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I Hate My Ex Best Friend

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    When I was in grade 4,

    a new girl came to my school. She didn't make any friends; she smelt funny and everyone thought she was weird. At that time, I was the class clown and a pretty popular kid. I paid no mind to her. At first. Then, the new seating arrangement put her next to me. She started copying...
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I Hate Her

    I had a best friend a few years ago. And I hate her so much now but I have a reason. She made me hate a friend, spreaders rumors, never picked up my calls, called me all the time, said all of her things were better than mine, called me a fat *****, had sex in my room, used me...
    Llamacornisnotonfire Llamacornisnotonfire 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2013

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    Tired Of Begging For Friendship

    I am so fed up and tired! I have been friends with Eunice for 5 years and I am finally fed up with her. I am usually the one to be there for her when she is going through a rough row but now I am not doing so well. And is she there for me? The answer is no. We got into a...
    sofedupin sofedupin 26-30, F Nov 10, 2013

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    What Did I Do To You?

    Has anyone ever had a best friend that you now hate? Well, I do. So it started back when i was in elementary school in about the forth grade. J and i first met and we were best friends. Then this other girl moved in ( im gonna call her B) and and well J and i thought it would...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Feb 14, 2012

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    mickes18 mickes18 16-17, F Dec 1, 2013

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    Okay, so I had this friend,

    who well obviously I called my best friend, for 3 years. She tried to destroy everything! If I didn't have one of the greatest friends ever to defend every word she said about me while I was in a psychiatric ward, I don't know what I would have done. I met her at school, and idk...
    RoarImScary RoarImScary 13-15, F Feb 26

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    Classic

     my [ex] best friend has a habit of saying what is on her mind no matter the consequences of her words. It never really impacted me until she told me that basically "our friendship means nothing to me and if you were to just up and leave or whatever i wouldn't think...
    jgurl006 jgurl006 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    Main Hell In My Life, Pretty Much.

    I need to tell someone this and I guess an online site with strangers and a few friends would be the best time to. So I remember how it all started; the ******* day my life was destined to change or something I guess because I met Ashley. We met in third grade at age 7 over some...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick 16-17, F Feb 24, 2013

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    I Hate Both Of You Now!

    I hope it’s not too long. Here goes. I’m a guy befriend with a female (Amy). Nothing special because I know she got a BF (Bob) and met them for social activities a number of times after the fact. All is well until another friend (Craig) of mine I introduce to Amy. Three of us...
    shyghost7902 shyghost7902 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2012

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    My Bestfriend Took My Boyfriend

    About a year and a half ago I moved to this town of Marietta, OK and I was never a really social person. I always kept to myself and didn't really talk to anybody. I had met some friends there and they made me start conversations and create more friends; they brought out the new...
    TheKris521 TheKris521 16-17, F Nov 8, 2012

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    Dreams

    For the past few days, I have been dreaming about my ex best friend. I dont understand why. She is NOT the last thing on my mind. I have no idea what this means!! First before I tell my dreams, I want to say this. In the 8th grade, her and I got into a huge fight which ended our...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Jun 5, 2012

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    My ex best friend lied to me about liking my ex

    boyfriend. I lost her trust and told her she chose a boy over our friendship. I tried being friends with her again but it just wasnt natrual. We got into even more fights where she said some hurtful things and i said some stuff too i will admit. She is now dating my ex and she...
    sugarbursting sugarbursting 13-15, M Feb 21

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    She'S Horrible!

    my best friend had been my friend for almost 3 years but as the time passed, things got really complicated and hard for me to handle. we both did not have much in common but we were friends anyway. then she started to become very demanding. she hated it if i even talked to...
    sidslot16 sidslot16 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    Okay, 'hate' is pretty strong,

    but this was the only experience I felt my tale would fall under. I think strongly dislike is better, because although she wasn't a nice person in the end, we did have three golden years. I stuck by her, she stuck by me for the most part. She sent me a friend request on...
    MMXIV MMXIV 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I miss my best friend. I haven't talked to him in 3 months. We had a falling out and stopped talking to each other. When we were friends We talked everyday and did crafts together...
    MeganXXXXX MeganXXXXX 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    My best friend was my dog Rasin.She died in 2011 but it still feels like she died yesterday.Whenever I think about her I start crying and can't stop for hours.But even though she...
    Shireene92 Shireene92 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I really want a guy best friend. Girls just have too much drama and guys are cool, there's not as much drama. Also guys can explain how guys work and help with that kind of stuff...
    SmilesHideSecrets SmilesHideSecrets 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Last year i had a bestfriend named Christian & he was the bestest friend you could ever ask for. I told him everything & he told me everything, we knew eachother inside & out. But...
    becausetheinternet becausetheinternet 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I feel like I haven't had a great friendship in a long time. I do have a significant other and we are best friends, but I need a different type of friend. Someone that I can share...
    jellylb12 jellylb12 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I want a best friend, someone who I can be myself with and will listen to me vent out when I get upset and that I can call my sister. I don't have any friends anymore and I'm...
    aleeta47 aleeta47 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I love my best friend, Lolita (aka Tessa) who is always there for me no matter what! She has always stuck by me even if when I did the worst thing I could of done...! Love you Hun...
    JustAKittenArmy JustAKittenArmy 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I need a guy best friend who can explain men and why they do the things they do and also to keep me in line.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    What is this page all about, you hate your best friend, if you hate your best friend then they are not your friend.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hate is a strong word but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    Maybe hate is too much but… I thing she is not my best friend anymore, I don´t know what to do. I met my best friend 4 years ago and we became friends very quickly, we had fun...
    CaptainMer CaptainMer 16-17 Mar 31

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    I won't leave my best friend Kody. Right now, he is in a really dark place. He said a LOT of hurtful and hateful things to me today, and I know he is lashing out, and when he gets...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I hate my 'best friends' they're so ignorant and selfish. They never listen to me, and always push me away when I'm walking with them. They were never there when I'm sad, they...
    gyomii gyomii 16-17, F Mar 29

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    Why haven't I found at least one true friend? I've always been there for you and supported you through everything, but now you just throw it all back in my face as if it didn't...
    RadiateLove RadiateLove 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I feel extremely guilty even writing this, but I can't keep it to myself anymore. My friend-last year definitively a "best" friend and this year one of my roommates- has become...
    messycrazylife messycrazylife 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I lost two of them, actually. They were mean to me and when I was upset they never helped me. I told another friend about this and she went and told my best friends that I hate...
    clairexo clairexo 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    My best friend thinks that I've changed and I hate him because we used to hangout all the time. Then high school came and we don't hangout as much. I started basketball, he got a...
    mariahann88 mariahann88 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I may not only love, but be in love with my best friend. I have never been a fan of her boy friend that I unfortunately introduced her to, thinking they would be a quick hook up as...
    EccentricTree EccentricTree 18-21 Mar 25

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    My absolute best friend is also my ex-boyfriend. It's not really weird because we didn't date for long and that was a while ago. The only thing that makes it woes is that he knows...
    Usethisone1331 Usethisone1331 13-15, F a week ago

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    so this girl was my best friend, and obviously i trusted her and **** and she knows i have beef with this girl, so one day i told my best friend that I would take her out and pay...
    nogoodtianna nogoodtianna 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    So I have had a best friend name Ricquel since 7th grade we are now 22 and still friends but she betrayed me in a way I thought she would never .i also have a friend/roommate named...
    jezebeljezzy jezebeljezzy 22-25, F Apr 12

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    Ugh! My best friend for the past couple months has been bailing on me everytime we plan to hang! We can plan it weeks ahead but sure enough something will come up. Her parents are...
    AlexanderX AlexanderX 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Lunch. This has to do about lunch. Lately, I've been going in at the beginning of lunch to get some help with French. When I come back to lunch this idiot girl, who never sits at...
    areyoujoking202 areyoujoking202 13-15, F Mar 26

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    ​know i am very young, but yes I've fallen in love. so it all started in kindergarten. we instantly connected, he was my best friend over everything. we both had a learning...
    seersh98 seersh98 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I believe everything happens for a reason and that you meet everyone that you meet for a reason. Most of my friends have been girls, but I've had one really good guy friend and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I miss my best friend so bady 😭😭😭 Sometimes i just wish i could go back start over. Maybe if I had a second chance, I wouldn't have lost her. She can't possibly know how...
    TaylorNicoleee TaylorNicoleee 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    At school me and my friends have a group, with 5 girls Alex, Adelaide, Brenna, Grace and Me and I am the only one without a best friend. Adelaide has a best-friends called...
    bryannnnaaa bryannnnaaa 13-15, F Apr 11

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, and hanging with his friends pretty much the whole time. I haven't really got comfortable with them until recently. See, what...
    edlineuser edlineuser 18-21, F a week ago

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    My boyfriend is technically my best friend. He's got a lot of special titles from me. But I'm not really sure I'll ever have a real best friend. The first reason is because I'm not...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I have two people i really consider my best friends. Theres my first best friend, who i've been friends with since i was born and i grew up with. We don't see each other often...
    whitemiddleclassteengirl whitemiddleclassteengirl 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Hey everyone.I am 15 years old.Last year I lost my best friend last year.And by lost I mean that she stopped talking to me.We had been best friends since kindergarten and it was...
    inecrazyandhypersensitive inecrazyandhypersensitive 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    Here's to the best friend who... Can pep-talk away my tears. Here's to the best friend who... Is there for me when life turns its back. Here's to the best friend who... Assures me...
    Amsch95 Amsch95 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Hi, i'm Sara, i'm 14 years old, and i'd like to have a guy best friend 14-18 years old, i have a lot of female-friends and i don't have a problem on making female-friends but i've...
    SaraKh286 SaraKh286 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I love my best friend, but I don't think it's necessary to have contact everyday just because of that one fact. Simply because we have a stronger bond than most, doesn't mean we...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I have been grieving over my best friend since we both grew apart. She turned into a mean spirited person and started just being awful to me and my family who had always treated...
    SubmissiveArtist SubmissiveArtist 18-21, F Apr 9

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