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I Hate My Ex Best Friend

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    I Hate Both Of You Now! - I hope it’s not too long. Here goes. I’m a guy befriend with a female (Amy). Nothing special because I know she got a BF (Bob) and met them for social...
    shyghost7902 shyghost7902 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2012

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    Classic -  my [ex] best friend has a habit of saying what is on her mind no matter the consequences of her words. It never really impacted me until she told me that basically...
    jgurl006 jgurl006 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    My Bestfriend Took My Boyfriend - About a year and a half ago I moved to this town of Marietta, OK and I was never a really social person. I always kept to myself and didn't really...
    TheKris521 TheKris521 16-17, F Nov 8, 2012

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    Okay, so I had this friend, who well obviously I called my best friend, for 3 years. She tried to destroy everything! If I didn't have one of the greatest friends ever to defend...
    RoarImScary RoarImScary 13-15, F Feb 26

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    What Did I Do To You? - Has anyone ever had a best friend that you now hate? Well, I do. So it started back when i was in elementary school in about the forth grade. J and i...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Feb 14, 2012

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    When I was in grade 4, a new girl came to my school. She didn't make any friends; she smelt funny and everyone thought she was weird. At that time, I was the class clown and a...
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Dreams - For the past few days, I have been dreaming about my ex best friend. I dont understand why. She is NOT the last thing on my mind. I have no idea what this means!! First...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Jun 5, 2012

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    Tired Of Begging For Friendship - I am so fed up and tired! I have been friends with Eunice for 5 years and I am finally fed up with her. I am usually the one to be there for her...
    sofedupin sofedupin 26-30, F Nov 10, 2013

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    I Hate Her - I had a best friend a few years ago. And I hate her so much now but I have a reason. She made me hate a friend, spreaders rumors, never picked up my calls, called me...
    Llamacornisnotonfire Llamacornisnotonfire 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2013

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    Main Hell In My Life, Pretty Much. - I need to tell someone this and I guess an online site with strangers and a few friends would be the best time to. So I remember how it all...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick 16-17, F Feb 24, 2013

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    She'S Horrible! - my best friend had been my friend for almost 3 years but as the time passed, things got really complicated and hard for me to handle. we both did not have much in...
    sidslot16 sidslot16 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    My best friend went for a guy I had a thing with
    mickes18 mickes18 16-17, F Dec 1, 2013

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    Okay, 'hate' is pretty strong, but this was the only experience I felt my tale would fall under. I think strongly dislike is better, because although she wasn't a nice person in...
    MMXIV MMXIV 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    My ex best friend lied to me about liking my ex boyfriend. I lost her trust and told her she chose a boy over our friendship. I tried being friends with her again but it just wasnt...
    sugarbursting sugarbursting 13-15, M Feb 21

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    Okay, I told my best friend of 13 years that I have feelings for him, he said he feels the same. He then went on holiday and while he was on holiday he called ME asking me for...
    ClaireD97 ClaireD97 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I wouldn't say I actually hate her. If anything, I'm jealous and hurt. Our parents were friends since before we were born so we grew up together. Inseparable throughout grade...
    Schism7 Schism7 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Hate is a strong word but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    Maybe hate is too much but… I thing she is not my best friend anymore, I don´t know what to do. I met my best friend 4 years ago and we became friends very quickly, we had fun...
    CaptainMer CaptainMer 16-17 Mar 31

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    I won't leave my best friend Kody. Right now, he is in a really dark place. He said a LOT of hurtful and hateful things to me today, and I know he is lashing out, and when he gets...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I hate my 'best friends' they're so ignorant and selfish. They never listen to me, and always push me away when I'm walking with them. They were never there when I'm sad, they...
    gyomii gyomii 16-17, F Mar 29

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    Why haven't I found at least one true friend? I've always been there for you and supported you through everything, but now you just throw it all back in my face as if it didn't...
    RadiateLove RadiateLove 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I feel extremely guilty even writing this, but I can't keep it to myself anymore. My friend-last year definitively a "best" friend and this year one of my roommates- has become...
    messycrazylife messycrazylife 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I lost two of them, actually. They were mean to me and when I was upset they never helped me. I told another friend about this and she went and told my best friends that I hate...
    clairexo clairexo 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I may not have ever been your best friend. I know I was second best a lot, but even so, as much as I hate to it admit- you were mine. I kept convincing myself that we were never...
    wethekings wethekings 16-17, F Mar 17

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    It's funny how most people hear 'friend zone' and think of guys. I've had mostly male friends for my entire life and I've heard them go on and on about how terrible it is. And...
    reconworm reconworm 18-21, F Mar 23

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    My best friend thinks that I've changed and I hate him because we used to hangout all the time. Then high school came and we don't hangout as much. I started basketball, he got a...
    mariahann88 mariahann88 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I may not only love, but be in love with my best friend. I have never been a fan of her boy friend that I unfortunately introduced her to, thinking they would be a quick hook up as...
    EccentricTree EccentricTree 18-21 Mar 25

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    She was my best friend and I felt really close to her but then we started becoming less and less close. I wanted to talk to her about it and ended up telling her I liked her. Now...
    DemonicallyPossessed DemonicallyPossessed 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    so this girl was my best friend, and obviously i trusted her and **** and she knows i have beef with this girl, so one day i told my best friend that I would take her out and pay...
    nogoodtianna nogoodtianna 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    So I have had a best friend name Ricquel since 7th grade we are now 22 and still friends but she betrayed me in a way I thought she would never .i also have a friend/roommate named...
    jezebeljezzy jezebeljezzy 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Ugh! My best friend for the past couple months has been bailing on me everytime we plan to hang! We can plan it weeks ahead but sure enough something will come up. Her parents are...
    AlexanderX AlexanderX 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Lunch. This has to do about lunch. Lately, I've been going in at the beginning of lunch to get some help with French. When I come back to lunch this idiot girl, who never sits at...
    areyoujoking202 areyoujoking202 13-15, F Mar 26

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Like all cliche stories, mine started out great, but soon got flushed down the toilet. She was beautiful. She was caring. She was funny. She was my best friend. I'd liked her...
    SparkOfHope101 SparkOfHope101 16-17, F Mar 18

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    ​know i am very young, but yes I've fallen in love. so it all started in kindergarten. we instantly connected, he was my best friend over everything. we both had a learning...
    seersh98 seersh98 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I believe everything happens for a reason and that you meet everyone that you meet for a reason. Most of my friends have been girls, but I've had one really good guy friend and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I kept this secret from my best friend for a long time and we did not keep secrets from each other. I developed a crush on my best friend's brother when I was 16. We both were shy...
    80buttercup 80buttercup 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Unlike most of the stories here on the same subject, absolutely nothing ever happened between me and my best friend: we never dated—nor did anyone ever even suggest it or say we...
    luehdnoea luehdnoea 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    At school me and my friends have a group, with 5 girls Alex, Adelaide, Brenna, Grace and Me and I am the only one without a best friend. Adelaide has a best-friends called...
    bryannnnaaa bryannnnaaa 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I've known my girl best friend, Francine, for 8 years now. She is very bright, very funny, very nice, and the best friend anyone could ask for. I am the luckiest guy in the world...
    aJason23 aJason23 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Hey everyone.I am 15 years old.Last year I lost my best friend last year.And by lost I mean that she stopped talking to me.We had been best friends since kindergarten and it was...
    inecrazyandhypersensitive inecrazyandhypersensitive 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I came out to my two best friends in the begging of February. Me and my two friends do everything together (well not EVERYthInG) so yeah. But I have fancied one of my two best...
    ClaraIsBi ClaraIsBi 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I literally am the worst best friend. EVER. I have liked my best friends ex even when he wasn't her ex.....like at first I didn't know they were dating but when I found out I...
    TealMarie TealMarie 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    My best friend is AWESOME. (No, it's not myself, he really does exist). :D We've been best friends for a few years, and he's cheered me up when I felt sad. He has been there for...
    Knicksfan20 Knicksfan20 18-21, M Mar 23

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    Here's to the best friend who... Can pep-talk away my tears. Here's to the best friend who... Is there for me when life turns its back. Here's to the best friend who... Assures me...
    Amsch95 Amsch95 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Hi, i'm Sara, i'm 14 years old, and i'd like to have a guy best friend 14-18 years old, i have a lot of female-friends and i don't have a problem on making female-friends but i've...
    SaraKh286 SaraKh286 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I have been grieving over my best friend since we both grew apart. She turned into a mean spirited person and started just being awful to me and my family who had always treated...
    SubmissiveArtist SubmissiveArtist 18-21, F a week ago

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    I met my best guy friend 3 years ago, and I've loved him since the day I met him. It wasn't love at first sight though, it was love at first word. The first time I heard him speak...
    WeepingWillow2014 WeepingWillow2014 13-15, F Mar 16

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    I have the bestest friend in the whole wide world Jake! (for confidentially I used a different name). We've been friends ever since August of 2013 when we first started college our...
    n8tvecuty52 n8tvecuty52 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17