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I Hate Men Who Use Their Kids As Weapons Against Their Exes

A group for people who believe children should not be hostage to their parents' anger 48 People

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    So, baby has a birthday party.  He bagged up all the baby's gifts and took them to HIS home, so now the baby can only enjoy his birthday gifts when he is there.  When the baby asked to have his gifts back, HE said "no, I need things at my house so you'll want to be there too...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned 41-45, F Nov 5, 2011

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    Just F-ing Stop It!!!

    A few things I would say if I thought he would listen for a change.1.  Stop throwing yourself across their bodies and sobbing hysterically... they don't understand what you're doing or why and it scares them. After all, they are only 3 and 5.  Rather than focus the attention on...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    I Will Not "suffer"!

    I am a mother. Above and beyond anything else that I may or may not claim to be, I am a mother.  My children are my windows - through them I see beauty in the world. My children are my mirrors - in them I see myself and the future. They are my floors...
    TriumphGirl TriumphGirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    My Boys

    Their father is a heroin addict living with another heroin addict, I do not let them visit as her children are in care, their father is allowed to visit them whilst they are at their gran (his mums) my parents house (weekends) but no here as he also a very abusive man, I am...
    valerie952 valerie952 36-40 May 29, 2012

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    Goes Both Ways

    I know of plenty of women who use their kids as weapons too. Without a doubt, this goes both ways. The legal system here in Australia is incredibly biased towards the women- it been researched, reported and proven countless times. Unless there's a danger to the kids then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 24, 2010

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    Gutless

    It happens all the time, even in supposedly civilised places. Some men, wounded by the breakdown of a marriage, throw some internal switch to Neanderthal and threaten the health and safety of their own children in order to score emotional revenge against their former partner...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Sounds horrible but if I've had boyfriends in the past who do me wrong, I'll always get with them once more just to make them feel like ****, just so they know how it feels. It's...
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Has anyone else heard someone say "it's ok to hit a woman if she's a hoe"? That ****** me off, You can't just use violence against someone just because they have immoral habits. I...
    danamillion danamillion 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    cats aren't ment to be kept inside the house all day. they are hunters and need to be outside. male cats for sure! a girl cat might not min being in a house, but male cats don't...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Those who abuse women are not men. They're scum. Amongst the lowest forms of filth.
    IncompletelyBroken IncompletelyBroken 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I don't hate them because you should't hate anyone but disgusted
    NyCeGuY4URdreamzz NyCeGuY4URdreamzz 22-25, M 8 Responses Aug 22

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    Beware of marrying NRI/ABCD grooms! Indian girls, please research and know whom you are marrying or you may end up getting beaten and abused. Sadly, there are many cases that has...
    Sreeme Sreeme 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I gave him almost everything . But still it wasn't enough . The saddest part was when were still together , they already have an affair with my so called best friend & he chooses...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    The first mistake I made was thinking I could change you. The second mistake I made was forgiving you after you hurled abuse at me and spat in my face. The third mistake I made was...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    as I have commented on a story im going to post what I said on here. ladies you may think you care about the guy that has been hitting, making fun of, or whatever you can dream up...
    hellhound44 hellhound44 18-21, M Aug 4

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    It's wrong for a man to call a woman ugly, but it's also wrong for a woman to call a man ugly. Jus sayin
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    Never thought he was the type Until I had to miss two days of work waiting for the bruises to go down where he pinned me down so he could spit in my face
    smirksy smirksy 31-35, F 13 Responses Aug 12

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    Prodding Always watching Stalking My head hurts I cannot understand You're after something that you can't have That's why you try to get into my head Leave me alone I cry and...
    smilethepainaway smilethepainaway 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    People are always pointing out how much they hate men who hit women (as do I) so I thought I'd remind people that women hit men too...
    OpenMindedGirl1 OpenMindedGirl1 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Two things: One being that the "squeakiest wheel gets the grease", keep this in mind when you read the second thing. Two, is there is a difference. The kind of feminism you see in...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Not only do I hate mental illness, but I hate that people don't understand it. I have lost three family members to mental illness, two from addiction and the other from depression...
    shellseagirl shellseagirl 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 13

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    Seriously, I am sometimes really disgusted by the behaviour of my own gender! While I would claim to handle alcohol pretty well, many others certainly don't. Always when I am...
    European2014 European2014 22-25, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hello people! As a person, we all tend to belong to a society. A society that unfortunately builds unrealistic goals for us. For example being super skinny and having thigh gaps...
    farahway farahway 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I hate people who talk and be on their phone during a movie. Sometimes I want to throw their phone. And yell at them to SHUT THE **** UP
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I don't hate men. But men can really **** me off.
    dubsteplover98 dubsteplover98 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    If your disrespectful dont even talk to me. Especially if you hit women. I'll hit back I don't care if your a man or not. I hate men that disrespect and and abuse women. If your...
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    A true feminist does not hate men and believes in equal rights for women. This group is sadly mistaken.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I wish these experiences would stop with the "I hate people that..." You shouldn't hate anyone, because when you hate you are really hating God! So fist off I want to say I do not...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Men who think women are inferior are usually insecure themselves. I thank God for a husband who treats me as an equal. Of course, we know one is better at certain things than the...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 31

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    Where are they men who can lead don't exist
    benicetome benicetome 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    Just because im really a 97yo male nudist from Japan why cant i make a fake profile and pretend to be a hot 26yo babe so no i dont hate people who make fake profiles, would i have...
    ExtremeNext ExtremeNext 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    Stop fuckking judging people. Your no better. God i hate people who judge
    brookedawn1234 brookedawn1234 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I really hate guys who can only brnhjjû;
    slymac slymac 36-40, M Aug 11

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    The problem for me is this: In general, women care for men & children, whether we know them or not. But it is generally accepted that women & children should feel unsafe in the...
    ChattyCathy80 ChattyCathy80 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I have special needs education, which means I work with kids in kindergarten and elementary school, that suffer from disabilities or have some diagnoses that keeps them on the...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    My step brother Drew is physically and mentally disabled. He has the mentality of a 7 year old on good days, but on bad days it's that of 2 or 3 year old. He's my buddy and I have...
    WigginsEP WigginsEP 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I have a disability, a mental one. And some people may think that I'm a bit arrogant or obsessive. That I care too much for people with the same disability because they are 'just...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I don't know what to do. I'm at a loss. One is Suicidal, and his father, who has given him everything, had a stroke, is mentally deteriorating, and if his dad dies, he will be...
    hsd73 hsd73 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I just hate it when people at school joke about people being autistic and a downie.. It's not funny it hurts peoples feelings and how do you know if that person isn't best friends...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 17

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    I hate when people dont train their dogs! Having a run in with untrained dachshunds has greatly made me hate the breed to this very day. When I was like 8 i went to my future step...
    KiwiLiv KiwiLiv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I can't even describe the anger that runs through me when it happens. This girl used to make fun of the disabled kids at my school all the time. And each time I got pissed off and...
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I honestly don't know what is so funny about disabled kids+adults. Some people are just so rude and don't think about how their actions can affect that person. It's not something...
    Seaaaturtle Seaaaturtle 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Alright here's my rant Why is it when you have kids a man will be all "well how are you gonna have time for me when you have kids?" But then they literally work so much or...
    unclaimedbabygirl unclaimedbabygirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    My best friend, Alex, suspects that his female cousins boyfriend abuses her. I was once in an abusive relationship myself, so I can tell the signs of someone being in one. I...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Today at work we had a couple come in with their son who had autism. You could tell something was wrong with him by the way he carried himself and talked. Okay anyway my coworkers...
    HaleyP HaleyP 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 3

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      Not looking very good to me, today. Just sayin' My SO ordered a washer on their site, and it was delivered today. The sales order does not have LG's name but the...
    DreamWizard DreamWizard 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
    caitlincc11 caitlincc11 26-30, F Aug 7

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