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I Hate My Best Friend

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    She's Stupid.

    My "best friend" and I have known each other for a little over a year. I know it's not a long time, but when we met, we spent every waking moment together and became so close so quick. We'll call her Tiny Kong. The first day we met, we were introduced by a mutual friend whom was...
    rastacourage rastacourage 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    She Has Turned Into a Complete Monster.

    I met my "best friend" about 11 years ago in college.  I really didn't like her from the beginning.  There was something about her that seemed so fake.  However, I was forced into being nice to her--our then boyfriends were living in a house together...
    cc12979 cc12979 26-30 3 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    she doesent care about me except her sister

    and her she is a brat totally rude and mean! I just HATE her
    amyymyftari amyymyftari 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Friends Or Not? I Dont Know Anymore

    i have been friends with ashley *not real name of course* for about a year and half. We met at school and to be honest, i dont even know why or how we became friends. We soon found out we had similar interest in music and movies. We were so close that people in our group of...
    dearlydemented dearlydemented 16-18, F 3 Responses Aug 25, 2006

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    why u do that to me? please be honest,

    what u do is hurting me so much
    MelindaAlamsyah MelindaAlamsyah 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    Ugh! My best friend

    for the past couple months has been bailing on me everytime we plan to hang! We can plan it weeks ahead but sure enough something will come up. Her parents are very protective even though she's 21 so a lot of times she can't go here or there. Today we planned to see a movie and...
    AlexanderX AlexanderX 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Vicky-the Way We Weren't

    We used to have a great relationship, well we fought, but its what kept everything new, fresh, it made things less boring. We had a lot of bad habbits, cutting, bulimia, anorexia, depression, suicidal thoughts and attemps and we helped eachother, well I helped her, she always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    My best friend thinks

    that I've changed and I hate him because we used to hangout all the time. Then high school came and we don't hangout as much. I started basketball, he got a girlfriend. He blames us not being as close on me and he thinks he didn't do anything wrong. He is very over dramatic and...
    mariahann88 mariahann88 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    The Not Best

    i hate my best friend. That sounds exmoronish, but its true. I mean, I've been friends with her for about 10 years, since we were 5.  It all started as we got into our teenage years...and she became a *****, not only that, but lied.  I hate liars, just to clarify...
    misssunshine500 misssunshine500 16-17 7 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Okay well, I've known this girl

    for at least 8 years and she's supposed to be my best friend, but she's never exactly treated me like I'm hers. She always made things a competition, and mocked me a lot. I forgave her for it though because hey, I figured it was probably unintentional. But recently, I've been SO...
    Equanimityyy Equanimityyy 13-15, F 1 Response May 7

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    I Hate My Best Friend

    I hate my best friend. I met her when I joined a new school and we were best friends immediatly, everyone thought we had been best friends for ages. She was really nice and unique until we joined secondary school. Not showing off or anything but my fahion sense is not bad and...
    Cosmicforest13 Cosmicforest13 18-21 9 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    I don't hate her, I just feel very agitated by

    her. Most of it is not her fault, sometimes it's me but then when I stand up to her I doubt myself and apologize right back at her. I try to ignore her but I can't and I'm not friends with everyone. I should of left when I had a chance, but she told me to stay in the same school...
    bubbly12 bubbly12 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    It's not that I hate her,

    i just hate who she's become. We just don't mesh the way we use to.
    BrightSkyCity BrightSkyCity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    `my Bestfriend Changed On Me </3

    My bestfriend is the biggest ***** i know. We are in the sixth grade going into seventh.   Let's call her KCB .   KCB is all over my boyfriend , even though she says she doesnt like him & that there just friends .   I know that he doesnt like her...
    annoymuss annoymuss 13-15, F May 9, 2010

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    She's rude, and she tells people

    that its me that sucks. The one who can't just talk and communicate... She's ******* my brother and she tells him that she doesn't understand why I don't like her. She copies everything I do and says I'm copying her. I hate it... I just... Want a new best friend.... She sucks...
    alysssaa alysssaa 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 18

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    She's Toxic

    My best friend's name is Makai, our other best friend Cheyenne recently told me she doesn't like how Makai treats her. Makai's always talking about me behind my back. One time I talked behind her's because I was so sick of it. She made a giant deal out of it. Now she's always...
    chloehates chloehates 13-15 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    Can't Understand Her

    So I've had this friend since I was like 15 I'm now 25 . She had alway been the pretty 1 . We got on ok she would alway fall out with me if I didn't stick to plans which I no is annoying. I met my husband and 1 Nyt she and him nearly slept together . Apparently he was too drunk...
    Hopeless0909 Hopeless0909 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    So me and my best friend made a trip to NYC

    for fun for a week and we just got back today. While we were there I managed to meet a really cool girl. We hung out multiple times during the week and I started to develop strong feeling for her. Yesterday I invited her out it being my last night before heading home. So me, my...
    Sevenup1 Sevenup1 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    So..i have this best friend,

    which we've been friends for 7 years now. She makes me so mad!! We went to the same elementary school and seperated into different middle schools. I usually bragged about how awesome my school was, and then for some reason i thought it'd be a good idea for her to move back...
    WhyamInotperfect WhyamInotperfect 13-15, F 1 Response May 23

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    I'm Sorry, I Just Can't Do This

    I'm seriously just breaking down here. I don't know what else to do, or who to go to. I have a 'best friend'. Lets just call her Rachel. So, I've known Rachel since second grade. For over twenty years, we've laughed and smiled and done all the things that best friends are...
    superkitty17 superkitty17 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    I Want To Get Away From Them

    Sometimes I really, really hate my two best friends. But, I don't want to push them away. I want to tell them that I hate them sometimes and the reasons why I feel this way. But, I don't want to lose them forever. I just feel that I can't be honest with anymore and that sucks...
    Eddey Eddey 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    My "so Called" Bestfriend

    Ok so like me and my bestfriend have been BFFS since 3rd grade and now she has a bunch of new friends and is like way more popular than me. Yesterday she had two friends over and (me and her live on the same street) i saw them outside. Like why didnt she invite me out there...
    rockprincess1o1 rockprincess1o1 16-17 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    Maybe hate is too much but… I thing she is

    not my best friend anymore, I don´t know what to do. I met my best friend 4 years ago and we became friends very quickly, we had fun, we understood each other, we were like the "different" girls in our school but it didm´t actually matter, we were happy. But then she started...
    CaptainMer CaptainMer 18-21 Mar 31

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    My best friend (both male,

    both 34, he's married 2 kids, and I'm single and live alone) for the past 5 years has been at my house every Friday, Saturday and Sunday. It's becoming extremely overbearing! (He usually leaves me alone during the week, but with my hours at work, I have time to eat clean and...
    crb80 crb80 31-35, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I feel extremely guilty

    even writing this, but I can't keep it to myself anymore. My friend-last year definitively a "best" friend and this year one of my roommates- has become intolerable. She brags about herself all the time, laughs at most of her own stories, and is kind of a social climber. She...
    messycrazylife messycrazylife 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I seriously can't put up with my best friend

    anymore. We have known each other for 4 years and only became best friends in high school (2 years ago). I can't stand her behaviour. She always talks badly about other people and I even caught her talking **** over me, and she didn't aknowledge it or apologized for it, she said...
    nanarchy nanarchy 16-17, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I Hate My Bestfriend

    Alright so let's start from the begining. I used to live in the United States for like 11 years, then we moved to Europe (Idk why) but basically my dad stayed in america so i'm here with my mom. Alright enough of my life, anyways so when I started going to school here a LOT of...
    LakorLev LakorLev 16-17, F Sep 25, 2013

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    Idk if she's my best friend anymore lmao.

    She thinks we're friends but I don't like her just cuz she's annoying but we've been through so much together
    loveburnt loveburnt 13-15, F 2 Responses May 8

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    She's the ultimate worst best friend on earth.

    She doesn't care about me at all, she makes fun of me the whole time. She basically stole my first boyfriend/love. She took my friends away from me, and now they hate me. She uses me. She only talks to me when she needs me. She prefers telling her secrets to guys that she knows...
    anonymouslymyself anonymouslymyself 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Mixed Feelings...

    I've been friends with this girl for a little over six years now. Even during our first year as friends, I found her to be annoying. We're both Christians and she had a 'holier than thou' attitude; she chided me for cursing which is the only non-Christian thing she's seen me do...
    abcdefghijk91 abcdefghijk91 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    The Worst Kind Of Person.

    I ******* hate my best friend. I have know him for 6 years and we talk and drink almost every week, but the problem is, every word he speaks literally destroys my ******* soul. Hes racist, anti semitic and he chooses to be stupid as ****, let me repeat that, he CHOOSES to be...
    AxiosThanatos AxiosThanatos 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old

    and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years ago. We were in the same class at sat together so we were really close. Then a new girl comes from abroad and she looked just so...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I've been great friends

    for several years with a woman. She's got some great qualities and we laugh together at all the same things. But recently, I've began to notice something about her. She expects people to care for her. She is lazy, demanding, and hates working. We've been roommates for a couple...
    Lostinlife87 Lostinlife87 26-30, M May 28

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    Idk Wut to Call Him Anymore

    Ok so i have this friend... i havent known him that long.....and yet we call each other best friends. We always tell each other how much we care about each other. But i have this fear of losing friends since most of the ppl i considered "best friends...
    kevinkrash123 kevinkrash123 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    I Hate Living With Her, So Much.

    I've known her since she was one and I was born basically. Our mothers were friends. We have so much in common, interest wise. We like all the same things and can talk for hours. I'd noticed she could be hot-headed, but it seemed like a little problem. Other things about her...
    FuzzyBritches FuzzyBritches 18-21 1 Response Feb 18, 2013

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    I don't exactly hate him,

    but lately it just has been super tense. We spend so much time together but a lot of it is sitting there silently. We've been fighting a lot and I just wish it would stop.
    Amanda72 Amanda72 13-15, F 4 Responses May 3

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    Sometimes Is Turning Into Most Times.

    I used to say 'sometimes she makes me so mad!' sometimes is turning into all the time. Let me start off by telling you our past relationship.   I was friends with a girl (lets call her.. Mary) who my now best friend,  Jen was also friends with. So, of course, we...
    Sophiex Sophiex 16-17, F 1 Response May 16, 2010

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    She's been ******* me off ever

    since she started going out with her boyfriend like 2 years ago. She never has time for me. And i invited her to my 18th birthday (its a formal thing in our country). Then she told me its her boyfriend's graduation day that day but she'll make it to my birthday. But then she...
    Lalafancy Lalafancy 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I Have a Couple Best Friends.....

    I have a couple best friends...there like family. And if i hated them id tell them and we'd deal with it...whether or not someone ends up with a bloody lip or a few broken bones...thats our business
    greymagik greymagik 21-25, M 5 Responses May 27, 2007

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    I Regret It

    I've never had a close friend before. And this was the beginning of the 7th grade, and I was feeling really lonely. Enormously depressed even. But then I met this girl, Jordan, and we shared some laughs and some secrets and, you know, friend stuff. She asked if I wanted to be her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 17, 2012

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    I fight with her almost everyday.

    But I have the most fun with her and she's the only person I feel connected too
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 1 Response Mar 20

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    Ok this may seem a bit low to feel this way

    about a friend but this project is for people who don't judge, right? Okay so I have this really annoying friend that we can call Tina for now. I just met Tina this year and she really loves to one-up me. You know, when that person is just one point better than you? I'm sick. I...
    oreocooky oreocooky 13-15, F 3 Responses May 2

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    What is this page all about,

    you hate your best friend, if you hate your best friend then they are not your friend.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 18

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    She Ruined My Life.

    I used to have this best friend. I let she and her son stay with me in my apartment for free when ever she needed a place to go. Her son loved me so much he would cry for me in his sleep! When people would talk about her i would argue with them, lost some friends because of it...
    PleaseBeFree PleaseBeFree 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    She is a total self obsessed *****.

    All she ever aims to do in life is **** around with other peoples lives... especially mine. Someone needs to ******' let her know that the world does not revolve around HER. First she went about stealing someone she knew i reallllly liked. and then i was friend zoned. SERIOUSLY...
    pankti3171 pankti3171 16-17, F 1 Response May 28

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    So I feel like a bad person

    for saying this but I hate my best friend soo much. I'm finding more and more things I dislike about her and it started when she told me about her so called "Problems" So apparently she has to force a smile everyday and pretend to laugh because her parents and her little sister...
    RedRaven96 RedRaven96 13-15, F 2 Responses May 3

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    Alright so here goes nothing.

    I have this 'friend' ... let's call her Tia. To be 100% honest, I'm so sick of her. We met start of last year at school. At first we were friends, not too close but still talked and all. That was my favourite part of our entire friendship together. She was awesome. She had the...
    malfunctionx malfunctionx 13-15, F 2 Responses May 2

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    I Dont Want To Be Her Friend

    I have a best friend and there was never a problem with us and we got along great until she met my brother and she decided she wanted to date him since they were so in love and they was going to be together forever. We have been fighting over this forever and i told her didnt...
    battlefighter battlefighter 18-21, F Jul 22, 2013

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    i dont hate her, just she ****** me off

    because shes so self centred and only talks to me so she can vent and talk about her life & she seriously never listens to me. she always tells me (and i quote) that i am her "sidekick". meh she just really bothers me. like. a lot.
    cityfolk cityfolk 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I Hate My Best Friend.

    I have know this girl since grade 5 and we were inseparable. We were the best of friends and had A LOT in common, our interests, family history's and we even looked the same. In the beginning I was a bit jealous of her since she got more attention but I just thought it was...
    Bestfriendmyass Bestfriendmyass 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    I Want To Pull Her Hair Out And Kick Her Down The Stairs

    I met my best friend in high school. she was a grade below me. I didn't like her in the beginning and then I just gave up and became friends with her. We live together, which really really blows. She's a pig! she doesn't clean up after herself, do her dishes, her room is full of...
    roflraccoon roflraccoon 22-25 4 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    Hate is a strong word

    but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry and i can't bear with her. I want her to know I'm hurt so I want to hurt her back. That's why I hate her. I think it's a...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    So last year, I dated this guy.

    But he kept making fun of my best friend, and she ran to the restroom crying. So I came over to her being the "Good Friend" I am, I decided to break up with my boyfriend when I still loved him. Then like 2 weeks later, she dated my ex. She never told me that she was dating him...
    annieiskrazy annieiskrazy 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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