I Hate Manipulative People

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    Known WAY too many people like this during my

    lifetime. They engineer situations and circumstances to suit themselves and once I discover who they are and why they do it, that's it! I'm gone! I don't care if it's family or colleagues or bosses. Once they know they can, they always will! I've left the odd job or made...
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Nov 15, 2014

    I'm manipulating, I never try to manipulate

    others or like people trying to manipulate me. the only people I manipulate are the ones who think I'm their pawn, treat me like an equal and I'll treat you the same
    Zurea Zurea
    26-30, T
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    I was taking to this guy then he stared

    harassing me about dating him and I said no because I can't date online then he said "And if you don't love me back I will k*ll my self because of U" I told him I loved him and **** I don't ;_; like rn I'm having so much anxiety
    sealare sealare
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 26, 2014

    Messed Up Mentors

    seeing that people fall for the same tricks from the same type of person here on EP over and over again, is really just sad..............maybe they haven't been on this site long enough to know what happened to those who believed that person............maybe it wasn't their time...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    Aug 4, 2013

    You manipulated him with the sex also .

    ....he's screwed up because of you..
    imup51 imup51
    51-55, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    I Hate That My Mum Is Manipulative

    I just had a big fight with my dad earlier and I still can feel so much hate towards him...at that moment I wished him nothing but death. After I calmed my **** down, I started going through my loathing of my father. I then realised that I actually think he is an ok dad; he...
    anothercover anothercover
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

    Oh dear, you people would hate me

    so much... Though, I never took advantage of anyone who was a good person to me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 26, 2014

    I have been a three year volunteer in a

    horribly abusive controlling relationship, I used to have many friends and family, but have had to sever all ties in order to survive here....I want more for myself
    Mariposaxx1 Mariposaxx1
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 17

    In my personal analysis of this.

    .....and nobody is here I think he's fked up sexualky Because of you......
    imup51 imup51
    51-55, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    There was a time when I used to become a victim

    very easily. I can see through them now and I thank those people in the past for giving me early lessons on how to notice a manipulator. It has made me thick skinned. So while I smile when they do the monkey dance all around me in attempt to get what they want from me, I see...
    Susana1985 Susana1985
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 26, 2014

    I let people to manipulate me

    for long time then when i had enough , i cut them from my life completely , what's wrong with me?
    farfar1984 farfar1984
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 15

    Stare at this hacking slob

    and her pretty long greasy hair... until I say stop.....I think I'll wear red lipstick today the hacking bully manipulative slob loves when I wear it....
    imup51 imup51
    51-55, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    Spreads Like A Virus

    I have a 30 year old daughter that has destroyed any kind of relationship with me because she is so manipulative. The worst thing about it is that she has taught her oldest daughter to be the same way, not to mention manipulating my mother and other family members. Everything has...
    gardenvariety101 gardenvariety101
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2011

    Manipulative people will try

    and suppress how great you really are out of fear that you’ll realize that you can do and are better than their ways. They’ll put up an illusion that you aren’t as great as you really are just so you don’t feel good enough to do better. They’ll feed your smallest...
    marthabenzis marthabenzis
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 19, 2014

    She Makes My Life Miserable

    She is my roommate and the owner of the place and she is currently unemployed. When she had a job, she never even talked to me. After she got laid off, she realized that she might need my help whether its for learning things on the computer or even as she feared I might leave her...
    newmsuv newmsuv
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2011

    and I am afraid that there are loads on this

    site. Be careful folks ! Be very careful !!!!!!!!!!!!!! and no.....how hilarious...I am NOT some guy called Jeff , Indian and etc... Pure lies and fabrications and when proof is demanded it is not obtained......so..
    ailleurs7 ailleurs7
    70+, F
    Jun 1, 2015

    So, a guy got mad because I wouldn't send him

    pictures of myself, then said he went out drinking because I "broke his heart". The he continued to say that he was drunk, and was driving home drunk, and if anything happened to him it would be my fault since I didn't send him pictures of myself. Like, seriously?! I don't see...
    Rachel335 Rachel335
    18-21, F
    18 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    I don't like feeling like I am being influenced

    or manipulated to feel or think about things in a certain way. I especially don't like being lied to
    MonarchBritIX MonarchBritIX
    22-25, M
    Mar 2

    Being A Victim Of A Monipulative Person

    Ok my story is very long and complicated but I will try to make it a little shorter and concise. See, I met this girl about a year ago and became good friends. She had 2 teenagers that I seemed to get close to. The bank did tell her that her house will be in foreclosure in 2 and...
    dear34 dear34
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 13, 2012

    Just found out a friend was not really a friend

    at all just a fair weather taker....
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77
    36-40, F
    Nov 15, 2014

    Goddamned ******* who couldn't keep their

    ************* mouth shut ugh just die already. You're ruining my future.
    buckedteeth buckedteeth
    18-21
    1 Response Sep 12, 2014

    Stare at this hacking slob

    and her pretty long greasy hair... until I say stop.....I think I'll wear red lipstick today the hacking bully manipulative slob loves when I wear it....
    imup51 imup51
    51-55, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    Ugh. Honestly, these are the worst kinds of

    people. Pure scum. It's even worse when they try to hide it, and try to act like they are your best friend when they're really not. I once knew someone who acted like he understood when I told him about all the times I had been taken advantage of for various things. Oh yea...
    gayin98 gayin98
    18-21, M
    2 Responses May 26, 2014

    She's got every mother fking excuse in the book

    for the sex issue Computers tapping all her sh.t....... File this bafoon in......afraid of what Hon a fat cow ?
    imup51 imup51
    51-55, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    I was always in a relationship ,

    with manipulator ,sad and needy people ,including my parents , it's like ,they find me , recently i found out my best friend is also like that now i am so upset and angry ,first because after all those experiences with manipulators i didnot recognize this one and second how dare...
    farfar1984 farfar1984
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    You'll say anything to make me feel like I'm

    wrong right now. I just wanna do the right thing. i hate that I let everyone know how to get to me. i can't deal with that. I shouldn't feel responsible for anyone else or their feelings..but I do.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2015

    I know this girl who cant stop manipulating

    people. She wants to be my roommate and at one point she was my friend. she was my friend until I found out how she really was. She is a heavy woman and constantly blames back problems so she has an excuse not to do things like clean or watch after her own kid. I feel like im...
    Jade121 Jade121
    18-21, F
    Feb 21, 2015

    I'm not saying it because I think your low end

    trash if you were high end I would say the same thing He doesn't know what the fk he's doing because of you and he's alone in all of it.....he has no support I don't think he ever did have support
    imup51 imup51
    51-55, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    How to Deal With a Manipulative Friend Ever

    had a friend that constantly puts you down and humiliates you, but still manages to make you feel guilty? You don't have to put up with it. 1..Determine if your friend is being manipulative. The signs are very easy to spot, but most victims don't believe they're being...
    nivanvc nivanvc
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 27, 2014

    This guy would always talk crudely

    and disrespect me. He said he would kill himself if I stopped talking to him. That was the last straw and so I blocked his ***. I won't be manipulated in such a way. I hope he doesn't decide to get back at me somehow, since he seems pretty unstable. But I had alerted the mods to...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 23

    Nobody fears you Hon

    and never did why because your wired for years as a bully fat cow.... Now...file the ***** in
    imup51 imup51
    51-55, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    I Hate Manipulative When You Manipulate & Tell

    Lie There are two people in this world, The good and the bad. Which one do you belong? Which road you're taking...? I hate you when you manipulate & tell lie. Even in simple things, you always have to lie. How do you live by these twisted stories? My friend...
    nivanvc nivanvc
    36-40, M
    Feb 27, 2014

    Yeah people try with me

    but the more they try the more I get pissed and the less likely it will work.
    crookedjay crookedjay
    31-35, M
    May 26, 2014

    I always notice these awful drama sewing

    manipulative people always end up being popular and loved with a backing. I guess this world is all a stage to get your way.
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77
    36-40, F
    Aug 23, 2015

    I Hate Manipulative People

    Manipulative people are those that treat you like a puppet.  I have a young sister that's like that. If she doesn't get her way with a person she tells lies about the person.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    66-70
    Dec 20, 2011

    Just recently confronted on of my in laws about

    **** talking. This was a family meeting BTW. She said that she said certain things, but didn't mean to say some things in a offensive way, so that means she didn't say it. Which makes me a liar, and her a peacemaker. She had everyone convinced that she is this perfect person...
    hm3mac hm3mac
    26-30, F
    Feb 5, 2015

    Maybe not hate, but I sure can't stand them.

    Just play your cards face up and we will get along swimmingly. The more manipulative, the more I will resist. I'm not hard to get along with when you are straight up with me!
    Thinklessfeelmore Thinklessfeelmore
    46-50, M
    3 Responses May 14, 2015

    Manipulative People Are Stupid

    I dislike manipulative people; that's an understatement, because they really suck ***! These people have no respect for other people's boundaries, and give a lot of attitude if they hear the word "no" from the person they are trying to manipulate. This happened to me today - I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 9, 2012
    imup51 imup51
    51-55, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    My friend likes this girl

    that we both work with. He asked me what I thought about him asking her out. I told him it wasn't my place to say who he can or cannot date but god I wish he'd pick a better brand of girl! I know this girl is a user and just an all-around jerk and I guess she knows I'm onto her...
    WindsomeFlurry WindsomeFlurry
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014

    Spineless Sidekicks Are Just As Bad

    Manipulative people always seem to be drawn to a certain type of person, unsurprisingly it's usually someone who doesn't have strong opinions and who will cave in to pressure easily. I'm always amazed at how much control they seem to have over their weak friend and often wonder...
    mistygrey mistygrey
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Jul 13, 2009
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