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I Hate My Ex Best Friend

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    Change Doesnt Mean You Have To Like It

    I really hate this girl..lets call her Stephanie. She really ****** me off like almost everyday but she was my 'best friend'(thats what people call us but i never really said we were) Anyway, i'll start the day we first met. It was back in 5th grade and we had become seatmates...
    kakuo1997 kakuo1997 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    mickes18 mickes18 18-21, F Dec 1, 2013

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    She keeps sending me group messages saying

    that she always get home drunk, sleeping over her guy friends and washing their underwear for them. I don't know if she's a sl*t or what. It's so irritating, it's not like I care but ugh.
    TheKDoomsday TheKDoomsday 13-15, F 2 Responses May 27

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    She sent my boyfriend nudessss

    and told everyone I tried to kill myself (not true). She destroyed my relationship with boyfriend and family. She slept with 14 guys already and calls me a slutttt even though I'm a virgin.
    f0reverUns0cial f0reverUns0cial 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Classic

     my [ex] best friend has a habit of saying what is on her mind no matter the consequences of her words. It never really impacted me until she told me that basically "our friendship means nothing to me and if you were to just up and leave or whatever i wouldn't think...
    jgurl006 jgurl006 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    Tired Of Begging For Friendship

    I am so fed up and tired! I have been friends with Eunice for 5 years and I am finally fed up with her. I am usually the one to be there for her when she is going through a rough row but now I am not doing so well. And is she there for me? The answer is no. We got into a...
    sofedupin sofedupin 26-30, F Nov 10, 2013

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    Okay, so I had this friend,

    who well obviously I called my best friend, for 3 years. She tried to destroy everything! If I didn't have one of the greatest friends ever to defend every word she said about me while I was in a psychiatric ward, I don't know what I would have done. I met her at school, and idk...
    YesterdayIsOver YesterdayIsOver 13-15, F Feb 26

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    Can't Be the Type of Friend...

    I hate my ex best friend for telling me she couldn't be the type of friend I wanted.( A friend with compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and love?) I have been hospitalized over 10 times in the last 7 years. I am Bi-polar. My ex best friend never once visited me while I had...
    o0cherriepie0o o0cherriepie0o 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2007

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    Dreams

    For the past few days, I have been dreaming about my ex best friend. I dont understand why. She is NOT the last thing on my mind. I have no idea what this means!! First before I tell my dreams, I want to say this. In the 8th grade, her and I got into a huge fight which ended our...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Jun 5, 2012

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    This will be somewhat long

    but I really need to express all of the sadness and anger that's consuming me inside out. My ex best friend, who I'll call Emily on this post, had been with me since we were toddlers. We went through primary together and bonded over the years, sharing very special moments I...
    Camille02 Camille02 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    Main Hell In My Life, Pretty Much.

    I need to tell someone this and I guess an online site with strangers and a few friends would be the best time to. So I remember how it all started; the ******* day my life was destined to change or something I guess because I met Ashley. We met in third grade at age 7 over some...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick 16-17, F Feb 24, 2013

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    Can't Be the Type of Friend...

    I hate my ex best friend for telling me she couldn't be the type of friend I wanted.( A friend with compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and love?) I have been hospitalized over 10 times in the last 7 years. I am Bi-polar. My ex best friend never once visited me while I had...
    o0cherriepie0o o0cherriepie0o 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 8, 2007

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    I was depressed, she is supposed to

    now that, even if I don't tell her everything. She was a quiet girl, she did not have any friends at school before, I was the first who said hello to her. I was innocent back then, I thought, I did not want her to feel bitter. My other friends did not like her, they hold their...
    madeirawood madeirawood 18-21, F May 4

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    My Bestfriend Took My Boyfriend

    About a year and a half ago I moved to this town of Marietta, OK and I was never a really social person. I always kept to myself and didn't really talk to anybody. I had met some friends there and they made me start conversations and create more friends; they brought out the new...
    TheKris521 TheKris521 16-17, F Nov 8, 2012

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    What Did I Do To You?

    Has anyone ever had a best friend that you now hate? Well, I do. So it started back when i was in elementary school in about the forth grade. J and i first met and we were best friends. Then this other girl moved in ( im gonna call her B) and and well J and i thought it would...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Feb 14, 2012

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    When I was in grade 4,

    a new girl came to my school. She didn't make any friends; she smelt funny and everyone thought she was weird. At that time, I was the class clown and a pretty popular kid. I paid no mind to her. At first. Then, the new seating arrangement put her next to me. She started copying...
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    She'S Horrible!

    my best friend had been my friend for almost 3 years but as the time passed, things got really complicated and hard for me to handle. we both did not have much in common but we were friends anyway. then she started to become very demanding. she hated it if i even talked to...
    sidslot16 sidslot16 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    I Hate Her

    I had a best friend a few years ago. And I hate her so much now but I have a reason. She made me hate a friend, spreaders rumors, never picked up my calls, called me all the time, said all of her things were better than mine, called me a fat *****, had sex in my room, used me...
    Llamacornisnotonfire Llamacornisnotonfire 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    My ex best friend lied to me about liking my ex

    boyfriend. I lost her trust and told her she chose a boy over our friendship. I tried being friends with her again but it just wasnt natrual. We got into even more fights where she said some hurtful things and i said some stuff too i will admit. She is now dating my ex and she...
    sugarbursting sugarbursting 13-15, M Feb 21

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    I Hate Both Of You Now!

    I hope it’s not too long. Here goes. I’m a guy befriend with a female (Amy). Nothing special because I know she got a BF (Bob) and met them for social activities a number of times after the fact. All is well until another friend (Craig) of mine I introduce to Amy. Three of us...
    shyghost7902 shyghost7902 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    i really want a best friend who won't just chat once on the internet and never again but someone who i will know and who will know me inside out and stuff like that. ever since i...
    LovelyTammii LovelyTammii 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I absolutely love and adore my husband. He is my best friend and couldn't imagine my life without him. We were both married before and this is a second marriage for both of us. Our...
    redhot1221 redhot1221 36-40, F 9 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I had a "BFF" for 3 years. It all began when my friends constantly fought over stupid things. I became sick and tired of it, so I left the "group". (We are all friends still) I...
    KyokoXD KyokoXD 13-15, F Sep 1

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    There were some people I met in my life that if I knew now, I'd love to be around. I'm a different person. I want to engage. I wish I had maintained relationships with certain...
    shameinnoshame shameinnoshame 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I don't necessarily hate her. I just hate what she's been acting like lately. 1. This is going to sound like a dumb reason to dislike someone, but she copies everything I say. I...
    bridget1234567 bridget1234567 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    We used to be so close. But something is happening to him.. He's been so stressed, always blaming his parents for everything and he's been acting..strange. I just can't figure out...
    DearYou DearYou 22-25, F Aug 20

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    She has been my friend since first grade. We been super close for so many years. I only found out after I had gave up on her and now with my current boyfriend. She told me, I told...
    AirSlice AirSlice 18-21, F Aug 21

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    When I was 8 in grade to I met a girl who was very annoying. Then one day she called me over for a play date (I regret asking her to be best friends) so I asked to be best friends...
    catlover031 catlover031 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    All I want is a true, proper friend. All my life I've had all this mean people around me and being treated like crap by so-called friends. I'm a really friendly, decent person and...
    ElviraGoth ElviraGoth 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    My "best friend" is so much cooler and more amazing than me it kills me, she's two years younger than me and is like a bettie page look-a-like, her life isn't the greatest at the...
    Invisibl3flow3r Invisibl3flow3r 18-21 1 Response Sep 4

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    A few years ago a best friend of mine and me stopped being friends. It wasn't a hateful separation. (We didn't part hating each other.) This is just a best friend I've had for...
    Ebbistarlight Ebbistarlight 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So this all started in 5th, I felt as if it was destiny that brought us together. He first moved to this elementary school n then I also moved to the elementary in like the quarter...
    intellinerdgirl intellinerdgirl 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I met her online. We've been friends for a little over a year now. We've talked about it before and still do a lot. She lives in Canada and I live in the US in the state of...
    kyuubinaruto199 kyuubinaruto199 16-17, M Aug 18

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    I honestly don't understand people. My so called brothers("best friends") treated me like **** my freshman year of college, but I didn't notice until recently. My roommate moved...
    AfroPenguin AfroPenguin 18-21, M Aug 25

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    Me and my best friend have been together since kindergarten. It started when my friends family problems started getting serious. And then she just got mean and seemed frustrated. I...
    ElectricDream ElectricDream 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Definition of a best friend; The person you can't be mad at for even an hour because you have something important to tell them... Well if that important thing you need to tell her...
    vpeigextori vpeigextori 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's been a long time since my best friend and I had ended our friendship. She was the most caring person that I know and the most crazy of all. Everyday we chat, talk to each...
    Guin2ne1 Guin2ne1 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Yes my best friend is a girl and I had feeling for her so much for that :-(
    Hunter283 Hunter283 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    I am in love with my best friend - it all started in junior year when I met my best friend, I met her thanks to her sister that I had met the previous year, my best friend's sister...
    Silverfang40 Silverfang40 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hi, I'm new here, and I'm going to keep my identity secret for now. I feel a little like an outsider, but I think this is a good place to share my story and feelings. So...
    RidiculousFeelings RidiculousFeelings 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Had a great day with my best friend yesterday ^_^ He's the opposite gender to me. He texted me asking if I wanted to come with him for his passport interview. After his interview...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Ok so I'm a girl and I think im in love with my girl best friend. It scares me a lot because I didn't think I could love a person so much. Our friendship started a few years ago...
    teddy237 teddy237 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    i just started high school. my best friend yesenia have been best friends since 7th grade. we were both new so we didn't know anybody and automatically became best friends. the...
    larissa14 larissa14 13-15, F Aug 30

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    Had you ever have an unexpected friendship with someone? You weren't really on good or bad terms in the beginning, you two were just like wind gushing whenever you walk past each...
    switch357 switch357 18-21, F Aug 31

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    In the past I used to have a really good set of people/social skills so much so that I was popular in primary school. I had a best friend then after a year at the same school they...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    This happened just this past weekend and I am still going thought a bit of shock. I've not really talked to them any. The must know something is up, but probably not sure what that...
    MelissaSmith24740 MelissaSmith24740 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I first met my best friend/soul sis in first grade. We studied together in nursery and KG but I would usually stay at home so I didn't really have friends. I have a lot of cousins...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    When u find a best friend, enjoy the friendship, don't take each others for granted and always be good to each others. I have no best mate, a male or a female. I'm 43. I know I...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    We met last year during my sophomore year. He was in my art class and we became best friends really fast. I told him things I hadn't shared with anyone. I trust him completely. He...
    kellss kellss 16-17, F Aug 18

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