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I Hate My Dad

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    Really.. My dad just doesnt understand me and he never will. Hes very controlling...
    Sorendino1 Sorendino1 16-17, F Mar 27

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    Fearful - My father scares the hell out of me. He yells and throws things. He has verbally and physically abused me, especially as a small, helpless child. He makes my mother feel...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 16 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    So yesterday, dad decided to play guitar at 10:30 right when I decided to go to bed. And he doesn't even play nice music, he just plunks the strings in repetitive patterns in...
    Juls4 Juls4 16-17, F Mar 28

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    He buys me anything I want, opens up a credit card for me, buys me an iPhone, it doesn't fill in the empty hole that he made in my life. He gave my mom such a hard time, working...
    Stephanie3729 Stephanie3729 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    hate when i stare at mirror and he look back at me and says dont stare too much
    prettysony prettysony 16-17, F Mar 28

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    Dear Dad - Dear Dad, I wish that I could say these things to your face, but then I wouldn't have any place to live and not enough money for University, so I have to say it here. I...
    inpd14 inpd14 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    Well Not Hate Him.... - My dad is a junky. I had an amazing childhood, but after he and my mother separated they both went downhill. I was about 8. Being the youngest of 5, I...
    spaceygracey spaceygracey 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    Where can I start.. All he needs is to learn to respect people and treat them how he wants to be treated... Cause he made me lose my respect.
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Verbal and emotional abuse. Physically verbally and emotionally abused my mom. Called my mother some very choice names and then compliment her and then say I'm just like her...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F Mar 27

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You - Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 16 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    I have had a poor relationship with my father for as long as I can remember. I'm now almost 20 years old and I cannot see it getting any better. The source of my hatred for him...
    aunasi aunasi 18-21, M Mar 26

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    What am I going to say to you? All my life I've probably been suffering because of you. Thinking back, it's pathetic what happened. I don't even know now, I'm tired. Ever since I...
    jxstagirl jxstagirl 13-15, F Mar 24

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    my dad ripped the corner of my drawing and to make my feel better he ripped the other side of the corner that made it worse the i went to my room and cried and cried out i hate you...
    alone1234567 alone1234567 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Dear Dad, Please Kill Yourself. - Okay. So I'm sitting here, at my desk, in outback Australia, typing on my Mac Book Pro that my Ma emptied her bank account to buy me. On the desk...
    Iwillswallowyoursoul Iwillswallowyoursoul 13-15, F 14 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    'Hate is a strong word.' Yeah, that's why I used it.
    ForBetterOrForWorse ForBetterOrForWorse 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 12

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    Sincerly, Your Daughter. - dear ****** father, i hope you ******* die in a hole. youre the reason for all of the stress in the house. youre the reason everyone is depressed. youre...
    brvsing brvsing 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother - He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    Toxic Parent - My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 78 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore - My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!????????? - My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 56 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    My dad has always beaten me up since I was a kid. He hurls abuse at me in Bengali. He is evil and stupid. He never uses reason. According to him he's right and that's that. He...
    sadgalsad sadgalsad 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Despite my (valid) reasons for hating him, everyone says "How can you hate him? He is your father!" Is there anyone out there that understands it?
    kandysnow kandysnow 18-21, F 14 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    A Letter To My Dad -  I have been dealing with a lot of anger lately.  You have been in my mind constantly…I had reoccurring thoughts about killing you.  I have so many...
    imamhere imamhere 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    I Have No Respect For Him...None - I tried hard to have a father, but instead I had a dad. -Serve The Servants, Nirvana(1993) My dad is currently doing time in jail. He was an...
    Roflcash4 Roflcash4 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life - i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would...
    brianyap brianyap 21-25, M 17 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    The reason is that he's never home. He is always doing drugs, and when he runs out of money he suddenly feels so sorry and "regrets" everything he did. And my mom is so stupid to...
    troublegirl34 troublegirl34 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    God knows I tried to gain your affection over and over again ... but I wasn't your favorite child. I looked up to you because you were into cool things like star wars, and you had...
    RiiseFromTheAshes RiiseFromTheAshes 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Tomorrow is my best friends birthday. She is gonna have some friends over. She has an older sister, and my dad casually asked if her sister was gonna have some friends over too. I...
    ihatemydad02 ihatemydad02 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    So I have a love/hate relationship with him. I love him, because he's my dad and I'm supposed to. But if you were to ask me if I like him as a person...no I don't. He was a...
    estrellita75 estrellita75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor, - Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Doesn't Everyone?... - Doesn't everyone?
    themiget themiget 16-18, M 45 Responses Jan 13, 2007

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    Why what goes in his mind I wanted to go to a school and my dad spoke his mind and said kids schools be in the same school and that man is an idiot he is well I guess my dad I...
    TinaBuckel TinaBuckel 13-15, F Apr 6

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    This man means nothing to me,not absolute ****.He blames all his problems in life on me. His failing marriage on me . Any obstacle he can face during the day that made him feel...
    robynrivera robynrivera 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream - No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says...
    MKM17 MKM17 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    I don't know if I can do this anymore it's to hard I cry to much over the possible fact of going over my dads and I cannot face that with open arms anymore my childhood has been...
    maceylovesyouug maceylovesyouug 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Today a chair fell on my leg. I was in pain when my dad came up to see if everyone was alright. But it was probably to see if my sister was ok since he acts like he hates me...
    xXsmilesKillmeXx xXsmilesKillmeXx 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I've hated my dad since I was 13. He robbed me of my self esteem and my potential- I could have been so much more, I really feel that with every fibre of my being. When I was...
    femmefatality femmefatality 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My dad is a lier 😡 He never does what he promise to do.
    lahiru94 lahiru94 18-21, M Mar 24

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    My dad went to jail a long time ago. I have feelings of hate but I don't know if I actually know any real hate towards him. He went to jail for molesting my sisters and I he's been...
    brrodosako brrodosako 16-17, F Mar 25

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    I don't want anything to do with my dad. He left me and my mom when I was just a baby. It was hard trying to get through life without a fatherly figure. I hate it when I hear what...
    patrick199 patrick199 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He always thinks he's smarter than me and when he's not he explains why I'm wrong sometimes he hits me but I don't flinch i don't even blink once he's done hitting me I take my...
    Meeppeep Meeppeep 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    My dad hasn't always been there for me. He's been to prison for drugs, and he's just not a great person. He chose drugs over me as a child, and even after her got me back he still...
    sarah81199 sarah81199 13-15, F Apr 3

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    My Father: Hitler Of The 21 Century - If I could tell my dad anything, it would be to **** off and leave us all alone. We hate him so much. He acts like he owns us, including my...
    greysonlover greysonlover 13-15, F 6 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    Whats A Father Anyway? - my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad? - I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 35 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    I Seriously Do - Dont even say ''aw you dont hate your dad!'' because actually, I do. I hate him SOOO much. he has put me and my brothers through sooo much pain and I'm so done...
    cutebutterfly cutebutterfly 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    Really.. My dad just doesnt understand me and he never will. Hes very controlling...
    Sorendino1 Sorendino1 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I Hate My Father - One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    I Hate Him.. -   During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-18 107 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    I have been abused by my father as long as I can remember. I tried getting help after three attempts for help and everyone not believing a psychotic girl i gave up. I now am...
    dunwitdis dunwitdis 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    Too Late To Be A Dad. - i never understood why i was only brought up by my mother alone she didnt make me on my own. well when my mom became pregnant with me my dad was already...
    Pinkmistress Pinkmistress 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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