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I Hate My Best Friend

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    I don't necessarily hate her.

    I just hate what she's been acting like lately. 1. This is going to sound like a dumb reason to dislike someone, but she copies everything I say. I admit that when I hear people say things that I've said (Such as catchphrases, sayings, etc.) I get a little annoyed. 2. She acts...
    bridget1234567 bridget1234567 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    I had this friend that I knew

    for 8 years! We were always together, y'know typical best friend stuff. Then on Thanksgiving day I realized maybe she wasn't a person I wanted in my life. She said things that made me think why I was ever friends with her. Plus when I really thought about, she never really was...
    stef17 stef17 18-21, F Dec 17

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    Vicky-the Way We Weren't

    We used to have a great relationship, well we fought, but its what kept everything new, fresh, it made things less boring. We had a lot of bad habbits, cutting, bulimia, anorexia, depression, suicidal thoughts and attemps and we helped eachother, well I helped her, she always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    My ex best fiend is so freaked rude

    now just because she's on the schools volleyball team for the first time news flash I was on 3 years longer and I'm still on it and she cries and tells everyone info and whenever I ask her to help me do something her answer is no cause she say she spent want to now my team gets...
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F Dec 2

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    Mixed Feelings...

    I've been friends with this girl for a little over six years now. Even during our first year as friends, I found her to be annoying. We're both Christians and she had a 'holier than thou' attitude; she chided me for cursing which is the only non-Christian thing she's seen me do...
    abcdefghijk91 abcdefghijk91 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    My best friend (both male,

    both 34, he's married 2 kids, and I'm single and live alone) for the past 5 years has been at my house every Friday, Saturday and Sunday. It's becoming extremely overbearing! (He usually leaves me alone during the week, but with my hours at work, I have time to eat clean and...
    crb80 crb80 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 30

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    My best friend is always putting me down.

    She never does what I want no matter what it is. She is WAY more popular than I am so I always feel left out. Almost every guy in the valley likes her and I feel like the ugly friend. She even forced me to have my first kiss with a guy I don't know. I was saving it for someone...
    mckennaolsen mckennaolsen 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    She's not really my best friend,

    but she calls me her best friend. I can't stand her, honest to god she's the most self-centered person I've ever seen in my life. She constantly tweets and DMs me about how her friends invite her for karaoke or how she sucked up to a teacher and got 100% on her exam. Honestly? I...
    falloutbxy falloutbxy 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I Hate My Best Friend.

    I have know this girl since grade 5 and we were inseparable. We were the best of friends and had A LOT in common, our interests, family history's and we even looked the same. In the beginning I was a bit jealous of her since she got more attention but I just thought it was...
    Bestfriendmyass Bestfriendmyass 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    I told her I was bisexual,

    and I cried about it and she swore she wouldn't tell anyone. Then I find out a month later she's told 3 of my not close friends. And she's denying it and turning all my friends against me.
    MyOnlyFriend MyOnlyFriend 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 14

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    TeresaChanaki TeresaChanaki 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    The Not Best

    i hate my best friend. That sounds exmoronish, but its true. I mean, I've been friends with her for about 10 years, since we were 5.  It all started as we got into our teenage years...and she became a *****, not only that, but lied.  I hate liars, just to clarify...
    misssunshine500 misssunshine500 16-17 7 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    I recently met her and I thought we were going

    to be best friends forever. I was naive and stupid. I was recently getting I've a brief period of sadness because one of my other best friends moved away. My group of friends are goody goodies and I'm okay with that. My "friend" that I hate cusses. I'm okay with that but my...
    LittleRose18 LittleRose18 16-17, F Nov 15

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    She Has Turned Into a Complete Monster.

    I met my "best friend" about 11 years ago in college.  I really didn't like her from the beginning.  There was something about her that seemed so fake.  However, I was forced into being nice to her--our then boyfriends were living in a house together...
    cc12979 cc12979 26-30 3 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    If realized something.

    Through writing. It's not my fault. It's my own. She doesn't own me. She doesn't control how I feel. I'm responsible for my own happiness and only I can change for the better.
    fylana fylana 16-17, F Oct 10

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    I Hate My Bestfriend

    Alright so let's start from the begining. I used to live in the United States for like 11 years, then we moved to Europe (Idk why) but basically my dad stayed in america so i'm here with my mom. Alright enough of my life, anyways so when I started going to school here a LOT of...
    LakorLev LakorLev 16-17, F Sep 25, 2013

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    She's rude, and she tells people

    that its me that sucks. The one who can't just talk and communicate... She's ******* my brother and she tells him that she doesn't understand why I don't like her. She copies everything I do and says I'm copying her. I hate it... I just... Want a new best friend.... She sucks...
    alysssaa alysssaa 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 18

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    I have a lot of friends

    that I consider best friends, this friend that I hate is a childhood friend. She's two years older than me. She is a manipulative, rude, mean, self centered, whiny, lying little brat. Words seriously cannot describe how much I hate her. Ever since we were little, she would...
    heythereandrea heythereandrea 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I Have a Couple Best Friends.....

    I have a couple best friends...there like family. And if i hated them id tell them and we'd deal with it...whether or not someone ends up with a bloody lip or a few broken bones...thats our business
    greymagik greymagik 21-25, M 5 Responses May 27, 2007

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    So, this girl, she is my best friend.

    She is also my cousin, so we've known each other since we were born and stuff. She used to be kinda mean, so didn't like her. But then she got super nice. I loved her. We were besties. But recently (The past few months) she has been mean again. She always leaves me out when we...
    AvaRawr AvaRawr 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 25

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    I Hate Living With Her, So Much.

    I've known her since she was one and I was born basically. Our mothers were friends. We have so much in common, interest wise. We like all the same things and can talk for hours. I'd noticed she could be hot-headed, but it seemed like a little problem. Other things about her...
    FuzzyBritches FuzzyBritches 18-21 1 Response Feb 18, 2013

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    Idk Wut to Call Him Anymore

    Ok so i have this friend... i havent known him that long.....and yet we call each other best friends. We always tell each other how much we care about each other. But i have this fear of losing friends since most of the ppl i considered "best friends...
    kevinkrash123 kevinkrash123 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    She's poison. She had destroyed any confidence

    I had in myself. She makes me feel worthless and insignificant by degrading and mocking anything I'm proud of. When I do anything that makes people think highly of me, she does it better. If I were to make new friends, they would be hers as well. If she were to make new friends...
    fylana fylana 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    She's putting a lot of pressure on her boyfriend

    because he has to cuddle her and touch her every single second they're together. It's gotten so bad that now he's not talking to her or me because he doesn't want to deal with her anymore. And because of that my whole friend group will break away and my final year at college...
    F1Girl97 F1Girl97 16-17, F Aug 22

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    She is the only person whom I hate

    so much these days.. I hate her.. totally.. she ruined our friendship.. cheated me.. she broke my trust on friendship.. nowadays I don't even feel like trusting any of my real life friends.. it just kills me when she talks to my bf.. I don't want to see her forever but that's...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Her and I have been friends

    since we were 3.. Last year she hung around ***** and druggies though . Dropped me and changed... Had the nerve to call me a copy cat of herself after I got my bottom lip done (snakebites) but I got them because my friend gabby chose those as a thing I should get. I honestly...
    YoungLovee15 YoungLovee15 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    She's saying that I always ditch her meanwhile

    she's ALWAYS ditching me for her friends. Sleepovers, trick or treating, restaurants, mall, movies, get togethers & just simply hanging out with them. Ever since she moved she's always with them. I try to make plans with her then when we can't she only says that I'm the worst...
    motionlessH motionlessH 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    EnglandsAnswer EnglandsAnswer 22-25, M Nov 15

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    I used to hate my best friend.

    I'm over it now. She used to date every guy I hate. I used to think wtf you nasty b!!!! I don't care anymore I don't talk to the guys once I'm done with them.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Oct 11

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    Well i have this new friend

    who moved in her last year ,she lives in the rich peoples neighbourhood and i am in the poor people side,i live in algeria so blondes are rare and she is one of them besides she have thouse gorgeous eyes and innocent beautiful face and i am the chuby and ugly one i mean i don't...
    kailajini kailajini 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Can't Understand Her

    So I've had this friend since I was like 15 I'm now 25 . She had alway been the pretty 1 . We got on ok she would alway fall out with me if I didn't stick to plans which I no is annoying. I met my husband and 1 Nyt she and him nearly slept together . Apparently he was too drunk...
    Hopeless0909 Hopeless0909 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    ypp I hate her she is a f^ck she don't taik to

    me an mor I want to know wat I did she don't tallšŸ˜–ilove her mor then my mam and my dad and my sis and bro she is the first girl I like her
    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M Sep 13

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    I Regret It

    I've never had a close friend before. And this was the beginning of the 7th grade, and I was feeling really lonely. Enormously depressed even. But then I met this girl, Jordan, and we shared some laughs and some secrets and, you know, friend stuff. She asked if I wanted to be her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 17, 2012

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    It's not that I hate her,

    i just hate who she's become. We just don't mesh the way we use to.
    BrightSkyCity BrightSkyCity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I honestly hate my best friend

    and she ruin's my days, I cannot even explain what is happening it's so complicating, if I told u I would be telling my whole life story over again, my life is a wreck and best friends are suppose to make it better but it's the complete opposite.
    spaceshark spaceshark 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    She's become an attention seeker

    because she's insecure... I can't take it anymore.. If I wear something she doesn't agree with then she doesn't want to be seen with me in public... She's literally dragged me to a friend, pulled up my shorts leg and exposed my scars on my thighs after I said no, dropped to the...
    catho catho 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So last year, I dated this guy.

    But he kept making fun of my best friend, and she ran to the restroom crying. So I came over to her being the "Good Friend" I am, I decided to break up with my boyfriend when I still loved him. Then like 2 weeks later, she dated my ex. She never told me that she was dating him...
    annieiskrazy annieiskrazy 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    I have three. Jasmine,

    Jake, And Zaineb. Jasmine keeps coming at us with fat comments and she knows we are sensitive about this topic. It makes me upset. She also makes fun of Jake for being gay, I swear I'm done with her ****. We all agreed to stop talking to her. It's for the best.
    AtlPunk1D AtlPunk1D 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    BloodRedDarkness BloodRedDarkness 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    Sometimes Is Turning Into Most Times.

    I used to say 'sometimes she makes me so mad!' sometimes is turning into all the time. Let me start off by telling you our past relationship.   I was friends with a girl (lets call her.. Mary) who my now best friend,  Jen was also friends with. So, of course, we...
    Sophiex Sophiex 16-17, F 1 Response May 16, 2010

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    In 8th grade, I started hanging out with these

    people and I got along with them really well, except for this one girl. I honestly hated each her. She was rude to everyone, she insulted me to my face, and was the most narcissistic person I ever met. I couldn't stand her. In 9th grade I got put in a PE class with her and since...
    Hanna883 Hanna883 31-35, F Aug 11

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    The Worst Kind Of Person.

    I ******* hate my best friend. I have know him for 6 years and we talk and drink almost every week, but the problem is, every word he speaks literally destroys my ******* soul. Hes racist, anti semitic and he chooses to be stupid as ****, let me repeat that, he CHOOSES to be...
    AxiosThanatos AxiosThanatos 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    I so hate my ex best friend

    so bad, here is the reason why.....we would of been best friends for 10 years this year and things has gone wrong, my best friend kept coming up my flat cause she wanted a boyfriend, we did everything together and I kept setting her up with lads but she didn't like them and then...
    westlife213 westlife213 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    I know it sounds weird to hate your best friend.

    But, sometimes you do. I think it is the nasty thing call time that make us change our perception on friendship and friends. She knows me, but not enough to know that I despise her ways. Loneliness is the price we pay for bullshit best friends. Today, we were suppose to hang out...
    allinlove allinlove 22-25, F Aug 3

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    Idk if she's my best friend anymore lmao.

    She thinks we're friends but I don't like her just cuz she's annoying but we've been through so much together
    loveburnt loveburnt 13-15, F 2 Responses May 8

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    This is a long story,

    let me warn you! Six years ago when I started college, I had literally zero friends as I hadn't attended high school due to social anxiety issues. I met so many lovely people and made friends with my now best friend. let's call him "jake." As I hadn't had friends since...
    icecreamjunk icecreamjunk 22-25, F Oct 19

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    Friends Or Not? I Dont Know Anymore

    i have been friends with ashley *not real name of course* for about a year and half. We met at school and to be honest, i dont even know why or how we became friends. We soon found out we had similar interest in music and movies. We were so close that people in our group of...
    dearlydemented dearlydemented 16-18, F 3 Responses Aug 25, 2006

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    In 8th grade, I started hanging out with these

    people and I got along with them really well, except for this one girl. I honestly hated each her. She was rude to everyone, she insulted me to my face, and was the most narcissistic person I ever met. I couldn't stand her. In 9th grade I got put in a PE class with her and since...
    Ashley7374 Ashley7374 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    She's Stupid.

    My "best friend" and I have known each other for a little over a year. I know it's not a long time, but when we met, we spent every waking moment together and became so close so quick. We'll call her Tiny Kong. The first day we met, we were introduced by a mutual friend whom was...
    rastacourage rastacourage 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    She Ruined My Life.

    I used to have this best friend. I let she and her son stay with me in my apartment for free when ever she needed a place to go. Her son loved me so much he would cry for me in his sleep! When people would talk about her i would argue with them, lost some friends because of it...
    PleaseBeFree PleaseBeFree 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I Hate My Best Friend

    I hate my best friend. I met her when I joined a new school and we were best friends immediatly, everyone thought we had been best friends for ages. She was really nice and unique until we joined secondary school. Not showing off or anything but my fahion sense is not bad and...
    Cosmicforest13 Cosmicforest13 18-21 9 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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