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I Hate My Dad

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 75 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    During a conversation,

    my mom asked me: If your dad was dying, would you visit him one last time since you'll never see him again? I said "NOPE" loud and clear and also used tupac's quote "my anger wouldn't let me feel for a stranger". I also went on to say that I'm over the fact I won't have father...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 6 Responses Apr 28

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    He is an *** and a stranger.

    I do honestly think he loves us as much as he can... But how much is that in actuality? I have no idea. The most affectionate thing he can do is bring home a little something while he's out. Don't get me wrong I appreciate the small gestures- they are the only thing that...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    He's a piece of ****.

    I ******* hate him. Im just so pissed off and so ******* upset right now.
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 2 Responses May 10

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    Don't you ever get that feeling

    that you feel like you did something amazing, then your dad says you failed, or you are useless?
    colinjia colinjia 13-15, M 4 Responses Apr 25

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    My dad is a pervert. He likes to slap my butt

    hard repeatedly, and he does it very fast. he finds excuses like he's trying to wake me up and ****. and today, he walked in on me changing. i was half naked and my shirt was only half on. luckily i had a blanket on so he didnt see my legs and stuff. but he just kept on standing...
    Avelynlim Avelynlim 13-15, F 4 Responses May 23

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-17 113 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    I hate my dad because he dont care about me.

    he never did. i thought that when he cleaned his life up he would start caring about me and my sister. He did noyt care about us after my mom and brother passed away. I dont get it.
    AngelFace28 AngelFace28 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I mean I don't hate him.

    ... But I don't love him either. My dad works hard for us. He's the only income maker in the family. He has to support four people and himself. That makes five. He tries to give us the things we want. But he doesn't at the same time. Does that make sense? My parents, I don't...
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    My dad treats like everything

    and when I say everything I mean everything like its a bad thing like I just sit quietly and do something like lumosity or something like that and he keeps yelling like I broke something. I hate it so much that he just keeps talking and talking about useless lecture all the time...
    potuti potuti 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Growing up I had not realized how horrible of a

    dad my dad is. Now that i am mature enough to know what is right and wrong I noticed how disrespectful and selfish my dad is. I can honestly title my dad as a heavy alcoholic. He shows no love or appreciation to myself or siblings. All he does is verbally abuse us & as well as...
    dfe213 dfe213 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    Sooo my dad thinks it's ok to hit me,

    like really I'm not 5 anymore :/
    ayannagrant ayannagrant 13-15, F 36 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    My sister was only 7 turning 8,

    this is what I said to my sister “Yea Chelsea you’re going to play dolly house too”. She did not seem to be happy about it. She then told me that it’s not what I thought it was. I didn’t understand what she meant by that. My dad came towards me and put duct tape on my...
    highonsadness highonsadness 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2014

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    my dad left when I was 3 he wa sent to jail

    and then he went to the hospital an he had nothing to do so he called me every day and I haven't heard from him since
    mermaidjoyprincess mermaidjoyprincess 18-21, F May 22

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    So after I was born my dad had spent a lot of

    time on the computer. Back then they're wasn't facebook or twitter but they're where chat rooms. Whenever my mom would ask him what he was doing, walk into the room or ask him for help with taking care of me he would close the window and he would get defensive and angry at my...
    Caitie784 Caitie784 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    My dad all he ever does is annoy me.

    He knows what irritates me and does those exact things. He never wants to do anything with me, and always messes things up. All he ever wants is his way, and can't stand it and yells if he doesn't. And when is ask him how he feels about a drawing or anything i made he says he...
    MintSpark MintSpark 13-15 May 9

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    I want to cut out my dad from my life

    once I move into the dorms
    jellyycook jellyycook 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It's Mom birthday. And fresh off

    if Mother's day Im not happy about the stressful day I'm about to have. Before Mother's day he had us run out and get a card, chocolates, and flowers for him to give to her. On Mother's day we had a spontaneous *cough* planed poorly *cough* day. Dad told us to make breakfast we...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Omg, can you believe

    that my dad is the most ******* annoying ever. I didn't mean to cuss/swear but he's killing me. ( not really killing at all but I'm just expressing my feelings ) I reckon he has anger issues. I never really pictured myself in a perfect family because he thinks he can boss us...
    Mitzeeeeey Mitzeeeeey 16-17, F May 11

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    Everyday my dad shouts at me ,

    calls me names, says im abusive to my little brother **** this im not at all his child is always on my case i have watched him more then my dad ever has.I really hate my dad im gonna get a job and buy a house and runaway.I'm so sick of him not listening to ,not treating me like a...
    iwanttobeafashionesigner iwanttobeafashionesigner 22-25, F 4 Responses May 22

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    Yeah I'm that girl with Daddy issues.

    Ever since I was little I was called worthless, ugly, fat, and much more by my father. It got to the point where I stopped eating and lost a tremendous amount of weight in a small amount of time. Sure I got skinny but I was still ugly and worthless. I was never able to reach his...
    MissWallflower MissWallflower 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 23

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 21 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    The person who i hate most i my life is my dad.

    It is not a reason that he can't fulfill my need or giving his time to me. it the way he behave me he don;t like me to see happy and my freedom every time. he try to beat me and always spoke verger word all night. i feel very bad when i see my friend family relation because...
    Ajxii Ajxii 22-25, M May 18

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    He is an *******, he always try to verbally

    abuse me, yell at me for mostly no reason. Today he took my iPad and slapped me with it and smash it on the ground when i was browsing the news.He told me to go and die. He go and shout at my mom: "Get the **** out of this house!" and make her cry even she's pregnant. He force...
    NothingPersonl NothingPersonl 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mother and I have undergone domestic

    violence. Everything my cruel father has done absolutely goes beyond the scope of our endurance. He doesn't drink, he usually gets angry for no reason and pours out his anger on us. Whenever he flies into a rage, he beats my mother up. My mother doesn't even care about either...
    diidoobiib diidoobiib 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 30

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    Almost every day he yells at me

    and tells me he'll hit me or something and then, a couple of hours later, he becomes a different person altogether and I have to play along with that persona of his otherwise he starts screaming again. Today, I was watching something on the telly when he told me to get him a...
    EvanescentIridescent EvanescentIridescent 16-17, F 2 Responses May 22

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    i hope my dad dies. he always shouts at us

    and abuses my mother. i dont understand why he won't just die.
    huhu431 huhu431 22-25, M May 4

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    I just fvcking told him all about my

    depressions, the way I feel about myself, my school problems and all the things that happend and bug me. What did I get? Laughed on.
    jeednorrozec jeednorrozec 13-15, F 4 Responses May 23

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    He started off ok. You know how you'll get

    annoyed with your parents once in a while, but you still love them the same. With my dad, I have actually grown to hate him. He is so lazy and useless. All he does is work, watch Tv, sleep and on some nights hell go out. He use to be helpful around the house, but now he wont...
    sr39 sr39 18-21 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I don't care about you.

    I don't want to lie and say that I do, but I will until I'm an adult. If I get married and if I choose to have a ceremony, I won't invite you. Mom can choose. If you come, I'll get people to kick you out because you aren't welcomed in any way. I don't want to listen to you. The...
    jiayong jiayong 13-15 8 Responses Feb 6

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    My dad and I have never gotten along

    and almost are complete opposites and even do I have tried to bond with him I just gave up on him When I was 7 I accidentally pushed my brother off the porch and he got from my legs and threw me off Another thing he would do is he would always blame me for everything and...
    legalcobra6886 legalcobra6886 13-15, M 2 Responses May 16

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    My dad is the most judgemental,

    hypocritical, egotistical, in-empathetic, know-it-all, a*shole that has walked the earth. His intollerence and skewed views and racism and lack of empithy is second to stalin and hitler. I CANT DO ANYTHING. he acts like im not capable i mean he called me on vacay with my mom and...
    skrewd skrewd 13-15, F 1 Response May 23

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    i dont know what he wants ,

    he keeps on mentally torture me and my mom..i had even given all my pocket money to celebrate my parents anniversary bought him expensive gifts, done everything that me and my bro can do but he still fights with us, shouts on my mom, drink heavily..i m fed up of his behavious...
    MysteriousLion MysteriousLion 22-25, M 2 Responses May 5

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    I know every single day passes,

    so does the distance between me and my father increase. Part of me hate it, part of me don't care at all. Where it will end I don't know... If only we were like those who share a good relationship with their fathers....
    divinitydragon divinitydragon 26-30, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 18-21, M 20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    I really hate my dad a lot.

    It's nice that he provides money for me to go to school and all the nice gadgets. But come on, these doesn't matter when you don't even ******* care about the family. What ever goes wrong you blame mom. You cared about yourself only. When mom's pills got taken away by the...
    Bernsch Bernsch 18-21, F 1 Response May 1

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5, 2014

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    the amount of mental

    and verbal abuse I've had to go through my whole life, I don't even remember one happy memory with him, what's so ever.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335 18-21, F 6 Responses May 19, 2014

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    i wish he was here now

    so i could stab him in the heart
    TGBman TGBman 22-25, M May 25

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 10 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Toxic Parent

    My dad is best described in this excerpt from "Stop Walking On Eggshells" by Randi Kreger. "If you object to the criticism or try to defend yourself, your loved one may accuse you of being defensive, too sensitive, or unable to accept constructive criticism...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 82 Responses Nov 14, 2007

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