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I Hate My Baby's Daddy

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    Wow. I keep telling u

    but u don't seem to understand. Or maybe u don't read my messages. I love my son. Just cause I chose not to be with u doesn't mean that I don't. My brother told me to make my son happy I have to be happy. I won't be happy with u. Constantly fighting yelling. I'm not gonna put up...
    icancreateb icancreateb 26-30, F Jan 15, 2014

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    He's So Dumb.

    My unborn baby's father is a complete idiot.... I DESPISE HIM SO MUCH. I was debating for months whether or not to cut him out of my life... then I found out I was pregnant. I am so happy, but not that he is the father. Now this moron is going to be in my life.... forever. And...
    blueberry89 blueberry89 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 24, 2010

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    Dead To Us Now

    Today he passed the point of no return. He has f*ed up since day one. Abandoned me while I was pregnant and done me wrong ever since then, but although I had nothing more for him I didn't stop him from contacting my child (he's never tried to see her, just made a few calls, very...
    semisw33t semisw33t 26-30 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    I don't know if I should be happy

    or disappointed. Today my sons father asked to sign his rights away. Which legally he can't unless he goes 6 months without talking to me or if I get married here shortly. (Which isn't going to happen). I guess this is something I've always wanted back in the day. I just thought...
    kharrison1597 kharrison1597 22-25, F Jun 11

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    I Hate Him

    I wish I never met him. he ruined my life. I'll never be the same. now I'm all alone with no one, just regrets. how could you take away everything I once had?
    lilysmommy lilysmommy 18-21 4 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    Well, January 22nd, will be my daughters 12th

    birthday, I am a long distance mom, she lives in Alabama, and I live in Montana, after all these years, I still hate her father, for all of the lies he has told her, and how he treats me, and I even hate to say this, but I even go so far to hate his parents, who are raising my...
    MeiDio MeiDio 26-30, F Jan 19, 2014

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    Today my daughters dad messaged me

    that he has his life in order but I don't want him coming back in her life it confuses her and he has been in a bad place and doin drugs idk if I trust him
    flea2010 flea2010 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    Ughhh I Swear I Knew My Baby Daddys Gf Would Inbox Me About Bs..

    this is our convo.. she 25 I just turned 20.. Conversation started Sunday 9/22, 2:38pm Riecee Davis idk why you thought adding my brother was a great idea...... be smart! stay in you lane sweetheart. i am not the one Sunday 9/22, 5:54pm Shirlyn Smith im sorry but who are yu...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    A Letter For You

    I hate you cause I love you so much and your a big fat screw up... Why is it okay for you to go do what you want to do (which is illegal) and leave me at the house by myself with no phone or vehicle. You have a child on the way that you have to think about. I do now. And you're...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Screw You I've Moved On To A Better Man Than You'll Ever Be!

    I hate my baby daddy because of the fact that he gets to live his life as if nothing happens while I sacrifice as a mother to raise a child! We were unseperable until I got pregnant and was hardly around. He blamed it on his o.c.d that it didn't let him see me behave he had a...
    LizC815 LizC815 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    My child's father has come back around I'm

    now 6 months pregnant maybe 2 or 3 weeks ago he just randomly called me and wanted to buy all this stuff for my baby girl. Even though I wanted to curse him hurt him for leaving me and denying our child. I just accepted and set up a date to go shopping with him. Everything went...
    kindofcurious22 kindofcurious22 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2014

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    I Hate My Baby's Daddy And Hate Myself For Still Loving Him

    Well where do i start? how i had Toxemia and pre-eclempsia, and at 9 months pregnant he would make me wash the floors on my hands and knee's? or how he would go out and stay out for days and nights my whole pregnacy and we lived together? or how i was in labor alone for 10...
    babymama83 babymama83 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    My Daughter Met Her Father

    OMG so for the first time my daughter met her father I absolutely cannot Stand my baby daddy he's deadbeat piece of **** but we met and talked today and after an ok conversation I brought him to the car and let him see her it was such an uneasy feeling i agreed to let him see her...
    mercedes1328 mercedes1328 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Today my daughters father finally saw her

    after 2 months. Will this cycle continue or will I have to continue to be her mother and father?
    JessC12 JessC12 22-25, F 1 Response May 10

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    He's so disrespectful to me.

    Constantly calling me out of my name and talking down to me. He's a good dad when he's present, but I just wish we could have a good relationship as parents.
    beautifulmind14 beautifulmind14 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I am a single mom working a full time job

    busting my *** to make ends meat. My son's dad and me were together for four years and he knows this child is his, yet he still says our son isn't his. i"m struggling and I need help. Also, i would like to sign his phone number up for baby texts or anything annoying/embarrassing...
    bherrington55 bherrington55 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    A Glorious Email To My Deadbeat Baby Daddy.

    I cannot belive how I let someone like you take me so low. You know, I gave you everything I had. You needed a place to live; stay for free. You needed food; let me buy it for you. You needed clothes; hey I'll take care of that. Wow, what an idiot, huh? I mean, I can't even get a...
    PrettyGirlBlues PrettyGirlBlues 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 4, 2011

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    I don't hate anyone but I strongly dislike my

    child's father . My ex told me was moving 2 weeks ago because his gf lied to him saying that she's not having his kid and that she cheated on him and I thought maybe he was moving to a different school or something but then last week Monday I'm in class since he has some...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    King Of The Losers!

    This past weekend, as weekends before, my sons father called and said he was going to pick him up...and never showed or called!! my sweet wonderful son(most the time,he is a boy!) was all dressed and waited for him all day.He asked me why he didnt show up, I told him he must of...
    jennylee0715 jennylee0715 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    Everything He said was a lie from the very

    beginning. He hurt me so bad. Why would someone be so mean and deceitful ? Why would someone purposefully ruin another persons life. Why if He did all this to me I still think about him all the time and Why would I still love him and want him back. I feel like deep deep down...
    MomOfSmoot MomOfSmoot 31-35, F Mar 2

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    You are so stupid, seriously.

    I cannot stand you. I can't believe I ever thought I loved you. You want to ***** to me about how you forgot to buy your sons plane ticket! This is supposedly my fault. Just like everything is! I don't understand how one can try and destroy one's life. I've given your son...
    kharrison1597 kharrison1597 22-25, F Jun 5

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    Hate Is Not Strong Enough

    I will write more later but I hate that piece of **** scum. I do not want to understand how you can ignore your child knowing that she needs you in her life. I hate that he acts like a piece of ****. I hate that he pretends to be nice and call her 4 times a year then drops off...
    smilemovie smilemovie 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    Control Freak Baby Daddy

    Good Lord I only stayed w him bc I got pregnant and 6yrs later we ended up having another baby. I am finally so happy w my current husband but have baby daddy always bringing drama in my life. No child support, doesn't pick up the kids. Doesn't buy them anything and wants credit...
    Bandidalinda Bandidalinda 31-35 Aug 26, 2012

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    Paybacks A "Mother"

    Okay... We're do I start... Me and my child's "father" have been together for two years. Our relationship moved pretty fast and before I knew it I was pregnant. Although he wasn't "jumping for joy" he repeatedly told me "I don't believe in abortions... We're going to have that...
    Gettingstrongereachday Gettingstrongereachday 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    My Story

    Shortened version of my story: I was living with my BD throughout my pregnancy. As I got bigger, our relationship grew worse. He was never considerate of me being pregnant. I was sensitive and moody and I had concerns about our baby and our relationship that I tried to share...
    NewMomma26 NewMomma26 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    My sons father drives me nuts.

    One minute he wants to be in his sons life and the next he'd rather be with his new girlfriend. Ugh I hate him so much.
    Teenmommy16 Teenmommy16 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    Tired Of Bums

    Im on my 3rd baby 2nd babydaddy im 30 yrs old, an I wait'd all this time to start having children an had them by the two sorry *** mkfas on the planet, its sicken to my stomach an its nt nausea, just if I run into another bum in my life im gonna spit ughhhhhhhhh!!!!
    Nancy83 Nancy83 31-35, F Jul 30, 2013

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    Fairy Tale, Gone.

    I never thought I could hate someone just as much as I love them. He was so sweet, so loving. Everyone would tell me how lucky I was to find someone so, seemingly perfect. I became pregnant, and you should have seen how happy he was. I was scared, 21, only a year left in school...
    cnk91 cnk91 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    My son will be 2 in December.

    I kicked his dad out of my apartment just before the new year. We did not go to court but both have my son half the time. I'm dealing with some major issues with him right now. He wants the things that his family and friends gave to us at the baby shower. He is constantly...
    tenderheart92 tenderheart92 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    It's been a while now,

    and I no longer want to have bad feelings for him, so this will probably be my last post in this set of experiences. (hopefully lol) Things seem to be going in a good direction, he has been reaching to my mom about the kids, and my baby born, unborn at the time, seems to be...
    sugabuga1 sugabuga1 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2014

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    Ok , I recently just got separated from my

    husband . I ended things because I felt like he was not treating me right and pretty much hurting me in the process . I'm currently expecting a baby boy and God I'm excited and terrified at the same time . When I left , I made sure to end things and I specially told him to leave...
    riaa777 riaa777 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2014

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    My names Chanel. I just turned 16 years old in

    April, I got pregnant in October I'm 31 weeks pregnant right now. My baby's father and I started dating in october actually. I ended up getting pregnant the first or second time we had sex. We were really good friends for a year before we even thought about dating. I found out...
    lolchanel2016 lolchanel2016 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    HE Hurt Me Soo Bad

    my baby daddy left me and our daughter two weeks before Christmas 2008. His reason for leaving because he said God don't want us living together, but to make a long story short he left us for another woman. He moved in with his roommate. he talked about me to his family and...
    hurtsoobad08 hurtsoobad08 26-30 6 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    My baby daddy has been sleeping with my cousin

    I can't stand to even look at him and on top of that she has herpes they are both foul and I hate that he is my son dad that just cross the line
    Queenunique Queenunique 26-30, F Jun 8

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    Strongly Dislike, Can't Say That I Hate Him.

    I met my oldest child's father in November of 2004 and we pretty much got together instantly. We were both extremely horny teenagers and went at it whenever we could so it was no big surprise when I found out that I was pregnant in March 2005. Our relationship was always kind of...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2011

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    A$$hole!

    i hate my babys father! he wants nothing to do with her! i dont know why he wouldnt want to be apart of this beautiful little girls life!
    blueeyedangel25 blueeyedangel25 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    im a single mother of @ 2

    that i have with my babys father i ve tried to tolk to him about he should be helping but no i tried looking for him but he wont show up for dates ive asked so we can tolk about making a descion and being good parents for for our kids now im just stuck and i keep going to child...
    lokita22 lokita22 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2014

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    I don't hate him but it just irritates me

    that he won't talk to me and tells me he regrets meeting me etc. but when I ask him what did I do wrong he won't tell me. We have a 2 month old baby and we recently moved and almost every single day he goes out with our daughter and won't return until late. I hope he isn't...
    caribbeanbabe808 caribbeanbabe808 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    Age 25 And

    I have two children ages 1 and 5 two boys I constantly work. My kids father and I have been together for 11 years he just got a job in the last two years I had my first apartment at age 17 I worked and paid all the bills now all he talks about is how he never had his own place...
    PeachesR15 PeachesR15 26-30 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    Okay, I don't really hate him

    but I do think a complete waste of space, and he's more useful dead than alive. He does nothing for the kids. Since our divorce, he has done nothing but lie...all the time. At first the kids blamed me because he used to tell them that I was the reason that he couldn't see them...
    noodle425 noodle425 26-30, F Jun 21

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    Omggggg!!!! I hate this mf!

    !!! If I had gotten drunk and not knew who the hell my baby daddy was that would have been fine with me !!!!! He makes my ****** blood boil!!!!!! I'm so tempted to leave before my baby is born and never contact him ever no call no pics no nothing!!!! **** HIM!!!
    Amerson20 Amerson20 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    My Baby Daddy Has Disrespected Me For The Last Time!

    Gonna make a long story short. My baby daddy does absolutely nothing for my child. I allowed him to come see her against my wishes for her first birthday. The evening ended with him spitting on me twice. This is the memory I now have on my childs first birthday.
    OctoberMom84 OctoberMom84 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2010

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    He is the coward of all cowards!

    We loved and depended on him and when my unemployment ran out, I guess we were too much responsibility for him. We.. myself, my daughter and our 3 month old son. Poor guy wasn't getting his sexual needs met. Poor guy expected was tended to when I couldn't even find time to...
    seekeretta seekeretta 36-40, F Feb 10, 2014

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    He Really F*cked Up

    His name is Rameses McAllister and currently lives in St.Charles Missouri in his momma's basement with his no job, no car, and no driver license having  a**. He owes me over $5,000 in back child support. He doesn't want to pay. He is 34 years old and needs to grow the...
    MeanLady MeanLady 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 28, 2010

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    I Had A Child With A Child.

    Let me start by saying that no matter how i was treated, I swore to never keep my daughter from her father. I figured he would hang himself on that subject. The last few weeks he's been absent due and comes by today to spend time with her. Well she screamed her head off and...
    johkuhl johkuhl 36-40, F Nov 23, 2013

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    I Hate Him...

    Hi viewers... I'm pregnant, hurt, lost, disrespected and alone... why? I was involved and thought that I was in love with this coward loser... I should have known he didn't give a crap about me because we have been hot and cold for the last six years...you couldn't tell me I didn...
    irre irre 26-30 2 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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