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I Hate My Dad

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    He says he loves us but all he does is work.

    We all hate him so much that our mother pretends to abuse us when he's home. She's a really great mother. What makes me hate him more is that he's dating a girl younger than me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I live with my dad and autistic brother,

    my mom died when I was 8 so I've been pulling alot of weight around the house , this includes raising my brother ( for some reason besides cooking him food my dad never spends time with him he has severe autism and needs to have everything taught to him as though it's...
    zula9218 zula9218 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 21

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    Everyday my dad shouts at me ,

    calls me names, says im abusive to my little brother **** this im not at all his child is always on my case i have watched him more then my dad ever has.I really hate my dad im gonna get a job and buy a house and runaway.I'm so sick of him not listening to ,not treating me like a...
    iwanttobeafashionesigner iwanttobeafashionesigner 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Don't you ever get that feeling

    that you feel like you did something amazing, then your dad says you failed, or you are useless?
    colinjia colinjia 13-15, M 4 Responses Apr 25

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    my dad cheated on my mom.

    he did not only cheated he tried to rap my servant .not only that my mom is always sick her sickness started when she was a little kid but she serviced with lots of tablets. do I have to tell her or not if I tell her she might dead it only me who know
    merryrocks merryrocks 22-25 Apr 22

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    So this starts years ago

    when i moved to live with my grandparents because my parents could not raise me up as the problems were those times.I never knew my dad i was just a little baby.When i turned 10 i moved at my parents.My brother didn't love me.I was the kid who was raised from the grandparents.My...
    abelstafa abelstafa 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    During a conversation,

    my mom asked me: If your dad was dying, would you visit him one last time since you'll never see him again? I said "NOPE" loud and clear and also used tupac's quote "my anger wouldn't let me feel for a stranger". I also went on to say that I'm over the fact I won't have father...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 6 Responses Apr 28

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 10 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 82 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    Almost every day he yells at me

    and tells me he'll hit me or something and then, a couple of hours later, he becomes a different person altogether and I have to play along with that persona of his otherwise he starts screaming again. Today, I was watching something on the telly when he told me to get him a...
    EvanescentIridescent EvanescentIridescent 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want to cut out my dad from my life

    once I move into the dorms
    jellyycook jellyycook 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    Why you gotta be so ruuude?

    Don't you know we're human too, Why you gotta be so ruuude? My mom married you anyway -_-
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    He started off ok. You know how you'll get

    annoyed with your parents once in a while, but you still love them the same. With my dad, I have actually grown to hate him. He is so lazy and useless. All he does is work, watch Tv, sleep and on some nights hell go out. He use to be helpful around the house, but now he wont...
    sr39 sr39 18-21 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5, 2014

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    Whats A Father Anyway?

    my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he has walked into the bathroom while i was taking a shower) he was one person i never wanted to see or spend time with. whenever...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    my dad left when I was 3 he wa sent to jail

    and then he went to the hospital an he had nothing to do so he called me every day and I haven't heard from him since
    mermaidjoyprincess mermaidjoyprincess 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    i dont know what he wants ,

    he keeps on mentally torture me and my mom..i had even given all my pocket money to celebrate my parents anniversary bought him expensive gifts, done everything that me and my bro can do but he still fights with us, shouts on my mom, drink heavily..i m fed up of his behavious...
    MysteriousLion MysteriousLion 22-25, M 2 Responses May 5

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    the amount of mental

    and verbal abuse I've had to go through my whole life, I don't even remember one happy memory with him, what's so ever.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    My father has 5 children from 5 different women

    and to add to that he beats up women. He only cares about money and his job. When i was 13 we got into a huge argument, he was so mad he hit me and locked me in the room. I swore from that day on i would NEVER set foot in his house ever again. I HATE MY DAD
    ysabelizade ysabelizade 18-21, F 10 Responses Feb 2

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 18-21, M 20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    I'm 20 years old and throughout my entire life,

    I've hated my dad... He has no job therefore no income. My mom is the only person working with the exception of me working a part time job. He stays at home all day and basically watches TV & goes on the computer to pass time. He rarely does any chores around the house (He would...
    YZ9404 YZ9404 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    The person who i hate most i my life is my dad.

    It is not a reason that he can't fulfill my need or giving his time to me. it the way he behave me he don;t like me to see happy and my freedom every time. he try to beat me and always spoke verger word all night. i feel very bad when i see my friend family relation because...
    Ajxii Ajxii 22-25, M May 18

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    I really hate my dad a lot.

    It's nice that he provides money for me to go to school and all the nice gadgets. But come on, these doesn't matter when you don't even ******* care about the family. What ever goes wrong you blame mom. You cared about yourself only. When mom's pills got taken away by the...
    Bernsch Bernsch 18-21, F 1 Response May 1

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    He has no idea what he's doing.

    I went to search on google for hockey start date and when I typed the H these were the suggestions from the historySome of this stuff is weird like the sex talk and the hammerhead sharks and my brothers search of himself. but seriously who searches for heroin use in teenagers...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    My dad is the most judgemental,

    hypocritical, egotistical, in-empathetic, know-it-all, a*shole that has walked the earth. His intollerence and skewed views and racism and lack of empithy is second to stalin and hitler. I CANT DO ANYTHING. he acts like im not capable i mean he called me on vacay with my mom and...
    skrewd skrewd 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I mean I don't hate him.

    ... But I don't love him either. My dad works hard for us. He's the only income maker in the family. He has to support four people and himself. That makes five. He tries to give us the things we want. But he doesn't at the same time. Does that make sense? My parents, I don't...
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    So after I was born my dad had spent a lot of

    time on the computer. Back then they're wasn't facebook or twitter but they're where chat rooms. Whenever my mom would ask him what he was doing, walk into the room or ask him for help with taking care of me he would close the window and he would get defensive and angry at my...
    Caitie784 Caitie784 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    It's Mom birthday. And fresh off

    if Mother's day Im not happy about the stressful day I'm about to have. Before Mother's day he had us run out and get a card, chocolates, and flowers for him to give to her. On Mother's day we had a spontaneous *cough* planed poorly *cough* day. Dad told us to make breakfast we...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 21 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    My dad and I have never gotten along

    and almost are complete opposites and even do I have tried to bond with him I just gave up on him When I was 7 I accidentally pushed my brother off the porch and he got from my legs and threw me off Another thing he would do is he would always blame me for everything and...
    legalcobra6886 legalcobra6886 13-15, M 2 Responses May 16

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    i hope my dad dies. he always shouts at us

    and abuses my mother. i dont understand why he won't just die.
    huhu431 huhu431 22-25, M May 4

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    My dad all he ever does is annoy me.

    He knows what irritates me and does those exact things. He never wants to do anything with me, and always messes things up. All he ever wants is his way, and can't stand it and yells if he doesn't. And when is ask him how he feels about a drawing or anything i made he says he...
    MintSpark MintSpark 13-15 May 9

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 73 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    I just fvcking told him all about my

    depressions, the way I feel about myself, my school problems and all the things that happend and bug me. What did I get? Laughed on.
    jeednorrozec jeednorrozec 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    He is an *** and a stranger.

    I do honestly think he loves us as much as he can... But how much is that in actuality? I have no idea. The most affectionate thing he can do is bring home a little something while he's out. Don't get me wrong I appreciate the small gestures- they are the only thing that...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    i wish he was here now

    so i could stab him in the heart
    TGBman TGBman 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Growing up I had not realized how horrible of a

    dad my dad is. Now that i am mature enough to know what is right and wrong I noticed how disrespectful and selfish my dad is. I can honestly title my dad as a heavy alcoholic. He shows no love or appreciation to myself or siblings. All he does is verbally abuse us & as well as...
    dfe213 dfe213 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 69 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    I have never loved my father.

    He is a sexist, wife beating liar who also beat my sister so bad once, and even then he would never realize the damage he has done to me and my sister, but especially her. He wants to pretend that now he remarried and had another kid (a boy, like he always wanted) he will have a...
    Mariana98G Mariana98G 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335 18-21, F 6 Responses May 19, 2014

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    My mother and I have undergone domestic

    violence. Everything my cruel father has done absolutely goes beyond the scope of our endurance. He doesn't drink, he usually gets angry for no reason and pours out his anger on us. Whenever he flies into a rage, he beats my mother up. My mother doesn't even care about either...
    diidoobiib diidoobiib 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 30

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    my daughter and I moved back in with my father

    after I lost my job. we never had the best relationship, he use to beat my sister and I. I have tried to look past everything but instead of physical abuse he mentally and emotionally abuses me now, calling me every name in the book, my daughter has even heard him say he would...
    tiastar89 tiastar89 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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