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I Hate My Boyfriend

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    XxAllixX XxAllixX 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    We've been going out

    for 8 months and I already want to kill him in several bloody disgusting ways. He gets the absolute worst of me. We fight all the time and somehow that is always my fault; I can never be mad, he is the only one entitled to get angry and demand that I beg for his leniency; he...
    Aean Aean 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    ?? recently 2 days ago my boyfriend has been

    ignoring me ?? he's not responding to my texts or phone calls and he's been ignoring me in school ?? what's really happening I asked him threw text messages like "wassup with us are we done?" I got no response
    Strange143 Strange143 16-17, F 2 Responses May 5

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    bellecc11 bellecc11 26-30, F Jul 7

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    so me nd my bf r 12 years apart ,

    bs we always fight, like its like he never trusts me nd he always suspects me, he's always on my case, nd like every second I need to send him a video where I am , What do u think I should do?
    ShyBaby05 ShyBaby05 16-17, F 1 Response May 27

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    All he does is make me feel like crap.

    He constantly blows me off to hangout with his friends. I don't care that he hangs out with his friends, in fact I always remind him he is more than welcome to whenever, but me and him will have plans and last minute he will blow me off for them saying that he isn't sure if he...
    Allieheart Allieheart 22-25 2 days ago

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    He's a **** he DOSENT get what's wrong with me

    and all the time he just yells at me to tell him what's wrong.
    BrokenBeauty21 BrokenBeauty21 16-17 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    I Don't Even Know Why But ...

    i hate my boyfriend. when i think about how angry i am, it comes down to : i hate my boyfriend i used to think i hate myself but when i imagine life without my boyfriend, i know it'd be okay yeah i'd miss him and i do love him but i can't talk to him everything i say is wrong...
    nickiee nickiee 16-17 19 Responses May 18, 2008

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    I have been with my boyfriend 7.

    5 years. We have lived together for 6. Lately he is so short with me - constantly puts me down. Will say things like "hey genius" or "are you stupid?" - he criticizes the way I do everything (like how I clean my car...). I tell him he's hurting my feelings, and he tells me it's...
    manicstar87 manicstar87 26-30, F 2 Responses May 3

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    Our relationship has had it's ups

    and downs, and instead of breaking up last time, we identified what some of our issues are and whether we can navigate them or not. Sounds constructive. We decided to try one more time. Unfortunately, I feel like the one who is holding this together. He calls me crazy if I...
    sjjames sjjames 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    **** THIS BULLSHIT ! Now i know it all.

    Now i know that you dont even love me. Just **** you, **** your side girl, **** your life, just **** YOU !
    Annaambrose Annaambrose 16-17 3 Responses Mar 24

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    i hate him because he just doesn't like me any

    more. He is mean and cold. He shows no compassion or empathy. And i hate myself for not being able to leave. i hate 6 years wasted. i hate loving someone so much and getting nothing in return. i only hate him because i love him and I'm losing him i think he is already gone. How...
    akyesnomaybe akyesnomaybe 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I Use To Love Him

    no more he is an abusive sob now. he hasn't hit me yet but i am thinking that would happen next if i got stupid with my mouth. he thinks hes some kind of alpha man but he is really just a bad person. as soon as i can leave i am out of here.
    hopeisfound hopeisfound 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    I don't know how to explain it.

    He's smart, funny, understand, supportive of my decisions, sweet, loving, but I just ******* hate him.
    untamedbedhead untamedbedhead 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    I am 40 weeks pregnant

    and my boyfriend/ fiance have been together going on five years. we already have two children and a great relationship till recently. it seems like the last month he has been wanting to go out non stop. he had quit drinking for four months recently and has started up heavily...
    Mega87 Mega87 26-30, F 2 Responses May 12

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    A Letter I Would Like to Write to My Boyfriend.

     Dear Peter, You are selfish.  I didn't realize it for a while, I thought it was me.  I thought I wasn't paying attention to your needs enough until I realized that you were just too lazy or ignorant to meet me half way. You are mean.  You say the most...
    FlyingNinjas FlyingNinjas 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    When your bf keeps stealing uour money

    and lieing about it. My last ten f@cking dollars. Can you get any lower? Guess I'll take out of his check ;p
    mollypocket mollypocket 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I literally dont make my bf do anything at all.

    I cook for him,clean for him, take care of our daughter all day and if i want even a little bit of his attention he acts like im annoying him and he cant be bothered. idk what to do anymore
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 7

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    we've been together for 4 years now

    and we have a daughter together..he's also been raising my son thats not his since he was 2months old he can be nice at times and he is really affectionate with me but hes just soo overprotective, jealous and he always has an excuse for everything..he always gets mad if I wear...
    joana75 joana75 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    Ha so....found a message on my bf Facebook.

    Trash talking me. Callin me a hoe and how I'm a bullet Guys should dodge....yep....um I feel pretty bad about myself...
    mamapeaches mamapeaches 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    he tries to control my work life.

    my car is broken down and I got a ride to work. he's off so he is taking care of my car issues. I am so grateful and thankful but he says I'm taking him for granted and I should be taking the time off of work to be handling this myself and if he wasn't around to do it, what...
    manicstar87 manicstar87 26-30, F 1 Response May 8

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    I'm an idiot after more

    than a year of arguing I'm pregnant and we're not together and he'll text me out of the blue I miss you. we start talking and its right back to the same **** cause nothing gets resolved. **** him **** love. I swear I could kick his teeth in and I truly am the dumb *** for...
    reynanv reynanv 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    My (ex) Boyfriend And My Sister

    This is a long painful story. I really loved my first boyfriend. Everything was great between us, we shared lots of stuff, and had a very intense relationship. He always show like he trully cared about me, and that was really in love. Over time, we started facing some hard...
    bitswit bitswit 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    We have a four year old daughter

    and for the past year at least he has completely changed. He doesn't live with us anymore so it's difficult to get hold of him - doesn't answer his phone or my messages a lot of the time. I have asked him if he is seeing someone else and that I wouldn't mind (to get him to...
    StephanieHB StephanieHB 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    He is such a selfish *******.

    It's always about him. I'm trying to cope and ignore it until it goes away but it never does. He never sees his wrongs and blames me for everything. It's like he loves to throw himself pity parties. He says the meanest **** ever to me. Why am I even bothering to put up with his...
    bloos3 bloos3 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    I was with my boyfriend a couple of years

    and had a baby by him 4 months ago. I regret having a baby with him everyday. I made myself think that he loved me, but now I know he never did by his actions. He still wants to be apart of his life but he don't want to take care of him. I feel like if he don't want the whole...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for a little over 5 years now. We have never lived together and don't plan to until marriage, that is if he ever plans on proposing. In the past there was a period of time where I broke up with him because he was very possessive/jealous and wouldn't let me do anything other than...
    Jessicaday15 Jessicaday15 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I'm doubting the love he has

    for me. He's so good when my parents are around he makes me feel really special in every way. When we argue sometimes he always seek advices on my friends and people who is close to me. He always post pictures of us on social medias (before) but now he just hide it. I now...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    EllaKarice EllaKarice 18-21, F Jul 24

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    We've been together for quite sometime

    and I can't be with him anymore. He's very aloof and doesn't express himself. It's like I'm talking to myself and honestly just looking at him is annoying. He isn't the man that I started to have feelings for. I know that I'm not in love with him anymore but we stay together...
    lilbanan lilbanan 22-25 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    I have been living with this guy

    for a lil over a year now.. I find he's really negative and always complaining and putting people down. He as nothing nice to say about others.. and when he's alone with me, I feel lonely.. I feel like I'm slowly dying.. The last time I was really happy was when he got form 1 in...
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    He's absolutely good

    for nothing. He's always writing erotic literature for men and it's god awful. He's has horrible taste in music. He's not even straight. I see him with men. I don't even get why I'm dating him. Maybe because there's no one else.
    CodyTheDruggie CodyTheDruggie 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Sometimes I wish he would just ******* die

    already. But on the other hand, I wish he found someone that balanced him out, that portrayed all the good things there are about him. He is abusive, narcissistic and a big fat liar. But I imagine him finding someone who completely gets him, that fixes him, and that girl is not...
    itsmemargret itsmemargret 18-21 Nov 6, 2014

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    We've been together so long I feel like we're

    married. He's my fiancé now. He makes me feel like dirt. He's always telling me I'm basically no good. He starts arguments and then tries to make it out like it's all my fault. He calls me a whxxx, bxxxx, druggie. Tells me I'm stupid. Where was this man when I first met him?
    CandyandPanties CandyandPanties 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    He Loves Me, I Love Him Not.

    Yeah, so my boyfriend is loving, attentive, attractive, educated, kind, honest, moral. . .that would be why I moved in with him.  Keep this in mind: prior to living with him we were together maybe two or three times a week. Now, I hate him and this is why: 1) He is OCD. I...
    carpaydm carpaydm 36-40 51 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    I actually found this website/app

    because I googled "I hate my boyfriend" as a desperate search for a way to process this feeling. Overall he possesses many desirable qualities (tall, athletic, intelligent, has a cute dog!), however it is the little things that make me absolutely mental. He picks at a spot on...
    headlesswings headlesswings 26-30, F 7 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I feel so used and abused.

    My bf is awful with money and is constantly asking me, a single mother with a full time job, for money. It's incredibly frustrating. He has so much debt that's in collections and doesn't care. He drives my vehicle around and since he started, I have received 2 tickets from a red...
    JNP88 JNP88 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    So my boyfriend of 9 years bring a friend home

    after work without text or call in me wtf!? I mean how he know I wasn't butt naked at the door waiting to greet him... he ****** me off so I went to vent/bed.
    GypsySpirit15 GypsySpirit15 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28

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    He has called my stupid

    for cutting myself.He also left me because I self harm and told me to have fun with my life.He calls me many names,makes fun of me,and never helps me at all.I really love him but he's awful.He stopped talking to me after I started to self harm again after I stopped for a while...
    Jayla2256 Jayla2256 13-15, F 11 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    He's extremely bossy,

    and treats me like a child. I hate how he makes me feel.
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    he makes me feel good sometimes.

    sometimes I feel like he does care and he is right for me. and other times when I can see past the infatuation and my need for companionship, I can see how utterly wrong he is for me. everytime he hurts me and makes me cry I feel more removed from him. one day, I'll be...
    cindy8888 cindy8888 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Is it even worth fighting

    for the man you love when he doesn't want to be that man anymore? Probably not.
    rorenchan rorenchan 22-25, F Dec 12, 2014

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    I wouldn't go so far

    as to say I HATE my bf, but we've been bumping heads ALOT more than getting along. I've become very depressed. I just feel like I'm not a priority to him. I just had a birthday 2 days ago and I literally spent it in my ******* bed. He jokingly said he said he didn't want to go...
    heartless91 heartless91 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    He is so rude to me. Snaps at me in front of

    others all the time, including our friends and my family. I'm embarrassed to still be with him because I know everyone sees it and is probably talking about it. I'm stuck. We have assets together, including a car, that both our names are tied to. He's mean enough now that I'm...
    kellbell2 kellbell2 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I Pity My Boyfriend!

    I met my now ex boyfriend when I was 16. He was 31; his brother owned the restaurant I worked in. He tried in vain for months to flirt with me, but I was so naive and young, I didn't notice! Against my better judgement, we finally got together when I was 17 and saw each other at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    I currently hate him because I gave up a friend

    today for him. Granted it was somewhat a toxic friendship but that's not the point. You shouldnt ask stuff like that from people. "If you love me you'll stop talking to that person" Ugh relationships.
    Wapakalypse Wapakalypse 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 26

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