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I Hate Men That Abuse Women And Children

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    I was in a really bad relationship

    for 7 years. I had two children with him so I thought I should stay with him for our kids I learnt that was not a smart idea as our children seen sooo much violence and hurt they should have not seen. I still go through emotional abuse from him but I don't let my children see...
    bmclove bmclove 26-30, F Dec 29, 2013

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    Real Men Do Not Abuse

    This may sound silly coming from a little ol' CD/TV like myself, but here goes.... A man, who is secure in himself does not resort to violence against his own family for ANY reason. That violence should be reserved for anyone wishing to cause them bodily harm. Despite my own...
    DarknessCalls DarknessCalls 41-45, T 4 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    Finding Adults Who Are Offended By Being Told They Are Predators Is Offensive

    This is a case of I dirlligaf. For starters, only mature men and women with a conscience will understand what I am about to say. While this site is apparently a free for all. A platform if you will for just about any subject albeit gross or disgusting. The very idea that it is...
    forgiveisdevine forgiveisdevine 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    No Reason For It!

    Men who abuse woman or children verbally, physically, or emotionally are cowards who had a poor upbringing and look to take it out on innocent others after they lure them into their trap by playing Mr. Nice guy and being deceitful. I think it stinks and these abusers will, one...
    bobbo61 bobbo61 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    Inappropraite

    What I don't get is why the abuser stays with the person. I know it's probably a psychological thing but still. It's wrong for ANY human being to abuse another. Especially a man. A man in the family is supposed to be strong, but at the same time, kind and loving. If that man is...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    Long story short... My biological father is a

    ****! He used to always touch and beat my sister my mom and I. On the night my parents broke while I was only 9 years old, he grabbed my mom by the throat and said "I could ******* kill you right now" ever since I've been having these nightmares of grabbing the people I love the...
    matthughes22 matthughes22 16-17, M 6 Responses Jan 1

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    Please See Below ▼▼▼▼

    Susan Smith,Andrea Yates,Casey Anthony,Mistie Atkinson,Mary Kay Letourneau,Debra LaFave,Pamela Rogers Turner,Pamela Smart--All child abusers !!!! FACT:The majority of child abusers ARE women !!!! http://www.dads-r-us.se/wp-content/uploads/WND_The-Big-List-Of-Female-Predators.pdf...
    nylonslipmaniac nylonslipmaniac 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    I spend my days waiting

    for something to happen. I double check my locks, I always watch behind me, I'm always paranoid. Why? Because of you. I don't want to be living in fear anymore, it's starting to really wear me thin.
    nottobevelealed nottobevelealed 16-17, F Apr 2

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    They Should Be Beat By Guys Bigger Than Them!

      Men who abuse women & children should have the same things done to them. They think that they're all big & bad..but they aren't like that around other guys. Around other guys..they are *******. They just like to be able to "rule" over someone & most of them get away with it. I...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F Oct 10, 2012

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    I wanted to let my daughter

    and her friend hang out, so I met the mom and dad (divorced) and the dad lives close to us. I heard her tell me she gets beat with a belt. I want to save her.
    CaptureEverything CaptureEverything 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    100%

    I believe in the title above 100%. I was abused as a child by my step father, and he also beat my mother. I grew up hating wife beaters and child beaters. I would never do anything like that. Even though some of my friends may think that I'm a pervert, I would never, ever...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    I Hate Men Who Beat Women

    i think women who beat women are punks never put they hands on a women a women should be treated like she is a queen a man should respect n love n support a women and suppose to care about women feelings now if a man hit a women child he going 2 far no man should ever think about...
    selfmadewanda selfmadewanda 13-15, F Jul 24, 2011

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    To Catch A Predator

    This is not to be tolerated on any site on the web. This is not to be tolerated on any physical site in the non-cyber world. Whatever financial or political stature you have. Whatever religious or business position you hold. To be sure there are many who have throughout history...
    forgiveisdevine forgiveisdevine 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Hatred And Irony

    For years my father beat me, my sisters, and and mom. At first my dad only would hit my mom but he beat her to near death so many times that even today she flinches from touch. Anyways, at 3 my dad began hitting me and my sisters. In the beginning it was only a few bruises, but...
    Demonicfemale Demonicfemale 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2013

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    I've Been There Done That...

    When I was growing up, My father was very abusive. In every way a man could be. He would tell everyone that they were ugly and they were fat. Hitting on us kids is one of the things that scared me the most..but then the sexual things started happening and I changed my mind that...
    HopingForABetterTomorrow HopingForABetterTomorrow 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    I Hate It Also

    I hate men who abuse women and children, but i also hate women who abuse children,,it seems people seem to forget about woman being abuser...I once read a book called "a child called it" what that guys mom done to him was horrible
    mulder mulder 26-30 1 Response May 23, 2012

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    Second Chance Mistake

    I gave my ex a second chance after being seperated for 18 months by a three year pfa which i ended early because i thought he changed his violent ways.He moved back in with me and for a while things were fine. I thought we could marry and have a have kids. I was not prepared for...
    lizcomet484 lizcomet484 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Don't call them "men".

    They don't deserve any of that.
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M Jan 16

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    And Vice Verca

    It's not any better the other way
    Saharo Saharo 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    oscarW88 oscarW88 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    Why do you have to throw your masculinity

    around? You want to hit someone do it to someone who can hit you back.
    richierich22 richierich22 16-17, M Jan 7

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    Abuse

    when a mother resents her children for taking everything away from her, her husband mostly, and everyday after that for years to come lets her children know it, by ignoring, neglecting and only giving love and affection to her husband.. if I had to chose between mental and...
    danii88 danii88 22-25, F 1 Response May 7, 2013

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    I have been in abusive relationships/marriages.

    I have a messed up back that has caused me significant problems.
    tlentz67 tlentz67 46-50 Feb 4

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    Another Victim Of Child Sexual/Emotional Abuse

    A young woman who has a popular channel as a beauty guru on YouTube uploaded a very frightening and horrible video. I only noticed and watched this today. It was featured on The Young Turks channel. This is where I saw it. I have messaged her encouraging her to file a complaint...
    forgiveisdevine forgiveisdevine 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I came from an abusive background.

    I was abused mentally and physically by both of my parents and my older brother. Thankfully I was removed from that situation when I was 6 but it still left me scarred, Some of those scars I can still see on my skin and the others are buried so deep that they still haunt me...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 10

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    I am survivor of domestic abuse .

    . I am proud to say I am living each day one day at a time .. I went back so many times believing his lies .. Once you look at the tricks and the manipulation of what they do to you to think they love you is sick sick sick !!! I could tell one person still dealing with there...
    jennz98 jennz98 36-40 1 Response Feb 4

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    Here It Goes

    We'll I grew up watching my mom being physically abused. Then I ended up I'm two abusive relationships myself. One being with the father of my child. I don't know why hurt keeps following me. I used to think maybe it's bc I seen abuse happen.... Being locked in bathrooms, seeing...
    bellabella411 bellabella411 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    Well. This is an unfortunately large issue,

    globally. (Especially in India-God help those women) And, sadly, many overlook that this also happens to men. more than you'd think. Thank you gender roles for making both sexes completely helpless and socially tormented in this situation (at least in US where they tag the...
    Cryx Cryx 16-17, F Dec 3, 2013

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    Abuser=coward! Pick on someone your own size

    *******. I might be small but ill kick your *** if you ever wanna try me again. Oh and touch my children again (I know things my gut knows) you'll pay! You were so mean to me. You think you own them. You don't own me and you don't own them. Your narcissistic ways, all the gifts...
    samisez101 samisez101 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Anyone who would do that is not called a man

    where I come from, he's called a coward and will not last long around here until he had an "accident". The men around here just won't tolerate it... be warned.
    Manfromthemountain Manfromthemountain 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    My stepfather was ruthless in the attacks on me.

    He saved it all for me. We are extremely close now and he is a different person than he once was. He has explained why he felt it was the only way and apologized many times over the years and has taught me to be a better man. People can change.
    Addison87 Addison87 26-30, M Jan 20

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    As A Child, I Learned How Not To Be...

    as a young child, I was in a household with an abusive father> when I was 8, my mother took my hand & we walked permanently away ...my mother put herself through school while working & raising me, she was a great woman... I have never voluntarily spoken with or met my...
    photowon photowon 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 16, 2011

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    Abusive Teen

    My mom is a teacher and she had students with a lot of problems and that are poor. But today she told me about her one student that I know who I guess knocked up another student that belonged to a different teacher, lets call this student 'Tommy'. The girl who is pregnant...
    ISellCrackForTheCIA ISellCrackForTheCIA 18-21, F Mar 9, 2013

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    I Hate A Police Officer Husband

    HE ABUSED AND TORRTURED HIS FAMLIY ON A DAILY BASIS AND HIS DEPT. GAVE HIM THUMBS UP TO DO THIS. NO  ONE HAS PROSECUTE THIS MONSTER THAT LIVES IN ELIZABETH, NJ AND IS POLICE OFFICER FOR THE ELIZABETH POLICE DEPT. THE WALL OF SHAME ARE:THE ABUSUER; OFFICER EGBERTO COLON JRTHE...
    cophater400 cophater400 26-30 Aug 27, 2011

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    Lets Make This World Free Of Abusers

    Abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional, verbal, or even negligence, dunno which one is the worst, but to me, all of this is torturing brutally and killing what is inside. I saw one documentary last night about abusing children and women. In that documentary, which is totally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    I see you abuse a woman

    or child in any way you best believe things are gonna escalate quickly between you and me. And the odds wont be in your favor. Man this topic gets me so heated
    TCrawford02 TCrawford02 18-21, M Jan 21

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    Freedom Of Existence

    Why do men have to control? What do they want from life? How do they see society today? Do they accept relationships have fundamentally changed because of the social pressure of the facts of life, the needs for greater income in face of greater costs, and hey need to come up...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    You have ruined my childhood

    and for that I'll never forgive you.
    nottobevelealed nottobevelealed 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    Stupid Or Just Plain Mean?

    The men who abuse women, the first thing I think is that every man thinks women aren't strong enough! Well you know that's just some bullshit! And even children! They could fight back! Or they could tell a teacher or relative! Still they can fight back! That is if the man says if...
    TopKitten TopKitten 13-15, F 1 Response May 21, 2012

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    Live To Tell

    I hate women who abuse children too. I believe in gender equality. Anyway, when I was about 8 years old, i lived with my parents and my older sister and younger brother. The house next to ours belonged to my grandma and aunt so everyday, I would go over to my grandmas house for a...
    Footjobmenow Footjobmenow 18-21, M Jul 10, 2012

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    Cody Beck Tempe AZ

    This individual is a animal sexual abuser & has adfmited to a strong disire to abuse female children. This is being posted for public safety & can be proven. Please keep your children (human & otherwise) away from this individual. Thank You
    anameishere anameishere 66-70 Feb 23, 2013

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    I Think The Title Says It All

    There really is nothing more to say about that.
    iwritebiographies iwritebiographies 41-45, F Jun 14, 2011

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    Justice

    Justice needs to happen to men for abuse. If they hit a woman they should be beaten to feel their pain. If they hit a child just shoot them. They don't deserve to live for hitting a child. If they rape anyone they should be castrated so they can't do it again. Mental abuse...
    koolkatjossie koolkatjossie 36-40, F Feb 5, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I...don't know if this really requires an explanation. I mean, unless a woman is trying to murder a man and he's defending himself, that's one thing, but men who simply abuse...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Violence against women is a crime... Men... We need to stand up and be real men... These women are our sisters, daughters, wives and friends... Take the pledge at White Ribbon...
    yeronlyman yeronlyman 41-45, M 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    April is Child Abuse Awareness Month (at least it is here in the USA). I've made a plan to post a status every day this month on Facebook with information about child abuse. I hate...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Enough said. I do hate men that rape women.Its morally wrong.
    PiperElizabethGx PiperElizabethGx 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Let's say a guy named Fred is attracted to a woman named Martha. He asks her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty good time. A few nights later he asks her out to dinner...
    oldermanlookingforwomen oldermanlookingforwomen 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Let's say a guy named Fred is attracted to a woman named Martha. He asks her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty good time. A few nights later he asks her out to dinner...
    ViperRemu ViperRemu 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I would like to point out we are not all the same some of us are looking for meaningful relationships and the ones who use women are just boys, real men respect women.
    klain45 klain45 26-30, M Apr 6

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    I was by my boyfriend. We broke up and that's were it started. I wanted to remain friends or get back together. We remained friends but he said I had to change and I worked my but...
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F Mar 28

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    The ONLY way men and women can just be friends is if they are not at all attracted to each other. Instinct always wins.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 21

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    Happy April! April is Child Abuse Awareness Month. Today, I was reminded of a status I wanted to make while on Spring Break but never got around to. You'll get the connection to...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F Apr 2

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    I found this and thought it could be helpful for someone on ep Early signs of abuse in relationships. -Partner tells you who you can see, what clothes to wear, how to have your...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 1 Response Apr 3

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