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I Hate My Ex Boyfriend

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    My ex won't leave me alone

    and I am stuck. I hate him and he still wants to talk to me.. I just.. I can't.
    savannah764253 savannah764253 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    He dumped me while I was in the hospital with

    something that kills many adults and could have killed me. He was a douche and he works purple acid washed skinnies. He wasn't an ex he was a why
    LoganAdele LoganAdele 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    My last one. He is a pain in the butt.

    We're talking all the time! It's so annoying, and he won't leave me alone. Get a life! We are friends, but he doesn't see it at all. He's been doing this for awhile now. Maybe making friends with your exes isn't good, after all... 😑
    MajesticDreams MajesticDreams 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Ugh my ex boyf. Who is married

    and has a pregnant wife Still contacts me.. And it always seems so safe bc he lives in Texas and I live in NY.. But last weekend he was up here and he asked to see me. I agreed. I had seen him once before and nothing happened so I figured nothing would happen.. And I mean...
    Wallflower921 Wallflower921 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    It's okay to insult me

    and my lifestyle and when I tell you to stop or that you're being a jackhole I can't take a joke, but if I turn around and do the same thing to your sensitive butt you wanna cry, whine, and demand an apology that you never really get because I broke up with you so I would have...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Jul 15

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    He abused me mentally

    and physically and I have him two chances . The second time I thought he changed cus he lost me once , but he proved that wrong . I am so upset . Why am I not good enough to change for . I hate him . He convinced me to give him a second chance just to hurt me again.
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    This Is Four Years Long Overdue. But Finally:

    Do you want to know how much I hate you? I ******* hate you from the deepest roots of my heart. I hate you more than I've ever hated anyone or anything. You are the most miserable human being I've ever met in my entire existence. You ******* corrupted me until no end. You couldn...
    Medusa1 Medusa1 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    The Egoistic Ex Boyfriend.

    it's been ten months since i dumped his a s s. why? he cheated on me twice, with a girl that was supposedly my friend. it was my mistake for letting it go the first time. ANYWAYS, all of a sudden he got a hold of my home phone; and has been pranking me for the past two weeks. my...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    What Was I Thinking?! Oh Well...Life - Here I Come!!! =P

    I went through a 'quick split' just recently. He was really upset that I would want to end things, but at the rate that our relationship was going I figured that it would be for the greater good. Sure, we had a flaws. To me there is no such thing as 'the perfect' relationship...
    LearningToFlyAgain LearningToFlyAgain 36-40, F 10 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    The Horrible Exes!

    Of all the boyfriends i had, 2 of them really sucks...and i hate them to the bone. both of them took advantage of me...and abused me. I would not explain the horrible details but in general, the one ex, made me his punching bag to fill his ego up. he psychologically tortured me...
    Tinkershell Tinkershell 31-35, F 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    Sometimes I Do.....

    ....and sometimes I don't. I thought we had a great thing at one time. The relationship I had always wanted, but things began to get sticky quite early on. He had a wife. (They were separated.) She didn't like me, and didn't want their kids around me. It was constant problems. We...
    LadyRant LadyRant 21-25, F 2 Responses May 22, 2007

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    Damn Boyfriend!

    I hate him because he didn't trust me and left me without explanation. The fact that we experienced different problems and i really thought that he will never give up and leave me. I did everything just to make up with him but he never talk to me. For how many years, I've been...
    Kyouko05 Kyouko05 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    like seriously why do you have to be like this?

    He texts me like this all the time
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    So I dated him for 3 months I only dated him

    cause I had just gotten out of a long relationship and the guy I broke up with didn't want anything to do with me didn't even talk to me unless it was to tell me to date someone else cause he though I should be with someone else better someone who would not hurt me like him so I...
    kaylaDem kaylaDem 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    My ex boyfriend and I broke up two years ago,

    but he still tries to see me, texts me, and stalks me on my social media pages. We dated for four years, and during that time he gave me a Nintendo Wii. He just texted me asking for it back, after 4 years. Wtf? I know it's just an attempt to see me. On top of that, right after...
    blazeee blazeee 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    He's trying to ruin my life

    for some reason :/ we were getting along great until he asked me if he can take our 3 month old on his family vacation when I get back to America since I'm in London for the summer and I told him no because I mean he's a baby and I don't feel okay leaving a baby with him for one...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F Jul 8

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    I Wish He Would Just Leave Me Alone

    A few nights ago, my ex boyfriend emailed me a few times, and kept messaging me on facebook. He kept saying he misses me and wants me back, I just ignored him. The last message he sent me on facebook was monday morning, and yesterday morning I finally told him to leave me alone...
    melissaxo melissaxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    Why We Split Up

    It's not all his fault at all, I didn't even tell him that I was bisexual at all, but if he had stay calm and we could have had a conversation then a big argument like we did, I am not even in a relationship with a woman at all, but how this all got started is, I was texting my...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 18, 2012

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    We dated for years. I thought he was everything

    I wanted and more. I experienced everything with him. And it was great. Then when a year hit, stuff started to go down hill, he started getting violent, and didn't care if he hurt me. I told him I thought I might be pregnant, you know what he did? He threw me down a flight of...
    Kaytee120 Kaytee120 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My ex keeps texting me.

    Called me 50 times today. I've tried to get a restraining order, but they won't give me one because he hasn't been physical more than once that I reported. He ruined my relationship with my current boyfriend. I don't even know if we're still together. He won't talk to me. My ex...
    YouShouldHaveKilledMe YouShouldHaveKilledMe 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I was angry at him Because he was on badoo

    saying that he was on a open relationship We had an ugly fight He started ignoring my texts but I still texted him He left me saying I was clingy I insulted him and all that Begged him... I regret doing that now I wish I just had pretended that I don't care So we could still be...
    lolacocacola lolacocacola 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I have a couple of guys

    who i have actually dated. The last LAST guy i dated actually video taped me while we were having sex then sent it to all of his friends. However i got my revenge when i convinced one of his so called "friends" to somehow record him doing something, and he got him in the shower...
    JesstheLezzie JesstheLezzie 18-21, F Jul 31

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    Button Pusher.

    Why is that ex boyfriends always try to push your buttons? Do they think its funny? I have an exboyfriend who always laughs at me, and thinks its funnyto call me on restricted numbers or to just call me and ask me stupid questions like "have i ever done it in the pooper?" Who...
    lamourestlavoie lamourestlavoie 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    Wow stop sending me screenshots of your convos

    with my ex. **** you. What kind of friend are you? This isnt helping me get over him. Dont talk to him at all!! 😡😤
    angelbaby8 angelbaby8 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    He is going psycho. He's been making fake

    accounts and stalking me on social media. Has been chatting me using his fake accounts asking for questions like how many guys have you slept with? Ever tried cheating? Asking bout ex (himself) what happened? If i had my short comings and ****.
    PrayforParis PrayforParis 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Texting me with nonsense .

    _. Thank you apple for block button
    muffinpowers muffinpowers 22-25, F 5 Responses May 21

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    We had been together 2 years ago.

    We loved each other... We shared a common experience, we supported each other and one day, it was 5 pm, after making love with him. I received a message from my best friend who was telling me that Val is cheating on me. I was so nervous that I wanted to kill myself.
    Saraphina21 Saraphina21 18-21, F Jul 13

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    Why do men feel the need to have sex with

    anyone they can get their hands on? How can you really tell someone that you love them then go and betray their trust? You have made me lose all trust in men. You have made me lose all trust and all hope in humans...because people hurt people. I feel so nauseous. I can't do this...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Over Before It Even Began

    This relationship that I'm about to write about has pretty much destroyed me.  It has magnified the depression that I already had before I met this person.  I feel as though I am carrying around this weight.  I can't get out from under this cloud of sadness and miserable...
    NowImNothing NowImNothing 26-30 2 Responses May 25, 2011

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    His words where ' I only went out with you

    because I was dared and because I felt sorry for so leave alone you fate ugly *****' he's now gay and bullies me everytime I see him
    Daisyellenrose Daisyellenrose 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I Hate Him..nd I Dont...

    its not that i hate him.. its more that i hate the way he is acting.. he keeps trying to get back with me and its annoying me because i rather be single and apart from HIM in general.. its like..i Dont Love Him at all.. i Love him as a Friend.. he doesnt understand...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22, 2007

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    I have a couple of guys

    who i have actually dated. The last LAST guy i dated actually video taped me while we were having sex then sent it to all of his friends. However i got my revenge when i convinced one of his so called "friends" to somehow record him doing something, and he got him in the shower...
    JessietheLezzie JessietheLezzie 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Seriously he is such a jerk

    and I am pissed just hearing about him. He broke up with me 'because his dad did not want him to date.' But I could tell he was lying. I said I need a few days and then when I go and try to contact him he is totally avoiding me and will read my texts and see my snapchats . And...
    abrokendreamer abrokendreamer 13-15, F Jul 30

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    He's a sociopath I'm sure.

    He lie with out even flinching, about stuff that doesn't even matter. And to top it off he broke up with me because he says he was gay, then a year later he's dating girls again because he "realized" he's bi. When all the while he was bi the whole time, but it just made it...
    PurpleHart PurpleHart 16-17, F Jul 28

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    He Broke My Heart and Left Me With Nothing But Questions

    I never ever dreamed I'd feel such hatred towards him. Because just a few months ago we were so in love. The worst part about my story is that there was no dramatic event that lead to our breakup. I wish there was, it would've made it so much easier to focus on something bad when...
    joloholo joloholo 31-35 50 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    My ex boyfriend and ex bestfriend together again

    after him and I dated for 11/2 years and she wants to be friends with me again? Hmmm?
    kenner17 kenner17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Dear X

    Thinking about how much I hate you is distracting. I hate you more than I can say.We haven't contacted each other in 2 months.Thoughts of you haunt me. How much you hurt me. How much I hate you. I would hurt you if I knew how. I would destroy myself just to hurt you. Because...
    Threetimesthree Threetimesthree 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2011

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    He wasnt really my boyf we just had some stuff

    I dint really like him because he had problems with his attitude He is such a jerk he is a varsity he always boast one time we went to a moviehouse (room for 2) nothing much happened just making out for 2 full movies I read his phone and i knew he had a girlfriend but he...
    Regkid Regkid 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I don't really hate him,

    I just want to burn his apartment down and run him over with a semi-truck. -_-
    Vengeancex Vengeancex 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I want to let you go,

    and after this I officially will. Warning, this is very provocative language and laced with hatred. Wasted 3 years on you. So here it goes: -I hope your tires pop on your way back to college. -I hope your new girlfriend cheats on you with a horrible point guard. -I hope she...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    Be Yourself.

    I cannot understand men. Why do they always assume that we, women, are always up to something. Is it our fault that we have guy friends? Is it our fault that a guy acts too friendly towards us? Why are they so jealous? I just don't understand. I thought I was just being myself...
    mikanippon mikanippon 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Optimism Killer

    For your 22 birthday, I wrote you a two page letter reminding you of all the lovely things you had done for me. In this letter, I thanked you for not only being the best boyfriend, but also my best friend. Well, thank you again for slapping me in the face with your ****** up...
    nstoont nstoont 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2013

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    I Wasted A Year On You! What I Hate About You!

    I hate that I wasted so much of time on you, I hate that I let you be a big part of my life, I hate that I gave so much in return for so little, I hate that you never told me you loved me, but you acted like you did, I hate the person I became while I was with you, I hate your...
    AngryinRGC AngryinRGC 26-30 6 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    What The Hell Did I See In You?

    When I met my ex boyfriend, it was basically love at first sight.. for me at least. I look back and I'm pretty sure he just saw a meal ticket and a trophy girlfriend. When we started dating he had just quit his job, and was getting kicked out of his house. Why, did I not then...
    gutterglitter gutterglitter 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 16, 2010

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    Even though hate is a strong word what he did

    was unforgettable and unforgivable. Why did he cheat on me? Why did he leave me for my best friend? Wtf did I do ? And now that I need somebody to talk to all my "friends" want to congratulate the happy couple. And now that I don't want to be apart of anyone's life their mad...
    2tall4heels 2tall4heels 16-17, F Jul 1

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    Now I'm The One Who's Laughing!

    Hey I think I'll start off by saying hate is a strong word,  my ex did give me a wonderful son afterall but I do dislike him strongly for the things he did to me and mostly for the way he made me feel   He made me feel worthless He made fun of me when I cried...
    Wonderfulinsanity Wonderfulinsanity 26-30, F 15 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    Well He Did It....

    He married the next girl that came along. I spent 10 long agonizing years trying to be perfect for him. And all I got was abuse. Funny it didn't hurt as much as when I found out they were engaged.And don't get me wrong, I've moved on and married myself.I guess I'm just not...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    I want my ex to disappear.

    I don't want to hear about him. I don't want to see him. I wish it's like he doesn't exist. Unfortunately, we have mutual friends. I hate him and wish he is forever gone from my life! He cheated and used and abused me. He contacted me a month after I left and I ignored it. Just...
    kendracarey321 kendracarey321 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    He was so rude. We were together

    when we were both seniors in high school and went to different schools. None of my friends liked him though. We got together at the beginning of the year and after a month, he broke up with me simply because he was "bored" and made excuses for breaking up with me like "you...
    nemophilist8 nemophilist8 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Torn Between Two People

    My ex did one of the most horrible things that a person could ever do to their partner. I'm keeping his part brief because that's not why I'm here. He is not why I'm telling my story. This year, I found out that my ex boyfriend - my boyfriend at the time - had been cheating on...
    ZappedToTheUnicorn ZappedToTheUnicorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Wasted Four Years Of My Life With A Cheater

    I hate you so much. I can't even put into words how much hate I have for you. I hate your mother. I hate your family. I hate everything about you. You are scum. Your are a coward. When things get serious you run. You will never find a girl like me. I hate you for cheating on me...
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    My ex has had a really hard time moving on.

    From what I can tell through his blinds, he is currently watching tv (that's something we always did together)
    PinkP0werRanger PinkP0werRanger 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Crazy M0therfuck3r!!!

    I fvcking hate the manwh0re I wasted more than 4 years of my life on. I wish I had a time machine so I could take back all the years of my life he stole. I am so glad I DUMPED HIS A$$!!!! Now that we're done its all so clear to me! The little slvt only used me to make everyone...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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