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I Hate Men Who Use Their Kids As Weapons Against Their Exes

A group for people who believe children should not be hostage to their parents' anger 46 People

    Gutless

    It happens all the time, even in supposedly civilised places. Some men, wounded by the breakdown of a marriage, throw some internal switch to Neanderthal and threaten the health and safety of their own children in order to score emotional revenge against their former partner...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    My Boys

    Their father is a heroin addict living with another heroin addict, I do not let them visit as her children are in care, their father is allowed to visit them whilst they are at their gran (his mums) my parents house (weekends) but no here as he also a very abusive man, I am...
    valerie952 valerie952 36-40 May 29, 2012

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    Wtf Meter Is In The Red

    So, baby has a birthday party.  He bagged up all the baby's gifts and took them to HIS home, so now the baby can only enjoy his birthday gifts when he is there.  When the baby asked to have his gifts back, HE said "no, I need things at my house so you'll want to be there too...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned 41-45, F Nov 5, 2011

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    Goes Both Ways

    I know of plenty of women who use their kids as weapons too. Without a doubt, this goes both ways. The legal system here in Australia is incredibly biased towards the women- it been researched, reported and proven countless times. Unless there's a danger to the kids then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 24, 2010

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    I Will Not "suffer"!

    I am a mother. Above and beyond anything else that I may or may not claim to be, I am a mother.  My children are my windows - through them I see beauty in the world. My children are my mirrors - in them I see myself and the future. They are my floors...
    TriumphGirl TriumphGirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Just F-ing Stop It!!!

    A few things I would say if I thought he would listen for a change.1.  Stop throwing yourself across their bodies and sobbing hysterically... they don't understand what you're doing or why and it scares them. After all, they are only 3 and 5.  Rather than focus the attention on...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    I would like to point out we are not all the same some of us are looking for meaningful relationships and the ones who use women are just boys, real men respect women.
    klain45 klain45 26-30, M Apr 6

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    I...don't know if this really requires an explanation. I mean, unless a woman is trying to murder a man and he's defending himself, that's one thing, but men who simply abuse...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    THE BAD THIEF vs THE GOOD THIEF Like a thief in the night he stole it,stole it from my shell.. He ripped it out and held it close to him.. He squeezed it hard,he dropped it...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Please anyone who got out of an abusive relationship. Give me some words of encouragement and support. I don't even know where to start. No job because he convinced me to quit and...
    JenI22 JenI22 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    18 & I Fell In Love Quick & Uh Daddy Try To Tell Me Things Wouldn't Stick , but Uh The Next Thing You Know I'm Down On The Floor , Hands Wrapped Around My Neck I Couldn't Breath No...
    OhhAngie OhhAngie 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My father once told me all women are good for is spreading their legs.
    Jewels2145 Jewels2145 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I have Brylcreemed my hair since my teens. I always admired the stars of old Hollywood for their clean masculine look. Slicked straight back or severely parted; I very rarely spy...
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M 19 hrs ago

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    I found this and thought it could be helpful for someone on ep Early signs of abuse in relationships. -Partner tells you who you can see, what clothes to wear, how to have your...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I was sexually assaulted when I was 12 and since then I feel fiercely protective of myself and other females when it comes to guys. There are some horrible people in the world.
    redmidget redmidget 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    A video well worth watching. http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=KTvSfeCRxe8
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    my boyfriend broke my arm tonight...he was drunk. i'm so devastated. he is an amazing person when he is not drunk... I don't know where to go from here. I need you GOD. please...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 56 Responses Apr 13

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    No one can ever be all for ones spouse. That is silly and childish to expect. My wife Needs God, he meets her spiritual Needs. She Needs friends and so do I. My wife Needs the love...
    Dreammmer Dreammmer 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am african american or black,whichever you prefer to call it,either way I have brown skin.Where I live people use the 'N' word ALL the time,no one says it in racism,its other...
    ShyWallflower ShyWallflower 16-17, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    SpongeBOB gave me homework, and he gave me the task of completing this "story/experience" ... He's not going to be happy with me, because I really don't have any facts or logic to...
    Forget2Trust Forget2Trust 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 26

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    I think men who hit women should be lashed at a public whipping post…which was actually the proscribed punishment in the State of Delaware until the 1950s. Likewise, men who...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Seriously I can't stand those kind of men who will hit women. My ex always threaten me, he said if you don't do this ill kill your family and friends. When ever I go to his...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    Men who have manners and know how to treat a women is much more attractive than a boy with swag who has his pants down to the ground.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F Mar 24

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    Enough said. I do hate men that rape women.Its morally wrong.
    PiperElizabethGx PiperElizabethGx 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I will never have respect for a man who hits and disrespects his significant other. You're a poor excuse for a man. Men who hit women should undergo castration.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 26

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    They pull you in with their attention and sweet words. Make you feel like you actually matter to them. But the moment something else comes into their sight, they are 'too busy' to...
    CactusHugger CactusHugger 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    That's a rarity these days.. at least for guys around my age. Hah. They're too busy trying to act cool and talk **** to their mother in front of other people. In fact, I admire...
    adorea adorea 70+, F 1 hr ago

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    More like a love hate type deal. I love they way they look and their drive to acquire life goals but once I get to know them I find them mean and unaffected rigid and unforgiving...
    just2lovelee just2lovelee 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have never been on a relationship because for one I'm busy with school and for two I don't trust men. The men in my family were always unfaithful to their wives so I grew to hate...
    XXXPOT XXXPOT 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I hate it when people r mean to kids n adults with special needs cause I have members on my family that have down syndrome n other needs so it's not funny or nice to pick on them...
    Iamaweirdonproudofit Iamaweirdonproudofit 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    At my church. There is this one girl with Down syndrome and her parents are there next to her and they have an aura of like "Jesus. We are calling. Waiting." I wanted to help. But...
    Diana14R Diana14R 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Bullies are really people who are too scared to live their own lives so they try to make themselves look better by picking on and saying bad things about other
    alexiasnowbelle alexiasnowbelle 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I remember when I was working in Hong Kong in a family! This couple has 2 kids, the mother help the son to do the homework, and if he could not get it right she try to tell the...
    Bluejec19 Bluejec19 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    This is for Ruth wherever she may be.She was a girl in my class.She had polio and we used to help her up the stairs.She had a smiling face.I suddenly remembered her today.
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    With a passion do I hate it so much! I have family and friends that have disabilities. They are just like everybody else and they are honestly the most compassionate, sweet people...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    My mom is a special ed teacher and I want to be a speech therapist for special ed. I work with the kids a lot and love them so much and it seriously breaks my heart when people...
    oliviahuss1 oliviahuss1 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    agefriends agefriends 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    cheon cheon 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Maybe I m too old school but I m still amazed by these kids talking about relationship. I mean really ??😧😧😧😧😧😩😩😩😳😳😳😫😫😫😫 Focus on...
    Toohottohandle1 Toohottohandle1 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I dont know, but I have always waiting someone. Once, there was a guy who ask me for a date. Disgusting, I wait him for four hours and more. When I text him, he said that he ride...
    chocogirl87 chocogirl87 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    It's happening right in my town and I hate that nothing is being done. Just down the road, there are three pitbulls that are left outside most of the day. Chained and unable to...
    puberro puberro 70+, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    As a Christian, I'm don't really "hate" anybody, so I guess I lied. But my point is more in that I don't believe in hitting women and girls. I would be willing to thug it out...
    DarksBane DarksBane 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Aside from verbal, emotional and psychological abuse my dad hit my mom. I always ask why would a husband hurt someone they vowed to love for the rest of their lives, someone who's...
    FoxxySilverCrow FoxxySilverCrow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I understand that men are stronger then women but not all the time. If a man abuses a women then he's gone, but if a women abuses a man it's okay? Like I said, there are...
    OooohJaime OooohJaime 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    If you have to rape a women, you are not a man. Like wtf is the point?? To take always someone's security, make them feel inferior, & maybe even their innocence. Some women are...
    Batchick420 Batchick420 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Ugh!! It's official. I hate all you men!! Drives me crazy!!
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 31

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    So I just got my restraining order granted against an abuser. Last Friday for one of the court dates, a guy walked up to me and gave me his number and everything, right in front of...
    HeWasThePuppetMaster HeWasThePuppetMaster 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I REALLY HATE disrespectful people! I think germaphobic people are the most disrespectful people on this Earth. These people will not shake your hand, but they will go out to...
    Missinterpret Missinterpret 31-35, F Apr 6

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