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I Hate My Boyfriend's Daughter

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    My "Stepdaughter"

    I have 3 kids..ages 3,5&9..they are my favorite people in my life..nobody could replace them. He has one child, if you could even call her that..she's 5..and I honest cant stand her..he was married to a woman for 7 years. During that time she gave birth to two children, neither...
    TgL25 TgL25 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    I Hate Her From The Botton Of My Heart!

    My boyfriend and I have been living together for a year and two months now. When I met him I knew he had a daughter from a previous "relationship", well, he was actually married to this one *****, who already has 3 children from 3 different men, I find that really gross...and...
    phabbiola phabbiola 26-30, F 17 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    I Wish I Didn't Feel This Way

    My boyfriend and I have been together for four years now. I first met his daughter when she was six years old. He has a son also who has never really been that much of a problem. From the beginning she has said mean things to me when her Dad was not around like your ugly, big fat...
    heatherj8422 heatherj8422 26-30 1 Response Mar 5, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Daughter Ugh

    My Guy was a widow so I though. We moved slow with our relationship so I never seen any sign of lies until a year1/2 later,taking it to the next step... meeting his family nice people but his daughter is such a brat it makes me sick being around her I don't trust her I know she's...
    alad3 alad3 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    I Hate Her So Much I Think Im Gunna Leave Him

    I can't not express how much I hate my boyfriends daughter she is 9 yrs old. She is a dirty little girl she is crawling with head lice everytime she comes over to my house and she always has snot crusted to her face! The worse thing is is that I have my own kid with him but I am...
    mommy4roz mommy4roz 18-21 6 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    I just start the relationship with my boyfriend

    since few months, he let me knew there are 2 kids he is having, with different mother, they never in a relationship. So one of the kid he didn't contact at all, he don't want the kid but the mother want to be pregnant and keep, the other kid is 4 yr old, it was at last minute...
    formagerie formagerie 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    My Boyfriends Daughter

    I have been with my boyfriend for 4yrs now and he has a daughter that is 18 yrs old. I have not met her yet. My boyfriend and I have a 2 yr old daughter, which his older daughter refuses to meet. I don't know What to do. I don't see him that much because I work mon- fri 9-5 and...
    llmedina02 llmedina02 26-30 2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I have been with my bf

    for 8yrs now. We still live separately because we have 50/50 and decided to stay in the kids school districts. My boys were 5 & 8 and his son 9 and daughter 7. They are now 13, she's 15, 16, & 17. The beginning was good... his daughter loved me! Sat on my lap, fixed my hair...
    northc northc 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    She's Very Much An Adult At 22 Years Old.

    My boyfriend and I are both in our 50's and both divorced. We have been in a relationship for four years and have been living together for about 18 months. He and I are very much alike in that we just want a few simple things out of life, one of those things being...
    fifteenyearslater fifteenyearslater 46-50, F 6 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    I Strongly Loathe The Fact That My Boyfriend Has A Daughter!

    Well, when I first met my boyfriend, I was 15 and he was 19. He wasn't honest with me and he didn't tell me that his child would soon be born a little while after we met, I guess he figured that I wouldn't give him a chance if he told me, so instead he asked me if i would date a...
    qguy qguy 18-21 14 Responses Feb 9, 2011

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    I have been dating my boyfriend

    for over a year now. We have a wonderful relationship! For the past several months - our only issue has been his daughter, which I realize is a BIG only issue to have. When we first began dating, I was well aware he had a daughter, and although I always said I would never date...
    skkem skkem 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    Lil Miss Boss

    My bfs daughter is so out of control I can honestly say I hate her! I feel awful saying that because she is just a child.. but there is no other way of explaining how much I dislike her behavior. She is 6 she comes over 2x one week then 4x the next, she hits, bites, spits in...
    cupcakin cupcakin 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I Cannot Stand My Boyfriends Stuck Up Daughter

    I met my boyfriend 4 years ago, his daughter was 6, my son was 3. At first it was great I got along with his kid and he got along with mine. Until his daughter realized I was here to stay. My bf had an issue with pain pills, he was badly hooked on them when i got with him. I...
    colie24 colie24 22-25 2 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    My bf has two little girls

    and they are complete needy brats. You can't do anything without them up your ***. You'd be lucky to take a drink of water by the sink without both of them saying I want some, and they eat all day long seriously! My grocery bill has shot up almost another $100.00 and I have a...
    hartbri12 hartbri12 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I Hate My Boyfriends Daughter

    I've been dating my boyfriend for about a month now and I love him so much. Problem is he's 48 and I'm 28 and he has kids. The younger two are fine they aren't causing any trouble. But I hate the oldest. She refuses to even meet me just because she's 26 years old. And frequently...
    anonymouslass anonymouslass 26-30 5 Responses Oct 28, 2011

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    She Makes Me Grind My Teeth

    Me and my sweetheart have been with each other two year. His daughter of 9 was there right off the bat and because i love children i thought it wouldn't be a problem. i got a ready made family just add mom lol. However i found that i had an almost Immediate dislike for her. She...
    mar664no mar664no 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Over a year and half ago I met my boyfriend.

    Before I even met him I knew that he had a daughter and that the mother was diseased. I had always told myself that I'd never date someone with kids, but I guess I was wrong. We fell hard and fast for each other. Before moving in I told him my concerns. I told him that I had...
    formerwildchild formerwildchild 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    I Thought There Was Something Wrong With Me

    I didn't think there were other people out there who didn't like they're boyfriends daughter. My boyfriends daughter is 5 and boy does she have an attitude including eye rolling, answering back and never using manners. She comes over every other weekend and my boyfriend works 3...
    Ccolon480 Ccolon480 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    Omg! I feel so incredibly guilty.

    I can't stand my boyfriend's 9 year old daughter. I usually love kids. I have a 13 year old daughter myself and nephews, and godchildren. This kid is ADHD and bipolar. As a nurse, I understand that she has issues. My boyfriend has raised her since birth due to her mother being...
    mommi37 mommi37 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    Major Brat Wins Award For Best Actress In A Drama Series

    I feel bad complaining after reading some of the other stories. But, the anger I feel the majority of the time when my boyfriend's daughter is around is real, and I need to express it to people who understand. I go to church, am a Christian, and hate no one, but I have really...
    igotsolutions igotsolutions 31-35 3 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    My Little Problem

    Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. 2 months ago we moved in together. There is quite an age gap(he's 35 and I'm 21). He was very up front with me and told me he had a daughter from a previous relationship and I didn't think much of it because I wasn't very...
    amanda9277 amanda9277 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Spoilt Little Precious

    im sooo glad to find im not the only person who feels this way!!! i will share my story to advise and to help others in this situation simply because it sucks!! ...i met my partner 11 yrs ago i was going through a painfull divorce i have 2 girls then they were 6 + 8...he had a...
    forachange forachange 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    Why Do I Hate Her ??

    Ive been with my boyfriend a year now im 8 months pregnant and he has a daughter from another relationship. . I despise her. I dont know why, I cant help it. I feel as if my child wont hold a candle to her and it makes my blood boil! I dont want her in the picture, I avoid her as...
    derla312 derla312 18-21 5 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    My Partners Daughter Is Playing Her Father And Causing Myself And Him To Argue.

    I met my partner about 10 months ago. At that time his daughter was a lovely 7 year old and also has hurschesprungs disability. All in all she was really good with my 5 year old daughter and my 2 year old son. And she allways done as she was told and behaved well. Her and my...
    trina81 trina81 31-35 3 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    I Can't Stand My Boyfriends Daughter

    My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I have a son who is four and he has a daughter who is eight. At first everything was great. The kids played nice together, me and her got along. No problems. Then my boyfriend and I moved in together and I saw the real her it...
    missmanda11 missmanda11 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    The Devil In Disguise

    OMG. Where do I start. I can not stand this kid. She is spoiled by her Mother, and whines non stop. I have been resorted to moved away from her and I find myself flipping her the bird as I walk by. I also behind closed doors, do the intimation of her sniveling. She has everybody...
    bazinga71 bazinga71 41-45, M 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    The Girl Needs Help!

    Ok, I know this little girl is a child but she is out of control according to the standards as to how I was raised. This little girl is 7 going on 8 but is showing some serious negative signs. It is definitely because of her upbringing and her parents. I have been with my...
    windmill13 windmill13 26-30 13 Responses Sep 6, 2013

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    Daddy's Spoiled Brat

    I started dating my boyfriend 5 years ago. When we first got together we introduced our kids to each other right off the bat. His daughter was 6 at the time and my son was 3. My son's father left the picture when he was 2 years old. My boyfriends daughter has her mother in her...
    HisForever223 HisForever223 22-25 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    I have a b/f of 3 years,

    we get along fabulously. When I first met his daughters, now 14 and 17, I thought they were a little different, but nothing serious. OH what i have seen since. The oldest, at 16 moved out to live with her 13 yr old bf. She can do no wrong in daddys eyes, even though she has...
    howmuchisenough howmuchisenough 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 13, 2014

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    I Can'T Stand When My Boyfriend'S Daughter Come Over

    My boyfriend has a 3yr old by another woman. When I met him 4 yrs ago he was dating someone & made me aware & him and I dated & soon after he only dated me. The other lady told him that she was pregnant and was choosing to keep the baby regardless of how he felt about it. He had...
    Irritated78 Irritated78 36-40, F 6 Responses May 4, 2013

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    I Despise My Boyfriend's Daughter

    when i met my bf 4 years ago she was 9. she was a crazy acting ***** then. I thought she needed major help..boy was  I WRONG...i didn't know it would get worse instead of better. I wish i'd nevermet him or her now.it's too long to post on her but let's just say she's a lying...
    hotlittlegal hotlittlegal 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 8, 2011

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    What Do I Do!!!???

    My boyfriend is a lot older than me by 21 years!! And he's been married and has one daughter who is near my age group. Although Ive only met her twice....I have say I dont like her!!! She is very unwelcoming and makes no effort to speak to me. I worry what she thinks of me. I...
    KH93 KH93 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Step-dad to two girls, now 28 and 23. As well as a daughter of ten (together with my wife of eleven years). A short history on the early days reflects many of the stories I’ve...
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    I'm roughly the same age as him (I'm about a year younger) I've never done anything wrong that I'm aware of! I own my own business I passed all exams and they just hate me because...
    Beccybell Beccybell 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I hate my boyfriends mom because every time im there she acts really slutty and specks sexually.... and she doesn't leave us alone when were in his room, she knocks the door like...
    MinionBecca MinionBecca 18-21, F Jan 3

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    Not entirely true, but I can stand very few. Today's music is... I don't how to explain it, but it's just boring to me... Has no soul or heart or message or meaning... I'm tired of...
    EmEn1125 EmEn1125 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    It's not that I hate his belt because dummy me I bought it for him last year for Christmas. I do wish I would've thought that through better though and bought a nice soft one that...
    CountryTexan CountryTexan 18-21, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    My biggest life goal is to be as absorbent as a sponge And to learn as much about the world as possible My grandma was the first to engrain this thought into me When She said...
    cabp24 cabp24 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I haven't written on here for about 2 years! my last I hate my mum post was at 21. I'm 23 next month and things aren't looking any better. I feel trapped. Basically she's not...
    Roxylee Roxylee 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I think some girls just don't know their limits and have the lines drawn clearly. In psychology, you are deemed with the insecure trait, not the girlfriends who do get jealous...
    oneplusonetwo oneplusonetwo 22-25, F Jan 14

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    So my most recent ex-boyfriend of course knows how much I still and always will love him. We had a great 2.5 year relationship, but then he got some opportunities in Alaska for...
    CaliforniaCobra CaliforniaCobra 26-30 Jan 1

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    My mixed breed nightmare-I have 3 children with my wife of 15 years ages 14,10,and 7. Then I have too what I call my American son or sometimes my pointedly my Black son. He is 22...
    PinskProduct PinskProduct 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    There's this girl who I'm sure will grow up to be a perfect little B*tch. She strives too hard to be at the top of everything, even to the point of being annoying. She never...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    my boyfriend's mom isn't the worst person in the world. I wanted to say that before I continue, but believe me, I have my reasons for detesting her. my bf and I have been dating...
    nofadda nofadda 22-25, F a week ago

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    Be very careful of Fridays now ladies You exposed your boyfriend's face Now go get drunk and stoned with The beaver and sit on his face
    9comouterfaces 9comouterfaces 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    How can I feel more at home with my boyfriend's family than mine. I had the best Christmas being at his house and meeting his grandpa- who they all said was racist and wouldn't...
    Starkillera Starkillera 22-25, F Dec 25, 2014

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    There's a group of fanatical Muslins in Chicago threatening people to convert over to Islam, they prowl the streets in late hours of the night, targeting women with children...
    ivan305 ivan305 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend just can't be happy unless he's stoned or drunk. I hate him for that. I'll get totally disgusted with him eventually and kick him out. Until then, I'm supposed to be...