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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    Hey EP, sorry in advance

    for the novel but lately my boyfriend has become so stressed out that there is not a day that he is not irritable and in a sour mood. We just recently moved into our first house together, both got full time jobs. He has some trouble at work with one of his colleagues who is just...
    Tidda94 Tidda94 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2015

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    We've been together for 6 months now.

    We met online and we haven't met yet. Within the first days of us staying up all night until we couldn't keep our eyes open we were already saying I love you. We've spend hundreds of hours facetiming. I know I loved him when we first got together and until the last month I'm...
    Anonymouss42 Anonymouss42 22-25, F Dec 23, 2015

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    So me and my boyfriend have been together

    for almost 2 and a half years, but today I found out one of his lies. I found out he has a kid. A 9 year old kid. A kid he didn't even plan on telling me about. I feel like the whole relationship is built on lies. I hate the fact he has a kid because he always told me I'd have...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2015

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    We've been together for quite sometime

    and I can't be with him anymore. He's very aloof and doesn't express himself. It's like I'm talking to myself and honestly just looking at him is annoying. He isn't the man that I started to have feelings for. I know that I'm not in love with him anymore but we stay together...
    lilbanan lilbanan 22-25 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    Our relationship has had it's ups

    and downs, and instead of breaking up last time, we identified what some of our issues are and whether we can navigate them or not. Sounds constructive. We decided to try one more time. Unfortunately, I feel like the one who is holding this together. He calls me crazy if I...
    sjjames sjjames 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

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    I'm seriously starting to hate my boyfriend.

    We've been together almost four and a half years. In the beginning he was a very nice guy and he was very easy to talk to. But now everything has changed he's a liar he's a cheater ,can't be faithful and now we have a son together and possibly another one on the way. He is very...
    Rayne7w Rayne7w 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2015

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    I'm doubting the love he has

    for me. He's so good when my parents are around he makes me feel really special in every way. When we argue sometimes he always seek advices on my friends and people who is close to me. He always post pictures of us on social medias (before) but now he just hide it. I now...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25, 2015

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    I just can't take it anymore.

    I'm too old for this. He promises to change, well at least he used to. He's a **** addict he makes me feel so small & has done for years. He withdraws affection, he lies. I've been desperate for a baby for years- he promised he wanted the same thing- but withdrew sex- he hasn't...
    manchesterfatgirl manchesterfatgirl 36-40 2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 19 Responses May 18, 2008

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    Sometimes I wish he would just ******* die

    already. But on the other hand, I wish he found someone that balanced him out, that portrayed all the good things there are about him. He is abusive, narcissistic and a big fat liar. But I imagine him finding someone who completely gets him, that fixes him, and that girl is not...
    itsmemargret itsmemargret 18-21 Nov 6, 2014

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    i hate my boyfriend sooooo much .

    ... he knows how much i despise him but he acts like he doesn't notice he would rather live a lie than tell the truth he is an idiot!! he such a boy, im honest with him but then he plays this victim act like we are picture perfect it takes two to be picture perfect
    heaherloxs heaherloxs 26-30, F Jan 26

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    I f*cking hate my boyfriend.

    I was so stupid to get with him, but I was alone and scared. He doesn't care about me. He is selfish, stupid, angry, rude, ugly, *******. He never wants to spend time with me, he completely ignores me when I speak to him, he is the dullest conversation I have ever had, he's so...
    annoyedgf101 annoyedgf101 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2015

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    We've been going out

    for 8 months and I already want to kill him in several bloody disgusting ways. He gets the absolute worst of me. We fight all the time and somehow that is always my fault; I can never be mad, he is the only one entitled to get angry and demand that I beg for his leniency; he...
    Aean Aean 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 23, 2015

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    What's you guys view on oral sex in

    relationships? Should it be 50/50 give and receive ? Or is it okay for the guy to get all the treatment. My boyfriend stopped giving it to me about a year ago said that the sliminess made him feel sick he hates jelly and anything slimy. But I still feel rely offended and...
    Tidda94 Tidda94 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2015

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    i hate my boyfriend sooooo much .

    ... he knows how much i despise him but he acts like he doesn't notice he would rather live a lie than tell the truth he is an idiot!! he such a boy, im honest with him but then he plays this victim act like we are picture perfect it takes two to be picture perfect
    heaherloxs heaherloxs 26-30, F Jan 26

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    He has called my stupid

    for cutting myself.He also left me because I self harm and told me to have fun with my life.He calls me many names,makes fun of me,and never helps me at all.I really love him but he's awful.He stopped talking to me after I started to self harm again after I stopped for a while...
    Jayla2256 Jayla2256 13-15, F 10 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 7 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    i hate him because he just doesn't like me any

    more. He is mean and cold. He shows no compassion or empathy. And i hate myself for not being able to leave. i hate 6 years wasted. i hate loving someone so much and getting nothing in return. i only hate him because i love him and I'm losing him i think he is already gone. How...
    akyesnomaybe akyesnomaybe 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2015

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    I moved to Ireland with him

    so we could stay together. I sacrificed my family, my home and my friends to come and live in his home town. After all of this, he won't even consider moving to the neighborhood where I want to live because it is too convenient for my job but he would have to pay 4 euro a day...
    gonzzaleja gonzzaleja 18-21, F Jun 25, 2015

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    because he strung me along ,

    lying that we wanted the same things. because now that the ball is in his court, and his life is fine, he could care less. because table were supposed to be turned and I would have been fine with it. because I make his life easy because I love him
    Shampooinmyeye Shampooinmyeye 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2015

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    i saw all the signs yet did nothing

    and now am paying the price. when i met him it seemed to good,like we where sooo similiar,we decided to move in togethor and then one day he came home and said he was laid off and that he wanted to go stay with his familly in ontario for a few months until the end of the new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 2, 2015

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    2nd rant on this group just got off the phone

    with my boyfriend and I don't know what to think anymore. I don't know to feel disrespected or not even worth it to him. We can't have a normal conversation without him getting mad. I know he has anger problems I understand that but this isn't a typical teen fiction where with...
    sadkitty96 sadkitty96 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2015

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    he did it again and ironically he did it on

    here. talking dirty and wanting to trade pics. I'm so tired
    sdizzle92 sdizzle92 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    A couple of my friends are going through ****

    their boys like one just found out he just had a baby, another's had been cheated on for a period of time, and it has made me paranoid that my boyfriend could do the same thing. He's never cheated on me but he was talking dirty to a girl he used to sleep with on Facebook a...
    Tidda94 Tidda94 18-21, F Jan 28

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    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm 36-40 51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    We had a baby, and right

    before our son's 1st b-day (October)he tells me I should go visit my dad/fam, because we would get in the way of the move (we live with his parents in a now 3bed appart). The move wasn't till December. On our son's birthday he spent the night in a corner with his friends (a...
    TellyLuvsSex TellyLuvsSex 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 13

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    I started talking to him online,

    found out he was in a different state. He said it didn't matter he could move anywhere. So after two months of talking he "loved' me and wanted to move to me. I wanted love and to be happy. its been 2 years since he moved here and in with me. He has only worked part time for two...
    tirednsad58 tirednsad58 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2015

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    because he's too clingy.

    he wants to talk to me 24/7 and i find it annoying because i want my personal space to be just 'my time'. i love my personal space. and he DOES NOT understand that. i already told him this but it seems like he's just thinking of himself and he still wants to talk for like almost...
    baconchan baconchan 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2015

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 18-21 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    I don't hate him, but I resent the hell out of

    him. We've been together for almost 2 1/2 years. When I met him, he had been sober from alcohol for about 5-6 months. He was getting his life together and was on a great path. That hasn't changed, with the exception of our relationship. Things were great, but around the 5-6...
    LemonAcrobat LemonAcrobat 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2015

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    Brookedrumm Brookedrumm 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13, 2015

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    He is such a selfish *******.

    It's always about him. I'm trying to cope and ignore it until it goes away but it never does. He never sees his wrongs and blames me for everything. It's like he loves to throw himself pity parties. He says the meanest **** ever to me. Why am I even bothering to put up with his...
    bloos3 bloos3 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    XxAllixX XxAllixX 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2015

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    debbieccaa debbieccaa 26-30, F Jan 13

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    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bethccaa bethccaa 26-30, F Dec 25, 2015

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    i hate my boyfriend sooooo much .

    ... he knows how much i despise him but he acts like he doesn't notice he would rather live a lie than tell the truth he is an idiot!! he such a boy, im honest with him but then he plays this victim act like we are picture perfect it takes two to be picture perfect
    heaherloxs heaherloxs 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    We met on Facebook and I drove down to meet him

    and everything was good I really like him even though everyone complained he was too old for me. Fast forward a few months later almost a year we've been together and he's annoying, immature, BROKE and when we argue he says nasty things to me. I've tried breaking up with him but...
    Killerkitten89 Killerkitten89 22-25 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I LITERALLY wanna pull my hair out right now!

    He's so selfish and inconsiderate sometimes. What makes it worse, he doesn't take anything seriously, even when I'm obviously upset about the way he acts.
    Mirabal19 Mirabal19 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    Is it even worth fighting

    for the man you love when he doesn't want to be that man anymore? Probably not.
    rorenchan rorenchan 22-25, F Dec 12, 2014

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    I have come to realize my boyfriend is a

    complete *******. I went through his phone because he left it open and well ... it just had to be done. Found pictures of naked girls and all that crap. And conversations he had with other female's. Some ***** prostitute so called "friend" of his sent pictures of herself half...
    tsubasashou tsubasashou 22-25, F Nov 23, 2015

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