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I Hate My Dad

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 70 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    He's coming to visit me in the hospital.

    I think I died and went to hell.
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M Jun 17

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 83 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    I have had a backwards relationship with my dad.

    He was a great "kid dad" but has become a selfish bully since I became an adult. That is not to say events happened when I was younger that now seem questionable, I just didn't know it at the time. For example, if our dryer would go out, instead of fixing it himself (he is...
    ChiChi816 ChiChi816 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 33 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream

    No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says stuff like go do something your in the way and it ****** me off because before he like starts talking to me and then does something else at...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    I Seriously Do

    Dont even say ''aw you dont hate your dad!'' because actually, I do. I hate him SOOO much. he has put me and my brothers through sooo much pain and I'm so done! He caused me to be SO depressed. I've been depressed before, and its NOT fun. But a couple months ago he has gotten to...
    cutebutterfly cutebutterfly 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 84 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-17 113 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    Since yesterday was Father's Day I decided to

    share what an ******* my father is. He's currently in prison for trying to kill someone, drugs, robbing a bank, ect. I've never had a good relationship with my dad. He was physically and emotionally abusive toward my sisters and I. He used to hold me down and punch me over and...
    MadisonDavis MadisonDavis 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    I can't support him. I can't feel sorry

    for him. I can't love him. My dad was diagnosed with Leukemia at the beginning of the year. And honestly, I felt nothing. I tried to cry, I tried to feel sad... but I can't pretend. He is a terrible person. Far before the leukemia, I left his house to live with my mom. I know...
    kberg26 kberg26 22-25 13 hrs ago

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    I mean I don't hate him.

    ... But I don't love him either. My dad works hard for us. He's the only income maker in the family. He has to support four people and himself. That makes five. He tries to give us the things we want. But he doesn't at the same time. Does that make sense? My parents, I don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    He has no idea what he's doing.

    I went to search on google for hockey start date and when I typed the H these were the suggestions from the historySome of this stuff is weird like the sex talk and the hammerhead sharks and my brothers search of himself. but seriously who searches for heroin use in teenagers...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    When my mom left he took his anger out on me.

    He would dress in scary costumes and wake me up in the middle of the night, and when I hit him (because I was terrified) he hit me back, harder. I started sleeping with a Swiss army knife, but whenever I threw it at him he would just take it and scratch me. When I was 15 I tried...
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My dad ALWAYS thinks nobody loves him,

    which I think is pretty stupid. He does get crabby a lot but he works all day so I can see why. Father's Day is coming up and I have to think of something nice for him that's not too cheesy
    Alpacagod Alpacagod 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    the amount of mental

    and verbal abuse I've had to go through my whole life, I don't even remember one happy memory with him, what's so ever.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 18-21, M 20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    Me toooo...... Nothing to say.

    .... He is great bkoz giv me birth only birth Nothing more than that i spoiled meeeer
    suresh36 suresh36 22-25, M Jun 21

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    Happy Father's Day to my father

    who chose his other family over my sister and I.
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 18 Responses Jun 21

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    Being that Fathers are being celebrated,

    I feel cheated in life...I have a father. He doesn't care that I am his child. He has 6 children, first 3, his parents raised, next 3 so messed up by being raised by him. I was the only of his first 3 that acknowledged he was my dad. I wish he were a better man, father...
    fitmom808 fitmom808 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    Heh ,why is there even a Father's Day

    when there are so many of us without Dads. I've tried looking for my dad but have never found him, I did find out he was in a gang and got beat up trying to find him and who he was. I've given up now the bastard can go die for all I care
    Razziness Razziness 13-15, M Jun 22

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    My dad always says my real mom is dead,

    but if people can visit her and hang out with her, she's just dead to him.
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    I stayed home sick and my class is having a

    class party watching movies and **** and he says I can watch a movie even though everyone else gets to watch one. He always does this and it's ******* annoying
    whitepawlove whitepawlove 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    My dad cheated on my mom with multiple women

    and texted his female single co-worker, bragging about the experience and asking for dating advice. A little background: my mom is the sweetest person I have ever met and she is truly an angel to me. She loves and supports my dad as much as she possibly can emotionally and they...
    User7272 User7272 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hated my dad for as long

    as I can remember. When I was younger, he was very abusive towards everyone, yelling at m siblings and I for no reason always putting us down, and beating us, including my mom for God knows what. I had a very hard time with school when I was younger because of my health and...
    elijahx elijahx 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Today is just a very emotional day.

    . thinking of the man who broke my heart before any boy could. the man who crushed my dreams. the one who disowned me at 14 the man who walks by me as if I dont exist. the one with my name tattooed on him but doesnt even know me anymore. I always wondered how can you just leave...
    petramullins petramullins 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    So after I was born my dad had spent a lot of

    time on the computer. Back then they're wasn't facebook or twitter but they're where chat rooms. Whenever my mom would ask him what he was doing, walk into the room or ask him for help with taking care of me he would close the window and he would get defensive and angry at my...
    Caitie784 Caitie784 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    Hating someone is hard.

    I've never been someone to hate easily but hating my dad sure is easy though. From ruining my mom's credit score and breaking the divorce decree to screaming at me everyday of my life since I was 7 and treating me like I'm nothing, to mind games I don't think he could go any...
    Kowalski17 Kowalski17 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    He started off ok. You know how you'll get

    annoyed with your parents once in a while, but you still love them the same. With my dad, I have actually grown to hate him. He is so lazy and useless. All he does is work, watch Tv, sleep and on some nights hell go out. He use to be helpful around the house, but now he wont...
    sr39 sr39 18-21 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Today I had the disturbing thought that

    if he died, I wouldn't be able to cry. And I'm pretty sure that my brother wouldn't either.
    MeganeChan MeganeChan 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I don't care about you.

    I don't want to lie and say that I do, but I will until I'm an adult. If I get married and if I choose to have a ceremony, I won't invite you. Mom can choose. If you come, I'll get people to kick you out because you aren't welcomed in any way. I don't want to listen to you. The...
    jiayong jiayong 13-15 8 Responses Feb 6

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    My dad doesn't want me to see a psychiatrist

    because he doesn't want me to get a diagnosis. He said "what the hell is a diagnosis going to do for you? It's just a label". Then he screamed at my mom for defending me. Get me away from him, he's the least sympathetic person on this goddam earth. He made my mom cry. Then he...
    ScheeleXx ScheeleXx 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    happy fathers day to a father

    who would rather play video games than be involved with his kids. i hate fathers day
    bandfreak26 bandfreak26 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    He is the man that has broken me emotionally.

    I can no longer handle it when someone raises their voice, I'm constantly afraid of someone getting angry or mad. And I can no longer look at the girl in the mirror and say that she is "good enough" He might act all high and mighty, citing the value of family, yet we never talk...
    MeganeChan MeganeChan 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Im Subha From India..

    My dad left me when I was only one year old. I'm now 19 and wonder sometimes why he left me. Why would you leave your daughter behind?. Sometimes I think to myself that his leaving was all my fault. But what could I possibly have done as a newborn? I just want a dad...Really...
    subhasmily subhasmily 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 19

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 11 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    okay so .. this is very hard

    for me to talk about. I never told it to anyone. not ever. I could never open it up. even though it is healthy to talk to people but how can i when they will look at me with empathy and they would be like 'I am so lucky to have my life' and yess not everyone is lucky enough to...
    quinnamore quinnamore 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Converted Converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    My dad is why I have claustrophobia.

    Since I was a kid I feel trapped even in moderately small rooms, elevators, etc. That's why I always take the stairs and close my eyes when there are no stairs. :| Thanks Dad, for locking me in closets instead of putting me in the corner. :/
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I dont respect people

    who dont respect me. Theres a reason he has no friends. Hes a low life just like his brother. I dont even consider him my "dad". I want to change my last name. All of his families dead basically other than his brother and sister. Frankly i don't give a **** about any one of them...
    darkskies7 darkskies7 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Yeah I'm that girl with Daddy issues.

    Ever since I was little I was called worthless, ugly, fat, and much more by my father. It got to the point where I stopped eating and lost a tremendous amount of weight in a small amount of time. Sure I got skinny but I was still ugly and worthless. I was never able to reach his...
    MissWallflower MissWallflower 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 23

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