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I Hate My Boyfriends Ex Girlfriend

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    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for the better part of four years. We were highschool sweethearts and after 3 years of being and living together things were stressful. We decided to take some time to ourselves and eventually talk about making things work again once we had some time to get the normal young...
    notjustthegirlnextdoor notjustthegirlnextdoor 22-25, F Jan 25

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    I Cant Stand Her.

    my boyfriend and i were dating for about a year when he got the chance to go to florida for school. i was really happy for him, but after about 6 months of him being there and me being in new york, we broke up because of the distance. naturally, a few months later i got a new bf...
    monroe11 monroe11 18-21 1 Response Feb 5, 2009

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    So me and my boyfriend have been together

    for 3 years and recently he felt he needed to tell me about the people on his fb and he continued to tell me about his ex who was just an internet girlfriend and I told him well doesn't mater I'm prettier and he replyed with well I don't think he is ugly ouch ... and he...
    colettebrunel666 colettebrunel666 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11, 2014

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    I Hate My Boyfriends Past

    Okay, this is going to sound really lame, but I need to let it out. My whole life, I've been raised to believe that pasts are all that matter. Not a virgin? No future. Didn't go to university? No future. Got a wrong piercing/tattoo? No future. That's how...
    Animalrights Animalrights 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2009

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    The ex could be the sweetest person in the

    world: saving whales, planting trees, feeding poor kids Nutella, etc. but there will always be an ounce of me that just wants to ****** her perfect locks off. But I am going to behave, give a friendly hello, and go on about my day.
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F Oct 2, 2014

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    They were dating for like a month

    or something, and he kind a broke up with her because of me( i do not want to admit it). There is no reason to hate her, but I just do!! It is because I am so jealous, i find her prettier and more handsome than me and everything. I have so many complexes and it is my fault...
    anrim654 anrim654 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

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    Why Doesnt He Get It??

    I've been with my bf for a year now and he told me when he lost his virginity the girl lied to him about being a virgin and ignored him after. This made me pretty upset seeing that I really care about him and hate it when people treat him poorly. This girl happens to be his...
    amh6293 amh6293 16-17 Nov 10, 2010

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    Wonder If He Ever Thinks

    My ex had an affair when I was pregnant. I discovered all when our daughter was seven months old. I forgave him like a fool. He continued the affair and last saw his daughter when she wad ten months old. He started a new life with her, she sent nasty emails etc right up to the...
    mommysteph mommysteph 36-40, F Sep 23, 2013

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    She's such a *****. She's been pregnant

    countless times, dated more guys than we have fingers, and she used to call him fat and say our friends used to talk **** about them, and she used to say that he abused her. He is the sweetest, most caring, kind and gentle guy. Her code name is literally "the *****" and today...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 18-21 Aug 15, 2014

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    Move On...

    People need to learn to move on. Dxmn. My boyfriends ex girlfriend is still in love with him and it has been a freaking year! Don't you think if he wanted you back he would have done it already! Just move on. It is pathetic and irritating to current girlfriends everywhere! Do us...
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F Oct 20, 2013

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    he still talks to her

    because they go to school together and it drives me absolutely insane. she's rude to him, she calls me fat and ugly and is constantly telling him he can do better than me. I have no idea why he doesn't just grow a pair and tell her that she needs to find her own friends and stop...
    vyctoriaa vyctoriaa 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2014

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    If Magic Would Exist....

    I love my boyfriend, and he really loves me, but  I can't stand his ex girlfriend. And the problem is, she's really not a bad person, anything but even! She's always nice to me but I really don't like her. My boyfriend is still good friends with her, they used to be friends...
    angeduparadis angeduparadis 18-21 1 Response Aug 10, 2010

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    I saw my bf added his 1st gf in Facebook.

    I feel so insecure. He knows I get jealous very easily yet he still sent her a friend request. And she accepted it. I didn't hate her because I don't know her and I didn't know about their story. But I felt really insecure and it really hurts :(
    cindykmm cindykmm 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Frustrated!!!

    to an unholy degree with this situation.  please everyone tell me if im being crazy or not, bec this is driving me up the wall... from the beginning of our relationship my boyf stated repeatedly that his friends were his family, and that he would see them constantly for...
    meeeese meeeese 31-35 8 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    I Can't Stand That Girl

    Ew, so you see... I have been dating this guy for about three months. He's nice and he really cares about me, or that's what he makes me think. I trust him and I love him. But there's his creepy ex gf, I can't stand her, I mean, why would I? They broke up one year ago, and when I...
    rockmyhole rockmyhole 16-17 1 Response Aug 11, 2012

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    He says he doesn't count her

    as a Girlfriend, because it was all complected etc, but that sorta irrelevant. She went out with him to make her ex jealous whilst sleeping with her ex, she sent him evidence of this, or something like that, so he says, and he says he hates her. But there still friends on...
    smehh smehh 18-21, F 2 Responses May 27, 2014

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    I got to hear all about how my step kids'

    mother tells them that their dad doesn't help out with money at all. That was fun. Meanwhile, he pays child support, and pays for summer camp trips / classes / whatever she wants help with. I try to bite my tongue but I told SD last night that I don't know why her mom lies to...
    justtakestime justtakestime 26-30, F Jul 25, 2014

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    Ive Had It..had It

    his annoying ex who wont go away..***** is an attention *****..rings the alarm for no ****** reason and i dont feel its coming from a good place on her end..I do have some trust issues with him still because of something he did but he has improved greatly i just wish this...
    missgigiana missgigiana 26-30, F Mar 5, 2010

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    I Despise My Boyfriend's Ex and I've Never Even Met Her.

    Well here's another crazy jealousy story (main parts in bold for those who tl;dr). I'm an English girl who is in an amazing relationship with a Danish guy who used to be with an Icelandic girl for almost two years. We met online randomly, he'd only just broken up with his ex...
    DoktorSchnitzel DoktorSchnitzel 18-21, F 20 Responses May 9, 2009

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    My boyfriends ex is the devil.

    I hate that *****.
    deevonj deevonj 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 10, 2014

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    From An Ex

    My ex and I have always been friends. After we broke we reverted to being friends. His current girlfriend doesn't like me and is uncomfortable by our friendship. I wanted to reach out to her to let her know I'm not a threat. I do value my friendship withmy ex. I did love my ex...
    zyhane zyhane 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2013

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    Whack-job

    My boyfriend and I have been friends since 2005 when we deployed to Iraq together. He was married - I wasn't. I don't do married guys and he's a faithful man. Catholic. And Irish. Anywho - we were battle buddies and we maintained a friendship after we got home and went out...
    MollyB1972 MollyB1972 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Trichillomanic

    When I was in highschool, there was this girl in my PE class that had a locker next to mine. She talked to me quite frequently, despite never having met me, and eventually I invited her to a party I was throwing with my brother because she was dating an old friend of mine who...
    Youaregod Youaregod 18-21, F 1 Response May 2, 2013

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    Just moved out all my stuff from my ex house.

    Left his rental as empty as his brain. Left me and his daughter to have a life of random chicks after all I did for him.
    gtbombshell gtbombshell 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2014

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    That Wh*Re

    She cheated on him for months, even after he found out! She broke his heart into a million pieces and he has major trust issues because of her! And although I'm really weak when it comes to throwing punches and stuff, the next time I see her I'm gonna smash that c*cksucking...
    sophieiero sophieiero 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    Self-esteem

    I'm educationally better than her, my friends told me not to worry too much cz they said I was prettier than her. My life is organized better than her, they said I'm better than her but that doesn't matter cz you LIED straight to my face for her. I know that b*itch has a life of...
    chaoticmind24 chaoticmind24 22-25, F Sep 30, 2013

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    She Will Never Go Away!!

    So my current boyfriend and I met in college, but I was dating someone else at the time and he was still with THE EX.  A year after we graduated he called me out of the blue and asked me out.  We started dating immediately, and things were going really well.  I...
    mogli mogli 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    She's manipulative and would purposely post on

    his Facebook for me to see. He holds on to her and keeps saying she's a good person. Why are men so stupid? While she may be a good "person" (I don't know her to say if she's a bad person), women are awful to each other. She's been making her presence to cause me pain. But I...
    tk3332 tk3332 26-30, F 4 Responses May 12

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    Hate is such a strong

    and inaccurate word for this situation/experience, but I do NOT like her even though we have never met. She cheated on him and lead him on and was a pathological liar for 2yrs of the relationship. You cheated and there was proof and you denied it like a *****. Girl bye.
    blushkat blushkat 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2014

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    We Both Hate Her Now

    She was never technically his girlfriend because she said she wasnt ready, but she made him swear not to date anyone else and said that someday they would be bf and gf if he was patient. She pretty much treated him dirt and then started seeing another guy. She said it was okay...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    My boyfriends ex did nothing

    but cheat on him towards the end of their relationship. They've been broke up for over a year now & him & I have been together for 7 months. He still mentions her a lot & it really hurts me. I feel like I'll never live up to her standards sometimes. As much as I try not to, I...
    nursinggirl08 nursinggirl08 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    I be seeing so many only videos of them ;-; nd

    i feel some type of way. He looked happy with her ;-; he treated them different ;-; idk wat should i do 😩
    ashley486 ashley486 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

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    This is a serious issue in my relationship

    that I'm having a hard time getting over and if I don't it will be the end of us. Please if any one has any advice or insight please help me out. I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 32. He has 4 kids one of which is ours. I've never dated anyone with kids before. Two of his...
    Kikiana1 Kikiana1 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    My boyfriend is 8 years older

    than me and has like 10 more exes than me...j
    Retrieverluoluo Retrieverluoluo 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I am sharing this story

    because I am truly hoping that getting it out of my system could help in my recovery of getting over my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend... This is not the first time I have been experiencing jelousy of this kind toward an ex of my partner. My first true love's ex-girlfriend was the...
    Alma89 Alma89 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Hoes Of A Feather, Flock Together

    I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years. A month or two before dating me, he was dating a girl he's known since high school (long distance) for about a month until he broke it off. And 6 months before her, he was in and out of an abusive relationship with a drug...
    OhMyDarlene OhMyDarlene 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    I thought it was forever,

    I really did. Long distance relationship is never easy, but we made it work so far. Until I just couldn't take it anymore. For six years, I've tried to pass over the fact he lives with his ex-girlfriend ("We never really loved each other", "She's just my best friend", well...
    AyanasSight AyanasSight 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    She Tries To Manipulate Our Relationship!

    It hasn't always been like that, though. Actually it all started off pretty neatly... I knew from the very beginning that he is still very close friends with his ex. They had been dating for several years and both eventually decided that a break up was the best for both of them...
    isitjustfantasy isitjustfantasy 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    Title should be: My boyfriends Ex hates

    me worst part is that shes my neighbor. Tbh I don't hate her, I try so hard to just get to know her—Im always friendly to her, he broke up with her in Aug 2013 & I still think she h as feelings for him. But I just don't understand how she hates me & wont give me a chance...
    SempiternalDream SempiternalDream 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    my bf's ex is getting me angry day by day.

    she keeps an eye on me n him n goes to his parents and tells them all sorts of lies. at the end of the day we are the ones who get screwed.
    avnn avnn 18-21, F Feb 3

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    Help !

    Hey :).Well Im dating this new guy and hes really nice and funny also very hot,we are together happily and hang out often.Everything's perfect except his ex girl friend.Which I cant stand,shes not only my boy friends ex shes his best friend ex too.They got in a fight because of...
    Brianna111 Brianna111 18-21 7 Responses Mar 22, 2009

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    I Don't Even Know Her

    So I'm a tad jealous, maybe, but it's not interfering in my relationship or anything. It's more a dead feeling unless he brings up her name then it's like ugh change the subject now. My boyfriend and I (even before we started to date) would talk about the past people we'd been...
    Whisperlane Whisperlane 18-21 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    He was with her during the time we split up

    about two months ago, she was a friend of mine, they broke up and came back to me, but she has a car, she's tall, attractive, curvy and goes to collage, I don't have a car or money to go to collage, I'm pathetic and I cry all the time he's way too tall handsome he has a car too...
    goicual goicual 18-21, F 3 Responses May 30, 2014

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    He mentioned her again.

    He brought up his ex girlfriend again in conversation. Will I ever live up to her standards? Or is he over her but can't seem to let her go? Or does she just want to know how she's doing & he won't let it go until then? Whatever the reason may be, it hurts. It hurts like a...
    nursinggirl08 nursinggirl08 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Well mine is little more

    than ex girlfriend but ex wife. He has been married twice before me the first one they have three kids together and the second one tricked him and got pregnant. We have been together five years no kids together cause between us we have six all from previous marriages. The worse...
    Crys98 Crys98 31-35 3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    Am I Crazy?

    Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 yrs, we live together and have a 3 month old son together. His ex gf he dated on and off for 3 and a half yrs txted him awhile back asking to meet up for coffee. He responded with "let me know when and me and my gf will meet you...
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