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I Hate Men Who Abuse Women

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    I am a guy, just a normal guy to a point.

    But it does frustrate me that most males like to take advantage of women. For me I love to talk to women, I love the way that they see things so differently from me. And yet I still cannot comprehend why most males chose to abuse their loved ones. I came from a broken home, my...
    CDAdmirer313 CDAdmirer313 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2014

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    Men

    MEN, they are so cruel and wicked. I used to think that they are kind hearth ed well i guess i was wrong about them. When i was younger i would tell my mum"i cant wait to get to my husbands house so that i can have him all to myself but all that thought started changing the...
    anizolicious anizolicious 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    Unforgivable

    It shocks me how tolerant society still is of men who beat women. Sure, most people outwardly condmen it, but there are way too many people, both men and women, who still seem to blame the victim. Heck, I've heard it said that women who get beaten by men are at least half the...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    DV (Domestic Violence,

    for those unfamiliar with the acronym) is not acceptable in any circumstance. Words and emotions are FAR more eloquent and take a lot more thought...yielding a richer result - often an enriched relationship. :D
    wuiop wuiop 31-35, M 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    For those who find themselves trapped in an

    abusive relationship and need to understand the dynamics of why,this video is a must.
    berangere berangere 66-70, F Sep 17, 2014

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    God's Creation

    I never understood how men could abuse women.  A creature that God created should never be abused.  From women spring life, how a man can trample that is beyond my understanding.  How men say they love women and then disrespect them is also intolerable.
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    On Vlad's dad of daughter dancer there.

    So reason cheater before married to date and uses cam many networks proof when at work plays around tons girls not just this one guys like him when caught try not to use photo of them and alias names if only his kids knew the truth and wife he will never change or let go of one...
    RiversCozy RiversCozy 41-45, F Nov 3, 2014

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    When my parents were together,

    my parents had a fight and my mum said he hit her. I live with my dad now and he takes antidepressants and "happy pills".
    Frankineedles Frankineedles 13-15, F Sep 26, 2014

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    I use to always get into fights with my baby's

    father and he would always take it to far. But I'm glad I left him for the better of myself and baby
    yseniaa yseniaa 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2014

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    men are pigs. they should be hung upside down

    on a tree and burnt alive. mothers should abort male foetus.
    aproudwoman aproudwoman 46-50, F 9 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Prodding Always watching Stalking My head hurts

    I cannot understand You're after something that you can't have That's why you try to get into my head Leave me alone I cry and I beg You just look at me and tip your head then you give me a smile instead That's when the pressure begins gripping my temples just like a vice...
    smilethepainaway smilethepainaway 16-17, F Aug 28, 2014

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    Never thought he was the type Until I had to

    miss two days of work waiting for the bruises to go down where he pinned me down so he could spit in my face
    smirksy smirksy 31-35, F 13 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    RhythmFeeather RhythmFeeather 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F Sep 12, 2014

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    I just can't understand those

    who feel the urge to abuse women in order to be manly.
    sad2forget sad2forget 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    Men who hit women are not

    even men. No woman deserves to be hit or mistreated. The men that do this are weak, pathetic and cowardly, and have no right to live.
    VinceOfOhio VinceOfOhio 16-17 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    Abusive Relationships

    As a psychotherapist specializing in anxiety and trauma, I've worked with hundreds of women in abusive relationships so I'll share some of what I've learned in the hope that it might help an abuse victim.1.  The longer you put up with abuse, the harder it will be to walk away...
    musicbook musicbook 56-60, M 19 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    It's Not You

    I have a zero tolerance level for any man who lays his hands on a woman in anger, there is absolutely no excuse for it. The problem is that most men who are abusive don’t stop there, they are abusive sexually, take their women for granted, but most of all they are abusive...
    harleylover1970 harleylover1970 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 13, 2011

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    And the other way around.

    Don't hit men, don't hit women. Unless if they like it, but make sure to have a safe word if that's the case.
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2014

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    A Cowards Crime.

    I remember my mother being beaten and abused. My father drank heavily. I recall that when my daughter began living with and having a baby with a guy who was in the Armed Forces, I took him for a beer one day and told him the army did not have enough weapons that would keep me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23, 2012

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    I was just punched by my boyfriend

    and he seems very un-remorseful. Sent me an email to come get my things. I started bleeding through my gums because of the punch and have been having nightmares since. He's a well known professional person in our town. I called the sheriff to report it but did not press charges...
    AloisiaV AloisiaV 56-60, F 6 Responses Jan 17

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    NyCeGuY4URdreamzz NyCeGuY4URdreamzz 22-25, M 7 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Bad Name

    Men who mistreat and abuse women give all of us guys a bad name. Whether the abuse is verbal, mental, emotional, physical, or even sexual.....The rest of us guys pay the price. Ive stopped counting the number of times Ive read stories or comments here that are anti-male here...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe 41-45, M 6 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    I was in Subway by myself

    and on the table next to me were some disgusting, loud-mouthed, rude guys having their daily 'fun' by talking out loud disturbing the peace. In walks an attractive girl in a skirt. As an instinctive move, I looked for a second and turned back, minding my own business without a...
    yourpetmuzzie yourpetmuzzie 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    My brother emotionally

    and physically torments and abuses me. When I tell people they say its family but NO I've seen others families and its nothing like mine
    walkinwonder walkinwonder 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    The Weenie Roast

    I have been a member of EP now, for about 60 days, have made some wonderful friends and of course, met a few others. As I talk to people it amazes me how much abuse has taken place, men hurting their wives. This can be done is so many different ways, can never understand a guy...
    romanticdreams romanticdreams 46-50, M 17 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I hate seeing sweet, nice,

    caring girls getting ****** over by ******** that get whatever they want.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 1 Response May 19, 2014

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    It's More Than Physical

    You don't even have to lay a hand on a woman to abuse her. So much abuse is emotional and mental. Many men do this and don't see it as abuse but your dead wrong. This kind of abuse can leave much deeper wounds on a woman than hitting her do. Tell me why any loving Dom would want...
    MasterGin MasterGin 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    I know this isn't the right approach

    but I've always been the type if I catch you hitting a girl ima beat the absolute fk outta you.. I may have my *** beat but your *** is going to be hurting lol.. Especially if it's my sister.. Violence is the answer in that instance for me sorry rant over :)
    SportsGraphCollector SportsGraphCollector 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 4, 2014

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    I looked like an easy prey on my second day in

    bournemouth .i had been suffering with sever depression anxiety and low self esteem and I was unconfident and extremely ashamed of myself .so I was in a Turkish shop in the arabic area in bournemouth and an older male spotted me and got closer towards me then he had the audicity...
    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I'd just like to know why?

    Why would you hit someone you claim you love. I'm so bitter and I can't let go. The only answer I would want is why?
    lostcause90 lostcause90 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    ...and children. Just miserable cowards.

    ..the lot of the them. I heard this song on the radio, today, and it made me think of this experience.She La - 54-40
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I've had my fair share of abusive relationships

    my ex beat the hell out of me every day and broke my nose and my arm twice it was really bad And I had one in 6th grade and he was in 9th and he would beat me everyday and he broke my collar bone
    oilchick1488 oilchick1488 18-21, F Oct 1, 2014

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    There are so many experiences

    that promote men beating women It's sad.
    Forders2 Forders2 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    Almost three weeks ago i wonderful caring woman

    I know was brutally murdered by her husband. He also killed their two sons. The police who found her and the boys have to go to trauma therapy because of how gruesome the murder scene was. Her husband killed himself by jumping off a bridge onto the highway. Her job was caring...
    Etheros Etheros 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    The first mistake I made was thinking I could

    change you. The second mistake I made was forgiving you after you hurled abuse at me and spat in my face. The third mistake I made was staying with you after you hit me for the first time. The fourth mistake I made was not getting out when I was given the chance. And the fifth...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    There are only 3 things a guy should want to

    change about a girl her last name, her addresses,and view point on men.
    Therealwolfblood44 Therealwolfblood44 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3, 2014

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    As a women I believe

    that men have the right to do whatever they like to is. We are here to please men and shouldn't complain.
    soph99ep soph99ep 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 7

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    my boyfriend broke my arm tonight.

    ..he was drunk. i'm so devastated. he is an amazing person when he is not drunk... I don't know where to go from here. I need you GOD. please help guide me in the right direction.
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 26-30, F 51 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Walk In Beauty After My Beating.

    I must explain about my grandmother and our ways in life so you do not get confused before I continue much farther. You will have to bear with me, my mind is foggy and I shall relate to you as best as I can remember from my writings. I have kept a daily diary all of my life from...
    69yolanda69 69yolanda69 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    If women want to be equal,

    then they can't complain if a man hits them back
    Oscar89 Oscar89 16-17, M 5 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    A Man Does Not Love You When......

    He hits you and is verbally abusive. He tries to control every move you make. He resents you for having a better job and education. He is jealous of your friends and family and tries to stop you seeing them. He crictisizes what is dearest to your heart. He makes fun of your fears...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 17 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    Abuse

    Well, where to start? I'm new to this site, so I feel my first post should be about my most profound struggle in life. It isn't what makes me miserable on a daily basis, it barely effects my moods at all. But everyone has one tragic story, one obstacle in life that really stands...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    We Need To Teach Our Daughters, And Our Sons

    We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between:   a man who flatters her and a man who compliments her,   a man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her,   a man who views her as property and a man who views her properly,   a man who...
    1OHD 1OHD 51-55, M 5 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    why don't we cut abuser's pen*s

    and instead jailed them, I don't believe jail change people. since abusing, especially on very young age have a great effect on the victim, and change their life forever.
    Weepinguy Weepinguy 22-25, M Nov 5, 2014

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    I Don't Hate Them....

    I dislike any (wo)man that emotionally/sexually/physically harms another (wo)man. There is no reason to do such a thing. I don't HATE anyone though. I do detest these people because I feel that they are cowardly for doing such things. I do feel sorry for all the (wo)men that...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    You're 5'11 I'm 5'4 you call yourself a man

    but you just hit me in the face for saying nothing but the truth. You run from your problems just like you're doing now. You called yourself my brother, I considered you a brother. Well guess what big bro, you're supposed to protect me not hurt me! Why does this always happen...
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Just a few hours ago,

    my dad slapped my mom about 5 times and when she fell, he started kicking her.
    MikeB1018 MikeB1018 13-15, M 5 Responses Jan 2

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    Mum use to date this guy he was

    such an ******* he always hit me even when I did nothing wrong when my mum first got with him he got drunk one night and I was sitting on the couch and he came over and randomly started laying into me my older bro stepped in and they got into a fight and mums bf hit him in the...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    The phone rang at 4:30 am.

    This almost never happens. Caller ID showed a woman I have casually "dated" but now we are pretty much friends. She's not my type and we are at different places in life. So WTF ?!?!? WHY is she calling me at 4:30 am As soon as she spoke I knew something was wrong. She had...
    FindingMySong FindingMySong 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2014

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    Except consensual,this is a terrible thing to

    do.People who takes advantage of others playing with their emotions and fears,being violent...sick people with huge issues who should be enclosed.
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2014

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    A Real Man

    a real man never hurts a woman. be very careful when u make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The Woman came out of a man's rib NOT from his FEET to be walked on, and NOT from his HEAD to be superior, but from his SIDE to be EQUAL. under the ARM to be protected and next...