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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    But I Hate Myself A Million Times More..

    He doesn't do anything intentionally. He just irritates me beyond belief sometimes. He is a good guy, he's sensitive and clingy at times. He is an amazing person. But little things he does drive me up the wall. I know that it is me, not him. But I'm all he has. I couldn't...
    leavemebehind leavemebehind 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    I hate him but I love him too much to leave him

    (lol I know.) We've been together for almost 16 months and I'm already so attached. He's my first love and first proper boyfriend. He used to be good to me (typical), and is still good when he is happy. But he has damaged my family (the damage is mainly due to my stepdad...
    Feliciajake Feliciajake 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I hate the fact that you've had sex with 4 girls

    and one of those girls had sex with 15 other people. I hate the fact that you smoke that stupid e cigarette. I hate the fact that you look at other girls and deny it. I hate the fact that I know you lie to me but you deny it. I hate the fact that you still talk about your exes...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    The Quiet Controller

    My boyfriend is "perfect." He's not found a single other girl attractive, he's never wanted to sleep with anyone but me, and swears I'm the only and most beautiful girl in the world. Sound too "perfect"? I think so, but he's been pushing that for ever three...
    cherryacid cherryacid 22-25 11 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    Okay back to the drawing board.

    I can't stand his negative defensiveness. I told him he'd better get on medication or he would loose me and my daughter. He has worked very hard today getting us moved in, but come on. Why are guys such whiners.
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    We fight often and recently it has started to

    get physical, he has a minor felony for selling a little weed before I met him and it took him longer than actual ex-cons to get a job, and he hung out with my friend and her slutty friend without telling me and my friend said he was hitting on here and the slutty girl claims he...
    voople voople 18-21, F Jul 15

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    He's the biggest Whiney little ***** I've ever

    met. His birthday is on the 26th of September so he's on the cusp of a libra and a Virgo. I'm a cancer. He is everything I want when he's not acting like this. He says I should accept him as he is. But Jesus. He gets in these ruts where he's drinking and cursing the world. I...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I now know i hate my boyfriend,

    we just moved in together and he does absolutely nothing, when i ask for help he acts like I'm bothering him he's lazy no ambition n hopeless he talks about how well he takes care of his son but that's pure bs, when his son comes on the weekend i have to do everything from...
    puncanel puncanel 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    rheahendrew rheahendrew 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I like this app because I constantly feel like

    I'm waiting for my bf to text me, and now that I found this, he can take his sweetass time, I'll just have conversations with people here.
    BarbieH BarbieH 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Heey, guys! How are you doing?

    I hope you're doing fine. I found this ask.fm that seems to help people with advice. I thought I should tell people. www.ask.fm/StepIntoMyOffice
    Maoli Maoli 18-21, F Aug 20

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    He's inconsiderate. He works 12 hour days,

    easily. If I ask him to try to come home early, he never does, but when it was his company's Xmas party tonight, lo and behold, he was out the door and headed home BEFORE 5 PM so he could make it to their annual dinner ASAP. He ran in the house for a quick 5 minutes, made no...
    dylanfreak76 dylanfreak76 31-35 16 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    He is such a selfish *******.

    It's always about him. I'm trying to cope and ignore it until it goes away but it never does. He never sees his wrongs and blames me for everything. It's like he loves to throw himself pity parties. He says the meanest **** ever to me. Why am I even bothering to put up with his...
    bloos3 bloos3 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    He mopes around all day then at 11 pm he starts

    laughing really loud and talking a lot. Shut up! His laugh is like nails on a chalk board.
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    He is stupid. And hes immature

    and dont know why I stay with him. We are on and off. We were on this morning, off this afternoon and just on again. And the first thing he says when we make up is "Wanna come over." which to him means hook up. uhggg
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Boyfriends are the worse!

    !! Try to keep your heart shielded until you know for a fact that person is the one. Other wise then that don't trust these boys because once they know they have your heart, they will play with it until it's broken
    briyonnamobley briyonnamobley 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F Jul 19

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 5 Responses May 15

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    Hi guys, I made a post in may saying

    that I wanted to get pregnant and hiw my boyfriend and I tried for 2 months and he then he changed his mind. I to this day ask him all the time. Ive threatened to break up with him- im ready. We are ready but he wants everything to be perfect. I told him to get me pregnant and...
    MLacosta14 MLacosta14 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 18 Responses May 18, 2008

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    We met at school when we were 15,

    we're now 21. I love him but he's cheated so many times in the past that when I think about it I really resent him.
    AnonymousPosts AnonymousPosts 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    We've been together for quite sometime

    and I can't be with him anymore. He's very aloof and doesn't express himself. It's like I'm talking to myself and honestly just looking at him is annoying. He isn't the man that I started to have feelings for. I know that I'm not in love with him anymore but we stay together...
    lilbanan lilbanan 18-21 1 Response Aug 3

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    We're moving today and he is still being a

    Whiney little *****. I have been trying to share my excitement with him and he just looks down and refuses to let himself feel any joy. He woke up and started complaining about how his check isn't here yet. And how his teeth hurt. And how he's sick of not have anything and...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    In Love With My Peter Pan

    This is my outlet. For all the things he has never wanted to hear, for all the tears I know others will know I have cried. For clarity I must first give a little history. I turn 23 in January and am a single child. I grew up with a single mom and not one of these modern day...
    GrayP GrayP 22-25, F Sep 25, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Is So Damn Unfair

    my name is Dina and I'm from Greece. I have a really big problem with my boyfriend. we've been together for a year and a half now. I have been so polite, never caused a problem when he goes out with his friends, never ask him on the phone to tell me everything he's doing...
    dinadaravigka dinadaravigka 18-21, F 11 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    So we break up and the last message he sends is

    "good luck then" after TWO YEARS but already I miss him so I tell him to call if he wants to talk, he makes me wait an entire DAY, he's in public and talking to other people while he's talking to me, says that he basically has "nothing to say", says he can't be there for me...
    SourQueen SourQueen 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Boyfriend Holds Me Hostage

    He is the biggest pos I have ever met. We have a 10 month daughter together and he doesn't ever help take care of her. I'm on house arrest and can't leave the house so he holds that against me and when I did have a job which he got me fired from he would say that I don't want to...
    Anonymouschild Anonymouschild 26-30 4 Responses Mar 8, 2013

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    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm 36-40 51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    Aids Passes Through Hair....

     My ex boyfriend and I were together for three years before we broke up. During those three years we were together I lived with him for two and a half. One day my legs were in need of a shave and I didn't have any razors left. So I borrowed one of his, used it, cleaned it off...
    RumZombie RumZombie 22-25 2 Responses May 12, 2011

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    My and my boyfriend Tyler have been going out

    for two years. But for some reason, everyday we grow more apart. He doesn't return my calls and we almost never talk. And when we are together, he's mean to me. He tells me that I don't look pretty, that I should wear more makeup, and that I'm the problem. But I don't want to...
    shyturtleflies shyturtleflies 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    He's such a nob! Puts his football

    before everything. Before me, his sexual health the lot!! We both court something and getting it sorted then he's all like I've got football tonight so if we're here by the time I have football I'm leaving. Tells me we arnt having sex blah blah !!! Then because I had a...
    Butterflyfairy23 Butterflyfairy23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    He is so rude to me. Snaps at me in front of

    others all the time, including our friends and my family. I'm embarrassed to still be with him because I know everyone sees it and is probably talking about it. I'm stuck. We have assets together, including a car, that both our names are tied to. He's mean enough now that I'm...
    kellbell2 kellbell2 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    scripted

    If I don't behave exactly as expected, if I don't say exactly the right thing, I'm wrong. I can't believe you would hold me to such a ridiculous standard. I want out i hate you i hate being with you I wish you'd just leave me alone. I wish I was strong enough to walk away.
    elysiumfuture elysiumfuture 26-30 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    A Letter I Would Like to Write to My Boyfriend.

     Dear Peter, You are selfish.  I didn't realize it for a while, I thought it was me.  I thought I wasn't paying attention to your needs enough until I realized that you were just too lazy or ignorant to meet me half way. You are mean.  You say the most...
    FlyingNinjas FlyingNinjas 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 16-17 2 Responses Jun 10

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    Boyfriend Drama And Facebook

    I DEACTIVATED MY FACEBOOK ACCOUNT!!! My bf wanted me to delete guys from my fb friend list after recently accepting new friend requests (and some of the guys were really cute), plus guys flirt w me by private message etc. My boyfriend has my password! I don't care I have nothing...
    Isis13 Isis13 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Like I don't like the way he acts

    and but at the end I love him too much 😑 uh ,
    Keeplurkinggg Keeplurkinggg 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I don't have parents.

    .I just have an aunt and grandma who live in a disgusting mess filled house and smoke all the time. I am 38 weeks pregnant and I have regretted it every day because I was getting ready to leave him with my toddler once I got the tax return. I had a good job that I had to quit...
    dollhex dollhex 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Feel Bad, But I Do

    I am REALLY starting to hate my Fiancé. I am finding a hard time, Loving him. I know its my fault, I am the ****** up one, but he is pushing me farther, and farther away, into someone else’s arms *Figurlly* He doesn’t make me feel Loved, he certainly doesn...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 28, 2010

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    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    Something has snapped inside me.

    After being dumped for the 7th time I stupidly got us back together but I don't think I can love him anymore. He is generally lovely except when he cannot cope with stress, which is all the time, he flies into a rage. Last time he took a chair and smashed it over the computer...
    marmaladejam marmaladejam 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 13

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    This is the totally wrong title I couldn't find

    the right one. I guess the right title would be " I want to like him". Any ways there's this boy who has been my best friend sense the 6th grade we are so close. He's smart, treats me with respect, is on varsity baseball, is cute he's perfect. We even dated for 8 months. On the...
    emmynap emmynap 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Entitled, ungrateful,

    little ****... He can't even meet my hours at work. He routinely pulls in 33 hrs; meanwhile I bust my mother-*******-*** at 50hrs a week. and he has child support, which is a HUGE issue each month, because his job doesn't deduct the support from his pay check.... AND HE CAN'T...
    miewillie miewillie 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    We've been together over three years

    and we've lived together for over a year. He's a slob and I'm neat. I'm constantly picking up after him. He has the worst hygiene, too. He'll go days without showering or brushing his teeth. Who's wants to kiss or even sleep next to someone who doesn't shower or brush his teeth...
    sflights sflights 22-25, F Jul 24

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    I tend to forget all the ****** stuff he does

    as soon as he apologizes. I want u keep track of the days I have with him. If most days in August are bad I'm going to break things off. Last night he went and slept at our old house because he couldn't find a charger. I enjoyed it. Today he finally got his sorry *** over here...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    I Use To Love Him

    no more he is an abusive sob now. he hasn't hit me yet but i am thinking that would happen next if i got stupid with my mouth. he thinks hes some kind of alpha man but he is really just a bad person. as soon as i can leave i am out of here.
    hopeisfound hopeisfound 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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