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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    Where do I start. He's cheated on me four times

    he's a chronic liar he's always in trouble with the court. He's bi which didn't bother me til he cheated on me with his ex bf called my guy friends cute and treats my tongue like a d I c k. He wants a bf but he's stuck with me. Oh and he's ALWAYS in a bad mood and one time he...
    XxAllixX XxAllixX 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    My Boyfriend Is So Damn Unfair

    my name is Dina and I'm from Greece. I have a really big problem with my boyfriend. we've been together for a year and a half now. I have been so polite, never caused a problem when he goes out with his friends, never ask him on the phone to tell me everything he's doing...
    dinadaravigka dinadaravigka 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    Just woke up, and my boyfriend isn't home

    and isn't answering my messages. What a guy. -_-
    heatherrrbee heatherrrbee 22-25, F Nov 7

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    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm 36-40 51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 6 Responses May 15

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    I wouldn't go so far

    as to say I HATE my bf, but we've been bumping heads ALOT more than getting along. I've become very depressed. I just feel like I'm not a priority to him. I just had a birthday 2 days ago and I literally spent it in my ******* bed. He jokingly said he said he didn't want to go...
    heartless91 heartless91 22-25, F Nov 10

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    He is so rude to me. Snaps at me in front of

    others all the time, including our friends and my family. I'm embarrassed to still be with him because I know everyone sees it and is probably talking about it. I'm stuck. We have assets together, including a car, that both our names are tied to. He's mean enough now that I'm...
    kellbell2 kellbell2 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I hate him but I love him too much to leave him

    (lol I know.) We've been together for almost 16 months and I'm already so attached. He's my first love and first proper boyfriend. He used to be good to me (typical), and is still good when he is happy. But he has damaged my family (the damage is mainly due to my stepdad...
    Feliciajake Feliciajake 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    Right now, I do hate his actions.

    I hate that he literally dropped all of his responsibilities on me tonight, then disappeared. I hate that I can't even confront him about it because he won't stick around to hear me out. I hate that his behavior is the inappropriate one, yet he makes me out to be "crazy". I hate...
    BabyBlondeOne BabyBlondeOne 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 19 Responses May 18, 2008

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    I think hate is a strong word

    but it'll have to do. I am not the only girl in his life and I hate it and him for it. He talks to them and flirts and who knows what else and I am just here like okay then.....
    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F Oct 14

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    My boyfriend has way to many issues (trust) I

    don't cheer ,talk or do anything he thinks I'm doing. I feel like I'm living with a cave man. I am really starting to plan my escape. He would get dirty ugly,, he said the n word and I've broken up with him 3 times for that. I seriously am thinking about how because he moved in...
    justina12 justina12 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 19

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    The Quiet Controller

    My boyfriend is "perfect." He's not found a single other girl attractive, he's never wanted to sleep with anyone but me, and swears I'm the only and most beautiful girl in the world. Sound too "perfect"? I think so, but he's been pushing that for ever three...
    cherryacid cherryacid 22-25 11 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    smwr smwr 31-35, M Oct 23

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    What are some obvious

    but not so obvious signs that your relationship is over and you're just holding on to nothing??? All comments welcome.
    heartless91 heartless91 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 16-17 2 Responses Jun 10

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    My boy and me are on different holidays.

    Hes in Dubai and Im in the US. Were both living together in Australia... Weve been together for 11months. He doesnt initiate communication, im the one who always text him whats going on with my life in the States. I miss him but I cant tell him because i dont think he feels the...
    sarahvenice sarahvenice 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    I'm positive he lies

    and cheats on me. And I hate hanging out with him and his friends because he's so immature. I hate him and iy
    heatherrrbee heatherrrbee 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 27

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    I Use To Love Him

    no more he is an abusive sob now. he hasn't hit me yet but i am thinking that would happen next if i got stupid with my mouth. he thinks hes some kind of alpha man but he is really just a bad person. as soon as i can leave i am out of here.
    hopeisfound hopeisfound 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    He is such a selfish *******.

    It's always about him. I'm trying to cope and ignore it until it goes away but it never does. He never sees his wrongs and blames me for everything. It's like he loves to throw himself pity parties. He says the meanest **** ever to me. Why am I even bothering to put up with his...
    bloos3 bloos3 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    'Another night and another decision.

    .. get on with my life or go out and get completely sh**t faced...waiting for my girlfriend to tell me-to force me to do the right thing.she doesn't so I choose the latter.as always.'I love you' solves the problem in my head.' He is sometimes so pathetic,so weak and fickle. How...
    mrsjones2 mrsjones2 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    Finally broke up with my boyfriend got him out.

    Of course I handed him$ right before the breakup but my bad. I'll take the loss much better than getting abused verbally!! I never cheated ,nor did I want to yet I was accused and the language he used was foul... Now I just have to keep him away. He has all his stuff here...
    justina12 justina12 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    lol break up with him?

    ????????????
    strawberryletter22 strawberryletter22 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    I hate the fact that you've had sex with 4 girls

    and one of those girls had sex with 15 other people. I hate the fact that you smoke that stupid e cigarette. I hate the fact that you look at other girls and deny it. I hate the fact that I know you lie to me but you deny it. I hate the fact that you still talk about your exes...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    we work in the same office.

    it's his parent's roofing company. I'm a secratary, and my boyfriend is a foreman. when we came in today, the boss was talking to the foremen and was really frustrated because something had gone wrong on every single job they had done. they all got in an argument, and the boss...
    mrsbaby mrsbaby 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Boyfriends are the worse!

    !! Try to keep your heart shielded until you know for a fact that person is the one. Other wise then that don't trust these boys because once they know they have your heart, they will play with it until it's broken
    briyonnamobley briyonnamobley 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11

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    He's really nice, caring,

    and charming when he's around me, and also nice, caring and charming to another girl when he's not around me.. God job boyfriend!!! Good job..!!! Proud of u!!!
    leohobs leohobs 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I've been with my boyfriend 7 months in the

    beginning things were good almost too good. I struggle with bulimia and bi polar disorder type 2 and lately I'm not sure if it's me or him, but he's constantly on the computer playing league of legends or roleplaying with his friends and he ignores me we can be on the phone or...
    jasminisaghost jasminisaghost 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25

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    I try really hard not to hurt you.

    you said you need time, I gave you time. but why are you keep hurting me??
    Jacque1994 Jacque1994 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    I don't know how to explain it.

    He's smart, funny, understand, supportive of my decisions, sweet, loving, but I just ******* hate him.
    untamedbedhead untamedbedhead 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 3

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    I love him.... I do but life with him has become

    so lonely. I feel as if he axts like more of my dad than my man. always telling me what to do. what I can and can't do. I loved it when I was IN CHARGE and independent. After I became financially unstable I started depending on him a lot more. For eveything and I mean literally...
    meeiko meeiko 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 14

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    my best friend told me he liked me

    and I really like him too. but my boyfriend is in rehab and I can't talk to him. I didn't feel the same way with him before he left. I feel like I have to be a different person around him. I know I should follow my heart, but my heart doesn't exactly know.
    lisastarrfish lisastarrfish 13-15, F Nov 16

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    My boyfriend is a devil.

    He brought me to his country because he said he loved me so much that he couldn't stand the long distance anymore after 1.5 year while he visited me 5 times, spent lots of money on me and told me he is gonna look after me. I quite a better job than his and started living with...
    liz829 liz829 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    I like this app because I constantly feel like

    I'm waiting for my bf to text me, and now that I found this, he can take his sweetass time, I'll just have conversations with people here.
    BarbieH BarbieH 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    He has called my stupid

    for cutting myself.He also left me because I self harm and told me to have fun with my life.He calls me many names,makes fun of me,and never helps me at all.I really love him but he's awful.He stopped talking to me after I started to self harm again after I stopped for a while...
    Jayla2256 Jayla2256 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 11

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    I knew getting into this relationship

    that I was not all that into it. But he used the word commitment which had never been offered to me before. Wed been off and on for a couple years and I knew he liked me a lot. But was it because i can suck his **** better than anyone ever has? Now we live together and...
    ZigZag902 ZigZag902 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    My boyfriend always makes his life harder

    than it has to be. It drives me CRAZY and makes me despise him. I'm not sure why either. I mean, it's his life. Why do I care so much? Doesn't really effect me.
    wehc wehc 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    megigrace megigrace 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Sometimes I wish he would just ******* die

    already. But on the other hand, I wish he found someone that balanced him out, that portrayed all the good things there are about him. He is abusive, narcissistic and a big fat liar. But I imagine him finding someone who completely gets him, that fixes him, and that girl is not...
    itsmemargret itsmemargret 18-21 1 Response Nov 6

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    We have been together

    for three years now and I think I checked out of the relationship at about 1, he treated me like ****( like during intercourse he would just tell me to get off of him for no reason) I stick around, I still don't know why. we have a child now and he has changed his ways but I...
    nounou0728 nounou0728 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    A Letter I Would Like to Write to My Boyfriend.

     Dear Peter, You are selfish.  I didn't realize it for a while, I thought it was me.  I thought I wasn't paying attention to your needs enough until I realized that you were just too lazy or ignorant to meet me half way. You are mean.  You say the most...
    FlyingNinjas FlyingNinjas 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Like I don't like the way he acts

    and but at the end I love him too much 😑 uh ,
    Keeplurkinggg Keeplurkinggg 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    He's inconsiderate. He works 12 hour days,

    easily. If I ask him to try to come home early, he never does, but when it was his company's Xmas party tonight, lo and behold, he was out the door and headed home BEFORE 5 PM so he could make it to their annual dinner ASAP. He ran in the house for a quick 5 minutes, made no...
    dylanfreak76 dylanfreak76 31-35 15 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 13

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    I am so very afraid of my boyfriend.

    It all started when I met him. I met him online. Yeah there is a lot of stigma against meeting people online but I had met other people and they were just fine. When I met him he seemed so sweet. He was always giving me complements, telling me I was beautiful, ect. It was sweet... </