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I Hate Men Who Abuse Women

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    I'll start with words,

    escalate to fisticuffs, and finish you off with blade/bullets you mess with anyone in my family. But if you put hands on any of the women in my life (mom 2sisters, friends, any woman I hear about for that matter) I'll forego the conversation and get right to making sure you can...
    rejectedhighly rejectedhighly 22-25, M Jun 11

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    I was just punched by my boyfriend

    and he seems very un-remorseful. Sent me an email to come get my things. I started bleeding through my gums because of the punch and have been having nightmares since. He's a well known professional person in our town. I called the sheriff to report it but did not press charges...
    AloisiaV AloisiaV 56-60, F 8 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm Ashamed To Say This Morning I Fell Hate For

    The First Time, I Felt Genuine Hate For The Very First Time In My 18 Years Of Life..... I'm Not Proud To Admit That, No. I Want To Let Go Of This Anger I Feel Inside. I Cried So Much, My Eyes Got Puffy, But I Cried Cause I've Never Experienced This Emotion, I've Never Had A...
    BeautifulSituation BeautifulSituation 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    After sexual assault I became violent.

    If I had a weapon I would have ended them. I don't like it when men touch me. I am now unable to be intimate. When a guy tries to kiss me I become very nauseous. Then always feel obligated to apologize to them and make sure I didn't harm their ego. Guys would never know this...
    GiiGi GiiGi 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 8

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    either it was a reality check

    or just a way to degrade me...yesterday was a *****. but today I can careless,, men these days seems to pray on the weak even if their 12yrs younger
    amariebonitaa amariebonitaa 18-21, F Jul 13

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    A Cowards Crime.

    I remember my mother being beaten and abused. My father drank heavily. I recall that when my daughter began living with and having a baby with a guy who was in the Armed Forces, I took him for a beer one day and told him the army did not have enough weapons that would keep me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23, 2012

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    It's Not You

    I have a zero tolerance level for any man who lays his hands on a woman in anger, there is absolutely no excuse for it. The problem is that most men who are abusive don’t stop there, they are abusive sexually, take their women for granted, but most of all they are abusive...
    harleylover1970 harleylover1970 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 13, 2011

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    Abuse

    Well, where to start? I'm new to this site, so I feel my first post should be about my most profound struggle in life. It isn't what makes me miserable on a daily basis, it barely effects my moods at all. But everyone has one tragic story, one obstacle in life that really stands...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    RhythmFeeather RhythmFeeather 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    A Real Man

    a real man never hurts a woman. be very careful when u make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The Woman came out of a man's rib NOT from his FEET to be walked on, and NOT from his HEAD to be superior, but from his SIDE to be EQUAL. under the ARM to be protected and next...
    chie0429 chie0429 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    And guys that call themselves men

    and talk to girls on here like there freaking objects it's like really one trying saying half the stuff you say to them online in real life then you'll get smacked by a respectable women
    PabloBoyyyy PabloBoyyyy 18-21, M 3 Responses May 3

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    Men who can't wipe away the tears from a

    women's eyes, aren't real men!!
    Sim47 Sim47 26-30, M Mar 11

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    I just can't stand guys They don't deserve to

    be called 'MEN' I hate '********' who abuse women
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 3 Responses May 25

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    What is with all the testosterone filled "men"

    harassing women and interjecting where they are NOT wanted??? Why are they allowed to be here??? Either understand that women are not on this app for your amusement or **** off!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 17

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    A year ago I watched my mum getting beat up by

    my step dad after a heart breaking moment seeing him biteing my cousien I rang the police but I think I could have done more I watched him beat up my mum in a bush outside my house all I did was froze I hate wat I did I should of helped her I'm still going through a hard time I...
    mimee1 mimee1 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Unforgivable

    It shocks me how tolerant society still is of men who beat women. Sure, most people outwardly condmen it, but there are way too many people, both men and women, who still seem to blame the victim. Heck, I've heard it said that women who get beaten by men are at least half the...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 11 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    I Don't Hate Them....

    I dislike any (wo)man that emotionally/sexually/physically harms another (wo)man. There is no reason to do such a thing. I don't HATE anyone though. I do detest these people because I feel that they are cowardly for doing such things. I do feel sorry for all the (wo)men that...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    my boyfriend broke my arm tonight.

    ..he was drunk. i'm so devastated. he is an amazing person when he is not drunk... I don't know where to go from here. I need you GOD. please help guide me in the right direction.
    deleted deleted 26-30 52 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    this is just unhuman!

    women has to be respected! they give life to babies, damn it!
    SW59 SW59 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 12

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    I've been in an abusive relationship

    for over a year and every time I try to leave he won't let me. I'm ok for a couple of weeks then harassment starts. Abusive texts calls fake online accounts emails. When I'm with him he treats me like crap when I leave he wants me back:/ why. These are not men the abuse I get is...
    littleangel47 littleangel47 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    I was in Subway by myself

    and on the table next to me were some disgusting, loud-mouthed, rude guys having their daily 'fun' by talking out loud disturbing the peace. In walks an attractive girl in a skirt. As an instinctive move, I looked for a second and turned back, minding my own business without a...
    yourpetmuzzie yourpetmuzzie 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    I don't know why he thinks he can scream in my

    face, grab me leaving bruises and put me down everyday. He just got mad at me because I'm going to have my friend come over tomorrow evening while he goes night fishing. He started screaming at me, so I put my ear phones on so I don't have to fight. I mean it's our house and I...
    Fuzzybear79 Fuzzybear79 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I expressed my feelings,

    and told him I was upset..in turn-I got ANGER name calling and 2 weeks of silent treatment.Somehow in his mind...if I'm upset,then he needs to be angry at me,belittle me..and bring up paying bills Sounds like....
    Skyrulez Skyrulez 36-40 5 Responses Jul 8

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    amariebonitaa amariebonitaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I hate that i have to use this site.

    I am also grateful for it. Its the only place i can privately vent my troubles. Besides my two children that i love, it feels like im running out of things to love. Im running on empty. Im so sad. Im so sad. So sad. Ive discussed my abusive relationship on here before. It hasnt...
    ihopetoseeclearly ihopetoseeclearly 22-25 1 Response May 11

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    I know to many people

    who abuse/have abused thier wife/girlfriend. That list includes my dad (may he rest in peace), my uncle, my friends boyfriend, another uncle, and my moms friends daughters husband. I'm only 17, I shouldn't see anyone, especially my 17 year old friend, struggle through this.
    catsandmusic13 catsandmusic13 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    myfantasy1 myfantasy1 41-45, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Last year in grade 10,

    I would sometimes skip lunch. I just didn't like being in the cafeteria and the friends I sat with weren't always the friendliest to each other (there's a whole story for that as well). My usual spot was on a stairwell. I'd sit there and complete homework that I needed to finish...
    RomaxKH RomaxKH 16-17, M 1 Response May 5

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    Yesterday, I was watching this video

    where 3 women got kidnapped in 2004 and were basically slaves. The man did horrible things to these women. Because you see, the women were this man's sex pleasure, the man would impregnate them and then miscarriage almost every baby they had, sometimes let one go 2 weeks...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 3 Responses Feb 27

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    A long time ago at night I saw a man holding a

    woman by her neck and hand outside of a pizza place in the parking lot. The guy was being a real jerk; he was screaming at her and saying really nasty things, not to mention the way he was holding her neck tightly. She had tears rolling down her face. I was with my family at the...
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M May 9

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    DV (Domestic Violence,

    for those unfamiliar with the acronym) is not acceptable in any circumstance. Words and emotions are FAR more eloquent and take a lot more thought...yielding a richer result - often an enriched relationship. :D
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 29

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    Mum use to date this guy he was

    such an ******* he always hit me even when I did nothing wrong when my mum first got with him he got drunk one night and I was sitting on the couch and he came over and randomly started laying into me my older bro stepped in and they got into a fight and mums bf hit him in the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I have a controlling father

    and i cant run away from it. Now, i have anxiety and panic attacks because I'm afraid i will have a controlling husband, and this will never end.
    00ll00 00ll00 16-17, F 2 Responses May 12

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    I hate seeing sweet, nice,

    caring girls getting ****** over by ******** that get whatever they want.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 1 Response May 19, 2014

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    I am a guy, just a normal guy to a point.

    But it does frustrate me that most males like to take advantage of women. For me I love to talk to women, I love the way that they see things so differently from me. And yet I still cannot comprehend why most males chose to abuse their loved ones. I came from a broken home, my...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2014

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    Going to college and hope I don't see some low

    life douche club rape girls and call it the initiation. **** that i see the girl crying or fear in her eyes I'm getting her out.
    NomadAngel117 NomadAngel117 18-21, M 2 Responses May 30

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    A Man Does Not Love You When......

    He hits you and is verbally abusive. He tries to control every move you make. He resents you for having a better job and education. He is jealous of your friends and family and tries to stop you seeing them. He crictisizes what is dearest to your heart. He makes fun of your fears...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 16 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    Men must know that women can sometimes turn out

    to be a roaring lioness. So better be careful.
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    The first mistake I made was thinking I could

    change you. The second mistake I made was forgiving you after you hurled abuse at me and spat in my face. The third mistake I made was staying with you after you hit me for the first time. The fourth mistake I made was not getting out when I was given the chance. And the fifth...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    Bad Name

    Men who mistreat and abuse women give all of us guys a bad name. Whether the abuse is verbal, mental, emotional, physical, or even sexual.....The rest of us guys pay the price. Ive stopped counting the number of times Ive read stories or comments here that are anti-male here...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe 41-45, M 6 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    You tell them, women!

    Just tell them that even if those shameless men find their desired women, they will still never find happiness!
    Maaren Maaren 16-17, M May 2

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    If I ever got married

    and my husband abuse me, then the first thing I would do is grab a broom and smack on to his head. But I wouldn't try to kill him or anything :)
    clumsystupidgirl17 clumsystupidgirl17 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    God's Creation

    I never understood how men could abuse women.  A creature that God created should never be abused.  From women spring life, how a man can trample that is beyond my understanding.  How men say they love women and then disrespect them is also intolerable.
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 3 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    Abusive Relationships

    As a psychotherapist specializing in anxiety and trauma, I've worked with hundreds of women in abusive relationships so I'll share some of what I've learned in the hope that it might help an abuse victim.1.  The longer you put up with abuse, the harder it will be to walk away...
    musicbook musicbook 56-60, M 19 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    The Weenie Roast

    I have been a member of EP now, for about 60 days, have made some wonderful friends and of course, met a few others. As I talk to people it amazes me how much abuse has taken place, men hurting their wives. This can be done is so many different ways, can never understand a guy...
    romanticdreams romanticdreams 46-50, M 16 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Never thought he was the type Until I had to

    miss two days of work waiting for the bruises to go down where he pinned me down so he could spit in my face
    smirksy smirksy 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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