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I Hate My Dad

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    My father was never dedicated to my mom.

    .. He always has another girl to go back to secretly... One time my mom caught him walking out with 2 chicks and she didn't expect a thing until they nothing kissed him... (That was like 13 years ago and he still found another girl to fill around with.) After his go-kart crash...
    D3fau1THack3R D3fau1THack3R 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Well...I don't like to say I hate people

    but I just can't help myself. When I was young, my dad abused my mother, emotionally and physically in front of my three year old brother and my five year old self. Not only can I not forget these traumatic events, he hasn't changed in the slightest since then. He is...
    winglessdove winglessdove 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I guess I don't really hate him all of the time,

    but a lot of the time I feel like I do. Ever since I was younger he has completely dictated my life and it seriously irritates the hell out of me. He tells me how to dress, how to act and what to do all the time. He acts so nice around other people, but around me he's a total...
    BritishAtHeart1996 BritishAtHeart1996 18-21, F Aug 12

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    Dear Dad

    Dear Dad, I wish that I could say these things to your face, but then I wouldn't have any place to live and not enough money for University, so I have to say it here. I know that I am lucky to have the life that I have had. My life has been blessed with happiness and little pain...
    inpd14 inpd14 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    A Letter To My Dad

     I have been dealing with a lot of anger lately.  You have been in my mind constantly…I had reoccurring thoughts about killing you.  I have so many questions that I will never get the answers to.  You made my life very difficult.  You caused a lot of pain-not only for...
    imamhere imamhere 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 60 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    My dad tries to act like a religious man

    but he is a evil man to his children. All my siblings run away from home on a bad note, there's only two of us left and I am on the verge of leaving. He use to abuse me and all my siblings but now he is getting old where he can only verbally abuse me. He calls me a ****, a...
    Anon5931 Anon5931 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream

    No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says stuff like go do something your in the way and it ****** me off because before he like starts talking to me and then does something else at...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    He has no idea what he's doing.

    I went to search on google for hockey start date and when I typed the H these were the suggestions from the historySome of this stuff is weird like the sex talk and the hammerhead sharks and my brothers search of himself. but seriously who searches for heroin use in teenagers...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    First of all, hi, I'm Ness.

    I'm not going to introduce myself, so here's basically my life story. So, I grew up in Ohio. My father is from Burma and my mother was from Kentucky. I have 2 sisters, and one brother, which I love them all to death. I'm the youngest of my family. When I was 4 my mother and...
    Nessuray Nessuray 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 23 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5

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    So my dad is unwilling to except change

    or to move from his point of view and is just not socially exceptable. First I am nearly 17 and he is unwilling to let me take even the first drivers test for a license even though he tells me to be with friends. So I ask him to drive me (he is retired) he will not if it is...
    ThatSn1perGuy ThatSn1perGuy 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 38 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 80 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    All this time I've been denying what I guess I

    already knew deep down. I always told myself that hate is bad, I shouldn't feel it. But today I finally snapped. I hate my father and this is the first time in all my 19 years that I've admitted it. I'm tired of him yelling at me for every little mistake I do. He's so violent...
    ariellexoxo ariellexoxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    i ******* HATE my dad he's an ******* wh is a

    cheap bastard and abusive in every way you can think of. he doesn't even act like a dad and has never told me he loved me or given me any type f confirmation if he cares weather I'm dead or alive i can't wait until the day he dies and honestly hope its tomorrow so i can spit on...
    emily23523545 emily23523545 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Doesn't Everyone?...

    Doesn't everyone?
    themiget themiget 16-18, M 44 Responses Jan 13, 2007

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    Why you gotta be so ruuude?

    Don't you know we're human too, Why you gotta be so ruuude? My mom married you anyway -_-
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    The situation is too similar.

    He's probably gambling again. I really hate it when it's like that because my mom gets all sad. I can't say anything like I want to run away or anything like that because how is that going to help anything. Why can't he see that he is making her unhappy? He use to go on and on...
    gmaingemail gmaingemail 16-17, F Aug 18

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    I don't have any recollection of loving my dad

    when I was young, though the photos show me with a huge grin on my face. Through all my teenage years, I have had to suffer with watching him stumble home from drunken nights out and be sick all over our stairs, throw things around, break things, play music very, very loud and...
    nobodyhastoknow nobodyhastoknow 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    gmaingemail gmaingemail 16-17, F Aug 8

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    I hate my dad. I truly truly do.

    I've experienced a heavy amount of emotional and physical abuse. The reason why I'm still alive today is because I believe that I am a strong person at heart. He started hitting me when I was in the sixth grade. I did something wrong? Slap across the face or a punch in the gut...
    metalchick5 metalchick5 22-25, F 9 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    My sister was only 7 turning 8,

    this is what I said to my sister “Yea Chelsea you’re going to play dolly house too”. She did not seem to be happy about it. She then told me that it’s not what I thought it was. I didn’t understand what she meant by that. My dad came towards me and put duct tape on my...
    highonsadness highonsadness 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    MY DAD IS THE BIGGEST MOST RACIST JUDGEMENTAL

    F****** A-HOLE EVER HE ABUSED ME AND MY SISTER MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY HE DOSENT LISTEN TO ANYTHING I SAY HE CHEATED ON MY MOM AND SHE TOOK HIM BACK -_- HE FORCES ME TO DO EVERYTHING FOR HIM AND DOSENT GIVE A S*** SO F*** YOU DAD
    Simple666 Simple666 13-15, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    In Washington I was about to go to college,

    had a job and a car. Well I go visit my Mom in North Dakota and she drops a bomb shell on me. Shes going to federal prison for this stupid thing her ex boyfriend was doing. Now she tells me that she is sending my little six year old sister to PA to live with my Grandma who is...
    gradyjellyneck gradyjellyneck 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I am back living with my dad

    after spending two years from him. I hate that I'm back living with him.he is such an *******. I can't sleep right now becuz all I could think about was the ******* and me having problems soon. I wish I was dead so I do not have to deal with this. When I was away from him I...
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Dont really saw my dad cause he ******* left me!

    or should i say , he dont ******* want me like any of my half brother and sister , atleast they got his last name 😶 we'll i tried to contact him all these years and you know what he did? He freaking unfriend me on facebook after he said " IF YOU NEED SOMETHING JUST TELL ME...
    kikxkay13 kikxkay13 16-17 1 Response Aug 16

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    You Should Have Been Here...........

    I figure my desire to be Dominated is very high because i never had a male figure in my home... I never had a father teach me how to ride a bike or teach me about boys. i never had that annoying conversation girls avoid about boys and sex.. So i had to figure out on my own...
    MissBellaB MissBellaB 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    I hate my dad. He is a selfish,

    greedy, bigot. I sometimes wonder how my mom ever became attracted to such a man. I think the only good thing he ever did in his life was help create me and my siblings. I wish he would die sooner than later, so I wouldn't have to deal with his crap longer than I have to.
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I'm never good enough

    for him, even though i try and to the best to impress him there is still always something or someone better
    erikaaaaaaaaa erikaaaaaaaaa 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    My father has always been very domineering

    and terrifying, even when I was young. I remember when he would grab me when I was three years old, and smack/ punch/ or otherwise beat my head, over and over again. I am now thirteen, and although he's lessened with the physical punishments, his verbal ones seem to be getting...
    CeltyKazma6848 CeltyKazma6848 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 30

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    Well, by popular demand I posted this here.

    My family had been fighting for years and there is only one person who seems to cause it. That, my friends is my dad. When I was like 11 or 12 things got pretty hairy and by then I knew who was causing all the fights all the time and it was a bittersweet internal battle if they...
    4NeonFun 4NeonFun 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I really hate my dad,

    he's an alcoholic and was never here as i was growing up. He also cheated on my mum 3 years ago and then left, then last year tried getting custody of me and my younger sister because my mum is 'unfit' to have us. He got my sister but i could stay with my mum because i was older...
    TwistedParadise TwistedParadise 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 19 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    My dad cancelled something really important to

    me that I waited 1 year for he did it by accident but said "whatever I don't care" he didn't even say sorry😭
    nfhh nfhh 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I HATE MY FATHER ! I DO NOT KNOW HOW I CAN EVEN

    CALL HIM THAT ! I HATE his so much ! Why ? Because when he got out of jail, guess what ? He left me to go to freakin Arkansas! WHAT . THE . **** .DAD . You would always say I love you in your letters ... BUT YOU DON'T REALLY LOVE ME ! you didn't even get to know me ! I mean...
    emmawinterfrost emmawinterfrost 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335 18-21, F 4 Responses May 19

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    I hate him. He's an ignorant ugly *****

    and not to mention a pathetic dumb ****. He gets in the way of my success and acts like he's doing nothing wrong. When he's home all he does is watch the dumb tv, go on Facebook, and finally leaves the living room late at night. His stubborn ignorance irritates me. I wish I...
    wajaylababo wajaylababo 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    He started off ok. You know how you'll get

    annoyed with your parents once in a while, but you still love them the same. With my dad, I have actually grown to hate him. He is so lazy and useless. All he does is work, watch Tv, sleep and on some nights hell go out. He use to be helpful around the house, but now he wont...
    sr39 sr39 18-21 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Despite my (valid) reasons

    for hating him, everyone says "How can you hate him? He is your father!" Is there anyone out there that understands it?
    kandysnow kandysnow 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    JustAnotherStalker JustAnotherStalker 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    madho55 madho55 22-25 Aug 16

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-18 111 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    I hate him for once was leaving me

    because a sk*nk and hurted my grandma. I hate him for I was made of my parents's stupidity. I have never felt Father's Love like kids in common. Just to think about him, made me feel bad about life and myself. I wish he's dead or I am. I hate him so much I can't even tell. I...
    quiteanorphan quiteanorphan 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Whats A Father Anyway?

    my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he has walked into the bathroom while i was taking a shower) he was one person i never wanted to see or spend time with. whenever...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 25

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    I really hate my dad,

    he never pay for my school, he never care about me, he never care about my mom, he such a jerk. all that he can do is spending my mom money to buy clothes and all that he wants. he never care that money could be used for my school. he always yell at me even in front of my friend...
    1janedoe 1janedoe 16-17, F Aug 22

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    My Dad is an alcoholic.

    He can drink a lot without anyone noticing he's drunk. After a while he gets loud and aggressive. And embarassing. I hate it. There was a time when we had a lot of money. He bought houses and cars and boats. But after a while he couldn't pay for these things anymore. He also...
    RainbowsandButterflys RainbowsandButterflys 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 13

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