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I Hate My Boyfriends Kids

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    I've been dating my boyfriend

    for about 7 months; he has a 5 year old son. I have two boys ages 3 & 12 and their behaviors and mannerisms are so much kinder and warmer than his child. His child is cold, unempathetic and just not pleasant to be around. He is also not potty trained as his parents were lazy and...
    Therapisty Therapisty 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I can't stand my boyfriend's three year old.

    I've never met such a brat in my life. I'm about 7 months pregnant, and I watch her plus my mom and dad help out too. His family hasn't lifted a finger at all to help him, he's working nights and he got custody because the mother was doing heroin in the car with the kids, but...
    hartbri12 hartbri12 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    Spoiled Brat

    Me and my boyfriend have been togethet for three years, he has a 9 year old from a previous marriage and we also have a child together. I cannot stand his other daughter she is a spoiled brat who throws temper tantrums when she doesnt get her way. She will also not speak to...
    vertech vertech 36-40 3 Responses Jun 22, 2013

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    long story short when I met my bf his kids

    where amazing they acted kind and respectful. then my 11 month old son from my previous marriage was killed by his father's mother. I had to fly to Colorado where it all happened (my x won custody of my 4 kids in divorce ) when I returned home it was like his kids flipped they...
    angrystepmom angrystepmom 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    My boyfriend has a 20 year old daughter

    that uses and abuses him. She moved out right when we started dating and has caused so much drama. She has gotten pregnant, now engaged, she has a boyfriend and worked at hooters for a while. Whenever she comes around she is the center of attention, she purposely got pregnant...
    katiers1341 katiers1341 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 13, 2014

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    Silver Platter Evils

    His two girls live with their mother and the thirteen year old hates me because her mother tells her to no matter what lengths i go to to prove the ex ho wrong, and the twenty year old is an absolute manipulative little **** who dropped out of school at sixteen, got pregnant...
    want2cuagain want2cuagain 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    The Evil "Step-Mom"

    After leaving my children's father a few years ago, I met this wonderful man who is simply perfect for me. Recently, after 2 years of dating, he moved into the house I share with my 2 kids (ages 8 and10) who, in general, get along fine with my bf. The problem is my bf's own kids...
    pat65 pat65 41-45 1 Response Sep 13, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Loves His Child More Than He Loves Me

    I have been dating my so called (boyfriend) for 9 months now...and everything was okay int he begginning with me meeting his daughter but as time went on i found myself seeing this i didnt like, the fact that he only sees his daughter on the weekends i could understand with...
    Diamondz2012 Diamondz2012 22-25 12 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    I Hate My Boyfriend's Children

    I am 40 & he is 43. We are both divorced. He has 2 girls - 10 & 13n and a son who is 15. My daughter is 8. There is no problem with her or the son. We have be dating for 3 1/2 yrs. His girls from the beginning have been nothing but a nightmare & he has no parenting skills to...
    jac40 jac40 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    KRITTER43 KRITTER43 41-45, F May 19

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    i can't stand kids! i never wanted kids! i mean some are cute to look at for like five seconds but then i'm over it and i want them to get away! i hate holding them, playing with...
    srose08 srose08 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    I am getting evicted. I live in a home with a woman who is not my real Mother. It seems as though I have it so good that no one could see the insides of my unhappiness, to the...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F May 9

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    Gotta share this. I love my brothers dearly, but we argue a lot to. I wish someday I'll be stronger enough to contradict them. I was staying after school for a track meet. My...
    Ginger1313 Ginger1313 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    Just in case some of ya want kids in the future, a typ from me. Don't fck while having your kid in the same room.
    jeednorrozec jeednorrozec 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I have two older sisters, L 12 and M 13 years older to be exact. The oldest is terrible to deal with and I honestly think I hate her. She tried to throw our father in jail when...
    Ant20 Ant20 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I started dating my boyfriend last year in July 2014. I came round to his for the first time as you do, met his mum and dad they were pretty chill, after a few months of dating him...
    pyschoticmindssince1993 pyschoticmindssince1993 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    Some times kids are really funny, Samantha wanted to get the sprinklers out this afternoon, I told her she didn't have a bikini, she has been with me at work all morning and this...
    jennylovesroses jennylovesroses 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Update to my in laws wanting to visit our home. My previous story (http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Hate-My-Mother-In-Law/5797843#reply_7961789) occurred on Monday...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    My "best friend" from grade nine fist dated my boyfriends best friend and it didn't work out, when they broke up she was pissed at me for not inviting her to hangout with us 3...
    mblondiee mblondiee 18-21, F 1 Response May 1

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    To the Lord I would pray that Girls who talk about their husbands or boyfriends- get their boooobs chopped and their v@glna$ eaten by eagle's beak. and their assssess burnt.
    Islav Islav 18-21, M 1 Response May 11

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    I can honestly say that there is no one I hate more in this world than my boyfriend's mother. Jake and I are both 20 and living at his home with his parents and 18 year old sister...
    Camellias125 Camellias125 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1

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    God please help me. I'm hurting very badly. I do not know how long I can take the constant torment in the house my Father had bought to support his growing family. When terror...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F May 9

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    I’m so relieved to have found this thread. There’s so much I want to write and I just don’t know where to begin, but here it goes… I come from a culture where mothers...
    latinamerican35 latinamerican35 31-35, M 2 Responses May 12

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    I have some serious issues with my life I hate it, I hate my job, I hate where I live, I hate the fact my partner doesn't trust me, I just don't want to be here, I don't want...
    theagonyaunt theagonyaunt 31-35, F 18 hrs ago

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    This is for Bill O'Reilly, Bo Dietl, Roger Ailes, and every bloviating white bastard on cable news standing tall and demonizing Freddie Gray and the Baltimore protesters as black...
    peza peza 51-55, M 13 Responses May 1

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    How do you step-parents deal with step brats?? How do I rise above my SD?! I am a professional, level-headed woman. Well, unless it comes to my SD who is 10. My kids from a...
    wickedtornado wickedtornado 36-40, F 5 Responses May 13

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    I don't think there is a word that can sum up how much I hate my husband. I hate him I hate him I hate him. We have been together for 9 years and 3 children. For as long as I can...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 3 Responses May 15

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    I've posted here before about how my husband kids and I stayed with mil and she was totally horrible to us. she would slam things, get mad when I cooked my kids food, go through...
    yesitsme123 yesitsme123 31-35 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's not that I hate learning, it's that I hate the way American schools go about learning. School is basically just a place where you get taught things that will be nearly useless...
    stitchesgetsnitches stitchesgetsnitches 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I had to start paying $50 a week in rent when I turned twelve. I got a job doing some serious physical labor after school and did just that. I busted my ***, God I worked so hard...
    somelostdude somelostdude 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    My MIL is passive-aggressive, controlling, two-faced, hypocritical, manipulative person. When I first met her, she was wonderful; big personality, loving, and outgoing...Until she...
    NoMorePainNoMoreGuilt NoMorePainNoMoreGuilt 31-35, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really have no clue why but I just can't be physically affectionate with family or friends. I'm a little better with friends but still, for some reason I only enjoy physical...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 18-21, F May 3

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    Hate is really too strong of a word. More like between disappointment and disgust. When I met my ex, I was crazy about her. And for a time, I thought she was just as crazy about...
    EverythingorNothing EverythingorNothing 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    I'm wondering if I should give up ? I've had allot of issues with my boyfriends mother. She speaks a different language so it's hard to talk to her. I feel as if I'm getting in the...
    llivan llivan 22-25, F Apr 27

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    Seriously... some people have kids just because "everyone does"... then after they have kids, they're busy socializing, instagraming, facebooking, and showing off their kids but...
    autotonsorialist autotonsorialist 41-45, F 1 Response May 11

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    OK I'm a parent, I know life is not easy, we all have problems, some we don't like and some that well we just hate. Kids today expect things to just be given to the, when kids...
    BaldCock79 BaldCock79 31-35, M 1 Response May 13

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    I have emotionally abusive parents. My mother thinks it's okay to put me with siblings that I dislike and will bring up stuff from the stuff to provoke my anger, she comments on my...
    melodicsadness melodicsadness 18-21, F May 2

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    My husband has been someone that I have completely killed myself to please. He is a complete ball of insecurities and for the past 5 years always try's to catch me in a lie that...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 4 Responses May 10

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    I hate Utah! I grew up here and was raised Mormon! Mormons don't just shun outsiders. They shun each other! Even when I scored the highest IQ in my university class, I was...
    ExmormonGirl ExmormonGirl 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    Been bullied by a couple hateful people. In fifth grade I transferred to a New school, and this guy in my class was an *** to everybody. But 6th grade was the real problem. He was...
    justthat1girl99 justthat1girl99 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    My husband never listens to me and manipulates me. He was married to a crazy person who lies to the police like once a day and we have full custody and his son is 4 and acts out...
    stuckinarut94 stuckinarut94 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to do. I have to sit down and have a talk with my MIL, FIL, and fiance in a day or two. Why? Because she wants to tell me some "concerns" she has with me and my...
    IRealizedVienna IRealizedVienna 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 30

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