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I Hate My Bad Husband

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    Addiction To Affliction

    My husband and I met when we were stationed together in Okinawa Japan. Being both Marines pretty much sealed our fate from the get go. The first time I met him, I thought he was arrogant. There was a darkness about him that I was wary of but also curious about. When we first...
    Nillynunu Nillynunu 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    I Don't Know What to Believe

     After 15 years together my husband tells me that over the past 2 months he's spent tons of money on another woman - but that "I did not have sexual relations with that woman".  He says they only spent time together going out for dinner and he bought her stuff...
    bluefin bluefin 46-50 7 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Just Frusterated!

     My husband is a liar, a constant liar.  I have lived with it for 16 years or more!  He is a good dad, which is probably the only reason I choose to stay.  For the kids.  My life has been 1 lie after another for no apparent reason. So where do I begin...
    wowimnotalone wowimnotalone 36-40 4 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    Can You Beat This?

    My husband is an alcoholic, and like all alcoholics, he lies... He is always contrite and sorry after he does something really crappy. And then come all the promises to quit drinking, get medical help, and be a better husband. One time, we were traveling overseas, in a country...
    susanishere susanishere 41-45 4 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    Humiliated N Frustrated

    my husband is such a egoist. he thinks that he has the right to get angry on me at any time on smallest issues also. i feel really bad and when he is angry he will yell at me loudly and say such bad things that i just feel to runaway but what to do being in india u have to take...
    tsde tsde 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    My husband is such a ****!

    I swear he is the worst! I really hate him so much! Idk what to do about it
    brooketaylorsss brooketaylorsss 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Husband Been In Trouble With Law, Nothing Too Major But Its Killing Me!

    Hi I been with my husband for five years now and i love him dearly but he has been in a been in a bit of some trouble. He has a bad driving record and yes its only him going to work but he has been driving with a suspended license a few times. He is going to court next month...
    Jillianalexis00 Jillianalexis00 26-30, F Jun 15, 2012

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    Narcissist, Ocd, And Addict All In One

    I am happy to say I am in a new place. My hubby soon to be ex has been on match.com for many months. Jetsmoothscotch is his name. He had a severe addiction to Internet ****. So immense that I could not let my children use the same computer. He is very controlling and feels no...
    Lovniowa Lovniowa 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    Another Blame On Me

    This is second time he didn't come home. He checks who I call and text, yells if I sleep in a car trying to get a way from his verbal abuse, asks for money for the rent, food while I try survive cereal on lunch break. I worked all day when he didn't work. There is no reason of...
    Stone0410 Stone0410 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    My Husband "Accidentally" Had A 40th Birthday Party For Another Woman

    When I was about to turn 40, my husband never offered to have a party for me, and I assumed we would do something special for the milestone. I asked several times if he wanted to plan something and he just said he didn't know. I was really looking forward to a dinner party and...
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Disordered Personality

    I m a 40yrs old lady with three kids two boys and agirl i feel my self helpless and pathetic bcoz my husband was a drug addict before we got married we didn't know that ,but he swore to quit and assure me not to indulge in that **** again but got himself in alcohol most of the...
    Neelember701 Neelember701 36-40 May 14, 2012

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    Don't Clean The House

    I decided to mop the floor.  My husband was gone exercising.  He comes home and starts yelling at me because he thinks it's not a good time for me to clean.  He doesn't like the smell and he had to take something outside and he didn't want the wheels to get wet.  Then he said...
    beckea beckea 41-45 2 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    What Happened To My Life

    I've been married 6 years now.i have a daughter from previous relationship. Color the last 5 years i have been the only one working.I am 30 years old my husband is 44. I have started to resent him. Honestly the only reason i stick it out is because my son is possible adhd... I...
    slavender slavender 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    My Husband A First Class Jerk..

    So I wake up this morning to Frank (My husband) yelling about how I don't wake upat all for the kids..Well he doesn't do much as a father for them...All he does is watch TV and/or play his video games..He says he isthere for them but in reality all I see is him yelling at them or...
    JBaby00Girl JBaby00Girl 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2011

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    I hate my husband of 20 yrs. I often wish he would just leave or even die, and then feel like a horrible person for wishing for him to die. Not because I would miss him, but...
    shazzy41498 shazzy41498 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    I hate my husband because he always comes first. His drinking comes first. His needs/wants come first. He doesn't care if I need sleep, if I'm sick, pregnant, whatever, he will...
    sickofthisdisrespectfuljerk sickofthisdisrespectfuljerk 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I really despise my husband. We have been married for over 5 years and I have started to have such angry feelings toward him I could scream. He is an abusive man, he digs into his...
    Anon0526 Anon0526 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 28

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    I hate my husband! He is such a child.. He calls me names all the time and repeats them because he knows how much it irritates me! Sometimes I sit and think about how good my life...
    irritatedtothemax irritatedtothemax 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    That moment when you're reading through 'I Hate Bad Grammar' experiences and you immediately check for bad grammar. Unless badder grammar is purposefully done. Then that's just...
    MyNameMeansLight MyNameMeansLight 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    She introduced us when she started working at my workplace. later she told people that she only did that so that she made friends. then she told me that people told her i was...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 11

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    My husband's ex has caused us years of hassle - when we met they were still meeting up at her house. Every time he tried to end it with her, she harmed herself and even attempted...
    bebyvee bebyvee 26-30, F Jul 29

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    Looks my world is about to change majorly. Just got news late last night that my step-sons mom has cancer. She apparently has had it before but it is now in her lungs and brain...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    Very long story short...my DH (darling husband) and his Ex have been D for 5 years. 2 kids (10 & 7). She remarried 2 months after the D. Has 2 yr old with new Hubby. Right...
    QuiltyByMarriage QuiltyByMarriage 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    Starting to hate him more and more everyday just found out from my son that he has been bashing me to him which is horrible.then when we have fights he will call me a stupid c**t...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    I met my husband when I was a vulnerable 17 yr old. I had no self confidence and meeting him was amazing. We married 6 years later when I was 23 and have an 8 yr old and 5 yr old...
    rainebow79 rainebow79 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 3 Responses Jul 29

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years and married for 5. He has known since the beginning that I wanted children. I have a 17 y/o from a previous relationship and...
    gd78 gd78 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Is there anyone in this group who wants to be apart of a documentary? You would submit a video to us and the team will contact you if we want to use it for the documentary. We...
    ShyMysticc ShyMysticc 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Not even sure where to start. I feel like I'm married to a stranger. To make the story shorter, we've been married for 4 years, 2 young girls, he's physically cheated on me and has...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    after 4 years of marriage and a beautiful daughter out of it, i am done. i am done with being used financially, emotionally, and physically. it didn't start out this way, and i am...
    kmdavid kmdavid 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    Uh-uh, no, It is NOT REAL BAD. I believe the words you're looking for are REALLY BADLY! Gosh, I hate when people make that mistake. ADVERBS, PEOPLE!
    anyafrost anyafrost 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm staying up late again waiting to see what time my husband will come home. I saw him before he left again at 1 AM and now it is 2:33 AM. Last night he drank a lot and blacked...
    mesoftly mesoftly 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I cant stand that he d doesnt understand that when anyone brings up his mother's name it makes my blood boil you see I invited her over for a party and as usual his mother can b...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I'm a Mexican girl from East Los Angeles, California, and I now live in New Zealand. I married a Kiwi man, and it's not all that I thought it would be. I feel constantly dismissed...
    secretsurgeon secretsurgeon 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    my husband ****** me so hard and after that said-You can't make me happy :(..,wtf with him
    icanreachyourhight icanreachyourhight 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I am new to EP, and noticed there are just over 4,000 members in this group. I was wondering out of all those people, how many have actually gotten away from their husbands and...
    fedup9742 fedup9742 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    So not only did my husband come home at 3 am!!!! He then proceeds to text me at 4am while I'm sleeping saying "I should just come in there and 'rape' you" and then sends me a pic...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 12 Responses Aug 17

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    Why do I ALWAYS get put on the back burner?! My husband chooses everything over me and our kids. I'm ******* sick of it. What's love anyway, right??
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband's jealousy is more than I can bare.
    mrstonie mrstonie 46-50, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am so tired of picking up after your immigrant ***, and then after 3 years of you not working and me like an idiot paid for everything now that I had a baby you throw in my face...
    malonso1994 malonso1994 36-40, F Jul 31

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    I married a man 20 years ago. After the first 5 years the sight of him made me sick. I stuck around because i thought i had to. Ladies if you hate this man please leave them...
    gmayes9 gmayes9 51-55 4 Responses Aug 5

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    I am Stuck with a man who I don't even want to be around... Yet I am stuck living with him ....And no it is not easy to get out.... I depend on him to watch kids so I can work so I...
    summersnow78 summersnow78 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    There is one type of bad grammar I let slide for myself (and others, of course). I know the proper pronoun for any dog is "it", but I always refer to a dog as "him" or "her". I don...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    My eid experience. Me and my sister and their friends planned to eat at each other house. It was great except for the people. There was people who stood right in our room judging...
    ohida ohida 16-17, F Jul 29

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    In my dream, I dreamt that I was doing this project with my cousin and this other guy. Main point--- I had ideas for the project that I thought were really helpful and asked my...
    adl117blue adl117blue 13-15, F Aug 18

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    Well not when it's informally used. I'm not a hypocrite. In formal situations, be it speaking or writing, I have a problem with the use of bad and incorrect grammar. Everybody...
    somerbunni703 somerbunni703 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I have given my very best and its never good enough.i know what a wife should be and i am more than that.i have no one to talk to.when i talk to him about personal things during a...
    rece1117 rece1117 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 29

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