I Hate My Boyfriends Family

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 256 People

    Saving My Boyfriend From the Mental Cases

    In conclusion, they are the reason for y my life isnt perfect, they are dramatic liers who are mosquitos...suking money out of every1...incuding the poor garbage man..whom they owe 5000 dollars to...and the list goes on, they are like the junkies who ordinary working people have...
    killingme killingme
    22-25
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

    Ok unlike what the title says,

    I don't true lay hate my boyfriends family. I just see that they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever met. They are extremely different from my family and friends families are. My boyfriends family are not close with each other at all! They all talk bad about each other...
    SilentNynja SilentNynja
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2014

    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for about a year. In the beginning of the year my boyfriend would always tell me his dad is crazy but I never believed him. So one night I received a phone call from my boyfriend crying saying his Dad had pulled a gun out on him and attempted to kill him but luckily his mom got...
    racchhellmaaee racchhellmaaee
    18-21, F
    Apr 22, 2014

    I'm Trying So Hard. I'm Gonna Flip...

    My boyfriend and I began dating almost 5 months ago. We met because we worked at the same gas station. (Romantic, right? :)) His parents are regulars there because they all live less than 2 miles from the station. At first his parents were great! They came in and we chatted and...
    PassiveAggressive93 PassiveAggressive93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 5, 2013

    his brother is okay. his sister is a little

    nagging. his father is a way out of timing pervert. his mother only talks about wanting her grandchildren to exactly look like her son and it irritates me because for heaven's sake it's a vagina I have not a photo copying machine.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 5, 2014

    The Rest Of My Life? Pffft!

    I love my boyfriend. We've been together for over two and a half years now. Our ONLY problem is his FAMILY. This issue is really starting to take a toll on our relationship and I'm very afraid of losing my man over these stupid people. A little background info: My boyfriend is 19...
    122409x3 122409x3
    18-21
    3 Responses Jul 19, 2012

    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for 2+ years now. I moved away from my home about and hour and half away to move in with him when we had been dating for around 8 months. Yes that is soon but I had received a job offer which have me more money and health been odors I wasn't receiving at my old job. My new job...
    InvaderZim89 InvaderZim89
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2014

    I find it extremely difficult to move on from

    my boyfriends past. We met while he was in the process of a divorce, and instead of doing what was right and waiting until it was final, we started dating secretly anyways. For one year, I waited for it all to end, and I was his biggest supporter. He told me every last detail...
    haileyelizabethxo haileyelizabethxo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2014

    I have spent the night at my boyfriends mom's

    house several times, but I have never noticed how bad they are until now. We are both in college and have been dating for almost three years, which is why I think that it is worth sticking around, but I just NEED to vent. First of all, my boyfriend just moved back into his Mom's...
    whybemellow whybemellow
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2014

    First off we're in a long distance relationship.

    .. and i've met his family many times... his mom has been the cause of his brothers failed relationships. She used to be nice to me and suddenly she started being so damn rude... she never offers me anything whenever i go over.. nor does she speak to me... she also never...
    unicornsandbs unicornsandbs
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2014

    So my boyfriend and I been together

    for two years and I love him to death. Just like most couples we fight about little things but Deep down in my heart I know he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. The problem is his family. By no means they are nice folks and I treat them with respect . I went to...
    aj193 aj193
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 17, 2014

    Two Differant Lifestyles

    My boyfriend is 5 years older than me, we started dating when i was 16 and he was 21, were now 19 and 24, and have been together for 3 and a half years. when i first started dating him i loved his family, and i love being at his house being able to do things i wasnt allowed to do...
    megdizzle megdizzle
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 25, 2012

    They all hate me because I have a fear of

    people so they tell him he can do better he never stands up for us i don't know what to do we are 20 -_-
    ForgetMeNotMyLove ForgetMeNotMyLove
    18-21, F
    Aug 21, 2014

    I come from a poorer household,

    and have been raised to see that money isn't everything. That some of the best things in life are free. Although, my boyfriends family is entirely different.. Other than my boyfriend, they are so high maintenance to the point that they will not shop at certain places, nor eat...
    boombop7 boombop7
    18-21, F
    Dec 27, 2014

    His mother is horrible to me

    and shes never even met me. His dad hates me because of a hickey that i didnt do! Wtf
    jewelsj16 jewelsj16
    16-17, F
    Jun 19, 2014

    My Boyfriends Mom Hates Me.

    I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We love each other dearly. But we have been fighting with his mom for 2 1/2 years now. The moment she met me she couldn't stand me. She has a son from my boyfriends dad and he is pretty much the golden child. When his brother was in...
    lizzybrooke20 lizzybrooke20
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 18, 2013

    I Dislike My Boyfriend's Family

    Hi all.. Currently I am engaged with my boyfriend of 3 years, he is 25 years old and I am 24.and planning to settle down. However, I am so afraid of living together with his family before we got our own house. He has 3 younger brothers. One is 14, another 9, and the youngest one...
    Rbsss Rbsss
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2013

    My Boyfriend's Family Is Awful

    So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years. He is wonderful, but his parents are a nightmare. For starters, they wouldn't let him get a job for SIX MONTHS after high school, nor would they pay for him to go to college. Finally, other members of his family who...
    Rivulus Rivulus
    22-25
    1 Response Sep 19, 2013

    When it comes to my boyfriend

    or his family... They always tell stories to sound a certain type of way and it's getting on my nerves because I can't tell if it's in a vindictive way or if they're really THAT stupid. Tell me if you think my boyfriends mom meant to make ME sound like the bad guy in this...
    mylifesajoke mylifesajoke
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2014

    I've been dating my boyfriend

    for about a year and a half and I hate his family. At first I thought they were great. We didn't have any problems and I thought they were hilarious Then one day they started saying I was immature because I would get mad about my boyfriend trying to tell me what to wear, but...
    primabonna111 primabonna111
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2014

    I don't mean to sound like I'm a *****

    or anything but I honestly do..we have been together for 2 and a half years now and his parents were great to me at first and now that I've been here for that long the mother thinks she can speak to me how she wants to..and I'm over it I really am like today when I got back from...
    Devilsdaughter100 Devilsdaughter100
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2015

    Ok so I don't HATE them

    but I do find them EXTREMELY annoying! My boyfriend and I can't breath without his parents needing to know about it! We went up north with some friends over the Summer and my boyfriends parents were the ONLY ones calling to check up on us even AFTER me and our friends and my...
    soapygirl1989 soapygirl1989
    26-30
    Nov 29, 2014

    So Fed Up!

    My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years and now and im certain that he is the one. At the beginning of our relationship his family was always so good to me and took me in as there own kinda thing. My boyfriends mother has always insisted that o get pregnant (i...
    PennyVo PennyVo
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 27, 2012

    I Hate My Boyfriends Family

    I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now and we have 3 children together. His family feels the need to make up lies about me and try to belittle me and the children (which are blood relatives of theirs) as much as possible. They are constantly interfering with my household...
    jjessup jjessup
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2013

    It's not that I hate them.

    They're just not the friendliest people! I wish they were just more info getting to know me and be more involved like my family is... :(
    ashleypaige11 ashleypaige11
    18-21, F
    Sep 29, 2014

    I hate my boyfriends parents

    and older brother.... All they do is scream an curse each other out. I can't have a decent night with him on Skype because his parents and brother are always yelling over stupid ****. They just got a new puppy and his mom hates it. I'm so pissed off. Me and my boyfriend are long...
    purebeauty1994 purebeauty1994
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2014

    I don't respect his family they are all something else.

    My man and I have been together for 8 years. I come from a fairly well put together family that cares and helps one another out greatly. We also value higher education and togetherness. We come together for all holidays and family gatherings plus more. His family operates very...
    ravendana ravendana
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2013

    Just a bunch of bums.

    Dirty dirty people... Like actually dirty. And also people who don't value women at all. The relationship i feel isnt gunna last long.
    Britters220 Britters220
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2014

    I Hate the Drama

    I have known my boyfriend all my life, basically.. we have been together for almost 3 years now.. from the beginning his family has caused so much trouble .  At a family function, his uncle touched me so unnappropriately.. I told my b/f and NO ONE believed me.. then the...
    hmd8980 hmd8980
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Feb 5, 2008

    Fed Up...

    So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. This is my longest relationship. I love him very much everything is perfect except his family. Let me just get this off my chest right off the bat...THEY DRIVE ME ABSOLUTELY CRAZY!!!!! I have been...
    niccibaby23 niccibaby23
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Dec 9, 2009

    "There Are 49 Other States"

    If you read some of my posts from months and years ago- you'll soon realize that J and I have had our ups and downs. Things have been a struggle and, for a time, we broke off our relationship. Ultimately, though, we love one another. And neither one of us wanted to give up and...
    LostJuneBug LostJuneBug
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    I Can't Respect My Boyfriend's Parents!

    I come from a big, happy family with a great dynamic. My parents and siblings are very accepting, intelligent, interesting and witty. My family and I constantly joke around with each other and have a lot of fun. It is usually a very relaxed family dynamic. My boyfriend is a...
    KatieO KatieO
    18-21
    9 Responses Mar 5, 2011

    I realize I can't go on being with someone

    who's family I despise. It wouldn't be fair to him. Just the mere thought of the people he grew up with and is very close to gives me anxiety attacks. I just can't be myself around those folks. I wish things were different but there's nothing I can do to change how I feel about...
    tessa4ever tessa4ever
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2014

    Am I the only one who thinks it's weird

    that my boyfriend has a member of his family tag along almost every time I see him?? HELP PLEASE
    theblackgirlsid theblackgirlsid
    22-25
    1 Response Mar 27, 2014

    Is It A Good Reason To Leave?

    I come from a good family and we all get along fine. I love both my parents and they're the type of couple who still hold hands and flirt--even around us. My brother and my sister are both very practical and mature. So I grew up well enough. Then I met my boyfriend's family and I...
    almostalwayscrazy almostalwayscrazy
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Feb 1, 2011

    They are trashy people & I can't get along with

    them to save my life. Guess why they don't like me because I'm nothing like them. It's sad that in order to be liked I have to lower myself to their level but I refuse. I'm tired of my boyfriend getting treated like crap while his two brothers get treated like gold all because...
    gamergirlx gamergirlx
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 14, 2014

    Boyfriends Grandma?!

    okay my boyfriends grandma is 80; at first He was lovely although I could see a bitchy side my boyfriend warned me about. She always said "don't see him to much he's mine" and "age comes before beauty". she even rang his dad and told him she didn't want me to come round anymore...
    LillyMae176 LillyMae176
    18-21
    1 Response Oct 8, 2012

    My Boyfriend's Family Won't Accept Me Because I'm White

    My boyfriend and I have been together for about 11 months. He is Indian, I'm white. About 4 months ago he had to go back to India to take care of some things back there. I guess he felt the pressure over there as traditionally guys his age are thinking about marriage. We were...
    bombshellbl0nde bombshellbl0nde
    18-21
    3 Responses Dec 15, 2012

    So the other day I was at my boyfriends house

    and while he and his so called friend were out mowing the lawn and his MOTHER pulls me aside and tells me my boyfriend aka her son would like me to help out around the house. I don't go over there to HELP THEM on my days off! I go to spend time with MY BOYFRIEND! If I wanted to...
    soapygirl1989 soapygirl1989
    26-30
    Jul 14, 2015

    Boyfriends Family Driving Me Nuts!!!

    My boyfriend and I have been together over two years and just had a baby together. We are both 22 and I moved to his hometown because he couldn't find work where I lived. My family lives 4 hours away and its been really hard raising my son without their support. My boyfriends...
    sickofeverything12 sickofeverything12
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 21, 2012

    I started dating my boyfriend last year in July

    2014. I came round to his for the first time as you do, met his mum and dad they were pretty chill, after a few months of dating him they become very hostile. Would make up assumptions and started getting quite offensive, they started to believe that I was "rude" had no respect...
    pyschoticmindssince1993 pyschoticmindssince1993
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 6, 2015

    Please Help Dont Know What To Do

    I met my BF about 3 and a half years ago & when we were dating things were awesome. We were each others bestfriend and loved to be together. When he introduced me to his family as his girlfriend, they were very skeptical and questioned my motives and intentions with him ( PPL...
    Pinkalicious2 Pinkalicious2
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

    What Is It With Pakistani In Laws

    HELLO EVERYONE! YOU ARE ALL LUCKY, CAN YOU IMAGINE HAVING BEING TOLD WHAT TO WEAR AND WHAT SHOES TO WEAR AND HOW TO DRESS? I HAVE BEEN WITH MY PARTNER FOR NEARLY 3 YEARS NOW, WE ARE SO CLOSE ITS UNBELIEVABLE. I HATE VISITING HIS FAMILY BECAUSE I FEEL SO OUT OF PLACE AND I CANT...
    lonelygirl10000 lonelygirl10000
    18-21
    11 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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