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I Hate My Dad

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    I hate my dad. I truly truly do.

    I've experienced a heavy amount of emotional and physical abuse. The reason why I'm still alive today is because I believe that I am a strong person at heart. He started hitting me when I was in the sixth grade. I did something wrong? Slap across the face or a punch in the gut...
    metalchick5 metalchick5 22-25, F 9 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    He is a shittiest *****,

    he is a big ball of negative energy, he is no good to no one, like adam, eve, and there, the serpent
    anonymousme212 anonymousme212 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate my father. He is the definition of the

    word DEPRESSION. He is mentally very sick, diabetic, addicted to ****, has cheated my mum all his life and tried to commit suicide twice by not taking his daily dose of insulin. As a result he had a heart attack a few months ago and he is now paralysed from the waste down for...
    ritasanches ritasanches 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 17 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    He basically raped my mom

    and left when I was little then has 3 more kids and left the girl that was born, and keeps the boys
    ThatOneLoneWolf ThatOneLoneWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Why you gotta be so ruuude?

    Don't you know we're human too, Why you gotta be so ruuude? My mom married you anyway -_-
    SabrinaB27 SabrinaB27 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Dear Dad

    Dear Dad, I wish that I could say these things to your face, but then I wouldn't have any place to live and not enough money for University, so I have to say it here. I know that I am lucky to have the life that I have had. My life has been blessed with happiness and little pain...
    inpd14 inpd14 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    Out of all the most terrible things you've done.

    I hate you dad. Your compulsive lying ways, never being there when I needed u to the most. Becoming an alcoholic and then verbally abusing me which put me down even more! Haven't seen you in about two years. Apparently you contacted mum through lawyers and want to see me and my...
    Emily97x Emily97x 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F Jul 22

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    The saddest part is that I didn't always hate

    him. I don't know if you could call what we had then loving but I didn't always have this feeling of disdain for him. And what makes it worse is that I don't think our relationship can ever be repaired. Growing up, he didn't want to spend any time with us. Mom used to show up...
    flowerchild712 flowerchild712 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I hate you so much. But.

    I just can't help to love you no matter how much I try not to.
    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Fearful

    My father scares the hell out of me. He yells and throws things. He has verbally and physically abused me, especially as a small, helpless child. He makes my mother feel like crap and makes her cry. She never cries. Today, I went downstairs to go take my medication and eat...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 16 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 25

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    He's a manipulative, narcissistic

    and abusive totalitarian. All my live he never cares for me nor my mom. He loves to belittle us in front of everyone while keep telling me to love, help and respect her. He seems to think that since he's the bread earner, it is ok to undermine the rest of the family...
    haihoang haihoang 22-25, M 11 hrs ago

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    He is the worst thing

    that god has ever thought of, god will punish him for what he has done for my family because no one deserves a big black whole screwing your lives up
    anonymousme212 anonymousme212 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 21-25, M 18 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    Dear, Dad - Where were you

    when everything went wrong? I don't know, but I'm pretty sure you were getting wasted in some bar. I hope you're happy now that you have missed your three children grow up. I'm not a little girl anymore, I wonder what you'd think of me now. I hope you think of me on your death...
    julie0300 julie0300 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Your a pathetic piece of ****

    who doesn't deserve to even be in my life in anyway.
    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    My father is an alcoholic.

    No job, a liar and don't take responsible for the family. I hate him so much that i disgust him. Because of his irresponsibility, my family endure a lot of hardship. I even thought my life would be a lot more better if he is not with us. God, forgive me. But i hate him so much.
    jaguarkuroclown jaguarkuroclown 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I HATE MY FATHER ! I DO NOT KNOW HOW I CAN EVEN

    CALL HIM THAT ! I HATE his so much ! Why ? Because when he got out of jail, guess what ? He left me to go to freakin Arkansas! WHAT . THE . **** .DAD . You would always say I love you in your letters ... BUT YOU DON'T REALLY LOVE ME ! you didn't even get to know me ! I mean...
    emmawinterfrost emmawinterfrost 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 23 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    I can't even call him my dad

    because I hate him so much. My father is abusive and always yelling at me and threatening me for everything. He is an alcoholic who has told us many times he would quit and still does it everyday. He makes fun of me literally everyday calling me things no father should ever call...
    thelonewolf24 thelonewolf24 16-17, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F Jul 22

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    I don't want to use the word "hate"

    but I really have to. I hate my dad. I hate him so much that nothing can describe the amount of hatred I have towards him. My dad is a pervert. I'm 15. He checks me out every single day. I wear shorts and oversized shirts at home and I constantly find him looking at my legs. He...
    hurtgirl99 hurtgirl99 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 58 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    My father has always been very domineering

    and terrifying, even when I was young. I remember when he would grab me when I was three years old, and smack/ punch/ or otherwise beat my head, over and over again. I am now thirteen, and although he's lessened with the physical punishments, his verbal ones seem to be getting...
    CeltyKazma6848 CeltyKazma6848 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 30

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    I don't exactly hate my dad I just really

    dislike him In total he has 9 kids all up 4 to my mum and 5 to another women he got all of us taken off his 9 years ago for driving with drugs and **** but my grandparents took them 5 children in as there own My dad comes down from the Gold Coast alest once every 3 months he...
    hollaout hollaout 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    He is verbally abusive

    and has been physically abusive to me in the past.When I used to go to school he would yell at me telling me 'out of no where' that he never wants to see me in the town centre ,drinking & smoking ,instead of being at school.Note:I do not drink or smoke nor did I ever skip school...
    Eternity2164 Eternity2164 16-17 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I used to look up to my father; he was my hero.

    When I was younger, my dad used to go out of town a lot for his 'job' and I would miss him terribly. Now, I cannot stand being in the same room with him. Many would wonder why. From the outside, my family seems to have it together; my dad is a hardworking man and we seem to have...
    lesluu07 lesluu07 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 37 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    My Dad is all around a terrible person.

    Hes into every drug you can think of, and he put those drugs over me, his only child. He used to abuse my Mother to the point where she would have to be hospitalized, and she actually moved states because she was afraid of him. Thankfully I live with my grandma, otherwise I...
    fryktus fryktus 16-17, M Jul 21

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    Let's just say that my dad is kinda different.

    Overall, he's a pretty nice and cheerful guy, or so it seems. The thing that I hate about him the most is that he can't seem to control his emotions when things don't go his way. When I was younger, my brother got into a lot of trouble and constantly pissed him off while I was...
    Kiichego Kiichego 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335 18-21, F 4 Responses May 19

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    I absolutely hate my dad.

    He's so damn annoying.
    Smiles1997 Smiles1997 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    My dad is verbally/emotionally abusive.

    .. I don't see him now. But he was always really mean. He's called me "fat, annoying, clown" & other stuff... He's also super racist, which is annoying because I'm white & a little Spanish -_- So I guess that annoys him (which makes no sense, because HE MARRIED MY MOM. NOT ME...
    njgirll njgirll 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Whats A Father Anyway?

    my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he has walked into the bathroom while i was taking a shower) he was one person i never wanted to see or spend time with. whenever...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Doesn't Everyone?...

    Doesn't everyone?
    themiget themiget 16-18, M 45 Responses Jan 13, 2007

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    I'm new at this so um.

    I don't know how this will go. Sometimes, my dad can get me really upset. I DO NOT hate my dad. But I do have days I don't necessarily like him. I remember once In the Fourth grade, I went to my cousins party at a bouncy house place and my other cousin wanted me to race her, I...
    anongirl4ever anongirl4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    My sister was only 7 turning 8,

    this is what I said to my sister “Yea Chelsea you’re going to play dolly house too”. She did not seem to be happy about it. She then told me that it’s not what I thought it was. I didn’t understand what she meant by that. My dad came towards me and put duct tape on my...
    highonsadness highonsadness 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Despite my (valid) reasons

    for hating him, everyone says "How can you hate him? He is your father!" Is there anyone out there that understands it?
    kandysnow kandysnow 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5

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    I Have No Respect For Him...None

    I tried hard to have a father, but instead I had a dad. -Serve The Servants, Nirvana(1993) My dad is currently doing time in jail. He was an alcoholic, gambled, always angry, doesn't care for anyone besides himself, etc. He'd hit me for stupid stuff like knocking something...
    Roflcash4 Roflcash4 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-18 109 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    I feel bad every time I say this

    and I also don't like using the word hate because it's not exactly hate. I love him but I don't at the same time. My dad always tells me how he used to put me on a pedestal and now he thinks I'm a monster now. It makes me sad all of the time the way he makes me feel. I do admit...
    Liverbug2 Liverbug2 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I have always felt like I am an inconvenience

    to my father. Throughout my childhood he seemed constantly angry and I lived in fear of the time he got home from work because I knew the first thing that would happen would be a shouted demand to turn the tv off as soon as he walked in the door, general further shouting about...
    RogerWaters1979 RogerWaters1979 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    i hate him he's so fake!

    like wtf he's my dad he talks negative stuff behind me and discourage me in what i want in my life!.
    queenreyy queenreyy 18-21, F Jul 19

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    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 78 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    A Letter To My Dad

     I have been dealing with a lot of anger lately.  You have been in my mind constantly…I had reoccurring thoughts about killing you.  I have so many questions that I will never get the answers to.  You made my life very difficult.  You caused a lot of pain-not only for...
    imamhere imamhere 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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