I Hate My Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,174 People

    We've been going out

    for 8 months and I already want to kill him in several bloody disgusting ways. He gets the absolute worst of me. We fight all the time and somehow that is always my fault; I can never be mad, he is the only one entitled to get angry and demand that I beg for his leniency; he...
    Aean Aean
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 23, 2015

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    signeccaa signeccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 24

    He has called my stupid

    for cutting myself.He also left me because I self harm and told me to have fun with my life.He calls me many names,makes fun of me,and never helps me at all.I really love him but he's awful.He stopped talking to me after I started to self harm again after I stopped for a while...
    Jayla2256 Jayla2256
    16-17, F
    10 Responses Oct 11, 2014
    mysticpath mysticpath
    46-50, F
    Feb 14

    i hate my boyfriend sooooo much .

    ... he knows how much i despise him but he acts like he doesn't notice he would rather live a lie than tell the truth he is an idiot!! he such a boy, im honest with him but then he plays this victim act like we are picture perfect it takes two to be picture perfect
    heaherloxs heaherloxs
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 26
    XxAllixX XxAllixX
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2015

    I HATEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE MY DOUCHEBAG BOYFRIEND.

    But in love him so much. it will be 3 years very soon. I wish, I WISH I had the strength to leave and actually stay away. I swear he's delusional because he never thinks he does anything wrong. I have been so loyal and so faithful... and he hasn't. His words, cut so deep, and...
    FireEmoji FireEmoji
    18-21, F
    Mar 19

    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

    **** THIS BULLSHIT ! Now i know it all.

    Now i know that you dont even love me. Just **** you, **** your side girl, **** your life, just **** YOU !
    Annaambrose Annaambrose
    16-17
    3 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    He just can't let little things go

    and is always angry. He never sees things at face value and jumps to worst case. It is draining.
    pritschauc pritschauc
    18-21, F
    Feb 19

    I hate my boyfriend because we got into a bad

    fight on my birthday last night. I had taken something the wrong way of what someone else had said about him. Instead of being concerned about my concerns, it escalated into a big fight and he ended up calling me a c*nt before the night was over. He treated me badly. He doesn't...
    HaItsMe HaItsMe
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 24

    My boyfriend thinks im a hoe

    because i used to have a lot of guy friends but all i did was hug my guy friends. Ive never kissed them or anything. And now ive left all my guy friends because my boyfriend doesnt want me to talk to them and i respect it. I dont see how im a hoe, ive only kissed one person. I...
    Alizakahnn Alizakahnn
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 30

    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm
    36-40
    51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

    i hate my boyfriend sooooo much .

    ... he knows how much i despise him but he acts like he doesn't notice he would rather live a lie than tell the truth he is an idiot!! he such a boy, im honest with him but then he plays this victim act like we are picture perfect it takes two to be picture perfect
    heaherloxs heaherloxs
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 26
    KylieLaine KylieLaine
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    My boyfriend would rather play video games then

    spend time with me. He plays for hours and when I decide not to sit and watch him play he gets mad that I don't spend time with him. I'm feeling like I should end the relationship but I'm not sure. I need advice!
    kd126 kd126
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 15

    I hate my bf I rang my bf to ask him will I

    meet him in town for the rugby match and next he says no hello he doesn't own town I can go to town 2day if I want so I asked him then y he didn't text me or ring me last night and he says I don't be ringing or texting all the time he has to text me I hate him
    kazzy12 kazzy12
    26-30, F
    Feb 13

    I hate my boyfriend so much,

    i hate him. I ******* HATE HIM. All he does is ruin my life and make me cry and mentally abusive. BUT I CANT ******* LEAVE HIM BECAUSE I SADLY LOVE HIM A LOT. I hate him so so so much.
    Alizakahnn Alizakahnn
    16-17, F
    Apr 6

    I think I truly do. He is lazy,

    doesn't make a great income, is okay with mooching off of other people, and doesn't know how to do simple "handyman" things. I know more about plumbing and cars than he does, and I know very little. I allow him to live with me, and there was not talk about rent... and two months...
    Aleanne321 Aleanne321
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings
    26-30, F
    7 Responses May 15, 2014

    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

    So today I think me and my boyfriend broke up.

    He had messaged me telling me a bunch of cuss words and I reply confused because I haven't done anything for someone to cuss me out. He had got mad at me for changing my password to an messager account, I asked what did he put, he had been putting the wrong password when I...
    sadkitty96 sadkitty96
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 16

    We had a baby, and right

    before our son's 1st b-day (October)he tells me I should go visit my dad/fam, because we would get in the way of the move (we live with his parents in a now 3bed appart). The move wasn't till December. On our son's birthday he spent the night in a corner with his friends (a...
    TellyLuvsSex TellyLuvsSex
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jan 13

    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 30, 2014
    icebearisking icebearisking
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 24

    i hate my boyfriend sooooo much .

    ... he knows how much i despise him but he acts like he doesn't notice he would rather live a lie than tell the truth he is an idiot!! he such a boy, im honest with him but then he plays this victim act like we are picture perfect it takes two to be picture perfect
    heaherloxs heaherloxs
    26-30, F
    Jan 26

    Sometimes I wish he would just ******* die

    already. But on the other hand, I wish he found someone that balanced him out, that portrayed all the good things there are about him. He is abusive, narcissistic and a big fat liar. But I imagine him finding someone who completely gets him, that fixes him, and that girl is not...
    itsmemargret itsmemargret
    18-21
    Nov 6, 2014

    because I honestly don't know

    if he is attracted to me anymore, and I wonder if I feel this way too. We live together, our families love us together, we've been through a lot. I don't want to give up but I don't know if this is the life experience I honestly want.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 10

    he makes me feel good sometimes.

    sometimes I feel like he does care and he is right for me. and other times when I can see past the infatuation and my need for companionship, I can see how utterly wrong he is for me. everytime he hurts me and makes me cry I feel more removed from him. one day, I'll be...
    cindy8888 cindy8888
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2015

    I don't hate him, as much

    as I realise that I don't really love him. We've been together for almost a year and I can't really say i'm in love with him. Since we are always together and always high I just never have time to really think about our relationship. Right now I know we are slowly morphing into...
    Irregularthinking Irregularthinking
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    I accidentally saw that my boyfriend is texting

    a girl and asks her to hang out frequently. I really don't know what to do.
    kd126 kd126
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 18

    I'm doubting the love he has

    for me. He's so good when my parents are around he makes me feel really special in every way. When we argue sometimes he always seek advices on my friends and people who is close to me. He always post pictures of us on social medias (before) but now he just hide it. I now...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 25, 2015

    A couple of my friends are going through ****

    their boys like one just found out he just had a baby, another's had been cheated on for a period of time, and it has made me paranoid that my boyfriend could do the same thing. He's never cheated on me but he was talking dirty to a girl he used to sleep with on Facebook a...
    Tidda94 Tidda94
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 28

    So I come home after working all day

    and I make dinner for my boyfriend and do you think he appreciates that... nope not one bit. Then to add insult to injury he says that I disgust him. I just want to cry. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel so hopeless anymore.
    jnrs256 jnrs256
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 5

    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    I have been dating my first boyfriend ever

    for almost 2 years now. We are both 19 and started dating in high school. Last year, he took a gap year between school and university, and i went on to college. Since he had all the free time in the world, we were always talking, and communicating, and he would visit very often...
    anonyyd anonyyd
    18-21, F
    Mar 31

    Hi, girls. I am hot guy,

    add me pls, skype - mengak
    mengak mengak
    26-30, M
    Apr 10

    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    14 Responses Dec 3, 2009

    Ladies, I 'm going to share my experience with

    you. If you don't do something you are going to be me. I hate my boyfriend and we've been together for 13 years. Yes 13. YEARS. We started off really good in the beginning, he treated me like a princess. Now I can barely look at him. He talks down to me like a stupid child, when...
    wendy4864 wendy4864
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 21

    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21
    18-21
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

    He makes me feel disgusting,

    worthless, ugly, stupid, like a waste of time, not good enough... he makes me wanna jump off a bridge tbh lmao
    rachol rachol
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 25

    I'm really starting to hate my boyfriend.

    All he ever wants to do is play the damn xbox! He will literally play from the minute I wake him up at 1 or 2 in the afternoon and play until 5 or 6 in the morning. God forbid I want his attention or want him to get a job, pull some weight, take care of our disabled 1 year old...
    cdhmama cdhmama
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for almost all of college, and I'm a junior now. He always treats me like a child. He makes fun of me and mocks me all the time. We fight over the dumbest little things, and I am so tired of being stuck in this awful relationship. He constantly says that he would never marry me...
    NewYorkStateOfMind30 NewYorkStateOfMind30
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 23

    He is such a selfish *******.

    It's always about him. I'm trying to cope and ignore it until it goes away but it never does. He never sees his wrongs and blames me for everything. It's like he loves to throw himself pity parties. He says the meanest **** ever to me. Why am I even bothering to put up with his...
    bloos3 bloos3
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

    My boyfriend would rather play video games then

    spend time with me. He plays for hours and when I decide not to sit and watch him play he gets mad that I don't spend time with him. I'm feeling like I should end the relationship but I'm not sure. I need advice!
    kd126 kd126
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 15

    I moved to Ireland with him

    so we could stay together. I sacrificed my family, my home and my friends to come and live in his home town. After all of this, he won't even consider moving to the neighborhood where I want to live because it is too convenient for my job but he would have to pay 4 euro a day...
    gonzzaleja gonzzaleja
    22-25, F
    Jun 25, 2015

    I'm beyond stressed. In the beginning things

    were perfect. We started as friends, he was honest, mature, everything I wanted. We ended up moving in together and we worked as a team and became successful. One day the lying started, money started disappearing, we got engaged, and then I got pregnant. He was in the military...
    FullOfGreyDays FullOfGreyDays
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 17

    The little **** gets pissed at me

    for lying all the time, when i only lie to him out of fear. I'm constantly walking on eggshells with him. I swear to God I hate him and I wish we never ever met. I've been emotionally abused for almost a year now.
    rachol rachol
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 25

    I Use To Love Him

    no more he is an abusive sob now. he hasn't hit me yet but i am thinking that would happen next if i got stupid with my mouth. he thinks hes some kind of alpha man but he is really just a bad person. as soon as i can leave i am out of here.
    hopeisfound hopeisfound
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 30, 2013

    We've been together for quite sometime

    and I can't be with him anymore. He's very aloof and doesn't express himself. It's like I'm talking to myself and honestly just looking at him is annoying. He isn't the man that I started to have feelings for. I know that I'm not in love with him anymore but we stay together...
    lilbanan lilbanan
    22-25
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    Our relationship has had it's ups

    and downs, and instead of breaking up last time, we identified what some of our issues are and whether we can navigate them or not. Sounds constructive. We decided to try one more time. Unfortunately, I feel like the one who is holding this together. He calls me crazy if I...
    sjjames sjjames
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee
    16-17
    19 Responses May 18, 2008

    i hate my boyfriend sooooo much .

    ... he knows how much i despise him but he acts like he doesn't notice he would rather live a lie than tell the truth he is an idiot!! he such a boy, im honest with him but then he plays this victim act like we are picture perfect it takes two to be picture perfect
    heaherloxs heaherloxs
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 26

    i hate him because he just doesn't like me any

    more. He is mean and cold. He shows no compassion or empathy. And i hate myself for not being able to leave. i hate 6 years wasted. i hate loving someone so much and getting nothing in return. i only hate him because i love him and I'm losing him i think he is already gone. How...
    akyesnomaybe akyesnomaybe
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    he did it again and ironically he did it on

    here. talking dirty and wanting to trade pics. I'm so tired
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 6

    he treats me like ****

    but I just can't leave him, I love him too much. I'm waiting for him to **** up one more time.. i know I am an idiot.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 13

    Most of the time he is out with his group,

    they spend so much time together,he likes hanging out with them more than with me,in a week its 2 days for me,group-guys n gals,his love is over flowing when he wants to have s** ,i dont have many friends,he is all i have,he is so attached to this girl cuz he can share stuff...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 3
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