I Hate My Dad For Leaving Me When I Needed Him

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    No Longer There

    My father passed away along time ago when I was still walking around in diapers, he had sex with another women and contradict aids, my father later died about a year after. I hated him for it as much as I loved him, but because he never thought about the future consequences he...
    nerdystars nerdystars
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2010

    Always A Let Down

    So ye, my dad has never been around much in my life. He was always working and he just never seemed bothered about spending time with me and my brothers. Couple of years later my parents split up, for once in his life he was there for us which was great. Then he met my step mum...
    abbiejanelou abbiejanelou
    18-21, F
    Aug 13, 2012

    A Father, Or A Stranger?

    One of the greatest wake up calls a girl can ever get is my mom knocking on my bedroom door saying "Can you come down stairs so I can talk to you?". I already knew what it was because I over heard them talking the night before. But I didn't want to believe it. I always said how...
    dressagediva3 dressagediva3
    Nov 9, 2012

    My Father Sold Me Off.

    About 2 years ago I moved to a different town about an hour away from my home town where I grew up. My parents divorced when I was 10 but I still got to see him all the time because we all lived in the same town. My dad owns a very successful logging business in my home town so...
    comepleteunknown comepleteunknown
    18-21, F
    Oct 25, 2011

    Should I Feel Guilty?

    Okay, dont really know how to start but ... Four days ago (when it's christmas in sweden) I finally had enough of my dad. I don't know what happened or why it all just came up to the surface, but i decided that i was gonna write him an email, telling him that i didn't want to...
    JennyxPlague JennyxPlague
    18-21, F
    Dec 28, 2010

    My Dad Left Me Atage 6

    I am THEDRAGONSFIRE and this is why I hate my dad. My mum and dad had been trying to have babies before I was born but they all miss varied, sometimes I wonder why dad bother if he was only just going to leave me in the near future. My mum has always been my idol and inspiration...
    TheDragonsFire TheDragonsFire
    Mar 30, 2012

    Not Enough Love For Me

     My Dad...My ***** donor. He is a part of why I am breathing today. He is the reason I can't trust guys. He is the reason I hate my life and why I have such little self respect. My sister died when I was young and my father never showed up. He divorced my mom after he...
    sadblueyes sadblueyes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 17, 2009

    He Dosnt Care Anymore

    about 5 months ago now, i was sexually assulted by my stepbrother. nateraly i took it to the police. when the story came out to my father Kent, he didnt belive me and said to the officers " Hailee is nothing but a lieing little *****." he took his wife megans side again like he...
    neverdaddyslittlegirl93 neverdaddyslittlegirl93
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2011


    I never wanted to do this. I never wanted to be part of the statistic that says kids are affected by divorce. When my dad left, without any warning, I was tough. I kept my thoughts to myself. I only cried when I absolutely had to. In the beginning, my dad was my best friend. We...
    nillwikki nillwikki
    3 Responses Jun 27, 2009

    My Past

    It was 1n 1996. I was one years old. I heard my mom and my dad arguing. I started to cry and cry. My dad said " Im tired of this Crystal" My mom grabbed a beer bottle and threw it at him only missing his head by an inch. Then hse grabbed his gun and tried to shoot him until my...
    Arii96 Arii96
    13-15, F
    Mar 6, 2010


    i can't believe my dad was the first to break my heart. he has made me so insecure it's crazy. i can't trust guys, or anyone for that matter. i'm so scared everyone is going to leave when i need them now. My dad lost his job a few years back and he brought my family so far down...
    daddysgirl407 daddysgirl407
    Jul 29, 2009

    My Father Never Cared.

    I am fourteen and i have as much more experience with life than i should have. I can honestly say my father missed out and at the same time ruined my childhood. Although i am still young my father has ruined my youth. My father was a drugdealer since i was 7 till i was 13. I...
    btd1 btd1
    Mar 20, 2012


    I've always told myself I wouldn't become one of those little teenagers who wrote in their diary about hating dad. No this isn't a rant about how daddy won't buy me those pretty shoes at. Payless. This is about the father I've always wanted but never had. My dad left me at a...
    TeenageDelinquent TeenageDelinquent
    13-15, F
    Jun 22, 2012

    Fb Really!!!

    i need to vent this out im 19yrs old.. i have never had a time to share with my donor (real dad) i never had a father figure or someone i can call dad.. never had it and ever will, and im sorry if i dont write this in chronological order but its how its coming out, he was ever...
    NoNameVerification NoNameVerification
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2012

    Heart Ache

    I'm a learning disabled adult with a younger sister a few years ago my father seperated from my mother because she was disabled and moved into a house with me and my sister for like a year and a half a month ago my father left me and my sister for another woman!! she was...
    laucol laucol
    Oct 13, 2010

    I Hate My Real Dad

    My dad and mom left each other when i was 2 and i never had a father and daughter relationhip i wish i was here for me while i going though high school . and i hate how he just gave up his rights dont he understand you kid going to find you sooner or latter ,. it would have been...
    worldkeepgoing worldkeepgoing
    Sep 9, 2012

    My mom moved away and my dad got a new

    girlfriend, I was trying to get him to realize that it felt like she was trying to replace my mom and he kept saying that's not true I got bullied in 5th grade by a boy on the bus and my dad didn't do anything then either Now 2 years after I moved in with my mom and away from...
    HeRuinedMyLife HeRuinedMyLife
    18-21, F
    Aug 26, 2015

    T.t I Dnt Know If I Should Hate Him ....

    ....my mom tried to abort me so they take me and i had to live with my granmother....when i was in grade 6 my mom starts to comunicate w me since i want to know who my dad is so i start answering her texts to me.....I was so mad at my mom cause she wouldnt give me any information...
    Heartaches20 Heartaches20
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2012

    Come Home When I'm Grown

    I was 10 years old when I moved from the capital of North Carolina (Raleigh) to a small town with the population of abot 1000 people. My father was a Engineering Staff Sargent in the Mikitary and also a general forman for a tree company. Once we was settled in and life was normal...
    lortricez lortricez
    22-25, F
    Oct 1, 2012

    Turning 20 years old in a few days,

    my mom will be there, my half brother and half sister will be there, my step dad will be there, I mean they always have been. It seems like every year that goes by, I see and hear less of my biological father. I think its been 7 or 8 years since I’ve last heard his voice. Ive...
    jaycee3719 jaycee3719
    22-25, M
    Aug 9, 2014

    T.t I Dnt Know If I Should Hate Him ....

    ....my mom tried to abort me so they take me and i had to live with my granmother....when i was in grade 6 my mom starts to comunicate w me since i want to know who my dad is so i start answering her texts to me.....I was so mad at my mom cause she wouldnt give me any information...
    Heartaches20 Heartaches20
    18-21, F
    Apr 20, 2012

    He Left Me .

    My father was never around when I was born , he didn't start coming into my like til I was about 5 years old and he only did because of the girl he was dating. Then things were good , I had my dad , he got married and had a little boy . But things went wrong and they divorced...
    serenaann serenaann
    Nov 28, 2010

    How Could You?????????????????

    you wonder why we dont talk....you tell my grandmother that i no longer email or text....well its all your fault...years of bottled up anger cause of your inability to stand up for me...and now you blame me...i was only 11 years old...i wouldn't make up a lie to end your...
    idontwannadream idontwannadream
    18-21, M
    Feb 21, 2013

    Hate Him But Can't Stop Loving Him

    My dad has never really been around. My parent divorced when I was 5 and I never really had a "father-daughter "relation with him. I don't even know what a father is suppose to be! That's sad isn't it! I made so many wrong choices because of my lack of father figure in...
    enjoyinglife enjoyinglife
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 30, 2007

    When My Life Went Down Hill

    my dad left me when i was nine. my parents got a divorced and he moved in with his parents for a while which was only a few hours away so it was okay i mean i still got to see him every weekend but then he decided to move to florida and now i see him two months out of the year...
    confusedteen09 confusedteen09
    1 Response Jul 26, 2009
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