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    My daughter has ruined my life.

    I have wasted seven years of my life trying to help her with all of her self inflicted problems. The latest of which was caring for her while she had anxiety and panic disorder caused by smoking some dodgy marijuana given to her by a drug dealer she chose to date. She became...
    Romani52 Romani52 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    Came Out Crying

    My daughter, now 17, came out screaming and has been highly intense ever since. She is so demanding. It is often easier to give in to her demands than fight. She is a natural negotiator, sometimes lacking empathy. She almost caused a divorce at one point over a boy she wanted to...
    manipulatedmom manipulatedmom 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    My Dear Dear Daughter...how I Hate Her.

    This post was from my previous account which I deleted because I was afraid of people in our community seeing it and telling my daughter that "I hate her" as is how the mob mentality in this city works -__-  I changed my username because it was too much like the one used for a...
    PariahedWoman PariahedWoman 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    I Hate My Daughter

    My daughter has not talked to me in 15 years, I was divorced from their mother, and I guess she won the best parent title. At first I felt bad about my daughters feelings toward me, and I know their mother didn't help, but I didn't either. A few years went by and I wanted to...
    catmo1 catmo1 61-65 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    I Hate My Daughter And I Can't Help It

    first, my daughter has always been the center of my universe. from the minute she was born she was my entire world. now at 18, i can't even stand to be in the same room with her. everything changed for us 1 1/2 ago. she broke up with her boyfriend of two years. i could go into...
    brokenheartedsandra brokenheartedsandra 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I Hate My Daughter

    My daughter is a useless, lazy, selfish, mean-*** *****. She is 20 years old. She dropped out of school at 16 to have my granddaughter. She was never interested in school and never made good grades. She was too lazy to get out of bed to go to school anyway. Now she is no longer...
    runningawayfromhome runningawayfromhome 51-55, F 8 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Sorry but i hate my daughters too.

    I have always been there for them and given them so much love but they treat me like ****. They tell me what to wear, what to eat, what to say and do. They criticize me in everything and tell me i am no good. They are 18 and 16 years old. Their dad passed away a few years ago...
    jayne43 jayne43 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    After almost 2 and a ½ years,

    I have learned a lot over the last couple of weeks…..I am so struggling…. I believe that most of what I’ve ever been told negative about my daughter’s now ex boyfriend is not true. I knew that when she’d tell me things, it just wouldn’t make sense and she’s...
    Spec208 Spec208 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I hate my own daughter.

    Yes, I said "hate."First, I'll talk about my ex husband. He was very controlling during our marriage and after, continued the controlling via my daughter. He decided that he would "show me up" by giving her anything she wanted and allow her to live the life of a 21 year old at...
    Sandee277 Sandee277 36-40 6 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    I HATE MY 11 YR OLD BRAT/B*TCH DAUGHTER!

    !! And I'm so happy I found this site to share that with!!!! She is the most stubborn, unappreciative, disrespectful, phony, manipulative brat and I can't stand her!!!!! If I could just drop her off at a home, without penalty, I would in a heart beat. She was acting up at school...
    BeyondDonewithHer BeyondDonewithHer 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 3

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    i hate her so much. she is a 27 year old

    narcissist, obnoxious, self absorbed brat! she disappeared when she was 18 for 3 years and later popped up and stayed within the family for about 4 more years and two kids later. now she hates me again and has vowed to never let me see the kids again. i'm sitting here crying...
    motherofnarcissism motherofnarcissism 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I Hate My Daughter

    My daughter just left after a visit that included histrionics, weeping, demands, circular arguments, narcissism and playing to her father as "good cop" while vilifying me. It ended in a trip to the ER where she was involuntarily committed. This, she announced, was my doing. My...
    tiredofbeingtolditsmyfault tiredofbeingtolditsmyfault 56-60 13 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    You Can Not Hurt Me Anymore!!

    A fatal error has occured with my daughter dearest (aka. supermom) and I. She informed me that after raising her daughter for the last six years plus... uh, I don't give HER daughter any guidence. Mmmmm. three relapses, three bone head boyfriends later and granted Guardianship...
    rosebud48cherrypie rosebud48cherrypie 46-50 3 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    Taker

    I have 3 daughters aged 25, 21, and 19. I hate the 21 year old. 6 years ago their stepdad died. There was a large life insurance payout. My 21 year old had ACL surgery about 2 months after the stepdads death. She got hooked on painkillers, weed, and bars. I suspected the...
    LCat222 LCat222 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    I Hate Having To Hate My Daughter!

    I have 3 daughters and my middle daughter who is now 27 has been the absolute reason for all my heartache and pain since she turned 18. Actually starting the day she turned 18 by staying out and trying to sleep over her 25 yr old BF mothers house. Even tho she was 18, she was...
    poppopgma poppopgma 46-50, F Feb 10, 2013

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    When Does This Job End??

    I have 3 kids: a daughter (25), a son (23) and another daughter (20). I can't stand the 20 year old. She has been nothing but trouble for the past 7 or 8 years now. She got pregnant at 16 and her baby died in utero so my husband and I paid for the baby to be removed. Shortly...
    LaurieO LaurieO 41-45, F 5 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Cant Stand My Daughter

    my daughter is 21 years old cant find a job or dont try harder enough to find one. always wants money which i dont give any more. i pay her cell phone but at the point i am going to stop that, she lives at home but runs from the time she gets up at noon till sometimes not getting...
    ajende1121 ajende1121 56-60, F Oct 14, 2013

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    My 17 yr old is an angry,

    mean young woman. She's been this way since 5. We started getting close when she was around 14-15, but lately it's like living with my enemy. She is so hateful. When confronted she blames it on depression, but I've been depressed and never treated anyone the way she treats me...
    Shady17 Shady17 41-45, F 13 Responses May 1

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    I Hate Both My Daughters!

    They are ungrateful, using lying, narcissistic... selfish.... little *******! Both with physically/mentally abusive BF's! Serves them right after all the hell they put me through! I would NEVER had kids If I could do it over! I walked away from both of them! I won't look back!
    scorpio620 scorpio620 51-55 5 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    I hate my 18 yr old twin daughters

    and there choices. They dropped out of school, smoke weed, cigarettes, and drink. They refuse to take heed to any of my parental advice, suggestions. Just want to be dumb *****. I've been there done that. Plaaaessee
    msneal msneal 36-40, F 1 Response May 16

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    Wanting To Let Go

    I am tired of taking so much responsibility for my daughter. Yesterday I helped her prepare for a job interview, took her there, waited for her and brought her home. It took all day. I asked her is she would dye my hair today and she said that she needed all day to get ready to...
    GlassHalfEmpty GlassHalfEmpty 56-60 4 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    My daughter is pregnant,

    21 and was married tonight without inviting me. She is behaving horribly, she has stopped speaking to me, I had until today tried to connect with her but to no avail. She is a horrible human being lately. She and her now husband dont work. They lived with me for a few months...
    disownedbella disownedbella 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2013

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    I Hate My Daughter

    Selfish little BRAT!! She's 22 and does not appreciate anything anyone does for her. She likes to be the center of attention, and in the spotlight ALL OF THE TIME! If she's not, she throws tantrums and tells people that I am a bad parent when she cannot have her way. I'm SICK...
    JMAT55 JMAT55 46-50 5 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    She's A 12 Year Old Nightmare!

    My daughter is 12 years old. Has been suspended from school for bullying and staring fights. We are a 2 parent home, no drugs, no alcohol, just your regular everyday American family. She is one of 4 and the only girl. The boys I have no problems with. But her! She sneaks out at...
    Fedup860 Fedup860 36-40 4 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Screaming 4 Help

    I am a mother of 3. I have 2 boys and 1 girl. I love all of my kids but lately for some reason I have been having the urge to seriously bring harm to my 2 year old daughter. She is my middle child and honestly if i could give her up right now i would. WTF is wrong with me. She is...
    RheddBow RheddBow 22-25 4 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    I Hate My Daugther

    I will skip around a bit. My daughter is 22 years old now her father went to jail when she was 3 months old I met someone new when she was 5 years oldhe took on the responsibilityof being her father after time she also had a three year old brother. The guy I met helped me a lot...
    whyme199122 whyme199122 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

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    I'm Really Starting To Hate My Teenager

    i''m so tired of arguing and fighting with my teenager.  if there is a loser in the toom she'll latch on to him. she wants to drop out of school; she won't even attempt to get help,  her teachers, father; and others offer to help and she refuses.  she flies into rages when she...
    jthom1 jthom1 41-45 8 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    She did something very unlike herself today.

    She apologized for calling me a *****. And she joined in one of our prayers today. I think she might be changing
    livefortheone livefortheone 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    Firstly, I just want to say how pleased I am I found this site, for the last few years I have been feeling like I must be an extremely messed up person to hate one of my step...
    Shimmergirl Shimmergirl 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    At this point I am unsure as to whether I have gotten better at dealing with not having my mother in my life or worse. I used to think I had it under control.. That was before my...
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    Miserabelle Miserabelle 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    OMG I want to scream been planning my daughters birthday party Booked the party at a frozen yogurt shop Sent out invitations Made fresh chocolate cupcakes with buttercream icing...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    Firstly, I just want to say how pleased I am I found this site, for the last few years I have been feeling like I must be an extremely messed up person to hate one of my step...
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    I was unfaithful to my daughter's mother nine years ago. That is why the lady and I are divorced. Although our daughter remains happy, healthy, well-adjusted, compassionate, and...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 3

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    My mother is ******* tyrant and a coward. She hates me. She is a piece of ****. I want her out of my life. She did not work for a large part of my adolescence and coming home...
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    Damnparents Damnparents 36-40, F Nov 24

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    I got to the point where I decided to just accept that my mother will never be the mother I needed and want. She will always be the victim taking no responsibility for her actions...
    valprewater valprewater 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    Don't all mothers hate the boys there daughters want to spend there time with?
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    tamdd tamdd 46-50, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't hate it because I hate the babies themselves, I hate it because of this overly-protective motherly side of me. I don't like it when babies are unhappy ><
    Ellie1027 Ellie1027 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    LisaC617 LisaC617 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    LisaC617 LisaC617 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago