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I Hate My Best Friend

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    I'm Sorry, I Just Can't Do This

    I'm seriously just breaking down here. I don't know what else to do, or who to go to. I have a 'best friend'. Lets just call her Rachel. So, I've known Rachel since second grade. For over twenty years, we've laughed and smiled and done all the things that best friends are...
    superkitty17 superkitty17 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Love, Hate Relationship

    My best friend and I met the summer before our freshman year in high school. At the beginning there was a group of 4 of us that were practically inseperatable, but the other two have basically moved on. So the two of us have become really close... Except I really don't like her...
    taylor468 taylor468 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old

    and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years ago. We were in the same class at sat together so we were really close. Then a new girl comes from abroad and she looked just so...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    She Has Turned Into a Complete Monster.

    I met my "best friend" about 11 years ago in college.  I really didn't like her from the beginning.  There was something about her that seemed so fake.  However, I was forced into being nice to her--our then boyfriends were living in a house together...
    cc12979 cc12979 26-30 3 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    My best friend is such a follower it annoys the

    crap out of me. I do love her as a friend but seriously it's gotten to the point where I don't even want to see her anymore. The only reason I haven't ended our friendship is because we work together and it would corrupt the mood in the workplace. They say copying is the...
    Sweetsavage Sweetsavage 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    I Have a Couple Best Friends.....

    I have a couple best friends...there like family. And if i hated them id tell them and we'd deal with it...whether or not someone ends up with a bloody lip or a few broken bones...thats our business
    greymagik greymagik 21-25, M 5 Responses May 27, 2007

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    So, I'm 15. I've had this best friend

    since I was around 6 years old. I recently started to pick out all her flaws, like how she doesn't know when she annoying, how she whines and insults me in a funny way. She's from a well off family, has good grades and even stable friendships, but she complains at even the...
    lugiara lugiara 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    She's Stupid.

    My "best friend" and I have known each other for a little over a year. I know it's not a long time, but when we met, we spent every waking moment together and became so close so quick. We'll call her Tiny Kong. The first day we met, we were introduced by a mutual friend whom was...
    rastacourage rastacourage 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    I Want To Pull Her Hair Out And Kick Her Down The Stairs

    I met my best friend in high school. she was a grade below me. I didn't like her in the beginning and then I just gave up and became friends with her. We live together, which really really blows. She's a pig! she doesn't clean up after herself, do her dishes, her room is full of...
    roflraccoon roflraccoon 22-25 4 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    Vicky-the Way We Weren't

    We used to have a great relationship, well we fought, but its what kept everything new, fresh, it made things less boring. We had a lot of bad habbits, cutting, bulimia, anorexia, depression, suicidal thoughts and attemps and we helped eachother, well I helped her, she always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    My "so Called" Bestfriend

    Ok so like me and my bestfriend have been BFFS since 3rd grade and now she has a bunch of new friends and is like way more popular than me. Yesterday she had two friends over and (me and her live on the same street) i saw them outside. Like why didnt she invite me out there...
    rockprincess1o1 rockprincess1o1 16-17 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    I fight with her almost everyday.

    But I have the most fun with her and she's the only person I feel connected too
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 1 Response Mar 20

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    I wouldn't say I actually hate her.

    If anything, I'm jealous and hurt. Our parents were friends since before we were born so we grew up together. Inseparable throughout grade school and even middle school. In middle school there was an accident in which her dad died while our families were on vacation together...
    Schism7 Schism7 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    She's Toxic

    My best friend's name is Makai, our other best friend Cheyenne recently told me she doesn't like how Makai treats her. Makai's always talking about me behind my back. One time I talked behind her's because I was so sick of it. She made a giant deal out of it. Now she's always...
    chloehates chloehates 13-15 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    Sometimes Is Turning Into Most Times.

    I used to say 'sometimes she makes me so mad!' sometimes is turning into all the time. Let me start off by telling you our past relationship.   I was friends with a girl (lets call her.. Mary) who my now best friend,  Jen was also friends with. So, of course, we...
    Sophiex Sophiex 16-17, F 1 Response May 16, 2010

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    Ok so this might be confusing

    and long bare with me. I feel like I should share my story to you good people. Ok so I met this girl, let's call her Tammy. I met her in 6th grade and she was an awesome girl. Like the type of girl a guy would do anything for. Trust me I did. We started talking all day on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 16

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    What is this page all about,

    you hate your best friend, if you hate your best friend then they are not your friend.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Regret It

    I've never had a close friend before. And this was the beginning of the 7th grade, and I was feeling really lonely. Enormously depressed even. But then I met this girl, Jordan, and we shared some laughs and some secrets and, you know, friend stuff. She asked if I wanted to be her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 17, 2012

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    I dont hate her but idk she is honestly just

    such a ***** sometimes. She dose not care about anyone els but her and will run her way over you to get what she wants with out a second thought for anyones feelings.
    Hdhsjsj Hdhsjsj 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    Okay, this friendship of mine isn't really

    toxic. More or so, it's based more on my unreasonable hatred for this person. Let's name her Herp. Herp is a very beautiful girl, who's very friendly and outgoing. You'd think that she's a joy to be around. Apparently, Herp also has the flirt syndrome, where she flirts with...
    roseglen98 roseglen98 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    The Not Best

    i hate my best friend. That sounds exmoronish, but its true. I mean, I've been friends with her for about 10 years, since we were 5.  It all started as we got into our teenage years...and she became a *****, not only that, but lied.  I hate liars, just to clarify...
    misssunshine500 misssunshine500 16-17 7 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Okay I don't necessarily 'hate' her.

    She's justc really difficult to be around. We met 4 years ago and instantly became best friends. During the first year of our friendship we never argued and were joined at the hip. Then she began to get a lot of boyfriends and I became the third wheel to each of them. Each one...
    ordinarygirl123 ordinarygirl123 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    I Hate My 'Best Friend'

    Whenever I tell her a secret, she tells anybody who will listen. She's a big hypocrit, I always beat her in math and once she got a better math mark and she rubbed it all over my face. And yet she's the one who tells me she hates people like that. She also ditched all of our...
    icecristal09 icecristal09 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    I Hate My Bestfriend

    Alright so let's start from the begining. I used to live in the United States for like 11 years, then we moved to Europe (Idk why) but basically my dad stayed in america so i'm here with my mom. Alright enough of my life, anyways so when I started going to school here a LOT of...
    LakorLev LakorLev 16-17, F Sep 25, 2013

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    Friends Or Not? I Dont Know Anymore

    i have been friends with ashley *not real name of course* for about a year and half. We met at school and to be honest, i dont even know why or how we became friends. We soon found out we had similar interest in music and movies. We were so close that people in our group of...
    dearlydemented dearlydemented 16-18, F 3 Responses Aug 25, 2006

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    I don't necessarily hate her,

    but she's changing a lot and it's scaring me. She has always been more outgoing than me and has a more dominate personality. We do theatre together and usually during the run of a show, she gets very tense (like we all do), but it's been getting really bad lately. During the...
    divaMary3 divaMary3 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    I'm Feeling Like I Don't Like My Best Friend Anymore

    I don't know anymore. She used to be such a great friend who I wanted to spend so much time when then all of a sudden I felt like she kept clinging to me, even though I like clinging to others too. I feel like she's too close and that I don't have any space anymore when I'm with...
    ImaginativeDayDreamer ImaginativeDayDreamer 13-15, F Nov 18, 2013

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    I first met her in a language class

    and even though she was a grade younger, we became really close. Things were fun. We laughed and joked all the time, not to mention our interests were similar. I hadn't found anyone else in school who was genuinely as interested in the same things as me. It was great to finally...
    McGeeGigi McGeeGigi 22-25, F Dec 29, 2013

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    The Worst Kind Of Person.

    I ******* hate my best friend. I have know him for 6 years and we talk and drink almost every week, but the problem is, every word he speaks literally destroys my ******* soul. Hes racist, anti semitic and he chooses to be stupid as ****, let me repeat that, he CHOOSES to be...
    AxiosThanatos AxiosThanatos 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Me too! Every project we have she goes with me

    and my other bestie. For like the 4 assignments we had to do, shes sooo lazy and she doesnt do anything so im the one who gets stressed and has to do all the work for her, and she isnt even thankful! Shes soo stupid in classes she copies me, and shes soooooo rude! Ugh I hate her...
    amyjace amyjace 13-15 Mar 6

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    me and my best friend have been close

    since we were born. this was probably because our moms were best friends too and we shared everything together, even birthday parties and church baptism days. then in fourth grade she moved to another city. it was still close enough tho that we could still go to the same church...
    jessica8891 jessica8891 16-17, F Feb 25

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    Maybe hate is too much but… I thing she is

    not my best friend anymore, I don´t know what to do. I met my best friend 4 years ago and we became friends very quickly, we had fun, we understood each other, we were like the "different" girls in our school but it didm´t actually matter, we were happy. But then she started...
    CaptainMer CaptainMer 16-17 Mar 31

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    Hate is a strong word

    but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry and i can't bear with her. I want her to know I'm hurt so I want to hurt her back. That's why I hate her. I think it's a...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    I'm very very very hurt by my used-to-be best

    friend. We known each other since second grade and we both know each other's family. We were best friends we literally do everything together. I helped her cheated tests helped her with her boys problem helped her with her homework helped her with her other friends problem...
    SelinaSophia SelinaSophia 18-21, F Feb 18

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    I Think I Hate My Best Friend...

    my best friend and i are together so much that we're pretty much known as a duo around school. but she and i are so different. -she's really pretty and everyone knows it. -i'm just regular and nobody notices me. -she is rich while my family has financial problems...
    sandfordfuzz sandfordfuzz 16-18, F 10 Responses May 7, 2007

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    Okay so this is kinda a long story.

    I can honestly say I strongly dislike my best friend and it's driving me crazy. I've known her for 10 years, and we we've always on again off again due to school or busy schedules, but in the end we would always find our way back to each other. These past 2 years we became...
    vintagevinyl vintagevinyl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Well because she alreadyhas a boyfriend

    but she keeps on Flirting with my crush because my crush had a crush on my bff
    Sophia08 Sophia08 22-25, F Mar 14

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    She's been ******* me off ever

    since she started going out with her boyfriend like 2 years ago. She never has time for me. And i invited her to my 18th birthday (its a formal thing in our country). Then she told me its her boyfriend's graduation day that day but she'll make it to my birthday. But then she...
    Lalafancy Lalafancy 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I Dont Want To Be Her Friend

    I have a best friend and there was never a problem with us and we got along great until she met my brother and she decided she wanted to date him since they were so in love and they was going to be together forever. We have been fighting over this forever and i told her didnt...
    battlefighter battlefighter 18-21, F Jul 22, 2013

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    I Want To Get Away From Them

    Sometimes I really, really hate my two best friends. But, I don't want to push them away. I want to tell them that I hate them sometimes and the reasons why I feel this way. But, I don't want to lose them forever. I just feel that I can't be honest with anymore and that sucks...
    Eddey Eddey 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    I feel extremely guilty

    even writing this, but I can't keep it to myself anymore. My friend-last year definitively a "best" friend and this year one of my roommates- has become intolerable. She brags about herself all the time, laughs at most of her own stories, and is kind of a social climber. She...
    messycrazylife messycrazylife 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I Hate My Best Friend

    I hate my best friend. I met her when I joined a new school and we were best friends immediatly, everyone thought we had been best friends for ages. She was really nice and unique until we joined secondary school. Not showing off or anything but my fahion sense is not bad and...
    Cosmicforest13 Cosmicforest13 18-21 8 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Tonight I was over at my best friends.

    And I took my iPod away from her. She got mad so turned off the tv. I got mad. I m done with her ****. She only cares about herself. **** her and her fucken life. I'm done with her fucken ****. She needs to Learn some respect From your friend Grace
    Loveallpoeple Loveallpoeple 13-15, T 4 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    Can't Understand Her

    So I've had this friend since I was like 15 I'm now 25 . She had alway been the pretty 1 . We got on ok she would alway fall out with me if I didn't stick to plans which I no is annoying. I met my husband and 1 Nyt she and him nearly slept together . Apparently he was too drunk...
    Hopeless0909 Hopeless0909 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    Ugh! My best friend

    for the past couple months has been bailing on me everytime we plan to hang! We can plan it weeks ahead but sure enough something will come up. Her parents are very protective even though she's 21 so a lot of times she can't go here or there. Today we planned to see a movie and...
    AlexanderX AlexanderX 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I Hate My Best Friend.

    I have know this girl since grade 5 and we were inseparable. We were the best of friends and had A LOT in common, our interests, family history's and we even looked the same. In the beginning I was a bit jealous of her since she got more attention but I just thought it was...
    Bestfriendmyass Bestfriendmyass 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    she doesent care about me except her sister

    and her she is a brat totally rude and mean! I just HATE her
    amyymyftari amyymyftari 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    i dont hate her, just she ****** me off

    because shes so self centred and only talks to me so she can vent and talk about her life & she seriously never listens to me. she always tells me (and i quote) that i am her "sidekick". meh she just really bothers me. like. a lot.
    cityfolk cityfolk 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I Hate Living With Her, So Much.

    I've known her since she was one and I was born basically. Our mothers were friends. We have so much in common, interest wise. We like all the same things and can talk for hours. I'd noticed she could be hot-headed, but it seemed like a little problem. Other things about her...
    FuzzyBritches FuzzyBritches 18-21 1 Response Feb 18, 2013

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    Mixed Feelings...

    I've been friends with this girl for a little over six years now. Even during our first year as friends, I found her to be annoying. We're both Christians and she had a 'holier than thou' attitude; she chided me for cursing which is the only non-Christian thing she's seen me do...
    abcdefghijk91 abcdefghijk91 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    She Ruined My Life.

    I used to have this best friend. I let she and her son stay with me in my apartment for free when ever she needed a place to go. Her son loved me so much he would cry for me in his sleep! When people would talk about her i would argue with them, lost some friends because of it...
    PleaseBeFree PleaseBeFree 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    My best friend thinks

    that I've changed and I hate him because we used to hangout all the time. Then high school came and we don't hangout as much. I started basketball, he got a girlfriend. He blames us not being as close on me and he thinks he didn't do anything wrong. He is very over dramatic and...
    mariahann88 mariahann88 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    So last year, I dated this guy.

    But he kept making fun of my best friend, and she ran to the restroom crying. So I came over to her being the "Good Friend" I am, I decided to break up with my boyfriend when I still loved him. Then like 2 weeks later, she dated my ex. She never told me that she was dating him...
    annieiskrazy annieiskrazy 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    My best friend is a guy and we've known each other for almost 9 years already. We constantly get into stupid arguments but they are serious that's just us. I stopped talking to him...
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    My best friend is not only a guy but he is 30 years younger than me. I can tell him anything and he does not judge me. I am a relationship runner. I run if I start feeling to close...
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    I won't leave my best friend Kody. Right now, he is in a really dark place. He said a LOT of hurtful and hateful things to me today, and I know he is lashing out, and when he gets...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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