I Hate My Bad Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 28 People

    Disordered Personality

    I m a 40yrs old lady with three kids two boys and agirl i feel my self helpless and pathetic bcoz my husband was a drug addict before we got married we didn't know that ,but he swore to quit and assure me not to indulge in that **** again but got himself in alcohol most of the...
    Neelember701 Neelember701
    36-40
    May 14, 2012

    Don't Clean The House

    I decided to mop the floor.  My husband was gone exercising.  He comes home and starts yelling at me because he thinks it's not a good time for me to clean.  He doesn't like the smell and he had to take something outside and he didn't want the wheels to get wet.  Then he said...
    beckea beckea
    41-45
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2012

    Narcissist, Ocd, And Addict All In One

    I am happy to say I am in a new place. My hubby soon to be ex has been on match.com for many months. Jetsmoothscotch is his name. He had a severe addiction to Internet ****. So immense that I could not let my children use the same computer. He is very controlling and feels no...
    Lovniowa Lovniowa
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 5, 2012

    Humiliated N Frustrated

    my husband is such a egoist. he thinks that he has the right to get angry on me at any time on smallest issues also. i feel really bad and when he is angry he will yell at me loudly and say such bad things that i just feel to runaway but what to do being in india u have to take...
    tsde tsde
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2010

    My Husband "Accidentally" Had A 40th Birthday Party For Another Woman

    When I was about to turn 40, my husband never offered to have a party for me, and I assumed we would do something special for the milestone. I asked several times if he wanted to plan something and he just said he didn't know. I was really looking forward to a dinner party and...
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2013

    I Don't Know What to Believe

     After 15 years together my husband tells me that over the past 2 months he's spent tons of money on another woman - but that "I did not have sexual relations with that woman".  He says they only spent time together going out for dinner and he bought her stuff...
    bluefin bluefin
    46-50
    9 Responses Jul 15, 2008

    Husband Been In Trouble With Law, Nothing Too Major But Its Killing Me!

    Hi I been with my husband for five years now and i love him dearly but he has been in a been in a bit of some trouble. He has a bad driving record and yes its only him going to work but he has been driving with a suspended license a few times. He is going to court next month...
    Jillianalexis00 Jillianalexis00
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2012

    My Husband A First Class Jerk..

    So I wake up this morning to Frank (My husband) yelling about how I don't wake upat all for the kids..Well he doesn't do much as a father for them...All he does is watch TV and/or play his video games..He says he isthere for them but in reality all I see is him yelling at them or...
    JBaby00Girl JBaby00Girl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2011

    Can You Beat This?

    My husband is an alcoholic, and like all alcoholics, he lies... He is always contrite and sorry after he does something really crappy. And then come all the promises to quit drinking, get medical help, and be a better husband. One time, we were traveling overseas, in a country...
    susanishere susanishere
    41-45
    4 Responses Mar 5, 2011

    Just Frusterated!

     My husband is a liar, a constant liar.  I have lived with it for 16 years or more!  He is a good dad, which is probably the only reason I choose to stay.  For the kids.  My life has been 1 lie after another for no apparent reason. So where do I begin...
    wowimnotalone wowimnotalone
    36-40
    6 Responses Jun 30, 2009

    What Happened To My Life

    I've been married 6 years now.i have a daughter from previous relationship. Color the last 5 years i have been the only one working.I am 30 years old my husband is 44. I have started to resent him. Honestly the only reason i stick it out is because my son is possible adhd... I...
    slavender slavender
    26-30
    1 Response May 15, 2012

    My husband is such a ****!

    I swear he is the worst! I really hate him so much! Idk what to do about it
    brooketaylorsss brooketaylorsss
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

    Addiction To Affliction

    My husband and I met when we were stationed together in Okinawa Japan. Being both Marines pretty much sealed our fate from the get go. The first time I met him, I thought he was arrogant. There was a darkness about him that I was wary of but also curious about. When we first...
    Nillynunu Nillynunu
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2013

    Another Blame On Me

    This is second time he didn't come home. He checks who I call and text, yells if I sleep in a car trying to get a way from his verbal abuse, asks for money for the rent, food while I try survive cereal on lunch break. I worked all day when he didn't work. There is no reason of...
    Stone0410 Stone0410
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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