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I Hate Mother's Day

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    I Hate Mother's Day

    I hate mother's day because after whats happened to me and my family, we now spend every mother's day at the crematorium to place flowers. and everytime we do that i keep getting reminded of that terrible day.
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2010

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    elephant17 elephant17 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I Hate Mothers Day

    We should have a son that should have been born in march and we are trying again, very hard to have a baby to hold. Mothers day from my  prospective just seems cruel. i know that im being a little bitter im sorry i just have to get it out somewere.
    babykicks03 babykicks03 21-25, F 3 Responses May 11, 2007

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    My mom has never loved me.

    I don't hate her but I hate this day because I don't like being reminded of a relationship that we'll never have. There's no reason to celebrate her. I can't wait for this day to be over.
    clkm5050 clkm5050 41-45, F May 11

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    My mother was not abusive

    but neglectful, emotionally absent & unavailable. In my younger years, this made me distraught, especially when I needed her more. As I got older, I learned to disregard her absence, and in secret turned my feelings to anger. Eventually I came to the point where I pitied her...
    meeeese meeeese 31-35 1 Response May 11

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    It's Not Because I'm Childfree....

    i don't have children so of course people assume that since i don't have children i wish misery on all of the mothers on the planet.  it's not even remotely like that. my mom (who a) has asperger's and b) almost let me die when i was 14, among other disasters) was very...
    geenpunchbuggie geenpunchbuggie 31-35 2 Responses May 7, 2009

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    As long as I can remember,

    my mom and I have not gotten along. I never liked her; I saw her as strange and for years I couldn't put an finger on it. I wanted her desperately. I longed for my mommy but the mother I wanted was not to be found. I felt like there was this shell of a person living with me who...
    bluesink1 bluesink1 22-25, F 1 Response May 12

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    It Hurts

    I don't know if it's that i actually hate Mothers day.  It just hurts. I had my son for 3 weeks and I tried to be the best mommy I could. He was in NICU the whole time because he was born very premature and it hurts so much that I was never able to hold him...
    BlackWolfEternal BlackWolfEternal 41-45, F 9 Responses May 11, 2008

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    She Was A Heartless Monster

    The person who was a human incubator and the same DNA has been deceased for 25 years, but the memories linger; I was physically and emotionally abused with no mercy.  The day she died was the day her rein of terror was over, thank the good lord.  May you rot in hell, mommie...
    mrsg2002 mrsg2002 56-60 4 Responses May 8, 2011

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    If Only The World Wouldn't Remind Me.

    I hate Mother's day because I hate my mom. And there's no way she could feel anything but hate towards me either, after the way she's treated me. I hate having to even think about her, it hurts too much. Sometimes I wish she had suceeded in killing herself 15 years ago, and 2...
    MyMotherHatesMe MyMotherHatesMe 13-15, F 1 Response May 26, 2011

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    So blessed to have a mother who loves unconditionally and who has always been there.. HBD to my mom and best friend!!♥♥♥♠
    ladylove38 ladylove38 36-40, F Jul 8

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    That sensation of emptiness when you have so much to write but you just can’t formulate your thoughts into coherent sentences or find the right words to use. That feeling you...
    BewareTheGonzo BewareTheGonzo 13-15 4 Responses Jul 11

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    Every guy. Is going to fall for the same girl. The same girls are going to get told there pretty over and over again. Because they are. And then there are the best friends. The...
    Cozie Cozie 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Today i feel awful is like nobody is there. I feel bad about myself, i look in the mirror and i just want to brake it. I don't like me and i feel stupid about it. Nobody cares...
    havenoideaa havenoideaa 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    (First of all, English is not my first language,so, please, forgive my mistakes) Last mother's day, I went thought a list of: 'The greatest things my mother has done for me' I read...
    alinie alinie 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    It started when I was young I was always being blamed and yelled at I remember drawing pictures of me killing myself and my family being happy at the age of 6-7. There were times I...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    So the past few days have been the most depressing days of my life, summer no longer feels like freedom. My mother is a very emotionally unstable ***** and I have suffered too long...
    RockNRepublic RockNRepublic 16-17, F Jun 24

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    Crusade of the Jerks. In my earlier post, in this group, I haven't really gone into a whole lot of detail about all two of the guys I've seen my mom get into serious relationships...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F Jun 25

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    Does anyone else with depression or ADHD have that problem with their family? Like they think "OK well you're on meds now so you should suddenly be your old happy, productive self...
    CaptainXeno CaptainXeno 31-35, F Jun 25

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    It's impossible to write my story, because I know that no one will ever believe me... When you're in love, it's hard not to do anything for the person you care about... No one...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yes i realize that everyone must love their mother and **** and i get that, but sometimes its just very difficult to do that when she is insane. Its very sad, but i truly hate my...
    nogoaway nogoaway 22-25 1 Response Jun 23

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    I too was raised as one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Both my mother and father had embraced this religion back in the late 40's and 50's before I was ever born. In fact, my father...
    crystalbuddah20 crystalbuddah20 51-55, F Jun 27

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    I too was raised as one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Both my mother and father had embraced this religion back in the late 40's and 50's before I was ever born. In fact, my father...
    crystalbuddah20 crystalbuddah20 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    My ex wife and I have 3 kids. We share custody where we have alternating weeks with the kids. I pay child support and alimony. In addition to that i also pay for my two oldest...
    RichardHertz RichardHertz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    how I feel about my mother makes me afraid to ever have a child... I don't resent her for the things she's done to me because I know she is mentally unstable... but I still hate...
    MarZipansStory MarZipansStory 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm mentioning the whole situation I was into in this story. Here is my story. I used to be a happy girl till the age 11, when I got to know my dad was dead. Mum said he got a...
    Astronggirl212 Astronggirl212 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I used to look up to my father; he was my hero. When I was younger, my dad used to go out of town a lot for his 'job' and I would miss him terribly. Now, I cannot stand being in...
    lesluu07 lesluu07 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    My stepdaughter has been working all summer. She's made $400, and plans to work all year while going to school. I was happy to hear it. I thought getting a job would make her act...
    maemaddy maemaddy 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I began dating my wife in October 2012 and met my in-laws in November of that year. My father in law is a celebrity in Mexico and Internationally. The family of my wife while we...
    Poitiers5 Poitiers5 22-25, M Jun 25

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    She was a wonderful mother. I will not lie and say she mistreated me,though she had every right to. My birth came as a result of her rape by a White man(she's Korean) and I was...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I started reading every ones story and I was shocked at how much in common are stories are. I used to be so ashamed of my mother's illness and kept it a secret. As mom got older...
    pamq pamq 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I have a very complex relationship with my parents. A long time ago, I stopped sharing anything with them because I feel that they couldn't be trusted. They are very quick to judge...
    beyondctrl beyondctrl 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I think when I was about nine or ten years old, I realized my mother was doing drugs. When you're a little kid, that is definitely a big deal, and with everything being shoved down...
    OldAbandoned10 OldAbandoned10 22-25, F Jun 30

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    I hate the man who calls me his daughter. My who life all i wanted was daddy. Not just any daddy, but my daddy. The one who donated his dna to my gene pool. In May of 2010 to my...
    karenwarden karenwarden 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    So my mother - the twisted mind she is - recently took someone in that "was horribly abused". At first I didn't really care. I didn't like the girl, but I figured it would make my...
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    This whole situation im in is very weird and awkward. My mother's boyfriends son is back for a month of the summer, as soon as he got back her bf completely ignores her yet chats...
    sgngng sgngng 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    My sister and I were best friends once. We were very sheltered and though our mother has always been wonderful our Dad was very emotionally abusive and constantly pitted us...
    Emmaleejune Emmaleejune 22-25, F Jul 6

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    If The Money Means That Much To You KEEP IT!!!- On December 12,1992 I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy Cairo Andre. He had blondish curls and green eyes. Sweetest, funniest baby...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    My mother has always been a rather unpleasant person to be honest - when I was a child she would occasionally hit me and as I got older she would be a little more creative, once...
    Fedupdaughter Fedupdaughter 61-65, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm not the only person in my family who hasn't gotten along with her. She doesn't speak to my grandmother, who practically raised me, because she doesn't agree with my mother's...
    E991010 E991010 13-15, F Jul 10

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    I am my mother's only living child and the summer I turned 12 she needed a complete hysterectomy like yesterday. She had been putting it off for several years and couldn't wait...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate it. I'm the kind of girl who faints when she sees blood. It's actually happened before. But, in the words of my mom, I "have a tender heart". Just thinking of war, of men...
    gimmeasec gimmeasec 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I'm young I was never raised to hate anything i have a very caring heart I don't have a lot if hate in me so when I say I hate someone with all my hate that's Amazing There are...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I honestly do. I am my worst demon, nothing I ever do is right, I get into a relationship and feel like they hate me from day one and I know it's because I am me. Boys only want...
    KawaiiMushmew KawaiiMushmew 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I deserve honesty! If you have a problem with me, we can talk it out! And don't smile in my face, and frown behind my back, cuz I WILL find out. Don't be flip flop with and hate me...
    Linkson Linkson 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    For 45 years I have been the emotional dumping ground for a mother who lacks the ability to love anyone. I have been groomed for this situation since birth. I have been an...
    antidote4toxicity antidote4toxicity 46-50, F Jul 12

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    I spent the last 11 years spending my entire life savings in a long, drawn out custody battle for my son, who I lost custody of to my ex-wife when he was two. On July 4, 2010 I...
    OneLostFather OneLostFather 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Church is tomorrow and my mother's been calling for an update on our lives. We didn't spend the 4th together and my daughter's away at camp. She doesn't care about us. She...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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