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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    3 year relationship. No ring.

    No child. Hes just useless and ****** up from last relationship. he doesnt trust women. I cook and clean all the time. His bunk friends come over and make stupid jokes to me when they are 40 year old loser. I quit my job to take care of his daughter and his mom is taking care of...
    littlemissnorth littlemissnorth 26-30 4 Responses Mar 17

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    He is such a selfish *******.

    It's always about him. I'm trying to cope and ignore it until it goes away but it never does. He never sees his wrongs and blames me for everything. It's like he loves to throw himself pity parties. He says the meanest **** ever to me. Why am I even bothering to put up with his...
    bloos3 bloos3 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 16-17 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    Jekyll and Hyde

    When I met my ex-boyfriend, I wasn't looking for a relationship. But we had the same interests and started hanging out more. After a few months, he told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. He even promised my Dad he would take care of me and support me for the rest...
    kaspur26 kaspur26 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    Hate and love relationship.

    ... He can be sweet as honey sometimes, telling me he loves me, asking care of me, buying me things and making me feel on top of the world yet there are many problems that make me resent him... 1) he forces his sexuality on me (told him I want to wait for marriage) 2) he has...
    mamapeaches mamapeaches 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    We barely ever see each other anymore maybe

    once a month. He's super sweet and nice to me when we're together but when we're apart all he does is criticize me. I got into a lot of legal trouble in February and he always likes to bring it up and I ask him to stop and he says "you need someone to criticize you" as if I don...
    violetskynoise violetskynoise 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 7 Responses May 15, 2014

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    A Letter I Would Like to Write to My Boyfriend.

     Dear Peter, You are selfish.  I didn't realize it for a while, I thought it was me.  I thought I wasn't paying attention to your needs enough until I realized that you were just too lazy or ignorant to meet me half way. You are mean.  You say the most...
    FlyingNinjas FlyingNinjas 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    Our relationship has had it's ups

    and downs, and instead of breaking up last time, we identified what some of our issues are and whether we can navigate them or not. Sounds constructive. We decided to try one more time. Unfortunately, I feel like the one who is holding this together. He calls me crazy if I...
    sjjames sjjames 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 19 Responses May 18, 2008

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    I wouldn't go so far

    as to say I HATE my bf, but we've been bumping heads ALOT more than getting along. I've become very depressed. I just feel like I'm not a priority to him. I just had a birthday 2 days ago and I literally spent it in my ******* bed. He jokingly said he said he didn't want to go...
    heartless91 heartless91 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    Look, I don't hate him

    but I just.. I just don't love him anymore I don't even like him as a friend! ........ Okay maybe I do hate him... He rushes everything and is majorly possessive Every minute of the day we spend together (Unfortunately, not voluntarily) he asks for a hug or kiss or compliment...
    yourxworstxblessing yourxworstxblessing 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    We've been going out

    for 8 months and I already want to kill him in several bloody disgusting ways. He gets the absolute worst of me. We fight all the time and somehow that is always my fault; I can never be mad, he is the only one entitled to get angry and demand that I beg for his leniency; he...
    Aean Aean 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    My boyfriend is a devil.

    He brought me to his country because he said he loved me so much that he couldn't stand the long distance anymore after 1.5 year while he visited me 5 times, spent lots of money on me and told me he is gonna look after me. I quite a better job than his and started living with...
    liz829 liz829 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    Sometimes I wish he would just ******* die

    already. But on the other hand, I wish he found someone that balanced him out, that portrayed all the good things there are about him. He is abusive, narcissistic and a big fat liar. But I imagine him finding someone who completely gets him, that fixes him, and that girl is not...
    itsmemargret itsmemargret 18-21 Nov 6, 2014

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    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    I’ve been with my boyfriend

    for 11 months, and It’s only recently I’ve begun to realise that I’m starting to resent him. Of course during our first few months together, I loved him with all of my heart. We both believed we were fully compatible together, him more-so because I was ‘patient' with his...
    Elizabethhxo Elizabethhxo 18-21, F 1 Response May 25

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    so me nd my bf r 12 years apart ,

    bs we always fight, like its like he never trusts me nd he always suspects me, he's always on my case, nd like every second I need to send him a video where I am , What do u think I should do?
    ShyBaby05 ShyBaby05 16-17, F 1 Response May 27

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    Ha so....found a message on my bf Facebook.

    Trash talking me. Callin me a hoe and how I'm a bullet Guys should dodge....yep....um I feel pretty bad about myself...
    mamapeaches mamapeaches 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    I don't know how to explain it.

    He's smart, funny, understand, supportive of my decisions, sweet, loving, but I just ******* hate him.
    untamedbedhead untamedbedhead 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    We've been together for quite sometime

    and I can't be with him anymore. He's very aloof and doesn't express himself. It's like I'm talking to myself and honestly just looking at him is annoying. He isn't the man that I started to have feelings for. I know that I'm not in love with him anymore but we stay together...
    lilbanan lilbanan 22-25 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    My boyfriend works in a bar

    and complains about work everyday when he gets off at 3am he would drink alcohol until about 7am everyday so sad. Also his mom passed about 8 mos. ago and he has 5sisters and 5brothers he's the oldest decided to get custody of his 16 yr old brother who had us back in forth in...
    karma2015 karma2015 26-30, F Jun 17

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    ?? recently 2 days ago my boyfriend has been

    ignoring me ?? he's not responding to my texts or phone calls and he's been ignoring me in school ?? what's really happening I asked him threw text messages like "wassup with us are we done?" I got no response
    Strange143 Strange143 16-17, F 2 Responses May 5

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    we've been together for 4 years now

    and we have a daughter together..he's also been raising my son thats not his since he was 2months old he can be nice at times and he is really affectionate with me but hes just soo overprotective, jealous and he always has an excuse for everything..he always gets mad if I wear...
    joana75 joana75 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I currently hate him because I gave up a friend

    today for him. Granted it was somewhat a toxic friendship but that's not the point. You shouldnt ask stuff like that from people. "If you love me you'll stop talking to that person" Ugh relationships.
    Wapakalypse Wapakalypse 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    I have been with my boyfriend 7.

    5 years. We have lived together for 6. Lately he is so short with me - constantly puts me down. Will say things like "hey genius" or "are you stupid?" - he criticizes the way I do everything (like how I clean my car...). I tell him he's hurting my feelings, and he tells me it's...
    manicstar87 manicstar87 26-30, F 2 Responses May 3

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    I'm doubting the love he has

    for me. He's so good when my parents are around he makes me feel really special in every way. When we argue sometimes he always seek advices on my friends and people who is close to me. He always post pictures of us on social medias (before) but now he just hide it. I now...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    XxAllixX XxAllixX 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    So my boyfriend of 9 years bring a friend home

    after work without text or call in me wtf!? I mean how he know I wasn't butt naked at the door waiting to greet him... he ****** me off so I went to vent/bed.
    GypsySpirit15 GypsySpirit15 22-25, F 3 Responses May 28

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    I like this app because I constantly feel like

    I'm waiting for my bf to text me, and now that I found this, he can take his sweetass time, I'll just have conversations with people here.
    BarbieH BarbieH 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    he makes me feel good sometimes.

    sometimes I feel like he does care and he is right for me. and other times when I can see past the infatuation and my need for companionship, I can see how utterly wrong he is for me. everytime he hurts me and makes me cry I feel more removed from him. one day, I'll be...
    cindy8888 cindy8888 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    smwr smwr 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    The Quiet Controller

    My boyfriend is "perfect." He's not found a single other girl attractive, he's never wanted to sleep with anyone but me, and swears I'm the only and most beautiful girl in the world. Sound too "perfect"? I think so, but he's been pushing that for ever three...
    cherryacid cherryacid 22-25 11 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    I met this guy three weeks ago,

    and at first he was nice and we really had a lot of things in common.I accepted to be his girlfriend,only to realize it was the stupiest thing I've done.All he talks about now is sex,and is obsessive about me sending pics to him,so he can stare at themO-OHe freaks me out...don't...
    Lolytapink Lolytapink 18-21, F Apr 19

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    He is so rude to me. Snaps at me in front of

    others all the time, including our friends and my family. I'm embarrassed to still be with him because I know everyone sees it and is probably talking about it. I'm stuck. We have assets together, including a car, that both our names are tied to. He's mean enough now that I'm...
    kellbell2 kellbell2 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    He's inconsiderate. He works 12 hour days,

    easily. If I ask him to try to come home early, he never does, but when it was his company's Xmas party tonight, lo and behold, he was out the door and headed home BEFORE 5 PM so he could make it to their annual dinner ASAP. He ran in the house for a quick 5 minutes, made no...
    dylanfreak76 dylanfreak76 31-35 15 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    I am so frustrated with my boyfriend.

    He's younger than me which makes thing harder. All he seems to care about is his stupid video games!....we have talked about it and things changed for like a day. I was suppose to meet his mother today but then he started to act weird. I can't stand him at this moment...
    Oreo1326 Oreo1326 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    My 'BF' and I have been together

    for 3 years. He's 27, I'm 21. We had a child 8 months ago and boy will that really show you someone true colors. We have been fighting A LOT lately. Which I'm sure comes with the territory or living together and also being parents. He treats me like I'm some piece of ****. I do...
    danadanaxo danadanaxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I hate my boyfriend for being

    such a brag. I've helped him finding a new job recently and all he did was bragging. he's got no gratitude at all. he's actually so insecure inside and constantly seek for affirmation. he makes some silly friends who would always agree with him. grrr just can't stand him
    fz22 fz22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    Is it even worth fighting

    for the man you love when he doesn't want to be that man anymore? Probably not.
    rorenchan rorenchan 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2014

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    he tries to control my work life.

    my car is broken down and I got a ride to work. he's off so he is taking care of my car issues. I am so grateful and thankful but he says I'm taking him for granted and I should be taking the time off of work to be handling this myself and if he wasn't around to do it, what...
    manicstar87 manicstar87 26-30, F 1 Response May 8

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