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I Hate Mother's Day

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    My mom has never loved me.

    I don't hate her but I hate this day because I don't like being reminded of a relationship that we'll never have. There's no reason to celebrate her. I can't wait for this day to be over.
    clkm5050 clkm5050 41-45, F May 11, 2014

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    If Only The World Wouldn't Remind Me.

    I hate Mother's day because I hate my mom. And there's no way she could feel anything but hate towards me either, after the way she's treated me. I hate having to even think about her, it hurts too much. Sometimes I wish she had suceeded in killing herself 15 years ago, and 2...
    MyMotherHatesMe MyMotherHatesMe 13-15, F 1 Response May 26, 2011

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    I Hate Mother's Day

    I hate mother's day because after whats happened to me and my family, we now spend every mother's day at the crematorium to place flowers. and everytime we do that i keep getting reminded of that terrible day.
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M Jan 6, 2010

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    It Hurts

    I don't know if it's that i actually hate Mothers day.  It just hurts. I had my son for 3 weeks and I tried to be the best mommy I could. He was in NICU the whole time because he was born very premature and it hurts so much that I was never able to hold him...
    BlackWolfEternal BlackWolfEternal 41-45, F 9 Responses May 11, 2008

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    My mother was not abusive

    but neglectful, emotionally absent & unavailable. In my younger years, this made me distraught, especially when I needed her more. As I got older, I learned to disregard her absence, and in secret turned my feelings to anger. Eventually I came to the point where I pitied her...
    meeeese meeeese 31-35 1 Response May 11, 2014

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    It's Not Because I'm Childfree....

    i don't have children so of course people assume that since i don't have children i wish misery on all of the mothers on the planet.  it's not even remotely like that. my mom (who a) has asperger's and b) almost let me die when i was 14, among other disasters) was very...
    geenpunchbuggie geenpunchbuggie 31-35 2 Responses May 7, 2009

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    elephant17 elephant17 18-21, F 3 Responses May 11, 2014

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    She Was A Heartless Monster

    The person who was a human incubator and the same DNA has been deceased for 25 years, but the memories linger; I was physically and emotionally abused with no mercy.  The day she died was the day her rein of terror was over, thank the good lord.  May you rot in hell, mommie...
    mrsg2002 mrsg2002 56-60 4 Responses May 8, 2011

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    I Hate Mothers Day

    We should have a son that should have been born in march and we are trying again, very hard to have a baby to hold. Mothers day from my  prospective just seems cruel. i know that im being a little bitter im sorry i just have to get it out somewere.
    babykicks03 babykicks03 18-21, F 3 Responses May 11, 2007

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    As long as I can remember,

    my mom and I have not gotten along. I never liked her; I saw her as strange and for years I couldn't put an finger on it. I wanted her desperately. I longed for my mommy but the mother I wanted was not to be found. I felt like there was this shell of a person living with me who...
    bluesink1 bluesink1 22-25, F 1 Response May 12, 2014

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    It always goes by so quickly. I have a ton of boring chores to do, too. I just want to take the last day and enjoy it to it's fullest. It's gorgeous outside!
    AmyOnEP AmyOnEP 41-45, F Apr 12

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    Worst day ever. I get a headache every Monday after school, sometimes at school. It's the most stressful day for me, because I'm tired and have to be around annoying people at...
    Artist156 Artist156 16-17, F a week ago

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    I hate having to bend over for the dam beltm
    tonyaoneal18 tonyaoneal18 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    I just don't know what my purpose is.and I just feel like my life is over
    harleymufin harleymufin 13-15, M Apr 9

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    Caste is ruining my love life. My father is opposing the marriage.
    tamildejavu tamildejavu 18-21 Apr 20

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    So Mother's Day is around the corner and I am going to take this time to vent. Ever since I was 12 years old I knew I didn't have a mother. The woman I was forced to live with...
    Cranksta Cranksta 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 21

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    I miss her every day and I wish she was here :/ hate that Mother's Day is coming up :/ it makes me sad seeing all the ads on TV and stuff in the stores :/
    zaraxxx zaraxxx 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 23

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    Anyone else find picking out a mother's day card the most annoying things you have to do all year. I have to find the most generic card with no meaningful details to it. It makes...
    jncmrpk jncmrpk 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    First of all, I want to thank the person who created this group, it's good to not be on your own... I'm grateful that people in this world will listen to me with their attentive...
    anacastlebeach anacastlebeach 13-15 2 Responses Apr 10

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    "13 Things No Estranged Child Needs To Hear On Mother’s Day" http://www.mommyish.com/2014/05/07/estranged-adult-children-mothers-day/
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    My two daughters were at their daddies house this weekend. I went to pick them up, and I was so surprised when they both came up to me and hugged me, and then gave me something...
    DesireeRae DesireeRae 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I can't totally hate myself one day and the next feel fine
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    My guilt tears me apart for saying this. Now, as I'm approaching adulthood and is a full time student in college, my mother can't seem to comprehend what is happening to me. She...
    LoveSoLife LoveSoLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    I am just coming to the realization that I am the adult daughter of a narcissistic mother. It is only now that I have found an interest in psychology and have done some reading...
    n2385 n2385 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    I felt wrong when I looked at my mother's phone and viewed her internet history, but she had been acting suspicious and private about her cellphone for months and I needed to know...
    StellaClammy StellaClammy 18-21, F Apr 21

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    I saw my sister trying to trim her bangs ineffectually in the bathroom. The dark hair was piling up in the sink, but she couldn't get the bang lines even. I offered to help her...
    ClippHers ClippHers 61-65, M Apr 7

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    I somehow hate the idea of being at family functions when my REAL MOTHER is not there. Afterall, my family, my real family thinks that my Mother is for REAL and that she is hurting...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Apr 12

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    I somehow hate the idea of being at family functions when my REAL MOTHER is not there. Afterall, my family, my real family thinks that my Mother is for REAL and that she is hurting...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Apr 12

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    In the years since I researched and wrote Mean Mothers, I’ve talked to women about our shared experiences. Every woman’s story is different, of course; perhaps the greatest...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 4 Responses Apr 11

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    So it isn't really doctor related but I want to share my awful experience with the hospital. Last month I was having severe chest pains. Including dizziness, lightheaded ness and...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Apr 14

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    I'm the 2nd born and the only girl. I was born to a woman who was convinced that it was impossible for her to birth a female. I was nameless for the first 3 weeks of my life. I...
    SheepishlyMe SheepishlyMe 26-30 5 Responses a week ago

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    I was almost human sexually enslaved... I was once desperate for a job. I was then sent an email stating how I was offered an at home job, how I'd be paid monthly. The guy whom I...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Apr 20

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    Indeed. But I see now. The only way to combat utter hatred is with understanding and compassion. I pity the children, they were not taught love. I feel sorry for the adults they...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    Unfortunately I do. She is the best and the worst. The best because she's the only mother I will ever have and the worst because she turns people against me and tries to separate...
    SteelButterfly SteelButterfly 41-45, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    That is a beautiful way to remember your Mom! My Mom has been gone for a long time, 18 years, and I miss her every day. You are a very special daughter, and I'm sure your Mother's...
    smarjo57 smarjo57 56-60, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    lemme tell something "bout feelings Feelings r like your mother's breast's u know where they r but they're best left unfelt
    Thepainlover Thepainlover 22-25, M Apr 9

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    Her smile is always genuine. Her words are full of sincerity. Kind, welcoming and positive. She is amazing as a parent and like a best friend to her husband. She has ways I want to...
    redfairy16 redfairy16 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    Hates a powerful word and bet step children pick up on it. I know how it feels to receive hate cause of sexuality. We have three beautiful children 2 daughters 15 and 13 and son 11...
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    If there is anything I really, really hate it's drunk people!!!!! Today my mom got back from a friends house smelling of the stuff and as soon as she came into the house she...
    lanaT1998 lanaT1998 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 18

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