I Hate My Daughters' Boyfriend

This group is for those who need to blow off steam from the pressure caused by daughters' boyfriends actions! 208 People

    I Cannot Tell You How Much I Do Not Want Her To Get Married

    My daughter is re-engaged to her boyfriend. She is young, just turned 19 in Sept. They are getting married for only one reason. He is in the Army and they want to live on base housing. First, not a great reason to get married (obviously). Second, he is not the same person he...
    enanursefl enanursefl
    41-45, F
    Nov 7, 2013

    My daughters boyfriend is nice

    but not good for her. No don't hate him but he is 4 yrs older than her, started dated when she was a high school jr and he was a college jr. Only guy she's dated. Now she's a college jr and he waits tables since graduating college 4 yrs ago. My girl is super motivated, has...
    Onewithone Onewithone
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Nov 20, 2014

    This is my eldest niece.

    Her boyfriend is a controlling Svengali. He doesn't work but rides the bus on her pass that her parents paid for, stays outside her work and uses her prepaid phone card that her parents paid for, and takes her paycheck from her. I would have bet all the money my girl wouldn't...
    klyn5 klyn5
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    My Daughter's Bf Is a Text Book Mental Abuser

    She met him through friends of friends. He was "cute" from his pictures on MySpace and Facebook. My daughter 17 at the time was drawn to his instant affection toward her. She never had the experience of having a boy dote on her like he was. I knew from the start...
    HawiianDeadBeat HawiianDeadBeat
    1 Response Aug 2, 2009

    I Don't Know What To Do Anymore.....daughters Boyfriend Is Controlling

    dbabb1 dbabb1
    5 Responses Mar 7, 2012

    Am I Paranoid?

    My daughters only 17 and she's been dating a 19 year old boy who had dropped out of high school. He's known around the town for drinking, he's been arrested for drink driving, assault, shoplifting, he has tattoos with vulgar words and symbols and he's not the kind of boy any...
    SharleneAdams SharleneAdams
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2013

    These Loser Boyfriends Are Actually Sociopaths

    I have read all of these experiences, and am sad to say I have had very similar ones. Wonderful daughter -- completely deadbeat boyfriend on so many levels that it boggles the mind.  These guys are masterminds of hooking young women under their spell, and they have no conscience...
    BeyondObvious BeyondObvious
    4 Responses Dec 29, 2011

    I Hate My Daughter'S X Boyfriend

    I hate my daughter's x boyfriend. You do not know the rage I feel inside. He has a bad reputation, has been in jail, has a history of being violent. The worst person you'd want your daughter to be with. I gave this guy a chance and he beat my daughter. We spent most of...
    Goddess65 Goddess65
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

    My situation is similar to many posted here,

    same players, similar situation and same result - we as parents, are suffering our children's poor choices. The loser boyfriend is the saint, we, the parents who have poured our blood sweat and tears into raising our children, we are the bad guys. Their choices hurt us deeply...
    applebrat applebrat
    51-55, F
    Apr 14, 2015

    I Hate My Daughters Boyfriend More Then Anything In the World!

    My daughter is 24 and met this guy when she was 20.  The first 3 years were terrible.  He tried so hard to be controlling but she didn't let him.  As a result they fought alot and broke up numerous times.  During the 3rd year he broke out her back car window 5...
    Snowiek Snowiek
    6 Responses Apr 4, 2009

    I Need Help! Living With My 50 Year Old Boyfriend And His 25 Year Old Adult Daughter

    I have lived with my boyfriend for a year now back in the summer he kicked my 16 year old son out of the house told him to start walking...because my son had a friend over and they were playing a game he asked them to help him go under the house...well they said they would in a...
    tigereyedbrat tigereyedbrat
    1 Response Mar 26, 2013

    I Have Never 'hated' Anyone Before This Guy......

    My eldest daughter has always been such a joy to be around, ask anyone and they would say the same. This has all changed thanks to this guy who has turned her into a miserable, dismissive, sullen, rebellious person that I just dont know anymore. She used to laugh and talk...
    mumof2girls mumof2girls
    18 Responses Nov 9, 2008

    I Can't Stand My Daughter's Boyfriend, What Do I Do???

    My precious youngest daughter of 20 has been involved with a 23 yrs old dead beat; he comes form a broken family, doesn't even have a GED works from one job to another and has taught my child gambling, pot and everything else. For the last two years all of our fights, yelling...
    Woahday08 Woahday08
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 11, 2009

    Waste Of Space!

    Hi everyone! Where do I start? My daughter has been seeing her boyfriend now for almost 2 years and he has never had a job since I've known him and has no intention of getting one in the future. He is 25 and my daughter is 22, she is such a beautiful and intelligent girl and...
    heisaloser heisaloser
    1 Response Sep 27, 2012

    I Want to Slap Him!

    If I didn't just tell my daughter that her boyfriend was no longer aloud in my house nor in my driveway, then I would slap him the next time I saw him.  Ok, maybe I wouldn't but my husband is looking for the day when he sees him again.  My husband and  I...
    exausted exausted
    6 Responses Oct 14, 2008

    My Daughters Boy Friend Hates Me

    My daughter and I are super close, about 2 years ago she started dating this boy.  I really didnt know him veery well cause he was kinda the quiet type. Well the relationship went on and over time I thought he was apretty good guy I still felt he was kinda stand off ish but I...
    philjn5 philjn5
    1 Response Apr 17, 2011

    The Emotional Vampire

    My daughter who is now 16 befriended a boy at the local all boys school ( she is at the all gilrs school) through facebook. Aftre months of talking, he confessed he was a self harmer and used to describe it to her in glowing detail as he used blades he hid around his bedroom. As...
    guest27 guest27
    1 Response Jan 29, 2013

    I Hate To Hate , But I Hate Aaron

    I hate to hate , but I do ! I hate my daughters boyfriend !They have a beautiful child together , that's the silver lining . Other than that nothing . He doesn't have a car or drivers license . No bank account , , always late with his portion of bill money . He is a Slob of the...
    Phanenberg Phanenberg
    46-50, F
    Sep 4, 2013

    I am so glad I found this site,

    I have been going through hell with my 24 year old daughter. She met this low life about 6 months ago, and she has never been the type to sleep around but made a bad judgement call with this looser and wines up with a sexually transmitted disease. He denies giving it to her and...
    countrygal38 countrygal38
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2014

    Fed Up

    My 19 year old daughter has been dating her 20 year old boyfriend for almost 2 years.  He is her first boyfriend and I want to kick his butt to the curb.  From the momnet I first met him I had to wonder what she saw in him.  He has absolutely no personality and she...
    josephinejoyb josephinejoyb
    1 Response Oct 26, 2010

    Daughter Lost

    My daugther has completely broken my heart. She started dating this douchebag in August. She was in college. She dropped out, because of him, her best friend told me that. She lost her job right before the holidays. The holidays with him were a nightmare. He lost his mother...
    poorexcuse poorexcuse
    Mar 16, 2013

    I dont know him, I dont want to know him My

    daughter has 3 beautifull children & a great husband, not perfect but great .She decided to have an afair & leave him with 10 yrs jr, than her 34 with a 24. useless kid, drugs, never keeps a job, thinks about partys, we will never ever accept him in our home or our family so i...
    diana482 diana482
    Jan 8, 2014

    I Hate My Daughters Boyfriend!!!!!

    I have a 17 year old and she is dating a 18 year old, they have been dating for 10 months now . We liked him at first but after a couple months he started staying here 24/7 and did not no at first my husband and I work 3rd shift he would come after we leave and leave before we...
    angrymom48 angrymom48
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2013

    Love Hurts

    Hello. I have been reading many posts here and have to say I have never posted on one. Ive always felt I could handle any family problems until we sent our very pretty, bright, kind, shy, naive and somewhat vulnerable daughter to college. Not very proud parents, are we?, lol. She...
    momofm momofm
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2009

    Distance From My Daughter

    My daughter is dating a real jerk. I have to admit it was my wife and me who caused it because we allowed her to date him when she was young, 13. We figured it was just a cute thing that would pass but since then she has staid with him and now that they're 19, they are sexually...
    DeadDad DeadDad
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 9, 2013

    I Think My Daughter's Boyfriend Is a User and Manipulative

    My daughter has been dating the same boy for about a year.  He is 2 1/2 years older than her.  He still lives at home with his mother.  She is 20 and has her own apartment with a roommate.  He stays there and eats there all the time, but does not contribute at...
    georgiej georgiej
    9 Responses Dec 7, 2008

    I Hate My Daughters Boyfriend

    I am also in this Same situation my daughter and her dreaded BF are both 20 I know I may offended some people but her BF is biracial as well as a controlling manipulator. I was raised in a family where you just don't date outside your race. I don't feel that I am a racists I don...
    Fariegirl4ever Fariegirl4ever
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

    A Story To Make You Smile...

    I had to share this with all the frustrated parents out there. I'd like to block the young adults from responding because you have no idea what this story means, LOL! This past Saturday my wife and I decided to have a family day out at the movies on Saturday. My wife told our...
    DeadDad DeadDad
    51-55, M
    1 Response Aug 6, 2013

    Am I Right To Despise My Daughter's Boyfriend?

    Hi everyone I really need to let off some steam right now and this seems the correct place to be. I will tell you briefly just why I hate and despise my daughter's boyfriend so much.      My beautiful, 18 year old daughter has been with this guy for...
    lilytheferret lilytheferret
    36-40, F
    9 Responses May 11, 2010

    My daughter recently told me she is pregnant.

    She didn't tell me upfront, I had to ask a few times, because I notice her body changing. She still lives at home, but her boyfriend, whom is 25 years old recently got an apartment. I was ilated when he told, thinking he was finally maturing, but now I see, he only leased an...
    HeyJ HeyJ
    Apr 9, 2015

    I've Lost My Daughter To A Looser

    After advising my daughter (16) to stay away from this (21 yr old) looser with no high school diploma, no job & separated from the mother of his less than a yr old child..she turned 17 and moved out. I am totally devastated. I love her so much and can not believe that she would...
    momzilla1966 momzilla1966
    5 Responses Jun 30, 2011

    I have been up all night researching

    information on abusive relationships,I fear if i do not find a way to convince my 25 year old daughter to leave her abusive boyfriend i am going to end up in a mental ward or prison.She has been with him since she was 16 and he was 14.They have a 3 and a half year old daughter...
    grandmamom grandmamom
    56-60, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2014

    Makes Me Sick

    My daughter has been dating her boyfriend for two years and I'm now to the point of every time I hear or see him it makes me sick.  I thought that she would get tired of all his crap, but she continues to put with it.  I always thought she was an intelligient girl, but...
    dumphisbutt dumphisbutt
    98 Responses Dec 18, 2008

    The Loser My Daughter Dates

    I love my daughter more than anything in the world we have always been best friends...seems we have grown apart ever since she started dating this wonderful guy let's call me Dufus..First she starting seeing him and omg I almost died he wasn't her type at all. of cousre her...
    shattereddreams1 shattereddreams1
    5 Responses Aug 10, 2009

    These posts completely relate to my story about

    my younger sister. She is four years younger than me, 22, and we used to be so close, and I could share everything with her. In the last two years, she has completely changed, I partially blame her and partially blame her boyfriend, and I don't even recognize who she is anymore...
    anon7297 anon7297
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

    Manipulative Boyfriend

    So....my daughter's boyfriend seemed soooo nice in the beginning...accomplished, attending Berkeley, already has a job lined up after graduation, says sweet things to her, nice to me, etc., etc. He tells her that they're going to get married and live happily ever after, etc...
    burnedoutmom burnedoutmom
    1 Response Mar 12, 2013

    Narcissist and a Manipulator

    Posted Feb 13th, 2009 at 4:02PM My daughter has had an on again-off again relationship with the same boy since 9th grade! She is now in her 2nd year of college which yes we do pay for and this boy is a Marine now in Iraq. He has been awful to my daughter and they have broken up...
    distraughted distraughted
    4 Responses Feb 14, 2009

    Boyfriend From Hell

    This could go on and on and on and on, but I'll keep it simple. Drunk, surly, profane, unemployed, stupid, abusive (verbally and physically), and not even good looking. Drunk: Drinking seems to be his only talent. He's 23 years old and still brags about his drinking like he...
    SuntObosit SuntObosit
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jun 7, 2012

    Do These Stories Ever Have Good Endings???

    My very smart, very beautiful daughter is involved with a first class jerk.  I could tell you a thousand stories, but you all have heard the same stories over and over and over again -- just slightly different scenarios.  He's a bum.  He barely works.  She's...
    justmejulie518 justmejulie518
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2010

    My Daughter Is Pregnant With This Loser!!!

    My daughter is 23 and on the most part has made good decisions but that went right out the window when she met this "boy" which I cannot bring myself to call him a man. He lied to us right from the start with saying he was abused and made us want to welcome him more as we are...
    3 Responses Jan 27, 2013

    Disturbing Actions!

    Tonight my daughters fiance came to pick her up to go hunting in the morning. I could tell she really didn't want to go but she refused to say anything to him or us, even when we asked if she wanted to stay home. He came over with his mother to get her. While they where waiting...
    DeadDad DeadDad
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 6, 2013


    I hate my daughters. Boyfriend although at this point she denies he is her boyfriend to us. I'm just so sick of feeling sick over this. I don't know how to let it go. I know I cant control what she does so I need to do something about my reaction to it. I feel sick thinking about...
    moehan moehan
    56-60, M
    1 Response Nov 17, 2013

    My 22 year old daughter is applying to nursing

    school for the fall & spring ( We hope ! ) & still lives at home . She was a size 2 , very small anyway & now she's a size 0 or 00 since meeting this loser guy . She's done coke only few times ( Ya right ) she says for the weight loss but I know it's because of him . He is 34...
    poppybeme poppybeme
    Jul 9, 2015

    My Daughter Is Dating A Slug

    My daughter is a sophmore at an Ivy League University with a fantastic future ahead of her in neuroscience and a great deal of ambition and for some unknown reason is living with this creep I can only describe as a slug.  He looks like Porky Pig, lives in her apartment and...
    JT60 JT60
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 27, 2009

    I have four grown daughters,

    all of them grew up to become responsible adults including the one who now causes me to lose sleep at night. She was the strongest female I knew, never missed church, sang in the choir, had her own place & paid her bills. Her convictions on sex before marriage were so strong...
    MomB4 MomB4
    51-55, F
    Sep 24, 2015

    He's Abusing Her Children

    My daughter is 24 yo w/ 2 children.  My grandson is 4 1/2, my granddaughter is 2 1/2.  My daughter (dtr) is single.  She met a guy 24 yrs old online.  She has been going out with him for just short of 3 months now.  I...
    ihatemf ihatemf
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Sep 25, 2009

    I try so hard to live

    as God ask me to.I am struggling with the fact that I can't stand my daughter's boyfriend. I try to like him but, as soon as he opens his mouth I want to throat chop him. He knows everything about nothing. I can't stomach another I have done it bigger and better story. My...
    tntsmommy tntsmommy
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 3, 2014

    My Daughter Has A Stupid Boyfriend (we need to get rid of).....

    Hi All! Okay, I posted like the rest of you guys (and read most of your post) on another thread. After reading your stories it gave me the extra push. He (the stupid box of rocks) was allowed to live here, because we were told his home was not livable. Being the "nice guys" we...
    Georgiamomof2 Georgiamomof2
    56-60, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2012

    I Despise My Boyfriends Daughter To No End.....

    I am divorced from a 24 year marriage, and four years ago began dating a man who is separated from his wife of 17 years with three children all grown. I moved in with him and learned he is an alcoholic and then began the problems from his 18 year old, foul mouthed, vicious, self...
    Casey61 Casey61
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2013

    My daughter is 28 y.o.

    and has been with her bf for a little over 2 years. When they first got together, I was excited for her. She stood strong in her beliefs, but after a short period of time, she began to question the Bible, me, etc... then she tells me her bf is an athiest. From that time forward...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 23, 2016

    Hes Got To Go!!!!!!!!!

    Well since it is ok to let off steam here i will start by saying this. My daughter is going to be 21 in a few weeks but she is mildly mentally disabled learning etc. Cannot count money is not capable of working a regular job. But is a wonderful young woman. Her boyfriend is...
    tabitha1960 tabitha1960
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2012

    I have a very similar story.

    My daughter is with a controlling manipulative partner who emotionally abuses her son from her marriage.He knew I had him Sussed from the start although I kept my mouth shut about that at the beginning. So he set about turning my daughter against me. She was pregnant within...
    Worriedsick4 Worriedsick4
    70+, F
    Oct 16, 2015

    My Independant Daughter That Has Gone Astray

    It began nine months ago,first let me explain she is hearing impaired and her boyfriend is deaf with a coccular she has hearing aids they both read lips she talks clearly he doesn't so much. My daughters boyfriend is my sons girlfriends brother no body in the family likes...
    tenatious38 tenatious38
    Sep 9, 2013
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