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I Hate My Bad Husband

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    Another Blame On Me

    This is second time he didn't come home. He checks who I call and text, yells if I sleep in a car trying to get a way from his verbal abuse, asks for money for the rent, food while I try survive cereal on lunch break. I worked all day when he didn't work. There is no reason of...
    Stone0410 Stone0410 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Can You Beat This?

    My husband is an alcoholic, and like all alcoholics, he lies... He is always contrite and sorry after he does something really crappy. And then come all the promises to quit drinking, get medical help, and be a better husband. One time, we were traveling overseas, in a country...
    susanishere susanishere 41-45 4 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    Addiction To Affliction

    My husband and I met when we were stationed together in Okinawa Japan. Being both Marines pretty much sealed our fate from the get go. The first time I met him, I thought he was arrogant. There was a darkness about him that I was wary of but also curious about. When we first...
    Nillynunu Nillynunu 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    My Husband A First Class Jerk..

    So I wake up this morning to Frank (My husband) yelling about how I don't wake upat all for the kids..Well he doesn't do much as a father for them...All he does is watch TV and/or play his video games..He says he isthere for them but in reality all I see is him yelling at them or...
    JBaby00Girl JBaby00Girl 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2011

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    I Don't Know What to Believe

     After 15 years together my husband tells me that over the past 2 months he's spent tons of money on another woman - but that "I did not have sexual relations with that woman".  He says they only spent time together going out for dinner and he bought her stuff...
    bluefin bluefin 46-50 7 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Humiliated N Frustrated

    my husband is such a egoist. he thinks that he has the right to get angry on me at any time on smallest issues also. i feel really bad and when he is angry he will yell at me loudly and say such bad things that i just feel to runaway but what to do being in india u have to take...
    tsde tsde 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    Narcissist, Ocd, And Addict All In One

    I am happy to say I am in a new place. My hubby soon to be ex has been on match.com for many months. Jetsmoothscotch is his name. He had a severe addiction to Internet ****. So immense that I could not let my children use the same computer. He is very controlling and feels no...
    Lovniowa Lovniowa 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    Don't Clean The House

    I decided to mop the floor.  My husband was gone exercising.  He comes home and starts yelling at me because he thinks it's not a good time for me to clean.  He doesn't like the smell and he had to take something outside and he didn't want the wheels to get wet.  Then he said...
    beckea beckea 41-45 2 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    What Happened To My Life

    I've been married 6 years now.i have a daughter from previous relationship. Color the last 5 years i have been the only one working.I am 30 years old my husband is 44. I have started to resent him. Honestly the only reason i stick it out is because my son is possible adhd... I...
    slavender slavender 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    Just Frusterated!

     My husband is a liar, a constant liar.  I have lived with it for 16 years or more!  He is a good dad, which is probably the only reason I choose to stay.  For the kids.  My life has been 1 lie after another for no apparent reason. So where do I begin...
    wowimnotalone wowimnotalone 36-40 4 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    Disordered Personality

    I m a 40yrs old lady with three kids two boys and agirl i feel my self helpless and pathetic bcoz my husband was a drug addict before we got married we didn't know that ,but he swore to quit and assure me not to indulge in that **** again but got himself in alcohol most of the...
    Neelember701 Neelember701 36-40 May 14, 2012

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    Husband Been In Trouble With Law, Nothing Too Major But Its Killing Me!

    Hi I been with my husband for five years now and i love him dearly but he has been in a been in a bit of some trouble. He has a bad driving record and yes its only him going to work but he has been driving with a suspended license a few times. He is going to court next month...
    Jillianalexis00 Jillianalexis00 26-30, F Jun 15, 2012

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    My Husband "Accidentally" Had A 40th Birthday Party For Another Woman

    When I was about to turn 40, my husband never offered to have a party for me, and I assumed we would do something special for the milestone. I asked several times if he wanted to plan something and he just said he didn't know. I was really looking forward to a dinner party and...
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    My husband is such a ****!

    I swear he is the worst! I really hate him so much! Idk what to do about it
    brooketaylorsss brooketaylorsss 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate my husband so much I want to explode. We have nothing in common, he's so immature, not responsible except for when he wants to be a suck up to my mom. He doesn't even try to...
    sabinadp sabinadp 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 1

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    I hate my husbands. Ex. They were never married Nd no kids. We have been married 9 yrs and almost every 3 months she calls or emails with crap about she needs closure. We have...
    ldyfubar ldyfubar 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I hate my husband. I pay for everything . Food. Electricity. Water. Health insurance. Doctor bills. Dentist bills. Car insurance . House insurance . Clothes for kids. Any and all...
    ohiogirl789 ohiogirl789 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    I hate bad grammar so much. If I read something, and someone can't talk or write right, I get so pissed. It's not that hard. This is why people need to pay attention in school.
    YouShouldHaveKilledMe YouShouldHaveKilledMe 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Hubby won't lemme adopt the rabbit I rescued, but I got really attached to it emotionally. He ignores my feelings completely, refuses talk about it, and meanwhile treat me like a...
    sheilahbun sheilahbun 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I am married. I am going to be a mother. I turned 18 and I lived in another state for 5 years away from my family. Now I am pregnant and surrounded by only my husband's family. It...
    sophie0852 sophie0852 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I have been with my husband since 1999. He has a additive personality that he thinks he is in control of. In the last 15 yrs he has been addicted to meth, cocaine, pills, alcohol...
    2012death 2012death 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Some of you ladies in general have worse stories than I. My hatred for dogs stems back and has just been building over the years. My sons face was attacked when he was only 3 years...
    sarsmassi sarsmassi 26-30, F Jun 29

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    Okay, I need to get this is off my chest. My husband never tries to see things from my perspective. Every time he upsets me he never takes me seriously and here is the most...
    jrlegg jrlegg 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband is such a jerk .I I hate his sisters husband and so does everyone that I know this jerk is very disrepectful to me disrepectful twords my family , this thing is the...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Sometimes i pitty her cuz of all the bad things happening to her, sometimes i just hate her guts cuz she always act like the victim
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've only been married for a year. My husband is the most hateful person in the world. We have a 10 month old and hes a great dad physically but financially, HE SUCKS. He always...
    ov3rluv ov3rluv 22-25, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love my husband but i hate him more! He is a huge pain in my a... He claims he works to pay the bills but when i tell him what needs to be paid he doesn't want to pay them!! I...
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 13 Responses Jun 27

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    The key to HATE is: Lying, cheating, deserting, 4 children in 5 years (six beautiful children in total), the *Death of one's dreams*, Not ONE discussion over how any given bill...
    sunbeam1 sunbeam1 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Am finally getting the the point in my life where I can do something to get away from my husband. After 30 years and two terrific kids, it's time to get away from my poisonous...
    Momo2GS Momo2GS 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    She had her kid, she was abusing her we had to take her, i dont know if it is that she just wants to deny it all or that she really doesnt realize what she has done, so now its...
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My husband is so annoying I can't take it anymore.......ok I'm a regular 44 year old lady with 2 kids. My husband has no aspirations in life that I've ever heard him talk about. He...
    clover17392 clover17392 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am finally coming at peace with all of my decisions; I know my husband and I are finally done and accept that we are going to get a divorce and we have to just get along for the...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    My husband mentally abuse me and sometimes hurts me physically. I've called my friends, his family, police and his coworkers for help but he always tell them "She is mentally ill...
    vivian93xx vivian93xx 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 8

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    It's pathetic just how dependent my husband has become. He will use every excuse in the book to do absolutely nothing around the house and when the excuses are rendered irrelevant...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Well here we go again everyday he starts trouble with me its like he wants me to be unhappy . I just dont understand him.we were in serous ffinancial trouble about thirteen years...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Never, when I truly need him to step up, he is worse than ever! Angry with him, to the point of hatred! I have never hated anyone, now the man I once was madly in live with I...
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    Correction: I know I hate him. Gotta let this anger go and the only way to do that is to let him go.
    truthandbeauty truthandbeauty 36-40, F Jul 1

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    I have a dad who is seriously messed up. He is divorced with my mother and he hates her. Anytime I want to hang it with my friends and not go to his house he freaks out. He trash...
    lonelygirl1999 lonelygirl1999 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Please don't write to me if you're going to use bad grammar. It's not very attractive.
    Sparklyjuly Sparklyjuly 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I have bad grammar! But I don't care, I'm who I am. :) Don't ever try to change me teachers... :p
    LRxIce LRxIce 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    I don't care!! i kinda have bad grammar _|_
    Salma96 Salma96 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    They know that I was always polite and would use it againts me they would buy things for my kids that my kids didnt like and iwould be polite and say that they like it .so I...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    Okay so I have a friend who recently started seeing a new girl (by recently I mean they've known each other all of 2 weeks) and this girl has a 3 month old baby. Sense meeting...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I'm still married to the jerk and a part of me still loves him. I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl 3 days ago and he was barely there which led me to the decision to leave him...
    bea7788 bea7788 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 28

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    I don't actually want to feel this way but I'm starting to regret the day I married him. He's such a loser. We lived in together for 5 yrs before we got married because I thought...
    purplefreespirit purplefreespirit 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 4

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    Everything he does winds me up. He never talks to me, just spends all his spare time on his phone or iPad (playing games, not to girls or anything). He says I am angry all the...
    tizzwizz tizzwizz 31-35 1 Response Jul 5

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    He will say to me all these mean things that his mother has said about me and then of course I get mad and say and thats why I dont like her and then he will get mad at me wtf...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    He is so freak rude and self center he thinks that the nice things I do for him I have too. I am the best woman he has ever had and he treats me like ish.
    Missthang82 Missthang82 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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