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I Hate My Bestfriend

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    I Paid For It And I Don't Want It Anymore

    I've known this girl since middle school. Throughout the years it's been pretty clear that I don't always want to talk or call her. I always wondered why she always came back. Realized after a long time that's she's a manipulator. All she talks about is herself and when we went...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 15, 2010

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    I do not believe there is a better way to

    describe how i feel than just putting AAAAARRRRGGGHHH!!!!! >:( The most suprising thing is, others in our rather large frendship group have started to loose patience also. I would describe my friend (let's give her the alias of Anna) as being stupidly good looking but with all...
    moonscapemonoxide moonscapemonoxide 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I really hate my bestfriend.

    I can't understand my feelings why I'm acting like this. I don't know her anymore. She really changed a lot. She's getting worst. :( I already told to her the consequences if she'll continue flirting with a family man but she didn't listen to me. And now, KARMA strikes her. My...
    Samishe Samishe 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    What Do I Do ?

    Kay so I've known my best friend for about 5 years now and we play on the same sports team. Last year we got into a big fight about the choices we both made. She is way too over controlling, to the point where I make up lies and start fights to get her mad so maybe she'll stop...
    haileyyy123 haileyyy123 13-15 1 Response Jun 18, 2009

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    My Bestfriend accused me

    that I hacked her facebook account but the truth is I didn't,its not my fault that she can't use her fb its actually her brother's fault,her brother lokced her account so she can't use it. She spread rumors in school about me. I was really hurt. I always hesitate going to school...
    ScarletBliss06 ScarletBliss06 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    We're just 5 person of a circle,

    but she's the *only one* who always reject any plans: holiday, hangout in town, all the time. she always give the same reason (every 6 months) since 7 years ago when we planned holiday: no money. i'm really tired and give her label as a "miss bullshit". my mom told me to...
    kathv kathv 22-25, F Jul 28, 2014

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    What a Friend!

      well i have this partner in crime type of friend. we have been really close...but nowadays, im wondering if it's just me or is she trying to invade everything! i guess that she's jealous because i get the best of everything. now she wants a share of it! i don't even...
    ahks08 ahks08 16-17 1 Response Mar 4, 2009

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    Can't Stand Her

    I loved her so much, she was my sister! My sisters are 15 years older than me so I always felt like an only child til she came along. And she was wonderful, she understood me! We did things that only we could do together and it was so great. But now I know...that she only was...
    Alluded Alluded 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2013

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    I'm confused on what to do.

    I have lived with my "best friend" for a long time and finally got the guts to move out. My parents wanted me to move back in with them. I'm very glad I had an excuse to get out of that place with her. We have no classes together, but I sit with her at lunch everyday. There is...
    anonymouss16 anonymouss16 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    She Was Like My Sister

    My best friend i were inseperable, in my eyes she could do no wrong. Everyone hated her they thought she was a stupid manipulate little girl who used me an everyone around her. I guess you could i use to be the exact same way only difference is i grew up an she didnt, i never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 3, 2010

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    I'm Stuck With Her

    My bestfriend and I have been friends since the 6th grade. We are now in the 12th. Our friendship is unhealthy. She is mean, and stubborn, and a very big smartass. She is also very judgemental, and we have fought many, many, times. Usually I'd stop being friends with her, but I...
    Blonde0Bandit Blonde0Bandit 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    I had no friends until this one girl had moved

    into a house at the corner of the park, we hung out and then she got too possesive there was another girl that was in our group and she told her that only one of us had to be a best friend... Bullshit, she was weird later I tries speaking to her but she wouldn't answer and...
    papparrazzi papparrazzi 16-17, F Jan 26

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    Confused

    I have this bestfriend and we are both Christians, we have a lot in common etc. but in the beginning of the year she seemed so light hearted and fun to be around but I will admit I didn't get along with her straight away. She always said "I was her bestfriend" and "we were...
    dancingtolive6 dancingtolive6 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    I asked my best friend Tyler to comer over

    for my birthday to shoot air soft guns, and he said he will ask him parent if he can come and he promise me he would come 12 hour later he posted a snapchat of his friend at his house. And I texted him before the snapchat never got a text back. Happy birthday to me!!!!
    warfire23 warfire23 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 7, 2014

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    This is something I overcame a while.

    And while this is something most people go through, even I know that this is not normal. My best man, is like my brother. Another I cannot help but envy the man at times. Other times I want to hurt him. And im starting to believe maybe I picked him as my best friend because I...
    unknownintheworld unknownintheworld 18-21, M Jun 17, 2014

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    I don't hate him but I'm starting to dislike

    him. He acts like Im not effected by what he says or does and he says he doesn't need anyone to care for him or worry about him and it just makes me think why am I even dealing with him then. Like if he doesn't need anyone then why am I even wasting my time.
    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Feb 27, 2014

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    Issues With Stubbornness

    Warning: this will be long..my friends have ALOT of issues I have 2 best friends whose names will remain unsaid. we have all been best friends since gr.7 and we are now in gr.9. These 2 were ALWAYS fighting in elementary school and then getting back together because one was...
    Adelonia Adelonia 18-21, F Jul 11, 2009

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    Previously, i had two best friends, two guys. We were almost as close as you can be, even though we were not even close to be similar in any way. That was before both of them (not...
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i love you nikki so much, your my bestfriend, your the most amazing person ever. your my forever and always, my bestfriend. we will be bestfriends forever. i would do anything to...
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 18-21, M Jan 31

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    I really do. I hate being a teenager. I hate everything about myself.
    lamiavarc lamiavarc 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I was fine all day, yet as i was in bed on tumblr, I came across a love blog. And after about 10 minutes of scrolling, I found myself sobbing into my teddy bear. The reason, this...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F Feb 7

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    Everyone hates me but my bestfriend and we go to different schools and everyone at my school hates me and gives me dirty looks and I feel like I have nobody
    vanessa1718 vanessa1718 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i need some advice. so my mom is a typical housewife. she makes sure the house is clean, food is prepared well, she sent us kids to good schools. dont get me wrong, she did a good...
    iloveicecreamsundae iloveicecreamsundae 26-30, F Feb 6

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    What's wrong with this old man??!! He is walking in front of me and passing by like more than one time! Come on old man stop it! You are getting my admirer jealous, and I hate to...
    DawnSahour DawnSahour 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    I really hate it when people throw my stuff away. The maid just threw away my converse shoes that my brother bought for me. I kept the shoes in the balcony, and she thinks I don't...
    Julietxxx Julietxxx 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    So where i work there are 7 guys ages around 20-30 they are same generation as me, same likes and dislikes. those guys have a strong bond and they are having fun make jokes...
    Nobunaga88 Nobunaga88 26-30, M 34 mins ago

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    I just found out that my bestfriend committed suicide... Oh my god...
    xXxbrokenangelxXx xXxbrokenangelxXx 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I think it's crazy how my bestfriend gives no crap how I look . I walk around in plushy pajama pants, hair wrapped up, face mask, and all and he will still call me beautiful (our...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Feb 8

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    I need a bestfriend. Just a friend I can relate too, will chat everyday :)
    Arly0212 Arly0212 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I really don’t like living, I hate my life and I just don’t feel like if I belong in this world. My family thinks I am dumb and that I will never achieve anything in life. I...
    Miserabelle Miserabelle 16-17, F Feb 13

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    I hate the way I am I hate the way I look I hate that I can't be better I hate that when I try I always fail I hate that my friends hate me I hate being alone when I'm not I hate...
    WhiteRice14 WhiteRice14 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't hate myself for the way I look anymore ... I hate myself for the person I am ... I realize how ******* awful I am to everybody!! I'm just so mean to people all the time and...
    suicidalblonde suicidalblonde 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I will count the ways why I hate your religion 1- in my humble and intelligent opinion it perpetuates hate , I and I Hate haters , they are nasty people, why do you hate others ? I...
    missreeedy missreeedy 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate my life so much, I really have been compensating whether or not I should kill myself, but I can never bring myself 2 it, like it's just thoughts; but seriously Life's been...
    Krchan2 Krchan2 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I hate my family..... I think they hate Me too..... I hate my brother... I hate when they be unjust(unfair) .... I hate when my mother say i don't Love him because of my brother...
    xboomx xboomx 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 17

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    I've never been happy with my body and probably never will me. Honestly, my eyes are the only things I like about my entire body. I hate my hair, so I dye it once a year. I hate my...
    Vivrexlxamourxrire Vivrexlxamourxrire 22-25 Feb 18

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    I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you!!! you make me want to ****** out my uterus!!!! I hate you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    badazzbasicbich badazzbasicbich 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know how mean I sound but she is definitely my least favorite person in the whole world. I hate her more than all of the bullies who have threatened me in my whole life and I...
    Currlye93 Currlye93 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have two younger sisters and of the two, I hate the youngest. Everyone says 'hate' is a strong word, but that's just how strong my feeling are... I just hate her, simply said...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 2

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    Sometimes. I know that sounds dramatic, but I guess hating anything is dramatic. Maybe I should use the word despise? It just sometimes I truly do hate myself though. I hate...
    abcdefgh19 abcdefgh19 22-25, F Feb 2

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    I hate high school, middle, elementary, and I know I will hate college. High school is such a battle for me, socially and academically. Its one of the main causes of my depression...
    LoveLovingElmer LoveLovingElmer 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I don't care if I don't know a person, I hate people. I know people hate me, too. Guess what? I don't care. What confuses me is when someone hates you and you admit that you hate...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I Hate Religion I do not hate a person because of their religion - I have good friends with strong religious beliefs. I hate religion itself, and those who use such a tool to...
    Jill1986 Jill1986 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 1

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    I hate myself but when I say that I mean I hate everything about me no joke I font like one bit of me. I sit in my room in the dark cuz I'm to afraid to go out in the world and let...
    sexybeast1202 sexybeast1202 13-15, F Feb 10

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    Sometimes I wish I was just an emotionless person. I mean honestly enough is enough of this bullshit. I hate the fact that I can't talk to my gf without her feeling like she's...
    MonsieurKJ MonsieurKJ 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 18

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    I totally understand how pain - being unloved when you need it desperately - can lead to resentment and outright hatred. I totally get how things even just within yourself - guilt...
    scalner scalner 31-35 2 days ago

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    Hey guys. I wrote this as a letter ill never send. let me know what you think? I stopped writing for a while, mostly because, well, I wanted to block out how I had been feeling...
    abbylynn98 abbylynn98 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 28

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