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I Hate Men Who Use Their Kids As Weapons Against Their Exes

A group for people who believe children should not be hostage to their parents' anger 48 People

    I Will Not "suffer"!

    I am a mother. Above and beyond anything else that I may or may not claim to be, I am a mother.  My children are my windows - through them I see beauty in the world. My children are my mirrors - in them I see myself and the future. They are my floors...
    TriumphGirl TriumphGirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    My Boys

    Their father is a heroin addict living with another heroin addict, I do not let them visit as her children are in care, their father is allowed to visit them whilst they are at their gran (his mums) my parents house (weekends) but no here as he also a very abusive man, I am...
    valerie952 valerie952 36-40 May 29, 2012

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    Just F-ing Stop It!!!

    A few things I would say if I thought he would listen for a change.1.  Stop throwing yourself across their bodies and sobbing hysterically... they don't understand what you're doing or why and it scares them. After all, they are only 3 and 5.  Rather than focus the attention on...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    Wtf Meter Is In The Red

    So, baby has a birthday party.  He bagged up all the baby's gifts and took them to HIS home, so now the baby can only enjoy his birthday gifts when he is there.  When the baby asked to have his gifts back, HE said "no, I need things at my house so you'll want to be there too...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned 41-45, F Nov 5, 2011

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    Goes Both Ways

    I know of plenty of women who use their kids as weapons too. Without a doubt, this goes both ways. The legal system here in Australia is incredibly biased towards the women- it been researched, reported and proven countless times. Unless there's a danger to the kids then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 24, 2010

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    Gutless

    It happens all the time, even in supposedly civilised places. Some men, wounded by the breakdown of a marriage, throw some internal switch to Neanderthal and threaten the health and safety of their own children in order to score emotional revenge against their former partner...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Douchebag men will belittle other men who's "too nice", "looks weak", looks "feminine" or simply just doesn't appear "tough enough" to them. Douchebag men will also harass women...
    Incognito666 Incognito666 18-21, M Sep 3

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    Men should treat their woman like Kanye would treat Kanye. :)
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 6 days ago

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    I despise it when someone always try to find a way to make you praise something in their looks, life, and personality. When in the end they do nothing to make their life better...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F Sep 2

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    cats aren't ment to be kept inside the house all day. they are hunters and need to be outside. male cats for sure! a girl cat might not min being in a house, but male cats don't...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    When I first met you I was just getting out of a 9 year abusive relationship. I felt like I was finally starting to find myself again after all those years and like who I was and...
    JenI22 JenI22 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I don't hate them because you should't hate anyone but disgusted
    NyCeGuY4URdreamzz NyCeGuY4URdreamzz 22-25, M 7 Responses Aug 22

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    Don't-we-all? Actually,-I've-never-seen-someone-do-this-but-I-would-hate-it-if-I-saw-it.
    Kyprioi Kyprioi 13-15, F Aug 31

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    For those who find themselves trapped in an abusive relationship and need to understand the dynamics of why,this video is a must.
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 5 hrs ago

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    Prodding Always watching Stalking My head hurts I cannot understand You're after something that you can't have That's why you try to get into my head Leave me alone I cry and...
    smilethepainaway smilethepainaway 16-17, F Aug 28

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    ...and children. Just miserable cowards...the lot of the them. I heard this song on the radio, today, and it made me think of this experience.She La - 54-40
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    >They are beautiful.They look original..They look adorable..Gorgious..and really much more.You wonder where they come from?Just type in address bar Crossdressers in saree images...
    ExUser007 ExUser007 18-21 1 Response Sep 4

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    Men can't you read I don't add and talk to men sorry to disappoint you I am straight and I get on better with girls I get called names like a creep etc and I think to myself...
    charmingcutie charmingcutie 18-21, M 10 hrs ago

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    I hate guys! Playing mind games on a girl who just want to be loved, guys must think because im pretty they can do what they want and must think I'm so stupid well their the ones...
    Fabgal1 Fabgal1 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    Seriously, I am sometimes really disgusted by the behaviour of my own gender! While I would claim to handle alcohol pretty well, many others certainly don't. Always when I am...
    European2014 European2014 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 25

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    There's this friend I've been talking to for almost 2 years. He loves me or something, and recently for the past few months has been asking me for pics, sexual favors and other...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    When I was about 1 or 2 or something I had light blond hair with emerald green shiny eyes. Then at age 6 I started to develop beautiful dirty blond hair. Long and curly. Then at...
    HopeBright44 HopeBright44 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate women and men who does that. Nothing to be proud of, eat your veggies and go sit in a corner.
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I have these two friends who were friends with each before I ever came into either one of their lives...Both have drug problems one more than the other...I am so angry with one of...
    MMMartin MMMartin 51-55, F a week ago

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    Men who hit women normally are insecure and sometimes jealous of what he knows she can accomplish. My uncle hits his girlfriends after having children with them. My mother has been...
    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I passionately hate people who embarrass me in front of others for whatever reason they have. This thwarts me in many ways to get around with my live. I really hate it. I would...
    KaiWong KaiWong 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Think men who wear pantyhose look great!
    MITUK MITUK 36-40, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    My step brother Drew is physically and mentally disabled. He has the mentality of a 7 year old on good days, but on bad days it's that of 2 or 3 year old. He's my buddy and I have...
    WigginsEP WigginsEP 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    People who do are immature bunch of lowlives how can they stoop so low!?! It just shows me their stinking attitude and that they're sick in the head! I mean why would people do...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate when people dont train their dogs! Having a run in with untrained dachshunds has greatly made me hate the breed to this very day. When I was like 8 i went to my future step...
    KiwiLiv KiwiLiv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    My best friend, Alex, suspects that his female cousins boyfriend abuses her. I was once in an abusive relationship myself, so I can tell the signs of someone being in one. I...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Aug 27

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    Okay, so I'm not so young... and I am not even into older men... I'm not really concerned about a person's age at all. I was just watching "Dr. Drew", and he had a segment about...
    shellseagirl shellseagirl 41-45, F 28 Responses 6 days ago

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      Not looking very good to me, today. Just sayin' My SO ordered a washer on their site, and it was delivered today. The sales order does not have LG's name but the...
    DreamWizard DreamWizard 41-45, F Aug 29

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    Seeing people giggle at the kids with disabilities sickens me. If I had to pick my biggest pet peeve it would federally be that.special ed children are special and need help from...
    emmynap emmynap 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 19

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    I asked my mom if I could go 2 work with her and I went and she works where there's disabled kids and teens that need help. I LOVED it there the kids are awesome and really nice...
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M Aug 22

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    I think its pure evil :( I hate too
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    About three years ago, my ex girlfriend cheated on me with three other men, and then did the same years later with an emo Australian. She then started dating my friends and cheated...
    austinmmyers1994 austinmmyers1994 18-21, M Aug 24

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    If one more guy sends me a **** pic attached to the first message i'll lose it, i like talking to people not looking at their junk, so if ya'll message me how about saying your...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why do they degrade themselves by doing this. Also fed up of the usual moans, he does not spend time with me, he goes back to her some using nasty words to describe the one at home...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I guess I'm "judging" people because I dislike the way they judge others but I don't understand. I mean, you have people that make it obvious and known that they won't accept...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F Aug 22

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    What about the women who hit men? Do you hate them too?
    Blizzardpaw Blizzardpaw 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 27

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    I can't stand how kids now a days are just so snobby and they act more like adults than kids. :/ I just don't get why they are so concerned with weight, brands, and looks! Like be...
    AngelaV1988 AngelaV1988 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 8

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    It burns my mind every time I read something about it. It's a against every religion I know and it's inhuman to do.
    jack3683 jack3683 16-17, M Aug 18

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    It's not okay, no matter the circumstance. By cheating you betray the person who you supposedly "love" and throw away their trust. It is a horrible and despicable thing to do...
    VoraciousTurtles VoraciousTurtles 16-17, F Aug 20

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    I'm so sad and disappointed in my bf. you would think someone who is 44 yrs old, smart, and funny...would treat the woman he loves with respect. He has barely talked to me in the...
    hopelesslove30 hopelesslove30 26-30, F Aug 20

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    I'm 15. Momma left me for drugs. Dad is dead. I have 8 brothers n sisters I've never met. Been abused and beaten. And sexually abused more than I can count. Got raped last year got...
    hatemylife1234 hatemylife1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    i cant get interested in ukip, as they are packed full of haters, i wont be freinds with people who are bigots, as their negativity grinds me down. i take people as i find them...
    kuminme kuminme 26-30 Sep 8

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