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I Hate Men Who Abuse Women

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    Those who abuse women are not men.

    They're scum. Amongst the lowest forms of filth.
    IncompletelyBroken IncompletelyBroken 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    It's More Than Physical

    You don't even have to lay a hand on a woman to abuse her. So much abuse is emotional and mental. Many men do this and don't see it as abuse but your dead wrong. This kind of abuse can leave much deeper wounds on a woman than hitting her do. Tell me why any loving Dom would want...
    MasterGin MasterGin 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    Men are like guns. Keep one around long enough

    and your going to want to shoot it
    bleedinghurt bleedinghurt 18-21, F May 27

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    I...don't know if this really requires an

    explanation. I mean, unless a woman is trying to murder a man and he's defending himself, that's one thing, but men who simply abuse women are cowards and monsters. That's just my thought on the subject. O.O
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    my boyfriend broke my arm tonight.

    ..he was drunk. i'm so devastated. he is an amazing person when he is not drunk... I don't know where to go from here. I need you GOD. please help guide me in the right direction.
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 26-30, F 52 Responses Apr 13

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    Walk In Beauty After My Beating.

    I must explain about my grandmother and our ways in life so you do not get confused before I continue much farther. You will have to bear with me, my mind is foggy and I shall relate to you as best as I can remember from my writings. I have kept a daily diary all of my life from...
    69yolanda69 69yolanda69 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    Weaklings

    Men who abuse woman are nothing but weaklings and cowards.  Big bullies who can't deal with their feelings so they have to pick on a woman to make themselves feel like a man, big insecure weaklings, cowards and bullies.  I should know I was in an abusive relationship...
    keyna keyna 36-40, F 6 Responses May 16, 2008

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    It was almost like Rose Madder.

    We were together so long. He abused me too much. Bloody noses black eyes, and he would always tell me it was my fault. That if I hadn't stood up for myself he wouldn't have beat me, or choked me. I got pregnant, he went to jail for drugs. That was almost a year ago. I still feel...
    Hersheychic Hersheychic 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    I Don't Hate Them....

    I dislike any (wo)man that emotionally/sexually/physically harms another (wo)man. There is no reason to do such a thing. I don't HATE anyone though. I do detest these people because I feel that they are cowardly for doing such things. I do feel sorry for all the (wo)men that...
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    jupsta jupsta 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    I know this isn't the right approach

    but I've always been the type if I catch you hitting a girl ima beat the absolute fk outta you.. I may have my *** beat but your *** is going to be hurting lol.. Especially if it's my sister.. Violence is the answer in that instance for me sorry rant over :)
    SportsGraphCollector SportsGraphCollector 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 4

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    It's Not You

    I have a zero tolerance level for any man who lays his hands on a woman in anger, there is absolutely no excuse for it. The problem is that most men who are abusive don’t stop there, they are abusive sexually, take their women for granted, but most of all they are abusive...
    harleylover1970 harleylover1970 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 13, 2011

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    Has anyone else heard someone say "it's ok to

    hit a woman if she's a hoe"? That ****** me off, You can't just use violence against someone just because they have immoral habits. I mean, sure people are immoral, people are ***** and are loose and are hoes... but who are you to judge another person and hit them even if they...
    danamillion danamillion 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    The Weenie Roast

    I have been a member of EP now, for about 60 days, have made some wonderful friends and of course, met a few others. As I talk to people it amazes me how much abuse has taken place, men hurting their wives. This can be done is so many different ways, can never understand a guy...
    romanticdreams romanticdreams 46-50, M 17 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Unforgivable

    It shocks me how tolerant society still is of men who beat women. Sure, most people outwardly condmen it, but there are way too many people, both men and women, who still seem to blame the victim. Heck, I've heard it said that women who get beaten by men are at least half the...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    Abusive Relationships

    As a psychotherapist specializing in anxiety and trauma, I've worked with hundreds of women in abusive relationships so I'll share some of what I've learned in the hope that it might help an abuse victim.1.  The longer you put up with abuse, the harder it will be to walk away...
    musicbook musicbook 56-60, M 19 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    I found this and thought it could be helpful

    for someone on ep Early signs of abuse in relationships. -Partner tells you who you can see, what clothes to wear, how to have your hair or make-up. - Wants to know where you're going, who you're with, when you will be home. - Displays stalking behaviour and accuses you of being...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    No Compassion

    I cannot bring myself to have compassionate feelings toward an abusive man. I understand that they may have a drinking or drug problem, I understand they may have been abused themselves. I still believe they know right from wrong. There are a few who actually get help and get...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 12, 2008

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    Im sitting in tears

    as I watch this.I have a Mother,a sister,2 daughters,and 4 grand daughters.Please guys think before You act.
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    A video well worth watching.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=KTvSfeCRxe8
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    We Need To Teach Our Daughters, And Our Sons

    We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between:   a man who flatters her and a man who compliments her,   a man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her,   a man who views her as property and a man who views her properly,   a man who...
    1OHD 1OHD 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    Please anyone who got out of an abusive

    relationship. Give me some words of encouragement and support. I don't even know where to start. No job because he convinced me to quit and I have kids to support I don't even know where or how to start :( how did you do it? I'm scared 😢
    JenI22 JenI22 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    I hate seeing sweet, nice,

    caring girls getting ****** over by ******** that get whatever they want.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 1 Response May 19

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    Beware of marrying NRI/ABCD grooms!

    Indian girls, please research and know whom you are marrying or you may end up getting beaten and abused. Sadly, there are many cases that has resulted in terrible abuse of the girls since they end up being alone in this country, especially those that opted arranged marriages...
    Sreeme Sreeme 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    My dad used to hit on my mom.

    When I was 10 years old I told her if she does not leave him I would leave. I was going to live with my Grandma.
    UnknownNYC728 UnknownNYC728 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I am a guy, just a normal guy to a point.

    But it does frustrate me that most males like to take advantage of women. For me I love to talk to women, I love the way that they see things so differently from me. And yet I still cannot comprehend why most males chose to abuse their loved ones. I came from a broken home, my...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I was sexually assaulted

    when I was 12 and since then I feel fiercely protective of myself and other females when it comes to guys. There are some horrible people in the world.
    redmidget redmidget 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    18 & I Fell In Love Quick & Uh Daddy Try To

    Tell Me Things Wouldn't Stick , but Uh The Next Thing You Know I'm Down On The Floor , Hands Wrapped Around My Neck I Couldn't Breath No More. Momma Cryin On The Phone Hearing Everything But When She Asked I Knew I Couldn't Tell Her Anything. What Kind Of Women Would She Think I...
    OhhAngie OhhAngie 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Abuse

    Well, where to start? I'm new to this site, so I feel my first post should be about my most profound struggle in life. It isn't what makes me miserable on a daily basis, it barely effects my moods at all. But everyone has one tragic story, one obstacle in life that really stands...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    A Real Man

    a real man never hurts a woman. be very careful when u make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The Woman came out of a man's rib NOT from his FEET to be walked on, and NOT from his HEAD to be superior, but from his SIDE to be EQUAL. under the ARM to be protected and next...
    chie0429 chie0429 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Men

    MEN, they are so cruel and wicked. I used to think that they are kind hearth ed well i guess i was wrong about them. When i was younger i would tell my mum"i cant wait to get to my husbands house so that i can have him all to myself but all that thought started changing the...
    anizolicious anizolicious 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    This Guy Is A Creepy Looney Tune On Ep

    So this HOHOFMYHOUSE posted a post lying about me sending a message to him personally. I did not. So I've found stuff that I hope would interest other people to show what kind of weirdo he really is and his followers. These are stories and comments from him. Some after I blocked...
    Natalie123ariel Natalie123ariel 22-25, F 7 Responses May 25, 2012

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    God's Creation

    I never understood how men could abuse women.  A creature that God created should never be abused.  From women spring life, how a man can trample that is beyond my understanding.  How men say they love women and then disrespect them is also intolerable.
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    The first mistake I made was thinking I could

    change you. The second mistake I made was forgiving you after you hurled abuse at me and spat in my face. The third mistake I made was staying with you after you hit me for the first time. The fourth mistake I made was not getting out when I was given the chance. And the fifth...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I hate anyone who abuses anyone.

    Doesn't matter the gender.
    EowynElf EowynElf 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    The phone rang at 4:30 am.

    This almost never happens. Caller ID showed a woman I have casually "dated" but now we are pretty much friends. She's not my type and we are at different places in life. So WTF ?!?!? WHY is she calling me at 4:30 am As soon as she spoke I knew something was wrong. She had...
    FindingMySong FindingMySong 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 16

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    I use to always get into fights with my baby's

    father and he would always take it to far. But I'm glad I left him for the better of myself and baby
    yseniaa yseniaa 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    as I have commented on a story im going to post

    what I said on here. ladies you may think you care about the guy that has been hitting, making fun of, or whatever you can dream up. all im saying is that you all deserve better guys and hay relationships. instead of being afraid to breakup with him or have guy friends. if your...
    hellhound44 hellhound44 18-21, M Aug 4

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    Power to the people .

    ...........
    truth2b truth2b 26-30, M Mar 18

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    I had to grow up with it.

    My father is worthless and I hate him. Ever since he did what he did to my mother I told my self I will never ever hit a girl or yell at her or even raise my voice in anyway. I told my self I will have respect for the women in my life instead if taking them for granted and just...
    hellhound44 hellhound44 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    Never thought he was the type Until I had to

    miss two days of work waiting for the bruises to go down where he pinned me down so he could spit in my face
    smirksy smirksy 31-35, F 13 Responses Aug 12

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    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    A Cowards Crime.

    I remember my mother being beaten and abused. My father drank heavily. I recall that when my daughter began living with and having a baby with a guy who was in the Armed Forces, I took him for a beer one day and told him the army did not have enough weapons that would keep me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23, 2012

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    A Man Does Not Love You When......

    He hits you and is verbally abusive. He tries to control every move you make. He resents you for having a better job and education. He is jealous of your friends and family and tries to stop you seeing them. He crictisizes what is dearest to your heart. He makes fun of your fears...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 18 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    I was a victim of woman abuse,

    when I was 10 I went to my uncle's house and I would always stay at his house when my dad was working. So this one time I was sitting at the table doing my homework and he comes out of his room he's drunk out of his mind. I don't say anything, I just look at him and I get back...
    Emonerd9554 Emonerd9554 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Bad Name

    Men who mistreat and abuse women give all of us guys a bad name. Whether the abuse is verbal, mental, emotional, physical, or even sexual.....The rest of us guys pay the price. Ive stopped counting the number of times Ive read stories or comments here that are anti-male here...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe 41-45, M 6 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    And especially my best friend

    for siding with him after it happened. I just lost two at once. Support please
    cookiecutter345 cookiecutter345 22-25, F Mar 15

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    Verbal abuse is the cruelest form.

    Today the man that I have loved for as long as i can remember battered me. He told me that he thinks that he got another woman pregnant . I asked him when .. he said last month. I felt the air come out of my lungs with a swift kick in the stomach. Then my I felt a hard squeeze...
    sandmoon sandmoon 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    There are only 3 things a guy should want to

    change about a girl her last name, her addresses,and view point on men.
    hellhound44 hellhound44 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    Dont Trust

    i can no longer trust any man.... every  man iv been with, has lied and abused me, and im sure if they could, they would steel from me... so far that has not happened.... but everything out side of that has..... i am no longer able to love, or trust, my grown adult child says to...
    westsideblues1 westsideblues1 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Sounds horrible but if I've had boyfriends in the past who do me wrong, I'll always get with them once more just to make them feel like ****, just so they know how it feels. It's...
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I hardly think they deserve to be called men. These "men" are ruining it for the rest of us. I wish they would pick a fight with a real man, and maybe then they'll show their true...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    Have you ever known a man who makes it his hobby to collect women?
    SoliloquyAside SoliloquyAside 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 26

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