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I Hate My Bad Husband

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    What Happened To My Life

    I've been married 6 years now.i have a daughter from previous relationship. Color the last 5 years i have been the only one working.I am 30 years old my husband is 44. I have started to resent him. Honestly the only reason i stick it out is because my son is possible adhd... I...
    slavender slavender 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    Husband Been In Trouble With Law, Nothing Too Major But Its Killing Me!

    Hi I been with my husband for five years now and i love him dearly but he has been in a been in a bit of some trouble. He has a bad driving record and yes its only him going to work but he has been driving with a suspended license a few times. He is going to court next month...
    Jillianalexis00 Jillianalexis00 26-30, F Jun 15, 2012

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    Can You Beat This?

    My husband is an alcoholic, and like all alcoholics, he lies... He is always contrite and sorry after he does something really crappy. And then come all the promises to quit drinking, get medical help, and be a better husband. One time, we were traveling overseas, in a country...
    susanishere susanishere 41-45 4 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    Narcissist, Ocd, And Addict All In One

    I am happy to say I am in a new place. My hubby soon to be ex has been on match.com for many months. Jetsmoothscotch is his name. He had a severe addiction to Internet ****. So immense that I could not let my children use the same computer. He is very controlling and feels no...
    Lovniowa Lovniowa 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    Don't Clean The House

    I decided to mop the floor.  My husband was gone exercising.  He comes home and starts yelling at me because he thinks it's not a good time for me to clean.  He doesn't like the smell and he had to take something outside and he didn't want the wheels to get wet.  Then he said...
    beckea beckea 41-45 2 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    Just Frusterated!

     My husband is a liar, a constant liar.  I have lived with it for 16 years or more!  He is a good dad, which is probably the only reason I choose to stay.  For the kids.  My life has been 1 lie after another for no apparent reason. So where do I begin...
    wowimnotalone wowimnotalone 36-40 4 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    My Husband "Accidentally" Had A 40th Birthday Party For Another Woman

    When I was about to turn 40, my husband never offered to have a party for me, and I assumed we would do something special for the milestone. I asked several times if he wanted to plan something and he just said he didn't know. I was really looking forward to a dinner party and...
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Addiction To Affliction

    My husband and I met when we were stationed together in Okinawa Japan. Being both Marines pretty much sealed our fate from the get go. The first time I met him, I thought he was arrogant. There was a darkness about him that I was wary of but also curious about. When we first...
    Nillynunu Nillynunu 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Another Blame On Me

    This is second time he didn't come home. He checks who I call and text, yells if I sleep in a car trying to get a way from his verbal abuse, asks for money for the rent, food while I try survive cereal on lunch break. I worked all day when he didn't work. There is no reason of...
    Stone0410 Stone0410 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    I Don't Know What to Believe

     After 15 years together my husband tells me that over the past 2 months he's spent tons of money on another woman - but that "I did not have sexual relations with that woman".  He says they only spent time together going out for dinner and he bought her stuff...
    bluefin bluefin 46-50 7 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    My husband is such a ****!

    I swear he is the worst! I really hate him so much! Idk what to do about it
    brooketaylorsss brooketaylorsss 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Humiliated N Frustrated

    my husband is such a egoist. he thinks that he has the right to get angry on me at any time on smallest issues also. i feel really bad and when he is angry he will yell at me loudly and say such bad things that i just feel to runaway but what to do being in india u have to take...
    tsde tsde 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    Disordered Personality

    I m a 40yrs old lady with three kids two boys and agirl i feel my self helpless and pathetic bcoz my husband was a drug addict before we got married we didn't know that ,but he swore to quit and assure me not to indulge in that **** again but got himself in alcohol most of the...
    Neelember701 Neelember701 36-40 May 14, 2012

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    My Husband A First Class Jerk..

    So I wake up this morning to Frank (My husband) yelling about how I don't wake upat all for the kids..Well he doesn't do much as a father for them...All he does is watch TV and/or play his video games..He says he isthere for them but in reality all I see is him yelling at them or...
    JBaby00Girl JBaby00Girl 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2011

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    Very long story short...my DH (darling husband) and his Ex have been D for 5 years. 2 kids (10 & 7). She remarried 2 months after the D. Has 2 yr old with new Hubby. Right...
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    I would like to tell my story and see what you think of it. Been married for 7 years. My husband is an expat living in my country. My father gave us an apartment free to live in so...
    Gretasun Gretasun 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Mostly just one of his friends. He is the definition of a jackass. He's a single 24 year old who has absolutely no responsibilities. He seems to drag my husband into all kinds of...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F Aug 29

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    My husband is an *******!!!!!!! I hate how my kids cry for him when he leaves or goes out to be with his friends!! He doesnt deserve that kind of love from them he never spends...
    texaschick85 texaschick85 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Well I wouldn't say hate but, I thought they were really weird alot different from what I am used to I remember walking into his house and noone that past by me ever said hello I...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Sep 9

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    Last November I searched for my husbands Facebook account (we are not friends on Facebook). When I looked at his friends list, I was shocked to find that he had friended his ex...
    LostOnline LostOnline 41-45, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Mine is not a husband!!! He's just a spouse. A husband is someone who takes care of his wife. Emotionally, physically, and everything in between. A spouse is an *******, that...
    fedup9742 fedup9742 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I never hated something so much in my life and I love animals but this dog is making me hate my life and marriage....no idea what to do
    AudreyNH1 AudreyNH1 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Why do I ALWAYS get put on the back burner?! My husband chooses everything over me and our kids. I'm ******* sick of it. What's love anyway, right??
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    My husband's jealousy is more than I can bare.
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 8 Responses Aug 25

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    I'm so sick of doing everything in the house and being told I never do anything. Or being on my feet all night trying to clean up and get my basement finished and get a nursery...
    blondie529 blondie529 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I married my husband because I was ready. I was ready for a family. My parents are both deceased and my window of time for having a baby was coming down. We dated for a year...
    silentla silentla 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    I have been married for 18 years and I'm sick of seeing him everyday. He works from home so I am his fetcher. I think I should change my name to Fetch or Getthat. We have 4...
    sallyalex sallyalex 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm certain my husband has depression and is in denial. I don't think our marriage can tolerate much more. All of the kids are complaining to me about his grumpiness. I feel like...
    skcg1 skcg1 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    Just had another experience with a bad driver. He wanted me to make a right turn when I had the red light, and traffic was making a left turn in front of me. When I finally had a...
    Professorfate Professorfate 51-55 Aug 31

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    i mean it happenes to everyone to have a bad day sometimes. But bad behaviour, as a result when someone tells you the truth, and you have no other way to react? or bad behaviour...
    Crown63 Crown63 51-55, M 5 days ago

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    Well not when it's informally used. I'm not a hypocrite. In formal situations, be it speaking or writing, I have a problem with the use of bad and incorrect grammar. Everybody...
    somerbunni703 somerbunni703 31-35, F Aug 23

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    I hate to see people texting me with crazy crap like: U r a qt What is your point that seems so ignorant or when people type like this Wats up bbe Get a dictionary and type out...
    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 11

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell...
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 23

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    Well 40 years ago I knew what he was like, but he was fit, good looking and healthy and we both worked long hours so we only had the weekends. Even then I knew he would make an...
    Gaaaah Gaaaah 56-60, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    When he kisses me i feel like im kissing my worst enemy!!!
    texaschick85 texaschick85 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    I'm in the same boat as you ladies .. I thought I met this great guy but I was wrong .. I'm now 6 months pregnant and jobless as I was wrongfully terminated from my last job. I...
    idelac13 idelac13 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    Im really just so done with him. Its been 12 years of marriage and not one ounce of emotional support what so ever. He makes me handle all the 'issues' that arise because he's too...
    FutureFreedom FutureFreedom 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Spent the day busy with relatives helping unpack and hubs had an attitude with me all day. I only know half of what he did. And there's several hours between each "thing he did...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am sick of putting my all in this marriage and him putting me down! I am a stay at home mom and he makes good money and when we fight everything is his and i feel hopeless and i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I seriously feel like I am raising a child with a complete idiot. It's even worse because he thinks he knows everything! I feel like I'm always wanting to leave him because life...
    MrsForgotten MrsForgotten 26-30 1 day ago

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    I was texting my supervisor today... Asking him if it was possible to get my marks anytime soon, and he said..." I will went to school tomorrow, talk to you from there and I'll...
    rachelrashid22 rachelrashid22 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Your-belonging to "Your mom is..." "Your house is..." You're-contraction for, "you are." "You're beautiful." "You're intelligent." It annoys me when a guy says, "Your beautiful...
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    When I see this I literally want to go on a murder spree... It gets me soooo pissed off!
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    But whenever I do try to use correct grammar, everyone thinks i'm being serious or trying to intimidate them.
    Hypnotise Hypnotise 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't want to but I do. I feel betrayed for my mom she did everything for my grandma and grandfather but still they loved my uncle more than my mom. My grandma favored my cousin...
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