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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    A Letter I Would Like to Write to My Boyfriend.

     Dear Peter, You are selfish.  I didn't realize it for a while, I thought it was me.  I thought I wasn't paying attention to your needs enough until I realized that you were just too lazy or ignorant to meet me half way. You are mean.  You say the most...
    FlyingNinjas FlyingNinjas 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    3 year relationship. No ring.

    No child. Hes just useless and ****** up from last relationship. he doesnt trust women. I cook and clean all the time. His bunk friends come over and make stupid jokes to me when they are 40 year old loser. I quit my job to take care of his daughter and his mom is taking care of...
    littlemissnorth littlemissnorth 26-30 2 Responses Mar 17

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    **** THIS BULLSHIT ! Now i know it all.

    Now i know that you dont even love me. Just **** you, **** your side girl, **** your life, just **** YOU !
    Annaambrose Annaambrose 16-17 3 Responses Mar 24

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    So, I met my boyfriend

    while I starting working at my first restaurant job. Actually I thought he was the best guy in the whole world and we would be best friends forever.. I was dating another guy Which wasn't serious. Then me and this guy went on a few dates and then ended up having sex rather fast...
    Sarahlee77 Sarahlee77 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    Right now, I do hate his actions.

    I hate that he literally dropped all of his responsibilities on me tonight, then disappeared. I hate that I can't even confront him about it because he won't stick around to hear me out. I hate that his behavior is the inappropriate one, yet he makes me out to be "crazy". I hate...
    BabyBlondeOne BabyBlondeOne 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    My boyfriend is a devil.

    He brought me to his country because he said he loved me so much that he couldn't stand the long distance anymore after 1.5 year while he visited me 5 times, spent lots of money on me and told me he is gonna look after me. I quite a better job than his and started living with...
    liz829 liz829 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    I'm been with my boyfriend

    for almost two and a half years. He's selfish, controlling, neglectful, and just downright cruel. we broke up a couple weeks ago but then got back together after he had moved back to his home state. ever since I got here to be with him, I've wanted to leave. I have fought so...
    markih89 markih89 26-30 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I am pretty sure he's just using me,

    because everytime I tell him to leave during an arguement, the only thing he can come back with is "No, my parents won't let me live it down". I'm pretty sure he doesn't love me, he only gets intimate with me when I get upset that he doesn't. Plus when i'm upset he literally...
    BluenetteDiviner BluenetteDiviner 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 6 Responses May 15, 2014

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    We've been together for quite sometime

    and I can't be with him anymore. He's very aloof and doesn't express himself. It's like I'm talking to myself and honestly just looking at him is annoying. He isn't the man that I started to have feelings for. I know that I'm not in love with him anymore but we stay together...
    lilbanan lilbanan 22-25 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    Hate is a strong word

    but I have lost all respect for my bf. We have been living together for a year and a half and at first he was the most sweetest, caring guy I ever met.I really thought he was the one. After about 6 months he changed. We've had issues with him getting a dui the first two months...
    cgs62887 cgs62887 26-30 2 Responses Feb 23

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    he's lame & i hate him & just omg he's just

    such a little hoe omg i can't even
    LanniLette LanniLette 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 10

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 16-17 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    I hate the fact that you've had sex with 4 girls

    and one of those girls had sex with 15 other people. I hate the fact that you smoke that stupid e cigarette. I hate the fact that you look at other girls and deny it. I hate the fact that I know you lie to me but you deny it. I hate the fact that you still talk about your exes...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    First things first, let me just say

    that I do not hate my boyfriend. I love him. I am just hitting a rough path that's causing me some anger and sadness. Anyway, do any of you find that you're always the one taking blame for the fights that you and your boyfriends have?? Cause he thinks he's never in the wrong...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm 36-40 51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    smwr smwr 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm doubting the love he has

    for me. He's so good when my parents are around he makes me feel really special in every way. When we argue sometimes he always seek advices on my friends and people who is close to me. He always post pictures of us on social medias (before) but now he just hide it. I now...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I Use To Love Him

    no more he is an abusive sob now. he hasn't hit me yet but i am thinking that would happen next if i got stupid with my mouth. he thinks hes some kind of alpha man but he is really just a bad person. as soon as i can leave i am out of here.
    hopeisfound hopeisfound 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    I've been with the same guy

    for over a year. when we got together, we were both struggling, but we got through it and now we've signed a lease and gotten our crap together. Here we are, more than a year later, and I absolutely hate him. He has two kids with his ex and is on child support and uses that as...
    parallelheartz parallelheartz 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    He is so rude to me. Snaps at me in front of

    others all the time, including our friends and my family. I'm embarrassed to still be with him because I know everyone sees it and is probably talking about it. I'm stuck. We have assets together, including a car, that both our names are tied to. He's mean enough now that I'm...
    kellbell2 kellbell2 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Look, I don't hate him

    but I just.. I just don't love him anymore I don't even like him as a friend! ........ Okay maybe I do hate him... He rushes everything and is majorly possessive Every minute of the day we spend together (Unfortunately, not voluntarily) he asks for a hug or kiss or compliment...
    yourxworstxblessing yourxworstxblessing 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    He's inconsiderate. He works 12 hour days,

    easily. If I ask him to try to come home early, he never does, but when it was his company's Xmas party tonight, lo and behold, he was out the door and headed home BEFORE 5 PM so he could make it to their annual dinner ASAP. He ran in the house for a quick 5 minutes, made no...
    dylanfreak76 dylanfreak76 31-35 15 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I hate my boyfriend to his core.

    He is cheap and borrows money from me and never pays me back. He is terrible in bed and has put on a lot of weight. All he cares about is computer and ignores me unless he has time. The worst thing about him is that when we were arguing he called the police on me and had me...
    Fattygirljm Fattygirljm 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    My boyfriend have a one daughter

    and his ex is always asking money for the kid. The kid is also bratt she keep on requesting for the staffs that its not even important. We are always arguing too when im the one who is paying all the bills in the house so his solution is he want to stop me on working and help...
    kimbeez kimbeez 22-25 Mar 11

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    I like this app because I constantly feel like

    I'm waiting for my bf to text me, and now that I found this, he can take his sweetass time, I'll just have conversations with people here.
    BarbieH BarbieH 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    Hate and love relationship.

    ... He can be sweet as honey sometimes, telling me he loves me, asking care of me, buying me things and making me feel on top of the world yet there are many problems that make me resent him... 1) he forces his sexuality on me (told him I want to wait for marriage) 2) he has...
    mamapeaches mamapeaches 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    The Quiet Controller

    My boyfriend is "perfect." He's not found a single other girl attractive, he's never wanted to sleep with anyone but me, and swears I'm the only and most beautiful girl in the world. Sound too "perfect"? I think so, but he's been pushing that for ever three...
    cherryacid cherryacid 22-25 11 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    I met this guy three weeks ago,

    and at first he was nice and we really had a lot of things in common.I accepted to be his girlfriend,only to realize it was the stupiest thing I've done.All he talks about now is sex,and is obsessive about me sending pics to him,so he can stare at themO-OHe freaks me out...don't...
    Lolytapink Lolytapink 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    I don't know how to explain it.

    He's smart, funny, understand, supportive of my decisions, sweet, loving, but I just ******* hate him.
    untamedbedhead untamedbedhead 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    We dated 3 months before he joined the Marines.

    He wanted to lead a selfless life of helping other people, but honestly he is the singular most selfish person I know. He doesn't care about me. He's not present. He takes me for granted. We've been long distance for 8 months now and I've only become progressively more resentful...
    Beckii44 Beckii44 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I feel like I'm being suffocated!

    I stay up really late talking to him every night just to make sure he is happy. He never asks how I am. Never even texts me more than one syllable! I'm scared to break up with him....
    regreteverythingalways regreteverythingalways 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    We've been going out

    for 8 months and I already want to kill him in several bloody disgusting ways. He gets the absolute worst of me. We fight all the time and somehow that is always my fault; I can never be mad, he is the only one entitled to get angry and demand that I beg for his leniency; he...
    Aean Aean 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    dumass got caught looking up sexylesbos

    and hot girls hashtags on instagram
    janetnaruto janetnaruto 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    He moans about everything

    and keeps swearing at me. Then he tells me I'm strange because I don't want to sleep with him. I wonder why... Vile, racist, vulgar waste of space. I stay because my daughter loves him but as soon as she's old enough I'm gone!!!! I've learnt that some people will never admit...
    natasha2307 natasha2307 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    He has called my stupid

    for cutting myself.He also left me because I self harm and told me to have fun with my life.He calls me many names,makes fun of me,and never helps me at all.I really love him but he's awful.He stopped talking to me after I started to self harm again after I stopped for a while...
    Jayla2256 Jayla2256 13-15, F 9 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    Not all the time, just a lot now.

    He tells me Im free to make my own decision but argues with me every step of the way and tries to convince me out of it. I hate it. Doesn't he trust me judgment? I'm not stupid. Then you go and blame it on me. **** you sometimes honestly. I'm being very immature, but you're so...
    christinazulon christinazulon 18-21, F Feb 19

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    I have been with my boyfriend almost 5 years we

    have two boys together...And most days I just feel like he is the worst thing that ever happened to me...he is abusive controlling and treats me horrible.he accuses me of cheating on him all the time yet over the years ive found notes from girls saying "thanks for comming over...
    alyssamarie1 alyssamarie1 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 6

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