I Hate My Brother-in-law

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    I Hate My Sister's Husband!

    So my brother in law (my sister's husband) is the world's biggest jackass, I really cant stand him, either can my family. so they have been married for 8 years now with two kids, he hits her, and threatens the kids with a belt, and hits them sometimes, one time he hit his 3 year...
    j1202 j1202
    6 Responses Jun 29, 2010

    He's not my brother-in-law yet

    but he will be. I cannot stand him! He is rude and inconsiderate. He is stupid. He treats his mother and brother like ****. I just can't stand it. I could rant about him for hours. My fiancé won't be able to come to Thanksgiving but I am still going to go to his mom's house...
    Jeradactyl Jeradactyl
    26-30, F
    Nov 18, 2014

    Jobless Useless

    Where do i start. He is in his thirties. not working not married. He is not able to do anything properly. He is around always when I want to spend time with my husband. No Privacy. he doesnt spend a penny or dollar on anything. I wish he was not staying with us..and runining my...
    fedupofleech fedupofleech
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2010

    The Worst Brother-in-law Ever...

    When I first met my so-called brother-in-law my husband and weren't married. It was actually when my husband and I first began dating. My first impression of him is that he seem very friendly and curious about who I was. I remember going to a New Years Eve party with him and my...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 10, 2013

    The Ferret

    As soon as my sister met this a-hole I nicknamed him the Ferret because I am convinced he is part of the weasel family. The following is the top 10 reasons why I will never accept the Ferret as my Brother-in-law. 1. He read my sister's diary, and then questioned her about...
    lemieux lemieux
    Aug 18, 2012

    Why Doesn't He Get the Hint????

    Well, to give you a brief run down first then the story... See when I was going threw a divorce I met a man on the internet. Oh yea, bad shame on me. Anyway, he came to visit me. After three days I hated him. He was clingy, not what his picture looked like, and had more baggage...
    berner4us berner4us
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 6, 2008

    He'S A Douchebag.End Of Story.

    My sister met him when she was a "poser teen" without a made opinion,and her "friends" made her date this sad guy.He,as my mother,had a hard childhood,with heart-less,abusive parents.He steals money from my sister,and as a charismatic ******* that he is,he conviced my mother and...
    passivekitty passivekitty
    18-21, F
    Feb 27, 2013

    Ignorant Bro-In-Law

    I'm so relieved I found this page because I have a bro-in-law I deeply HATE & I really don't like that word! He's such an *******! He treats my sister like garbage. He takes her money, sleeps with other women, brings her back the STD's, hates her kids, never compliments her but...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

    Tweaker Brother In Law Ruining My Marriage

    So my brother in law has been in and out of correctional facilities/jail since he was 14. He is a registered sex offender supposedly due to him exposing himself to a girl in highschool when he was 14 who was questioning and teasing him about his penis size. As the story goes, she...
    heronemisis1 heronemisis1
    5 Responses Mar 23, 2011

    Spoiled Brat

    I really can stand my brother inlaw but I have to prestend to keep the peace. He is the youngest child, has his father's name and just thinks the sun shine out of his *&%*. My hisband loves his broker and I would hate to be the one that breaks up their realtionship. Where...
    urlan urlan
    31-35, F
    Oct 23, 2009

    I Hate My Brother In Law

    help! this is driving me crazy. Ok, so I met my husband 11 years ago (we've been married for 4 now) he has a a sister and a brother who is 10 years apart. His brother was like 13 when I met him and he was cute and we hit it off and he was like my little brother for years. But...
    msblacksunshine msblacksunshine
    36-40, F
    Nov 26, 2013

    I Got You Beat! :)

    My brother-in-law pretty much embodies everything I don't like in another human being ... he's insulting, controlling, impatient, bullish and rude -- safe bet he has never used the word "sorry" in his whole 37-years of life.  I've witnessed my sister, whom I use to admire as a...
    CVTisanahole CVTisanahole
    4 Responses May 11, 2012

    He is an *******. He married my sister

    and disciplines her daughter as if he is the real father. I never liked him and now he is acting like a douche to me just because they are married. He encourages my sister to spank her child for being "bad" but acts super nice around my family. My niece has told me many times...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

    My brother in law has this huge probem with me.

    Just recently I found out that he has being bad mouthing me to his family saying all kinds of things about me. He has absolutly no respect for me and ignores me and even threatens to hit me!!I talked to his brother (my husband) about his attitude towards my but my husband never...
    ayamoiyah ayamoiyah
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2014

    I Cant Stand My Sisters Husband

    i cant stand to be around my sisters husband for more than 10 minutes, all he does is run his mouth about anything and everything, he thinks hes knows it all. he down grades everyone, he treats people like ****. he treats everyone like their stupid.  he likes to fight...
    dsa999 dsa999
    3 Responses Oct 1, 2010

    Disrespectful Nobody!!!

    I lost all respect for my husband's "Adopted" brother.....no blood relation mind you, a few christmas' ago. My husband had went out and spent his hard earned money on buying him a gift that he thought he would like. All his brother could say was I hope you still have...
    picgirl picgirl
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Dec 20, 2007

    Hurtful Brother In Law.

    My brother in law is hurtful and continuously tries to argue. The last straw was he was aruging with me because he was against an anti-rape campaign I had up on my facebook page. He thought it was sexist and wrong and he said some awful things to me about it....even though he...
    munchley77 munchley77
    1 Response Oct 2, 2013

    My brother in law is rude towards me.

    I think that the things he says to my 26yr old sister(his wife) are rude things as well, but my sister says that he is just joking. The things he tells her are: That she is fat. I think that he shouldn't bring that up. She already knows that, so there is no need to frequently...
    intellegentme intellegentme
    26-30, F
    Nov 6, 2014

    I Hate My Brother In Law

    My brother in law (husband's brother) has tried to ruin the relationship between me and my husband since the beginning. I just recently found out that at our wedding he told my sister in law(my husbands sister) that i slept with him! Who would do that? I went on one date with...
    mnn1 mnn1
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 24, 2010

    I Hate My Brother And Sister Inlaw & Anger Taking Over Life

    My partner could not be more different from his brother & sister in law. They are money hungry, snobs vying to be photographed at the opening of an envelope, they put down my hard working and successful boyfriend and our home as they are jealous they are older then us, live in a...
    lauren333 lauren333
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Nov 13, 2013

    My Jacka** Brother In Law

    He is arognant thinks he is only one that matters in life and world revolves around him he has little man syndrome who stabs his family in the back for money self centered loser that I hate the sight of him turns my stomach pathic jerk of a human being....
    mikedes mikedes
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2012

    I Cannot Stand My Metrosexual Brother-in-flaw From Foreston, Mn

    First off, the first time I ever met the skinny creep, he shot me a dirty look and never said a word to me. So I'll always have that terrible first impression of him, as much as I'd like to get rid of it, i really cannot. Then after I really got to know him, I figured out how...
    lwrhbfgw lwrhbfgw
    26-30, F
    Nov 14, 2012

    I have a worthless brother-in-law.

    He is a bigot, a racist, and just all around not a nice guy. He mooches off of my sister and makes no attempts to connect with me or the other members of my family. He and my sister have just had a baby and this pulls my mother out of town to help with the kid pretty...
    unhappywithd unhappywithd
    31-35, F
    Apr 27, 2014

    This guy is 28 years old

    and has never had a job. He just lives off my husbands parents who are elderly and disabled and he contributes nothing. He won't even do dishes. Yet they spend their ssi buying his cigarettes, pot, video games, flat screen etc. Its disgusting. My spouse who works for everything...
    edemylove edemylove
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2014

    ...or rather, he hates me,

    ever since he met me, over 15 years ago. Usually I cause the worst 1st impressions in people, but with time I can get through to them. Not him, though. It seems he made up his mind about me in the first 9 seconds and doesn't give me the benefit of the doubt. I tried everything...
    numisiro numisiro
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

    My brother in law is a manipulative conniver

    and a condescending jerk. We moved from across the country and rented his vacation guest house in the off season while we looked for a new house to resettle at HIS invitation. They (him and sister in law who is also very manipulative as I discovered) also used the house whenever...
    1936xyz 1936xyz
    46-50, M
    Mar 9, 2016

    I only have one thing to say.

    I wish my sister's "husband" would die. I never liked him. My family hates him, I mean everybody. He's rude, he's disrespectful, he treats people (including his "wife") like ****. He's not even married to her, they claim to be married. Just because you got a kid by her doesn't...
    DiamondInTheSkye DiamondInTheSkye
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 29, 2014

    You ever wish someone was aborted?

    I do. I am the fiancee to an Asian immigrant. I live with my fiancee, his mum,dad and two brothers. I hate my brothers in laws. I hate them so much. My fiancee is an amazing hard working man and his brothers couldn't be more of an opposite to him. They are spoiled rotten,lazy...
    lovelessdog lovelessdog
    22-25, F
    Dec 2, 2015

    Days In Hell

    My 30-something daughter and one-year old granddaughter and I were planning a trip back to the mid-west for a visit with the family for the first time in seven years.  Unfortunately, my mother passed away before we could get there, and we had to leave our homes...
    Bonzerino Bonzerino
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2010

    My Brothers In Law = Terrible People

    When I first met my husbands brothers, they were 6,13 and 19 they were very nice and I got along with them well. The first thing my husband (then boyfriend) told me was "Don't talk to my eldest brother (now 25), he is a pig and will try having sex with you" I took his advice (my...
    ashiiiiii ashiiiiii
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 17, 2012

    I Hate Myself For Hating Him So Much

    I absolutely hate my brother in law. His is the most immature inconsiderate person i have ever met. I have known him for 5 years since my hubby and i have been together. In that time he was a failure as a child so joined the military and got married. i thought he was on the right...
    knowinglyhateful knowinglyhateful
    1 Response Nov 24, 2012

    I Wish My Sister Would Leave Him Already

    He's a me me me person. Trying to hold a conversation with him is unbearable, as he'll find any conceivable way to make the conversation about him. He can't handle any sort of criticism. My dad tried to have a heart to heart with him and he just got up and locked himself in...
    cloaked1 cloaked1
    26-30, M
    Jul 16, 2013

    Makes Me Just Wana Puke!

    My sister married this waiste of space. She is sooooooooo smart. So how'd the hell did she wind up with this piece of dog poop under my feet! First of all, they live with my Dad because he refuses to get another job so that they can save to move out on their own. 2nd, he...
    grizzycat grizzycat
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2012

    I Would Love To Cut Him Out Of The Family

    Reasons for dislike of my "future" brother-in-law He's a Jersey Shore wanna-be He doesn't take care of his two kids. He drinks excessively He's an ex-con with domestic violence charges Not to mention, he beats on his current girlfriend He takes steroids...
    CrimsonHoneyB CrimsonHoneyB
    26-30, F
    Feb 7, 2012

    Worst Brother In Law Ever

    Let me tell you about my brother in law ( my husbands brother....unfortunately) . He is the most self centered person in the entire works. He thinks everything revolves around him and he is so good at making my husband feel guilty when he says no to him it is ridiculous. He...
    1290ej 1290ej
    May 6, 2012

    Does your brother-in-law drive you nuts?

    Is he a jerk? Has he done you wrong? I'm casting a new show for SPIKE TV where people who have a rivalry or an issue or some type of "beef" with someone can challenge them to an MMA fight! You will be trained by MMA legends and can settle your differences in the ring. If this...
    CastNow CastNow
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2014

    I need help addressing my own feelings towards

    my Brother-in-law and his girlfriend. Background is needed: ‘H’, the first born of three children, could do no wrong growing up. He was charismatic, outgoing and friendly. Although, his approach to situations were always unorthodox, prompting the family phrase “Hs’ Way...
    unknown2424 unknown2424
    26-30, F
    Feb 24, 2014

    I am 26 weeks pregnant

    and I moved in with my partner who is staying with his older brother, this was because I couldn't continue working anymore as I have severe pregnancy signs and I was really sick. My bf brother and I were cool And fine with each other when ever I came to visit them before I fell...
    Boitymelo Boitymelo
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2014

    Ok so I said I would detail this,

    so I will..........Where to begin He met some ugly fat 11 years older chick whom supposedly he imprenated the same day he met her, basically. I have never believed this was his kid. And neither should anyone else. He looks like mario lopez but both parents are supposedly white...
    individualfreedom individualfreedom
    Apr 21, 2015


    My Brother-in-law might be the most repulsive person I've ever met. I consider myself a laid-back guy and I've never really held a grudge against anyone- bullies and jerks usually just roll off my back. Most are insecure dummies anyways. But as we all know we can't just...
    ChicagoBlaze53 ChicagoBlaze53
    4 Responses Jun 11, 2013

    My Boyfriend's Brother.

    Ok well may as well state that my boyfriend is my life, I plan on marrying him one day so please do not reply "break up". The following is only a brief resume of the hell I've went through in regards to my boyfriend's brother. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship...
    yukia yukia
    4 Responses Sep 24, 2011

    My Brother-In-Law is a drug addict.

    It's hard to believe he and my husband are even related let alone brothers. He has not a single one of the good qualities my husband possesses. I'm irritated at him right now. He ended up in jail-again-and my husband drove up to bail him out-again. Do you see a recurring...
    marinesprincess93 marinesprincess93
    22-25, F
    Feb 28, 2015

    My Sisters Husband Is A Pretentious Douche.

    pre·ten·tious [ pri ténshəss ] 1.self-important and affected: acting as though more important or special than is warranted, or appearing to have an unrealistically high self-image 2.made to look or sound important: intended to seem to have a special quality or...
    ckt79 ckt79
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2013

    I Hate My Brother-In-Law

    I'm so glad I found this, because I feel the same way but I feel so guilty about it. Just need to vent and get it out. When my sister first met her husband, she didn't have the strongest identity. She was a bit of a party girl, rebellious, a free spirit. Now, she's an ultra...
    jainomo jainomo
    31-35, F
    Nov 10, 2013

    Dear Brother-in-law

    I wouldn't say I hate my brother-in-law but I dislike him.  Why?  Cause I am fed up the way he has treated me & others.  I am also fed up the way he wants to control.  In his eyes, no one is good enough.  Well at least that's the way I see it! He has hated me every...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Dec 16, 2010

    My bro in law thought it was okay to cancel

    Christmas lunch five days before Christmas... Than he came and beat the **** out of his brother (my husband) now he thinks he has 'recovery issues' we should address like wtf is wrong with people?
    kin360 kin360
    46-50, F
    Sep 27, 2015

    I really can not stand him he's a dufus .

    And if I need to vent about some jerk , who does nothing but say negative comments about MY FAMILY I will do so .the jerk deserves it you do not talk bad about my family you JERK!!!!!!!!! Some people really have some nerve.
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2016

    I Hate My Pretentious Brother In Law

    I can't stand my pretentious brother in law. He is 53, my sister in law is 35 and I am 31. I understand we come from totally different worlds...and generations...but he's such an ***! He makes no effort to talk to me as a family. Instead of sitting at the table with the rest...
    mssass mssass
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2012

    Eight weeks after my sister killed herself my

    brother-in-law (bil) started having sleep overs with another woman in my sister's house (ie. The house my dad bought for my sister - the house my sister renovated extensively - the house she killed herself in). One month before her suicide, my sister found another woman's...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 18, 2016
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