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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    My so called boyfriend tried to start a fight

    with my little brother yesterday while he was at my house and I told him that he had to leave. He done because my brother was playing around with me and he didn't like it I'm scared to break up with him.
    brittanycheyane brittanycheyane 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    My boyfriend's useless a a boyfriend.

    He doesn't provide for me, doesn't show affection, barely has sex with me, and says I suffocate him. I'm just looking for a modicum of attention, of affection. He doesn't hug me or kiss me spontaneously; I have to approach him for that. I hate him but I don't want to be alone...
    itisasecretshhh itisasecretshhh 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    I'm practically sitting next to my boyfriend

    begging for his attention... But he's ignoring me. It's really irritating me, and I just want to punch him in the face lol too much? Ughhhhhh
    purplerose113 purplerose113 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    Aids Passes Through Hair....

     My ex boyfriend and I were together for three years before we broke up. During those three years we were together I lived with him for two and a half. One day my legs were in need of a shave and I didn't have any razors left. So I borrowed one of his, used it, cleaned it off...
    RumZombie RumZombie 22-25 2 Responses May 12, 2011

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    It's all so confusing.

    Basically, we've lived together for a year, I go to school and he works. He is a great person, he doesn't control me, he's very loving and affectionate, does whatever I ask him to do including cleaning (though doesn't make much effort unless I ask). He's a massive stoner, like...
    coolbeans010 coolbeans010 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    Everyone that's apart of this group.

    .. if you hate your boyfriend, why are you with him? Honestly, get out of the relationship.
    cutemuffin524 cutemuffin524 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    But I Hate Myself A Million Times More..

    He doesn't do anything intentionally. He just irritates me beyond belief sometimes. He is a good guy, he's sensitive and clingy at times. He is an amazing person. But little things he does drive me up the wall. I know that it is me, not him. But I'm all he has. I couldn't...
    leavemebehind leavemebehind 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    I suppose 'hate' is a little too strong.

    I just don't see any other way to put it. We've dated before. It was almost a year ago. It only lasted three weeks before I broke up with him. It's been three weeks again. He's absolutely annoying. He's 18 in one month, no job, no license, still living off his parents, no...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    Iv been dating him for 9 months

    and a few weeks and lately I'm starting to feel like he doesn't care anymore!
    welch1995 welch1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    He doesn't see me. Listen to me.

    Respect me - he's older and I'm unemployed ATM - so he talks down to me and lectures me a lot. He talks and talks and talks like his opinions are the most important thing to everyone. Seriously, if I don't text him back he will have a 13 text conversation with himself AT me. He...
    foodmakesitok foodmakesitok 22-25 4 Responses Feb 19

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    I'll be 30 this year

    and I really can not wait for this relationship to end.
    HopelessInMiami HopelessInMiami 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 28

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 18 Responses May 18, 2008

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    i wouldnt say i hate him

    because its sucha strong word but i am really pissed and hurt right now. because of him and the weird thing is he doesnt even know he has hurt me.
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    Omg. He doesn't want me talking to other guys.

    .. But he's ignoring me, and guys are the only people talking to me... Uhmmm
    purplerose113 purplerose113 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 11

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    He left me hanging for 3 weeks.

    He didnt reply my texts, answer my calls. He promised me that he will turn up for my surgeries(liver failure & heart) but it all turned up bullshit, nothing. I could sense that he doesnt care about me anymore hmm nice.. he's putting me aside wow.. marvellous. Im all alone. I...
    rheahendrew rheahendrew 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    I was talking to one of my child hood friends a

    while ago and he asked me out. I ignored his text and fell asleep. When I woke up I had about 20 texts from his close girlfriends saying if I broke up with him they would break my neck and threaten me and stuff. I never even said yes to him but I had to accept the fact that we...
    brescar brescar 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    Last weekend my boyfriend initiated no contact

    at all. I usually initiate things now and then (especially if i have a free house), but over the weekend i decided that it was better just to ignore him until he came to me. It took until wednesday, then he was all over me again, and i just went with it. On friday he asked to do...
    m8te m8te 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Sometimes he makes me feel old.

    .. We don't got out anymore... I just feels like all we do is come home from work and go to sleep... It's making me yearn for excitement. And talkin be to him does nothing but deliver empty promisesz
    SoAntagonistic SoAntagonistic 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 13

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    Sometimes I feel he isn't mature enough

    for our relationship. He gets too clingy and acts childish when out in public. The other day we were in the doctors office and he kept acting out and being goofy (which I love about him) but he kept getting weird looks. I often get asked why I am with him and that I am too...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I don't really hate him it's the fact I love him

    so much that makes me feel this way he has hurt me so much and I don't know how or when I can forgive him, I just see him as this mean person who doesn't care for me at all. I am tired of complaining about it really
    R3b3llion32 R3b3llion32 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I don't absolutely hate him,

    I just hate the things he do. Every time I look at my phone, he calls me constantly. I am the type of person that like texting so that is why it bugs me. Thats not all! He always comment on my facebook page saying bae and sweety when he knows that I hate those nicknames. I...
    AnimeFan90210 AnimeFan90210 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I understand that hate is a pretty strong word,

    and that if I "hate" him I shouldn't be with him. But you have to understand that I'm not strong enough to walk away, and every time I decide to leave he says something that makes me think I'm overreacting... I've been with him for over 4 years now on and off. We are each others...
    beautifulhypocrisy beautifulhypocrisy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    My boyfriend ignores me.

    ..I'm so lonely...
    WeedLady WeedLady 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 25

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    My boyfriend has had a bad day

    and has been so off with me! I give him some space with his friends after he said he was too tired to hang out with me and when I call before I go to bed to say goodnight he try's to pick a fight with me but makes out to his friends like I'm causing the problem! Making me to...
    Missgec1992 Missgec1992 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I like this app because I constantly feel like

    I'm waiting for my bf to text me, and now that I found this, he can take his sweetass time, I'll just have conversations with people here.
    BarbieH BarbieH 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    The Quiet Controller

    My boyfriend is "perfect." He's not found a single other girl attractive, he's never wanted to sleep with anyone but me, and swears I'm the only and most beautiful girl in the world. Sound too "perfect"? I think so, but he's been pushing that for ever three...
    cherryacid cherryacid 22-25 11 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    So this is a long story

    but I feel like I nee to vent out. So my boyfriend used to date this girl, we will call her Susan. Well they broke up and got back together three times, and altogether they probably dated about 2 weeks or so. So my boyfriend, we will call him Alex, was choosing between me or...
    mme60 mme60 13-15, T 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    Been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years now

    and turn out he's a sexist pig, he literally thinks that because I'm a woman I have to be **** at everything! It's like a competition he has to be better at me at everything! Maybe his ego needs inflating because really he's very insecure that I don't actually need him!
    Missgec1992 Missgec1992 18-21, F Apr 9

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    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm 36-40 51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    Why My Boyfriend Keeps Shouting At Me Or Whenever Hes Mad He Would Take It Out On Me!!!!!????? I Dont Like It!!!!!!!!

    Me and my boyfriend has been together for 4 years now. I love him very much but i just really hate him. I hate the way he interrupt me when i wanted to tell him things, i hate that he doesnt have the patience for me. I hate that hes only has himself in his world. i m just the...
    Witchaurora85 Witchaurora85 22-25 2 Responses May 18, 2011

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    A Letter I Would Like to Write to My Boyfriend.

     Dear Peter, You are selfish.  I didn't realize it for a while, I thought it was me.  I thought I wasn't paying attention to your needs enough until I realized that you were just too lazy or ignorant to meet me half way. You are mean.  You say the most...
    FlyingNinjas FlyingNinjas 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    My Boyfriend Is So Damn Unfair

    my name is Dina and I'm from Greece. I have a really big problem with my boyfriend. we've been together for a year and a half now. I have been so polite, never caused a problem when he goes out with his friends, never ask him on the phone to tell me everything he's doing...
    dinadaravigka dinadaravigka 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    Arleyn Arleyn 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    In Love With My Peter Pan

    This is my outlet. For all the things he has never wanted to hear, for all the tears I know others will know I have cried. For clarity I must first give a little history. I turn 23 in January and am a single child. I grew up with a single mom and not one of these modern day...
    GrayP GrayP 22-25, F Sep 25, 2011

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    I Use To Love Him

    no more he is an abusive sob now. he hasn't hit me yet but i am thinking that would happen next if i got stupid with my mouth. he thinks hes some kind of alpha man but he is really just a bad person. as soon as i can leave i am out of here.
    hopeisfound hopeisfound 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    He's inconsiderate. He works 12 hour days,

    easily. If I ask him to try to come home early, he never does, but when it was his company's Xmas party tonight, lo and behold, he was out the door and headed home BEFORE 5 PM so he could make it to their annual dinner ASAP. He ran in the house for a quick 5 minutes, made no...
    dylanfreak76 dylanfreak76 31-35 17 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Unloved and Unappreciated

    Well, i have been with my boyfriend for well over a year now. Although we usually get on really well and we love each other alot, theres somethings that my boyfriend has done in the past that will always stick with me.Although i always try and trust that my boyfriend loves me he...
    upsetandunloved upsetandunloved 22-25 5 Responses Jul 31, 2009

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    Boyfriend Drama And Facebook

    I DEACTIVATED MY FACEBOOK ACCOUNT!!! My bf wanted me to delete guys from my fb friend list after recently accepting new friend requests (and some of the guys were really cute), plus guys flirt w me by private message etc. My boyfriend has my password! I don't care I have nothing...
    Isis13 Isis13 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    He hates that I have guy friends he hates

    that I have a life other than him he hates that I'm friends with his friends he let's girls spoon him and whenever I do the simplest things wrong he gets mad. He calls me fat and ugly and a loser but hen says jk he sometimes acts like he is cheating on me but then swears he...
    UnlikelyNeighbor UnlikelyNeighbor 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 11

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    I really don't care your pissed & not coming to

    bed!!! I'm an ******* & I'm ok with that; enjoy the sofa!
    WeedLady WeedLady 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    I don't hate him but he's really ******* me of.

    My boyfriend is so annoying and gets jealous of everything . I was texting my ex because he said he's moving back in town this week he doesn't want to wait till April cause he misses his friends and wants to come back to school and asked me If I could pick him up from the...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    Can't leave my bf, he said

    that he was gonna break my neck if I ever leave him.. Wtf should I do
    mielleee mielleee 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 6

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    My bf and I have been dating

    for a year+ and my feelings for him are starting to vanish. We used to spend all the days together. Go places together. Do everything together. Now it's like he doesn't even want to be around me. I care about him so much, but I feel so alone in our relationship. It kills me that...
    kikiloca27 kikiloca27 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    My boyfriend is also my sons father.

    . while he is out doing what ever the hell he wants to do im stuck in the house with our kid.. f@$k him... I have asked him to watch our kid so I can have "me" time... you know what he told me.. ill watch him while he is sleeping. .. wtf man grow a pair.. be a father. . Be a man...
    itsnotright itsnotright 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 15

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    Boyfriend Holds Me Hostage

    He is the biggest pos I have ever met. We have a 10 month daughter together and he doesn't ever help take care of her. I'm on house arrest and can't leave the house so he holds that against me and when I did have a job which he got me fired from he would say that I don't want to...
    Anonymouschild Anonymouschild 22-25 4 Responses Mar 8, 2013

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    scripted

    If I don't behave exactly as expected, if I don't say exactly the right thing, I'm wrong. I can't believe you would hold me to such a ridiculous standard. I want out i hate you i hate being with you I wish you'd just leave me alone. I wish I was strong enough to walk away.
    elysiumfuture elysiumfuture 26-30 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    My boyfriend is a devil.

    He brought me to his country because he said he loved me so much that he couldn't stand the long distance anymore after 1.5 year while he visited me 5 times, spent lots of money on me and told me he is gonna look after me. I quite a better job than his and started living with...
    liz829 liz829 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 13

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    I Feel Bad, But I Do

    I am REALLY starting to hate my Fiancé. I am finding a hard time, Loving him. I know its my fault, I am the ****** up one, but he is pushing me farther, and farther away, into someone else’s arms *Figurlly* He doesn’t make me feel Loved, he certainly doesn...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 28, 2010

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    he woke me at 5:30 while going to his own work,

    refused to turn off the light that was hurting my eyes AFTER he dressed up, as he was too lazy to turn the light on in the hallway what would give him enough to see. And left refusing to even say sorry for waking me up, and its womens day. worst start ever
    lunifeeb lunifeeb 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Starting To Hate My Boyfriend, Very Un-happy And Un-satisfied...

    I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. Everything seemed fine when we first started to date but then everything went downhill. He finally showed me the kind of person he really is. When we first started talking, he was a totally different person, seemed very...
    diannerachelm diannerachelm 22-25 5 Responses Aug 22, 2010

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