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I Hate My Dad

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    I Have No Respect For Him...None

    I tried hard to have a father, but instead I had a dad. -Serve The Servants, Nirvana(1993) My dad is currently doing time in jail. He was an alcoholic, gambled, always angry, doesn't care for anyone besides himself, etc. He'd hit me for stupid stuff like knocking something...
    Roflcash4 Roflcash4 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    My dad is a show off harsh bully .

    . Wish i grow faster to get out of this place ..
    nonorawi nonorawi 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 25

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    After what he just told me in the car

    while we had to go Christmas shopping, I will never forget I HATE HIM
    kelseytoby kelseytoby 16-17 Dec 7

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 20 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    A Letter To My Dad

     I have been dealing with a lot of anger lately.  You have been in my mind constantly…I had reoccurring thoughts about killing you.  I have so many questions that I will never get the answers to.  You made my life very difficult.  You caused a lot of pain-not only for...
    imamhere imamhere 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    Just to state i'm not looking

    for advice (would be appreciated) I just want Express myself without him knowing. I dont know if i hate my dad but i know i do right now . Before he use to forced sports on me (been about 6 years) and has always been verbally abusive. I have had depression for a while now and...
    minislurpee minislurpee 16-17, M Dec 7

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    I really dislike my racist dad,

    who is trying to force me to choose between my family and my boyfriend. As I have become my own individual and have developed my own values, I am starting to realise that he and I hold entirely opposite values. It started coming to light when I entered a long distance...
    caseymichalk caseymichalk 22-25, F Dec 8

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F Jul 22

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 81 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    Why you gotta be so ruuude?

    Don't you know we're human too, Why you gotta be so ruuude? My mom married you anyway -_-
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't even know why I call him my dad

    because he is hardly that. His idea of parenting is screaming in mine and my siblings' faces. He never goes with us to enjoy family outings and if he does he shows how dreadful he is the whole time. He takes his anger out on everybody possible, especially my mom and my younger...
    tadkins10 tadkins10 13-15 3 Responses Nov 15

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Whats A Father Anyway?

    my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he has walked into the bathroom while i was taking a shower) he was one person i never wanted to see or spend time with. whenever...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I have so many qualified reasons

    for this and I used to say it and then tell myself how hating is so wrong and you should find reasons for forgiveness, but I think I've finally given all the energy towards forgiveness I can expend. Now I just simply hate him and would never talk to him if I had the opportunity...
    nomadventurist nomadventurist 18-21, F Dec 1

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    I'm seriously ready to just ask him what the

    f*** is your problem!? Grow the f*** up and realize that YOU screwed up any chance of a 'relationship' and quit blaming your daughter! You lost my number three times and then blame when you haven't even attempted to call me! My brother had to actually remind you that I was even...
    rottenroses rottenroses 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-18 113 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    My sister was only 7 turning 8,

    this is what I said to my sister “Yea Chelsea you’re going to play dolly house too”. She did not seem to be happy about it. She then told me that it’s not what I thought it was. I didn’t understand what she meant by that. My dad came towards me and put duct tape on my...
    highonsadness highonsadness 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 25 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    I mean I don't hate him.

    ... But I don't love him either. My dad works hard for us. He's the only income maker in the family. He has to support four people and himself. That makes five. He tries to give us the things we want. But he doesn't at the same time. Does that make sense? My parents, I don't...
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 31

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    tired of never being enough

    for them no matter how hard i have tried,he is never happy. fights with me all the time for any little thing making me feel like crap, cant wait to get out of here and live by myself
    mad0804 mad0804 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    I Seriously Do

    Dont even say ''aw you dont hate your dad!'' because actually, I do. I hate him SOOO much. he has put me and my brothers through sooo much pain and I'm so done! He caused me to be SO depressed. I've been depressed before, and its NOT fun. But a couple months ago he has gotten to...
    cutebutterfly cutebutterfly 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    My dad has never really abused me except

    for mentally, The only time he's ever hit me was discipline and I don't see anything wrong with it because I'm sure I deserved it,
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F Dec 10

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    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream

    No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says stuff like go do something your in the way and it ****** me off because before he like starts talking to me and then does something else at...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    He started off ok. You know how you'll get

    annoyed with your parents once in a while, but you still love them the same. With my dad, I have actually grown to hate him. He is so lazy and useless. All he does is work, watch Tv, sleep and on some nights hell go out. He use to be helpful around the house, but now he wont...
    sr39 sr39 18-21 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I can't remember the last time my own 'father'

    treated me in a polite, genuine and respectful way... Hell I never could recall him treating my sisters, my mother and the family as a whole with dignity. My four brothers as exactly like him, a clone of a bad father that he has and will always be, it is unfortunate. My whole...
    Angelanorexic Angelanorexic 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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    He always finds an excuse to call me stupid

    and make me seem dumb. Ever since my sister was born he's treated me like **** and gave her everything. Something's gotta give
    thedon21 thedon21 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 48 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    Sooo my dad thinks it's ok to hit me,

    like really I'm not 5 anymore :/
    ayannagrant ayannagrant 13-15, F 38 Responses Dec 10

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    he has no money and wont get a job

    and lives off his GF. my mother has been supporting me sense the devorse that happened when i was 9 (Im 16 now). He has had no home ever sense and does not even pay child support, all he does is drive me places sometimes, buys me mexican food and complains about how poor he is...
    miaroth miaroth 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    I don't exactly hate him

    but im very disapointed at him.He left me and my mom when i was 10,he was alcoholic and abusive.I remember when i was little before he left us he was always fighting with my mom and i would always hide in my room and cry.Then 9 years later when i went with my boyfriend for him...
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335 18-21, F 5 Responses May 19

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 21-25, M 20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    I hate my father so much they are

    so rude to me they make me feel horrible there always putting me down my dad just sits on the couch all day and does nothing not giving me any attention I hate him so much I wish he would leave like I wouldn't need him in my life anyways cause he just eats and works he doesn't...
    Unknownwwwwwww Unknownwwwwwww 22-25, F Dec 10

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    My dad hates me so much we are 7 sisters

    and 1 brother and he hates me sooo much out of all his children. I just don't understand why he treats me the way he does and say the meanest things, I'm not the type of person who hates people but I honestly hate my dad so much he has done do much bad things to me that ruined...
    onelovv1life onelovv1life 22-25, F Nov 9

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    Dear Dad

    Dear Dad, I wish that I could say these things to your face, but then I wouldn't have any place to live and not enough money for University, so I have to say it here. I know that I am lucky to have the life that I have had. My life has been blessed with happiness and little pain...
    inpd14 inpd14 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    Fearful

    My father scares the hell out of me. He yells and throws things. He has verbally and physically abused me, especially as a small, helpless child. He makes my mother feel like crap and makes her cry. She never cries. Today, I went downstairs to go take my medication and eat...
    duClo duClo 18-21, T 17 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 62 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    I hate my fathet and i want to run away from him

    but the problem is that i love my mom and i feel that if i run away my mom will just suffer and i dont feel like my personal hatred against my father is reason enough to make my mom a person who i love very much cry and suffer. I am 15 and i really love video games and i have...
    Tsunamings Tsunamings 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    My boyfriend was walking me home

    and when we were at my house's window my dad opened the window and started shouting at me that next time I didn't answer my phone he was going to take it away (i think he didnt saw my bf). My boyfriend of course was scared so i told him to go. I am so mad at my dad, i hate him...
    mentallynotokay mentallynotokay 13-15, F a week ago

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    My father is always yelling at me

    and he used to hit me . And I have anger problems . How do I fix that problem? I just use to punch walls !
    Quinn00 Quinn00 13-15, F Nov 15

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    I use to love my dad

    when I was younger but after he past away I found out some stuff that started making me hate him. To make a long story short ... Many years after my dad died I got this random message from this girl I've never met (and never plan to meet) claiming that my dad was her dad...
    Rebelscorpio Rebelscorpio 22-25, F Dec 6

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    Well.. I am 15, I live with my parents

    and my two little brothers and I hate my dad. My dad is a man who works really hard as well as my mother. We have everything we need and would wan't, we are a normal family. My relationship with my dad is not good. I mean it is really really bad. He has shattered my heart and my...
    mentallynotokay mentallynotokay 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 16

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    iamjustbeingme iamjustbeingme 16-17, M Dec 10

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5

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    I hate my dad, very much actually,

    you see my dad has been cheating on my mom, since i don't know when, and i love my mom and whenever dad arrives home late, which is very unlikely since he arrives in the morning and me and my brother end up sleeping beside her to keep her company, she always tries to call him...
    chucku45 chucku45 13-15, F Nov 19

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    i ******* hate my dad no one understands.

    i am a teenage girl. he is ******* mentally abusive. He is a clean freak, if u ever drop a piece of food or anything in the car or house, he ******* gets crazy and starts scolding u. HE is also over protective in a way that if i ever only have one mosquito bite, he will apply...
    Lurehc Lurehc 13-15, F a week ago

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    My dad is mentally insane

    and abusive. What he does is that he lies about me all the time, tells me that my dream career sucks, and tells me that I will never have that I even have in my current house, like food, water, and shelter. He even say that I WILL DIE. What the S does that mean?! He is so mean...
    Kim2018 Kim2018 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 3

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