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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    My mother and I have undergone domestic

    violence. Everything my cruel father has done absolutely goes beyond the scope of our endurance. He doesn't drink, he usually gets angry for no reason and pours out his anger on us. Whenever he flies into a rage, he beats my mother up. My mother doesn't even care about either...
    diidoobiib diidoobiib 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really want to tell him how much i hate him,

    how much pain he's caused me. I'm just so scared whenever i go to i chicken out, like he's still got some kind of hold over me still. my only way of communicating with him is through twitter as well. i wish i had the strength to do what i should do. but i don't. he obviously...
    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I'm probably gonna be grounded from internet

    for a while so I won't be on here. But here's the scoop: I have therapy after Career Development every other week. I was supposed to leave early at 1:15, but forgot to mention I had to leave by then so wound up staying until 1:30. My brother has some college thing to do by 2:20...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M Apr 15

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-17 113 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    my dad is selfish ...

    hes so careless when it comes to my family ..i hate how he pretends to care for us and ends up hurting us ..he makes me feel depressed and insecure every time we meet ..i know its wrong to hate ur father but i do ..and its makes me feel guilty ..i hate how he makes me a bad...
    theredthunder theredthunder 70+, T 19 hrs ago

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    i dont know what he wants ,

    he keeps on mentally torture me and my mom..i had even given all my pocket money to celebrate my parents anniversary bought him expensive gifts, done everything that me and my bro can do but he still fights with us, shouts on my mom, drink heavily..i m fed up of his behavious...
    MysteriousLion MysteriousLion 22-25, M 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Sooo my dad thinks it's ok to hit me,

    like really I'm not 5 anymore :/
    ayannagrant ayannagrant 13-15, F 34 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    My sister was only 7 turning 8,

    this is what I said to my sister “Yea Chelsea you’re going to play dolly house too”. She did not seem to be happy about it. She then told me that it’s not what I thought it was. I didn’t understand what she meant by that. My dad came towards me and put duct tape on my...
    highonsadness highonsadness 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2014

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    You think after these years you wouldn't keep

    lying. Why. Just tell us you hate us and be done. I'm tired of being one of the people to clean your ****. Just admit you hate two out of your three kids. You hate them cause they didn't out how you wanted. Just say it. Just tell us you want nothing to do with us anymore. It'll...
    Bobafettt Bobafettt 18-21, F Apr 16

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    I'm 20 years old and throughout my entire life,

    I've hated my dad... He has no job therefore no income. My mom is the only person working with the exception of me working a part time job. He stays at home all day and basically watches TV & goes on the computer to pass time. He rarely does any chores around the house (He would...
    YZ9404 YZ9404 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 18-21, M 20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    I really need to get this off my chest.

    My dad and I used to be close. Throughout the years he's always cheated on my mom every year around February. As I got older I started to understand everything. Last year I told him if he cheated again, I'd be done with him. And he did it again. He blames my mom like always...
    rodriguez3gamiz rodriguez3gamiz 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    My father has 5 children from 5 different women

    and to add to that he beats up women. He only cares about money and his job. When i was 13 we got into a huge argument, he was so mad he hit me and locked me in the room. I swore from that day on i would NEVER set foot in his house ever again. I HATE MY DAD
    ysabelizade ysabelizade 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 2

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    my daughter and I moved back in with my father

    after I lost my job. we never had the best relationship, he use to beat my sister and I. I have tried to look past everything but instead of physical abuse he mentally and emotionally abuses me now, calling me every name in the book, my daughter has even heard him say he would...
    tiastar89 tiastar89 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    During a conversation,

    my mom asked me: If your dad was dying, would you visit him one last time since you'll never see him again? I said "NOPE" loud and clear and also used tupac's quote "my anger wouldn't let me feel for a stranger". I also went on to say that I'm over the fact I won't have father...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 6 Responses Apr 28

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    Why do dads have to be like this always ,

    almost a high percentage of the people i know have problems with their dad , i mean fathers are supposed to be our backbones our cheerleaders our men our everything, i honestly feel very sad and depressed that i don't feel anything towards my dad i honestly do and i really cant...
    Lifesucks94 Lifesucks94 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 31

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    He has no idea what he's doing.

    I went to search on google for hockey start date and when I typed the H these were the suggestions from the historySome of this stuff is weird like the sex talk and the hammerhead sharks and my brothers search of himself. but seriously who searches for heroin use in teenagers...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 30 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335 18-21, F 6 Responses May 19, 2014

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    Although I don't always hate my dad,

    the only way I can describe what he is like is he is a teaser. He will give me something for helping him or doing well at school or whatever and then a few weeks or even days later, because I've made a silly mistake or forgotten to do something, he'll take it away or sell it on...
    jernst20 jernst20 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    I hate my dad because he dont care about me.

    he never did. i thought that when he cleaned his life up he would start caring about me and my sister. He did noyt care about us after my mom and brother passed away. I dont get it.
    AngelFace28 AngelFace28 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    the amount of mental

    and verbal abuse I've had to go through my whole life, I don't even remember one happy memory with him, what's so ever.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    Why you gotta be so ruuude?

    Don't you know we're human too, Why you gotta be so ruuude? My mom married you anyway -_-
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 82 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    He is an *** and a stranger.

    I do honestly think he loves us as much as he can... But how much is that in actuality? I have no idea. The most affectionate thing he can do is bring home a little something while he's out. Don't get me wrong I appreciate the small gestures- they are the only thing that...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate he, he's just an alcoholic stupid man

    who live for money but my mom give he money to buy vodka she's travelling for i wish he was dead if he dont die I gonna suicidecause I have enough to stay with he in the some house
    rhits rhits 13-15, F Apr 1

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    my dad is always yelling at me

    and my brother and he is never friendly to me, he thinks i'm dumb but he doesn't even know me because he never talks to me, i wish i had a caring and loving father. we have a cat and i always feel like he prefers the cat... i can't take this anymore and i can't talk to him...
    clawaii clawaii 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I don't care about you.

    I don't want to lie and say that I do, but I will until I'm an adult. If I get married and if I choose to have a ceremony, I won't invite you. Mom can choose. If you come, I'll get people to kick you out because you aren't welcomed in any way. I don't want to listen to you. The...
    jiayong jiayong 13-15, F 8 Responses Feb 6

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    Possibly my least favourite guy in the world.

    Recently, he's been sucking up and buying me things. I don't give a sh*t about his gifts. Quite honestly, if he gave me a million, I'd shape it into a rock and throw it to his face. He's been absent since I was like 1 and I'm 21 now. I've moved from place to place because of...
    brokenfixed brokenfixed 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 69 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    I hate how my dad gambles.

    He goes every night almost to the Boats (casino) and he makes me watch the kids. Then his wife (who I hate more then anything) gets mad at me because my step brothers aren't supposed to do this or that, but they do any way. And the only time my dad talks to me is when we fight...
    caitwebb1221 caitwebb1221 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Yeah, there's a rumor going around

    that he's on meth. He just called me asking if he could come pick me up, I told him no, he got pissed and stating saying how it was bullshit and that people needed to stop spreading lies, but I don't think that they are lies. I think he really is on meth. I think he just wants...
    Xplictt Xplictt 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    Whats A Father Anyway?

    my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he has walked into the bathroom while i was taking a shower) he was one person i never wanted to see or spend time with. whenever...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    He always believes the worst of me.

    He hates me and is always pushing me. If my siblings have done something wrong, it always comes back to me because I'm the oldest. He always expects too much and I hate that. I can't be everything that he wants me to be.
    Debora1344 Debora1344 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Don't you ever get that feeling

    that you feel like you did something amazing, then your dad says you failed, or you are useless?
    colinjia colinjia 13-15, M 4 Responses Apr 25

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    He started off ok. You know how you'll get

    annoyed with your parents once in a while, but you still love them the same. With my dad, I have actually grown to hate him. He is so lazy and useless. All he does is work, watch Tv, sleep and on some nights hell go out. He use to be helpful around the house, but now he wont...
    sr39 sr39 18-21 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I was shocked to see how similar these stories

    are to my own. My father has always been a narcissist. Growing up, I was lucky if I saw him a couple days out of the year for holidays. The rest of the time he was working his business and apparently too busy for his kids. When he was there, it was to tell us how smart and...
    jahsing jahsing 26-30, M Apr 6

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    He says he loves us but all he does is work.

    We all hate him so much that our mother pretends to abuse us when he's home. She's a really great mother. What makes me hate him more is that he's dating a girl younger than me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5, 2014

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    I hate my dad. He gave me his car cuz he bought

    a new truck but then he always complain, like why do i let my friends in my car and stuff and that do they give me money for a ride? Like wtf? Theyre my friends not just a stranger in a street. He always shouts at me whenever im with my boyfriend. I hate him. We used to be close...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 16

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