I Hate My Dad More Than Anyone Can Understand

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    My dad is just sick in his head ,

    I just hate him, he never was nice to me or whatever, he always manipulates me and he hit me alot of times when i was young and i dont mean just with a flat hand he uses his fist, and sometimes when he hits me i coudnt even breath, he is like a dictator, i just dont like him the...
    jojo12380 jojo12380
    22-25, M
    Jul 5, 2014

    He's The Reason I Self Harm

    I really hate my male parent. He never understands, he never listens, he just shouts and scolds for no apparent reason. He just feels like he actually needs to. He thinks that's the right way to raise children. He thinks the best way to teach discipline is throughout violence. He...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2011

    Nobody Understands!

    People make fun of me for not liking my own farther, but to be honest, he's like a stranger to me. He has three kids, me, my half brother, and half sister. The woman how he had an affair with was barely 16, she couldn't look after her, my farther did nothing, he does not care...
    AngelMingan13 AngelMingan13
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2013

    the reason why when I was born I was the second

    child of to boys, but then my dad decided to break up with Mum that he did not want to know me from that day my life has been heartbroken I got sexually assaulted at age 7 that shot of my life and my brother blamed for Mum and Dad breaking up and I went to boarding schools...
    kittybaby1968age3 kittybaby1968age3
    46-50, M
    Feb 4

    WISHING My Dad Was There

    I HAVE MY REASONS FOR HATING MY FATHER. IM SIXTEEN YEARS OLD...AND I CAN NOT STAND HIM. HE EMBARRASSES ME EVERYDAY. HE TELLS PEOPLE IM A ****. HE EMBARRASSES ME IN FRONT OF MY BOSS. HE YELLED AT ME FOR SITTING DOWN. I CANT EAT RIGHT I CANT SLEEP BECAUSE HE IS YELLING AT ME. WHEN...
    desir3maxx desir3maxx
    16-17
    8 Responses Aug 1, 2008

    This Group Title Fits Me Perfectly

    My mom is a very smart, hardworking, responsible, loving parent. My dad is the opposite. Every time I try to explain to someone why I hate my dad...try to get a bit closer to that person, try to have them understand...they all end up judging me as a spoiled brat. Every time I...
    cherrynkinnz cherrynkinnz
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2009

    Who Do I Wish "Happy Fathers Day?"

    Tomorrow is June 16th.All the happy kids in the world will be celebrating Fathers Day but ooh! poor me! I have no one to wish or even call a father and wish them a happy fathers day because my own "father" is a shadow and a living dead man in my life! I so hate him and have been...
    Omaweito Omaweito
    26-30, F
    Jun 15, 2013

    well today I went to a program

    and it was those OMG I have major issues programs and I felt like crying bcoz when the leader of the group said the thing about dads I felt like crying so much
    lisathatsthere lisathatsthere
    18-21, F
    Feb 27, 2015

    its hard to explain. I love him

    and I despise him. he's had a drinking problem since before I ever came along. but I have memories of him drinking from the past 13 years starting when I was 4.. my first memories is of him slamming my mom into a wall and him trying to leave us. When I was 5 we were riding home...
    spazzyc spazzyc
    22-25, F
    Jan 26, 2014

    I Might Just Be And Misunderstood Teen But...

    I'm 18 and trying really hard to get into Job core. My father keep telling me to go in and it just seem like no matter what I do isn't good enough. He always says things that hurt me and he always gets really mad when we trying saying (my mother and I) are point of veiw. He blams...
    mastermind109 mastermind109
    22-25
    Jan 10, 2011

    I Hate My Paps

     i hate my dad soooo much. he is a **** head. he always say i gay witch im not and when i ask for help from me he's too ******* lazy! so i don't talk to him at all now. all of my friends think hes  a **** and embarrased the **** out of me. he does nothing for my except...
    soccerdamn93 soccerdamn93
    16-17
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2009

    Daddy?

    i loved my dad but then after i was 10 he started to hate me he called me a fat lazy but head and was very mean the next year he died but idc he was abusive
    cece1obese cece1obese
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2013

    My dad was my idol ..

    But not anymore. In my childhood, I believed him to be the best dad anyone can ever have, the ideal dad who loves to have fun with his kids and his wife, my mother, who still struggles to make him happy though all what he did to her, to me, to my siblings, to the whole family...
    Kurotama Kurotama
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2015

    I Have No Name. Let me start by telling about

    my family's history. Before i was born, my dad found my mom through an internet service. Soon they were married, but my mom wanted a baby. They already had a dog, Wilson, but they got me. I was the main focus of their lives. we lived in NYC at the time, in a small apartment. (we...
    LifeWithoutCheese LifeWithoutCheese
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    Simply Can't Stand My Dad

    I don't know really how to start this so I'm just going to start from the beginning, this will be an abridged version. I have never felt truly loved or wanted by my old-man from my earliest days, whenever he acts like he does love me it is only in front of family and friends but...
    CrippledInside CrippledInside
    22-25
    1 Response Aug 5, 2011

    Lets see where do I begin.

    ... I am 25 years old. I grew up in an abusive domestic household. My mom and dad migrated from Mexico when they were 16 and 17 respectively. When I was 4 my father was probably 21 or 22. Between the ages of 4-8 I remember vividly my father beating my mother, even though I never...
    tlaloc11 tlaloc11
    26-30, M
    Sep 29, 2015

    I Hate My Father More Than Words Can Express

    I hate my dad, but nobody seems to understand that. They're all just like, 'My dad's awesome' and it feels like i've been deprived of having a proper childhood. It started when I was 3, things started going downhill, my father drank a lot, but even when he was sober, he was...
    DazOnTheJazz DazOnTheJazz
    13-15
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2011

    My Dad Lied to Me to Make Me Feel Bad

    Recently, I left open the back door to my house...a few hours later my dad rang me to swear and scream down the phone at me. After this I felt incredibly bad and was angry at myself for making the obvious mistake. A few minutes later my dad rang back and recited everything close...
    dbisashemale dbisashemale
    13-15
    Aug 14, 2009

    I hate my father, mostly

    because I care for him and wish he would love me too. He is sexist and quite arrogant at times. I am sick and tired of living with him but we can no longer have a conversation Without hating one another. He also doesnt want to help me become Independent
    thisgirlfromcostarica thisgirlfromcostarica
    18-21, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    when i was a little girl my dad left my mom

    and i to come to the USA later he brought us here i now my dad hates me too he use to hit me and i dont see him as a father. He never listen to me and he will say anything to my mom to make me look bad. The worst thing is that i see my mom as my best friend but my dad is...
    Cindiortiz9110 Cindiortiz9110
    22-25, F
    Jan 6, 2015

    aslong as i can remember from an early age,

    i did understand that we are all different hence we do things differently due to our own experiences or what we have been taught. however the pain that my dad caused when he always rubbish me (with passion) has always made me angry. somewhere along the line i wondered if his...
    boypacifik207 boypacifik207
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 4, 2014

    I love my dad but we don't get along

    as he has a great persona due to which he thinks he's the most superior person for which I suffer a lot as he blames me for everything , be it my grades when I was in college and now my job and personal life , he even blames me for every small things without knowing the facts...
    Ani1308 Ani1308
    22-25, M
    Jun 3, 2014

    If Only I Could Choose A Different Father

    My father is so irresponsible For the past 13 years, he doesn't have a decent job. He still lives in my grandma's house My sisters and I are studying in exclusive schools and my mom pays for all of it. There were even times that my dad asks me to lend him money. WTF? What kind...
    huangzichen huangzichen
    22-25, F
    Nov 13, 2013

    I Hate My Life

    Dear world, Something happened as you can figure... And a beat of a song came into my mind, I only knew part of a line of the lyrics ‘And this is not where you belong’ that line kept replaying in my mind then the title came to me, it was ‘Headstrong’, so I listened to...
    md22373 md22373
    18-21
    May 12, 2013

    My Dad And The Grocery Store

    This morning, while my dad was actually being reasonable, my mom and I compiled a list of things we needed from the grocery store. It was simple, easy to follow, and since my mom just had foot surgery less than a week ago, my dad and I were supposed to being going. Mind you, we...
    bowman42717 bowman42717
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2012

    I wish I didn't. I don't like to hate anyone

    but here we are. I mean, I knew what he did just not why until a few years ago. what's sicker than a parent who chooses to torture and molest his child? one who ******* planned it before she was even born. he's the worst kind of evil.
    erayn erayn
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 4

    Worst Dad

    My Dad obviously doesn't like any of his children, but only when my mum isn't home. If he's the only one with us he won't allow us to do pretty much anything. No computers no tv, why? Because he has to use them. No friends round either. He's also really good at making weekends...
    1 Response Feb 10, 2013

    Overcoming My Father

    I became my father's verbal punching bag when I was 8 years old. I don't know why he waited until then. He, like all abusers, is a bully. We (my siblings) used to call him the King of Mind Games. He got us all, but he especially seemed to enjoy targeting me. White is black and up...
    sirprincessbuttercup sirprincessbuttercup
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 17, 2013

    My Cruel Dad

    hi i am 17 girl and i hate my dad , i have been hating him for so long . no one ever can talk to him , because he ends up any conversation with a big fight ! he is a professor and he thinks he knows everything , i have never heard from him that he loves me or even like me ! my...
    fnbv fnbv
    16-17
    4 Responses Aug 30, 2011

    I recently had to go to a therapist

    that does hypothesis because my mom didn't understand the anger I have towards my dad, doing the hypothesis I found out that my dad molested me as a kid, my mom has been fighting for custody for 2 years cause my dad wants custody too. We recently found out by police that he had...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 8, 2015

    I'm jealous of the people

    that have parents that try to be their kids friend. It was never that way with my dad. He's so ******* mean.
    maurylight maurylight
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    My Father Has Ruined My Life

    About a year and a half ago my father told me to move back to Florida so I could help him run his business, so I did. I dropped everything. Now I feel like I need to let you in on a little side note.. Well, my father cheated on my mother with a ***** ***** bag and the...
    Cat1188 Cat1188
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2012

    I Wish He Were Dead

    Even though I am an adult, I still have to see my father once in a while and he still an A-hole, still a raving lunatic, and sadistic bastard. He still thrives on berating and insulting others.  It is amazing to me how someone so old can have the stamina to continue...
    avaS avaS
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 21, 2009

    My Horrible Phobia!!

    is the worst! I am 15 year old girl, and he ruins my day just thinking he will not let me wear the clothes I like, I have to be completely covered, if I wear tight jeans or something like that, if I wear a shirt (and he doesnt let me to wear a normat t-shirt) or top that does not...
    majdalinea majdalinea
    18-21
    1 Response Sep 1, 2012

    Father?

    i am only 17 and my dad is a generally good person to everyone but me. he yells at me constantly. if i do one little thing wrong i get severely punished, unless mom finds out. he doesn't get home until about 4:30 and i get home at 3. so i get about an hour and a half without him...
    forgotenangel forgotenangel
    16-17
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2008

    Malaysia

    my dad is sooooo grumpy. he yells at me he even gets mad easily. oh and he pushes people out of the way in the airport. he also walks like he runs.
    lalalalalalalalalalalalal lalalalalalalalalalalalal
    13-15, F
    Jul 26, 2012

    Oh my god, my dad is

    such a horrible person, but people try and tell me it's not that bad and point out the good. He's super religious, he won't let me go towards my own religion but instead pushes me towards his but doesn't take me to church because he doesn't want me exposed to religion. Like, do...
    Scarredforeverbyfather Scarredforeverbyfather
    16-17, F
    Jun 24, 2015

    My Dad Lied and Left and Wished Me Dead

    last easter my mum phoned to say her and my dad had decided to seperate for a while. I am 25 with my own life and so I accepted it fairly well. I have an 11 year old brother who is disabled and is seemed to understand it also. My dad swore no one else was involved but it turns...
    Happy1982 Happy1982
    22-25
    1 Response Mar 20, 2008

    I Am So Sorry

     I am so sorry that the people in this experience have had such a horrible time with their fathers. Someone should apologise to you. Let it be me. I am so sorry that you fine children had to live with uncaring and unresponsive parents. I know you will become fine people...
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    7 Responses Jun 21, 2009

    Dickhead

    *******!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Arrghhhhh!!!!!
    mnbvcxzlkjhgfdsaqwertyuiop mnbvcxzlkjhgfdsaqwertyuiop
    16-17
    1 Response Aug 29, 2012

    I Will Throw A Party When He Dies

    That jerk. He made me help him to grow drugs when I was too young to understand what they were. He abused my mother in front of us, because he knew that she wouldn't fight back if we were looking. He acted like an *** so that my mother would kick him out, meaning that he didn't...
    Sasayaku35 Sasayaku35
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Apr 6, 2013

    His a selfish coward

    that cant face upto things. He comes home most nights drubk out off his face hits my mum and doesnt care. 2 days back broke her arm and my mum just makes excuses to everybody how it hapends. My mums terrified off him and i want her and my 4 younger brothers to leave him to rot...
    Zainb Zainb
    18-21
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2014

    I Hate My Father

    i hate him so much that i cant explain .. he yells at me infront of the people and he says its up to me and if i wanna hit you infront of the people it is also up to me , you're a bad child you're ugly and you dont deserve anything good in this life .. he even took m e and my...
    freakingmiserable freakingmiserable
    16-17
    Aug 13, 2012

    ....

    it all started when my mum and him split up. he blamed my mum for everything! i was eleven and he use to go out and get drunk and leave me on my own all night, he never once asked me how i was or what i was thinking he just let me get on with things on my own. he didnt care...
    babe93 babe93
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 29, 2010
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