I Hate Moochers

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 73 People

    Finally Got Rid Of Him

    Hey - this will be very long cos I need to let it all out once and for all. I met him in July 2008 and we started going out straight away. He didn't have a job but said he is managing fine on benefits so I just left it at that. Live and let live. It started innocently - I...
    CassieG CassieG
    1 Response Apr 16, 2010

    Looking For Freeloaders For A National Talk Show

    Freeloading Horror Stories Wanted for New Talk Show An all-NEW National talk show is looking for guests with nightmare freeloading stories. Do you or anyone you know have a freeloader that just won’t go?  Is this freeloader getting out of control and creating big problems...
    bcstim bcstim
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2011

    Man my girlfriends brother

    and mom mooch off me all the time and it ****** me off cause I mean I dont usually ask for stuff from ppl but when I do I feel bad after I do it consecutively but they dont and for like 6 months now Ive been the only one with a job. They bum my cigarettes and ask for a take at...
    andres316 andres316
    18-21, M
    Feb 14

    Almost Three Years I Wasted With A Moocher For A Friend

    I shared this story in a different experience group about an ex-friend who I more or less became enemies with because she was a moocher, and I finally figured it out after nearly three years of friendship with this b***h.  This girl, whose name I will keep...
    mariatortilla88 mariatortilla88
    22-25, F
    Nov 13, 2010

    I Hate My Husband's Mooching Friends

    Years ago, my husband tried to get his friend the "studio designs" to help him build his sound studio. My husband is talented; he's received 8 grammys for his hard work. His friends get recognition because they're friends with my husband who I'll call Moishe. Moishe is a very...
    bitdepthia bitdepthia
    51-55, F
    Apr 17, 2012

    I don't mind helping my friends

    and would do ANYTHING for them... and we've all mooched at some point of our lives. BUT when they own you money and aren't grateful/ expect people to do things so them... that's just GRR >:(
    SeanaO SeanaO
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 30, 2014

    I have a cousin who is a complete moocher.

    She acts like she's still a teenager, when she's in her mid-thirties, and is always depending on others to do things for her. She comes regularly over to my mom's place for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and when she needs to take showers. Furthermore, she asks to borrow clothes and...
    rumblingheart rumblingheart
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2014

    My Soon-to-be-ex-husband's Friends

    While I was in Florida caring for my mother who had had a stroke, the jerk I'd been married to for 35 years decided to have his dead-beat friends come to live with him. Not only did they not pay anything towards the mortgage, taxes, utilities or living expenses - they stayed at...
    bitdepthia bitdepthia
    51-55, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2012

    I Dumped My Moocher Boyfriend!

    I kicked him to the curb! We had been dating for 10 months, and for the last 7 months he had been unemployed.  Now I understand that the economy is bad, but he wasn't even searching for a job.  He told me, his family and friends that he was searching for a job, but I...
    ILuvCats2 ILuvCats2
    9 Responses Jul 13, 2009

    Lazy Moocher

         My husband and I live in a home that is in probate. The woman who lived here we took care of for years and we decided last summer when her health started going down hill to move in so she wouldn't have to have strangers come in and take care of her. It is a huge two...
    edgell edgell
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 20, 2011

    The World Bigest Moucher

    nausha red and  gloria two of tne biggest free loaders ever   got 1500 free diners from one  couple for 7 repay of theres whith were worthless go to bbq with nothing bring back all the extra food from funnerals takes the tolet paper from public  bathrooms...
    emorules emorules
    1 Response Aug 8, 2010

    Especially Moocher Friends

    I have a close friend who is in general very nice and helpful and supportive, but her major flaw is mooching. It can get aggravating sometimes because she is 20 years old, but can act like a seven year old at the lunch table. It is difficult for me to eat anything in front of her...
    dancer2011 dancer2011
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 18, 2008

    The Leach Attached To My Mother.

    My mom is so blind to what is going on because she hates to be alone and her first two husbands cheated on her. The guy she is with now is dependent on her so there is no way he is going to leave her. I can't fully blame her but she wont really disagree with him cause she is...
    Nonamelids Nonamelids
    22-25, F
    Aug 6, 2011

    2nd Episode

    Oh my, where do I begin?  I was dating a guy who had a very low income, but at least he had one. I ended up not talking to him (on purpose) in July. In Oct, we ran into each other at the store.  He asked me for my number again and stupid me gave it to him. This...
    bluepsych bluepsych
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2009


    So the big mooch in my life IMs me and asks if I could drive him to work everyday, and that he'd give me 15 dollars a week. It's complete BS! Before my car broke down I drove him to and from work for a year, and I never got a dime from him. In fact, it cost me money because he...
    KayKai KayKai
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2012

    I Don't Know How They Do It.

    don't get me wrong, i'll do anything to help those i love as much as possible but how do you get to be 50 years old and don't have a home, a job, nothing that you can call your own and have had two children to support? how can you stand getting by on the kindness and generosity...
    jerrica jerrica
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Feb 24, 2011

    I have this friend that is a mooch.

    She is needy, dependent, and relies on others. She asked me for rides a lot along with other favors. We've been friends for a long time, since high school. I've posted this story in another group, but I'm posting it in this group too because it applies here too. I've helped her...
    hiitsme15 hiitsme15
    22-25, F
    Aug 22, 2015

    My Boyfriend The Baby

    I have been dating another Virgo like myself. I know sometimes my sign is a needy one. This boyfriend is alot like old me before my ex helped me become homeless 7 years ago. My boyfriend and I communicate well. My boyfriend had a messed up life like mine abandoned in childhood...
    LovelyChris71 LovelyChris71
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Apr 10, 2012

    I Need Help!

    A year ago my husband invited my Dad to live with us because my Dad quit his job and was having a hard time. My husband did this without consulting me. I knew this was going to be a disaster. We have a small house and to young children so they had to give up one of their...
    Ashmom83 Ashmom83
    Dec 16, 2010

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