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I Hate My Dad More Than Anyone Can Understand

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    My Father Has Ruined My Life

    About a year and a half ago my father told me to move back to Florida so I could help him run his business, so I did. I dropped everything. Now I feel like I need to let you in on a little side note.. Well, my father cheated on my mother with a ***** ***** bag and the...
    Cat1188 Cat1188 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    Father?

    i am only 17 and my dad is a generally good person to everyone but me. he yells at me constantly. if i do one little thing wrong i get severely punished, unless mom finds out. he doesn't get home until about 4:30 and i get home at 3. so i get about an hour and a half without him...
    forgotenangel forgotenangel 16-17 2 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    I Am So Sorry

     I am so sorry that the people in this experience have had such a horrible time with their fathers. Someone should apologise to you. Let it be me. I am so sorry that you fine children had to live with uncaring and unresponsive parents. I know you will become fine people...
    retiredfather retiredfather 61-65, M 8 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    My Dad And The Grocery Store

    This morning, while my dad was actually being reasonable, my mom and I compiled a list of things we needed from the grocery store. It was simple, easy to follow, and since my mom just had foot surgery less than a week ago, my dad and I were supposed to being going. Mind you, we...
    bowman42717 bowman42717 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2012

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    Daddy?

    i loved my dad but then after i was 10 he started to hate me he called me a fat lazy but head and was very mean the next year he died but idc he was abusive
    cece1obese cece1obese 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    I Hate My Life

    Dear world, Something happened as you can figure... And a beat of a song came into my mind, I only knew part of a line of the lyrics ‘And this is not where you belong’ that line kept replaying in my mind then the title came to me, it was ‘Headstrong’, so I listened to...
    md22373 md22373 16-17 1 Response May 12, 2013

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    Simply Can't Stand My Dad

    I don't know really how to start this so I'm just going to start from the beginning, this will be an abridged version. I have never felt truly loved or wanted by my old-man from my earliest days, whenever he acts like he does love me it is only in front of family and friends but...
    CrippledInside CrippledInside 22-25 1 Response Aug 5, 2011

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    I Wish He Were Dead

    Even though I am an adult, I still have to see my father once in a while and he still an A-hole, still a raving lunatic, and sadistic bastard. He still thrives on berating and insulting others.  It is amazing to me how someone so old can have the stamina to continue...
    avaS avaS 26-30 4 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    I Hate My Father More Than Words Can Express

    I hate my dad, but nobody seems to understand that. They're all just like, 'My dad's awesome' and it feels like i've been deprived of having a proper childhood. It started when I was 3, things started going downhill, my father drank a lot, but even when he was sober, he was...
    DazOnTheJazz DazOnTheJazz 13-15 2 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    I love my dad but we don't get along

    as he has a great persona due to which he thinks he's the most superior person for which I suffer a lot as he blames me for everything , be it my grades when I was in college and now my job and personal life , he even blames me for every small things without knowing the facts...
    Ani1308 Ani1308 22-25, M Jun 3

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    I Really Hate My Dad, and I'm Ok With That....

    My dad is the worst.  He beat my mom, me and my brothers. We lived in filth and poverty while my parents were married.  He drank all the money away.  I was always dirty.  My mother is defeated and sometimes talks about missing him.  He called her...
    wildannaweset wildannaweset 26-30 1 Response May 7, 2009

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    If Only I Could Choose A Different Father

    My father is so irresponsible For the past 13 years, he doesn't have a decent job. He still lives in my grandma's house My sisters and I are studying in exclusive schools and my mom pays for all of it. There were even times that my dad asks me to lend him money. WTF? What kind...
    huangzichen huangzichen 18-21, F Nov 13, 2013

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    My dad is just sick in his head ,

    I just hate him, he never was nice to me or whatever, he always manipulates me and he hit me alot of times when i was young and i dont mean just with a flat hand he uses his fist, and sometimes when he hits me i coudnt even breath, he is like a dictator, i just dont like him the...
    jojo12380 jojo12380 18-21, M Jul 5

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    My Horrible Phobia!!

    is the worst! I am 15 year old girl, and he ruins my day just thinking he will not let me wear the clothes I like, I have to be completely covered, if I wear tight jeans or something like that, if I wear a shirt (and he doesnt let me to wear a normat t-shirt) or top that does not...
    majdalinea majdalinea 18-21 1 Response Sep 1, 2012

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    I Might Just Be And Misunderstood Teen But...

    I'm 18 and trying really hard to get into Job core. My father keep telling me to go in and it just seem like no matter what I do isn't good enough. He always says things that hurt me and he always gets really mad when we trying saying (my mother and I) are point of veiw. He blams...
    mastermind109 mastermind109 18-21 Jan 10, 2011

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    This Group Title Fits Me Perfectly

    My mom is a very smart, hardworking, responsible, loving parent. My dad is the opposite. Every time I try to explain to someone why I hate my dad...try to get a bit closer to that person, try to have them understand...they all end up judging me as a spoiled brat. Every time I...
    cherrynkinnz cherrynkinnz 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    Dad

    i dont really understand him, my mum says hes a bad egg, my aunties all tell me stuff hes done wrong, i used to love him when i was like 4 then he ended up in prison and lied to me about it for ears told me he was at the train station or in the pub (the pub i could believe) HE...
    hatered22 hatered22 13-15 Aug 18, 2011

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    its hard to explain. I love him

    and I despise him. he's had a drinking problem since before I ever came along. but I have memories of him drinking from the past 13 years starting when I was 4.. my first memories is of him slamming my mom into a wall and him trying to leave us. When I was 5 we were riding home...
    spazzyc spazzyc 18-21, F Jan 26

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    Nobody Understands!

    People make fun of me for not liking my own farther, but to be honest, he's like a stranger to me. He has three kids, me, my half brother, and half sister. The woman how he had an affair with was barely 16, she couldn't look after her, my farther did nothing, he does not care...
    AngelMingan13 AngelMingan13 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    My Cruel Dad

    hi i am 17 girl and i hate my dad , i have been hating him for so long . no one ever can talk to him , because he ends up any conversation with a big fight ! he is a professor and he thinks he knows everything , i have never heard from him that he loves me or even like me ! my...
    fnbv fnbv 16-17 4 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    He's The Reason I Self Harm

    I really hate my male parent. He never understands, he never listens, he just shouts and scolds for no apparent reason. He just feels like he actually needs to. He thinks that's the right way to raise children. He thinks the best way to teach discipline is throughout violence. He...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    My Dad Lied to Me to Make Me Feel Bad

    Recently, I left open the back door to my house...a few hours later my dad rang me to swear and scream down the phone at me. After this I felt incredibly bad and was angry at myself for making the obvious mistake. A few minutes later my dad rang back and recited everything close...
    dbisashemale dbisashemale 13-15 Aug 14, 2009

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    "i Love You Daddy." Not.

    I'm just an ordinary girl and this is just my vent outlet for a man I wish I didn't need to despise. I know many other people who suffer worse family backgrounds so I am by no means trying to make a big deal out of my own. I'm sorry if this turns out to be quite negative. My...
    Aliceinwonderlandx Aliceinwonderlandx 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Overcoming My Father

    I became my father's verbal punching bag when I was 8 years old. I don't know why he waited until then. He, like all abusers, is a bully. We (my siblings) used to call him the King of Mind Games. He got us all, but he especially seemed to enjoy targeting me. White is black and up...
    sirprincessbuttercup sirprincessbuttercup 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    His a selfish coward

    that cant face upto things. He comes home most nights drubk out off his face hits my mum and doesnt care. 2 days back broke her arm and my mum just makes excuses to everybody how it hapends. My mums terrified off him and i want her and my 4 younger brothers to leave him to rot...
    Zainb Zainb 18-21 2 Responses Jun 4

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    I Hate My Paps

     i hate my dad soooo much. he is a **** head. he always say i gay witch im not and when i ask for help from me he's too ******* lazy! so i don't talk to him at all now. all of my friends think hes  a **** and embarrased the **** out of me. he does nothing for my except...
    soccerdamn93 soccerdamn93 16-17 Jul 10, 2009

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    Malaysia

    my dad is sooooo grumpy. he yells at me he even gets mad easily. oh and he pushes people out of the way in the airport. he also walks like he runs.
    lalalalalalalalalalalalal lalalalalalalalalalalalal 13-15, F Jul 26, 2012

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    I Need Advice Or Insight

    my parents have been divorcecd for over 10 years now and I couldnt be more happier that my father is not living here anymore. but i just don't understand how things got this way between us. my mother and sister always saw my dad as the enemy, abut because of my personality i try...
    stefaniexx stefaniexx 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2009

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    I Hate My Paps

     i hate my dad soooo much. he is a **** head. he always say i gay witch im not and when i ask for help from me he's too ******* lazy! so i don't talk to him at all now. all of my friends think hes  a **** and embarrased the **** out of me. he does nothing for my except...
    soccerdamn93 soccerdamn93 16-17 2 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    My Dad Lied and Left and Wished Me Dead

    last easter my mum phoned to say her and my dad had decided to seperate for a while. I am 25 with my own life and so I accepted it fairly well. I have an 11 year old brother who is disabled and is seemed to understand it also. My dad swore no one else was involved but it turns...
    Happy1982 Happy1982 21-25 1 Response Mar 20, 2008

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    I Hate My Father

    i hate him so much that i cant explain .. he yells at me infront of the people and he says its up to me and if i wanna hit you infront of the people it is also up to me , you're a bad child you're ugly and you dont deserve anything good in this life .. he even took m e and my...
    freakingmiserable freakingmiserable 16-17 Aug 13, 2012

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    WISHING My Dad Was There

    I HAVE MY REASONS FOR HATING MY FATHER. IM SIXTEEN YEARS OLD...AND I CAN NOT STAND HIM. HE EMBARRASSES ME EVERYDAY. HE TELLS PEOPLE IM A ****. HE EMBARRASSES ME IN FRONT OF MY BOSS. HE YELLED AT ME FOR SITTING DOWN. I CANT EAT RIGHT I CANT SLEEP BECAUSE HE IS YELLING AT ME. WHEN...
    desir3maxx desir3maxx 16-17 8 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    I Cant Take It

    I am over 20 now.. but he still treats me as if i were 10. He is constantly telling me i am an idiotic looser, and that i will accomplish nothing in life.... I have no idea where he gets this from because i have a 4.0 GPA and am top of my class... nevertheless none of that...
    amgara amgara 18-21 2 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    He Hurts.

    My dad is an alcoholic. He's also a very angry drunk. He always takes it out on me and my mom. I have to constantly wear sweaters to hide all my bruises. I hate him more then anything in the world.
    imtheuglyduckling imtheuglyduckling 13-15, F Jul 25, 2012

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    I Hate Him!!!!!!

    my dad is sooo embaracing xC..i dont even love him .. he always promises me that he's ganna buy me something i want and then when i tell my friends he always cancel's on me!!! OHHHHHH...i wish he woulden exist anymore...
    Mexxx Mexxx 13-15, F Sep 5, 2009

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    Who Do I Wish "Happy Fathers Day?"

    Tomorrow is June 16th.All the happy kids in the world will be celebrating Fathers Day but ooh! poor me! I have no one to wish or even call a father and wish them a happy fathers day because my own "father" is a shadow and a living dead man in my life! I so hate him and have been...
    Omaweito Omaweito 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2013

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    ....

    it all started when my mum and him split up. he blamed my mum for everything! i was eleven and he use to go out and get drunk and leave me on my own all night, he never once asked me how i was or what i was thinking he just let me get on with things on my own. he didnt care...
    babe93 babe93 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2010

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    I'm jealous of the people

    that have parents that try to be their kids friend. It was never that way with my dad. He's so ******* mean.
    maurylight maurylight 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Dickhead

    *******!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Arrghhhhh!!!!!
    mnbvcxzlkjhgfdsaqwertyuiop mnbvcxzlkjhgfdsaqwertyuiop 16-17 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    Worst Dad

    My Dad obviously doesn't like any of his children, but only when my mum isn't home. If he's the only one with us he won't allow us to do pretty much anything. No computers no tv, why? Because he has to use them. No friends round either. He's also really good at making weekends...
    1 Response Feb 10, 2013

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    I Will Throw A Party When He Dies

    That jerk. He made me help him to grow drugs when I was too young to understand what they were. He abused my mother in front of us, because he knew that she wouldn't fight back if we were looking. He acted like an *** so that my mother would kick him out, meaning that he didn't...
    Sasayaku35 Sasayaku35 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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