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I Hate My Dad

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    Hating someone is hard.

    I've never been someone to hate easily but hating my dad sure is easy though. From ruining my mom's credit score and breaking the divorce decree to screaming at me everyday of my life since I was 7 and treating me like I'm nothing, to mind games I don't think he could go any...
    Kowalski17 Kowalski17 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5, 2014

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    My dad was a bad alcoholic.

    He was impossible to be close to, difficult to be near, and in general he was a long lasting series of rough memories. It's not a hate thing though. I see him as a tragic figure who hated himself so much he killed himself by hanging. Looking back I can still appreciate the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-17 113 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 84 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    Today I had the disturbing thought that

    if he died, I wouldn't be able to cry. And I'm pretty sure that my brother wouldn't either.
    MeganeChan MeganeChan 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    My dad is why I have claustrophobia.

    Since I was a kid I feel trapped even in moderately small rooms, elevators, etc. That's why I always take the stairs and close my eyes when there are no stairs. :| Thanks Dad, for locking me in closets instead of putting me in the corner. :/
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    the amount of mental

    and verbal abuse I've had to go through my whole life, I don't even remember one happy memory with him, what's so ever.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream

    No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says stuff like go do something your in the way and it ****** me off because before he like starts talking to me and then does something else at...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    Whats A Father Anyway?

    my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he has walked into the bathroom while i was taking a shower) he was one person i never wanted to see or spend time with. whenever...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    I Seriously Do

    Dont even say ''aw you dont hate your dad!'' because actually, I do. I hate him SOOO much. he has put me and my brothers through sooo much pain and I'm so done! He caused me to be SO depressed. I've been depressed before, and its NOT fun. But a couple months ago he has gotten to...
    cutebutterfly cutebutterfly 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 71 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    My dad always says my real mom is dead,

    but if people can visit her and hang out with her, she's just dead to him.
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    He was my programmer.

    And my detractor. Not ever close to benefactor. Despite gifts. Geared to say i grift. And he cares But honestly he scares When nobodys looking He delivers what hes been cooking. Then denies. By telling yall lies. Hope he suffers before he dies.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 33 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    okay so .. this is very hard

    for me to talk about. I never told it to anyone. not ever. I could never open it up. even though it is healthy to talk to people but how can i when they will look at me with empathy and they would be like 'I am so lucky to have my life' and yess not everyone is lucky enough to...
    quinnamore quinnamore 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Since yesterday was Father's Day I decided to

    share what an ******* my father is. He's currently in prison for trying to kill someone, drugs, robbing a bank, ect. I've never had a good relationship with my dad. He was physically and emotionally abusive toward my sisters and I. He used to hold me down and punch me over and...
    MadisonDavis MadisonDavis 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    I dont respect people

    who dont respect me. Theres a reason he has no friends. Hes a low life just like his brother. I dont even consider him my "dad". I want to change my last name. All of his families dead basically other than his brother and sister. Frankly i don't give a **** about any one of them...
    darkskies7 darkskies7 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 18-21, M 20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    My dad cheated on my mom with multiple women

    and texted his female single co-worker, bragging about the experience and asking for dating advice. A little background: my mom is the sweetest person I have ever met and she is truly an angel to me. She loves and supports my dad as much as she possibly can emotionally and they...
    User7272 User7272 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    He started off ok. You know how you'll get

    annoyed with your parents once in a while, but you still love them the same. With my dad, I have actually grown to hate him. He is so lazy and useless. All he does is work, watch Tv, sleep and on some nights hell go out. He use to be helpful around the house, but now he wont...
    sr39 sr39 18-21 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 22 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    I mean I don't hate him.

    ... But I don't love him either. My dad works hard for us. He's the only income maker in the family. He has to support four people and himself. That makes five. He tries to give us the things we want. But he doesn't at the same time. Does that make sense? My parents, I don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Im Subha From India..

    My dad left me when I was only one year old. I'm now 19 and wonder sometimes why he left me. Why would you leave your daughter behind?. Sometimes I think to myself that his leaving was all my fault. But what could I possibly have done as a newborn? I just want a dad...Really...
    subhasmily subhasmily 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 19

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    happy fathers day to a father

    who would rather play video games than be involved with his kids. i hate fathers day
    bandfreak26 bandfreak26 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    I don't care about you.

    I don't want to lie and say that I do, but I will until I'm an adult. If I get married and if I choose to have a ceremony, I won't invite you. Mom can choose. If you come, I'll get people to kick you out because you aren't welcomed in any way. I don't want to listen to you. The...
    jiayong jiayong 13-15 8 Responses Feb 6

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    Me toooo...... Nothing to say.

    .... He is great bkoz giv me birth only birth Nothing more than that i spoiled meeeer
    suresh36 suresh36 22-25, M Jun 21

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    Yeah I'm that girl with Daddy issues.

    Ever since I was little I was called worthless, ugly, fat, and much more by my father. It got to the point where I stopped eating and lost a tremendous amount of weight in a small amount of time. Sure I got skinny but I was still ugly and worthless. I was never able to reach his...
    MissWallflower MissWallflower 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 23

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    Converted Converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    Today is just a very emotional day.

    . thinking of the man who broke my heart before any boy could. the man who crushed my dreams. the one who disowned me at 14 the man who walks by me as if I dont exist. the one with my name tattooed on him but doesnt even know me anymore. I always wondered how can you just leave...
    petramullins petramullins 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    I hated my dad for as long

    as I can remember. When I was younger, he was very abusive towards everyone, yelling at m siblings and I for no reason always putting us down, and beating us, including my mom for God knows what. I had a very hard time with school when I was younger because of my health and...
    elijahx elijahx 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My father has 5 children from 5 different women

    and to add to that he beats up women. He only cares about money and his job. When i was 13 we got into a huge argument, he was so mad he hit me and locked me in the room. I swore from that day on i would NEVER set foot in his house ever again. I HATE MY DAD
    ysabelizade ysabelizade 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 2

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    Sooo my dad thinks it's ok to hit me,

    like really I'm not 5 anymore :/
    ayannagrant ayannagrant 13-15, F 35 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    I hate my dad because he dont care about me.

    he never did. i thought that when he cleaned his life up he would start caring about me and my sister. He did noyt care about us after my mom and brother passed away. I dont get it.
    AngelFace28 AngelFace28 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Happy Father's Day to my father

    who chose his other family over my sister and I.
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 18 Responses Jun 21

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 83 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 11 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    When my mom left he took his anger out on me.

    He would dress in scary costumes and wake me up in the middle of the night, and when I hit him (because I was terrified) he hit me back, harder. I started sleeping with a Swiss army knife, but whenever I threw it at him he would just take it and scratch me. When I was 15 I tried...
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate my dad. My mom told me she

    once caught my dad calling his mistress mom gave him a 2nd chance (no offense mom but that was stupid) but he still cheated with a lot of woman. Mom wouldn't want to believe that so she ignored it until someday mom and dad divorced the worse thing about it is he divorced mom for...
    Theihan13 Theihan13 13-15, M 3 Responses Jun 17

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    He is the man that has broken me emotionally.

    I can no longer handle it when someone raises their voice, I'm constantly afraid of someone getting angry or mad. And I can no longer look at the girl in the mirror and say that she is "good enough" He might act all high and mighty, citing the value of family, yet we never talk...
    MeganeChan MeganeChan 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    he's a alcoholic drugy woman beater wast of

    space and so **** him I have no dad
    kittykatkelly kittykatkelly 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    My dad doesn't want me to see a psychiatrist

    because he doesn't want me to get a diagnosis. He said "what the hell is a diagnosis going to do for you? It's just a label". Then he screamed at my mom for defending me. Get me away from him, he's the least sympathetic person on this goddam earth. He made my mom cry. Then he...
    ScheeleXx ScheeleXx 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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