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I Hate My Dad

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    I Hate My Dad So Much I Could Scream

    No matter what i do or say is wrong and I'm the good child and all he does is yell at me and tell me to go away and leave him alone and says stuff like go do something your in the way and it ****** me off because before he like starts talking to me and then does something else at...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    well, i have no one to talk to

    so i guess ill just vent here. i hate my dad. he calls me stupid all the time. he always says i am imcompetent at everything and anything. he yells at me and is so verbally abusive. it was much worse when i was growing up, so i definetly developed some emotional issues...
    blahblah2789 blahblah2789 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 24

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    Whats A Father Anyway?

    my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he has walked into the bathroom while i was taking a shower) he was one person i never wanted to see or spend time with. whenever...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    He will never be happy with me.

    My dad used to be abusive. Now its just verbal & scars :/. He is very big on looks. He wants me be pretty & thin. In the past months he forced me into having a breast reduction, & now thats not enough. He now wants me to lose 40 pounds. I weigh 112 & am 5'1. I cant win & im...
    Teenyphilly Teenyphilly 18-21, F Oct 23

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    He always finds an excuse to call me stupid

    and make me seem dumb. Ever since my sister was born he's treated me like **** and gave her everything. Something's gotta give
    thedon21 thedon21 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    I was arguing with my mom

    and somehow my deadbeat father came up.. And so did a dark memory.. I was about 13 or 14.. I had gotten in trouble at school and was visiting my father for the weekend (the schedule was every other weekend) and my mom decided to let my father know how school is going. So here...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 23

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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 25

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    Doesn't Everyone?...

    Doesn't everyone?
    themiget themiget 16-18, M 44 Responses Jan 13, 2007

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    My dad never had time

    for me and last week just mad me hate him to the point I couldn't care what happened to him. I was his first born daughter I should be important, right? Nope wrong he couldn't care. I've been in and out of hospital for 2 months and he just doesn't care! ūüė°
    skyelybooo skyelybooo 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    My dad hates me so much we are 7 sisters

    and 1 brother and he hates me sooo much out of all his children. I just don't understand why he treats me the way he does and say the meanest things, I'm not the type of person who hates people but I honestly hate my dad so much he has done do much bad things to me that ruined...
    onelovv1life onelovv1life 22-25, F Nov 9

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    I Hate My Father I have grown up with a cold

    father. He never showed love to me. When I was a baby, he used to leave me alone in the parsonage just to attend a seminar. Then, (I couldn‚Äôt completely remember my age) when I was very young, about 5 or six years old, he saw me lying in the bed. He said‚ÄĚ Try to use your...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    aslong as i can remember from an early age,

    i did understand that we are all different hence we do things differently due to our own experiences or what we have been taught. however the pain that my dad caused when he always rubbish me (with passion) has always made me angry. somewhere along the line i wondered if his...
    boypacifik207 boypacifik207 36-40, M Nov 4

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    i hate my dad...coz he is responsible

    for my mom's depression... my mom cant even bear his site... my mom is in the final stage of depression but my dad doesn't cares.. no one cares for my mom..she is living just for her children...unless she would have committed suicide years ago.. i cant leave my mom for a...
    SHEKHARO4 SHEKHARO4 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 23

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 47 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    My dad is a bully who tears you down mentally

    and emotionally and its like he enjoys seeing you down and hurt because he's always doing it . I have 0 trust in my dad in anyway but im forced to live with him because my mom can financially take care of me its not fun im losing faith in everything!
    lifeinmyeyes13 lifeinmyeyes13 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 22

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    I Seriously Do

    Dont even say ''aw you dont hate your dad!'' because actually, I do. I hate him SOOO much. he has put me and my brothers through sooo much pain and I'm so done! He caused me to be SO depressed. I've been depressed before, and its NOT fun. But a couple months ago he has gotten to...
    cutebutterfly cutebutterfly 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    Why you gotta be so ruuude?

    Don't you know we're human too, Why you gotta be so ruuude? My mom married you anyway -_-
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't even know why I call him my dad

    because he is hardly that. His idea of parenting is screaming in mine and my siblings' faces. He never goes with us to enjoy family outings and if he does he shows how dreadful he is the whole time. He takes his anger out on everybody possible, especially my mom and my younger...
    tadkins10 tadkins10 13-15 3 Responses Nov 15

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    I hate my fathet and i want to run away from him

    but the problem is that i love my mom and i feel that if i run away my mom will just suffer and i dont feel like my personal hatred against my father is reason enough to make my mom a person who i love very much cry and suffer. I am 15 and i really love video games and i have...
    Tsunamings Tsunamings 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I mean I don't hate him.

    ... But I don't love him either. My dad works hard for us. He's the only income maker in the family. He has to support four people and himself. That makes five. He tries to give us the things we want. But he doesn't at the same time. Does that make sense? My parents, I don't...
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 31

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 62 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    A Letter To My Dad

     I have been dealing with a lot of anger lately.¬† You have been in my mind constantly‚ĶI had reoccurring thoughts about killing you.¬† I have so many questions that I will never get the answers to.¬† You made my life very difficult.¬† You caused a lot of pain-not only for...
    imamhere imamhere 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    I'm writing here a letter

    that I transcribed with intent to send to my biological father. I did not send the letter, but I figured this would be cathartic. Things in parenthesis are added authors notes to help you understand the letter further. The man who birthed me wasn't around me until I was five...
    AkemManah AkemManah 18-21, M Nov 5

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 80 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 25 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    So I've posted about my hatred

    and my problems concerning my father but right now I have mixed emotions even with all the stuff he's done.. I found the newspaper article that had my dad's incident to *** why he went to prison.. My father hit a guy who ended up falling, hitting his head on concrete and...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M Nov 5

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    Hi there, i hate my dad all my whole life.

    He is a completely misogyny and i am afraid too every day. The point is i cant hear his rude words he said me you are a **** you cant do anything. My bff (my mom) died I thought every day is his fault i know it 'cuz she and my dad was fight and he says bad words to my mom and I...
    Latifa253 Latifa253 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    exoflower exoflower 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 20 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    My dad is so bad,when i called him a shouter,

    he said that i called him a f***er,and started hitting me and this happens almost twice a week
    justinhogs justinhogs 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    December 23, 2017 is the day I ******* get out

    of this hell, and move to my new heaven, and get away from this devil that calls himself my father. He is no father to me. I can do what I ******* want to when I want. And can finally have my own ******* life, he will never be allowed into my house. I will never call the devil...
    Fastlane14 Fastlane14 13-15, M 5 Responses Oct 26

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    My father is always yelling at me

    and he used to hit me . And I have anger problems . How do I fix that problem? I just use to punch walls !
    Quinn00 Quinn00 13-15, F Nov 15

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    His mood changes so much!

    I'm so pissed of
    JBee99 JBee99 13-15, M Nov 6

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    I hate my dad, very much actually,

    you see my dad has been cheating on my mom, since i don't know when, and i love my mom and whenever dad arrives home late, which is very unlikely since he arrives in the morning and me and my brother end up sleeping beside her to keep her company, she always tries to call him...
    chucku45 chucku45 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I feel like I can only vent here.

    Ever since I was little, I watched my dad verbally abuse my mum calling her names and putting her down. I watched him be controlling, lazy and so mean. He would verbally and physically abuse me and insult me and critize me especially when I didn't do something his way or I would...
    black5432 black5432 18-21 Nov 2

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    Fearful

    My father scares the hell out of me. He yells and throws things. He has verbally and physically abused me, especially as a small, helpless child. He makes my mother feel like crap and makes her cry. She never cries. Today, I went downstairs to go take my medication and eat...
    duClo duClo 18-21, T 17 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    My dads an alcoholic.

    When I was little (around 3-4, still learning to walk) he told me to get him a beer, my mom kept telling me not to but she says I was throwing a fit so she let me go. I was running up the stairs and fell, the glass bottle broke, It cut my chin, I have a huge scar on my hand and...
    looking4chances looking4chances 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 31

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F Jul 22

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    Well.. I am 15, I live with my parents

    and my two little brothers and I hate my dad. My dad is a man who works really hard as well as my mother. We have everything we need and would wan't, we are a normal family. My relationship with my dad is not good. I mean it is really really bad. He has shattered my heart and my...
    mentallynotokay mentallynotokay 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 16

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    He started off ok. You know how you'll get

    annoyed with your parents once in a while, but you still love them the same. With my dad, I have actually grown to hate him. He is so lazy and useless. All he does is work, watch Tv, sleep and on some nights hell go out. He use to be helpful around the house, but now he wont...
    sr39 sr39 18-21 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I Have No Respect For Him...None

    I tried hard to have a father, but instead I had a dad. -Serve The Servants, Nirvana(1993) My dad is currently doing time in jail. He was an alcoholic, gambled, always angry, doesn't care for anyone besides himself, etc. He'd hit me for stupid stuff like knocking something...
    Roflcash4 Roflcash4 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-18 113 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    I hate my dad. I truly truly do.

    I've experienced a heavy amount of emotional and physical abuse. The reason why I'm still alive today is because I believe that I am a strong person at heart. He started hitting me when I was in the sixth grade. I did something wrong? Slap across the face or a punch in the gut...
    metalchick5 metalchick5 22-25, F 9 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    Dear Dad

    Dear Dad, I wish that I could say these things to your face, but then I wouldn't have any place to live and not enough money for University, so I have to say it here. I know that I am lucky to have the life that I have had. My life has been blessed with happiness and little pain...
    inpd14 inpd14 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    I hate my dad because he dont care about me.

    he never did. i thought that when he cleaned his life up he would start caring about me and my sister. He did noyt care about us after my mom and brother passed away. I dont get it.
    AngelFace28 AngelFace28 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 15

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