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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-17 113 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    I've got to get rid of my anger towards my Dad.

    The only thing I know to do is to write about how I feel. I strongly hate him. First let me just say I was raised right by both of my parents all through childhood. Then once I entered high school, my father began to drink. Heavily after work. I heard from my mom he drank...
    UrMylivingproof UrMylivingproof 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    i hate my dad. everytime i see him he always

    has something negative to say about me :( and yells at me and threatened to beat me when i don't want to hang out with him .
    hiimmy hiimmy 16-17, F Jul 23

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    A week ago I talked of a "man"

    who wouldn't give one **** about his family, one who drinks himself to insanity and verbally abuses each and every one of us. What he does give a **** about is what we do in our house. He was so concerned about our daily lives that he went and put wireless cameras in the living...
    KarissaClara KarissaClara 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    where do I start. I used to

    once think he was my dad. my hero. my best friend. but here's the thing, he's not. I hope there's someone who understand what it's like to bullied, not by a guy who's thinks he's better than you, a meat head hungry for some hurt feelings. not by him. your dad. he makes me feel...
    AlejandroRijo AlejandroRijo 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    my dad is the biggest hoe!

    i hate him so much! i just want him to die! he is a crazy psychopath! he won't sign passports for me and my sister to go on holidays. he reported my mum for abuse when she has never even laid a hand on us. he tried to frame my step dad as a *********. he is always drunk and...
    wombatsarecute wombatsarecute 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I dont want anybody to judge me about me hating

    my dad , bc first of all you dont know me and what ive been thru with him and second hes never been a dad to me . My dad is a rich guy actually he's filthy rich. but hes also really really cheap . I dont mind that i guess but he never gets me anything at all .Not just me but all...
    xcix xcix 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    I hate my dad because he dont care about me.

    he never did. i thought that when he cleaned his life up he would start caring about me and my sister. He did noyt care about us after my mom and brother passed away. I dont get it.
    AngelFace28 AngelFace28 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 84 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    I love him so much, but I hate him

    so much too. If that makes sense, it's a love hate relationship. What it comes down to is, he has extremely bad anger issues, he's miserable with his job, he hates being poor, and has stressed. therefor, he screams at all of us (siblings and mom) And it hurts because every...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 12 Responses Jul 15

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 72 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    I really hate my dad.

    He always plays favorites with my sister. My sister seriously just yelled at me for locking the door??? WTF most people would like that I mean I'm not hurting anyone... Then she threw water on me AND MY DAD TOOK HER SIDE!!! Like WTF seriously -_- I did throw a rubbing alcohol...
    SorryImClarice SorryImClarice 13-15, F Jul 20

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    So after I was born my dad had spent a lot of

    time on the computer. Back then they're wasn't facebook or twitter but they're where chat rooms. Whenever my mom would ask him what he was doing, walk into the room or ask him for help with taking care of me he would close the window and he would get defensive and angry at my...
    Caitie784 Caitie784 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    He has no idea what he's doing.

    I went to search on google for hockey start date and when I typed the H these were the suggestions from the historySome of this stuff is weird like the sex talk and the hammerhead sharks and my brothers search of himself. but seriously who searches for heroin use in teenagers...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    My step dad scares me,

    idk what to do anymore. I can't leave.
    Thenamesjess Thenamesjess 16-17, F Jul 18

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    He used to hit me for stupid reasons everyday

    when i was young and used to enjoy it. Played favourite with my sister . i hate that ***** as well, always take's my ******* father's side. He thinks he can never be wrong cause parents deserve to be worshiped. He also thinks men are better than women. He always tell us how he...
    SHUDDHA97 SHUDDHA97 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 22 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    Ever since I didn't get into this college he

    wanted me to go to every day has been a challenge. I feel like a looser and I honestly can't wait to leave home. He doesn't leave a single opportunity to make me feel like a looser.
    looserme475 looserme475 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    This might be a bit of a different story

    than most. And bare with me here because I'm totally new to this site. Most stories involve a father who is both physically and emotionally absent from one's life and yet my dad is still around but he shouldn't even have title "dad" because his actions and behavior do not...
    KarissaClara KarissaClara 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    I hate him, I hate him.

    He make my life hell. Everyday, he keeps remind me how disgusting, horrible, useless and idiot I am. And he seems to enjoy it. He makes me feel, like I am the worst thing that has ever been born to this life. He's a nightmare, a threat, a monster, the biggest monster in my...
    gewalt88 gewalt88 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    He was 18 when he and my mom had their drunken

    fling. 9 months later, I came. Great start. :/ He abused me my whole life and called it teaching. If I was bad he didn't put me in a corner like normal people. He locked me in a closet for the rest of the day. When I got older he had me choose between that and yard work. When he...
    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5, 2014

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 89 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    My father has been physically

    and verbally abusing Me for my whole life, he always called me words like lazy, fat, ugly, worthless, etc. and he always beats me up and kicks me, So today he was tying my sisters hair with a rubber band, i was like it will rip her hair and he got mad and starting cussing at me...
    Ibnyi Ibnyi 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    My story is kinda different you see mine didn't

    get drunk or abuse my mom or anything like that but i can feel that he Hates me and it has been like that for so long. He is only present in my life to give order or to disagree with something i said mostly anything i do or say he doesn't like it. He just want to have control...
    Jazz155 Jazz155 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    My Dad hurts me all kinds of ways iv runaway

    once but it didnt work out. He just agrivates me.
    ihatedade ihatedade 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    DreamWarriorBlake DreamWarriorBlake 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    Happy Father's Day to my father

    who chose his other family over my sister and I.
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 17 Responses Jun 21

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    the amount of mental

    and verbal abuse I've had to go through my whole life, I don't even remember one happy memory with him, what's so ever.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 33 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    Sooo my dad thinks it's ok to hit me,

    like really I'm not 5 anymore :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 35 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    he literally told my sister he would beat her

    *** if she didn't go to sleep and I just want to beat him till he can't move for saying that to my little sister, don't mess with my siblings
    loneleyboy loneleyboy 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    My dad has been cheated on my mom 3 times

    or maybe more. My mom knew it too. They almost got a divorce back then, but they didn't. They chose to try it again and stay together. Maybe my mom did that because she was thinking about my sister and me. What would other people think about her daughter if people know their dad...
    stargirlpaddy stargirlpaddy 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    I don't care about you.

    I don't want to lie and say that I do, but I will until I'm an adult. If I get married and if I choose to have a ceremony, I won't invite you. Mom can choose. If you come, I'll get people to kick you out because you aren't welcomed in any way. I don't want to listen to you. The...
    jiayong jiayong 13-15 8 Responses Feb 6

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    I hate my dad about 80% of the time.

    He knows what makes me upset and angry and he purposefully does it because he finds it amusing. Whenever I get mad he starts telling me that I am a brat and that I am only mad at myself. Whenever he does something stupid or messes something up he finds some way to blame it on me...
    jmp98 jmp98 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Yesterday my dad drove me

    and my younger brother to visit my older brother who lives about 30 miles away at his workplace when he was on break my dad is a jerk and an ******* so it didnt really surprise me that at the end of our short visit with him that the last thing my dad did before leaving was tell...
    AshleyWCSloth AshleyWCSloth 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    My dad stresses me out

    so much it makes me do things I don't want to do but I do it anyways
    Thelonelyasian Thelonelyasian 22-25, M Jul 22

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    Yeah I'm that girl with Daddy issues.

    Ever since I was little I was called worthless, ugly, fat, and much more by my father. It got to the point where I stopped eating and lost a tremendous amount of weight in a small amount of time. Sure I got skinny but I was still ugly and worthless. I was never able to reach his...
    MissWallflower MissWallflower 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 23

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    I always say leave the past in the past

    for he is dead long time ago. He never was there and will never be and even no mercy to be ever said on his soul. It is the payment should any dad know when hurt their own son. I wish if any dad saw that they can't raise their own kid. They should leave them to adoption better...
    sensitiveguy36 sensitiveguy36 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Im only a 13 y/o girl.

    i dont ever want to be around my dad. he is a psycho, he doesnt give anyone any privacy, he looks through peoples phones for no reason, starts really really bad arguements over stupid crap, he yells at my mom and i yell back at him, telling him to shutup, stop yelling at my mom...
    KyaDiamondInTheSky KyaDiamondInTheSky 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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