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I Hate Mother's Day

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    My mother was not abusive

    but neglectful, emotionally absent & unavailable. In my younger years, this made me distraught, especially when I needed her more. As I got older, I learned to disregard her absence, and in secret turned my feelings to anger. Eventually I came to the point where I pitied her...
    meeeese meeeese 31-35 1 Response May 11

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    As long as I can remember,

    my mom and I have not gotten along. I never liked her; I saw her as strange and for years I couldn't put an finger on it. I wanted her desperately. I longed for my mommy but the mother I wanted was not to be found. I felt like there was this shell of a person living with me who...
    bluesink1 bluesink1 22-25, F 1 Response May 12

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    It Hurts

    I don't know if it's that i actually hate Mothers day.  It just hurts. I had my son for 3 weeks and I tried to be the best mommy I could. He was in NICU the whole time because he was born very premature and it hurts so much that I was never able to hold him...
    BlackWolfEternal BlackWolfEternal 41-45, F 9 Responses May 11, 2008

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    If Only The World Wouldn't Remind Me.

    I hate Mother's day because I hate my mom. And there's no way she could feel anything but hate towards me either, after the way she's treated me. I hate having to even think about her, it hurts too much. Sometimes I wish she had suceeded in killing herself 15 years ago, and 2...
    MyMotherHatesMe MyMotherHatesMe 13-15, F 1 Response May 26, 2011

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    My mom has never loved me.

    I don't hate her but I hate this day because I don't like being reminded of a relationship that we'll never have. There's no reason to celebrate her. I can't wait for this day to be over.
    clkm5050 clkm5050 41-45, F May 11

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    elephant17 elephant17 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I Hate Mothers Day

    We should have a son that should have been born in march and we are trying again, very hard to have a baby to hold. Mothers day from my  prospective just seems cruel. i know that im being a little bitter im sorry i just have to get it out somewere.
    babykicks03 babykicks03 21-25, F 3 Responses May 11, 2007

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    I Hate Mother's Day

    I hate mother's day because after whats happened to me and my family, we now spend every mother's day at the crematorium to place flowers. and everytime we do that i keep getting reminded of that terrible day.
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2010

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    She Was A Heartless Monster

    The person who was a human incubator and the same DNA has been deceased for 25 years, but the memories linger; I was physically and emotionally abused with no mercy.  The day she died was the day her rein of terror was over, thank the good lord.  May you rot in hell, mommie...
    mrsg2002 mrsg2002 56-60 4 Responses May 8, 2011

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    It's Not Because I'm Childfree....

    i don't have children so of course people assume that since i don't have children i wish misery on all of the mothers on the planet.  it's not even remotely like that. my mom (who a) has asperger's and b) almost let me die when i was 14, among other disasters) was very...
    geenpunchbuggie geenpunchbuggie 31-35 2 Responses May 7, 2009

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    ladylove38 ladylove38 36-40, F Jul 8

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    Cozie Cozie 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Today i feel awful is like nobody is there. I feel bad about myself, i look in the mirror and i just want to brake it. I don't like me and i feel stupid about it. Nobody cares...
    havenoideaa havenoideaa 16-17, F Jul 19

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    It started when I was young I was always being blamed and yelled at I remember drawing pictures of me killing myself and my family being happy at the age of 6-7. There were times I...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    It's impossible to write my story, because I know that no one will ever believe me... When you're in love, it's hard not to do anything for the person you care about... No one...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    My ex wife and I have 3 kids. We share custody where we have alternating weeks with the kids. I pay child support and alimony. In addition to that i also pay for my two oldest...
    RichardHertz RichardHertz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    how I feel about my mother makes me afraid to ever have a child... I don't resent her for the things she's done to me because I know she is mentally unstable... but I still hate...
    MarZipansStory MarZipansStory 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm mentioning the whole situation I was into in this story. Here is my story. I used to be a happy girl till the age 11, when I got to know my dad was dead. Mum said he got a...
    Astronggirl212 Astronggirl212 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    It's been a little more than a year since I married my husband and I am fed up with his family, especially his sister. I live with my in laws, my sister in law, her husband, and...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I used to look up to my father; he was my hero. When I was younger, my dad used to go out of town a lot for his 'job' and I would miss him terribly. Now, I cannot stand being in...
    lesluu07 lesluu07 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    My stepdaughter has been working all summer. She's made $400, and plans to work all year while going to school. I was happy to hear it. I thought getting a job would make her act...
    maemaddy maemaddy 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    She was a wonderful mother. I will not lie and say she mistreated me,though she had every right to. My birth came as a result of her rape by a White man(she's Korean) and I was...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I started reading every ones story and I was shocked at how much in common are stories are. I used to be so ashamed of my mother's illness and kept it a secret. As mom got older...
    pamq pamq 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I have a very complex relationship with my parents. A long time ago, I stopped sharing anything with them because I feel that they couldn't be trusted. They are very quick to judge...
    beyondctrl beyondctrl 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I think when I was about nine or ten years old, I realized my mother was doing drugs. When you're a little kid, that is definitely a big deal, and with everything being shoved down...
    OldAbandoned10 OldAbandoned10 22-25, F Jun 30

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    I hate the man who calls me his daughter. My who life all i wanted was daddy. Not just any daddy, but my daddy. The one who donated his dna to my gene pool. In May of 2010 to my...
    karenwarden karenwarden 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    This whole situation im in is very weird and awkward. My mother's boyfriends son is back for a month of the summer, as soon as he got back her bf completely ignores her yet chats...
    sgngng sgngng 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    My sister and I were best friends once. We were very sheltered and though our mother has always been wonderful our Dad was very emotionally abusive and constantly pitted us...
    Emmaleejune Emmaleejune 22-25, F Jul 6

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    If The Money Means That Much To You KEEP IT!!!- On December 12,1992 I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy Cairo Andre. He had blondish curls and green eyes. Sweetest, funniest baby...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I'm not the only person in my family who hasn't gotten along with her. She doesn't speak to my grandmother, who practically raised me, because she doesn't agree with my mother's...
    E991010 E991010 13-15, F Jul 10

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    The doctor I always see when I have an appointment is a perfectly nice person (and he has a cat so that's a plus :3), but I still really, really do not enjoy going to doctor's...
    Ridiculousity Ridiculousity 18-21 6 hrs ago

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    I am my mother's only living child and the summer I turned 12 she needed a complete hysterectomy like yesterday. She had been putting it off for several years and couldn't wait...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm young I was never raised to hate anything i have a very caring heart I don't have a lot if hate in me so when I say I hate someone with all my hate that's Amazing There are...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    It didn't use to be this bad. I just felt like being a guy was better, but now it's at a whole other level. I look into a mirror and I see breasts, I see a vagina, and I hate...
    WhiteSparrow127 WhiteSparrow127 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I deserve honesty! If you have a problem with me, we can talk it out! And don't smile in my face, and frown behind my back, cuz I WILL find out. Don't be flip flop with and hate me...
    Linkson Linkson 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    For 45 years I have been the emotional dumping ground for a mother who lacks the ability to love anyone. I have been groomed for this situation since birth. I have been an...
    antidote4toxicity antidote4toxicity 46-50, F Jul 12

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    I spent the last 11 years spending my entire life savings in a long, drawn out custody battle for my son, who I lost custody of to my ex-wife when he was two. On July 4, 2010 I...
    OneLostFather OneLostFather 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Church is tomorrow and my mother's been calling for an update on our lives. We didn't spend the 4th together and my daughter's away at camp. She doesn't care about us. She...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm adopted. But my Mother and my Sister always tend to gang up on me. Even when I'm sick, or I've been busy or something they complain or they blame for me for something I wasn't...
    rachelharperr rachelharperr 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    You have a lot to do and it's raining out. You are waiting for a reply via snail mail. People misunderstand your intentions. You don't hear from people you're close to. I'm in a...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 3 hrs ago

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    My Mother, simply put, is the meanest, angriest, most unpleasant person I know. She is a mentally ill psychotic, a tyrant, and a bully all rolled into one. My parents split up when...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Seriously I hate girls that go after men because they are in the military. Aka tag chasers. Military life isn't all it's cracked out to be. I seriously don't get it. I can't stand...
    F0REVERY0UNG23 F0REVERY0UNG23 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    So I just really need to get this off my chest as it is taboo to mention such things anywhere else! I hate being a stepmom!! Yes I hate it... I didn't say I hate my step kids... I...
    Unleashedmind Unleashedmind 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6

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    I was unfortunate enough to land myself in a house that includes not only my husband but along with my in laws, sister in law, her husband, and two kids. Everyone knows and can...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I absolutely hate my family and it is not because I am a spoiled brat or am ungrateful, it is because they have mistreated me so bad throughout my life that I can no longer put up...
    rosesrthebest rosesrthebest 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    My mom and father both smoke. Dad had quit for a long time and then a family friend got him back on it. I resent her for it. My mom hadn't smoked in years. Then one day when we...
    jcylee99 jcylee99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I miss her. When she's here, she's still gone.
    SaraRose0616 SaraRose0616 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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