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    I Hate My Boyfriends Mom

    Me and my boyfriend have nearly been going out for 7 months, I thought that everything was fine with us and the things started to crack in mine and his relationship not due to us though but due to his mom now me and his mom did originally get on extremely well but then all of a...
    Taddeigay Taddeigay 18-21 1 Response Jun 13, 2011

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    My boyfriend's mother constantly blames me

    for her son not being a "family man" anymore. The only reason he was a family man before is because she moved him around five times in four years to follow her boyfriend around the country. And so when he came back to where he had me and friends he started being social again...
    BabyGrasshopper BabyGrasshopper 18-21, F Aug 27

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    Okay, I don't hate her

    but I do have a strong disliking for some of her ways. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years. During that first year at the beginning, his mother seemed to like me. We would talk about art, clothes, girl stuff, food etc etc. I could see that my bf also enjoyed it...
    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    My Boyfriends Mom Is Difficult

    My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now we got together when I was 14 he was 16. His mom was okay and nice at first and she still is sometimes she just chooses when. She would slowly start showing sparks here and there saying hurtful things towards him me and us as a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 19, 2012

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    Good God.

    I am 15 and so is my boyfriend. At first, his mother and I got along- I think she just assumed we wouldn't last, seeing as how I'm his first girlfriend. Now we've been together 10 months, and she keeps finding little ways to keep us apart. She's always saying we can't hangout...
    syruppe syruppe 13-15 1 Response Jun 8, 2010

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    She Is To Uptight

    its not so much that i hate her she just really bugs. me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. and we live together and i always have to lie to his parents when i go visit because they are so religious if they knew we lived together they would hate me and him...
    courtney556 courtney556 18-21 1 Response Oct 22, 2011

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    Horror Story Of Supposed Mother-in-law- To Be

     I'm 32 (33 on Mar. 26) and my supposed fiance is 32.  I feel like I have FINALLY found my other half.  When we first met this past Dec., it was like a fairy tale and we were instantly drawn to one another.  We both have physical and psychological problems, but we had...
    gypsywoman26 gypsywoman26 31-35 Mar 16, 2011

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    Crazy Mother

    My b/f mother is nuts. I know its rude to say so but she really is. This girl was after my b.f for a couple of months, she was a freind of his brothers. So I came over one night and we were all outside by the fire. He went inside to get my sweater in his room. And she was hanging...
    sexyback2284 sexyback2284 70+ Dec 22, 2011

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    I Don't Understand

    ((I just need to vent right now and I know I haven't posted in a while so here it goes)) I have been dating my long distance boy friend for four n a half months (I know he hasn't cheated because he isn't the best looking guy in the world I love him for his personality)- anyways...
    jackcook02 jackcook02 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    My boyfriend is the most amazing person

    that I have ever met. But his mother is something else. Him and I have only been dating for a littler over 5 months, but I'm so over dealing with her. The first time was when I had to go to the airport which was 4 hours away and I asked him to take me. Well his whole family...
    theblackgirlsid theblackgirlsid 18-21 3 Responses Mar 13

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    The Egyptian Life...

    I don't even know where to start. My boyfriend is Egyptian, I am white. We're both 21. I love him so much he's like my best friend. We have the world In common. Since we live an hour and a half away, and I had a not so good home life, his mom told me I could move in with them. So...
    Amberlynn8682 Amberlynn8682 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    My Own Boyfriend's Controlling Mother...

    Boyfriend: 23 Me: 22 Boyfriend’s parents divorced and remarried, Mother controlling, step-dad puppet, Father not really in the picture as far as this goes. I know it's a common one but I haven't found any stories to the same degree as mine and I would like advice. My...
    ginkosanjo ginkosanjo 22-25 3 Responses Dec 17, 2010

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    Ugh

    I try very hard not to hate her, but everytime I try to give her another chance, she gives me another reason to hate her.  My boyfriends mother is very controlling.  We can only see each other once a week, even if neither of us are busy.  If he has things to do...
    Arit Arit 18-21 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    Alright...so maybe hate is a strong word.

    But honestly, the way this woman treats me pissed off...wait for this...HER OWN MOTHER. I have done nothing but kiss *** to this woman. I have been with my boyfriend for well over a year now. I am his first serious girlfriend. I have maybe seen this woman 20 times, and I have...
    mcc1109 mcc1109 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    She's Literally Driving Me Insane.

    I'm writing this in extreme anger and despair. I've dealt with clinical depression since I was 19. My symptoms have decreased since I've been with my fiance' but his mother has exacerbated my symptoms to their highest peak. From the moment I met her I've treated her with the most...
    anaalijos17 anaalijos17 18-21 1 Response Oct 29, 2011

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    She Messed Him Up Good!!

    The saying goes that a man who treats his woman like a princess is proof that he was raised in the arms of a queen. Definitely not the case for my recently titled ex boyfriend and his mother, the two of them make me sick. Recently she came to our house unannounced, and I was away...
    Donnawallsucks Donnawallsucks 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    I miss my bf so bad..

    . I hate how his mom hates my guts and won't even let me in her house because, she kept making sarcastic comments about me to him behind my back and at me in person like I wouldn't catch it... And I kind of got sick of it and took up for myself since my bf didn't want to make...
    athenalovlies athenalovlies 18-21, F 1 Response May 1

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    I Hate His Mother Sooo Much!!!

    I started off not liking my boyfriends mother and now I REALLY hate her. We have been dating for almost 2 years and live together, the first time I met her all she did was talk about his ex girlfriend (who had a habit of drinking and driving and getting knocked up by strangers, a...
    leah67 leah67 26-30, F Oct 10, 2011

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    Hating The Love Of My Life's Mother!

    I am skeptical if i should tell my boyfriend, of 4 years, that i hate his mother. there has been times where i have accidentally referenced to my boyfriend that his mother is a B***H, so i know he has a clue that i dislike her. Ultimately, I have never gone into much detail on...
    frustratedgirlfriend frustratedgirlfriend 18-21 1 Response Apr 30, 2011

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    Why Don't They Do Anything About It?

    My mother always told me that girls are jealous beings. I never really understood what she meant until I started dating. My first boyfriend's mother was as sweet as pie! We were best friends! But, I think the reason why we got along so well was because she didn't have a daughter...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Never Cut the Umbilical Cord I Guess..

    My boyfriend and I got pregnant a mere 7 months into our relationship. Up until that point, everything had been fun and games between us and things between his mother and I had been decent. But once I got pregnant everything changed between us! Faced with the seriousness of...
    Deepthinker321 Deepthinker321 22-25 3 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    I Do Not Even Know What To Do Anymore...

    I have been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months, and we get along pretty well. I thought at first we would not stand a chance since he grew up in a Christian home, and I in different foster homes. We did start "dating" before his parents even knew. His parents are fairly...
    dragonfly9293 dragonfly9293 18-21 Dec 10, 2012

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    A few weeks ago I posted about me

    and my bf moving into a place soon and another post about her being to intrusive in her sons life and mine. This is an update. Ok..for the past few weeks me and my bf have been discussing things that we need and and want for the house, in general for the move. Not to mention...
    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    My Boyfriend's Mother Is Insane

    My boyfriend's mother gave birth to her son (my boyfriend) when she was 32, she had him out of wedlock with a man she slept with, without using protection, because she thought she couldn't get pregnant because she had one of her ovaries removed, and apparently did not care about...
    darlingmarmalade darlingmarmalade 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    Shes A Nutcase And A Half

    oh my lord where to begin? i've been with my boyfriend for a year now and don't get me wrong, the ladys nice, but my god, shes NEVER wrong.  for some reason, something happened when raising her kids, idk what it was but she didn't do it right.  Her son, my boyfriend is 23 and...
    nicole276e nicole276e 18-21 Oct 18, 2011

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    She Thinks She's A Saint

    I never wanted to be that girl who despises my boyfriend's mother, and I never have been -- until now. I have tried so many times to make myself like her, but it's no use, we just aren't compatible. She is a very conservative Christian woman with very traditional family values...
    Iridescence Iridescence 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    Help Forever Like This?

    My boyfriend and I have been together for one year and a half I have met all of his family and they all seem to like me. However his mom who is divorced from his dad and has now remarried doesn't. Her new husband is very wealthy and I am not, I come from middle class family. I...
    connecticutgirl1 connecticutgirl1 26-30 Jun 15, 2012

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    My Boyfriends Mom Is Extremely Controlling!

    Okay, so I'm 16 and my BF is 18. We have an AMAZING relationship! We've been together for almost two years, there is just one problem...his mom. She is a teacher at our high school and she is extremely old fashioned about EVERYTHING! My boyfriend is her only son out of three kids...
    taycole2014 taycole2014 16-17 3 Responses Jan 7, 2012

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    His Mother Hates Mine

    My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years! We are very young but we try. Last weekend I went to dinner with his mom and aunt( I really don't like his aunt for other reasons). My mom told me she wanted me home early which I told his mom and my boyfriend, and they said...
    Ag427 Ag427 16-17 Nov 10, 2012

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    Dog Lady!

    I don't understand how mothers can be like this! I've been with my boyfriend 3 years now. She calls, texts and what not every second of the day! Asking where are you, blah blah. Come home right after work, your curfew is midnight. I can't stand it, it's gotten to the point where...
    tigerlilyxo tigerlilyxo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2011

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    I Am Not Your Mother!

    So i've been with my boyfriend for five months as of today. And my boyfriend isn't "constantly" but certainly often enough comparing me to his mother. Like the other day, I bought a purse.. It's a cute little Betsey Johnson bag. He sees it and says "You know, this is kind of...
    cowboykiller cowboykiller 18-21 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Materialistic Control Freak

    My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months- already engaged and practically like together...in his mothers house. His mother is causing me and him to fight alot. She is a materialistic control freak. If she doesn't know what hes doing every hour or if he gets off work 5...
    jailbaitjawbreaker jailbaitjawbreaker 16-17, F May 12, 2010

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    She's incredibly intrusive on his business.

    I have been dating my boyfriend for close to two years, and she had been whining the entire time. Now, I understand that she's his only son and that he's the only family she has left. However, it's due to her own stubborn and self-righteous ways that she's pushing him away from...
    mergern07 mergern07 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Babys Her Son To Much I Hate My Boyfriends Mom

    Where do i start.. well me and boyfriend have been Dating for 2years and In the begining everything was Perfect but then He Cheated on me and his mom looked at me like i was a ***** for getting upset and breaking up with him and then iit gave him another chance then Ever since...
    foreverAday foreverAday 18-21, F Sep 24, 2013

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    She Is So Controlling..

    Currently my boyfriend and I are on a "break". Because of his mother. I mean, I like his mom and all..I just..I really wish that she would stop caring about our TWO YEAR age difference (which is not a lot at all). My parents accept it and they love him and treat him...
    baiserisole baiserisole 18-21 6 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    My boyfriends mother is crazy.

    He just says she's crazy because she's on depression medicine and it's the medicine doing it. Well its not. My boyfriend has a 5 year old daughter from his ex. And his daughter is such a spoiled brat because of his mother. I can't stand his daughter either. His mom is nosy and...
    Porsha14 Porsha14 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    My Boyfriends Mother Needs To Back Off!

    I've been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years and at this point and time I cannot stand his crazy physco mother. In the beginning of our relationship she used to live out of state and eventually separated from my boyfriends father because he cheated on her. Rightfully so...
    rminopoli rminopoli 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    She Treat Him Like A Baby Boy

    she don't want his son out late at night.. he's 23 years old come on! during Friday nights or Saturday nights when we go out on dates, his mother will txt or call him to go home, ask where he was, whom he with, etc. .(my boyfriend still live in their family home with his mother...
    derica40 derica40 18-21, F Oct 2, 2011

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    Ugh

    She is a wretched woman. I don't think I've ever met someone so passive aggressive. She expects my boyfriend to do everything for her. EVERYTHING. She was diagnosed with MS when he was in 2nd grade but doesn't do anything to help herself. She eats McDonald's for all 3 meals every...
    rockasourous rockasourous 18-21 Jul 11, 2010

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    She Is My Polar Opposite.

    My boyfriend and I have been on and off for a few years and I know I shouldn't let the way I feel about his mother affect me but I can't help it...I hate her and I don't hate easily. I've been raised by a strong working mother who taught me the value of money...she's on benefits...
    1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    She's Making This Relationship Hard

    She's called me every name under the sun. I took her yelling at me the two times but this time it's gone too far and he expects me to just brush it underneath the rug and forget. But she called me a **** most recently and I can not stand her any longer. I want to cry every night...
    minxxx minxxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    So Much Hate For The Mother !

    I been with my boyfriend for 3months & when I first met his mom , she was very rude & nasty .. as I started being around her house more ' she will joke around & throw rude comments to me all the time .. Then I told my boyfriend to talk to her about it & at first he didn't want to...
    Stacksxo Stacksxo 16-17 Dec 18, 2012

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    My Boyfriend's Mom

    Healthy eating and exercise are very important in my life. My boyfriend's mother is severly obese and politically conservative. She refuses to talk about anything related to health or getting in to shape and acts like she knows everything. I go along with it because I love my...
    TeeBoeBee TeeBoeBee 22-25 1 Response May 21, 2012

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