I Hate My Best Friend

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    At the moment, my best friend of about 6/7

    years is ignoring me. Just straight up blanking my existence out of his life. We currently live in two different countries, but seeing as that's been the case for the past three years... not such a big ******* deal (hello Skype.) It's not the first time he's done this either...
    hungryboar hungryboar
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 10, 2015

    She'S Starting To Annoy Me

    I've been friends with her for around 5 years and i've never felt this way about her EVER. I just feel like she doesn't care about me anymore and that she's only using me because if she didn't have me she'd have no one else who's nice to her as much as i am. This year she's just...
    daniellexo daniellexo
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2013

    The Worst Kind Of Person.

    I ******* hate my best friend. I have know him for 6 years and we talk and drink almost every week, but the problem is, every word he speaks literally destroys my ******* soul. Hes racist, anti semitic and he chooses to be stupid as ****, let me repeat that, he CHOOSES to be...
    AxiosThanatos AxiosThanatos
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2013

    sometimes I hate my best friend.

    she makes me feel like I'm immature and stupid. and I'm not. and she definitely isn't smarter, or more mature then me. and honestly I feel like she goes after every guy I like or have liked. and she ends up having sex with them. like I didn't just really like that guy and only...
    iloveyoudude iloveyoudude
    18-21, F
    Apr 13, 2015

    She Has Turned Into a Complete Monster.

    I met my "best friend" about 11 years ago in college.  I really didn't like her from the beginning.  There was something about her that seemed so fake.  However, I was forced into being nice to her--our then boyfriends were living in a house together...
    cc12979 cc12979
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2009

    Sometimes Is Turning Into Most Times.

    I used to say 'sometimes she makes me so mad!' sometimes is turning into all the time. Let me start off by telling you our past relationship.   I was friends with a girl (lets call her.. Mary) who my now best friend,  Jen was also friends with. So, of course, we...
    Sophiex Sophiex
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 16, 2010

    THE ***** HASN'T TALKED TO ME IN OVER A ******

    dazedandconfusedgal dazedandconfusedgal
    18-21, F
    Jul 22, 2015

    She's not really my best friend,

    but she calls me her best friend. I can't stand her, honest to god she's the most self-centered person I've ever seen in my life. She constantly tweets and DMs me about how her friends invite her for karaoke or how she sucked up to a teacher and got 100% on her exam. Honestly? I...
    falloutbxy falloutbxy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2014

    I'm Feeling Like I Don't Like My Best Friend Anymore

    I don't know anymore. She used to be such a great friend who I wanted to spend so much time when then all of a sudden I felt like she kept clinging to me, even though I like clinging to others too. I feel like she's too close and that I don't have any space anymore when I'm with...
    ImaginativeDayDreamer ImaginativeDayDreamer
    18-21, F
    Nov 18, 2013

    So as of late I have this " best friend "

    who honestly is not even that anymore. She is somebody who is so beyond selfish that you wouldn't find out until you get close to her. After having a massive fight with her last Christmas that my boyfriend basically asking what was up with Her and myself, she freaked. Yano if...
    SadhbhHarrington SadhbhHarrington
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 16, 2015

    Mixed Feelings...

    I've been friends with this girl for a little over six years now. Even during our first year as friends, I found her to be annoying. We're both Christians and she had a 'holier than thou' attitude; she chided me for cursing which is the only non-Christian thing she's seen me do...
    abcdefghijk91 abcdefghijk91
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2010


    16-17, M
    3 Responses May 22, 2015

    I fight with her almost everyday.

    But I have the most fun with her and she's the only person I feel connected too
    Madii144 Madii144
    Mar 20, 2014


    !!!....she ask for something to me and without hesitate i gave it to her....let's say giving her load for her phone....the moment she got it she's not calling me back just send me a message that she received it and say thank you and thats all......no more calling or talking to me...
    redre22 redre22
    22-25, F
    Jul 28, 2015

    I don't necessarily hate her.

    I just hate what she's been acting like lately. 1. This is going to sound like a dumb reason to dislike someone, but she copies everything I say. I admit that when I hear people say things that I've said (Such as catchphrases, sayings, etc.) I get a little annoyed. 2. She acts...
    bridget1234567 bridget1234567
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2014

    You ever have those friends

    that are so dumb and illiterate that you feel bad abandoning them? that was sadly my situation. I've been friends with her since 7th grade and we are both juniors now.When she started dating this guy last year she would never talk to me or hang out, it was always her and her...
    jaseishere jaseishere
    18-21, T
    Dec 15, 2015

    My best friend and I were BFFs

    for 3 years, but when I was grade 4, I was really dumb so I didn't really stand up to my so called best friend. She always is jealous of me now because I am better on everything now, and she is a loser. She is always getting moody even on a tiny little thing, and it really...
    Sadgirl0922 Sadgirl0922
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    Vicky-the Way We Weren't

    We used to have a great relationship, well we fought, but its what kept everything new, fresh, it made things less boring. We had a lot of bad habbits, cutting, bulimia, anorexia, depression, suicidal thoughts and attemps and we helped eachother, well I helped her, she always...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 21, 2013

    She's putting a lot of pressure on her boyfriend

    because he has to cuddle her and touch her every single second they're together. It's gotten so bad that now he's not talking to her or me because he doesn't want to deal with her anymore. And because of that my whole friend group will break away and my final year at college...
    F1Girl97 F1Girl97
    18-21, F
    Aug 22, 2014

    UUGG i cant STAND my "best friend"!

    !! She thinks she is so perfect at everything, she criticises people she doesnt even know!! She always complains about this one girl in our group who is just going through a hard time for her and she says that shes rude and annoying and i just want to tell her that she is EXACTLY...
    meganrussell meganrussell
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2015

    I've known my best friend

    for almost 16 years now. I met him during a very interesting period of my life. I moved away about four years ago and visit him every few months. He always loves having me around and enjoys the attention I give him, but talking to him when are not together is absolute torture...
    five5x five5x
    31-35, M
    Nov 29, 2015

    The Not Best

    i hate my best friend. That sounds exmoronish, but its true. I mean, I've been friends with her for about 10 years, since we were 5.  It all started as we got into our teenage years...and she became a *****, not only that, but lied.  I hate liars, just to clarify...
    misssunshine500 misssunshine500
    7 Responses Nov 14, 2008

    We have the fakest friendship ever

    and you're not even aware of it. You think everything is going so well and that I'll just stay by your side forever and ever. I dread receiving texts from you because I know you'll be bitching about something stupid.
    jaseishere jaseishere
    18-21, T
    Dec 26, 2015

    My best friends grandfather died today.

    I did not call her , message her or o to meet her. I feel like I should have but I didn't want to. I didn't know what to say to her.maybe I'm a horrible best friend but then so is she .on one hand I am thinking that why should I be there for her when she treats me so badly. I...
    booklover200016 booklover200016
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2016

    My best friend doesn't care,

    unless its about herself. When she's having troubles I'm there for her and I talk with her and I laugh at her jokes that I don't like and even when I really don't care about what she's saying I'll still listen because I know she cares. she does the opposite with me, but what...
    boomterroboom boomterroboom
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2015

    well we used to be bestfriends

    and we are still close but she is totally ignoring me-always speaking about her bloody boyfriend (when im talking to her bout serious things!) and i must act like I like him (but i dont)..so tell me what should I do?when I try to speak with her about something she just changes...
    cuddlepanda cuddlepanda
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 23, 2015

    She Ruined My Life.

    I used to have this best friend. I let she and her son stay with me in my apartment for free when ever she needed a place to go. Her son loved me so much he would cry for me in his sleep! When people would talk about her i would argue with them, lost some friends because of it...
    PleaseBeFree PleaseBeFree
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 22, 2012

    he owes me £12,000 after i helped him out with

    his wedding and after his kid was born. We had a falling out, fair enough. But the fact is. I gave him that money with the intention of him paying back, and he hasn't. It's soured things. I'm trying to be patient with his personal problems, but my gratuity will be my downfall
    tarjawhore tarjawhore
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015

    I Want To Pull Her Hair Out And Kick Her Down The Stairs

    I met my best friend in high school. she was a grade below me. I didn't like her in the beginning and then I just gave up and became friends with her. We live together, which really really blows. She's a pig! she doesn't clean up after herself, do her dishes, her room is full of...
    roflraccoon roflraccoon
    4 Responses Jan 22, 2011

    I used to hate my old best friend.

    Yet I cared about her at the same time. She used to steal from me every time she came over. I had proof of it most of the time. I would lose something and then find it in her possession days later. Things would go missing after she would come over. She stole my iPod, makeup...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2015

    I'm Sorry, I Just Can't Do This

    I'm seriously just breaking down here. I don't know what else to do, or who to go to. I have a 'best friend'. Lets just call her Rachel. So, I've known Rachel since second grade. For over twenty years, we've laughed and smiled and done all the things that best friends are...
    superkitty17 superkitty17
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 12, 2013

    Ok this may seem a bit low to feel this way

    about a friend but this project is for people who don't judge, right? Okay so I have this really annoying friend that we can call Tina for now. I just met Tina this year and she really loves to one-up me. You know, when that person is just one point better than you? I'm sick. I...
    oreocooky oreocooky
    16-17, F
    3 Responses May 2, 2014

    In my high school, there's a special program to

    all the smarter people and everything. My best friend and some others were in that program but in the same school. I was sitting next to my friend with her other friends during lunch and then they were stupidly complaining about how they would fail the tests and that they didn't...
    Music4Us Music4Us
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2015
    HeartGoesBlue HeartGoesBlue
    18-21, F
    Feb 9, 2015

    I am a sophomore in college

    and living in an apartment with my three best friends that I have grown to hate. It started out with me being best friends with one other girl. Then, another best friend couple joined our best friend couple and BAM... I'm the odd one out. I am a catholic from the north going to...
    mollyminnow mollyminnow
    18-21, F
    Sep 24, 2015

    I used to hate my best friend.

    I'm over it now. Every guy I dated she used to date them once I'm done. I used to think Of her as a nasty B!!! Now I'm over it. I don't talk to the guys anymore. If I do it's a hello and keep it moving. No need to date them again. Their old garbage for a reason.
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 11, 2014

    Friends Or Not? I Dont Know Anymore

    i have been friends with ashley *not real name of course* for about a year and half. We met at school and to be honest, i dont even know why or how we became friends. We soon found out we had similar interest in music and movies. We were so close that people in our group of...
    dearlydemented dearlydemented
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2006
    16-17, M
    May 22, 2015

    So I have this "friend" she doesn't respect me

    at all. She doesn't realize that half of the stupid **** that comes out of her mouth hurts me. She thinks I'm a joke. I don't know why I even keep her as a friend. "I'm not a her so don't call me a her." she says "well, technically." You have no idea how much I wanted to hit...
    jaseishere jaseishere
    18-21, T
    Jan 3, 2016

    Idk if she's my best friend anymore lmao.

    She thinks we're friends but I don't like her just cuz she's annoying but we've been through so much together
    loveburnt loveburnt
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2014

    So last year, I dated this guy.

    But he kept making fun of my best friend, and she ran to the restroom crying. So I came over to her being the "Good Friend" I am, I decided to break up with my boyfriend when I still loved him. Then like 2 weeks later, she dated my ex. She never told me that she was dating him...
    annieiskrazy annieiskrazy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 12, 2014

    My best friend and I have known each other

    for 10 years. Our friendship was really strong when we were kids but then things changed and we got separated. 2 years ago I shifted , my new house was just around the corner of hers. As soon as she heard became super exited. She took me under her wing. She wanted me to do...
    booklover200016 booklover200016
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2015

    I Hate My Best Friend

    I hate my best friend. I met her when I joined a new school and we were best friends immediatly, everyone thought we had been best friends for ages. She was really nice and unique until we joined secondary school. Not showing off or anything but my fahion sense is not bad and...
    Cosmicforest13 Cosmicforest13
    9 Responses Mar 2, 2010

    She is so mean and always hiding things from me.

    She laughs at me and makes me feel like ****. But she is the only "friend" I have and I can't let go of her.
    OliviaBlueSeven OliviaBlueSeven
    26-30, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    My "best friend" is a nightmare.

    She's super selfish and self centered. Inconsiderate and arrogant. A total flirt and a total cheater. She has a hell of an attitude and a stupid mindset. She also doesn't have any decency or any morals. She's a total s.l.u.t. She's slept with at least 15-20 guys and she only...
    Feliciajake Feliciajake
    18-21, F
    Dec 30, 2014

    I hate her so much. She always says I'm a

    attention seeker because she thinks I am making up the voices in my head, my depression, and social anxiety. To be honest, she was never really there for me. When I got punched by a guy in 6th grade, she sided with him and said I was no one important. When I got into an online...
    RadioactiveDemon RadioactiveDemon
    16-17, F
    Sep 18, 2015

    So obviously I know something's wrong with me,

    but I absolutely hate my supposedly "number one best friend" I've known her for 7 years and this year more than most everything she says makes me want to slit my throat, then slit hers. Not one thing she says is funny, or makes sense. She's a ******* idiot! I'm a naturally...
    paytonabbott paytonabbott
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    her: hey i got stuck in this village called

    stupovaca. i have a bf who is older 10 years than me but he doesnt have a licence. i know that i only call you when i need something or want to steal your money, but go ahead and find me someone who can pick me up.
    forkinyoureye forkinyoureye
    18-21, F
    Mar 19, 2016

    I so hate my ex best friend

    so bad, here is the reason why.....we would of been best friends for 10 years this year and things has gone wrong, my best friend kept coming up my flat cause she wanted a boyfriend, we did everything together and I kept setting her up with lads but she didn't like them and then...
    westlife213 westlife213
    26-30, F
    Dec 2, 2014

    One of my "best friends" has spent over two

    years constantly invalidating me. I win a writing award? "Haha, too bad that never happens to me. I guess you're just more charismatic, so your friends vote for you." And everything that makes me happy is because I'm "lucky" and obviously I can't understand hardship because if I...
    moxieinterstellar moxieinterstellar
    22-25, F
    Nov 9, 2015

    Okk maybe not hate but dislike.

    I obviously have a problem, disliking my own bestfriend? We have been friends since grade 1 and bff since grade 3. She honestly is getting on my nerves and I dont know if she knows. She is waaaaayyy too honest and is very bossy. How can I stop hanging out with her? I once...
    asiangirll asiangirll
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    I hate my friend sooo much.

    She first was from my mom home country so her mom and my mom become friends. She came to my school at 6th gr and the teacher make me stay with her all day. I was first ok with it, then we did a project together.I did all the work for her and when it came to present i wasn't done...
    upsetfriend upsetfriend
    16-17, F
    Jun 30, 2015

    Idk Wut to Call Him Anymore

    Ok so i have this friend... i havent known him that long.....and yet we call each other best friends. We always tell each other how much we care about each other. But i have this fear of losing friends since most of the ppl i considered "best friends...
    kevinkrash123 kevinkrash123
    13-15, M
    3 Responses Jul 24, 2009

    So lately my best friend is being really

    annoying she always judges me . She always says my crush is really ugly. And she always has to say rude comments about what I wear and stuff. I can't just stop being friends cause she's in my school goes to lunch with me and is in a dance thing with me ugh 😭
    anaaaa188 anaaaa188
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 18, 2015

    I Have a Couple Best Friends.....

    I have a couple best friends...there like family. And if i hated them id tell them and we'd deal with it...whether or not someone ends up with a bloody lip or a few broken bones...thats our business
    greymagik greymagik
    22-25, M
    4 Responses May 27, 2007

    It's not that I hate her,

    i just hate who she's become. We just don't mesh the way we use to.
    BrightSkyCity BrightSkyCity
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2014
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