I Hate My Boyfriends Mother

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    Ugh

    I try very hard not to hate her, but everytime I try to give her another chance, she gives me another reason to hate her.  My boyfriends mother is very controlling.  We can only see each other once a week, even if neither of us are busy.  If he has things to do...
    Arit Arit
    18-21
    1 Response Apr 10, 2009

    My boyfriend and I are expecting a baby in

    april 2015. The baby is both of our first child and our mothers first granchild. The problem is, my boyfriend's mom has hated me since we've been dating. She constantly calls me out my name, post stuff about me over the internet, talks about me to my boyfriend's family members...
    s0fyl s0fyl
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 31, 2014

    My Boyfriend's Mother Is Insane

    My boyfriend's mother gave birth to her son (my boyfriend) when she was 32, she had him out of wedlock with a man she slept with, without using protection, because she thought she couldn't get pregnant because she had one of her ovaries removed, and apparently did not care about...
    darlingmarmalade darlingmarmalade
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2011

    She Is My Polar Opposite.

    My boyfriend and I have been on and off for a few years and I know I shouldn't let the way I feel about his mother affect me but I can't help it...I hate her and I don't hate easily. I've been raised by a strong working mother who taught me the value of money...she's on benefits...
    1 Response Jan 12, 2013

    My boyfriend's mother constantly blames me

    for her son not being a "family man" anymore. The only reason he was a family man before is because she moved him around five times in four years to follow her boyfriend around the country. And so when he came back to where he had me and friends he started being social again...
    BabyGrasshopper BabyGrasshopper
    18-21, F
    Aug 27, 2014

    My Own Boyfriend's Controlling Mother...

    Boyfriend: 23 Me: 22 Boyfriend’s parents divorced and remarried, Mother controlling, step-dad puppet, Father not really in the picture as far as this goes. I know it's a common one but I haven't found any stories to the same degree as mine and I would like advice. My...
    ginkosanjo ginkosanjo
    22-25
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2010

    The Egyptian Life...

    I don't even know where to start. My boyfriend is Egyptian, I am white. We're both 21. I love him so much he's like my best friend. We have the world In common. Since we live an hour and a half away, and I had a not so good home life, his mom told me I could move in with them. So...
    Amberlynn8682 Amberlynn8682
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

    Never Cut the Umbilical Cord I Guess..

    My boyfriend and I got pregnant a mere 7 months into our relationship. Up until that point, everything had been fun and games between us and things between his mother and I had been decent. But once I got pregnant everything changed between us! Faced with the seriousness of...
    Deepthinker321 Deepthinker321
    22-25
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2009

    She's incredibly intrusive on his business.

    I have been dating my boyfriend for close to two years, and she had been whining the entire time. Now, I understand that she's his only son and that he's the only family she has left. However, it's due to her own stubborn and self-righteous ways that she's pushing him away from...
    mergern07 mergern07
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 30, 2014

    My bfs mom is so jealous

    and crazy. After 2 years of dating she still acts the same. She gets sad when my bf says hes going to my house, and gets mad when he goes out to dinner with my family. When we are at his house, she complains when we dont hangout with her. She started ignoring me too. When I...
    madisonhayes123 madisonhayes123
    26-30, F
    Nov 2, 2014

    She Thinks She's A Saint

    I never wanted to be that girl who despises my boyfriend's mother, and I never have been -- until now. I have tried so many times to make myself like her, but it's no use, we just aren't compatible. She is a very conservative Christian woman with very traditional family values...
    Iridescence Iridescence
    22-25, F
    Sep 9, 2013

    She Treat Him Like A Baby Boy

    she don't want his son out late at night.. he's 23 years old come on! during Friday nights or Saturday nights when we go out on dates, his mother will txt or call him to go home, ask where he was, whom he with, etc. .(my boyfriend still live in their family home with his mother...
    derica40 derica40
    18-21, F
    Oct 2, 2011

    My Boyfriends Mom Is Extremely Controlling!

    Okay, so I'm 16 and my BF is 18. We have an AMAZING relationship! We've been together for almost two years, there is just one problem...his mom. She is a teacher at our high school and she is extremely old fashioned about EVERYTHING! My boyfriend is her only son out of three kids...
    taycole2014 taycole2014
    16-17
    3 Responses Jan 7, 2012

    my boyfriend's mom isn't the worst person in

    the world. I wanted to say that before I continue, but believe me, I have my reasons for detesting her. my bf and I have been dating for about two years. he moved in with me after about six months because she's a hoarder. she did not like that, so she began to fill his perfect...
    nofadda nofadda
    22-25, F
    Jan 17, 2015

    My Boyfriends Mom Is Difficult

    My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now we got together when I was 14 he was 16. His mom was okay and nice at first and she still is sometimes she just chooses when. She would slowly start showing sparks here and there saying hurtful things towards him me and us as a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 19, 2012

    She Messed Him Up Good!!

    The saying goes that a man who treats his woman like a princess is proof that he was raised in the arms of a queen. Definitely not the case for my recently titled ex boyfriend and his mother, the two of them make me sick. Recently she came to our house unannounced, and I was away...
    Donnawallsucks Donnawallsucks
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2013

    She is the most hypocritical person I know.

    Her self awareness is so low that it is sometimes comical. She has been working a late shift at her knew job (from 3 to 11pm). I work from 10am to 5pm, so I haven't seen much of her lately. I knew something was up with her when she stopped poking her head isn't mine and my...
    MaddiePaddie20 MaddiePaddie20
    18-21, F
    Mar 18

    Good God.

    I am 15 and so is my boyfriend. At first, his mother and I got along- I think she just assumed we wouldn't last, seeing as how I'm his first girlfriend. Now we've been together 10 months, and she keeps finding little ways to keep us apart. She's always saying we can't hangout...
    syruppe syruppe
    13-15
    1 Response Jun 8, 2010

    So Much Hate For The Mother !

    I been with my boyfriend for 3months & when I first met his mom , she was very rude & nasty .. as I started being around her house more ' she will joke around & throw rude comments to me all the time .. Then I told my boyfriend to talk to her about it & at first he didn't want to...
    Stacksxo Stacksxo
    16-17
    Dec 18, 2012

    My Boyfriends Mother Needs To Back Off!

    I've been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years and at this point and time I cannot stand his crazy physco mother. In the beginning of our relationship she used to live out of state and eventually separated from my boyfriends father because he cheated on her. Rightfully so...
    rminopoli rminopoli
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Mar 5, 2012

    She's Making This Relationship Hard

    She's called me every name under the sun. I took her yelling at me the two times but this time it's gone too far and he expects me to just brush it underneath the rug and forget. But she called me a **** most recently and I can not stand her any longer. I want to cry every night...
    minxxx minxxx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2010

    My boyfriends mother is.

    ..unique. She grew up similar to my mother but turned out oh so different. I moved in with my boyfriend and his mother because I was having issues with my own mom. I wanted to drop out of college, my mom was receiving money from my dad to care for me while I was in school but if...
    MaddiePaddie20 MaddiePaddie20
    18-21, F
    Mar 4

    His Mother Hates Mine

    My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years! We are very young but we try. Last weekend I went to dinner with his mom and aunt( I really don't like his aunt for other reasons). My mom told me she wanted me home early which I told his mom and my boyfriend, and they said...
    Ag427 Ag427
    16-17
    Nov 10, 2012

    I don't know how to start this.

    My boyfriends mother is ******* insane. literally insane. She whines so much when she doesn't get her way and acts like an evil ***** and tries to destroy everything in her way to get what she wants. It's ridiculous. She doesn't accept her son for the way he is. She continually...
    carliejohanna carliejohanna
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    My boyfriends mother is crazy.

    He just says she's crazy because she's on depression medicine and it's the medicine doing it. Well its not. My boyfriend has a 5 year old daughter from his ex. And his daughter is such a spoiled brat because of his mother. I can't stand his daughter either. His mom is nosy and...
    Porsha14 Porsha14
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2014

    I Am Not Your Mother!

    So i've been with my boyfriend for five months as of today. And my boyfriend isn't "constantly" but certainly often enough comparing me to his mother. Like the other day, I bought a purse.. It's a cute little Betsey Johnson bag. He sees it and says "You know, this is kind of...
    cowboykiller cowboykiller
    18-21
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

    Help Forever Like This?

    My boyfriend and I have been together for one year and a half I have met all of his family and they all seem to like me. However his mom who is divorced from his dad and has now remarried doesn't. Her new husband is very wealthy and I am not, I come from middle class family. I...
    connecticutgirl1 connecticutgirl1
    26-30
    Jun 15, 2012

    I Do Not Even Know What To Do Anymore...

    I have been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months, and we get along pretty well. I thought at first we would not stand a chance since he grew up in a Christian home, and I in different foster homes. We did start "dating" before his parents even knew. His parents are fairly...
    dragonfly9293 dragonfly9293
    18-21
    Dec 10, 2012

    I Hate My Boyfriends Mom

    Me and my boyfriend have nearly been going out for 7 months, I thought that everything was fine with us and the things started to crack in mine and his relationship not due to us though but due to his mom now me and his mom did originally get on extremely well but then all of a...
    Taddeigay Taddeigay
    18-21
    1 Response Jun 13, 2011

    I can honestly say that there is no one I hate

    more in this world than my boyfriend's mother. Jake and I are both 20 and living at his home with his parents and 18 year old sister. I have never witnessed so much favouritism in my life. His sister Amanda is very bright and despite Jake's parents not earning a lot of money...
    Camellias125 Camellias125
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 1, 2015

    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for over two years... We are in a long distance relationship because a year and a half ago he left for college...we are both 19. His mom has a lot of mental issues...she is very emotionally unstable. if he hangs out with me and my family too much or I go visit him she gets very...
    hehehahahohohihi hehehahahohohihi
    18-21, F
    Feb 17, 2015

    Alright...so maybe hate is a strong word.

    But honestly, the way this woman treats me pissed off...wait for this...HER OWN MOTHER. I have done nothing but kiss *** to this woman. I have been with my boyfriend for well over a year now. I am his first serious girlfriend. I have maybe seen this woman 20 times, and I have...
    mcc1109 mcc1109
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2014

    My Boyfriend's Mom

    Healthy eating and exercise are very important in my life. My boyfriend's mother is severly obese and politically conservative. She refuses to talk about anything related to health or getting in to shape and acts like she knows everything. I go along with it because I love my...
    TeeBoeBee TeeBoeBee
    22-25
    1 Response May 21, 2012

    She is the most manipulative,

    fake and nasty person I have ever met. She doesn't like me or approve of our connection despite putting on a nice fake side in front of him. As soon as he is not around or she can't use me to buy her smokes, food and grog she is a sour evil *****. I have tried so hard to get...
    GoldenDuck GoldenDuck
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 24

    Babys Her Son To Much I Hate My Boyfriends Mom

    Where do i start.. well me and boyfriend have been Dating for 2years and In the begining everything was Perfect but then He Cheated on me and his mom looked at me like i was a ***** for getting upset and breaking up with him and then iit gave him another chance then Ever since...
    foreverAday foreverAday
    22-25, F
    Sep 24, 2013

    She Is So Controlling..

    Currently my boyfriend and I are on a "break". Because of his mother. I mean, I like his mom and all..I just..I really wish that she would stop caring about our TWO YEAR age difference (which is not a lot at all). My parents accept it and they love him and treat him...
    baiserisole baiserisole
    18-21
    6 Responses Jul 10, 2008

    A few weeks ago I posted about me

    and my bf moving into a place soon and another post about her being to intrusive in her sons life and mine. This is an update. Ok..for the past few weeks me and my bf have been discussing things that we need and and want for the house, in general for the move. Not to mention...
    choxie22 choxie22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2014

    My boyfriend is the most amazing person

    that I have ever met. But his mother is something else. Him and I have only been dating for a littler over 5 months, but I'm so over dealing with her. The first time was when I had to go to the airport which was 4 hours away and I asked him to take me. Well his whole family...
    theblackgirlsid theblackgirlsid
    22-25
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    Okay, I don't hate her

    but I do have a strong disliking for some of her ways. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years. During that first year at the beginning, his mother seemed to like me. We would talk about art, clothes, girl stuff, food etc etc. I could see that my bf also enjoyed it...
    choxie22 choxie22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2014

    I had the opportunity to run her over

    once when I was driving out of our driveway. Would've barely been a bump to my Jeep. But alas, I did not. Nice to think about but never really could. Wish she'd make herself more scarce. Instead of trying to get closer to him since we started dating! He told me he never talked...
    Alexz72 Alexz72
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2015

    I miss my bf so bad..

    . I hate how his mom hates my guts and won't even let me in her house because, she kept making sarcastic comments about me to him behind my back and at me in person like I wouldn't catch it... And I kind of got sick of it and took up for myself since my bf didn't want to make...
    athenalovlies athenalovlies
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 1, 2014

    I Don't Understand

    ((I just need to vent right now and I know I haven't posted in a while so here it goes)) I have been dating my long distance boy friend for four n a half months (I know he hasn't cheated because he isn't the best looking guy in the world I love him for his personality)- anyways...
    jackcook02 jackcook02
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2010
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