I Hate My Best Friends Boyfriend

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    I have been best friends with this girl named K for 8 years now. Her first boyfriend was disrespectful, but this one is over the top loser! She doesn't understand where I'm coming from because she loves him so much. But he hasn't had a job for 8 months now, and because of that...
    fedup3814 fedup3814
    1 Response Jul 29, 2008

    My Friends Boyfriend Likes Me!?!?

    This happened a few days ago, I will try and keep it brief. So when I just started highschool I became real good friends with this girl. I seriously consider her one of my best friends. We always hung out during school hours, but her boyfriend would usually be there waiting for...
    EFFtheasshole EFFtheasshole
    1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    hope' which is where people can talk to me about thier problems confidently, and basically I give advice. I want to do this because I want to make a difference and change how people feel, well try anyway... So I'm starting my work on here.. So start messaging me!
    lifeofhope lifeofhope
    18-21, F
    Jan 24, 2015

    I Hate My Best Friend's Boyfriend But I Can't Do Anything About It.

    I need to get this off my mind so badly but it's been bothering me for so long. I can't even go a day without hating them both a little bit more each day. It all began when my Best friend got her first Boyfriend. Everything was fine. I didn't care to get to know him at all...
    FrustratedCat FrustratedCat
    Oct 16, 2013

    Yes my best friend is a girl

    and I had feeling for her so much for that :-(
    Hunter283 Hunter283
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 29, 2014

    She Deserves Soooo Much Better!

    I met my best friend in high-school, we were inseparable for years, never had an argument or disagreed on anything, except possibly her taste in men. She casually dated a jerk here and there, once getting into a committed relationship for a year with another close friend of mine...
    InaCogNeto InaCogNeto
    Apr 18, 2012

    I am so tired of my roommate's boyfriend being

    here. It's been the third night in a row. I signed up to share this room with 1 person- the roommate who is a female- and not have a second DUDE staying here as well. I can't be in my comfort zone with them always talking and giggling all the freaking time.
    deleted deleted
    Sep 13, 2015

    I Love Her I Hate Him

    Shes my best friend. The best one I've ever had, or had i guess. Shes dating this guy. It's been six months now, I hate it. I love them both, their both my best friends. But he has ruined her. She used to walk in the room and make everyone happy. Be friends with everyone, be...
    DarbieCawelti DarbieCawelti
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 26, 2011

    Fool Me Once Shame On You, Fool Me Twice...

    My best friend found this guy at a club one night. She's so guarded and has had such a rough past that I encouraged her to be open to him since he was being nice. But she decides that he's weirding her out and doesn't want to do that. Ok, well fine. But then weeks or a month...
    bookwurm bookwurm
    1 Response Jul 30, 2009

    My Bestfriend And Her Boyfriend

    How can I make my best friend realize her boyfriend isn't right for her without hurting our friendship..I care a lot for her and I see he is not right for her he has lied many times but, the more serious issue is that he confessed he has herpes and she lost her virginity to him...
    Helpineedhelp Helpineedhelp
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2013

    He's Changed Her, Entirely.

     We've been friends for ages, and I've never loved anyone so much. About a fifteen months she got together with this guy, and I was really happy for her, because she'd been single for ages and was getting really, really down. So I was pleased she'd found...
    omga omga
    1 Response May 25, 2009

    I wish I didn't have to deal with

    such a **** in my life. I love my best friend she is a beautiful, caring, intelligent girl, but her boyfriend is such a **** to her. Everytime I hear about something he has said or done to her I want to tell her to leave him, but I know its unfair for me to put that sort of...
    1eyeliner1 1eyeliner1
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2014

    My Bff's Bf Sucks

    My best friends boyfriend is a jerk. Also it has been proven that he has emotionally abused her. I have gone along with it these past couple of months because when he wants to he can be very nice and actually care about her, if he is yelled at by one of his numerous "Just friend...
    morganxxivxx morganxxivxx
    1 Response May 20, 2011

    I Can't Quite Put My Finger On Exactly Why.

    There are so many things about him and just the whole situation that are huge turnoffs.  Some are kind of on her, I'll be honest, but the whole thing reminds me of the strange attraction animals have to anti-freeze.  Apparently they think it tastes good, but the...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2010

    I think my best friends boyfriend is an *******.

    And I wish they'd just break up...she's lost so many friends because they don't want to invite him to things...she just loves him...I cant wait for it to end
    mcc1109 mcc1109
    18-21, F
    Jan 11, 2014


    He's such a jerk to me, but my friend could care less as long as he's making out with her. I can't stand him.
    imaginationbound imaginationbound
    Jan 30, 2009

    it still kills me!!! seeing her posting on fb a

    pic of her husband saying.. "the love of my life" it makes me fooking sick!!!! ....................HE FUCKNG SLOBBERED MY FACE IN UR HOME WITH U IN THE OTHER ROOM... TWICE!! even saw me naked because he came at me when i was in the shower when i specifically begged u not to...
    Breeze82b Breeze82b
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 31, 2015

    Need Advise Big Time

    Ive been friends with this girl for years so I know how she is when it comes to dating well at least I thought I did. Well she started dating this guy a few months ago and he has baby Moma drama doesn't have his own place nor a job a ride and he's a drug head. I've went from...
    Vicki92 Vicki92
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2010

    Is This Actual Love?

    When my best friend and her boyfriend first got together, I was really happy for them because I knew she had liked him throughout the school year before. I was also sort of friends with him, and talked to him sometimes. To this day, they've been going out for 4 and a half years...
    sickredoven sickredoven
    1 Response Aug 11, 2013

    My Best Friends Boyfriend Is A Bum

    My best friend is a former shadow of the fun person she always was...She has been seeing this guy for the last 7/8 months and I realize hate is a strong word...but that's how I feel. He is lazy, obnoxious and arrogant. He is such a looser in a dead end job with no ambition to...
    12345no 12345no
    May 18, 2012

    I Hate My Friends Crushes And Or Boyfriends Thow I Haven'T Met Them!

    I'm pretty young but my friends have crushes and boyfriends but I hate them and I haven't even met them!!!for example my friend she's 16 but all her boyfriends I didn't like never met them but hated them! And it turns out they were all jerks or they had bad things about them why...
    Ilovepandasbro Ilovepandasbro
    18-21, F
    Mar 28, 2013

    Bestfriends Boyfriend

    My bestfriends boyfriend, is a full on **** and like i have no clue, on how to tell her how much of a **** he really is? he says stuff behind her back and sometimes direct to her face, and she doesn't take it seriously anymore? she thinks he's messing about but really he isn't he...
    saax saax
    Jan 20, 2013

    Damn It.

    So get this, my best friend meets this guy at a party then a week later starts dating him. I get upset, tell her that it's not a good idea so she splits with him. One of the reasons was me and the other was that she was really into this other guy. Great all is fixed. Right? No...
    Frisby Frisby
    1 Response Jan 11, 2009


    I have had this best friend for 6 years. We met in high school, and are now attending college together. We were inseparable since we met, until she met her boyfriend a year and a half ago. There has been so many problems with him. My main issue with him is that he is a serious...
    alianna222 alianna222
    22-25, F
    Oct 21, 2011

    My Bestfriend, My Sister... And Hes Not Even Her Boyfriend To Claim

    I cant express how much I love my best friend. We always say that we're soul mates not meant to be together as friends this time around bc we both like guys. This guy shes been seeing for the past few years is a major loser! I mean he tops all ******** Ive ever met. One, they...
    designerj1987 designerj1987
    22-25, F
    Nov 27, 2012

    Well tbh he seemed really nice best lad she has

    been with but recently he has made her feel like crap . Not only does he always have ago when their on their own but he flips when they are out aswell , tbh he's all nice and lovely to her then flips and starts a argument over nothing infront of friends and family , I have told...
    Bowbow94 Bowbow94
    22-25, F
    Feb 2, 2014

    Cannot Stand My Best Friend's Boyfriend, Or Her Now That She's With Him!

    Oh wait, they're not even 'boyfriend girlfriend' yet. She was with her high school sweetheart boyfriend for 4 years, and after a month of him dumping her she picked up the first guy that gave her the tiniest bit of attention at a party. Coincidentally, he also JUST broke up with...
    AngryChickisAngry AngryChickisAngry
    18-21, F
    Aug 4, 2013

    We Can All See The Writing On The Wall....except Her.

    My roommate of two years has been with her current boyfriend for three months. I always disliked this guy, we all belong in the same social circle and he has always rubbed me the wrong way. He developed a crush on my best friend right after he met her, but she wasn't interested...
    k2279 k2279
    1 Response Sep 6, 2011

    He's Destroyed Her

    At first he seemed like a really cool guy i approved i was so happy for her, maybe this would be better then the last. I was wrong..., hes completely changed her and not for the better, he got her to dye her hair and wear it different. He got her to wear different clothes and...
    EmmyDebro EmmyDebro
    16-17, F
    Jan 11, 2013

    It's Like This Guy Has A Permaperiod!!

    I adore my best friend. She is smart, sarcastic, pretty...you get the picture. Almost 2 years ago she began dating this guy. At first he seemed great. Nice, intelligent, sensitive to her needs. I really thought he was great! Now...I want to pull a Hostel and torture the crap...
    ban456 ban456
    May 5, 2010

    I Dont Like My Best Friends Boy Friend At All

    My best friends has this boy friend that she just met. He seems a little shady to me and I just don't like him one bit. He loves her way too much already and she's all he talks about. He only wants to be around her and has allowed his whole life to evolve around her. He has a...
    xxbloodkissesxx xxbloodkissesxx
    Sep 13, 2010

    I Get Angry Just Being In The Same Room As Him

    *Names have been changed to protect the innocent* Okay. My best friend's boyfriend. What can I say about him, other than just "LET ME BEAT HIM THE HELL UP"?? Let's start at the beginning: When they first started dating, I thought *Max* was amazing. There was no one better for...
    broadwaybaby561 broadwaybaby561
    18-21, F
    May 23, 2010

    It's Sad That I'm Single && Have To Be Around

    What Use To Be "The Couple To Most Likely Be Married.!" But My Best Friend's Boyfriend Has Cheated Once && Later Proved His Loyalty To Her (Which I Didn't Believe) So They Got Back Together. Then I Found Out He Cheated Again && As A True Best Friend It Was My Job To Tell Her So...
    HoneyCakess HoneyCakess
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2014

    All Of My Friends Date Idiots....

     My best friend whitney is dating this guy over the internet. She has never met him in real life and they have been talking to each other for over five years...Now I can understand the whole internet dating thing but if a guy has been your boy friend for five years and you...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 17, 2010


    he's everything she's ever said she hated. she completely stopped thinking for herself. i understand opposites attract, but is it really healthy when the opposite is mentally abusive at all times?? i'm gonna go with no. they've been dating 2 months and have broken up at...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 11, 2009

    I Love Her, I Hate Him

    I have been friends with K for a long time, about 15 years now. We've been through a lot together and we are more like sisters than friends. I love her very much but her choice of partner has led me to question everything I thought I knew about her. She is kind, caring and...
    BettyBanner BettyBanner
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2010

    Im Afraid Of My Friends Boyfriend

    Guys i need your help. So my friend is 12 years old shes turning 13 next week and shes "dating" this guys who is 16 years old almost 17. But i dont really like him he just seems that he wants to use my friend or i dont know, he is just so creepy and always stares at me in a...
    cutedebyg cutedebyg
    16-17, F
    Aug 15, 2013

    All He Does Is Lie Through His Teeth

    I love my best friend. We understand each other perfectly, and have so much fun together. The only thing we ever fight about is her stupid boyfriend. I was happy when they first got together because I was friends with both of them, but when I realized how many other girls he was...
    mrams mrams
    18-21, F
    Jun 23, 2012

    Bestie And The Beast

    I have been with my friend, we'll call her Z, for years now. We bonded in 7th grade and have been best friends ever since. We are high school seniors now and I am sure that we will most likely be best friends until we die. However, something isn't right right now and I swear it...
    gothgam08 gothgam08
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 2, 2012

    LONG POST I need help deciding

    if I'm right to dislike him or not. she is my best friend, and for a long time it was like her me and my sister against the world. So I know jealousy is a major danger here. But while he buys her nice Christmas presents, sends her love notes, speaks nicely to her, and turns her...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 28, 2014

    He Just Ticks Me Off.

    Warning: This is really long and rant-y. I don't blame you if you don't want to read it. xD I don't really know why I hate Andy. There's just a million little things that **** me off, scare me, and make me worry for Hannah. Let me start by telling you about Hannah, my best...
    Merralada Merralada
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2010
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