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I Hate My Dad

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    After 16 years of hardly speaking to me

    and after 3 years of me being depressed NOW is the time you ask how I'm doing! Now is the time you apologise fur being a **** father and say you want to be involved and you **** off again. Im sorry but I've had enough of both you and mum not giving a simple **** about my life I...
    Ridingtonewyork Ridingtonewyork 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2015

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    I hate my dad because he dont care about me.

    he never did. i thought that when he cleaned his life up he would start caring about me and my sister. He did noyt care about us after my mom and brother passed away. I dont get it.
    AngelFace28 AngelFace28 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream

    No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says stuff like go do something your in the way and it ****** me off because before he like starts talking to me and then does something else at...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    damn freaking it.....

    . my mom has let my idiot dad in the house. i've had zero sleep (to avoid another nightmare) and now he's yelling really loud at my mom while she's vacuuming..... seems like i can't avoid the living nightmare, right?! -_- he's so annoying omg..... it's so quiet and peaceful when...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2015

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    I'm 21 and am currently still at uni,

    and so I have no money to get out of here. If I could get a loan, any sort of money. I would up and go. I love my mum but I can't take this anymore, he has me in tears weekly. I've never cried this much in my life, and I am not a crier. I don't know what to do, part of my...
    cigarettejeans cigarettejeans 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    So after I was born my dad had spent a lot of

    time on the computer. Back then they're wasn't facebook or twitter but they're where chat rooms. Whenever my mom would ask him what he was doing, walk into the room or ask him for help with taking care of me he would close the window and he would get defensive and angry at my...
    Caitie784 Caitie784 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 21, 2015

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    I'm so sad :( ok so I usually like to study/do

    homework in my kitchen because I just prefer this table but half the time my dad comes in the kitchen he always slaps my neck and I hate it so much everytime he comes in I kind of jump out of fear and he asks what are you scared of? I just hate him so much I feel so...
    helpmeguys helpmeguys 16-17, F Jan 3

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    My dad has never supported me in anything I've

    loved to do and I'm pretty sure it's ******* with me psychologically. He's never been supported of my own interests and i honestly feel like he's been trying to live vicariously through me at times. It doesn't matter what it is. Whether it's sports, school, hobbies, or even with...
    ArizonaIce24 ArizonaIce24 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335 18-21, F 7 Responses May 19, 2014

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    He cheated on my mum,

    he beat her, he stole our money,... amd people expect me to love him. i cant. and i dont want to. im just so angry. he did so much bad to me. he craped my life. i dont want to love him, i have nothing to love him for or with, i just wont and dont love him. i HATE him.
    swiftie03 swiftie03 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Tonight the argument was about him basically

    kicking me out the house at the weekend because his pals are coming round, and he wants me to 'accept that graciously'. He didn't give me much of a touch. 9hrs later he's drunk and shouting the house down about how he's given me everything and this is us through. Kl m8 I...
    cigarettejeans cigarettejeans 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    He wants to know where I'm going,

    what time I'm doing something, and when I'll get back now. Wtf
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't really know why my dad felt

    so bad when the case of a child being spanked appeared on the TV... maybe I should refresh his memory? Maybe he forgot what he used to do with me when I was a child, he spanked me every day too. I remember that I always used long clothes to go to the school to hide my hematomas...
    EternalYahiko EternalYahiko 18-21, M Jan 1

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    He has no idea what he's doing.

    I went to search on google for hockey start date and when I typed the H these were the suggestions from the historySome of this stuff is weird like the sex talk and the hammerhead sharks and my brothers search of himself. but seriously who searches for heroin use in teenagers...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    So my **** father that came down ( I have not

    seen him in like 10 years) and he was only staying to help my mom pay the bills but the last month he's been doing nothing, and eating, sleeping,drinking, and he got hammered in front of my friends and last night he got up and left without saying anything,
    dominick6 dominick6 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Today is one of the day

    when i remember what i've been through,years and years of beating,hate,sadness,depression,my dad was an alcoholic he never cared or loved someone not me,not my mom no one.All of my childhood is full of memories of my mom crying,me crying or dad screaming at us years passed,i...
    DeadAndGonee DeadAndGonee 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2015

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    My father has 5 children from 5 different women

    and to add to that he beats up women. He only cares about money and his job. When i was 13 we got into a huge argument, he was so mad he hit me and locked me in the room. I swore from that day on i would NEVER set foot in his house ever again. I HATE MY DAD
    ysabelizade ysabelizade 22-25, F 11 Responses Feb 2, 2015

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    I hate my dad so much its like i wanna commit

    suicide because of his bullshit, and his **** is so big that he made mine big too!
    1stupiddad 1stupiddad 31-35, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    Im going to explode I'm

    so frustrated. I was stressed out and my dad says "Blah blah blah you shouldn't wear emotions on your sleeve." When he ******* yelled at me earlier. Then last time pissed me off. I couldn't be with my friends cuz some kid got shot 2hrs away. let me get this straight. The...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 112 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    I really hate my dad.

    Ever since i was little he never paid any attention to me and most of the time he wasnt home but when he was home all he did was yell at my mother or my brothers and I or hit us or give us work to do. Can you imagine a little 10 year old forced to carry blocks of cement. And if...
    LifeIsNotFairDude LifeIsNotFairDude 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-17 113 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 26-30, F 15 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    I don't care about you.

    I don't want to lie and say that I do, but I will until I'm an adult. If I get married and if I choose to have a ceremony, I won't invite you. Mom can choose. If you come, I'll get people to kick you out because you aren't welcomed in any way. I don't want to listen to you. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Feb 6, 2015

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    Sooo my dad thinks it's ok to hit me,

    like really I'm not 5 anymore :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 35 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    **A long one....again.

    .but what can I say *sigh*, I've got daddy issues. For the ones who want to hear my decision..** Honestly, I've been shutting my dad out of my life for a long time now (around 4 months), and It's been going just fine for the couple of months I have been, essentially, ignoring...
    sweetcolors123 sweetcolors123 16-17 1 Response Jan 2

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    My dad is just a horrible person.

    He has severe anger issues and a drug problem. My mom died 6 years ago, and I'm the only girl left. My 3 older brothers live by themselves. I can't leave, I'm college and my dad pays for everything. We also have 4 pets that im scared he'll hurt if I leave. I don't have any way...
    AbFelix AbFelix 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    I hate him so much more

    than any think in the world I hate him to the moon and never back
    sabrine577 sabrine577 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    and i have very good reasons to :) my parents

    never got married and my younger brother and i were born out of wedlock. my dad used to always beat my mom and get way too drunk, use illegal street drugs, and loved to break the law a lot. he has a very big jail and prison record, the cops really hate him. but despite all that...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 8, 2015

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    the amount of mental

    and verbal abuse I've had to go through my whole life, I don't even remember one happy memory with him, what's so ever.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 26, 2015

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 37 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    Yeah I'm that girl with Daddy issues.

    Ever since I was little I was called worthless, ugly, fat, and much more by my father. It got to the point where I stopped eating and lost a tremendous amount of weight in a small amount of time. Sure I got skinny but I was still ugly and worthless. I was never able to reach his...
    MissWallflower MissWallflower 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 23, 2015

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    Im going into the point.

    My dad always ******* victimizes himself, especially when I confront him about about how he doesnt let me outta the MF house by saying I do the dishes I cleaned the laundry I did that I did this what did u do? which is btw completely irrelevant to what I was saying before which...
    yasochan yasochan 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I love my dad but hate him.

    This how i was feeling not to long ago. And i figured i should share this because it could help someone right now. So when i was younger i was daddys girl. No one could tare us apart, he was the apple of my eye. I didn't fully understand he was doing some bad stuff and...
    kim654 kim654 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 84 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    Mateom93 Mateom93 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    I love him so much, but I hate him

    so much too. If that makes sense, it's a love hate relationship. What it comes down to is, he has extremely bad anger issues, he's miserable with his job, he hates being poor, and has stressed. therefor, he screams at all of us (siblings and mom) And it hurts because every...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jul 15, 2015

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    Man, it feels like my dad truly does not like

    me. I used to love him to death but he's done me wrong so many times over the years that I can't keep on ignoring it. I do good in school , athletics and life but he just doesn't want me having a girlfriend. I truly love this girl and he hates her. He brings joy in ruining our...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 5

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 18-21, M 20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    while I don't hate him I don't really like him

    either. out of all the people I know he's the only person I genuinely can't stand. he's rude and annoying and has never respected me as much as my older siblings. I mean he does love me but like I said he doesn't treat me with respect. I have too many bad memories of him and it...
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    I really hate my dad

    and I'll probably come off sounding like a spoiled and stubborn bîtch but please understand this from my side. My dad has been a wonderful person until I turned about 15 or 16. He bought me and my brothers things we needed but ever since, he's just been an asśhole about it...
    pb98 pb98 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5, 2014

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