I Hate My Dad

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    I mean I don't hate him.

    ... But I don't love him either. My dad works hard for us. He's the only income maker in the family. He has to support four people and himself. That makes five. He tries to give us the things we want. But he doesn't at the same time. Does that make sense? My parents, I don't...
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    5 Responses Oct 31, 2014

    I am a 17 year old girl,

    with my own job and I even lettered in academics at my high school and hopefully I'm up for a scholarship for college. I always have wanted to be there for my family. I still do, but it's been harder and harder recently. I moved out of my parents house in January 2016, so...
    LittleLadyT LittleLadyT
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 11

    I love him so much, but I hate him

    so much too. If that makes sense, it's a love hate relationship. What it comes down to is, he has extremely bad anger issues, he's miserable with his job, he hates being poor, and has stressed. therefor, he screams at all of us (siblings and mom) And it hurts because every...
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    11 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    Just right now.. like a minute ago my dad

    peeked into my room and asked if we were studying. Me and my sister. I said no, the truth. He marched in and yelled at us, and asked my sister what she was doing. She didn't say anything but she did switch tabs from watching Switched At Birth to playing games. We know it's...
    ash0157 ash0157
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 6

    I f#cking hate him so f#cking much i wish he

    would die in a hole and never come out until he started acting like a grown man and became more mature. But, is it wrong to wish my father was dead, to me i dont feel so. I legit 199% hate my f#cking dad. He over reacts, Screams, swears and does....... other stuff. I am so glad...
    Robert10128 Robert10128
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 25

    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey
    31-35, F
    117 Responses Sep 16, 2007

    After 16 years of hardly speaking to me

    and after 3 years of me being depressed NOW is the time you ask how I'm doing! Now is the time you apologise fur being a **** father and say you want to be involved and you **** off again. Im sorry but I've had enough of both you and mum not giving a simple **** about my life I...
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    2 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    I hate my father. There.

    I said it. No. I'm not some ungrateful spoiled little brat who only hate their father because he shut down the wifi in the house. I have hated him for as long as I can remember. My dad is an alcoholic, he goes out drinking every single day of the week, every single week of the...
    christinewizzie christinewizzie
    16-17, F
    Mar 20

    while I don't hate him I don't really like him

    either. out of all the people I know he's the only person I genuinely can't stand. he's rude and annoying and has never respected me as much as my older siblings. I mean he does love me but like I said he doesn't treat me with respect. I have too many bad memories of him and it...
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890
    26-30, M
    Feb 6

    damn freaking it.....

    . my mom has let my idiot dad in the house. i've had zero sleep (to avoid another nightmare) and now he's yelling really loud at my mom while she's vacuuming..... seems like i can't avoid the living nightmare, right?! -_- he's so annoying omg..... it's so quiet and peaceful when...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 29, 2015

    is a man, who lays a hand on his lover,

    and calls it tough love. What is a man, who can't take a stand for his daughter, and calls it tough love. Your roots grow in the cracks of the alleys, college park made you Man enough to see, man enough to see, "there ain't a ******* man in me"
    caitsc caitsc
    16-17, F
    Feb 24

    he makes my mum cry hes always shouting

    and arguing with her I wish he would just go and never come back :(
    jackseymour jackseymour
    13-15, M
    1 Response Mar 5

    He treats me like sh!

    t!!!! I'm 17 and my sisters are 14 an 15 and everyone always says they need more attention than I do Which I don't get any The only time he talks to me is when he needs to take his anger out or when he yells at me and threatens me because I don't wanna go to church Or if my...
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    3 Responses Feb 21

    So I walked away from home

    after my dad and I had a fight, and all my dad did was going to bed..
    caitsc caitsc
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Feb 11

    I don't care about you.

    I don't want to lie and say that I do, but I will until I'm an adult. If I get married and if I choose to have a ceremony, I won't invite you. Mom can choose. If you come, I'll get people to kick you out because you aren't welcomed in any way. I don't want to listen to you. The...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Feb 6, 2015

    and i have very good reasons to :) my parents

    never got married and my younger brother and i were born out of wedlock. my dad used to always beat my mom and get way too drunk, use illegal street drugs, and loved to break the law a lot. he has a very big jail and prison record, the cops really hate him. but despite all that...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb
    88 Responses Jun 21, 2010

    My dad has a mental illness

    and he thinks he is the king of the world and he owns everything and everyday i have to listen to his bullshit and his fights with my mom everyday I either wake up or fall asleep on a fight and i asked my mom many times to divorce but she thinks we have no place to stay and he...
    Dreamerproject Dreamerproject
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 8

    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
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    1 Response Jul 22, 2014

    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream

    No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says stuff like go do something your in the way and it ****** me off because before he like starts talking to me and then does something else at...
    MKM18 MKM18
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Aug 16, 2012

    I'm on a 4 hour trip with him today

    and one more tomorrow and its literal hell. I just want to get out and go see my fiancée.
    midnight1026 midnight1026
    16-17, M
    Apr 8

    Yeah I'm that girl with Daddy issues.

    Ever since I was little I was called worthless, ugly, fat, and much more by my father. It got to the point where I stopped eating and lost a tremendous amount of weight in a small amount of time. Sure I got skinny but I was still ugly and worthless. I was never able to reach his...
    MissWallflower MissWallflower
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jan 23, 2015


    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44
    22-25, F
    9 Responses May 5, 2014

    Daddy asked me to help him find his phone

    and I didn't want to and he sighed and I screamed at him and threw a tantrum. he told me I was giving him a headache and I should stop now. then I got really mad with him and threw a chair at him
    kindaspoilt kindaspoilt
    13-15, F
    Apr 19

    He has no idea what he's doing.

    I went to search on google for hockey start date and when I typed the H these were the suggestions from the historySome of this stuff is weird like the sex talk and the hammerhead sharks and my brothers search of himself. but seriously who searches for heroin use in teenagers...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2014

    A girl's first hero and first love is her dad

    they say , well that's not the case for me ! my father , well i don't know much about that i mean how can i call someone that i hate "my father" i can't fake it . let's just get back to the story , well my father in a fairy tale would be the evil monster that should be destroyed...
    anonymous252597 anonymous252597
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 14

    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Dec 17, 2013

    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd
    114 Responses Feb 9, 2008

    I hate my dad because he dont care about me.

    he never did. i thought that when he cleaned his life up he would start caring about me and my sister. He did noyt care about us after my mom and brother passed away. I dont get it.
    AngelFace28 AngelFace28
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0
    26-30, F
    12 Responses Jul 23, 2013

    For the past years my father has always

    criticized me for everything I have done. There are so many places to start but I have shortened it down to this: my gaming addiction. Since I was young, I have always loved to play video games every day by finding extra time and soon became addicted. In elementary and middle...
    UdyrOfTheYear UdyrOfTheYear
    13-15, M
    1 Response Mar 22

    He walked out on my Mum he should basically be

    a ***** donor to me! I would quite happily kill the *****!
    YourDirtyLaundry YourDirtyLaundry
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 20

    !!! i dont want my dad living in the same house

    as me anymore but i dno what to do..............!!!! help!! my bf was over tonight since 5pm - we were wacthing a tv series so he was stayin until midnight which was the last episode? my dad comes in and is like 'i think its a bit late isnt it? dont you have work tomorrow? im...
    champagneroses champagneroses
    18-21, F
    Feb 10

    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    Mateom93 Mateom93
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jun 25, 2014

    I hate my dad. My dad is a self-righteous,

    pseudo intelligent, holier-than-thou type of guy. He's had a history of verbal abuse towards my mother (who I respect more than any other person in the world), but I think the abuse stopped around after I was born. And that's fine and all, but he's getting worse. The thing is...
    overunderachiever overunderachiever
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 23

    Hahahaha what a pathetic waste of space he is.

    " I'm gonna start trying harder with you "Dasiey" I promise I mean you're nearly 16 next month you need me" right number 1- it is Spelt Daisy! Number 2- I'm nearly 17. Number 3- I'm not 17 till may not next month Number 4- I don't need you. I've gone through 16 years of...
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    2 Responses Mar 30

    ARGH! I just can't win with this man!

    Today, I heard my car making a funny noise so I popped the hood and diagnosed it as a fraying fan belt. Just to make sure, I also had my dad give me a second opinion later because he happened to be in town. He confirmed it but then proceeded to lecture me on how I need to...
    violincaster violincaster
    22-25, M
    Mar 16

    So after I was born my dad had spent a lot of

    time on the computer. Back then they're wasn't facebook or twitter but they're where chat rooms. Whenever my mom would ask him what he was doing, walk into the room or ask him for help with taking care of me he would close the window and he would get defensive and angry at my...
    Caitie784 Caitie784
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Jan 21, 2015

    My father has 5 children from 5 different women

    and to add to that he beats up women. He only cares about money and his job. When i was 13 we got into a huge argument, he was so mad he hit me and locked me in the room. I swore from that day on i would NEVER set foot in his house ever again. I HATE MY DAD
    ysabelizade ysabelizade
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Feb 2, 2015

    My dad is frustrating me to no end.

    I really try to do what he says but, it's really hard to do considering that I have all advanced classes, the workload is hard to balance itself and then throwing in several things he wants done all at once is even more stressful. He says that I'm selfish and that I basically...
    TheStorySoDeep TheStorySoDeep
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 22

    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap
    22-25, M
    20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

    Sooo my dad thinks it's ok to hit me,

    like really I'm not 5 anymore :/
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    30 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    growing up, my father was never really there

    but he was. he was there to abuse me but nothing else. never came to any concerts or games or practices or really cared if I existed. hes a pathetic and pitiful excuse of a man, and I hate him almost as much as I hate myself. now aside from the bit of back ground, recently...
    PrinceDerRipper PrinceDerRipper
    16-17, T
    2 Responses Mar 20

    My dad has high blood pressure.

    My mom and my whole family in general always defend him using that evidence. It's crazy, because even though my mom has all the reasons to hate him, she still defends him and tells me he's smart, that he's a good father. Let me give you the back story though. Two years ago my...
    omgthisismy3rdtime omgthisismy3rdtime
    18-21, F
    Mar 26

    My sister was only 7 turning 8,

    this is what I said to my sister “Yea Chelsea you’re going to play dolly house too”. She did not seem to be happy about it. She then told me that it’s not what I thought it was. I didn’t understand what she meant by that. My dad came towards me and put duct tape on my...
    highonsadness highonsadness
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2014

    first, i apologize for my poor english.

    so, my family always seem to having problem in financial issue. i'm a sophomore in college now. and i hate how my dad would make my mom work so she can give him some money to pay the car and etc. as a student, i had to ask for money to pay the fees and books. i would message...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 12

    My dad is a lunitic. One minute,

    he's calling such bad names i feel like not living, the other he's saying how much he lives me and cares. As soon as i relaxe and think "ok, he's calm now" he turns around and starts screaming like a f#cking maniac. I feel unsafe around him sometimes. Is it wrong that a hate my...
    Robert10128 Robert10128
    26-30, M
    Feb 25

    My dad only had me because his mother said she

    wanted grandchildren. As a result he never loved me, just saw me as a burden to get rid of at 16. He wants me to solve all his problems etc. but never cares or helps me with any problems I have. When I ask for help he just says nothing and walks away and that makes me feel like...
    Disperata Disperata
    31-35, F
    Feb 6

    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd
    22-25, F
    84 Responses Nov 14, 2007

    ... So, my dad got hurt

    and can't work for the time being. He's been living with me for the last several weeks while he's getting tests done and getting a diagnosis of his injury. I can deal with this. If he can't work he can't work and that's understandable. Now he's been cleared for light duty...
    violincaster violincaster
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 18

    he never been drunk he have never hurted my mom

    or my brothers he puts my brothers in the best schools he gave them the best but things for me were different i was every year in a new school they were nothing like my brothers schools sometimes i change schools at the middle of the year ..it wasn't my choice I wasn't allowed...
    noural562785 noural562785
    18-21, F
    Feb 3

    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken
    26-30, F
    18 Responses May 7, 2007

    My dad is a complete

    and utter *******. He NEVER listens to anyone other than himself and thinks his way is THE WAY. He always uses the excuse that he's not perfect but says that he HATES excuses. He's such a hypocrite and thinks that everyone is lying and that the world is out to get him. he doesn...
    tahliaa tahliaa
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 29

    the amount of mental

    and verbal abuse I've had to go through my whole life, I don't even remember one happy memory with him, what's so ever.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    Me and mummy agreed that in our new house I

    would get the master bedroom and when daddy found out he said, "why?" and I was like "what do you mean why?! you're the worst parent ever! why can't you be more like mummy?! I'm in charge of you and you will do what I want!" then he just left. idk where he is now lol. he's tired...
    kindaspoilt kindaspoilt
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 4

    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel
    18-21, F
    38 Responses Aug 28, 2011

    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335
    18-21, F
    7 Responses May 19, 2014

    *Not a native English speaker* My dad is a

    fvcking jerk, there is no word to describe his ugliness. I lived in a wealthy family(I guess), many people just go in front of me and say omg I am so jealous you have such good parents and I am just like go **** yourself you don't know what kind of life I live in. My father is...
    greatfatherohgreatfather greatfatherohgreatfather
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 1
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