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I Hate My Dad

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I really hate my dad,

    he's an alcoholic and was never here as i was growing up. He also cheated on my mum 3 years ago and then left, then last year tried getting custody of me and my younger sister because my mum is 'unfit' to have us. He got my sister but i could stay with my mum because i was older...
    TwistedParadise TwistedParadise 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 23 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    I hate my dad. I truly truly do.

    I've experienced a heavy amount of emotional and physical abuse. The reason why I'm still alive today is because I believe that I am a strong person at heart. He started hitting me when I was in the sixth grade. I did something wrong? Slap across the face or a punch in the gut...
    metalchick5 metalchick5 22-25, F 9 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    Doesn't Everyone?...

    Doesn't everyone?
    themiget themiget 16-18, M 44 Responses Jan 13, 2007

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 25

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    My dad is an arrogant,

    racist, sexist, homophobic ******* that believes beating up his daughter (me) will change my opinion on how I feel about black people or gays. Just a heads up, these bruises only add to my hatred for you, they do nothing to my moral opinions.
    jazsag19 jazsag19 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Maybe hate isn't the right word.

    I don't hate him. I hate his actions. He and my mom have been having marriage issues lately and he makes sure to always tell me it's my fault and when I disagree, he just says in the most cheery voice "sure it is!" I'm only 15 and I hardly ever get in trouble. So by him saying...
    savannaha savannaha 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    He was always there for me,

    pretended that he cares for 13 years. He was my hero, my parent, he loved me. At least I thought so. But I grow up, I see that was just a play in a theatre. He left us, married and has new children, At first we had contact but now he doesnt even call me, he doesnt know how old I...
    neznamstvarno neznamstvarno 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am back living with my dad

    after spending two years from him. I hate that I'm back living with him.he is such an *******. I can't sleep right now becuz all I could think about was the ******* and me having problems soon. I wish I was dead so I do not have to deal with this. When I was away from him I...
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F Aug 27

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    I just do. He's a ****** *******.

    I finally opened up to him about a problem in my life and he ended up getting me into an even more humiliating situation. He doesn't ****** listen. He thinks he knows what's right. But I am trying to get someone to listen to me and all they do is try to tell me otherwise. In the...
    maurylight maurylight 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F Jul 22

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    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335 18-21, F 4 Responses May 19

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    I hate him for once was leaving me

    because a sk*nk and hurted my grandma. I hate him for I was made of my parents's stupidity. I have never felt Father's Love like kids in common. Just to think about him, made me feel bad about life and myself. I wish he's dead or I am. I hate him so much I can't even tell. I...
    quiteanorphan quiteanorphan 16-17, F Aug 29

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 21-25, M 19 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    If you need a daddy,

    who won't be terrible, cruel, and callous, but loving, kind, appreciative, and understanding, message me.
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Things got bad when i was a teenager.

    he is always yelling at me for really stupid reasons and makes me feel terrible about myself. the worst part is i see myself in him and i hate it. i catch myself treating people the way he treats me, and i hate it. my biggest fear is turning into him. i don't want children...
    aperson11994 aperson11994 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream

    No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says stuff like go do something your in the way and it ****** me off because before he like starts talking to me and then does something else at...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    The alcohol, the ignorance of caring,

    ignorance of ******* everything and the drunkness. He makes me angry. Fills me up with rage. Every small thing he does, puts me on edge. Even his snoring makes me anxious, not able to sleep. Because it is a sound that is so much related to him as a person, makes me not be able...
    lilymonet lilymonet 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    JustAnotherStalker JustAnotherStalker 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 80 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    He's so irrational when he fights with my mom.

    My mom is just trying to help him and I understand that nagging is VERY annoying but the thing is he doesn't even listen. Instead he yells at her and asks like an arrogant teenager during their rebellious stage.
    gmaingemail gmaingemail 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    My sister was only 7 turning 8,

    this is what I said to my sister “Yea Chelsea you’re going to play dolly house too”. She did not seem to be happy about it. She then told me that it’s not what I thought it was. I didn’t understand what she meant by that. My dad came towards me and put duct tape on my...
    highonsadness highonsadness 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    We had a big fight but

    now things are getting a little better. I wish he was more of a friend than a parent, considering my mom is not one of those 'you can talk to me about anytning' moms. I'm thankful that I have parents so involved in my school work in future, but they fail to see my emotional...
    maurylight maurylight 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why you gotta be so ruuude?

    Don't you know we're human too, Why you gotta be so ruuude? My mom married you anyway -_-
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Ever since I was a child all I remember him was

    as a drunk. Every year it just keeps getting worse. I can't take it anymore. I just want a normal dad who I can share life experiences with. I just want a normal father/daughter relationship but instead I get abuse. I'm almost at the end of my rope with this. I hate him. No...
    dml30 dml30 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-18 111 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    I HATE MY FATHER ! I DO NOT KNOW HOW I CAN EVEN

    CALL HIM THAT ! I HATE his so much ! Why ? Because when he got out of jail, guess what ? He left me to go to freakin Arkansas! WHAT . THE . **** .DAD . You would always say I love you in your letters ... BUT YOU DON'T REALLY LOVE ME ! you didn't even get to know me ! I mean...
    emmawinterfrost emmawinterfrost 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 41 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    That sad moment when a child disowns their

    parent rather then vise versa. Hope you're happy now "dad", I know I am.
    jazsag19 jazsag19 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My dad told my siblings

    and I that we ruined his life he wished we were never born, and I swore to never forgive him not after he said that. The only thing I feel towards my father is Pure Hatred.
    liveandloveat21 liveandloveat21 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I Have No Respect For Him...None

    I tried hard to have a father, but instead I had a dad. -Serve The Servants, Nirvana(1993) My dad is currently doing time in jail. He was an alcoholic, gambled, always angry, doesn't care for anyone besides himself, etc. He'd hit me for stupid stuff like knocking something...
    Roflcash4 Roflcash4 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    When you ask people what they're afraid of,

    they usually say spiders, or heights. Not me. What I'm most afraid of is growing up to be like my dad. The very thought of it shakes my very core with dread. I never want to be like him at all. For my kids
    Krisolo Krisolo 16-17 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 19 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    MY DAD IS THE BIGGEST MOST RACIST JUDGEMENTAL

    F****** A-HOLE EVER HE ABUSED ME AND MY SISTER MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY HE DOSENT LISTEN TO ANYTHING I SAY HE CHEATED ON MY MOM AND SHE TOOK HIM BACK -_- HE FORCES ME TO DO EVERYTHING FOR HIM AND DOSENT GIVE A S*** SO F*** YOU DAD
    Simple666 Simple666 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5

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    Dear Dad

    Dear Dad, I wish that I could say these things to your face, but then I wouldn't have any place to live and not enough money for University, so I have to say it here. I know that I am lucky to have the life that I have had. My life has been blessed with happiness and little pain...
    inpd14 inpd14 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    he acts like he cant hear he likes to make

    jokes about me being a dog and he loves to tell my mom that i'm a liar he treats my mom like crap and my other sisters he is the worst i hate him
    lorell121 lorell121 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    My dad is just unpredictable

    and that is the worst part. He has hell lot of anger issues. He is always shouting at everyone in the house. A few days back i met with an accident and the next day i had to perform on my college induction program. I sang well and everyone appreciated . But my dad...uh......he...
    nb11111 nb11111 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    My dad was in my prison my whole life.

    He recently got out and contacted me only like three days ago. And now he is rushing to see me and my sister.. But we both don't know him and want to take our time and HE gets an attitude saying he didn't spend all his time in prison praying to be with his family to get all this...
    krazykaylove krazykaylove 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My father has always been very domineering

    and terrifying, even when I was young. I remember when he would grab me when I was three years old, and smack/ punch/ or otherwise beat my head, over and over again. I am now thirteen, and although he's lessened with the physical punishments, his verbal ones seem to be getting...
    CeltyKazma6848 CeltyKazma6848 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 30

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    You Should Have Been Here...........

    I figure my desire to be Dominated is very high because i never had a male figure in my home... I never had a father teach me how to ride a bike or teach me about boys. i never had that annoying conversation girls avoid about boys and sex.. So i had to figure out on my own...
    MissBellaB MissBellaB 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Despite my (valid) reasons

    for hating him, everyone says "How can you hate him? He is your father!" Is there anyone out there that understands it?
    kandysnow kandysnow 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Whats A Father Anyway?

    my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he has walked into the bathroom while i was taking a shower) he was one person i never wanted to see or spend time with. whenever...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I can't say that I despise him,

    I just hate how he judges people without giving them a chance! he's homophobic,racist,sexist,and very opinionated. I just wish he would change... I Guess it's not that easy.
    fookur fookur 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I really don't hate my dad (but at times I do).

    .. I hate my dads gf. I always hear her saying mean things about me whenever I stay at my dad's house. I use to like visiting and seeing my dad but now I don't because he always brings his girlfriend along. I hope they never end up getting married because of they do... My life is...
    cutiepieeeee cutiepieeeee 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Ughh I hate this man my mom went to buy burgers

    with me and she heard the gate to our house an got up to pretend she wasn't eating any " junk food " he keeps her on a strict diet and I hate that he eats all kinds of junk food in front of her and she can't eat any!! She works out every other night at the gym after work and I c...
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I Hate him so much. He Hate's me too.

    I know he will never change.I don't expect him to.
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I dont hate my dad im just mad

    as hell with him right now.cause he called me a *****.well he used the word harlot but same difference. He wanted me to apologize for saying id throw his clothes out if he touched mine and he has none cause he doesn't have a job.i wanted him to apologize for saying I was a...
    Passionfruit3 Passionfruit3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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