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I Hate My Ex Best Friend

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    I Hate Both Of You Now!

    I hope it’s not too long. Here goes. I’m a guy befriend with a female (Amy). Nothing special because I know she got a BF (Bob) and met them for social activities a number of times after the fact. All is well until another friend (Craig) of mine I introduce to Amy. Three of us...
    shyghost7902 shyghost7902 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2012

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    She'S Horrible!

    my best friend had been my friend for almost 3 years but as the time passed, things got really complicated and hard for me to handle. we both did not have much in common but we were friends anyway. then she started to become very demanding. she hated it if i even talked to...
    sidslot16 sidslot16 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    Can't Be the Type of Friend...

    I hate my ex best friend for telling me she couldn't be the type of friend I wanted.( A friend with compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and love?) I have been hospitalized over 10 times in the last 7 years. I am Bi-polar. My ex best friend never once visited me while I had...
    o0cherriepie0o o0cherriepie0o 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2007

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    What Did I Do To You?

    Has anyone ever had a best friend that you now hate? Well, I do. So it started back when i was in elementary school in about the forth grade. J and i first met and we were best friends. Then this other girl moved in ( im gonna call her B) and and well J and i thought it would...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Feb 14, 2012

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    My Bestfriend Took My Boyfriend

    About a year and a half ago I moved to this town of Marietta, OK and I was never a really social person. I always kept to myself and didn't really talk to anybody. I had met some friends there and they made me start conversations and create more friends; they brought out the new...
    TheKris521 TheKris521 16-17, F Nov 8, 2012

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    Okay, so I had this friend,

    who well obviously I called my best friend, for 3 years. She tried to destroy everything! If I didn't have one of the greatest friends ever to defend every word she said about me while I was in a psychiatric ward, I don't know what I would have done. I met her at school, and idk...
    AllINeedIsMarilynAndCupcakes AllINeedIsMarilynAndCupcakes 13-15, F Feb 26

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    Change Doesnt Mean You Have To Like It

    I really hate this girl..lets call her Stephanie. She really ****** me off like almost everyday but she was my 'best friend'(thats what people call us but i never really said we were) Anyway, i'll start the day we first met. It was back in 5th grade and we had become seatmates...
    kakuo1997 kakuo1997 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Main Hell In My Life, Pretty Much.

    I need to tell someone this and I guess an online site with strangers and a few friends would be the best time to. So I remember how it all started; the ******* day my life was destined to change or something I guess because I met Ashley. We met in third grade at age 7 over some...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick 16-17, F Feb 24, 2013

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    mickes18 mickes18 16-17, F Dec 1, 2013

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    My ex best friend lied to me about liking my ex

    boyfriend. I lost her trust and told her she chose a boy over our friendship. I tried being friends with her again but it just wasnt natrual. We got into even more fights where she said some hurtful things and i said some stuff too i will admit. She is now dating my ex and she...
    sugarbursting sugarbursting 13-15, M Feb 21

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    When I was in grade 4,

    a new girl came to my school. She didn't make any friends; she smelt funny and everyone thought she was weird. At that time, I was the class clown and a pretty popular kid. I paid no mind to her. At first. Then, the new seating arrangement put her next to me. She started copying...
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I was depressed, she is supposed to

    now that, even if I don't tell her everything. She was a quiet girl, she did not have any friends at school before, I was the first who said hello to her. I was innocent back then, I thought, I did not want her to feel bitter. My other friends did not like her, they hold their...
    madeirawood madeirawood 18-21, F May 4

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    Can't Be the Type of Friend...

    I hate my ex best friend for telling me she couldn't be the type of friend I wanted.( A friend with compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and love?) I have been hospitalized over 10 times in the last 7 years. I am Bi-polar. My ex best friend never once visited me while I had...
    o0cherriepie0o o0cherriepie0o 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 8, 2007

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    She keeps sending me group messages saying

    that she always get home drunk, sleeping over her guy friends and washing their underwear for them. I don't know if she's a sl*t or what. It's so irritating, it's not like I care but ugh.
    TheKDoomsday TheKDoomsday 13-15, F 2 Responses May 27

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    Classic

     my [ex] best friend has a habit of saying what is on her mind no matter the consequences of her words. It never really impacted me until she told me that basically "our friendship means nothing to me and if you were to just up and leave or whatever i wouldn't think...
    jgurl006 jgurl006 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    Dreams

    For the past few days, I have been dreaming about my ex best friend. I dont understand why. She is NOT the last thing on my mind. I have no idea what this means!! First before I tell my dreams, I want to say this. In the 8th grade, her and I got into a huge fight which ended our...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Jun 5, 2012

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    I Hate Her

    I had a best friend a few years ago. And I hate her so much now but I have a reason. She made me hate a friend, spreaders rumors, never picked up my calls, called me all the time, said all of her things were better than mine, called me a fat *****, had sex in my room, used me...
    Llamacornisnotonfire Llamacornisnotonfire 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    Tired Of Begging For Friendship

    I am so fed up and tired! I have been friends with Eunice for 5 years and I am finally fed up with her. I am usually the one to be there for her when she is going through a rough row but now I am not doing so well. And is she there for me? The answer is no. We got into a...
    sofedupin sofedupin 26-30, F Nov 10, 2013

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    I have dreams about my best friend who completely hates me, at least I think she does. Last night, I kept waking up in the middle of the night after dreams. I had 5 dreams and each...
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    I had a best friend. We started talkin to two other best friends and became a group of 4. But my best friend started hating one of my other friends and would always leave and get...
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    I lost her... Again. The first time she left was back in October I think because me and her boyfriend had started talking and became like brother and sister. She left and I cried...
    talia13 talia13 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I just lost my best friend,she told me I'm not the same person I was and that is true, I'm really depressed and sad lately. I have a lot of problems and she didn't know about them...
    FUFLOOTA FUFLOOTA 13-15, F Jul 10

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    I met you at a bar in my hometown only six years ago. We barely knew each other but we got along like we'd known each other forever. You chased me around the bar with a pool cue...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    She's the ultimate worst best friend on earth. She doesn't care about me at all, she makes fun of me the whole time. She basically stole my first boyfriend/love. She took my...
    anonymouslymyself anonymouslymyself 16-17, F Jul 8

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    We've been best friends for over four years now. He's gay so we could honestly talk about everything and anything. We could walk through the mall talking about how cute that guy...
    kay5262 kay5262 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    The void I felt as I fell apart was, at least to what I could imagine in my mind, probably equal to what you felt when I'd left you in the hospital. I began to feel very sad. I...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    So me and my best friend made a trip to NYC for fun for a week and we just got back today. While we were there I managed to meet a really cool girl. We hung out multiple times...
    Sevenup1 Sevenup1 22-25, M Jul 11

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    So it was me and Ingrid since 3rd grade ! Then in 4th grade Vincent came he is such a bad boy !! Vincent sat next to me and started to bother me so I told myself "I need to get...
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I used to think that i have a lot of best friends who i can count on. However, i end up having only 1 or no BFF at all... They do not think that i am their best friend. What am I...
    LeakkhenaKL LeakkhenaKL 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    me and my best friend were fighting over a picture she hated she is the one with straight hair in the picture she said she hated it cuz of her hair but before any of this happened...
    megan1247 megan1247 18-21, F Jul 6

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    She didn't like die or anything I just stop being friends with her. Her name is Marci. When we were younger we were best friends and did everything together. But when kids started...
    QuinnStew QuinnStew 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Well they're good friends of mine (I already have a best friend), but they can be so dumb sometimes.. Especially one. They fought and stopped being friends for months just because...
    littlestella littlestella 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I've known my ex for 15 years, her older brother for just as long. He was my best friend, we grew up together, and we were brothers. 8 Years ago, he was killed in Iraq, and over...
    bigbluecolonel bigbluecolonel 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I just told my best friend that I have a crush on a girl over facebook, then had to explain that I'm not gay but bi. She's now totally confused but I did it today cos I won't see...
    straylii straylii 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My best friend is male. He's so weird and hug-able. He's the only person who knows who I really lost my virginity to. I tell others I lost it to a previous boyfriend but I lost...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Okay not all of them. Right now mainly two. I just got engaged and two girls who were two of my best friends (up until a month ago when a silly and little fight put a rift between...
    whoneedssanity whoneedssanity 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    We've been best friends for 8 years now, and we both know we have each other to fall back on no matter what, however Just a few days ago I've learnt that I didn't know something...
    outtamymindz outtamymindz 18-21, F Jun 24

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    I wish I didn't have to deal with such a **** in my life. I love my best friend she is a beautiful, caring, intelligent girl, but her boyfriend is such a **** to her. Everytime I...
    1eyeliner1 1eyeliner1 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    All of my best friends have long straight blonde hair and their super skinny and wear gorgeous clothes I am (I will admit) kinda chubby and my hair is curly, a little frizzy, and a...
    MollyIsFrantastic MollyIsFrantastic 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I bought a mermaid tail (Caribbean Blue) online from finfunmermaid.com, I told my best friend it is real and she hasn't seen it in person yet. We are both love obsessed over...
    SusanKennedyMermaid SusanKennedyMermaid 16-17, F Jul 11

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    I want a guy best friend it's more fun because I like to do what boys do!! I guess you can say I'm a tomboy I mean I don't care if I have a girl best friend but if I had a boy best...
    isabel16 isabel16 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    So I have mixed feelings for my best guy friend. and he likes my best girlfriend. the thing is she knows that i have mixed feelings for him , but he likes her and she likes him...
    GiaZol GiaZol 16-17, F Jul 8

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    I had a best friend two years ago but we had an argument and she moved away... Yeah I do have 'best friendS' but I feel like I need someone who will be my best best friend? We...
    inlovee2 inlovee2 13-15, F Jul 12

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    My best friend and I have been friends for 7+ years. We've been to hell and back, we've been each other support systems through thick and thin I was even there we she had her baby...
    SophieBabe20 SophieBabe20 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I think I've finally found my true love. His name is Paul and we first met in 8th grade which was about 8 years ago. When we first met he was a real jerk, he constantly teased me...
    unexplainedfeelings unexplainedfeelings 18-21, F Jul 1

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    Okay so me and my "best friend" have been friends since we were like 4/5. Up until 9th gradeish, we were INSEPERABLE. I mean we did everything together. Now I'm going to be a...
    tessjohnson23 tessjohnson23 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 12

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    me and this guy were attached at the hip for the past year. like automatic connection. he literally is me in another body, he just gets me and listens to me all the time. he's my...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This year, my best friend stopped talking to me. At first, it started slowly by not replying to a text here or there but now we haven't spoken in months. The real kicker is she...
    Untamablespark Untamablespark 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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