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I Hate My Dad

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 35 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    this is me venting here:i live with my douchbag

    dad, and its upsetting. I use to be sad that he is always working and rarely spends time with me. now i know hes a scumbag and tells me that my brother is his favorite. i utterly hate him but i don't want to start **** in my family. I'm already labeled as the problem child in my...
    Redkevin324 Redkevin324 16-17, M Aug 20

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 84 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    the amount of mental

    and verbal abuse I've had to go through my whole life, I don't even remember one happy memory with him, what's so ever.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    My dad has always been the same person:

    controlling, demanding and manipulative. Thank the heavens he doesn't live with my siblings and my mother because my life would be a living hell ! I hate it when I have to visit him and his wife- I still remember when he was abusive (verbally and physically) to my mum and...
    khaleesi99 khaleesi99 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I hate him more than I ever thought I could

    hate anyone. He wasn't always bad I'll give him that, but the moment he started drinking my life changed I became his verbal punching bag. Worthless became my new nick name, and then he hit me. It only happened once but it screwed with me I began to believe I was really...
    jane098 jane098 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I know every single day passes,

    so does the distance between me and my father increase. Part of me hate it, part of me don't care at all. Where it will end I don't know... If only we were like those who share a good relationship with their fathers....
    divinitydragon divinitydragon 26-30, M 5 Responses Jun 2

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    I'm about to just beat him unconscious.

    I'm sick of the way he treats me and my sister. I really hate him. Its that kind of hatred that makes you feel warm inside. I wanna just walk in the kitchen and throw him over the table and kick his sorry ***. This wouldn't be difficult since I'm about 6 inches taller than him...
    IchBinDeutsch IchBinDeutsch 13-15, M Aug 7

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    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream

    No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says stuff like go do something your in the way and it ****** me off because before he like starts talking to me and then does something else at...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    "I am from Kolkata in India

    and I am desperately looking for ‘Friends’. I am a PHYSICALLY HANDICAPPED person stuck with a horrible life really. After a failed Suicide attempt a few years back that almost killed me, all such efforts of mine is under the strict vigil of my Mother. They just want me to...
    123destiny009 123destiny009 41-45, M 17 hrs ago

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 22 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    Right now I don't even want to call him dad I

    don't know? I am just sick of him, he is the reason why I even signed up for this website. 'He' does not have a job. He steals money from his parents to maintain us and support us which I am thankful about. But I am actually not because as much as he spends it on us, he spends...
    aaa12093487 aaa12093487 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    swaged104 swaged104 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 12

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    he says im a lesbian just

    because i hugged my bestfriend ...
    larlarmmxii larlarmmxii 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So after I was born my dad had spent a lot of

    time on the computer. Back then they're wasn't facebook or twitter but they're where chat rooms. Whenever my mom would ask him what he was doing, walk into the room or ask him for help with taking care of me he would close the window and he would get defensive and angry at my...
    Caitie784 Caitie784 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    My father has 5 children from 5 different women

    and to add to that he beats up women. He only cares about money and his job. When i was 13 we got into a huge argument, he was so mad he hit me and locked me in the room. I swore from that day on i would NEVER set foot in his house ever again. I HATE MY DAD
    ysabelizade ysabelizade 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 2

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    I hate my dad because he dont care about me.

    he never did. i thought that when he cleaned his life up he would start caring about me and my sister. He did noyt care about us after my mom and brother passed away. I dont get it.
    AngelFace28 AngelFace28 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    My dad is the partial reason

    why I have a low self esteem. He once called me stupid, *****, and ugly. The agony part is, every night as I'm about laid my head, his voice runs through my head like- a broken track record- reminding me of every insult he has ever said to me. Sometimes I consider suicide just...
    50ShadesOfJay012 50ShadesOfJay012 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    He was always a horrible father wether it was

    my grades, or how I acted, or how I didn't want to do everything with him, his girlfriend, his girlfriends daughter, and my brother. He treats me like **** and treats his girlfriend and her daughter like a queen and a princess I hate that I am actually related to him or that...
    HeRuinedMyLife HeRuinedMyLife 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    He's such an arrogant *******

    that thinks highly if himself. Even when he's not right he makes up some excuse and tells me that I'm a smart-***.
    ilovebroadwayforevermore ilovebroadwayforevermore 16-17, F Aug 17

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    Where do I begin??? My father is a hard worker

    that hates his job. He does everything to ***** and rant about the world. He is a simple man that is a liberal. However, when the world does not go his way he freaks out in hate. He is a huge drinker/ pot head. It makes him sloppy and gross to be around. All he does most of the...
    Sharilin27 Sharilin27 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 100 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 75 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5, 2014

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    Me cant do much but focus on free

    and hope pals are better than family.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M Aug 18

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    I hate my abusive, sick,

    hypocrite, pig father. He never treats me right, he never did and he never will no matter how hard I tried to please him and be a good son to him he will always hate me and I will never satisfy the empty black whole inside of him that is supposed to be his soul and personality...
    VerySimple2015 VerySimple2015 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    i guess I'll have to type it in the comments

    because ep keeps deleting my experiences for some reason.
    KayandtheCelloCats KayandtheCelloCats 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    tonight I found out my dad got sick a month ago

    and now he's deaf in his right ear. it's my fault we don't talk I stopped going with him. now he's gonna talk to me and stuff, but I can't. if that was happening to me I would just want my family and I took it from him. but he has his wife so what does he even need me for #
    steal11 steal11 18-21, F Aug 16

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    The emotional abuse really needs to stop.

    I can't believe I actually thought his cyclical behavior was normal. He'd explode, treat me like a princess for two weeks, then ignore me, then the smallest thing will set him off. Then it changed a little, after his several attempts at trying to get me to forgive him, he'll...
    MattBoone MattBoone 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    First Before I get into my current situation I

    want to talk about what happened a few nights ago that bothered me. My sisters and I got my parents like little treats to have in their class rooms. My dad was already moody before we gave him the treats. When he got them he was surprised and he could have just said thank you...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    So, I got home from school feeling good about

    myself and content with the world, but of course, that doesn't last long. My Dad pounces on me and starts having a "talk" with me. I just got home from school, I want time to myself, I want to take a shower and relax. Anyway, he goes on asking if I like his girlfriend or...
    CGBChan CGBChan 16-17, F Aug 13

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    I don't care about you.

    I don't want to lie and say that I do, but I will until I'm an adult. If I get married and if I choose to have a ceremony, I won't invite you. Mom can choose. If you come, I'll get people to kick you out because you aren't welcomed in any way. I don't want to listen to you. The...
    imperfectprincess imperfectprincess 13-15, F 8 Responses Feb 6

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 18-21, M 20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    Happy Father's Day to my father

    who chose his other family over my sister and I.
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 17 Responses Jun 21

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    He has no idea what he's doing.

    I went to search on google for hockey start date and when I typed the H these were the suggestions from the historySome of this stuff is weird like the sex talk and the hammerhead sharks and my brothers search of himself. but seriously who searches for heroin use in teenagers...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    I'm getting really sick

    and tired of my dad putting me down by saying you act like ur friends you a beggar and he's saying oh your just like ur friends greedy. One of theses days I'm gonna punch him when he says the wrong thing. And you wonder why mom left you and you say u don't give a f
    Dominantslavefucker Dominantslavefucker 22-25, M Aug 18

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    Sooo my dad thinks it's ok to hit me,

    like really I'm not 5 anymore :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 35 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    My sister was only 7 turning 8,

    this is what I said to my sister “Yea Chelsea you’re going to play dolly house too”. She did not seem to be happy about it. She then told me that it’s not what I thought it was. I didn’t understand what she meant by that. My dad came towards me and put duct tape on my...
    highonsadness highonsadness 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2014

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 12 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I'm going to kill someone

    who does not know my emotion is unstable , like my dad keep quip to me , he really suck , i'm totally sick around him , i want get out from this bloody place called "home"
    RArchangle RArchangle 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    Now before anyone starts saying how I should be

    lucky that I have a father, hold up because there's a lot of valid reasons why I particularly hate him so much. When I was a little kid, my dad would physically abuse me and my brother and fight with mom day in and day out. And the thing is, my brother was expected not to cry...
    thatinnxcentgirl thatinnxcentgirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 16