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I Hate My Bad Husband

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    I Don't Know What to Believe

     After 15 years together my husband tells me that over the past 2 months he's spent tons of money on another woman - but that "I did not have sexual relations with that woman".  He says they only spent time together going out for dinner and he bought her stuff...
    bluefin bluefin 46-50 9 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    My Husband A First Class Jerk..

    So I wake up this morning to Frank (My husband) yelling about how I don't wake upat all for the kids..Well he doesn't do much as a father for them...All he does is watch TV and/or play his video games..He says he isthere for them but in reality all I see is him yelling at them or...
    JBaby00Girl JBaby00Girl 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2011

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    What Happened To My Life

    I've been married 6 years now.i have a daughter from previous relationship. Color the last 5 years i have been the only one working.I am 30 years old my husband is 44. I have started to resent him. Honestly the only reason i stick it out is because my son is possible adhd... I...
    slavender slavender 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    My Husband "Accidentally" Had A 40th Birthday Party For Another Woman

    When I was about to turn 40, my husband never offered to have a party for me, and I assumed we would do something special for the milestone. I asked several times if he wanted to plan something and he just said he didn't know. I was really looking forward to a dinner party and...
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Can You Beat This?

    My husband is an alcoholic, and like all alcoholics, he lies... He is always contrite and sorry after he does something really crappy. And then come all the promises to quit drinking, get medical help, and be a better husband. One time, we were traveling overseas, in a country...
    susanishere susanishere 41-45 4 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    Addiction To Affliction

    My husband and I met when we were stationed together in Okinawa Japan. Being both Marines pretty much sealed our fate from the get go. The first time I met him, I thought he was arrogant. There was a darkness about him that I was wary of but also curious about. When we first...
    Nillynunu Nillynunu 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Narcissist, Ocd, And Addict All In One

    I am happy to say I am in a new place. My hubby soon to be ex has been on match.com for many months. Jetsmoothscotch is his name. He had a severe addiction to Internet ****. So immense that I could not let my children use the same computer. He is very controlling and feels no...
    Lovniowa Lovniowa 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    Disordered Personality

    I m a 40yrs old lady with three kids two boys and agirl i feel my self helpless and pathetic bcoz my husband was a drug addict before we got married we didn't know that ,but he swore to quit and assure me not to indulge in that **** again but got himself in alcohol most of the...
    Neelember701 Neelember701 36-40 May 14, 2012

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    Humiliated N Frustrated

    my husband is such a egoist. he thinks that he has the right to get angry on me at any time on smallest issues also. i feel really bad and when he is angry he will yell at me loudly and say such bad things that i just feel to runaway but what to do being in india u have to take...
    tsde tsde 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    Husband Been In Trouble With Law, Nothing Too Major But Its Killing Me!

    Hi I been with my husband for five years now and i love him dearly but he has been in a been in a bit of some trouble. He has a bad driving record and yes its only him going to work but he has been driving with a suspended license a few times. He is going to court next month...
    Jillianalexis00 Jillianalexis00 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2012

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    My husband is such a ****!

    I swear he is the worst! I really hate him so much! Idk what to do about it
    brooketaylorsss brooketaylorsss 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    Another Blame On Me

    This is second time he didn't come home. He checks who I call and text, yells if I sleep in a car trying to get a way from his verbal abuse, asks for money for the rent, food while I try survive cereal on lunch break. I worked all day when he didn't work. There is no reason of...
    Stone0410 Stone0410 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Just Frusterated!

     My husband is a liar, a constant liar.  I have lived with it for 16 years or more!  He is a good dad, which is probably the only reason I choose to stay.  For the kids.  My life has been 1 lie after another for no apparent reason. So where do I begin...
    wowimnotalone wowimnotalone 36-40 6 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    Don't Clean The House

    I decided to mop the floor.  My husband was gone exercising.  He comes home and starts yelling at me because he thinks it's not a good time for me to clean.  He doesn't like the smell and he had to take something outside and he didn't want the wheels to get wet.  Then he said...
    beckea beckea 41-45 2 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    I wish I could just make the decision to leave already. He is miserable all the time. The news makes him upset, face book makes him upset. The whole world is stupid except him. He...
    182days 182days 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    His mother is the type of person that says anything thats on her mind . I really cant stand that about her it's a horribe trait .so she insults my hair color and tells me that I...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Like the biggest turn off for me.
    Undecodable Undecodable 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    i hate that bastard. I just hate him. I have never seen such a horrible person. He shows no love or comfort towards me. I want to divorce him so much more every day.
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    He is such a jerk his mother is a jerk to me , and if I vent about it to anyone im giving them a bad picture .what!!!!!!! She's terrible and I need to vent you should be ashamed of...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm a UK size 10...hardly fat yes I have put on weight but I'm 36 years old now every so often he drops a little comment about my weight tonight was do you have to wear those...
    lostmyselfgirl lostmyselfgirl 36-40, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why can people never use the correct "there", "too", "your", "where", and "it's"?
    TheSuperSandwizard TheSuperSandwizard 16-17 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm kinda okay with it, the only thing that REALLY ****** me off, is whenever a person I hate does it. A guy on Facebook shared a video of two guys eating a pepper, and he shared...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was blindsided one day when my husband called me out of the blue crying and told me that he had messed around and got another woman pregnant. He was away from me training in...
    forty6and2 forty6and2 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am a newly wed, and my husband has three kids (11yrs, 2 yrs, 11 months) with two other women. I have a 2 yr old from a previous relationship (whose "real" dad has never been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Interested in a story that will make you feel like your problems are minor? READ ON... I can only give a quick summary, but looking forward to a true vent session later tonight...
    ReAwakenedGirl ReAwakenedGirl 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This is going to be very long winded and I'm posting this because I need to vent and need to know who else is going through something similar and how they're handling it. Here goes...
    Kristy37 Kristy37 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just really need someone that I can talk to. Someone who won't judge me or the relationship I have chosen to stay in. Someone that can help me survive this nightmare that I am in...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate being a step mother!!! I hate it! I hate it! I hate it! I know that blending families is a hard thing to do, and I love all of my children. I am tired of feeling wrong...
    Wzv63w Wzv63w 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    this hasn't been forever, but I have been hating her since I was old enough to understand what hate really is and why this happens. she's disgusting, literally disgusting. I abhor...
    ihateyouuu123 ihateyouuu123 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    My story sounds a bit like a lot of your stories........I've been married for 3yrs. We have no kids together. I've had my Fallopian tubes removed to make sure that never happens...
    wishforsinglelife wishforsinglelife 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have come to terms that my 5 year marriage is crap. I can't stand my husband in the slightest. I am probably the best actress on the planet. I smile, kiss him, make his lunches...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Don't let it drag out if you hate your husband. Leave him. Otherwise you will end up maybe like me and have no money, no house and a person you don't want to take care of in your...
    TiredCaretaker TiredCaretaker 61-65, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am to the point that I just don't even care anymore. I met my man 5 years ago. He was just finalizing his divorce. He had been separated from his ex for almost 2 years at...
    roxmac roxmac 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I read some of the stories here, and most of those are wayyy worse than mine. I felt like an ungrateful, spoiled brat, compared to all those people who have much more valid reasons...
    Forrestgump93 Forrestgump93 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I try hard so very hard not to. I try to find redeeming qualities that I can hold on to. But some times he makes it so f'ing hard.
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    I can't stand when he touches me or kisses me. I hate that I feel like his possession and that I can't say "don't do that" because he gets pouty. I just wish he would go away! I...
    Strugglemuch Strugglemuch 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    Another fight over sex and him controlling everything and needing to know my every move! I'm so sick of it. I need to leave. I want to leave. I should leave. Yet I'm still here...
    Strugglemuch Strugglemuch 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I was just thinking of something that's annoyed me (on and off) over the years--my husbands ex-wife and her behavior. When she was married to husband (over 16 years ago), she was...
    BetweenStates BetweenStates 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    My life is perfect... When its just me my husband and our daughter. But when we get my step daughter my life is a living hell. I feel like a horrible person for having bad feelings...
    stepmom310 stepmom310 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    It's almost 1 am....I have to get up at 4 am for work. My jerk husband always teased the dog at bedtime because it's his idea of fun. So the dog sleeps in our bed. And is crowding...
    Karj Karj 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 21