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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    I don't know how to explain it.

    He's smart, funny, understand, supportive of my decisions, sweet, loving, but I just ******* hate him.
    untamedbedhead untamedbedhead 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    janna22 janna22 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 19 Responses May 18, 2008

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    If I didn't love my boyfriend

    so much, I would HATE him. He is an addict. He is a liar. He says terrible things about me and lies to his friends, family, and our couple's counseling therapist to deflect attention away from him because he is deeply ashamed about his past infidelity and continued drug use. He...
    pbandds pbandds 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I hate the fact that you've had sex with 4 girls

    and one of those girls had sex with 15 other people. I hate the fact that you smoke that stupid e cigarette. I hate the fact that you look at other girls and deny it. I hate the fact that I know you lie to me but you deny it. I hate the fact that you still talk about your exes...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Well, I should now say "ex"

    since I think I finally dumped him for got and it finally sunk in. I'm 43 and almost finishing nursing school. He's 57 and an immature, uneducated alcoholic who is unemployed and on disability due to blowing out his liver. We were together for about 3 years on and off and I...
    mabes3374 mabes3374 41-45 1 Response Jan 12

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    He is so rude to me. Snaps at me in front of

    others all the time, including our friends and my family. I'm embarrassed to still be with him because I know everyone sees it and is probably talking about it. I'm stuck. We have assets together, including a car, that both our names are tied to. He's mean enough now that I'm...
    kellbell2 kellbell2 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    He's getting on my nerves!

    He wants to talk to me but then he responses after 10-20 minutes !!! I'm just mad.
    brojob brojob 18-21, F Jan 24

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    It is my birthday today.

    .. anothey day of insults, violence, and broke my computer. I don't know what's happiness or a life worth living. Wish he will leave
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 2

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    The Quiet Controller

    My boyfriend is "perfect." He's not found a single other girl attractive, he's never wanted to sleep with anyone but me, and swears I'm the only and most beautiful girl in the world. Sound too "perfect"? I think so, but he's been pushing that for ever three...
    cherryacid cherryacid 22-25 11 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    Boyfriends are the worse!

    !! Try to keep your heart shielded until you know for a fact that person is the one. Other wise then that don't trust these boys because once they know they have your heart, they will play with it until it's broken
    briyonnamobley briyonnamobley 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11, 2014

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    First things first, let me just say

    that I do not hate my boyfriend. I love him. I am just hitting a rough path that's causing me some anger and sadness. Anyway, do any of you find that you're always the one taking blame for the fights that you and your boyfriends have?? Cause he thinks he's never in the wrong...
    LostandFading LostandFading 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    We've been together for quite sometime

    and I can't be with him anymore. He's very aloof and doesn't express himself. It's like I'm talking to myself and honestly just looking at him is annoying. He isn't the man that I started to have feelings for. I know that I'm not in love with him anymore but we stay together...
    lilbanan lilbanan 22-25 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    I like this app because I constantly feel like

    I'm waiting for my bf to text me, and now that I found this, he can take his sweetass time, I'll just have conversations with people here.
    BarbieH BarbieH 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    My boyfriend is a devil.

    He brought me to his country because he said he loved me so much that he couldn't stand the long distance anymore after 1.5 year while he visited me 5 times, spent lots of money on me and told me he is gonna look after me. I quite a better job than his and started living with...
    liz829 liz829 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    What am I supposed to do with a guy

    who runs away at all our arguments? Who prefers to text me when I'm upset then bother to call or drive round to see me? Our relationship is at breaking point. Because he was a consistent liar and all he cares about is basketball, league of legends and getting 8 hours of sleep...
    idealorious idealorious 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I'm desperate for a solution.

    I'm in a relationship with an older man and we started to live together few months ago. He is very ambitious and likes to work on himself and I love that about him, but seems like he looks at life from a very selfish perspective. I expect some time and devotion in order to...
    failingwhiletrying failingwhiletrying 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I hate him he's always bitchn like a girl

    complaining about everything I try to talk to him I can never have a good conversation with him he's so immature I've Been with him over 2 years and have a lil boy with him and pregnant again 🙀🔫 I know right but I feel stuck I love him but every time I wanna make it work...
    Emilyc1992 Emilyc1992 22-25 1 Response Jan 25

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    I hate my boyfriend so much I feel like I

    always have to back down with him in fear of losing him because he literally always has to be right!!! I never see him as he is in the Royal Marines and when I do see him o get accused of smothering him!!! I can't win
    vickybutler1996 vickybutler1996 18-21, F Dec 27, 2014

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    Don't want a firefighter girlfriend?

    The don't date me. I am going to fire school at your old station. So what if they flirt with me... Idfc. Let's face it, I'm a flirt... I'll flirt back.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 11

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 6 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I am so tired of my boyfriend.

    I have done everything for him and he does nothing in return. I have let him live with me rent free helped him get a job and given him money bailed him out of jail fed him and clothed him and he is so selfish and inconsiderate. Everything revolves around him and his friends. I...
    jayjay137 jayjay137 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I'm been with my boyfriend

    for almost two and a half years. He's selfish, controlling, neglectful, and just downright cruel. we broke up a couple weeks ago but then got back together after he had moved back to his home state. ever since I got here to be with him, I've wanted to leave. I have fought so...
    markih89 markih89 22-25 1 Response Feb 21

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    Every time we argue, (which is a lot) he calls

    me stupid and retarded. He says that if I act like a child, he'll treat me like one. He's extremely demeaning. He is controlling and bossy. He says he'll talk to me any way he wants. I'm beginning to loose all respect for him. I don't feel safe. He pushes me and holds me down...
    Jennnnla Jennnnla 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 14

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    Yet another boy playing at being a man.

    Expecting me to be patient, kind and compassionate while he makes baby steps toward adulthood. Then calls me a "feminist", like its a dirty word. Grtfu!
    yppirt yppirt 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    My boyfriend just can't be happy

    unless he's stoned or drunk. I hate him for that. I'll get totally disgusted with him eventually and kick him out. Until then, I'm supposed to be caring, supportive and patient, huh? So bored with his self pitying bull.
    yppirt yppirt 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 16-17 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    I have been with my boyfriend almost 5 years we

    have two boys together...And most days I just feel like he is the worst thing that ever happened to me...he is abusive controlling and treats me horrible.he accuses me of cheating on him all the time yet over the years ive found notes from girls saying "thanks for comming over...
    alyssamarie1 alyssamarie1 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    He is such a selfish *******.

    It's always about him. I'm trying to cope and ignore it until it goes away but it never does. He never sees his wrongs and blames me for everything. It's like he loves to throw himself pity parties. He says the meanest **** ever to me. Why am I even bothering to put up with his...
    bloos3 bloos3 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    He irks my whole soul.

    I swear he gets under my skin like no other. We have a 2yr old together, but have only been dating a year. We got along so well before we started dating, now we can't stand each other. I feel like 25% of the reason we're together is because of our daughter. He doesn't work, he...
    KayBeeElle KayBeeElle 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I've been with the same guy

    for over a year. when we got together, we were both struggling, but we got through it and now we've signed a lease and gotten our crap together. Here we are, more than a year later, and I absolutely hate him. He has two kids with his ex and is on child support and uses that as...
    parallelheartz parallelheartz 22-25, F Feb 21

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    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    Not all the time, just a lot now.

    He tells me Im free to make my own decision but argues with me every step of the way and tries to convince me out of it. I hate it. Doesn't he trust me judgment? I'm not stupid. Then you go and blame it on me. **** you sometimes honestly. I'm being very immature, but you're so...
    christinazulon christinazulon 18-21, F Feb 19

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    So, I met my boyfriend

    while I starting working at my first restaurant job. Actually I thought he was the best guy in the whole world and we would be best friends forever.. I was dating another guy Which wasn't serious. Then me and this guy went on a few dates and then ended up having sex rather fast...
    Sarahlee77 Sarahlee77 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    The title says it all.

    How I ever fell in love at one point with this creature is beyond my comprehension. Once loved, now hated Why you ask? 1) 80% of the time spent together, my 30 year old excuse of a man is mute. A man of very very few words. Never ever has an opinion about anything neither...
    tinavmc20 tinavmc20 18-21 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    A Letter I Would Like to Write to My Boyfriend.

     Dear Peter, You are selfish.  I didn't realize it for a while, I thought it was me.  I thought I wasn't paying attention to your needs enough until I realized that you were just too lazy or ignorant to meet me half way. You are mean.  You say the most...
    FlyingNinjas FlyingNinjas 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    I wouldn't go so far

    as to say I HATE my bf, but we've been bumping heads ALOT more than getting along. I've become very depressed. I just feel like I'm not a priority to him. I just had a birthday 2 days ago and I literally spent it in my ******* bed. He jokingly said he said he didn't want to go...
    heartless91 heartless91 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    He's inconsiderate. He works 12 hour days,

    easily. If I ask him to try to come home early, he never does, but when it was his company's Xmas party tonight, lo and behold, he was out the door and headed home BEFORE 5 PM so he could make it to their annual dinner ASAP. He ran in the house for a quick 5 minutes, made no...
    dylanfreak76 dylanfreak76 31-35 15 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    He has called my stupid

    for cutting myself.He also left me because I self harm and told me to have fun with my life.He calls me many names,makes fun of me,and never helps me at all.I really love him but he's awful.He stopped talking to me after I started to self harm again after I stopped for a while...
    Jayla2256 Jayla2256 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    Hate is a strong word

    but I have lost all respect for my bf. We have been living together for a year and a half and at first he was the most sweetest, caring guy I ever met.I really thought he was the one. After about 6 months he changed. We've had issues with him getting a dui the first two months...
    cgs62887 cgs62887 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    My boyfriend loves to play computer games.

    I hate it. It makes me upset cus I feel like he chose that over me. Yesterday he said I'll adjust to him playing all the time but I know I never will. I said why do you continue to play games when you know it upsets me he said that's just who he is. We've been dating for six...
    niraken niraken 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 13

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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