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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    I Use To Love Him

    no more he is an abusive sob now. he hasn't hit me yet but i am thinking that would happen next if i got stupid with my mouth. he thinks hes some kind of alpha man but he is really just a bad person. as soon as i can leave i am out of here.
    hopeisfound hopeisfound 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    he makes me feel good sometimes.

    sometimes I feel like he does care and he is right for me. and other times when I can see past the infatuation and my need for companionship, I can see how utterly wrong he is for me. everytime he hurts me and makes me cry I feel more removed from him. one day, I'll be...
    cindy8888 cindy8888 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    He is such a selfish *******.

    It's always about him. I'm trying to cope and ignore it until it goes away but it never does. He never sees his wrongs and blames me for everything. It's like he loves to throw himself pity parties. He says the meanest **** ever to me. Why am I even bothering to put up with his...
    bloos3 bloos3 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    You're more drama then I am

    and that's sad to say.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Aug 8

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 16-17 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 7 Responses May 15, 2014

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    **** THIS BULLSHIT ! Now i know it all.

    Now i know that you dont even love me. Just **** you, **** your side girl, **** your life, just **** YOU !
    Annaambrose Annaambrose 16-17 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    This guy lives with me

    and doesn't work; gets angry when I mention how we're struggling because he was isn't working and has the audacity to be angry when I don't want to have sex with him! All he does is sit around hogging my smartphone (which he is now addicted to), watching those moronic Alex Jones...
    Daemonchick Daemonchick 31-35 1 Response Jun 30

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    so me nd my bf r 12 years apart ,

    bs we always fight, like its like he never trusts me nd he always suspects me, he's always on my case, nd like every second I need to send him a video where I am , What do u think I should do?
    ShyBaby05 ShyBaby05 16-17, F 1 Response May 27

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    All he does is make me feel like crap.

    He constantly blows me off to hangout with his friends. I don't care that he hangs out with his friends, in fact I always remind him he is more than welcome to whenever, but me and him will have plans and last minute he will blow me off for them saying that he isn't sure if he...
    Allieheart Allieheart 22-25 Aug 1

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    The Quiet Controller

    My boyfriend is "perfect." He's not found a single other girl attractive, he's never wanted to sleep with anyone but me, and swears I'm the only and most beautiful girl in the world. Sound too "perfect"? I think so, but he's been pushing that for ever three...
    cherryacid cherryacid 22-25 11 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    I'm doubting the love he has

    for me. He's so good when my parents are around he makes me feel really special in every way. When we argue sometimes he always seek advices on my friends and people who is close to me. He always post pictures of us on social medias (before) but now he just hide it. I now...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    We have a four year old daughter

    and for the past year at least he has completely changed. He doesn't live with us anymore so it's difficult to get hold of him - doesn't answer his phone or my messages a lot of the time. I have asked him if he is seeing someone else and that I wouldn't mind (to get him to...
    StephanieHB StephanieHB 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm 36-40 51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    My boyfriend is a devil.

    He brought me to his country because he said he loved me so much that he couldn't stand the long distance anymore after 1.5 year while he visited me 5 times, spent lots of money on me and told me he is gonna look after me. I quite a better job than his and started living with...
    liz829 liz829 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    I don't hate him, as much

    as I realise that I don't really love him. We've been together for almost a year and I can't really say i'm in love with him. Since we are always together and always high I just never have time to really think about our relationship. Right now I know we are slowly morphing into...
    Irregularthinking Irregularthinking 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    I am 40 weeks pregnant

    and my boyfriend/ fiance have been together going on five years. we already have two children and a great relationship till recently. it seems like the last month he has been wanting to go out non stop. he had quit drinking for four months recently and has started up heavily...
    Mega87 Mega87 26-30, F 2 Responses May 12

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    He is so rude to me. Snaps at me in front of

    others all the time, including our friends and my family. I'm embarrassed to still be with him because I know everyone sees it and is probably talking about it. I'm stuck. We have assets together, including a car, that both our names are tied to. He's mean enough now that I'm...
    kellbell2 kellbell2 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    But I love him at the same time.

    He's a very intelligent individual and he's very cocky about it. He's an engineer and he'll **** on my major and if I say anything stupid. I feel dumb when I'm near him. I don't want to speak because I don't want to say anything wrong, but there is a strange connection with him...
    coolestdweebyahknow coolestdweebyahknow 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 19 Responses May 18, 2008

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    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    My 'BF' and I have been together

    for 3 years. He's 27, I'm 21. We had a child 8 months ago and boy will that really show you someone true colors. We have been fighting A LOT lately. Which I'm sure comes with the territory or living together and also being parents. He treats me like I'm some piece of ****. I do...
    danadanaxo danadanaxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    I have been with my boyfriends

    for 5 and a half years on and off since we were 14 years old. we are each others first loves and it feels as if we are practically family. And as we are now finally beginning the transition into adult hood I feel as if I'm leaving him behind. I've moved out got my own place I've...
    beautifulhypocrisy beautifulhypocrisy 18-21, F Aug 20

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    When your bf keeps stealing uour money

    and lieing about it. My last ten f@cking dollars. Can you get any lower? Guess I'll take out of his check ;p
    mollypocket mollypocket 22-25, F Jul 11

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    A Letter I Would Like to Write to My Boyfriend.

     Dear Peter, You are selfish.  I didn't realize it for a while, I thought it was me.  I thought I wasn't paying attention to your needs enough until I realized that you were just too lazy or ignorant to meet me half way. You are mean.  You say the most...
    FlyingNinjas FlyingNinjas 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Sometimes I wish he would just ******* die

    already. But on the other hand, I wish he found someone that balanced him out, that portrayed all the good things there are about him. He is abusive, narcissistic and a big fat liar. But I imagine him finding someone who completely gets him, that fixes him, and that girl is not...
    itsmemargret itsmemargret 18-21 Nov 6, 2014

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    bellecc11 bellecc11 26-30, F Jul 7

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    We've been going out

    for 8 months and I already want to kill him in several bloody disgusting ways. He gets the absolute worst of me. We fight all the time and somehow that is always my fault; I can never be mad, he is the only one entitled to get angry and demand that I beg for his leniency; he...
    Aean Aean 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Is it even worth fighting

    for the man you love when he doesn't want to be that man anymore? Probably not.
    rorenchan rorenchan 22-25, F Dec 12, 2014

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    I guess he's not even my boyfriend anymore.

    All we ever did was fight and have sex and even better now I'm pregnant. Not looking for any sympathy cause it was a dumb *** decision on my part. Every time he calls I always play into the lies. He wants to come over he cares he loves me then we have sex and it's back to being...
    reynanv reynanv 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    ...it's not that I hate him it's just he does

    things that make me angry, and somehow makes me feel that I'm the one who caused the problem. Is that a healthy relationship? 😦
    jacelyn24 jacelyn24 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I moved to Ireland with him

    so we could stay together. I sacrificed my family, my home and my friends to come and live in his home town. After all of this, he won't even consider moving to the neighborhood where I want to live because it is too convenient for my job but he would have to pay 4 euro a day...
    gonzzaleja gonzzaleja 18-21, F Jun 25

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    I'm an idiot after more

    than a year of arguing I'm pregnant and we're not together and he'll text me out of the blue I miss you. we start talking and its right back to the same **** cause nothing gets resolved. **** him **** love. I swear I could kick his teeth in and I truly am the dumb *** for...
    reynanv reynanv 26-30, F Jul 29

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    I literally dont make my bf do anything at all.

    I cook for him,clean for him, take care of our daughter all day and if i want even a little bit of his attention he acts like im annoying him and he cant be bothered. idk what to do anymore
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 7

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    He has called my stupid

    for cutting myself.He also left me because I self harm and told me to have fun with my life.He calls me many names,makes fun of me,and never helps me at all.I really love him but he's awful.He stopped talking to me after I started to self harm again after I stopped for a while...
    Jayla2256 Jayla2256 13-15, F 11 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    i hate him because he just doesn't like me any

    more. He is mean and cold. He shows no compassion or empathy. And i hate myself for not being able to leave. i hate 6 years wasted. i hate loving someone so much and getting nothing in return. i only hate him because i love him and I'm losing him i think he is already gone. How...
    akyesnomaybe akyesnomaybe 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    We've been together for quite sometime

    and I can't be with him anymore. He's very aloof and doesn't express himself. It's like I'm talking to myself and honestly just looking at him is annoying. He isn't the man that I started to have feelings for. I know that I'm not in love with him anymore but we stay together...
    lilbanan lilbanan 22-25 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    We've been together so long I feel like we're

    married. He's my fiancé now. He makes me feel like dirt. He's always telling me I'm basically no good. He starts arguments and then tries to make it out like it's all my fault. He calls me a whxxx, bxxxx, druggie. Tells me I'm stupid. Where was this man when I first met him?
    CandyandPanties CandyandPanties 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    He's absolutely good

    for nothing. He's always writing erotic literature for men and it's god awful. He's has horrible taste in music. He's not even straight. I see him with men. I don't even get why I'm dating him. Maybe because there's no one else.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 27

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    I politely turned you down

    for oral sex. I had a hangover, and I had a shower and was lying on my bed with a head ache. I explained its not personal it's just that I'm not feeling up to it right now because Of how I physically feel. You then stormed off into another room and ignored me for hours and all...
    FPMXO FPMXO 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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