse. I acknowledge...
    LanguishingSoul LanguishingSoul 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I have been with my boyfriend for five years. he was a cousin of a friend that I had. when we first met he was drinking and I was sober, I was not really into the bar scene but...
    bubbatysbiimaa bubbatysbiimaa 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I have never made any large posts on here about my mother, because my subconscious knows that if I did so, I would probably be making posts about her nearly every day. My general...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    I'm so angry. I have 2 best friends, I'll call them 1 and 2. My best friend of 3 years is 1 and 2 has been in our group for 2 years. We had a mother best friend, "3" who moved...
    perthclo perthclo 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hates a powerful word and bet step children pick up on it. I know how it feels to receive hate cause of sexuality. We have three beautiful children 2 daughters 15 and 13 and son 11...
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have moved back to my hometown and I can safely say I absolutely did not plan for things to turn out this way. Why did I move back? Well, LIFE happened. I have been stuck here...
    AThousandLies AThousandLies 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm just so done. I can't stand it anymore. I need to get out of this house. First it was my mother's house. She was horrid to live with. My boyfriend lived with me at that time...
    MichiDesu MichiDesu 18-21 Mar 25

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    So things got better, because they broke up in the start of this year (they didn’t even last 6 months, this shows what a b**** she really it and my dad finally realised it.) From...
    Secret179688 Secret179688 18-21 1 Response Mar 21

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    I had the worst day. it's not just one of those off days when you forget your homework at home, or miss the bus. it was first hour and my classmate behind me just collapsed. I...
    jadaenderson22 jadaenderson22 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 26