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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    Yet another boy playing at being a man.

    Expecting me to be patient, kind and compassionate while he makes baby steps toward adulthood. Then calls me a "feminist", like its a dirty word. Grtfu!
    yppirt yppirt 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Ok let me try this again,

    1st I do not hate my boyfriend in fact he is probably the love of my life HOWEVER he can be a complete ******* (excuse my language) he so insensitive it's horrible.. He'll say something and it'll hurt my feelings and he'll tell me to "stop being so sensitive" and it annoys me so...
    sinnamonsie sinnamonsie 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    I hate the fact that you've had sex with 4 girls

    and one of those girls had sex with 15 other people. I hate the fact that you smoke that stupid e cigarette. I hate the fact that you look at other girls and deny it. I hate the fact that I know you lie to me but you deny it. I hate the fact that you still talk about your exes...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Most of the time everything is going well,

    but sometimes I really do hate him. He was the sweetest guy for a year and a half, but 3 days after he went off to university, he cheated on me (kissed another girl). I'd never have seen it coming. In fact, I was always the "bad one". Before dating him, I slept with one of his...
    rainierainrain rainierainrain 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    I really think I hate my boyfriend.

    We have been together for two years. I am financially dependent on him because I was going to school. Now I am done and I cannot wait ro get a job. All he does is sit around and drink. He is only home on the weekends, but it's literally all he does. It's gross and sloppy. The...
    kathryn424 kathryn424 26-30, F Dec 14, 2014

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    I wouldn't go so far

    as to say I HATE my bf, but we've been bumping heads ALOT more than getting along. I've become very depressed. I just feel like I'm not a priority to him. I just had a birthday 2 days ago and I literally spent it in my ******* bed. He jokingly said he said he didn't want to go...
    heartless91 heartless91 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    Like I don't like the way he acts

    and but at the end I love him too much 😑 uh ,
    Keeplurkinggg Keeplurkinggg 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    Right now, I do hate his actions.

    I hate that he literally dropped all of his responsibilities on me tonight, then disappeared. I hate that I can't even confront him about it because he won't stick around to hear me out. I hate that his behavior is the inappropriate one, yet he makes me out to be "crazy". I hate...
    BabyBlondeOne BabyBlondeOne 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    He has called my stupid

    for cutting myself.He also left me because I self harm and told me to have fun with my life.He calls me many names,makes fun of me,and never helps me at all.I really love him but he's awful.He stopped talking to me after I started to self harm again after I stopped for a while...
    Jayla2256 Jayla2256 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm 36-40 51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    I really just do not like him.

    hardly at all. he was so different before we started dating. he was sweet and cute and funny. now we fight all the time and he's clingy. he's really emotional and that's not a bad thing but when you whine about literally everything it's annoying. none of my friends like him...
    iloveyoudude iloveyoudude 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    janna22 janna22 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    It is my birthday today.

    .. anothey day of insults, violence, and broke my computer. I don't know what's happiness or a life worth living. Wish he will leave
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 16-17 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    He's getting on my nerves!

    He wants to talk to me but then he responses after 10-20 minutes !!! I'm just mad.
    brojob brojob 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I am so tired of my boyfriend.

    I have done everything for him and he does nothing in return. I have let him live with me rent free helped him get a job and given him money bailed him out of jail fed him and clothed him and he is so selfish and inconsiderate. Everything revolves around him and his friends. I...
    jayjay137 jayjay137 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 19 Responses May 18, 2008

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    sometimes he can just be

    so damn inconsiderate of my feelings...and it's like he doesn't even give a **** about it most of the time. 😔😔😔 he knows what bothers me, and he knows when I'm bothered, but choses to be a passive aggressive deuce instead of actually being considerate.. I don't...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    He is such a selfish *******.

    It's always about him. I'm trying to cope and ignore it until it goes away but it never does. He never sees his wrongs and blames me for everything. It's like he loves to throw himself pity parties. He says the meanest **** ever to me. Why am I even bothering to put up with his...
    bloos3 bloos3 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    Today, I found out he has been cheating on me

    with a friend of mine for over 6 months and the child she is giving birth to soon is his. Planning to use my money and my car to be in the labor room, plans to leave me if she decides to be with him. I should be sad but I am not. I am so relieved I have not shed one tear yet by...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 22

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    So, I met my boyfriend

    while I starting working at my first restaurant job. Actually I thought he was the best guy in the whole world and we would be best friends forever.. I was dating another guy Which wasn't serious. Then me and this guy went on a few dates and then ended up having sex rather fast...
    Sarahlee77 Sarahlee77 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    A Letter I Would Like to Write to My Boyfriend.

     Dear Peter, You are selfish.  I didn't realize it for a while, I thought it was me.  I thought I wasn't paying attention to your needs enough until I realized that you were just too lazy or ignorant to meet me half way. You are mean.  You say the most...
    FlyingNinjas FlyingNinjas 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    I hate him he's always bitchn like a girl

    complaining about everything I try to talk to him I can never have a good conversation with him he's so immature I've Been with him over 2 years and have a lil boy with him and pregnant again 🙀🔫 I know right but I feel stuck I love him but every time I wanna make it work...
    Emilyc1992 Emilyc1992 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    He's inconsiderate. He works 12 hour days,

    easily. If I ask him to try to come home early, he never does, but when it was his company's Xmas party tonight, lo and behold, he was out the door and headed home BEFORE 5 PM so he could make it to their annual dinner ASAP. He ran in the house for a quick 5 minutes, made no...
    dylanfreak76 dylanfreak76 31-35 15 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Is it even worth fighting

    for the man you love when he doesn't want to be that man anymore? Probably not.
    rorenchan rorenchan 18-21, F Dec 12, 2014

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    I hate my boyfriend so much I feel like I

    always have to back down with him in fear of losing him because he literally always has to be right!!! I never see him as he is in the Royal Marines and when I do see him o get accused of smothering him!!! I can't win
    vickybutler1996 vickybutler1996 18-21, F Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm desperate for a solution.

    I'm in a relationship with an older man and we started to live together few months ago. He is very ambitious and likes to work on himself and I love that about him, but seems like he looks at life from a very selfish perspective. I expect some time and devotion in order to...
    failingwhiletrying failingwhiletrying 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    He is so rude to me. Snaps at me in front of

    others all the time, including our friends and my family. I'm embarrassed to still be with him because I know everyone sees it and is probably talking about it. I'm stuck. We have assets together, including a car, that both our names are tied to. He's mean enough now that I'm...
    kellbell2 kellbell2 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    When we started dating he acted like I was all

    he cared about, now he doesn't even visit me when I'm sick and goes out with his guy friends instead. I don't mind him going out but he does it all the time and I'm just lonely
    unknownbe96 unknownbe96 18-21, F Dec 4, 2014

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    Boyfriends are the worse!

    !! Try to keep your heart shielded until you know for a fact that person is the one. Other wise then that don't trust these boys because once they know they have your heart, they will play with it until it's broken
    briyonnamobley briyonnamobley 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11, 2014

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    So my boyfriend fails to get me in times

    where I need him to understand. It may be big things, like not touching me when I am very upset. or it could be little things like trying to "fix" something that wasn't broken. He tells me that I have changed and he doesn't like it. However, he wont tell me what the change was...
    liffe23 liffe23 18-21, F Dec 17, 2014

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    I like this app because I constantly feel like

    I'm waiting for my bf to text me, and now that I found this, he can take his sweetass time, I'll just have conversations with people here.
    BarbieH BarbieH 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    I cannot deal with this man anymore.

    5 years of torment and abuse. He fails to see what he has done to me. I'm a shell, I have no friends, no hobbies, no nothing because he makes everything I enjoy a nightmare. He makes me feel stupid and worthless. I'm sick of doing everything just because he works. I wish I had...
    letsjustthink letsjustthink 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    The Quiet Controller

    My boyfriend is "perfect." He's not found a single other girl attractive, he's never wanted to sleep with anyone but me, and swears I'm the only and most beautiful girl in the world. Sound too "perfect"? I think so, but he's been pushing that for ever three...
    cherryacid cherryacid 22-25 11 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    If I didn't love my boyfriend

    so much, I would HATE him. He is an addict. He is a liar. He says terrible things about me and lies to his friends, family, and our couple's counseling therapist to deflect attention away from him because he is deeply ashamed about his past infidelity and continued drug use. He...
    pbandds pbandds 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    He ignores my texts,

    and gets mad if I do the same. He cancels on me all the time, but throws a fit if I tell him in advance I cant see him a certain day. I'm positive hes talking to other girls and sometimes I hate him more than like him. Sometimes I can tell we both feel like hanging out is a...
    sophia73262 sophia73262 18-21 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    What am I supposed to do with a guy

    who runs away at all our arguments? Who prefers to text me when I'm upset then bother to call or drive round to see me? Our relationship is at breaking point. Because he was a consistent liar and all he cares about is basketball, league of legends and getting 8 hours of sleep...
    idealorious idealorious 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    I don't know how to explain it.

    He's smart, funny, understand, supportive of my decisions, sweet, loving, but I just ******* hate him.
    untamedbedhead untamedbedhead 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    He irks my whole soul.

    I swear he gets under my skin like no other. We have a 2yr old together, but have only been dating a year. We got along so well before we started dating, now we can't stand each other. I feel like 25% of the reason we're together is because of our daughter. He doesn't work, he...
    KayBeeElle KayBeeElle 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    We've been together for quite sometime

    and I can't be with him anymore. He's very aloof and doesn't express himself. It's like I'm talking to myself and honestly just looking at him is annoying. He isn't the man that I started to have feelings for. I know that I'm not in love with him anymore but we stay together...
    lilbanan lilbanan 22-25 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 6 Responses May 15, 2014

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    He makes me jelly on the daily.

    What a *****. But I love you to death xD
    disasterland disasterland 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    First things first, let me just say

    that I do not hate my boyfriend. I love him. I am just hitting a rough path that's causing me some anger and sadness. Anyway, do any of you find that you're always the one taking blame for the fights that you and your boyfriends have?? Cause he thinks he's never in the wrong...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    The title says it all.

    How I ever fell in love at one point with this creature is beyond my comprehension. Once loved, now hated Why you ask? 1) 80% of the time spent together, my 30 year old excuse of a man is mute. A man of very very few words. Never ever has an opinion about anything neither...