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I Hate My Ex Best Friend

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    What Did I Do To You?

    Has anyone ever had a best friend that you now hate? Well, I do. So it started back when i was in elementary school in about the forth grade. J and i first met and we were best friends. Then this other girl moved in ( im gonna call her B) and and well J and i thought it would...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Feb 14, 2012

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    My ex best friend lied to me about liking my ex

    boyfriend. I lost her trust and told her she chose a boy over our friendship. I tried being friends with her again but it just wasnt natrual. We got into even more fights where she said some hurtful things and i said some stuff too i will admit. She is now dating my ex and she...
    sugarbursting sugarbursting 16-17, M Feb 21

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    It sucks to feel betrayed by your own best

    friend. I should've known that she was just with him to be away from her parents cause she wanted so much to be on her own. She only married him because of that. And while engaged, she would fool around with many different "friends" who happen to be guy friends and one of those...
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    Okay, so I had this friend,

    who well obviously I called my best friend, for 3 years. She tried to destroy everything! If I didn't have one of the greatest friends ever to defend every word she said about me while I was in a psychiatric ward, I don't know what I would have done. I met her at school, and idk...
    marilynandcupcakes marilynandcupcakes 13-15, F Feb 26

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    I Hate Her

    I had a best friend a few years ago. And I hate her so much now but I have a reason. She made me hate a friend, spreaders rumors, never picked up my calls, called me all the time, said all of her things were better than mine, called me a fat *****, had sex in my room, used me...
    Llamacornisnotonfire Llamacornisnotonfire 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    mickes18 mickes18 18-21, F Dec 1, 2013

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    I was depressed, she is supposed to

    now that, even if I don't tell her everything. She was a quiet girl, she did not have any friends at school before, I was the first who said hello to her. I was innocent back then, I thought, I did not want her to feel bitter. My other friends did not like her, they hold their...
    madeirawood madeirawood 18-21, F May 4

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    Dreams

    For the past few days, I have been dreaming about my ex best friend. I dont understand why. She is NOT the last thing on my mind. I have no idea what this means!! First before I tell my dreams, I want to say this. In the 8th grade, her and I got into a huge fight which ended our...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Jun 5, 2012

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    She keeps sending me group messages saying

    that she always get home drunk, sleeping over her guy friends and washing their underwear for them. I don't know if she's a sl*t or what. It's so irritating, it's not like I care but ugh.
    TheKDoomsday TheKDoomsday 16-17, F 2 Responses May 27

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    My Bestfriend Took My Boyfriend

    About a year and a half ago I moved to this town of Marietta, OK and I was never a really social person. I always kept to myself and didn't really talk to anybody. I had met some friends there and they made me start conversations and create more friends; they brought out the new...
    TheKris521 TheKris521 16-17, F Nov 8, 2012

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    I Hate Both Of You Now!

    I hope it’s not too long. Here goes. I’m a guy befriend with a female (Amy). Nothing special because I know she got a BF (Bob) and met them for social activities a number of times after the fact. All is well until another friend (Craig) of mine I introduce to Amy. Three of us...
    shyghost7902 shyghost7902 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2012

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    I had this friend and long story short; she was

    a ***** to me. Following that bad friendship were many other bad friendships. Today I was just feeling really cummy about friends and trust or some sort of **** like that. So I tried to find this "friend" online. I don't really know why. Maybe it was to call her a...
    mountainseal mountainseal 16-17, F Sep 20

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    She'S Horrible!

    my best friend had been my friend for almost 3 years but as the time passed, things got really complicated and hard for me to handle. we both did not have much in common but we were friends anyway. then she started to become very demanding. she hated it if i even talked to...
    sidslot16 sidslot16 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    Classic

     my [ex] best friend has a habit of saying what is on her mind no matter the consequences of her words. It never really impacted me until she told me that basically "our friendship means nothing to me and if you were to just up and leave or whatever i wouldn't think...
    jgurl006 jgurl006 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    Change Doesnt Mean You Have To Like It

    I really hate this girl..lets call her Stephanie. She really ****** me off like almost everyday but she was my 'best friend'(thats what people call us but i never really said we were) Anyway, i'll start the day we first met. It was back in 5th grade and we had become seatmates...
    kakuo1997 kakuo1997 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Main Hell In My Life, Pretty Much.

    I need to tell someone this and I guess an online site with strangers and a few friends would be the best time to. So I remember how it all started; the ******* day my life was destined to change or something I guess because I met Ashley. We met in third grade at age 7 over some...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick 16-17, F Feb 24, 2013

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    This will be somewhat long

    but I really need to express all of the sadness and anger that's consuming me inside out. My ex best friend, who I'll call Emily on this post, had been with me since we were toddlers. We went through primary together and bonded over the years, sharing very special moments I...
    Camille02 Camille02 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    Can't Be the Type of Friend...

    I hate my ex best friend for telling me she couldn't be the type of friend I wanted.( A friend with compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and love?) I have been hospitalized over 10 times in the last 7 years. I am Bi-polar. My ex best friend never once visited me while I had...
    o0cherriepie0o o0cherriepie0o 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 8, 2007

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    She sent my boyfriend nudessss

    and told everyone I tried to kill myself (not true). She destroyed my relationship with boyfriend and family. She slept with 14 guys already and calls me a slutttt even though I'm a virgin.
    f0reverUns0cial f0reverUns0cial 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Can't Be the Type of Friend...

    I hate my ex best friend for telling me she couldn't be the type of friend I wanted.( A friend with compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and love?) I have been hospitalized over 10 times in the last 7 years. I am Bi-polar. My ex best friend never once visited me while I had...
    o0cherriepie0o o0cherriepie0o 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2007

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    Tired Of Begging For Friendship

    I am so fed up and tired! I have been friends with Eunice for 5 years and I am finally fed up with her. I am usually the one to be there for her when she is going through a rough row but now I am not doing so well. And is she there for me? The answer is no. We got into a...
    sofedupin sofedupin 26-30, F Nov 10, 2013

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    I recently met her and I thought we were going to be best friends forever. I was naive and stupid. I was recently getting I've a brief period of sadness because one of my other...
    LittleRose18 LittleRose18 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Thank god they're (hopefully) breaking up tomorrow. They've been dating for over a year, and I had this feeling the first time I met her. Like she wasn't good for him, I knew I...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    First thing, I am a male. So, let's get going... I met this girl in 9th grade and we got along really well from the beginning (I'm pretty sure she liked be back then for a couple...
    ghioagabou ghioagabou 16-17, M Nov 4

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    So, i have this one friend that i love so much he's so adorable ive known him since 2005 and he's my best friend i love him so much and he's everything i'd ever ask for he's the...
    BrokenBrittanyLovesDaniel BrokenBrittanyLovesDaniel 13-15, F Oct 26

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    This is actually kind of a rant. So my best friend of two years is a guy, his name is Seamus (pronounced shay-mus, ik its confusing) but anyways we dated back when we first met and...
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    My best friend actually slept with my husband. I found out last night. The woman was there for my wedding day and everything and now she does this? I feel so betrayed. And to top...
    SilentRider SilentRider 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    I know it is wrong. I don't even love him. It's my best friends dad and I've known them since I was in middle school. It's fantastic sex and a diversion. If my friend , her family...
    riley095 riley095 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 11

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    shes a ***** even though I'm nice to her. I overheard her one time tell my gf that she shouldn't fall for me. just accept my gifts but never fall for me. my gf just politely said...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M Nov 7

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    I have a girl best friend were gunna call her k (she's not the one I'm in love with) we'll we were best friends for like 3 years over all and I knew my guy best friend since 4th...
    thecatso thecatso 13-15, F Nov 13

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    This was early 2012 and I met my lost best friend at a party where we talked about personal things and exchanged things. We became best friends after that. I don't think she...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    i feel worthless around my friends. like i cant take to them about any **** without them reacting in a negative way. im tired of hanging out with people that treat me like im...
    Glitterpie Glitterpie 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    HHHHEEEEELLLLLLPPPPPP!!!!!! Should I keep her or dump her? So it's been months since I talked to her. Long story short, not going to bore you with the details, but she came over...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    LuCiFeRz LuCiFeRz 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    My best friend is actually a guy, girls that I have considered best friends have always stabbed me in the back and now I don't really trust them anymore and I don't let people get...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I used to have a best friend. We met in primary school at the age of 10. There were a few of us in a group but she was always my closest friend. We didn't live that far from each...
    EmmaXP EmmaXP 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 3

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    Ever have that friend who would do anything to protect you from harm or pain. A friend that would do anything to save you. But it just so happens to be one of the opposite gender...
    dreamforever789 dreamforever789 18-21, F Oct 22

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    I suppose it all started the night of hallowe'en when i was walking back from a party, drunk, having already purchsed my kebab, and wanting to devour it in peace. My memories are...
    lologreeno lologreeno 16-17, F Oct 23

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    ...and I don't know what I should do. I know I'm not her *best* friend but I am one of many - she has many she considers true best friends and her BFF is her sister - but in my...
    themissmoxie themissmoxie 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    I visited my bestie, who lives across the country. It wasn't expected at all, as we've been best friends for 5, nearly 6 years. Better yet, I also have a boyfriend. My bestie...
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    I have a bad sense in judgement and I seem to trust the wrong people. Last year I told my old best friend who I liked and she would always flirt with him in front of my face. Then...
    JustHereToShareMyFeelings JustHereToShareMyFeelings 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I know that I am fortunate enough to have this right now in my life. A manager that I used to work with, Maggie, told little Tina and me that her husband is her best friend, and...
    MiZShortiiE MiZShortiiE 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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