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    My dad is a very arrogant

    and abusive man. he has a lot of girlfriends. Hes 46 and his latest gf is 23. He takes them to very expensive trips but cant even buy my mum a present. We're still a complete but broken family. My mum loves him very much and most of the time she acts like nothing is going on. My...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    I am the only kid in my family.

    I am 21 years old now. My dad seems to get worse day by day. He is rude ignorant and abuses me and my mom verbally and sometimes even physically. He tries to show that he loves me and cares about me so much he never let's me hang out with my friends he has kept me in a jail...
    Ananya248 Ananya248 18-21, F Feb 15

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    So considerate to think of us kids dad.

    We were sad too when mum died but we were ok because we had you. You couldn't once be there for us when our mother, your wife died? Did you ever think that loosing 2 parents within a few months would ruin us? You weren't there for us at all when I was a kid and just when I...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    From Today, You Are Not My Dad Anymore

    My story is very sad, I'm a 23 years old Chinese girl, the year when I was born, china was in one child policy, my dad doesn't like girls, so when the day I was born, dad didn't even wanted to look at me when he hear 'its a girl' he walked away and got drunk in somewhere...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    I Hate Him..

      During ym 17 years on earth my "father" has been a ruthless tryant to me. It all boiled down and collapsed the day he puit a tracker on my computer, Now he sees eerything i do,type(including all passwords) on my computer, in fact hes probably reading this...
    ihatemyd ihatemyd 16-18 113 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    Yeah I'm that girl with Daddy issues.

    Ever since I was little I was called worthless, ugly, fat, and much more by my father. It got to the point where I stopped eating and lost a tremendous amount of weight in a small amount of time. Sure I got skinny but I was still ugly and worthless. I was never able to reach his...
    MissWallflower MissWallflower 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 23

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    I hate my dad. He always lies to my mum

    so i can get in trouble he's a big coward who can work but chooses not to. there are times where he would verbally abuse me and other times when he would physically abuse me. I dont care about him i dont have anymore respect for him and i cant stand being in the same house as...
    123anonman 123anonman 16-17, M Feb 6

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    I have always hated him.

    It started when I was little but got even worse as I got older. I guess one of the more recent events that got me mad was about three days ago when I brought my laptop to my mom's house. So basically, I got the computer about three months ago when my sister moved out, it is a...
    girlofthedead girlofthedead 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    umm I'm not really sire how to start this

    but when my mom was pregnant with me my dad left.I Grew up without a father it was tough as I had no siblings so sometimes I would sit and cry and talk to myself because my mom was busy trying to make ends meet. In my primary and preschool I guess the hardest part was having to...
    Razziness Razziness 13-15, M Feb 2

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    He's so bossy. He controls my life like

    literally, I can't even make my own life decisions!! My dad don't respect my hobbies. He will force me to do something I don't want to, rather than supporting me for what I DO like. I'm not spoiled or anything but he doesn't give me what I want, (Not because of money) but it's...
    ThenknownJoker ThenknownJoker 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 21

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    Why can't i post anything here it always writes

    that there was an error i want to know why
    MySadStory10 MySadStory10 13-15, F Feb 20

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    He always abused me and my brother

    as kids he always did it to me more because i am a girl. He never cares about me. Things would happen at his house and he would not care. Every time he wants something i am suppose to be there for him but when i need something he is never there. Every weekend for the past month...
    BloodyVictim BloodyVictim 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I really don't like my dad sometimes.

    I know he is a good person and he love me but he really treats me like **** all the time. My dad is really big on grades and academic excellence is very important to him. So of course I'm expected to be an all A student. Anything less than an A is unacceptable and if I don't get...
    kasienka78 kasienka78 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Why Are You So Annoying!!!!!?????????

    My dad is SO VERY ANNOYING!!! He will come in my room, when I'm on the computer or doing homework, and ask the dumbest questions like, what r u doing? "HOMEWORK, DUH!!" & he asks the same thing everyday. Sometimes he acts like he cant do CRAP, i will be all the way upstairs & he...
    mimi04wb mimi04wb 16-17 67 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    Why you gotta be so ruuude?

    Don't you know we're human too, Why you gotta be so ruuude? My mom married you anyway -_-
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    Dads change into horrible human beings

    when they get a new girlfriend. They start bad mouthing their ex wife and kids. They act as if they have never loved you and forgot who you were to them. Why do dads do that? Especially to their kids? Plus, their girlfriend would be bad mouthing their family as well. And not...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    Try living with someone

    who thinks he knows it all. Or someone who is so selfish that doesn't care whether or not you eat. Someone who thinks just because he buys stuff that that's enough. Someone who walks in the house and never acknowledge your existence. Someone who thinks just because he doesn't...
    dgirl2335 dgirl2335 18-21, F 5 Responses May 19, 2014

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    I got a severe concussion 4 months ago.

    It was the worst thing in my life I had to go through, and I still have lingering symtoms. I am 18 and I've been working since I was 14 because of my dad, and pay for everything myself. Since I got the concussion I had to be out of work because it is extremely physical. My...
    anthonyc12 anthonyc12 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    silverstrike silverstrike 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate this man so much

    and I can't say dad its a hard words that my mouth can't tell I never hate someone so much that I hate him he married my mom just bc she's rich then he and whene we talk or say something wrong to he he started scream and shout and say bad words that make my mom cry he come to...
    rhits rhits 13-15, F Feb 16

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    He always says that I'm a sneering little ****

    and that I'll never get a life.
    gtasian gtasian 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I mean I don't hate him.

    ... But I don't love him either. My dad works hard for us. He's the only income maker in the family. He has to support four people and himself. That makes five. He tries to give us the things we want. But he doesn't at the same time. Does that make sense? My parents, I don't...
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Dear Paternal Gene Donor,

    Otherwise known as my "father." I hate you. I have hated you since I knew how to feel hatred, which was around when I was three.I hate you for always grabbing my small wrists as hard as you could, with your fingers pressing between the bones, for putting your face close to mine...
    SpiritR SpiritR 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    I don't talk to him. I try to avoid him

    as much as possible, but that pretty damn hard to do when I live under the same roof as him. He's a narcissist who tries to live through his children and control everyone around him. He acts like a child himself. He likes to instigate arguments through meaningless ad hominem...
    tastyfurnace tastyfurnace 16-17, F 8 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    He is the only one to ever give me anxiety.

    He was the first one to make me feel worthless. He was the first one to make me feel the need to cut. I really hate you, dad. And no matter how many times you try to make up for it by acting nice all of the sudden but yet never apologizing for your wrongdoings, I will continue...
    saxbrixnax saxbrixnax 18-21, F Jan 30

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything

    with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park and eat ice cream with me, go to every cheer competition and support me, hug me and tell me I did amazing no Matter how I did, dance with me...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    He's the worst, can he not be like those

    awesome dads? Glad I only see him once a week.
    bolognese bolognese 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH!

    !!!! You always drink and your always drunk. You abuse me in all kinds of ways!!! GO DIE IN A HOLE!!!!!! YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!!! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY!!!!!! ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! I FUCKEN HATE YOU SO MUCH GO DIE IN A HOLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU CAUSED THIS...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 9 Responses May 5, 2014

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    He is so

    controlling 👹👹👹👹👹👹👹👹👹
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    He left when i was a baby

    and from this day i still dont know who he is.
    dean70 dean70 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    Whats A Father Anyway?

    my father is abusive. emotionally, verbally, used to be physically to some of my siblings but we got too big, and surprisingly not sexually (although he has walked into the bathroom while i was taking a shower) he was one person i never wanted to see or spend time with. whenever...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Sooo my dad thinks it's ok to hit me,

    like really I'm not 5 anymore :/
    ayannagrant ayannagrant 13-15, F 38 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    So after I was born my dad had spent a lot of

    time on the computer. Back then they're wasn't facebook or twitter but they're where chat rooms. Whenever my mom would ask him what he was doing, walk into the room or ask him for help with taking care of me he would close the window and he would get defensive and angry at my...
    Caitie784 Caitie784 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    He Is Cheating On My Mother

    He is cheating on my mother. He is having an affair with a woman who works with him. He texts her when he thinks he is alone. a few days ago I sneaked into his room when he was asleep and checked the messages. There was a message sent to a number which read "Our relationship is...
    fallenazazel fallenazazel 18-21, F 28 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    craz3f8g craz3f8g 18-21 1 Response Jan 31

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    He started off ok. You know how you'll get

    annoyed with your parents once in a while, but you still love them the same. With my dad, I have actually grown to hate him. He is so lazy and useless. All he does is work, watch Tv, sleep and on some nights hell go out. He use to be helpful around the house, but now he wont...
    sr39 sr39 18-21 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I Hate My Dad... I Wish I Had a Different Life

    i HATE him. i wish he'd just disappear and die. i wish he'd leave me alone. i wish i had a better dad. i wish i had a dad who would love me, care for me, accept me, initiate conversation and give me importance. i hate my dysfunctional family. i hate feeling alone. i hate feeling...
    brianyap brianyap 21-25, M 20 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    Having a father and not being able to love him

    since you were a little kid is the worst pain and hearing from your friends and cousins of how much they love their dad is even more painful , i thank god for giving me a great mother and i love her deeply , but i need love from a father and i cant find and never will , and i...
    Lifesucks94 Lifesucks94 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    I Hate My Father

    One of my earliest memories is of being in my mums arms, and her crying uncontrollably, we were locked inside our bathroom and my dad was shouting outside the door. He had a legally held hand gun and was drunk, and was telling my mum to come out so he could shoot...
    chickenlicken chickenlicken 26-30, F 19 Responses May 7, 2007

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    Doesn't Everyone?...

    Doesn't everyone?
    themiget themiget 16-18, M 43 Responses Jan 13, 2007

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    My dad is an alcoholic douche bag,

    he would do just about anything to get a woman in bed, not thinking of the consequences it might have.He treats my grandmother like **** and makes her give him money to pay for his alcoholism.This man has wished the death of his children, treated them and their mothers horribly...
    crazcat97 crazcat97 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    First time posting, but I feel like I need to

    write this out instead of letting it bottle up inside me. I love my dad, it is contradicting to this post, but I really do love my dad. Even though I hate him. It's that obligated affection towards the one who's raised you all your life and has done so with the best of his...
    crescentcheese crescentcheese 18-21, F 44 mins ago

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    Dear Dad, I Hate You

    Dear Dad, I hate you. I've hated you for nearly as long as I can remember. Let me count the ways. I hate you for every time you attacked me vocally. You called me a loser, a nerd, a little *******, a rotten kid, a punk *** kid, a hypocrite, a drug using criminal, a Satan...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 21 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    My dad was a really bad person.

    it's hard because now years later, I'm slowly realizing how bad he reallly was. Slowly teaching, testing me to be loyal to him, to keep his secrets, the secrets of what he would do to me. Not a man but a monster, a monster that still haunts me..... And probably will haunt me...
    EFairy EFairy 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Halfway through the trimester I decided

    that I would be a great student and do ****, and get good grades and I'm actually improving I have b's and high c's (that are close to b's) but that's not good enough for my dad. (My dad's not even Asian but I am) anyways my dad decides to look at my grades today and starts...
    OtakuPanda OtakuPanda 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    My sister was only 7 turning 8,

    this is what I said to my sister “Yea Chelsea you’re going to play dolly house too”. She did not seem to be happy about it. She then told me that it’s not what I thought it was. I didn’t understand what she meant by that. My dad came towards me and put duct tape on my...
    highonsadness highonsadness 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2014

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    after everything I have done

    for him it isn't enough, he is tripping over $100 I used to buy food for the house, he has to eat too, now he says I owe him $100, but he has not even attempted to pay me back the $500 he owes me
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    i hate my dad. i really do.

    sometimes i feel like i should give him another chance. he verbally abuses me and it hurts. he calls me worthless, fat, *****, witch, horrible and says he wish he didnt existed. some years ago he told me to shake his hand bc he didnt want to be my dad anymore. he hit my face and...
    lisathatsthere lisathatsthere 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate my dad he is the worst thing in my life

    i hate to show him off to anybody I always hide him im not proud of him im ashamed that he is my dad he makes me embarrassed i like to stay away from him i always tell my mom to get divorced from him but she don't want to mess up my life and my sister's life why is he so rude he...
    MySadStory10 MySadStory10 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Why Can't My Father Be a Normal Loving Dad?

    I have never hated anyone before, but I can honestly say that I hate my father. Why? Because for my whole life I have put up with his incessant perfectionism, obsession with small detail, short temper, criticism, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. He is a very opinionated and...
    Louey Louey 31-35, F 62 Responses Sep 16, 2007

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    I don't care about you.

    I don't want to lie and say that I do, but I will until I'm an adult. If I get married and if I choose to have a ceremony, I won't invite you. Mom can choose. If you come, I'll get people to kick you out because you aren't welcomed in any way. I don't want to listen to you. The...
    jiayong jiayong 13-15, F 9 Responses Feb 6

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    I don't know you and I really don't care to.

    Obviously you don't care to know me either since you never ever came around or even tried to find me as an adult. I found you alright, I found your yoga place and I saw you through the window. I wanted to storm in there and tell you what's up and what I thought of you, then I...