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I Hate My Ex Best Friend

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    Can't Be the Type of Friend...

    I hate my ex best friend for telling me she couldn't be the type of friend I wanted.( A friend with compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and love?) I have been hospitalized over 10 times in the last 7 years. I am Bi-polar. My ex best friend never once visited me while I had...
    o0cherriepie0o o0cherriepie0o 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2007

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    She'S Horrible!

    my best friend had been my friend for almost 3 years but as the time passed, things got really complicated and hard for me to handle. we both did not have much in common but we were friends anyway. then she started to become very demanding. she hated it if i even talked to...
    sidslot16 sidslot16 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    mickes18 mickes18 16-17, F Dec 1, 2013

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    Can't Be the Type of Friend...

    I hate my ex best friend for telling me she couldn't be the type of friend I wanted.( A friend with compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and love?) I have been hospitalized over 10 times in the last 7 years. I am Bi-polar. My ex best friend never once visited me while I had...
    o0cherriepie0o o0cherriepie0o 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 8, 2007

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    Main Hell In My Life, Pretty Much.

    I need to tell someone this and I guess an online site with strangers and a few friends would be the best time to. So I remember how it all started; the ******* day my life was destined to change or something I guess because I met Ashley. We met in third grade at age 7 over some...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick 16-17, F Feb 24, 2013

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    I was depressed, she is supposed to

    now that, even if I don't tell her everything. She was a quiet girl, she did not have any friends at school before, I was the first who said hello to her. I was innocent back then, I thought, I did not want her to feel bitter. My other friends did not like her, they hold their...
    madeirawood madeirawood 18-21, F May 4

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    Tired Of Begging For Friendship

    I am so fed up and tired! I have been friends with Eunice for 5 years and I am finally fed up with her. I am usually the one to be there for her when she is going through a rough row but now I am not doing so well. And is she there for me? The answer is no. We got into a...
    sofedupin sofedupin 26-30, F Nov 10, 2013

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    When I was in grade 4,

    a new girl came to my school. She didn't make any friends; she smelt funny and everyone thought she was weird. At that time, I was the class clown and a pretty popular kid. I paid no mind to her. At first. Then, the new seating arrangement put her next to me. She started copying...
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I Hate Both Of You Now!

    I hope it’s not too long. Here goes. I’m a guy befriend with a female (Amy). Nothing special because I know she got a BF (Bob) and met them for social activities a number of times after the fact. All is well until another friend (Craig) of mine I introduce to Amy. Three of us...
    shyghost7902 shyghost7902 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2012

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    My Bestfriend Took My Boyfriend

    About a year and a half ago I moved to this town of Marietta, OK and I was never a really social person. I always kept to myself and didn't really talk to anybody. I had met some friends there and they made me start conversations and create more friends; they brought out the new...
    TheKris521 TheKris521 16-17, F Nov 8, 2012

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    Change Doesnt Mean You Have To Like It

    I really hate this girl..lets call her Stephanie. She really ****** me off like almost everyday but she was my 'best friend'(thats what people call us but i never really said we were) Anyway, i'll start the day we first met. It was back in 5th grade and we had become seatmates...
    kakuo1997 kakuo1997 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    I Hate Her

    I had a best friend a few years ago. And I hate her so much now but I have a reason. She made me hate a friend, spreaders rumors, never picked up my calls, called me all the time, said all of her things were better than mine, called me a fat *****, had sex in my room, used me...
    Llamacornisnotonfire Llamacornisnotonfire 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    She sent my boyfriend nudessss

    and told everyone I tried to kill myself (not true). She destroyed my relationship with boyfriend and family. She slept with 14 guys already and calls me a slutttt even though I'm a virgin.
    f0reverUns0cial f0reverUns0cial 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dreams

    For the past few days, I have been dreaming about my ex best friend. I dont understand why. She is NOT the last thing on my mind. I have no idea what this means!! First before I tell my dreams, I want to say this. In the 8th grade, her and I got into a huge fight which ended our...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Jun 5, 2012

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    She keeps sending me group messages saying

    that she always get home drunk, sleeping over her guy friends and washing their underwear for them. I don't know if she's a sl*t or what. It's so irritating, it's not like I care but ugh.
    TheKDoomsday TheKDoomsday 13-15, F 2 Responses May 27

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    Okay, so I had this friend,

    who well obviously I called my best friend, for 3 years. She tried to destroy everything! If I didn't have one of the greatest friends ever to defend every word she said about me while I was in a psychiatric ward, I don't know what I would have done. I met her at school, and idk...
    AllINeedIsMarilynAndCupcakes AllINeedIsMarilynAndCupcakes 13-15, F Feb 26

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    What Did I Do To You?

    Has anyone ever had a best friend that you now hate? Well, I do. So it started back when i was in elementary school in about the forth grade. J and i first met and we were best friends. Then this other girl moved in ( im gonna call her B) and and well J and i thought it would...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Feb 14, 2012

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    My ex best friend lied to me about liking my ex

    boyfriend. I lost her trust and told her she chose a boy over our friendship. I tried being friends with her again but it just wasnt natrual. We got into even more fights where she said some hurtful things and i said some stuff too i will admit. She is now dating my ex and she...
    sugarbursting sugarbursting 13-15, M Feb 21

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    Classic

     my [ex] best friend has a habit of saying what is on her mind no matter the consequences of her words. It never really impacted me until she told me that basically "our friendship means nothing to me and if you were to just up and leave or whatever i wouldn't think...
    jgurl006 jgurl006 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    Imsobored123 Imsobored123 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I experience having a Boyfriend who is also my Best Friend but we're not together now because of Her EX .. He promise that he will come back to me Maybe someday .. Is it real or...
    CamilleJane CamilleJane 16-17, F 6 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I have dreams about my best friend who completely hates me, at least I think she does. Last night, I kept waking up in the middle of the night after dreams. I had 5 dreams and each...
    basketballislife15 basketballislife15 13-15, F Jul 14

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    I had a best friend. We started talkin to two other best friends and became a group of 4. But my best friend started hating one of my other friends and would always leave and get...
    HarlieMarie HarlieMarie 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I lost her... Again. The first time she left was back in October I think because me and her boyfriend had started talking and became like brother and sister. She left and I cried...
    talia13 talia13 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I just lost my best friend,she told me I'm not the same person I was and that is true, I'm really depressed and sad lately. I have a lot of problems and she didn't know about them...
    FUFLOOTA FUFLOOTA 13-15, F Jul 10

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    I'm almost 30 years old, so I thought my days of horrible friends and unwanted drama were long gone...I was wrong. I started working with a girl "Meg," last year. We started...
    monkeytine monkeytine 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    She's the ultimate worst best friend on earth. She doesn't care about me at all, she makes fun of me the whole time. She basically stole my first boyfriend/love. She took my...
    anonymouslymyself anonymouslymyself 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    We've been best friends for over four years now. He's gay so we could honestly talk about everything and anything. We could walk through the mall talking about how cute that guy...
    kay5262 kay5262 18-21, F Jul 16

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    I'm 17 years old and I'm in love with this girl. We've been going out for 4 months and it's amazing. But her best friend is bloody creepy. In the first week that we were going out...
    Georgewash1 Georgewash1 16-17 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The void I felt as I fell apart was, at least to what I could imagine in my mind, probably equal to what you felt when I'd left you in the hospital. I began to feel very sad. I...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    So me and my best friend made a trip to NYC for fun for a week and we just got back today. While we were there I managed to meet a really cool girl. We hung out multiple times...
    Sevenup1 Sevenup1 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    Falling in love with your best friend probably is one of the most wonderful (kilig) or inspiring things that can happen your love life.:) I've experienced it, I realized that I...
    BakerQueen14 BakerQueen14 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    We don't call our selfs best friends, but I believe we are the best friend of each other. He is really the only person I can be smart with, and actually hates me when I play dumb...
    Notwhatyouthinkiam Notwhatyouthinkiam 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    So it was me and Ingrid since 3rd grade ! Then in 4th grade Vincent came he is such a bad boy !! Vincent sat next to me and started to bother me so I told myself "I need to get...
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    me and my best friend were fighting over a picture she hated she is the one with straight hair in the picture she said she hated it cuz of her hair but before any of this happened...
    megan1247 megan1247 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I've never really had a best friend, I've always been that kid who refuses to get close to someone, not because I'm afraid or anything, just because frankly I don't think anyone is...
    MissIHateEverything MissIHateEverything 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So my ex best friend prank called me at 1am telling me to go burn in hell and die well **** him I might just go do that live with that guilt you c*nt I just don't get what...
    Lolbeansarefun Lolbeansarefun 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have a best friend who loves me and It's very confusing. She's been my best friend for 7 years and I don't want to ruin this friendship. I have a huge crush on her but I just don...
    Nessuray Nessuray 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Both of them. My male best friend is so close but I don't get along with the other girls in his life and we haven't spoken a lot lately because we're both so busy. It's been about...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Well they're good friends of mine (I already have a best friend), but they can be so dumb sometimes.. Especially one. They fought and stopped being friends for months just because...
    littlestella littlestella 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I've known my ex for 15 years, her older brother for just as long. He was my best friend, we grew up together, and we were brothers. 8 Years ago, he was killed in Iraq, and over...
    bigbluecolonel bigbluecolonel 26-30, M Jul 16

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    I just told my best friend that I have a crush on a girl over facebook, then had to explain that I'm not gay but bi. She's now totally confused but I did it today cos I won't see...
    straylii straylii 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I need a best friend... Girl or guy aged 22-28 in Delhi... Strictly friendship. I want someone with whom I can share all. I have friends but they are fake. I need a true friend...
    kannayz kannayz 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Most days I love him to pieces, he's incredible and I feel so lucky to be his friend. He makes time for me over his boy friends and other girl friends (all of which fancy him like...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Okay not all of them. Right now mainly two. I just got engaged and two girls who were two of my best friends (up until a month ago when a silly and little fight put a rift between...
    whoneedssanity whoneedssanity 22-25, F Jul 18

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    All of my best friends have long straight blonde hair and their super skinny and wear gorgeous clothes I am (I will admit) kinda chubby and my hair is curly, a little frizzy, and a...
    MollyIsFrantastic MollyIsFrantastic 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I bought a mermaid tail (Caribbean Blue) online from finfunmermaid.com, I told my best friend it is real and she hasn't seen it in person yet. We are both love obsessed over...
    SusanKennedyMermaid SusanKennedyMermaid 16-17, F Jul 11

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    Kelvin...it seems like you never even existed. You were my best friend. And then all of a sudden you hate me? Why? You said you cared. You promised...
    JustBeingMe572 JustBeingMe572 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My best friend (both male, both 34, he's married 2 kids, and I'm single and live alone) for the past 5 years has been at my house every Friday, Saturday and Sunday. It's becoming...
    crb80 crb80 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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