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I Hate Men That Abuse Women And Children

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    Another Victim Of Child Sexual/Emotional Abuse

    A young woman who has a popular channel as a beauty guru on YouTube uploaded a very frightening and horrible video. I only noticed and watched this today. It was featured on The Young Turks channel. This is where I saw it. I have messaged her encouraging her to file a complaint...
    forgiveisdevine forgiveisdevine 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I Hate Men Who Beat Women

    i think women who beat women are punks never put they hands on a women a women should be treated like she is a queen a man should respect n love n support a women and suppose to care about women feelings now if a man hit a women child he going 2 far no man should ever think about...
    selfmadewanda selfmadewanda 13-15, F Jul 24, 2011

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    Anyone who would do that is not called a man

    where I come from, he's called a coward and will not last long around here until he had an "accident". The men around here just won't tolerate it... be warned.
    Manfromthemountain Manfromthemountain 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    I see you abuse a woman

    or child in any way you best believe things are gonna escalate quickly between you and me. And the odds wont be in your favor. Man this topic gets me so heated
    TCrawford02 TCrawford02 18-21, M Jan 21

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    I Hate It Also

    I hate men who abuse women and children, but i also hate women who abuse children,,it seems people seem to forget about woman being abuser...I once read a book called "a child called it" what that guys mom done to him was horrible
    mulder mulder 26-30 1 Response May 23, 2012

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    In the Arab world, in certain countries like

    Saudi Arabia; men are in control. I despise that fact. The fact that such a foul country, except for the holy grounds of course, represent the rest of the Arab world. Women are not treated fairly there, they are not even allowed to drive. Sone if the royal family princesses have...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F May 5

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    Abusive Teen

    My mom is a teacher and she had students with a lot of problems and that are poor. But today she told me about her one student that I know who I guess knocked up another student that belonged to a different teacher, lets call this student 'Tommy'. The girl who is pregnant...
    ISellCrackForTheCIA ISellCrackForTheCIA 18-21, F Mar 9, 2013

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    As A Child, I Learned How Not To Be...

    as a young child, I was in a household with an abusive father> when I was 8, my mother took my hand & we walked permanently away ...my mother put herself through school while working & raising me, she was a great woman... I have never voluntarily spoken with or met my...
    photowon photowon 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 16, 2011

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    I've Been There Done That...

    When I was growing up, My father was very abusive. In every way a man could be. He would tell everyone that they were ugly and they were fat. Hitting on us kids is one of the things that scared me the most..but then the sexual things started happening and I changed my mind that...
    HopingForABetterTomorrow HopingForABetterTomorrow 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    Lets Make This World Free Of Abusers

    Abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional, verbal, or even negligence, dunno which one is the worst, but to me, all of this is torturing brutally and killing what is inside. I saw one documentary last night about abusing children and women. In that documentary, which is totally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    oscarW88 oscarW88 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    You have ruined my childhood

    and for that I'll never forgive you.
    nottobevelealed nottobevelealed 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    Jesus And Truth

    irony... punish your kid for telling the truth, and s/he will never do it again.... because it is SOME HUGE MISTAKE... it is only a mistake because you are ashamed of yourself, I hope you ******* die shamefaced, because I won't stop telling the TRUTH!!!!! I will tell it until...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F Sep 6, 2012

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    Finding Adults Who Are Offended By Being Told They Are Predators Is Offensive

    This is a case of I dirlligaf. For starters, only mature men and women with a conscience will understand what I am about to say. While this site is apparently a free for all. A platform if you will for just about any subject albeit gross or disgusting. The very idea that it is...
    forgiveisdevine forgiveisdevine 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    My dad was abusive...

    .And trust me if a man were to ever hit me you best believe I'm goin hit you back. And if I were to ever see my stepdad hit my mom...he can pick out his casket.
    Smileeboo Smileeboo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Well. This is an unfortunately large issue,

    globally. (Especially in India-God help those women) And, sadly, many overlook that this also happens to men. more than you'd think. Thank you gender roles for making both sexes completely helpless and socially tormented in this situation (at least in US where they tag the...
    Cryx Cryx 16-17, F Dec 3, 2013

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    WisePearls WisePearls 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    Abusing a woman or child wont make you THE MAN

    it makes you THE ANIMAL or thats just disgrace for animals as they have feelings and wont hurt there loved ones
    nouraruon nouraruon 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    I came from an abusive background.

    I was abused mentally and physically by both of my parents and my older brother. Thankfully I was removed from that situation when I was 6 but it still left me scarred, Some of those scars I can still see on my skin and the others are buried so deep that they still haunt me...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 10

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    Here It Goes

    We'll I grew up watching my mom being physically abused. Then I ended up I'm two abusive relationships myself. One being with the father of my child. I don't know why hurt keeps following me. I used to think maybe it's bc I seen abuse happen.... Being locked in bathrooms, seeing...
    bellabella411 bellabella411 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    I have been in abusive relationships/marriages.

    I have a messed up back that has caused me significant problems.
    tlentz67 tlentz67 46-50 Feb 4

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    Yeah says it a in the tittle been through sone

    stuff that no one should have to go through and hope no one does!
    sedgy1234 sedgy1234 22-25, F Feb 6

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    Inappropraite

    What I don't get is why the abuser stays with the person. I know it's probably a psychological thing but still. It's wrong for ANY human being to abuse another. Especially a man. A man in the family is supposed to be strong, but at the same time, kind and loving. If that man is...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    Justice

    Justice needs to happen to men for abuse. If they hit a woman they should be beaten to feel their pain. If they hit a child just shoot them. They don't deserve to live for hitting a child. If they rape anyone they should be castrated so they can't do it again. Mental abuse...
    koolkatjossie koolkatjossie 36-40, F Feb 5, 2013

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    I really hate anyone

    that abuses women and children because it can be men or women. I had an experience when I was younger with an abusive step mother and ever since that I've really just despised abusive people. No one deserves to be treated that way. Ever.
    MadzG MadzG 13-15, F Jul 20

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    Long story short... My biological father is a

    ****! He used to always touch and beat my sister my mom and I. On the night my parents broke while I was only 9 years old, he grabbed my mom by the throat and said "I could ******* kill you right now" ever since I've been having these nightmares of grabbing the people I love the...
    matthughes22 matthughes22 16-17, M 6 Responses Jan 1

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    Freedom Of Existence

    Why do men have to control? What do they want from life? How do they see society today? Do they accept relationships have fundamentally changed because of the social pressure of the facts of life, the needs for greater income in face of greater costs, and hey need to come up...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F Oct 13, 2013

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    100%

    I believe in the title above 100%. I was abused as a child by my step father, and he also beat my mother. I grew up hating wife beaters and child beaters. I would never do anything like that. Even though some of my friends may think that I'm a pervert, I would never, ever...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    Abuse

    when a mother resents her children for taking everything away from her, her husband mostly, and everyday after that for years to come lets her children know it, by ignoring, neglecting and only giving love and affection to her husband.. if I had to chose between mental and...
    danii88 danii88 22-25, F 1 Response May 7, 2013

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    Live To Tell

    I hate women who abuse children too. I believe in gender equality. Anyway, when I was about 8 years old, i lived with my parents and my older sister and younger brother. The house next to ours belonged to my grandma and aunt so everyday, I would go over to my grandmas house for a...
    Footjobmenow Footjobmenow 18-21, M Jul 10, 2012

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    No Reason For It!

    Men who abuse woman or children verbally, physically, or emotionally are cowards who had a poor upbringing and look to take it out on innocent others after they lure them into their trap by playing Mr. Nice guy and being deceitful. I think it stinks and these abusers will, one...
    bobbo61 bobbo61 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    I am survivor of domestic abuse .

    . I am proud to say I am living each day one day at a time .. I went back so many times believing his lies .. Once you look at the tricks and the manipulation of what they do to you to think they love you is sick sick sick !!! I could tell one person still dealing with there...
    jennz98 jennz98 36-40 1 Response Feb 4

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    I Was A Dustman / Garbage Collector

    As I've already stated a did this for 17 years in east London including the Tower of London if anyone reading this had the same type of work please get in touch
    Rogerrowley1947 Rogerrowley1947 66-70, M Sep 7, 2013

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    Yup.

    Don't they all? Then they wanna play that whole generalizing and stereotype excuse. Men are the most destructive force known. They destroy lives be it women, children, wildlife and their own "kind". Put them in camps and fix them. I hope they find an entire planet for them to...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F Apr 30, 2013

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    And Vice Verca

    It's not any better the other way
    Saharo Saharo 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    I wanted to let my daughter

    and her friend hang out, so I met the mom and dad (divorced) and the dad lives close to us. I heard her tell me she gets beat with a belt. I want to save her.
    CaptureEverything CaptureEverything 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Second Chance Mistake

    I gave my ex a second chance after being seperated for 18 months by a three year pfa which i ended early because i thought he changed his violent ways.He moved back in with me and for a while things were fine. I thought we could marry and have a have kids. I was not prepared for...
    lizcomet484 lizcomet484 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Special Place In Hell...

    for these people. My wife suffered this when very young and innocent little girl. The pain is very difficult to deal with for many years (maybe forever). I would love to have this person in a sound prof room for a week or two. Just him and me!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    The Truth Hidden Deep Inside

    When i was just a little girl i use to watch my father abuse my sisters and my mother. he was an evil man. when we had our family over for dinner i did something to upset him and he started chocking me to the point where i was turning blue. he brought me into this world but how...
    breexoxo breexoxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 23, 2011

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    I Think The Title Says It All

    There really is nothing more to say about that.
    iwritebiographies iwritebiographies 41-45, F Jun 14, 2011

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    I was in a really bad relationship

    for 7 years. I had two children with him so I thought I should stay with him for our kids I learnt that was not a smart idea as our children seen sooo much violence and hurt they should have not seen. I still go through emotional abuse from him but I don't let my children see...
    bmclove bmclove 26-30, F Dec 29, 2013

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    "Men" that abuse women

    and children are usually the ones that won't fight a real man because they are too cowardly and take it out on someone who may not be able to defend themselves.
    dfabsar dfabsar 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Don't call them "men".

    They don't deserve any of that.
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M Jan 16

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    Why do you have to throw your masculinity

    around? You want to hit someone do it to someone who can hit you back.
    richierich22 richierich22 16-17, M Jan 7

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    Abuse

    As an abused child I was abused in every way. So I am very quick to come to any childs defence. In my first marriage I was beat on almost daily. Anyone that abuses someone else is nothing but trash. I do not believe that a spanking is abuse though.
    Enchantress4ever Enchantress4ever 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    Cody Beck Tempe AZ

    This individual is a animal sexual abuser & has adfmited to a strong disire to abuse female children. This is being posted for public safety & can be proven. Please keep your children (human & otherwise) away from this individual. Thank You
    anameishere anameishere 66-70 Feb 23, 2013

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    My stepfather was ruthless in the attacks on me.

    He saved it all for me. We are extremely close now and he is a different person than he once was. He has explained why he felt it was the only way and apologized many times over the years and has taught me to be a better man. People can change.
    Addison87 Addison87 26-30, M Jan 20

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    Please See Below ▼▼▼▼

    Susan Smith,Andrea Yates,Casey Anthony,Mistie Atkinson,Mary Kay Letourneau,Debra LaFave,Pamela Rogers Turner,Pamela Smart--All child abusers !!!! FACT:The majority of child abusers ARE women !!!! http://www.dads-r-us.se/wp-content/uploads/WND_The-Big-List-Of-Female-Predators.pdf...
    nylonslipmaniac nylonslipmaniac 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    Real Men Do Not Abuse

    This may sound silly coming from a little ol' CD/TV like myself, but here goes.... A man, who is secure in himself does not resort to violence against his own family for ANY reason. That violence should be reserved for anyone wishing to cause them bodily harm. Despite my own...
    DarknessCalls DarknessCalls 41-45, T 4 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    My ex wife would lose it if I used the wrong words to answer her.... Everytime I was late even 5 or 10 minutes she accused me of cheating. She'd threaten to leave if she didn't get...
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    It's more than just mentally abused but the physical pain has healed faster than the mental, My entire life I was a punching bag for my brother, all of my friends and sometimes...
    LunaValentine LunaValentine 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 15