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I Hate My Baby's Daddy

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    Baby Daddy Drama

    My story started over 12 years ago, me and BD have been on and off in our relationship. i left the country for 6 years but came back and tried to rekindle things but he was plain out nasty to me one day he says we can make things work the next he is non commital its been a...
    herflyself herflyself 26-30 Apr 16, 2011

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    Hate Is Not Strong Enough

    I will write more later but I hate that piece of **** scum. I do not want to understand how you can ignore your child knowing that she needs you in her life. I hate that he acts like a piece of ****. I hate that he pretends to be nice and call her 4 times a year then drops off...
    EmpressLya EmpressLya 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    Don't Even Claim Her At All

    Me and my baby daddy know each other for 3 years. We from the same place and my family know his family. When I had told him that I were pregnant by him. He was like she not mind. He told me that he want a DNA test to prove that she his or not. When he said that had hurt my heart...
    SheMyHeart SheMyHeart 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    A Little Girls Father

    I thought that since we have a baby marriage is best for her to have mother and father. The father was the ultimate love of my life and then his family scared him to marry me. I became pregnant and then he fell completely out of love and asked for me to abort her. She was not...
    sleepless75 sleepless75 31-35 2 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    My Baby Daddy Is Satan'S Child

    Every day I pray to God to release this demon of hatred I have in my soul for my child's father. I loved him more than ever. We were great then I got pregnant. He said abort it or I will leave. I told him to leave and I will take care of my responsibility. He came back and...
    tsimone1 tsimone1 26-30 3 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    When Life Hands You Too Many Lemons

    I'm not one to vent but lately I'm a bit lost. Well, Not a bit, but maybe completely losing my mind because I was "pretending" to be okay when I should have been more open to the fact that I can not control what life will throw my way. It's going to happen and I'm very aware of...
    ellebanna25 ellebanna25 22-25 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    My Baby Daddy Has Disrespected Me For The Last Time!

    Gonna make a long story short. My baby daddy does absolutely nothing for my child. I allowed him to come see her against my wishes for her first birthday. The evening ended with him spitting on me twice. This is the memory I now have on my childs first birthday.
    OctoberMom84 OctoberMom84 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2010

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    He's A Dead Beat

    I Am 22 yrs old with a beautiful 6mnth old baby girl . The "***** Donor" has not been in her life at all because i left him when i was 6 months pregnant . so now he feels some type of way . i've tried and tried to give him a chance to be in my child's life and now he feels the...
    greatmama13 greatmama13 22-25 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    My sons father drives me nuts.

    One minute he wants to be in his sons life and the next he'd rather be with his new girlfriend. Ugh I hate him so much.
    Teenmommy16 Teenmommy16 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    Hate Is Such A Strong Word But......

    I got job transfer to new city. husband wss to join me and our 2 kids in few months. he ended up having affair and leaving me alone with kids and no family.. I hate him and her for what they have done to us. I can't get over the anger and disbelief
    kikip kikip 31-35 Oct 12, 2013

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    im a single mother of @ 2

    that i have with my babys father i ve tried to tolk to him about he should be helping but no i tried looking for him but he wont show up for dates ive asked so we can tolk about making a descion and being good parents for for our kids now im just stuck and i keep going to child...
    lokita22 lokita22 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    A$$hole!

    i hate my babys father! he wants nothing to do with her! i dont know why he wouldnt want to be apart of this beautiful little girls life!
    blueeyedangel25 blueeyedangel25 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    I don't hate him but it just irritates me

    that he won't talk to me and tells me he regrets meeting me etc. but when I ask him what did I do wrong he won't tell me. We have a 2 month old baby and we recently moved and almost every single day he goes out with our daughter and won't return until late. I hope he isn't...
    caribbeanbabe808 caribbeanbabe808 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    He's So Dumb.

    My unborn baby's father is a complete idiot.... I DESPISE HIM SO MUCH. I was debating for months whether or not to cut him out of my life... then I found out I was pregnant. I am so happy, but not that he is the father. Now this moron is going to be in my life.... forever. And...
    blueberry89 blueberry89 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 24, 2010

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    It's been a while now,

    and I no longer want to have bad feelings for him, so this will probably be my last post in this set of experiences. (hopefully lol) Things seem to be going in a good direction, he has been reaching to my mom about the kids, and my baby born, unborn at the time, seems to be...
    sugabuga1 sugabuga1 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    A Glorious Email To My Deadbeat Baby Daddy.

    I cannot belive how I let someone like you take me so low. You know, I gave you everything I had. You needed a place to live; stay for free. You needed food; let me buy it for you. You needed clothes; hey I'll take care of that. Wow, what an idiot, huh? I mean, I can't even get a...
    PrettyGirlBlues PrettyGirlBlues 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 4, 2011

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    I don't hate anyone but I strongly dislike my

    child's father . My ex told me was moving 2 weeks ago because his gf lied to him saying that she's not having his kid and that she cheated on him and I thought maybe he was moving to a different school or something but then last week Monday I'm in class since he has some...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Ughhh I Swear I Knew My Baby Daddys Gf Would Inbox Me About Bs..

    this is our convo.. she 25 I just turned 20.. Conversation started Sunday 9/22, 2:38pm Riecee Davis idk why you thought adding my brother was a great idea...... be smart! stay in you lane sweetheart. i am not the one Sunday 9/22, 5:54pm Shirlyn Smith im sorry but who are yu...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    My names Chanel. I just turned 16 years old in

    April, I got pregnant in October I'm 31 weeks pregnant right now. My baby's father and I started dating in october actually. I ended up getting pregnant the first or second time we had sex. We were really good friends for a year before we even thought about dating. I found out...
    lolchanel2016 lolchanel2016 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Omggggg!!!! I hate this mf!

    !!! If I had gotten drunk and not knew who the hell my baby daddy was that would have been fine with me !!!!! He makes my ****** blood boil!!!!!! I'm so tempted to leave before my baby is born and never contact him ever no call no pics no nothing!!!! **** HIM!!!
    Amerson20 Amerson20 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My Story

    Shortened version of my story: I was living with my BD throughout my pregnancy. As I got bigger, our relationship grew worse. He was never considerate of me being pregnant. I was sensitive and moody and I had concerns about our baby and our relationship that I tried to share...
    NewMomma26 NewMomma26 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    My child's father has come back around I'm

    now 6 months pregnant maybe 2 or 3 weeks ago he just randomly called me and wanted to buy all this stuff for my baby girl. Even though I wanted to curse him hurt him for leaving me and denying our child. I just accepted and set up a date to go shopping with him. Everything went...
    kindofcurious22 kindofcurious22 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I Dont Know About This

    Well, it started out a little strange but a year into our dealings with each other (mine was exclusive,he was not apparently) I got pregnant. I found out about the cheating and broke up with him and he begged his way back into my heart. I wanted it to work so bad,knowing that he...
    sugabuga1 sugabuga1 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2013

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    He is the coward of all cowards!

    We loved and depended on him and when my unemployment ran out, I guess we were too much responsibility for him. We.. myself, my daughter and our 3 month old son. Poor guy wasn't getting his sexual needs met. Poor guy expected was tended to when I couldn't even find time to...
    seekeretta seekeretta 36-40, F Feb 10

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    I Hate Him

    I wish I never met him. he ruined my life. I'll never be the same. now I'm all alone with no one, just regrets. how could you take away everything I once had?
    lilysmommy lilysmommy 18-21 4 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    I am a single mom working a full time job

    busting my *** to make ends meat. My son's dad and me were together for four years and he knows this child is his, yet he still says our son isn't his. i"m struggling and I need help. Also, i would like to sign his phone number up for baby texts or anything annoying/embarrassing...
    bherrington55 bherrington55 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I hate him it's official at first I despised

    him then it went to I really don't like him to I hate him . Ever since we broke up 2 weeks ago he's been a nightmare he's acting as if I broke his heart I broke up with him because he's been cheating on me and got another girl pregnant and this has been happening since he found...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    Fairy Tale, Gone.

    I never thought I could hate someone just as much as I love them. He was so sweet, so loving. Everyone would tell me how lucky I was to find someone so, seemingly perfect. I became pregnant, and you should have seen how happy he was. I was scared, 21, only a year left in school...
    cnk91 cnk91 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Ugh

    Me and my baby's father were just supposed to be friends with benefits. We both agreed that we weren't going to let feelings get involved n if we had the slightest hint to ourselves that one of us was getting feelings, we would just have to call it off. We agreed on strictly sex...
    Me3613 Me3613 22-25 1 Response Aug 16, 2012

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    Control Freak Baby Daddy

    Good Lord I only stayed w him bc I got pregnant and 6yrs later we ended up having another baby. I am finally so happy w my current husband but have baby daddy always bringing drama in my life. No child support, doesn't pick up the kids. Doesn't buy them anything and wants credit...
    Bandidalinda Bandidalinda 31-35 Aug 26, 2012

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    I Hate My Baby's Daddy And Hate Myself For Still Loving Him

    Well where do i start? how i had Toxemia and pre-eclempsia, and at 9 months pregnant he would make me wash the floors on my hands and knee's? or how he would go out and stay out for days and nights my whole pregnacy and we lived together? or how i was in labor alone for 10...
    babymama83 babymama83 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    I Thought I Knew You

    We grew up together. He was my brothers best friend. He was always there for me, he's in most of my memories and pictures. He knows all of my friends and he was always there for me when I needed someone. What started out as friends became very good friends over time. From there...
    blackpepperdiviant blackpepperdiviant 22-25 Apr 26, 2013

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    Single Mom And Absentee Father.

    Ever since I divorced the children's father, he has NOTHING to do with them. I've tried to make it easy for him to have contact but, he was too busy drinking. Since the divorce, he's met a new woman...I couldn't be happier for him, and for myself, but has started another family...
    irishbrat38 irishbrat38 41-45 2 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Paybacks A "Mother"

    Okay... We're do I start... Me and my child's "father" have been together for two years. Our relationship moved pretty fast and before I knew it I was pregnant. Although he wasn't "jumping for joy" he repeatedly told me "I don't believe in abortions... We're going to have that...
    Gettingstrongereachday Gettingstrongereachday 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2013

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    Well, January 22nd, will be my daughters 12th

    birthday, I am a long distance mom, she lives in Alabama, and I live in Montana, after all these years, I still hate her father, for all of the lies he has told her, and how he treats me, and I even hate to say this, but I even go so far to hate his parents, who are raising my...
    MeiDio MeiDio 26-30, F Jan 19

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    Can'T Say Hate, But Can'T Stand At All!!!

    ARG!!!! I sooo just want to leave him. We weren't really together for that long before I got pregnant. We were only together for a month and a half officially before I took the test so honestly didn't really know him that well. Now, the more I'm learning about him, the more I can...
    ToxicLove89 ToxicLove89 22-25, F May 18, 2013

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    He Really F*cked Up

    His name is Rameses McAllister and currently lives in St.Charles Missouri in his momma's basement with his no job, no car, and no driver license having  a**. He owes me over $5,000 in back child support. He doesn't want to pay. He is 34 years old and needs to grow the...
    MeanLady MeanLady 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 28, 2010

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    Strongly Dislike, Can't Say That I Hate Him.

    I met my oldest child's father in November of 2004 and we pretty much got together instantly. We were both extremely horny teenagers and went at it whenever we could so it was no big surprise when I found out that I was pregnant in March 2005. Our relationship was always kind of...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2011

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    My Daughter Met Her Father

    OMG so for the first time my daughter met her father I absolutely cannot Stand my baby daddy he's deadbeat piece of **** but we met and talked today and after an ok conversation I brought him to the car and let him see her it was such an uneasy feeling i agreed to let him see her...
    mercedes1328 mercedes1328 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Here We Go Again!

    Seriously? So my ex, (my sons father), starting dating this woman a little after we broke up. She seemed like a really nice person. She was licensed in home daycare. I have full custody of my son and his father pays me child support. Usual dead beat dad story blah blah blah...
    livelaughlove25 livelaughlove25 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 10, 2009

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    Dead To Us Now

    Today he passed the point of no return. He has f*ed up since day one. Abandoned me while I was pregnant and done me wrong ever since then, but although I had nothing more for him I didn't stop him from contacting my child (he's never tried to see her, just made a few calls, very...
    semisw33t semisw33t 26-30 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    King Of The Losers!

    This past weekend, as weekends before, my sons father called and said he was going to pick him up...and never showed or called!! my sweet wonderful son(most the time,he is a boy!) was all dressed and waited for him all day.He asked me why he didnt show up, I told him he must of...
    jennylee0715 jennylee0715 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    Age 25 And

    I have two children ages 1 and 5 two boys I constantly work. My kids father and I have been together for 11 years he just got a job in the last two years I had my first apartment at age 17 I worked and paid all the bills now all he talks about is how he never had his own place...
    PeachesR15 PeachesR15 26-30 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    A Letter For You

    I hate you cause I love you so much and your a big fat screw up... Why is it okay for you to go do what you want to do (which is illegal) and leave me at the house by myself with no phone or vehicle. You have a child on the way that you have to think about. I do now. And you're...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Im Soo Fuxkin Tired. Excuse My French

    right now I just need to vent!!! IM SO FUXKIN TIRED OF MY ***** DONER ITS THE SAME **** EVERYDAY.. HE KEEPS PUTTIN PPL BEFORE OUR DAUGHTER.. ALL I WANNA DO IS CRY BCUZ THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANTED HER TO HAVE A FATHER. HE SEEMED SO WONDERFUL UNTIL I GOT PREGNANT. HE LEFT ME FOR...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    Dear Jay...

    Dear Jay, I wonder sometimes if you are ever thinking of me while I am thinking of you. I have not heard from you in over a year. Why? Did nothing we did matter to you? Don't you remember when we laid in the sand at the lake for hours kissing and talking? Do you not care about...
    mooseychang mooseychang 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2013

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    HE Hurt Me Soo Bad

    my baby daddy left me and our daughter two weeks before Christmas 2008. His reason for leaving because he said God don't want us living together, but to make a long story short he left us for another woman. He moved in with his roommate. he talked about me to his family and...
    hurtsoobad08 hurtsoobad08 26-30 6 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    Wow. I keep telling u

    but u don't seem to understand. Or maybe u don't read my messages. I love my son. Just cause I chose not to be with u doesn't mean that I don't. My brother told me to make my son happy I have to be happy. I won't be happy with u. Constantly fighting yelling. I'm not gonna put up...
    icancreateb icancreateb 26-30, F Jan 15

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    I Had A Child With A Child.

    Let me start by saying that no matter how i was treated, I swore to never keep my daughter from her father. I figured he would hang himself on that subject. The last few weeks he's been absent due and comes by today to spend time with her. Well she screamed her head off and...
    johkuhl johkuhl 36-40, F Nov 23, 2013

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    Screw You I've Moved On To A Better Man Than You'll Ever Be!

    I hate my baby daddy because of the fact that he gets to live his life as if nothing happens while I sacrifice as a mother to raise a child! We were unseperable until I got pregnant and was hardly around. He blamed it on his o.c.d that it didn't let him see me behave he had a...
    LizC815 LizC815 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    I Hate Him...

    Hi viewers... I'm pregnant, hurt, lost, disrespected and alone... why? I was involved and thought that I was in love with this coward loser... I should have known he didn't give a crap about me because we have been hot and cold for the last six years...you couldn't tell me I didn...
    irre irre 26-30 2 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    Tired Of Bums

    Im on my 3rd baby 2nd babydaddy im 30 yrs old, an I wait'd all this time to start having children an had them by the two sorry *** mkfas on the planet, its sicken to my stomach an its nt nausea, just if I run into another bum in my life im gonna spit ughhhhhhhhh!!!!
    Nancy83 Nancy83 31-35, F Jul 30, 2013

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