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I Hate My Boyfriends Family

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    My Boyfriend'S Extended Family.

    I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we have a great thing going. Last summer his parents renewed their wedding vows and invited not only family from his father's side (whom I adore) but people from his mother's side I hadn't met before. I was warned prior by his...
    DontYouFret DontYouFret 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    His family are the worst in laws I could

    imagine. His sister stolen from me and then bullied me online for over a year. Sending things like 'slag, get cancer' I have never done anything to this girl. His mother is so lazy, doesn't do anything sits in a dump. His dad used to abuse him and his brothers and his little...
    AnonBlogger17 AnonBlogger17 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    I Can'T Take This Much More..

    My boyfriend is Vietnamese. Before we started dating I looked into his culture and talked to him about it ans he assured me things wernt like that. Yeah right. I'm 22 and hes 21. I work a job to pay my bills and rent and he sits on his *** at home playing cod all day. In his...
    meggers1600 meggers1600 22-25 7 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    How Do You Deal With You Bfs Crazy Grandma?

    so i dont have a problem with his whole family just one HUGE problem with his grandma. like a few months ago i found out i was prego and she said "she should kick the baby outta my belly" who says that?! and how do u forgive someone who do i sure cant and wont. which my boyfriend...
    Tbaaaby18 Tbaaaby18 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2009

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    My Bf Family Are Rude To Me

    I have been with my guy for a little over a year now. I am 8years older and never have dated a younger guy. He is a triplet and his other 2 brothers tend to be more aggressive with their attitude and behavior, he also has a sister a couple years older. I have never felt very...
    stockhouse09 stockhouse09 36-40 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    My Boyfriend's Family Won't Accept Me Because I'm White

    My boyfriend and I have been together for about 11 months. He is Indian, I'm white. About 4 months ago he had to go back to India to take care of some things back there. I guess he felt the pressure over there as traditionally guys his age are thinking about marriage. We were...
    bombshellbl0nde bombshellbl0nde 18-21 4 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    Not Sure I Can Handle Much More......

    First let me start with a little background information. I am 26 years old and have an amazing 4 year old daughter that I have raised 100% by myself from day one. I have lived on my own since I was 19, so I am an extremely independent person. My boyfriend of almost 4 years is 23...
    Bbrown85 Bbrown85 26-30 3 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    I Refuse To Spend Time With His Family.....now

    I've been with my boyfriend over 8 months, a short time I know! I love my boyfriend with all my heart, we've planned a future together and both support each other in every way we can; however, he has a bully for a father and a sponge for a sister. His mother is wonderful! I'm...
    ScottiePie ScottiePie 26-30 1 Response Jul 29, 2011

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    Saving My Boyfriend From the Mental Cases

    In conclusion, they are the reason for y my life isnt perfect, they are dramatic liers who are mosquitos...suking money out of every1...incuding the poor garbage man..whom they owe 5000 dollars to...and the list goes on, they are like the junkies who ordinary working people have...
    killingme killingme 22-25 2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    Two Differant Lifestyles

    My boyfriend is 5 years older than me, we started dating when i was 16 and he was 21, were now 19 and 24, and have been together for 3 and a half years. when i first started dating him i loved his family, and i love being at his house being able to do things i wasnt allowed to do...
    megdizzle megdizzle 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    I Dislike My Boyfriend's Family

    Hi all.. Currently I am engaged with my boyfriend of 3 years, he is 25 years old and I am 24.and planning to settle down. However, I am so afraid of living together with his family before we got our own house. He has 3 younger brothers. One is 14, another 9, and the youngest one...
    Rbsss Rbsss 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    When it comes to my boyfriend

    or his family... They always tell stories to sound a certain type of way and it's getting on my nerves because I can't tell if it's in a vindictive way or if they're really THAT stupid. Tell me if you think my boyfriends mom meant to make ME sound like the bad guy in this...
    mylifesajoke mylifesajoke 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    I Hate My Boyfriends Family So Much,help Me!!!

    Okay this is my story , i love my boyfriend( Colby) to death. We are soulmates and we truley believe it. We both have matching chinese tattoos stating this.He also has my name in english on his chest. After today i would never do anything tht risky, at least mine is only in...
    samcolby samcolby 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2009

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    My Boyfriends From A Family Of Meth Addicts....

    I have come from a very privaledge family, and I will admit, I was oblivious to other lifestyles, that is until I met my boyfriends family. My boyfriend is very sweet, sensitive, nerdy, and treats me like a princess, and I have absolutely adored him since day one. Yes he did...
    ohkellno ohkellno 18-21 1 Response Mar 7, 2011

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    My Boyfriends Mom Hates Me.

    I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We love each other dearly. But we have been fighting with his mom for 2 1/2 years now. The moment she met me she couldn't stand me. She has a son from my boyfriends dad and he is pretty much the golden child. When his brother was in...
    lizzybrooke20 lizzybrooke20 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    Thank God They Live Out Of State!

    So when I first met my boyfriends family, they seemed pretty nice. They always sent really cool presents for his Daughter and money for him, which was cool. My boyfriend had recently split with his wife (which I didn't know for a while, believe me it was not a pleasant surprise...
    kmaple420 kmaple420 22-25, F Mar 20, 2013

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    I Cant Forgive His Family

    7 yrs ago, i met my boyfrnd and we fell deeply in lov. however what i didnt know at that time is he was already with someone, whom he didnt love.his family learnt about us, and the he openly admitted that he loved me and does not want to marry that girl. but since his sister was...
    Ahanne Ahanne 26-30 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    Treat Me Like An Outcast

    His mother talks about me behind my back and comments that she raised 3 kids without any help.  His 2 sisters ingnore me, one of them had a wedding and didn't include me at all not even in 1 picture.  The other one sends him a gift every year for xmas and birthday and...
    Tumblindice Tumblindice 36-40, F 14 Responses Aug 21, 2007

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    I Hate My Other Halfs Family

    His mother is over bearing, selfish and intrusive. The other day she actually lost the plot because I didn't reply to her text message! When I explained that my partner I want to relax in the evening or play with our 3 month old son, she replied that I must be in a mood with her...
    1 Response Feb 18, 2013

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    Am I the only one who thinks it's weird

    that my boyfriend has a member of his family tag along almost every time I see him?? HELP PLEASE
    theblackgirlsid theblackgirlsid 18-21 1 Response Mar 27

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    I Hate My Boyfriends Family!

    Right so I come from a family that doesn't get a lot of money but they work hard for it and like to save up and go on a family holiday once a year. In september my family asked if me and my boyfriend would like to go to florida with them and obviously we said yes. My mum and dad...
    j9012101 j9012101 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    Please Help Dont Know What To Do

    I met my BF about 3 and a half years ago & when we were dating things were awesome. We were each others bestfriend and loved to be together. When he introduced me to his family as his girlfriend, they were very skeptical and questioned my motives and intentions with him ( PPL...
    Pinkalicious2 Pinkalicious2 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I Cant Take It Anymore!

    okay so me and my boyfriend have been dateing for 6 years... the whole time i have been respectfull, polite, and nice to his family. Have they given me the same decency back? HELL NA! they are mean, rude, obnoxious... they talk sh*t to me everytime they see me... they write...
    cicibby859 cicibby859 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 9, 2010

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    I Can't Stand Them!

    Let me start off with a little background on us I am 23 oldest of 3 he is 26 youngest of 4. We have been together almost 3 years now and it didn't start off bad with them. Everything was good with them until a year into when his sister got married. I really did like them all very...
    Onetoughchick Onetoughchick 22-25 Dec 23, 2012

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    I Hate the Drama

    I have known my boyfriend all my life, basically.. we have been together for almost 3 years now.. from the beginning his family has caused so much trouble .  At a family function, his uncle touched me so unnappropriately.. I told my b/f and NO ONE believed me.. then the...
    hmd8980 hmd8980 26-30, F 8 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    I Hate My Boyfriends Family.. Soon To Be Ex

    So I found this website, and was reading other people who also hate their boyfriends family.. Lots of different reasons, making their bfs feel guilty for money, family not giving space, sexual harassment from relos.. so I thought I'd tell my story, because I hope at the least it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for 2+ years now. I moved away from my home about and hour and half away to move in with him when we had been dating for around 8 months. Yes that is soon but I had received a job offer which have me more money and health been odors I wasn't receiving at my old job. My new job...
    InvaderZim89 InvaderZim89 22-25, F Jan 13

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    After 4 Years, I Still Feel Like An Outsider!

    So here's the deal, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now. We have several issues, but what couple doesn't. The biggest one we have is his family and my dislike towards him. His parents are divorced. I get along with his mom and step dad just fine. t Its his father...
    fedorabandit fedorabandit 22-25 1 Response Apr 3, 2011

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    Is It A Good Reason To Leave?

    I come from a good family and we all get along fine. I love both my parents and they're the type of couple who still hold hands and flirt--even around us. My brother and my sister are both very practical and mature. So I grew up well enough. Then I met my boyfriend's family and I...
    almostalwayscrazy almostalwayscrazy 22-25, F 13 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    "There Are 49 Other States"

    If you read some of my posts from months and years ago- you'll soon realize that J and I have had our ups and downs. Things have been a struggle and, for a time, we broke off our relationship. Ultimately, though, we love one another. And neither one of us wanted to give up and...
    LostJuneBug LostJuneBug 26-30 Nov 4, 2013

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    You're 50, Act Like It

    Ugh. . . I can't stand my boyfriends mother and sister. I used to be on good terms with both of them until his mother decided that she didn't like my haircut. Yes, haircut. I got a really cute feminine Mohawk that I love and posted a picture on Facebook. His mom posted nasty...
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    I Can't Respect My Boyfriend's Parents!

    I come from a big, happy family with a great dynamic. My parents and siblings are very accepting, intelligent, interesting and witty. My family and I constantly joke around with each other and have a lot of fun. It is usually a very relaxed family dynamic. My boyfriend is a...
    KatieO KatieO 18-21 9 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    So Fed Up!

    My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years and now and im certain that he is the one. At the beginning of our relationship his family was always so good to me and took me in as there own kinda thing. My boyfriends mother has always insisted that o get pregnant (i...
    PennyVo PennyVo 18-21 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    They are trashy people & I can't get along with

    them to save my life. Guess why they don't like me because I'm nothing like them. It's sad that in order to be liked I have to lower myself to their level but I refuse. I'm tired of my boyfriend getting treated like crap while his two brothers get treated like gold all because...
    gamergirlx gamergirlx 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I'm Trying So Hard. I'm Gonna Flip...

    My boyfriend and I began dating almost 5 months ago. We met because we worked at the same gas station. (Romantic, right? :)) His parents are regulars there because they all live less than 2 miles from the station. At first his parents were great! They came in and we chatted and...
    PassiveAggressive93 PassiveAggressive93 18-21, F Jul 5, 2013

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    Beyond Annoyed!!

    So my boyfriend and i have 2 kids and have been together 5 years.. I can't stand his siblings and their kids. We are currently staying with his dad until we save enough to get our house.anyway they drop off their kids all week including weekends don't send them anything or say...
    mommyofkids2 mommyofkids2 22-25 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    I Hate My Boyfriends Family

    I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now and we have 3 children together. His family feels the need to make up lies about me and try to belittle me and the children (which are blood relatives of theirs) as much as possible. They are constantly interfering with my household...
    jjessup jjessup 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    Ghetto People Aren't Just In Movies

    So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little short of 3 years.  The first year was tough. He desperately needed guidance. He had no job, hung out with the wrong crowd, didn't have any goals, and on top of everything he also had a drug...
    yankeelvr yankeelvr 26-30, F Oct 23, 2009

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    I don't respect his family they are all something else.

    My man and I have been together for 8 years. I come from a fairly well put together family that cares and helps one another out greatly. We also value higher education and togetherness. We come together for all holidays and family gatherings plus more. His family operates very...
    ravendana ravendana 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    I Can't Stand My Boyfriend's Family.

    I have known my boyfriend for over three years, and have been dating him for one. We are both 22 and I come from a very diverse cultural background. I am predominantly white and black, but I also have Japanese and Native American cousins. For me race isn't a serious factor in...
    Knm2318 Knm2318 36-40 1 Response Jun 7, 2013

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    My Boyfriends Family Hates Me ....... Freaking Haters

    WELL I GUESS I SHOULD START OFF BY SAYING MY BOYFRIEND AND I MET THROUGH ONE OF HIS BROTHERS WELL ANYWAYS  EVERYTHING WAS GREAT FOR ABOUT  HMMM I WANNA SAY 5 MONTHS INTO THE RELATIONSHIP , I AM THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO LIKES TO GIVE I JUST GET A JOY OUT OF PEOPLES FACES WHEN I...
    gina200940 gina200940 41-45 1 Response Aug 7, 2011

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for about a year. In the beginning of the year my boyfriend would always tell me his dad is crazy but I never believed him. So one night I received a phone call from my boyfriend crying saying his Dad had pulled a gun out on him and attempted to kill him but luckily his mom got...
    racchhellmaaee racchhellmaaee 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    What Is It With Pakistani In Laws

    HELLO EVERYONE! YOU ARE ALL LUCKY, CAN YOU IMAGINE HAVING BEING TOLD WHAT TO WEAR AND WHAT SHOES TO WEAR AND HOW TO DRESS? I HAVE BEEN WITH MY PARTNER FOR NEARLY 3 YEARS NOW, WE ARE SO CLOSE ITS UNBELIEVABLE. I HATE VISITING HIS FAMILY BECAUSE I FEEL SO OUT OF PLACE AND I CANT...
    lonelygirl10000 lonelygirl10000 18-21 10 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Fed Up...

    So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. This is my longest relationship. I love him very much everything is perfect except his family. Let me just get this off my chest right off the bat...THEY DRIVE ME ABSOLUTELY CRAZY!!!!! I have been...
    niccibaby23 niccibaby23 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Boyfriends Grandma?!

    okay my boyfriends grandma is 80; at first He was lovely although I could see a bitchy side my boyfriend warned me about. She always said "don't see him to much he's mine" and "age comes before beauty". she even rang his dad and told him she didn't want me to come round anymore...
    LillyMae176 LillyMae176 18-21 Oct 8, 2012

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    Not His Family, His Father...

    Okay so I don't know how to approach this so I'll start from the beginning. In 2007 i was on a teen website for chat and games. I was getgting bullied in the forums and a friend of an online friend came and told everyone off. we started to talk, and soon I was in love. a year of...
    angelkitty2224 angelkitty2224 18-21, F Dec 31, 2012

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    Crazy, Sexist, And More Crazy

    Let me begin with this: I love my boyfriend more than I have ever loved anyone. The past two and a half years have been the best years of my life. We're best friends and our relationship is healthy and strong. The problem? His family drives me absolutely, positively, NUTS. I...
    majorlypissed majorlypissed 16-17 3 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Dislike Not Hate

    What annoys me is more my bf than his family. We are supposed to be building a future togethter but he's more interested in running behind his family. They are supposed to be taking care of themselves but it's like he's the parent and must take care of them. Bf and i live...
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F Nov 14, 2012

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    Can't Take It Anymore!

    My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2 years. He introduced his family to me from the very start. I wasn't exactly ready to meet them but plunged forward anyway and now wished I never met these people, particularly his brother. Our relationship is a great one being...
    tessa4ever tessa4ever 31-35, F 1 Response May 19, 2013

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    My Boyfriend's Family Is Awful

    So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years. He is wonderful, but his parents are a nightmare. For starters, they wouldn't let him get a job for SIX MONTHS after high school, nor would they pay for him to go to college. Finally, other members of his family who...
    Rivulus Rivulus 22-25 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    Boyfriends Family Driving Me Nuts!!!

    My boyfriend and I have been together over two years and just had a baby together. We are both 22 and I moved to his hometown because he couldn't find work where I lived. My family lives 4 hours away and its been really hard raising my son without their support. My boyfriends...
    sickofeverything12 sickofeverything12 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    I hate my boyfriends parents

    and older brother.... All they do is scream an curse each other out. I can't have a decent night with him on Skype because his parents and brother are always yelling over stupid ****. They just got a new puppy and his mom hates it. I'm so pissed off. Me and my boyfriend are long...
    purebeauty1994 purebeauty1994 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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