I Hate Men Who Abuse Women

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    A Man Does Not Love You When......

    He hits you and is verbally abusive. He tries to control every move you make. He resents you for having a better job and education. He is jealous of your friends and family and tries to stop you seeing them. He crictisizes what is dearest to your heart. He makes fun of your fears...
    berangere berangere
    66-70, F
    13 Responses Apr 1, 2013

    i have a few married friends

    who are married and have very abusive husbands. i even help some to run away or gave them a plan to get them away. I even went as far as to give plans to them to develop a future for themselves from education to job seeking to saving and investments. to this all in vain they...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 3

    Bad Name

    Men who mistreat and abuse women give all of us guys a bad name. Whether the abuse is verbal, mental, emotional, physical, or even sexual.....The rest of us guys pay the price. Ive stopped counting the number of times Ive read stories or comments here that are anti-male here...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Oct 6, 2010

    I was in Subway by myself

    and on the table next to me were some disgusting, loud-mouthed, rude guys having their daily 'fun' by talking out loud disturbing the peace. In walks an attractive girl in a skirt. As an instinctive move, I looked for a second and turned back, minding my own business without a...
    yourpetmuzzie yourpetmuzzie
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 24, 2014

    After sexual assault I became violent.

    If I had a weapon I would have ended them. I don't like it when men touch me. I am now unable to be intimate. When a guy tries to kiss me I become very nauseous. Then always feel obligated to apologize to them and make sure I didn't harm their ego. Guys would never know this...
    GiiGi GiiGi
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    I was in a relationship

    for four year. Where my man was very abusing. It's used flip out for everything put everybody first than me. Even his friend. I wasn't allow to b in no social page or have a friend. But he can b in social page. In he can talk with more girls. If find out that I was talking to...
    tweetyreck tweetyreck
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2015

    Mum use to date this guy he was

    such an ******* he always hit me even when I did nothing wrong when my mum first got with him he got drunk one night and I was sitting on the couch and he came over and randomly started laying into me my older bro stepped in and they got into a fight and mums bf hit him in the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 12, 2014

    Today I came across a post about rape

    while browsing the net. I won't go too deep into the details, as that's not the point I'm trying to make. The post was about a statement that, and I quote: "If you're promoting changes to women's behaviour to "prevent" rape, you are really saying "make sure he rapes the other...
    themanoflegends themanoflegends
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 17

    https://www.facebook.

    com/mediatakeout/videos/1132161953482417/?pnref=story The comments on this video are appalling. Both men and women are approving this behavior. Some using it as a justification against slavery. This man was probably taught at a young age that it was ok to hit women. He was...
    MrsAnnThropy MrsAnnThropy
    31-35, F
    Oct 27, 2015

    I guess I can share my 1st story on here,

    1st I must say that I grew up with a dad who beat his wife and kids, and I still think about it today, I believe all people should be shown respect and especially woman should be treated with love and respect, no matter what,
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 10, 2015

    I really do. my sister use to have an ex

    who did that well guess what he doesn't have a finger or toe anymore because I cut them off before showing him the deal. because he picked the wrong person's sister to mistreat he lost those. I don't mind my sister dating it's normal. but when they think they can hit her. I...
    SladeBolinLeaderofEp SladeBolinLeaderofEp
    18-21, M
    Oct 1, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 4, 2015
    harleyrider2009 harleyrider2009
    56-60, M
    1 Response Aug 26, 2015

    I know it's not easy to understand a woman.

    It takes time; and somewhere pretty much. But that gives no right to any man to turn a woman's life into hell. Woman doesn't deserve man's ill mannered, abusive attitude if not love. So don't ever try to be hard on her.
    hiddentears hiddentears
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 11, 2015

    I've been in an abusive relationship

    for over a year and every time I try to leave he won't let me. I'm ok for a couple of weeks then harassment starts. Abusive texts calls fake online accounts emails. When I'm with him he treats me like crap when I leave he wants me back:/ why. These are not men the abuse I get is...
    littleangel47 littleangel47
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    I'll start with words,

    escalate to fisticuffs, and finish you off with blade/bullets you mess with anyone in my family. But if you put hands on any of the women in my life (mom 2sisters, friends, any woman I hear about for that matter) I'll forego the conversation and get right to making sure you can...
    foolishwiseguy foolishwiseguy
    26-30, M
    Jun 11, 2015

    As a survivor of domestic violence I have

    something to say. For the women who are currently in an abusive relationship, I wish you the strength and courage to leave and the safety of course. For the women who are contemplating a relationship with a known abuser, don't fool yourself into thinking that you are 'the one...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 10, 2015
    myfantasy1 myfantasy1
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 31, 2015

    Unforgivable

    It shocks me how tolerant society still is of men who beat women. Sure, most people outwardly condmen it, but there are way too many people, both men and women, who still seem to blame the victim. Heck, I've heard it said that women who get beaten by men are at least half the...
    lauren71 lauren71
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Mar 11, 2013

    I'm Ashamed To Say This Morning I Fell Hate For

    The First Time, I Felt Genuine Hate For The Very First Time In My 18 Years Of Life..... I'm Not Proud To Admit That, No. I Want To Let Go Of This Anger I Feel Inside. I Cried So Much, My Eyes Got Puffy, But I Cried Cause I've Never Experienced This Emotion, I've Never Had A...
    BeautifulSituation BeautifulSituation
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 30

    A Cowards Crime.

    I remember my mother being beaten and abused. My father drank heavily. I recall that when my daughter began living with and having a baby with a guy who was in the Armed Forces, I took him for a beer one day and told him the army did not have enough weapons that would keep me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 23, 2012

    I expressed my feelings,

    and told him I was upset..in turn-I got ANGER name calling and 2 weeks of silent treatment.Somehow in his mind...if I'm upset,then he needs to be angry at me,belittle me..and bring up paying bills Sounds like....
    Skyrulez Skyrulez
    36-40
    4 Responses Jul 8, 2015
    amariebonitaa amariebonitaa
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    either it was a reality check

    or just a way to degrade me...yesterday was a *****. but today I can careless,, men these days seems to pray on the weak even if their 12yrs younger
    amariebonitaa amariebonitaa
    18-21, F
    Jul 13, 2015

    I hate seeing sweet, nice,

    caring girls getting ****** over by ******** that get whatever they want.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 19, 2014
    Danae1997 Danae1997
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I really hate men like that,

    since I have been in that type of situation
    maya0871 maya0871
    13-15, F
    8 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    A Real Man

    a real man never hurts a woman. be very careful when u make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The Woman came out of a man's rib NOT from his FEET to be walked on, and NOT from his HEAD to be superior, but from his SIDE to be EQUAL. under the ARM to be protected and next...
    chie0429 chie0429
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 5, 2013

    God's Creation

    I never understood how men could abuse women.  A creature that God created should never be abused.  From women spring life, how a man can trample that is beyond my understanding.  How men say they love women and then disrespect them is also intolerable.
    KingofSwords KingofSwords
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Nov 18, 2011

    I don't know why he thinks he can scream in my

    face, grab me leaving bruises and put me down everyday. He just got mad at me because I'm going to have my friend come over tomorrow evening while he goes night fishing. He started screaming at me, so I put my ear phones on so I don't have to fight. I mean it's our house and I...
    Fuzzybear79 Fuzzybear79
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jul 27, 2015
    PrettiestPirate PrettiestPirate
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    ...and children. Just miserable cowards.

    ..the lot of the them. I heard this song on the radio, today, and it made me think of this experience.She La - 54-40
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2014

    I've never been in a physically abusive

    relationship before, an emotional and mentally abusive relationship... sure but not physical. I met him online and we talked for about a month before meeting. He was charming, intelligent, and he mirrored me and who doesn't get sucked in with that. I enjoyed our conversations...
    KSprincess KSprincess
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 27, 2015

    And guys that call themselves men

    and talk to girls on here like there freaking objects it's like really one trying saying half the stuff you say to them online in real life then you'll get smacked by a respectable women
    MrSoundWave MrSoundWave
    18-21, M
    3 Responses May 3, 2015

    Women aren't toys or things to okay around with.

    They are living beings just like us men. They too have equal or more fights to live on this planet. We men should learn to respect them as we are born from their stomachs and if it wasn't for them we wouldn't be in a good state. I'm not saying they should be like Queens and we...
    Pinkygir Pinkygir
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    If I ever got married

    and my husband abuse me, then the first thing I would do is grab a broom and smack on to his head. But I wouldn't try to kill him or anything :)
    clumsystupidgirl17 clumsystupidgirl17
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    Please could anyone who has been in a domestic

    abuse situation with children fill in my short anonymous survey :- http://www.smartsurvey.co.uk/s/ZID51/ it is for a research project and I would be very grateful :)
    hereat hereat
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 1

    my boyfriend broke my arm tonight.

    ..he was drunk. i'm so devastated. he is an amazing person when he is not drunk... I don't know where to go from here. I need you GOD. please help guide me in the right direction.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    49 Responses Apr 13, 2014

    Men must know that women can sometimes turn out

    to be a roaring lioness. So better be careful.
    hiddentears hiddentears
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2015

    It's More Than Physical

    You don't even have to lay a hand on a woman to abuse her. So much abuse is emotional and mental. Many men do this and don't see it as abuse but your dead wrong. This kind of abuse can leave much deeper wounds on a woman than hitting her do. Tell me why any loving Dom would want...
    MasterGin MasterGin
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Oct 4, 2013

    Never thought he was the type Until I had to

    miss two days of work waiting for the bruises to go down where he pinned me down so he could spit in my face
    smirksy smirksy
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Aug 12, 2014

    If you hit a woman, you're not a man anymore.

    Youd better not feel safe near me either -_-
    EatingSomeCereal EatingSomeCereal
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 7

    I hate men who abuse women there's many forms

    of abuse form hitting forcing sex so on why Are they so many men out there who think its right to do this in the 1st place in my case it was my stepdad who abused me and abused my mom and turned my life up side down I just don't get it are they sick or just born...
    Joanne181 Joanne181
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 12, 2015

    I know to many people

    who abuse/have abused thier wife/girlfriend. That list includes my dad (may he rest in peace), my uncle, my friends boyfriend, another uncle, and my moms friends daughters husband. I'm only 17, I shouldn't see anyone, especially my 17 year old friend, struggle through this.
    JazminTheFlower13 JazminTheFlower13
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    I am a guy, just a normal guy to a point.

    But it does frustrate me that most males like to take advantage of women. For me I love to talk to women, I love the way that they see things so differently from me. And yet I still cannot comprehend why most males chose to abuse their loved ones. I came from a broken home, my...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2014

    What is with all the testosterone filled "men"

    harassing women and interjecting where they are NOT wanted??? Why are they allowed to be here??? Either understand that women are not on this app for your amusement or **** off!!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 17, 2015

    Men who abuse Women are not Men!

    How can a Gentleman even think of abusing a lady? Those who abuse Women and think they are men, should die! Women are to be loved and given respect! After all they are the most beautiful creation of God..
    UsmanNawaz99 UsmanNawaz99
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    My boyfriend scared me the other day

    when he was drunk and became way too dominating during sex both verbally and physically. Is that normal?
    asianlover69 asianlover69
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 16
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