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I Hate My Brother-in-law

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    I Hate My Brother-In-Law

    I'm so glad I found this, because I feel the same way but I feel so guilty about it. Just need to vent and get it out. When my sister first met her husband, she didn't have the strongest identity. She was a bit of a party girl, rebellious, a free spirit. Now, she's an ultra...
    jainomo jainomo 26-30, F Nov 10, 2013

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    I Hate Him

    He thinks just because I babysit his kid that I'm the maid...I hate him so much...I can't believe my sister left her ex husband for this piece of crap...He always tries to be funny and it's so annoying...he calls me all sorts of names...I wish she would divorce him, their...
    ApatheticBelle ApatheticBelle 18-21, F Oct 5, 2008

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    I Hate My Sister's Husband!

    So my brother in law (my sister's husband) is the world's biggest jackass, I really cant stand him, either can my family. so they have been married for 8 years now with two kids, he hits her, and threatens the kids with a belt, and hits them sometimes, one time he hit his 3 year...
    j1202 j1202 18-21 6 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    The Biggest Pig In the World Is In My House! - Brother In Law!!

    I cannot even begin describing my hatred towards this piece of lard, literally physically. I swear I am coming this close to calling him a 'pig' in person. I hold my sister very close to my heart, and I even imagined once if in the future on her deathbed - she only have one thing...
    benocksg benocksg 31-35 2 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    Why Doesn't He Get the Hint????

    Well, to give you a brief run down first then the story... See when I was going threw a divorce I met a man on the internet. Oh yea, bad shame on me. Anyway, he came to visit me. After three days I hated him. He was clingy, not what his picture looked like, and had more baggage...
    berner4us berner4us 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6, 2008

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    I Hate My Brother And Sister Inlaw & Anger Taking Over Life

    My partner could not be more different from his brother & sister in law. They are money hungry, snobs vying to be photographed at the opening of an envelope, they put down my hard working and successful boyfriend and our home as they are jealous they are older then us, live in a...
    lauren333 lauren333 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    My Jacka** Brother In Law

    He is arognant thinks he is only one that matters in life and world revolves around him he has little man syndrome who stabs his family in the back for money self centered loser that I hate the sight of him turns my stomach pathic jerk of a human being....
    mikedes mikedes 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    I Hate the Guy

    Brother in law, boy where do I start with this guy? He’s definitely a weird one in the family. For years I’ve been put up with this guy bad mouth about me. I mean this dude he talked like he knew all about family life and lecture my wife about astuteness. Which is...
    SaBinh SaBinh 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2008

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    Spoiled Brat

    I really can stand my brother inlaw but I have to prestend to keep the peace. He is the youngest child, has his father's name and just thinks the sun shine out of his *&%*. My hisband loves his broker and I would hate to be the one that breaks up their realtionship. Where...
    urlan urlan 31-35, F Oct 23, 2009

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    Disrespectful Nobody!!!

    I lost all respect for my husband's "Adopted" brother.....no blood relation mind you, a few christmas' ago. My husband had went out and spent his hard earned money on buying him a gift that he thought he would like. All his brother could say was I hope you still have...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 20, 2007

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    Tweaker Brother In Law Ruining My Marriage

    So my brother in law has been in and out of correctional facilities/jail since he was 14. He is a registered sex offender supposedly due to him exposing himself to a girl in highschool when he was 14 who was questioning and teasing him about his penis size. As the story goes, she...
    heronemisis1 heronemisis1 26-30 3 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Rude And Inconsiderate Bil

    Just to give you a little background: I was 18 when I met my now fiance of 6 years and he has an older brother. The BIL is an engineer who makes triple figures and owns homes but lives at home with his dad. When I turned 18 I could not live with my parents anymore so I moved in...
    MissCatalina MissCatalina 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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    The Worst Brother-in-law Ever...

    When I first met my so-called brother-in-law my husband and weren't married. It was actually when my husband and I first began dating. My first impression of him is that he seem very friendly and curious about who I was. I remember going to a New Years Eve party with him and my...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    He'S A Douchebag.End Of Story.

    My sister met him when she was a "poser teen" without a made opinion,and her "friends" made her date this sad guy.He,as my mother,had a hard childhood,with heart-less,abusive parents.He steals money from my sister,and as a charismatic ******* that he is,he conviced my mother and...
    passivekitty passivekitty 16-17, F Feb 27, 2013

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    My Sister's Monster

    I don't even know if its love at first sight. As honestly, at a glance he is quite revolting. With eyes bulging out like a weird fish, those that you were so excited you caught and then you threw it back to the sea cause you can't bear the thought of eating something that could...
    bicepslove bicepslove 18-21 1 Response Jan 11, 2011

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    Sleazy

    My Brother-in-law might be the most repulsive person I've ever met. I consider myself a laid-back guy and I've never really held a grudge against anyone- bullies and jerks usually just roll off my back. Most are insecure dummies anyways. But as we all know we can't just...
    ChicagoBlaze53 ChicagoBlaze53 31-35 4 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    The Ferret

    As soon as my sister met this a-hole I nicknamed him the Ferret because I am convinced he is part of the weasel family. The following is the top 10 reasons why I will never accept the Ferret as my Brother-in-law. 1. He read my sister's diary, and then questioned her about...
    lemieux lemieux 46-50 Aug 18, 2012

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    Days In Hell

    My 30-something daughter and one-year old granddaughter and I were planning a trip back to the mid-west for a visit with the family for the first time in seven years.  Unfortunately, my mother passed away before we could get there, and we had to leave our homes...
    Bonzerino Bonzerino 56-60 2 Responses Oct 5, 2010

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    I Got You Beat! :)

    My brother-in-law pretty much embodies everything I don't like in another human being ... he's insulting, controlling, impatient, bullish and rude -- safe bet he has never used the word "sorry" in his whole 37-years of life.  I've witnessed my sister, whom I use to admire as a...
    CVTisanahole CVTisanahole 31-35 4 Responses May 11, 2012

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    I Cannot Stand My Metrosexual Brother-in-flaw From Foreston, Mn

    First off, the first time I ever met the skinny creep, he shot me a dirty look and never said a word to me. So I'll always have that terrible first impression of him, as much as I'd like to get rid of it, i really cannot. Then after I really got to know him, I figured out how...
    lwrhbfgw lwrhbfgw 26-30, F Nov 14, 2012

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    I Cant Stand My Sisters Husband

    i cant stand to be around my sisters husband for more than 10 minutes, all he does is run his mouth about anything and everything, he thinks hes knows it all. he down grades everyone, he treats people like ****. he treats everyone like their stupid.  he likes to fight...
    dsa999 dsa999 26-30 4 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    My brother in law has this huge probem with me.

    Just recently I found out that he has being bad mouthing me to his family saying all kinds of things about me. He has absolutly no respect for me and ignores me and even threatens to hit me!!I talked to his brother (my husband) about his attitude towards my but my husband never...
    ayamoiyah ayamoiyah 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    My Sisters Husband Is A Pretentious Douche.

    pre·ten·tious [ pri ténshəss ] 1.self-important and affected: acting as though more important or special than is warranted, or appearing to have an unrealistically high self-image 2.made to look or sound important: intended to seem to have a special quality or...
    ckt79 ckt79 31-35 2 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    My Boyfriend's Brother.

    Ok well may as well state that my boyfriend is my life, I plan on marrying him one day so please do not reply "break up". The following is only a brief resume of the hell I've went through in regards to my boyfriend's brother. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship...
    yukia yukia 18-21 4 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Spoiled Brat

    I really can stand my brother inlaw but I have to prestend to keep the peace. He is the youngest child, has his father's name and just thinks the sun shine out of his *&%*. My hisband loves his broker and I would hate to be the one that breaks up their realtionship. Where...
    urlan urlan 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    I Hate My Brother In Law

    My brother in law (husband's brother) has tried to ruin the relationship between me and my husband since the beginning. I just recently found out that at our wedding he told my sister in law(my husbands sister) that i slept with him! Who would do that? I went on one date with...
    mnn1 mnn1 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    ...or rather, he hates me,

    ever since he met me, over 15 years ago. Usually I cause the worst 1st impressions in people, but with time I can get through to them. Not him, though. It seems he made up his mind about me in the first 9 seconds and doesn't give me the benefit of the doubt. I tried everything...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Jobless Useless

    Where do i start. He is in his thirties. not working not married. He is not able to do anything properly. He is around always when I want to spend time with my husband. No Privacy. he doesnt spend a penny or dollar on anything. I wish he was not staying with us..and runining my...
    fedupofleech fedupofleech 26, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2010

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    Dear Brother-in-law

    I wouldn't say I hate my brother-in-law but I dislike him.  Why?  Cause I am fed up the way he has treated me & others.  I am also fed up the way he wants to control.  In his eyes, no one is good enough.  Well at least that's the way I see it! He has hated me every...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    I Wish My Sister Would Leave Him Already

    He's a me me me person. Trying to hold a conversation with him is unbearable, as he'll find any conceivable way to make the conversation about him. He can't handle any sort of criticism. My dad tried to have a heart to heart with him and he just got up and locked himself in...
    cloaked1 cloaked1 22-25, M Jul 16, 2013

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    I Hate Myself For Hating Him So Much

    I absolutely hate my brother in law. His is the most immature inconsiderate person i have ever met. I have known him for 5 years since my hubby and i have been together. In that time he was a failure as a child so joined the military and got married. i thought he was on the right...
    knowinglyhateful knowinglyhateful 22-25 1 Response Nov 24, 2012

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    Makes Me Just Wana Puke!

    My sister married this waiste of space. She is sooooooooo smart. So how'd the hell did she wind up with this piece of dog poop under my feet! First of all, they live with my Dad because he refuses to get another job so that they can save to move out on their own. 2nd, he...
    grizzycat grizzycat 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2012

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    He Is No Fun At All!

    My future bro in law has not the slightest sense of humor! He must be one of those guys who goes into the cellar for a lough and so he does not get cought!
    MiriamOfManassis MiriamOfManassis 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2013

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    I Hate My Creeper Of A Fil From Foreston, Mn

    He's a total creep... he's not only full of himself and a sociopathic attention-hound, but he's also a firefighter and a supervisor of a wood factory-so he thinks he's ALL THAT. Only problem is... HE'S NOT! He walks 'round w/his nose in the air, a condescending attitude, an...
    ugggp1 ugggp1 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2012

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    I Would Love To Cut Him Out Of The Family

    Reasons for dislike of my "future" brother-in-law He's a Jersey Shore wanna-be He doesn't take care of his two kids. He drinks excessively He's an ex-con with domestic violence charges Not to mention, he beats on his current girlfriend He takes steroids...
    CrimsonHoneyB CrimsonHoneyB 26-30, F Feb 7, 2012

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    I am 26 weeks pregnant

    and I moved in with my partner who is staying with his older brother, this was because I couldn't continue working anymore as I have severe pregnancy signs and I was really sick. My bf brother and I were cool And fine with each other when ever I came to visit them before I fell...
    Boitymelo Boitymelo 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    My Brothers In Law = Terrible People

    When I first met my husbands brothers, they were 6,13 and 19 they were very nice and I got along with them well. The first thing my husband (then boyfriend) told me was "Don't talk to my eldest brother (now 25), he is a pig and will try having sex with you" I took his advice (my...
    ashiiiiii ashiiiiii 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    Worst Brother In Law Ever

    Let me tell you about my brother in law ( my husbands brother....unfortunately) . He is the most self centered person in the entire works. He thinks everything revolves around him and he is so good at making my husband feel guilty when he says no to him it is ridiculous. He...
    1290ej 1290ej 18-21 May 6, 2012

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    I Hate My Pretentious Brother In Law

    I can't stand my pretentious brother in law. He is 53, my sister in law is 35 and I am 31. I understand we come from totally different worlds...and generations...but he's such an ***! He makes no effort to talk to me as a family. Instead of sitting at the table with the rest...
    mssass mssass 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    Classic Middle Child

    So how's this. My husband's brother is the middle child, and he embodies every aspect of that. Not only does the world revolve around him, but since my niece was born earlier this year he has become obsessed with our "family persistence". He feels like every week we should be...
    hatemybrotherinlaw hatemybrotherinlaw 31-35 Sep 30, 2012

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    Ignorant Bro-In-Law

    I'm so relieved I found this page because I have a bro-in-law I deeply HATE & I really don't like that word! He's such an *******! He treats my sister like garbage. He takes her money, sleeps with other women, brings her back the STD's, hates her kids, never compliments her but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I only have one thing to say.

    I wish my sister's "husband" would die. I never liked him. My family hates him, I mean everybody. He's rude, he's disrespectful, he treats people (including his "wife") like ****. He's not even married to her, they claim to be married. Just because you got a kid by her doesn't...
    DiamondInTheSkye DiamondInTheSkye 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I Hate My Brother

    one thime my brother jay he hit me and said to my mom that i hit him and then he hit me and i said to my mom that he hit and he said he did not
    Taysia Taysia 16-17 Nov 1, 2012

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    Giving Up...can't Find Peace With Sociopath Bil And His Kids

    So, I met my husband a little over 7 years ago. We both were divorced and we each had custody of our children. My son was 18 at the time and ready to move out. His son was 13 years old and had some noticeable developmental challenges. By the time we became engaged, it was...
    KajaHoliday KajaHoliday 36-40 Nov 16, 2012

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    This guy is 28 years old

    and has never had a job. He just lives off my husbands parents who are elderly and disabled and he contributes nothing. He won't even do dishes. Yet they spend their ssi buying his cigarettes, pot, video games, flat screen etc. Its disgusting. My spouse who works for everything...
    edemylove edemylove 22-25, F Aug 7

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    I need help addressing my own feelings towards

    my Brother-in-law and his girlfriend. Background is needed: ‘H’, the first born of three children, could do no wrong growing up. He was charismatic, outgoing and friendly. Although, his approach to situations were always unorthodox, prompting the family phrase “Hs’ Way...
    unknown2424 unknown2424 22-25, F Feb 24

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    Hurtful Brother In Law.

    My brother in law is hurtful and continuously tries to argue. The last straw was he was aruging with me because he was against an anti-rape campaign I had up on my facebook page. He thought it was sexist and wrong and he said some awful things to me about it....even though he...
    munchley77 munchley77 31-35 Oct 2, 2013

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    I have a worthless brother-in-law.

    He is a bigot, a racist, and just all around not a nice guy. He mooches off of my sister and makes no attempts to connect with me or the other members of my family. He and my sister have just had a baby and this pulls my mother out of town to help with the kid pretty...
    unhappywithd unhappywithd 31-35, F Apr 27

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    I Hate My Brother In Law

    help! this is driving me crazy. Ok, so I met my husband 11 years ago (we've been married for 4 now) he has a a sister and a brother who is 10 years apart. His brother was like 13 when I met him and he was cute and we hit it off and he was like my little brother for years. But...
    msblacksunshine msblacksunshine 31-35, F Nov 26, 2013

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