I Hate My Birthday

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    My birthday is on December 27th around the

    holiday season I never had a birthday party after my fourth birthday I only mattered to my fathers side as a little girl but once your not the baby in my family you don't mean **** which hurts because I see every family member celebrating theirs and they get parties still and...
    Ericacatchesyourclouds Ericacatchesyourclouds
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    Today is my 18th birthday.

    One year ago on my 17th birthday, my grandpa died of pneumonia. After I got the news that he died, I had to spend the rest of the day at someone else's birthday party, surrounded by a bunch of old people who only reminded me of my dead grandpa. It was torture. And my birthday...
    tarara0414 tarara0414
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    September 11th, 1991.

    To b honest, i never felt happy with my so-called special day. And no, 9/11 has nothing to do with this. But... all my teen and late teen birthdays were bad. My 21st was the worst. After that, i never wanted to do anything on my so-called special day. I would rather pay solute...
    biggerbro biggerbro
    26-30, M
    Jan 16, 2015

    my birthday is today.

    and im feeling very miserable i only have one or two friends who make the effort to wish me and write me things . a simple "happy birthday" is enough but i dont even recieve one from my closest friends. im spending my birthday alone , at home crying and sleeping . and my...
    gaypiggies gaypiggies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 25, 2015

    My birthday is tomorrow .

    . Just me and my boyfriend I don't expect anyone to call me and wish me a happy b'day . I don't expect any gifts . Huh my life sucks
    BeautynBrains4 BeautynBrains4
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 27, 2014

    Yesterday was my 21st Birthday,

    and it sucked, like usual. My Husband's Battalion was on lockdown until 11pm, so I spent the day alone.
    awakenstarchild awakenstarchild
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    Yesterday was my Birthday ,

    And it wasn't the best.. In fact.. Mean people made me Feel so bad.. I'm sad about it, And I didn't enjoy it at all , because of that.. Now I Feel that was so Stupid to not go out somewhere or something.. So, I Feel sad about it. I've had an ugly Birthday And it was my fault to...
    JustAwkward19 JustAwkward19
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 14, 2014

    4 days before my 8th birthday,

    my great grandmother passed away. She was buried 2 days before, so I was dealing with all those emotions on my birthday. then the day before my 17th birthday, her husband passed away. I have always seen my birthday as being unlucky since then.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    I hate my birthday because I one time invite

    girls to my birthday for a sleepover and they never showed up. I was so embarrassed because my parents asked where are your friends and this is why I hate my birthday.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 5, 2015

    Every year its extremely depressing

    and disappointing... So much so that i dont even try to get anyone together because people just drop last minute or simply not show. I turn 27 March 20th, and my anxiety is through the roof because i know i will be sad. Oh except for the Facebook Birthday wishes...which makes...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 15, 2016

    i honestly do. birthdays are only

    for important people. not hard to find who they are. they are in the news every damn day. i hate my birthday and wish some would forget about it.
    stlguy45 stlguy45
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 22, 2015

    Time Passes By So Fast

    I hate this time of year when my birthday comes. I don't have any spectacular plans. I won't be going out. More than likely, I will be reflecting on goals that I haven't accomplished and compare myself to others. I feel that birthdays are just a reminder that one's time on this...
    sillygirl2889 sillygirl2889
    26-30, F
    Oct 26, 2013
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2015

    17th Birthday today..

    .. time flies.....
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 2, 2015

    My Birthday Is Supposed To Be Mine, Right?

    I hate my birthday so baddly! Every year my mother pretends she is a great mother because she's giving me a birthday party. yeah, of course. A birthday party with only her friends (I have none, doesn't she see that?), with a lot of cakes she does (and make me do, and we ALWAYS...
    Borboleta14 Borboleta14
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jun 23, 2011

    My birthday doesn't excite me.

    I come from a family that gives importance a MBBS degree than a persons birthday. My parents forgot about my 18th b'day till they were reminded by my family members. now I would rather celebrate someone's birthday who is less fortunate and not blessed and try to bring a smile on...
    crazymeanagha crazymeanagha
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2015

    It's not that I hate my birthday it just

    that I hate it when people make a big deal out of it.
    TaylorMarissa1988 TaylorMarissa1988
    26-30, F
    Nov 17, 2015

    the perfect gift i got on my birthday was being

    left alone by my so called bff because her 4 day friend didn't pick up her phone
    mannansing03 mannansing03
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    I finally solved the problem by changing the

    day I celebrate. My physical birth is just 9 months after my parents had sex. I want a day to celebrate which is just for me. I found it
    foot15 foot15
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    My Birthday is next month

    and I get the day off with pay so it will make it a long weekend for me. unfortunately I hate my Birthday and I hate the phone calls and we'll wishes. I will have my kids the week of my Birthday so my plans of leaving town and being in solitude and crying are out the window...
    Broken31 Broken31
    31-35, M
    Feb 23, 2016

    There is nothing more depressing

    than waking up on your birthday to nothing. No one in bed with you, no texts, no messages. **** doesn't happen. The whole fairytale about waking up surrounded by balloons and presents is bullshit. I'm not asking for a **** load of crap I don't need. I'm asking for someone to be...
    rainbowSam13 rainbowSam13
    16-17, T
    Mar 5, 2016

    I've never had a good birthday before

    and this year I'm turning 16 and my mom didn't even ask me what I want to do she went to my grandma's and when she got home and said "I guess we're going to grandma's house Sunday not this Sunday but next Sunday" next Sunday is my birthday and on Saturday she said that my step...
    CookieMonsta16 CookieMonsta16
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 10, 2015

    And another year is gone.

    .. Every year i have the same sadness on this day ... I really hate it... I always see how unloved i am ... Sometimes i wish i was never born.
    Sukisara Sukisara
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2016

    Him, No. Bm, Yes!

    My birthday is in October. And 90% of the time it lands on Columbus Day. I hate Christopher Columbus. He is stupid and selfish. HE DID NOT DISCOVER AMERICA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am ashamed of living in America for this. Bc of him, thousands of this land'snative people were killed...
    Emofox Emofox
    18-21, T
    1 Response May 20, 2012

    I hate it! On my second birthday,

    the most evil creature alive was born...my sister Lucy. She has only brought misery into my life pretty much since the day she was born. She came in like a storm and stole my day! Such a brat, even since day one!
    GeorgiaAllender13 GeorgiaAllender13
    13-15, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2015

    Am I The Only One ?

    Am I the only one that frets over my birthday ? It feels like I'm getting older and older and that life is getting shorter and shorter ._.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2012

    I don't understand why some people believe

    that they deserve a special day just because it's their birthday. You were popped out of your moms vagina on that day, congratulations. If anything, your parents should get something..
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    I hate my birthday as age is

    now a growing experience in life, if life don't have a happy meaning then growing old don't mean a thing, age develops with years of cold isolation, no birthday wish, no planning of a day with something that has a meaning too it, through the environment of social public society...
    Amazon3 Amazon3
    31-35, M
    Aug 28, 2015

    I hate birthdays, and can't understand how can

    people celebrate the day which makes them older.
    36-40, M
    6 Responses Jun 2, 2014

    Last birthday I lost a really good friend.

    Just stopped talking to me out of nowhere. Now it really looks like the same thing is happening to me all over again a year later. :(
    lonewolf1973 lonewolf1973
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    Worst Day Of The Year

    My birthday has not meaning for me at all, since i been young my parents haven't cared much for my birthday or anything related to me. I thought this year would be different because i set up plans i was going to go out with a guy i liked and then sleep round my mates and have a...
    GoBeyondReality GoBeyondReality
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2011

    Oh yay I'm 39 /sarcasm Another year spent

    accomplishing nothing, alone. Another birthday to spend in my bed, alone. Where's the fast forward button?
    reluctantamazon reluctantamazon
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    Ok so you know birthdays are supposed to be fun

    and stuff?! Well I don't get why these stupid fricken schools have this policy "Invite the whole class or all the same gender as you" Like WTF is this kindergarten?! I mean I'm in fricken middle school now everyone is in different categories popular, normal, weird, dork, and...
    Wtfits122 Wtfits122
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2015

    Two weeks ago I turned 25.

    Now I think birthdays are pointless ;T
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    So sad to know that I'm 22 tomorrow.

    I will be all alone tomorrow night. No friends, no partner, no party. Just a quiet meal with my parent. For me, birthday is more of a failure anniversary. I feel like I'm nothing for the society. Just a cheap pieces of junk.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015

    My birthday is officially over.

    It was the worst one ever because as usually I am a kind person. So this kind person let their friend borrow their truck they worked so hard to get and their friend did dabs got sick drove home at 4:30am from work and fell asleep at the wheel and totaled it.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 11, 2015

    turning the big 50 in a few weeks

    and it is making me miserable... she adked me what i want or want to do my answer was nothing... i want nothing and there is nothing in NJ that i want to do sad...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2015

    Another Year and No One Cares....

     My birthday is coming up in less than a week and to say the least I'm not excited. Just another year of being unappreciated and ignored. I usually spend the couple months before my birthday looking forward to it, but about a week before I realize that it isn't going to come...
    deleted deleted
    38 Responses May 6, 2009

    I Hate My Birthday

    I enjoy celebrating other people's birthdays, I just don't like celebrating mine. I hate the attention and buy myself whatever I want or need. I usually make my own cake too. I also hate having a birthday in January right after the holidays (which I hate too). One year I moved my...
    brigid74 brigid74
    51-55, F
    Dec 13, 2012

    Birthdays are just so sad sometimes.

    I feel extra bitter on my birthday. I want to spend it with my brothers and cousins but it's like my plans with them never go through. Today was my birthday but it was one of the most awful birthdays I've ever had. I had work and no one acknowledged or even remembered it was my...
    sher02 sher02
    18-21, F
    Jun 9, 2014

    19 days from now marks sixteen years

    since I was born, but it also marks 3 years since my aunt died. Celebrating is not fun anymore, not without her.
    Almostmadeit Almostmadeit
    18-21, F
    Dec 4, 2015

    I see so many of my friends on FB posting

    pictures of their wonderful birthdays with their significant others and it just makes me despise the fact mine is coming up. I am happy for them and all. They all look so happy together and it makes me cry both tears of joy for them and sadness for me. For I will not look over...
    Broken31 Broken31
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Feb 29, 2016

    because it seems that every single year,

    the people I want to spend it with, always have something else they'd rather do.
    so24601 so24601
    26-30, F
    Aug 18, 2015

    My Birthday Is Always a Sad Day For Me

    i turn 22 tomorrow (april 3rd) and its just a day im absolutely just not looking forward to. I havent had a birthday party since i was 5 years old. my birthdays after that just seemed insignificant to others. my whole life ive been to birthday parties of my friends and...
    flippychic flippychic
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Apr 2, 2009

    It's the oddest thing.

    Most people love their birthday, but ever since I was maybe 9 or 10, I would start to be filled with dread when my birthday was to be soon. Maybe it's because it reminds me that I'm one year closer to being old. I don't want to grow up--to many responsibilities that I'm not...
    SleepingSunlight SleepingSunlight
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    This year I wished I was dead,

    All they did was clap, Without knowing..
    xXHalfaliveXx xXHalfaliveXx
    16-17, F
    Jan 18, 2015

    My birthday is near the end of the holiday

    season, so by the time it rolls around, I'm never in the mood to celebrate.
    PinksTheNewBlack PinksTheNewBlack
    18-21, F
    Sep 21, 2015

    I hate being over the age of consent,

    I hate being pushed to drive, and my birthday dose nothing but make me feel bad.
    cunningwolf cunningwolf
    18-21, M
    Sep 23, 2015

    I'm 27 this yesterday

    and I hate my birthday...it's because I'll end up with loneliness and sadness and crying at the end of that day...why did I cry? Because nothing happens....when I was a kid, I never had a birthday party..it's just that my parents do not like birthday party, so I assume that I...
    asyilah asyilah
    26-30, F
    Mar 25, 2014

    I normally just have a small sort of

    celebration with my family. I haven’t celebrated my birthday with my friends since my 9th birthday. It was the best birthday ever, too, so maybe it’s a good thing I haven’t celebrated it with friends since then because I don’t think that birthday can be topped. It was...
    tarara0414 tarara0414
    18-21, F
    Dec 13, 2014

    Its my birthday today,

    Im turning 15. I've been crying for 4 hours now, yet no one is here, even my parents.
    XxmakaronxX XxmakaronxX
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    Having the worse week ever Why do I away have

    the worse week a week before my birthday!?
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2015

    Sixteen years ago today,

    at approximately 5:36 p.m., another human being was born. Nothing special about this human being, this date, or this time, but at this very moment, it was like the world revolved around him. And that's the only time it will, until he dies. No one ever made such a big deal about...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 24, 2015
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