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I Hate Men Who Abuse Women

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    I am a guy, just a normal guy to a point.

    But it does frustrate me that most males like to take advantage of women. For me I love to talk to women, I love the way that they see things so differently from me. And yet I still cannot comprehend why most males chose to abuse their loved ones. I came from a broken home, my...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2014

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    I guess I can share my 1st story on here,

    1st I must say that I grew up with a dad who beat his wife and kids, and I still think about it today, I believe all people should be shown respect and especially woman should be treated with love and respect, no matter what,
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 10, 2015

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    Danae1997 Danae1997 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 6, 2015

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    A Cowards Crime.

    I remember my mother being beaten and abused. My father drank heavily. I recall that when my daughter began living with and having a baby with a guy who was in the Armed Forces, I took him for a beer one day and told him the army did not have enough weapons that would keep me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Women aren't toys or things to okay around with.

    They are living beings just like us men. They too have equal or more fights to live on this planet. We men should learn to respect them as we are born from their stomachs and if it wasn't for them we wouldn't be in a good state. I'm not saying they should be like Queens and we...
    Pinkygir Pinkygir 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 20, 2015

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    I'm Ashamed To Say This Morning I Fell Hate For

    The First Time, I Felt Genuine Hate For The Very First Time In My 18 Years Of Life..... I'm Not Proud To Admit That, No. I Want To Let Go Of This Anger I Feel Inside. I Cried So Much, My Eyes Got Puffy, But I Cried Cause I've Never Experienced This Emotion, I've Never Had A...
    BeautifulSituation BeautifulSituation 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2015

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    I was in Subway by myself

    and on the table next to me were some disgusting, loud-mouthed, rude guys having their daily 'fun' by talking out loud disturbing the peace. In walks an attractive girl in a skirt. As an instinctive move, I looked for a second and turned back, minding my own business without a...
    yourpetmuzzie yourpetmuzzie 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    myfantasy1 myfantasy1 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 31, 2015

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    I expressed my feelings,

    and told him I was upset..in turn-I got ANGER name calling and 2 weeks of silent treatment.Somehow in his mind...if I'm upset,then he needs to be angry at me,belittle me..and bring up paying bills Sounds like....
    Skyrulez Skyrulez 36-40 5 Responses Jul 8, 2015

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    I was in a relationship

    for four year. Where my man was very abusing. It's used flip out for everything put everybody first than me. Even his friend. I wasn't allow to b in no social page or have a friend. But he can b in social page. In he can talk with more girls. If find out that I was talking to...
    tweetyreck tweetyreck 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2015

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    I'll start with words,

    escalate to fisticuffs, and finish you off with blade/bullets you mess with anyone in my family. But if you put hands on any of the women in my life (mom 2sisters, friends, any woman I hear about for that matter) I'll forego the conversation and get right to making sure you can...
    foolishwiseguy foolishwiseguy 26-30, M Jun 11, 2015

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    God's Creation

    I never understood how men could abuse women.  A creature that God created should never be abused.  From women spring life, how a man can trample that is beyond my understanding.  How men say they love women and then disrespect them is also intolerable.
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 3 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    either it was a reality check

    or just a way to degrade me...yesterday was a *****. but today I can careless,, men these days seems to pray on the weak even if their 12yrs younger
    amariebonitaa amariebonitaa 18-21, F Jul 13, 2015

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    I don't know why he thinks he can scream in my

    face, grab me leaving bruises and put me down everyday. He just got mad at me because I'm going to have my friend come over tomorrow evening while he goes night fishing. He started screaming at me, so I put my ear phones on so I don't have to fight. I mean it's our house and I...
    Fuzzybear79 Fuzzybear79 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2015

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    I just can't stand guys They don't deserve to

    be called 'MEN' I hate '********' who abuse women
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 3 Responses May 25, 2015

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    What is with all the testosterone filled "men"

    harassing women and interjecting where they are NOT wanted??? Why are they allowed to be here??? Either understand that women are not on this app for your amusement or **** off!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 17, 2015

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    If I ever got married

    and my husband abuse me, then the first thing I would do is grab a broom and smack on to his head. But I wouldn't try to kill him or anything :)
    clumsystupidgirl17 clumsystupidgirl17 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2015

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    my boyfriend broke my arm tonight.

    ..he was drunk. i'm so devastated. he is an amazing person when he is not drunk... I don't know where to go from here. I need you GOD. please help guide me in the right direction.
    deleted deleted 26-30 50 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    A Man Does Not Love You When......

    He hits you and is verbally abusive. He tries to control every move you make. He resents you for having a better job and education. He is jealous of your friends and family and tries to stop you seeing them. He crictisizes what is dearest to your heart. He makes fun of your fears...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 15 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    RhythmFeeather RhythmFeeather 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    https://www.facebook.

    com/mediatakeout/videos/1132161953482417/?pnref=story The comments on this video are appalling. Both men and women are approving this behavior. Some using it as a justification against slavery. This man was probably taught at a young age that it was ok to hit women. He was...
    MrsAnnThropy MrsAnnThropy 31-35, F Oct 27, 2015

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    As a survivor of domestic violence I have

    something to say. For the women who are currently in an abusive relationship, I wish you the strength and courage to leave and the safety of course. For the women who are contemplating a relationship with a known abuser, don't fool yourself into thinking that you are 'the one...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 10, 2015

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    A Real Man

    a real man never hurts a woman. be very careful when u make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The Woman came out of a man's rib NOT from his FEET to be walked on, and NOT from his HEAD to be superior, but from his SIDE to be EQUAL. under the ARM to be protected and next...
    chie0429 chie0429 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Men who abuse Women are not Men!

    How can a Gentleman even think of abusing a lady? Those who abuse Women and think they are men, should die! Women are to be loved and given respect! After all they are the most beautiful creation of God..
    UsmanNawaz99 UsmanNawaz99 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2015

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    amariebonitaa amariebonitaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2015

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    I really hate men like that,

    since I have been in that type of situation
    maya0871 maya0871 13-15, F 11 Responses Aug 20, 2015

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    And guys that call themselves men

    and talk to girls on here like there freaking objects it's like really one trying saying half the stuff you say to them online in real life then you'll get smacked by a respectable women
    MrSoundWave MrSoundWave 18-21, M 3 Responses May 3, 2015

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    I know to many people

    who abuse/have abused thier wife/girlfriend. That list includes my dad (may he rest in peace), my uncle, my friends boyfriend, another uncle, and my moms friends daughters husband. I'm only 17, I shouldn't see anyone, especially my 17 year old friend, struggle through this.
    catsandmusic13 catsandmusic13 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2015

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    harleyrider2009 harleyrider2009 56-60, M Aug 26, 2015

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    Unforgivable

    It shocks me how tolerant society still is of men who beat women. Sure, most people outwardly condmen it, but there are way too many people, both men and women, who still seem to blame the victim. Heck, I've heard it said that women who get beaten by men are at least half the...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 11 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's More Than Physical

    You don't even have to lay a hand on a woman to abuse her. So much abuse is emotional and mental. Many men do this and don't see it as abuse but your dead wrong. This kind of abuse can leave much deeper wounds on a woman than hitting her do. Tell me why any loving Dom would want...
    MasterGin MasterGin 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    I really do. my sister use to have an ex

    who did that well guess what he doesn't have a finger or toe anymore because I cut them off before showing him the deal. because he picked the wrong person's sister to mistreat he lost those. I don't mind my sister dating it's normal. but when they think they can hit her. I...
    SladeTheLegend SladeTheLegend 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 1, 2015

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    Abusive Relationships

    As a psychotherapist specializing in anxiety and trauma, I've worked with hundreds of women in abusive relationships so I'll share some of what I've learned in the hope that it might help an abuse victim.1.  The longer you put up with abuse, the harder it will be to walk away...
    musicbook musicbook 61-65, M 19 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    The first mistake I made was thinking I could

    change you. The second mistake I made was forgiving you after you hurled abuse at me and spat in my face. The third mistake I made was staying with you after you hit me for the first time. The fourth mistake I made was not getting out when I was given the chance. And the fifth...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    Going to college and hope I don't see some low

    life douche club rape girls and call it the initiation. **** that i see the girl crying or fear in her eyes I'm getting her out.
    NomadAngel117 NomadAngel117 18-21, M 2 Responses May 30, 2015

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    Men must know that women can sometimes turn out

    to be a roaring lioness. So better be careful.
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2015

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    Mum use to date this guy he was

    such an ******* he always hit me even when I did nothing wrong when my mum first got with him he got drunk one night and I was sitting on the couch and he came over and randomly started laying into me my older bro stepped in and they got into a fight and mums bf hit him in the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    PrettiestPirate PrettiestPirate 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 25, 2015

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    I know it's not easy to understand a woman.

    It takes time; and somewhere pretty much. But that gives no right to any man to turn a woman's life into hell. Woman doesn't deserve man's ill mannered, abusive attitude if not love. So don't ever try to be hard on her.
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 11, 2015

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    I came from a broken home,

    I have 1 memory of my parents together, I think I was 2 years old. My dad left mum and my 2 sisters and I not long after the youngest was born. Mum was always wanting a man but seemed happier alone until she was Lonley. First memory was of mum talking to her friend upstairs...
    tamtamcavewomen tamtamcavewomen 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2015

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    I hate men who abuse women there's many forms

    of abuse form hitting forcing sex so on why Are they so many men out there who think its right to do this in the 1st place in my case it was my stepdad who abused me and abused my mom and turned my life up side down I just don't get it are they sick or just born...
    Joanne181 Joanne181 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 12, 2015

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    I've been in an abusive relationship

    for over a year and every time I try to leave he won't let me. I'm ok for a couple of weeks then harassment starts. Abusive texts calls fake online accounts emails. When I'm with him he treats me like crap when I leave he wants me back:/ why. These are not men the abuse I get is...
    littleangel47 littleangel47 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2015

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    After sexual assault I became violent.

    If I had a weapon I would have ended them. I don't like it when men touch me. I am now unable to be intimate. When a guy tries to kiss me I become very nauseous. Then always feel obligated to apologize to them and make sure I didn't harm their ego. Guys would never know this...
    GiiGi GiiGi 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2015

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