I Hate My Daughter

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    I'm starting to hate my 13 year old daughter.

    I see problems brewing. It's putting a strain on my marriage. Not to top off all of my other issues. We feel like failing parents. She hates us too.
    codaman codaman
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    After almost 2 and a ½ years,

    I have learned a lot over the last couple of weeks…..I am so struggling…. I believe that most of what I’ve ever been told negative about my daughter’s now ex boyfriend is not true. I knew that when she’d tell me things, it just wouldn’t make sense and she’s...
    Spec208 Spec208
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    My daughter is pregnant,

    21 and was married tonight without inviting me. She is behaving horribly, she has stopped speaking to me, I had until today tried to connect with her but to no avail. She is a horrible human being lately. She and her now husband dont work. They lived with me for a few months...
    disownedbella disownedbella
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 13, 2013

    well maybe hate it is a strong word

    but i don't like her at times, and i never wanted her but i am trying to make the best of this big mistake
    MomOfBurden MomOfBurden
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    She did something very unlike herself today.

    She apologized for calling me a *****. And she joined in one of our prayers today. I think she might be changing
    livefortheone livefortheone
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Dec 6, 2014

    I hate my 18 yr old twin daughters

    and there choices. They dropped out of school, smoke weed, cigarettes, and drink. They refuse to take heed to any of my parental advice, suggestions. Just want to be dumb *****. I've been there done that. Plaaaessee
    msneal msneal
    41-45, F
    May 16, 2014

    I Hate Both My Daughters!

    They are ungrateful, using lying, narcissistic... selfish.... little *******! Both with physically/mentally abusive BF's! Serves them right after all the hell they put me through! I would NEVER had kids If I could do it over! I walked away from both of them! I won't look back!
    scorpio620 scorpio620
    6 Responses Jun 3, 2013

    I Hate My Daugther

    I will skip around a bit. My daughter is 22 years old now her father went to jail when she was 3 months old I met someone new when she was 5 years oldhe took on the responsibilityof being her father after time she also had a three year old brother. The guy I met helped me a lot...
    whyme199122 whyme199122
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 13, 2013

    I really do. I got pregnant

    when I was 15 and always tried to be a good mom but she is a brat and yes I know the feeling of hate towards her. She is loud, mouthy, throws tantrums and is only spoiled. Whenever I meet a nice guy she ruins it by trying to be the center of attention. I really hate her and wish...
    karen7788 karen7788
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    I really and truly hate my 28 year old daughter.

    My daughter is a Compulsive Liar, a Master Manipulator, a Thief, a Cheater and so much more. She has two beautiful little girls that have different father's and she does not take care of them at all. She uses them as pawns when she can't get her way then she takes the...
    soupset1 soupset1
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    (I apologize for this being

    so long. Thank you to anyone who reads it.) I honestly wish I had never had my daughter. I have one daughter and one grandson and my daughter's done nothing but break my heart over and over and over again and I'm just so damned tired of her horseshit and now my grandson is...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 25, 2016

    Sorry but i hate my daughters too.

    I have always been there for them and given them so much love but they treat me like ****. They tell me what to wear, what to eat, what to say and do. They criticize me in everything and tell me i am no good. They are 18 and 16 years old. Their dad passed away a few years ago...
    jayne43 jayne43
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jan 19, 2014

    I Hate My Daughter And I Can't Help It

    first, my daughter has always been the center of my universe. from the minute she was born she was my entire world. now at 18, i can't even stand to be in the same room with her. everything changed for us 1 1/2 ago. she broke up with her boyfriend of two years. i could go into...
    brokenheartedsandra brokenheartedsandra
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Oct 27, 2013

    my twin daughters age 19 are making dumb

    as decisions I'm life, I hate their stupid as ways and the arrogance They have when They have the same outcome failure... and then turn around and look at me like I am supposed to help them out of the ****** up situation that They get into....I'm so tied of their stupid...
    lasheadilemma lasheadilemma
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    My 17 yr old is an angry,

    mean young woman. She's been this way since 5. We started getting close when she was around 14-15, but lately it's like living with my enemy. She is so hateful. When confronted she blames it on depression, but I've been depressed and never treated anyone the way she treats me...
    Shady17 Shady17
    46-50, F
    12 Responses May 1, 2014

    This is not an easy thing to admit.

    This might very well be untrue. For the past few years, it's been all I have been thinking. I love who she was. I hope she is still in there, but something has crawled up inside her and that is not the child I raised. This is not something I can just let go of. She is 22 years...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 25, 2015

    i hate her so much. she is a 27 year old

    narcissist, obnoxious, self absorbed brat! she disappeared when she was 18 for 3 years and later popped up and stayed within the family for about 4 more years and two kids later. now she hates me again and has vowed to never let me see the kids again. i'm sitting here crying...
    motherofnarcissism motherofnarcissism
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Nov 24, 2014

    My daughter is almost 3.

    As the days go by she develops more and more attitude. Becomes more defiant and her Dad thinks she can do no wrong. Hes her princess. I sit at home raising her and her 10 mo brother. Also, im 8 mo pregnant! He gets to come home and play and be the fun one. I have to be the...
    occasionalfun1 occasionalfun1
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    you know, my wretched daughter is actually

    meanest to me when i am asked to or doing something nice for her at the time. that's when i get the "**** you's" and the "*******" why is that?? i am going to tell her boyfriend to take a good hard look at how his girlfriend treats her own family. if she can treat her own like...
    theirmommie72 theirmommie72
    1 Response Sep 25, 2015

    She's A 12 Year Old Nightmare!

    My daughter is 12 years old. Has been suspended from school for bullying and staring fights. We are a 2 parent home, no drugs, no alcohol, just your regular everyday American family. She is one of 4 and the only girl. The boys I have no problems with. But her! She sneaks out at...
    Fedup860 Fedup860
    5 Responses Aug 18, 2013

    I Hate My Daughter

    My daughter just left after a visit that included histrionics, weeping, demands, circular arguments, narcissism and playing to her father as "good cop" while vilifying me. It ended in a trip to the ER where she was involuntarily committed. This, she announced, was my doing. My...
    tiredofbeingtolditsmyfault tiredofbeingtolditsmyfault
    14 Responses Jun 23, 2012

    long story short, got divorced (he cheated

    and asked for the divorce) raising 3 kids, middle kid gets addicted to drugs, I stood by her, chaotic family life for years. The addicted child beat the addiction now a loving mother herself. The baby who always aced everything gets to be 17 and hellish nightmare...she goes to...
    celiabrown1 celiabrown1
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    no, I'm actually the daughter n I think my

    mother hates me.... I still wanna understand why?
    deleted deleted
    Aug 17, 2015


    I have 3 daughters aged 25, 21, and 19. I hate the 21 year old. 6 years ago their stepdad died. There was a large life insurance payout. My 21 year old had ACL surgery about 2 months after the stepdads death. She got hooked on painkillers, weed, and bars. I suspected the...
    LCat222 LCat222
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Sep 9, 2013

    My Dear Dear Daughter...how I Hate Her.

    This post was from my previous account which I deleted because I was afraid of people in our community seeing it and telling my daughter that "I hate her" as is how the mob mentality in this city works -__-  I changed my username because it was too much like the one used for a...
    PariahedWoman PariahedWoman
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Mar 9, 2012

    I Hate My Daughter

    My daughter is a useless, lazy, selfish, mean-*** *****. She is 20 years old. She dropped out of school at 16 to have my granddaughter. She was never interested in school and never made good grades. She was too lazy to get out of bed to go to school anyway. Now she is no longer...
    runningawayfromhome runningawayfromhome
    51-55, F
    9 Responses Sep 22, 2013

    I don't have a kid. But my mum hates me

    and I'm a quiet kid. I live with my grandparents I only contact her when I need to. I was sexually abused when I was younger and my mum hates me for that exact reason. Last year when social services came knocking I got the attention and my mum didn't like it. My mums the person...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Sep 26, 2015

    Wanting To Let Go

    I am tired of taking so much responsibility for my daughter. Yesterday I helped her prepare for a job interview, took her there, waited for her and brought her home. It took all day. I asked her is she would dye my hair today and she said that she needed all day to get ready to...
    GlassHalfEmpty GlassHalfEmpty
    6 Responses Oct 5, 2012

    I Hate My Daughter

    My daughter has not talked to me in 15 years, I was divorced from their mother, and I guess she won the best parent title. At first I felt bad about my daughters feelings toward me, and I know their mother didn't help, but I didn't either. A few years went by and I wanted to...
    catmo1 catmo1
    2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

    My daughter is the most horrible person I ever

    met. She has done every nightmare a parent dreads. We have her in mental institutions on and off for a year. There doesn't seem to be some cure. I have her full time. So, I myself has been dealing with her. Her Dad comes and goes. She thinks he is the best! So weird. Its funny...
    Imventing Imventing
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Sep 4, 2015

    I hate my own daughter.

    Yes, I said "hate."First, I'll talk about my ex husband. He was very controlling during our marriage and after, continued the controlling via my daughter. He decided that he would "show me up" by giving her anything she wanted and allow her to live the life of a 21 year old at...
    Sandee277 Sandee277
    8 Responses Dec 22, 2013

    You Can Not Hurt Me Anymore!!

    A fatal error has occured with my daughter dearest (aka. supermom) and I. She informed me that after raising her daughter for the last six years plus... uh, I don't give HER daughter any guidence. Mmmmm. three relapses, three bone head boyfriends later and granted Guardianship...
    rosebud48cherrypie rosebud48cherrypie
    4 Responses Sep 14, 2012

    I Hate Having To Hate My Daughter!

    I have 3 daughters and my middle daughter who is now 27 has been the absolute reason for all my heartache and pain since she turned 18. Actually starting the day she turned 18 by staying out and trying to sleep over her 25 yr old BF mothers house. Even tho she was 18, she was...
    poppopgma poppopgma
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2013

    I hate my 10 year old daughter.

    Sad but I do. We don't have that mother daughter relationship because she's always messing up in school. She lies , she steals and she disrespects. She can be the sweetest to everyone but me and I guide her and teach her the best ways possible. When she kisses me and hug me I...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Apr 27, 2015

    Came Out Crying

    My daughter, now 17, came out screaming and has been highly intense ever since. She is so demanding. It is often easier to give in to her demands than fight. She is a natural negotiator, sometimes lacking empathy. She almost caused a divorce at one point over a boy she wanted to...
    manipulatedmom manipulatedmom
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Aug 16, 2013

    Time To Let Go: For years: I have been taking

    too much responsibility for my ungrateful, selfish 45-year-old daughter. For the last eight years I housed her in my home while I live in the basement. Her significant other for the last 7 years is an uneducated, non-working drunk who she has chosen to have a child with. The...
    slowjazz slowjazz
    70+, T
    Jun 24, 2015

    I'm Really Starting To Hate My Teenager

    i''m so tired of arguing and fighting with my teenager.  if there is a loser in the toom she'll latch on to him. she wants to drop out of school; she won't even attempt to get help,  her teachers, father; and others offer to help and she refuses.  she flies into rages when she...
    jthom1 jthom1
    10 Responses Apr 10, 2011

    Cant Stand My Daughter

    my daughter is 21 years old cant find a job or dont try harder enough to find one. always wants money which i dont give any more. i pay her cell phone but at the point i am going to stop that, she lives at home but runs from the time she gets up at noon till sometimes not getting...
    ajende1121 ajende1121
    61-65, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2013


    !! And I'm so happy I found this site to share that with!!!! She is the most stubborn, unappreciative, disrespectful, phony, manipulative brat and I can't stand her!!!!! If I could just drop her off at a home, without penalty, I would in a heart beat. She was acting up at school...
    BeyondDonewithHer BeyondDonewithHer
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Mar 3, 2014
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