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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    Like I don't like the way he acts

    and but at the end I love him too much 😑 uh ,
    Keeplurkinggg Keeplurkinggg 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Everyone that's apart of this group.

    .. if you hate your boyfriend, why are you with him? Honestly, get out of the relationship.
    cutemuffin524 cutemuffin524 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    He snuck to some girls party behind my back.

    Told me he was going to go eat and come back quickly.. Never came back. Found out from someone else he's at the party. My emotions are so mixed up. Anger yet sad because I was ******* lied to. I hate liars.
    deteste96 deteste96 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    The Quiet Controller

    My boyfriend is "perfect." He's not found a single other girl attractive, he's never wanted to sleep with anyone but me, and swears I'm the only and most beautiful girl in the world. Sound too "perfect"? I think so, but he's been pushing that for ever three...
    cherryacid cherryacid 22-25 11 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    Boyfriend Holds Me Hostage

    He is the biggest pos I have ever met. We have a 10 month daughter together and he doesn't ever help take care of her. I'm on house arrest and can't leave the house so he holds that against me and when I did have a job which he got me fired from he would say that I don't want to...
    Anonymouschild Anonymouschild 22-25 4 Responses Mar 8, 2013

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    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Boyfriends are the worse!

    !! Try to keep your heart shielded until you know for a fact that person is the one. Other wise then that don't trust these boys because once they know they have your heart, they will play with it until it's broken
    briyonnamobley briyonnamobley 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 16-17 2 Responses Jun 10

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    I like this app because I constantly feel like

    I'm waiting for my bf to text me, and now that I found this, he can take his sweetass time, I'll just have conversations with people here.
    BarbieH BarbieH 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    I tend to forget all the ****** stuff he does

    as soon as he apologizes. I want u keep track of the days I have with him. If most days in August are bad I'm going to break things off. Last night he went and slept at our old house because he couldn't find a charger. I enjoyed it. Today he finally got his sorry *** over here...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    He's the biggest Whiney little ***** I've ever

    met. His birthday is on the 26th of September so he's on the cusp of a libra and a Virgo. I'm a cancer. He is everything I want when he's not acting like this. He says I should accept him as he is. But Jesus. He gets in these ruts where he's drinking and cursing the world. I...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    Aids Passes Through Hair....

     My ex boyfriend and I were together for three years before we broke up. During those three years we were together I lived with him for two and a half. One day my legs were in need of a shave and I didn't have any razors left. So I borrowed one of his, used it, cleaned it off...
    RumZombie RumZombie 22-25 2 Responses May 12, 2011

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    He is so rude to me. Snaps at me in front of

    others all the time, including our friends and my family. I'm embarrassed to still be with him because I know everyone sees it and is probably talking about it. I'm stuck. We have assets together, including a car, that both our names are tied to. He's mean enough now that I'm...
    kellbell2 kellbell2 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    We fight often and recently it has started to

    get physical, he has a minor felony for selling a little weed before I met him and it took him longer than actual ex-cons to get a job, and he hung out with my friend and her slutty friend without telling me and my friend said he was hitting on here and the slutty girl claims he...
    voople voople 18-21, F Jul 15

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    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    In Love With My Peter Pan

    This is my outlet. For all the things he has never wanted to hear, for all the tears I know others will know I have cried. For clarity I must first give a little history. I turn 23 in January and am a single child. I grew up with a single mom and not one of these modern day...
    GrayP GrayP 22-25, F Sep 25, 2011

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    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm 36-40 51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    He's such a nob! Puts his football

    before everything. Before me, his sexual health the lot!! We both court something and getting it sorted then he's all like I've got football tonight so if we're here by the time I have football I'm leaving. Tells me we arnt having sex blah blah !!! Then because I had a...
    Butterflyfairy23 Butterflyfairy23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    So we break up and the last message he sends is

    "good luck then" after TWO YEARS but already I miss him so I tell him to call if he wants to talk, he makes me wait an entire DAY, he's in public and talking to other people while he's talking to me, says that he basically has "nothing to say", says he can't be there for me...
    SourQueen SourQueen 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    All he's done in the 2 years we have been

    together is treat me like dirt. We were friends before we got together and I was there for him every single day for a year and a half, supporting him, staying with him to make sure he didn't harm himself and protecting him from his ex who was playing evil games with his heart...
    B14Cx B14Cx 18-21, F 4 Responses May 21

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    I Use To Love Him

    no more he is an abusive sob now. he hasn't hit me yet but i am thinking that would happen next if i got stupid with my mouth. he thinks hes some kind of alpha man but he is really just a bad person. as soon as i can leave i am out of here.
    hopeisfound hopeisfound 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    I Feel Bad, But I Do

    I am REALLY starting to hate my Fiancé. I am finding a hard time, Loving him. I know its my fault, I am the ****** up one, but he is pushing me farther, and farther away, into someone else’s arms *Figurlly* He doesn’t make me feel Loved, he certainly doesn...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 28, 2010

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    We've been together over three years

    and we've lived together for over a year. He's a slob and I'm neat. I'm constantly picking up after him. He has the worst hygiene, too. He'll go days without showering or brushing his teeth. Who's wants to kiss or even sleep next to someone who doesn't shower or brush his teeth...
    sflights sflights 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 13

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    i hate the way how he treat me,

    but i love him so much that i can take everything.
    fabiolaaiken fabiolaaiken 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F Jul 19

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    Omg. He doesn't want me talking to other guys.

    .. But he's ignoring me, and guys are the only people talking to me... Uhmmm
    purplerose113 purplerose113 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 11

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    He's inconsiderate. He works 12 hour days,

    easily. If I ask him to try to come home early, he never does, but when it was his company's Xmas party tonight, lo and behold, he was out the door and headed home BEFORE 5 PM so he could make it to their annual dinner ASAP. He ran in the house for a quick 5 minutes, made no...
    dylanfreak76 dylanfreak76 31-35 16 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    He mopes around all day then at 11 pm he starts

    laughing really loud and talking a lot. Shut up! His laugh is like nails on a chalk board.
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I hate him but I love him too much to leave him

    (lol I know.) We've been together for almost 16 months and I'm already so attached. He's my first love and first proper boyfriend. He used to be good to me (typical), and is still good when he is happy. But he has damaged my family (the damage is mainly due to my stepdad...
    Feliciajake Feliciajake 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just woke up at 3 in the morning to am angry

    boyfriend. He took my phone and broke it with a hammer. For absolutely nothing.
    scat9x scat9x 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Something has snapped inside me.

    After being dumped for the 7th time I stupidly got us back together but I don't think I can love him anymore. He is generally lovely except when he cannot cope with stress, which is all the time, he flies into a rage. Last time he took a chair and smashed it over the computer...
    marmaladejam marmaladejam 31-35, F Jul 18

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 18 Responses May 18, 2008

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    scripted

    If I don't behave exactly as expected, if I don't say exactly the right thing, I'm wrong. I can't believe you would hold me to such a ridiculous standard. I want out i hate you i hate being with you I wish you'd just leave me alone. I wish I was strong enough to walk away.
    elysiumfuture elysiumfuture 26-30 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    My ******* retarded so called boyfriend can't

    handle it when I tell him I'm going toilet, he thinks I'm running next door to **** a guy. He keeps calling me to make sure in not on the phone with another guy. He doesn't believe it when I say I'm in bed thinking in pleasuring wankers. Awgh god help me please.
    rubina18 rubina18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    My Boyfriend Is So Damn Unfair

    my name is Dina and I'm from Greece. I have a really big problem with my boyfriend. we've been together for a year and a half now. I have been so polite, never caused a problem when he goes out with his friends, never ask him on the phone to tell me everything he's doing...
    dinadaravigka dinadaravigka 18-21, F 11 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    I don't really hate him it's the fact I love him

    so much that makes me feel this way he has hurt me so much and I don't know how or when I can forgive him, I just see him as this mean person who doesn't care for me at all. I am tired of complaining about it really
    R3b3llion32 R3b3llion32 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    We're moving today and he is still being a

    Whiney little *****. I have been trying to share my excitement with him and he just looks down and refuses to let himself feel any joy. He woke up and started complaining about how his check isn't here yet. And how his teeth hurt. And how he's sick of not have anything and...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Everytime I call my boyfriend I get angry.

    Literally, angry and frustrated even. And then I watch a romcom or listen to a soft song and think "wow, that kind of love sounds great. do i have that?" and then I call him, and he sounds angry, disrupted, annoyed, and BORED. i just want the courage to NEXT this guy...
    SourQueen SourQueen 18-21, F 3 Responses May 24

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 5 Responses May 15

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    luvjones79 luvjones79 31-35, F Jun 10

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    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F Jul 21

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    My boyfriend is a devil.

    He brought me to his country because he said he loved me so much that he couldn't stand the long distance anymore after 1.5 year while he visited me 5 times, spent lots of money on me and told me he is gonna look after me. I quite a better job than his and started living with...
    liz829 liz829 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 13

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    But I Hate Myself A Million Times More..

    He doesn't do anything intentionally. He just irritates me beyond belief sometimes. He is a good guy, he's sensitive and clingy at times. He is an amazing person. But little things he does drive me up the wall. I know that it is me, not him. But I'm all he has. I couldn't...
    leavemebehind leavemebehind 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    Okay back to the drawing board.

    I can't stand his negative defensiveness. I told him he'd better get on medication or he would loose me and my daughter. He has worked very hard today getting us moved in, but come on. Why are guys such whiners.
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love him, but I hate him too.

    His personality is all 'hide, pretend nothing happened' and his pattern of behaviour does not alter no matter what. I can not tolerate that. He just takes everything and does not react and it makes me so frustrated. I hate you. You are not a real person!
    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 7

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    Boyfriend Drama And Facebook

    I DEACTIVATED MY FACEBOOK ACCOUNT!!! My bf wanted me to delete guys from my fb friend list after recently accepting new friend requests (and some of the guys were really cute), plus guys flirt w me by private message etc. My boyfriend has my password! I don't care I have nothing...
    Isis13 Isis13 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Me & my boyfriend been together

    for 9 months and it has been a battle he has cheated on me twice before he realized this was not a game. Then he noticed his love for me & some times i lash out on him for his unfaithfulness. i have burned, scratched, and even had to be hospitalized because he has drove me crazy...
    Dsanders13 Dsanders13 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 2

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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