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I Hate My Bestfriend

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    I Paid For It And I Don't Want It Anymore

    I've known this girl since middle school. Throughout the years it's been pretty clear that I don't always want to talk or call her. I always wondered why she always came back. Realized after a long time that's she's a manipulator. All she talks about is herself and when we went...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 15, 2010

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    I don't hate him but I'm starting to dislike

    him. He acts like Im not effected by what he says or does and he says he doesn't need anyone to care for him or worry about him and it just makes me think why am I even dealing with him then. Like if he doesn't need anyone then why am I even wasting my time.
    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Feb 27

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    I'm Stuck With Her

    My bestfriend and I have been friends since the 6th grade. We are now in the 12th. Our friendship is unhealthy. She is mean, and stubborn, and a very big smartass. She is also very judgemental, and we have fought many, many, times. Usually I'd stop being friends with her, but I...
    Blonde0Bandit Blonde0Bandit 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    We're just 5 person of a circle,

    but she's the *only one* who always reject any plans: holiday, hangout in town, all the time. she always give the same reason (every 6 months) since 7 years ago when we planned holiday: no money. i'm really tired and give her label as a "miss bullshit". my mom told me to...
    kathv kathv 22-25, F Jul 28

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    I really hate my bestfriend.

    I can't understand my feelings why I'm acting like this. I don't know her anymore. She really changed a lot. She's getting worst. :( I already told to her the consequences if she'll continue flirting with a family man but she didn't listen to me. And now, KARMA strikes her. My...
    Samishe Samishe 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    She Was Like My Sister

    My best friend i were inseperable, in my eyes she could do no wrong. Everyone hated her they thought she was a stupid manipulate little girl who used me an everyone around her. I guess you could i use to be the exact same way only difference is i grew up an she didnt, i never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 3, 2010

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    What Do I Do ?

    Kay so I've known my best friend for about 5 years now and we play on the same sports team. Last year we got into a big fight about the choices we both made. She is way too over controlling, to the point where I make up lies and start fights to get her mad so maybe she'll stop...
    haileyyy123 haileyyy123 13-15 1 Response Jun 18, 2009

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    Can't Stand Her

    I loved her so much, she was my sister! My sisters are 15 years older than me so I always felt like an only child til she came along. And she was wonderful, she understood me! We did things that only we could do together and it was so great. But now I know...that she only was...
    jheyjuneice jheyjuneice 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2013

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    This is something I overcame a while.

    And while this is something most people go through, even I know that this is not normal. My best man, is like my brother. Another I cannot help but envy the man at times. Other times I want to hurt him. And im starting to believe maybe I picked him as my best friend because I...
    unknownintheworld unknownintheworld 16-17, M Jun 17

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    Confused

    I have this bestfriend and we are both Christians, we have a lot in common etc. but in the beginning of the year she seemed so light hearted and fun to be around but I will admit I didn't get along with her straight away. She always said "I was her bestfriend" and "we were...
    dancingtolive6 dancingtolive6 31-35 Sep 9, 2013

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    Issues With Stubbornness

    Warning: this will be long..my friends have ALOT of issues I have 2 best friends whose names will remain unsaid. we have all been best friends since gr.7 and we are now in gr.9. These 2 were ALWAYS fighting in elementary school and then getting back together because one was...
    Adelonia Adelonia 18-21, F Jul 11, 2009

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    I asked my best friend Tyler to comer over

    for my birthday to shoot air soft guns, and he said he will ask him parent if he can come and he promise me he would come 12 hour later he posted a snapchat of his friend at his house. And I texted him before the snapchat never got a text back. Happy birthday to me!!!!
    warfire23 warfire23 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    What a Friend!

      well i have this partner in crime type of friend. we have been really close...but nowadays, im wondering if it's just me or is she trying to invade everything! i guess that she's jealous because i get the best of everything. now she wants a share of it! i don't even...
    ahks08 ahks08 16-17 1 Response Mar 4, 2009

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    I had a sick morning as usual because i mad my bestfriend cry because of my selfishness and stupidity and i love her so much because she is the only bestfriend i had in years, and...
    Faty2 Faty2 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I cant wait to get out of this place I hate everyone its crazy how much I use to love my father and my mom but nothings the same anymore I hate them so much. I've been through a...
    annabella2245 annabella2245 18-21, F Sep 11

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    I tried to end it tonight. I sat in my shower trying to slit my wrist with a kitchen knife. Unfortunately it was too dull. My bestfriend got more mad at me than ever. She's always...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Aug 23

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    I tried to end it tonight. I sat in my shower trying to slit my wrist with a kitchen knife. Unfortunately it was too dull. My bestfriend got more mad at me than ever. She's always...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    Society is f*cked up. Now I may say things in this post that may sound offensive but I assure you those are not my intentions. What do I see when I go out in public? What do I see...
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Well, the title says it all. I hate when people tell me fake lies so I give them sympathy. People in school tell me bunch of lies which are super unbelievable. For example...
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    My husband is just like his mother. She is trying to hold on to her youth which is no longer existent, always competing with her own daughter and now me. My husbands has a good job...
    sweetiie25 sweetiie25 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I hate not being able to talk to anyone about my life but it takes me so long to earn someone's trust. it's so hard.
    taytayjohns taytayjohns 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    My bestfriend has never been the same ever since she started dating her boyfriend. We don't hang out anymore and i struggle to find time with her to hang out alone because she's...
    lovemeforwhoiamok lovemeforwhoiamok 13-15, F Aug 31

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    Heyyy..... Well I'm looking for a bestfriend around my age .....message me here and yeah
    lovealway14 lovealway14 13-15, F Sep 1

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    Ever since I had my surgery, I've had horrible cramps since then. Irdk why because I'm not taking any medication and I'm still on my same diet and I drink over 6 bottles of water a...
    Naturalxoxo Naturalxoxo 16-17, F Sep 3

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    I had a best friend. She was silly and crazy to be around. Most days she was depressed. It was always, "Why don't they want to hang out with me. I'm never included in the...
    HKT1993 HKT1993 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 7

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    need of a female bestfriend some one I can build with be there at all time for ' tell everything to and listen to . ride or die for & do things and go places with . keep each other...
    thaly1 thaly1 18-21, F Sep 10

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    So I am bisexual but my bestfriend isn't. And I think I am in love with her. I don't know what to do but I am tired of hiding my feelings for her. I don't want our friendship to be...
    rockyboo rockyboo 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    The guy I liked is a complete idiot, he just enjoys kissing and touching up girls. But when he started doing those things to me it was different he only liked me I was being called...
    Erdm Erdm 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    SCHOOL SUCKS *** I HATE I HATE I HATE IT
    TimePrincess TimePrincess 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    Let me give some context: At my school I have a group of friends, who I get along with and have fun talking to and gaming with, BUT there are three people in that group who **** me...
    SturgyZA SturgyZA 13-15, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    She ****** me off to the extreme. It's always about her, she always brags about 'how perfect her family is' but behind closed doors she is an absolute *****. Ever since I was a...
    nebulla123 nebulla123 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    i hate my sister in law and loser brother , both who think that they are entitled to my parents money. my sister in law is a ***** with no social skills who ignores me and the...
    blue951 blue951 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    I truly do. I hate my skin. I hate my face. I just hate everything about myself. I used to have a eating disorder and would cut my wrist. I know I'm incredibly hideous because I've...
    Ellebella1 Ellebella1 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I hate my life. This guy I really liked found a fake profile of me! It has a bunch of lies posted about me! It's not even me! Now he thinks I'm nothing but a liar and I don't know...
    ImYourLady ImYourLady 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I really do hate my feelings sometimes. I hate the fact that I love too fast and I love too hard. Wish I could find a happy medium between em
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I hate winter, but this year I will be extra prepared. Ill buy that remote so I can warm up my car from inside my house. I will buy my own snow blower and leg warmers. I will...
    KiannaJ KiannaJ 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I don't hate them per-Se'. I hate the action they may make and leave a false impression of themselves. Being fake is like telling a lie to me and it could be one that very much...
    FrankK70 FrankK70 41-45, M 6 hrs ago

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    I mean I'll start out by saying that I don't hate myself, I just sometimes hate the way I look. I mean have you ever looked in the mirror and just been disgusted by your face? Like...
    MissxThing MissxThing 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My dad wants me dead and he says he hates me.He has not said he loves me in months and this combined with all the other **** i really hate my life
    GingerSlimSTL GingerSlimSTL 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    I moved from London to Leeds a few months ago and I hate it I cant leave the house I don't know anyone, I would rather die than be here my mum promised it will be different but in...
    submissivegirl666 submissivegirl666 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    Every relationship I have been in my birthday has either been forgotten or my favorite stunt my current husband pulls is he pretends that he's going to make this grand gesture...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 17 hrs ago

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    I do not hate her. I'm at the point where I've accepted that I've allowed her behaviour to continue without setting clear boundaries. I've done this to balance other family...
    notbuyingintoit1 notbuyingintoit1 41-45, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I hate that people say that people only do suicide or cut themselves because they want attention. Maybe they need that attention to feel loved and needed in this hell hole we call...
    liveandloveat21 liveandloveat21 13-15, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    sitting in class so ******* board nothing to do in this dam school i hate it so much
    bloodstream11 bloodstream11 18-21, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    One of my friend likes to wear tight pants sometimes and of course it messes with guys but it still ****** me off that people stare she knows it makes me mad but doesn't understand...
    renguard renguard 16-17, M 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    This class makes my self esteem go to a maximum low.... Too many arrogant attractive guys in here. :'( I hate the fact that I'm so ugly...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 8 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I hate it when I have to watch a 30 minute lecture in 2 hours, yes i am not exaggerating, it takes me 2 hours. You know why? It is because you keep disturbing my mind, so I...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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