I Hate My Ex Boyfriend

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    I am in a very kind and loving relationship

    right now. This guy is the best thing. We have been together for a year now and it's great. We got together a little over a year after the breakup with my ex. Its been 2 years now and I am so angry. So many reasons so I will try to be brief. My ex was a chaser. He asked...
    Angrycgk Angrycgk
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 10

    This is still an issue

    that gets to me, even if its almost been a year of not dating him. It ****** me off that I spent 2 years with his dumbass. I feel like I wasted a lot of time dating him. He completely changed me, gave me mental issues. It sounds terrible, but I want him to suffer for the things...
    ghostofthesun ghostofthesun
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 17

    We dated for years. I thought he was everything

    I wanted and more. I experienced everything with him. And it was great. Then when a year hit, stuff started to go down hill, he started getting violent, and didn't care if he hurt me. I told him I thought I might be pregnant, you know what he did? He threw me down a flight of...
    Kaytee120 Kaytee120
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2014

    He was verbally abusive towards me,

    every chance he got he would remind me of my flaws, sometimes I still could hear the hateful things he would say to me, we would get into these explosive arguments a lot, we would yell and scream at each other until my voice was gone and we both were in tears and then we would...
    cookieporn cookieporn
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    He put me through hell

    and dragged me with him for 7 months .I met him when I wasn't all there at the time and that's when my pstd first started from something else before that happend to me.I was lonely and wanted someone. It's been a year since we broke up,I changed my phone number and moved.He...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2015

    I broke up with him last week,

    and he tried to message me yesterday saying were through and I was like dude.. I just dumped you yesterday.. GET A LIFE! And now hes showing everyone the message I sent him back and i'm like yeah, goes to show how very "mature" you are.
    underwaterunicorn underwaterunicorn
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 9

    Hate is such a strong word,

    so I'm sorry if I have to post this here but I despise my ex for hurting me. It's just that I'm really upset and can't think clearly, maybe that's why all I feel is the hate now.. even if I don't want to. I'm not the kind of person who hates on people, let alone someone whom I...
    xCallisto xCallisto
    18-21, F
    Mar 22

    Why can't I get him out of my head?

    Why can't I get the memories of us out of my head? It's destroying me, one minute I feel fine the next im falling apart I wished he would just stop haunting me!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 18

    Torn Between Two People

    My ex did one of the most horrible things that a person could ever do to their partner. I'm keeping his part brief because that's not why I'm here. He is not why I'm telling my story. This year, I found out that my ex boyfriend - my boyfriend at the time - had been cheating on...
    ZappedToTheUnicorn ZappedToTheUnicorn
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 27, 2012

    Crazy M0therfuck3r!!!

    I fvcking hate the manwh0re I wasted more than 4 years of my life on. I wish I had a time machine so I could take back all the years of my life he stole. I am so glad I DUMPED HIS A$$!!!! Now that we're done its all so clear to me! The little slvt only used me to make everyone...
    righteouschica righteouschica
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Dec 14, 2012

    I Wish He Would Just Leave Me Alone

    A few nights ago, my ex boyfriend emailed me a few times, and kept messaging me on facebook. He kept saying he misses me and wants me back, I just ignored him. The last message he sent me on facebook was monday morning, and yesterday morning I finally told him to leave me alone...
    melissaxo melissaxo
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2013

    I tried so hard to make the relationship work,

    but by the time you realized it could only work with mutual effort, I was too exhausted to even consider you as my friend. I felt so bad for not being able to return the "love" when you finally started to act your part, and thus I broke up with you, thinking that you deserved...
    Letmebee Letmebee
    22-25, F
    Apr 16

    I don't hate him, I hate how he treated me.

    It's easier to see how badly someone treated you in retrospect. I'm very happy that the relationship is over. I just wish he didn't hurt me, because I still feel like I'm dealing with the demons he embedded into my mind.
    oddpodd oddpodd
    22-25, F
    Feb 7

    He Absolutely Disgusts Me

    I have literally never felt so disgusted by someone as much as him.My heart... my poor heart had to deal with him for 4 years. I said I was sorry and I meant it. He'd always make it seem like it was my fault if something went wrong.ย This relationship was nothing sure of abuse...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2012

    Now I'm The One Who's Laughing!

    Hey I think I'll start off by saying hate is a strong word,  my ex did give me a wonderful son afterall but I do dislike him strongly for the things he did to me and mostly for the way he made me feel   He made me feel worthless He made fun of me when I cried...
    Wonderfulinsanity Wonderfulinsanity
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Apr 3, 2010

    I met my ex in high school we dated three years

    he came back in my early 20s together three years in those years I got addicted to drugs with him he left me again with nothing and was hooked up in three days while I sat in jail he came back ten years later took my money by lying to me and I found him with a 40 year old women...
    adain28 adain28
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 17, 2015

    Wasted Four Years Of My Life With A Cheater

    I hate you so much. I can't even put into words how much hate I have for you. I hate your mother. I hate your family. I hate everything about you. You are scum. Your are a coward. When things get serious you run. You will never find a girl like me. I hate you for cheating on me...
    9 Responses Jan 30, 2013

    I met my ex when I was 16 at first things were

    good but it wasn't long before he started looking at other woman. He would tell me going to sex clubs and swinging would fix our relationship problems but really that just meant I wasn't enough for him. By the time I was 24 we had 3 children he would disappear for months at a...
    sallyanne09 sallyanne09
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 28

    Ugh I hate him so much

    and I hate my sister too they both are dating now and he sleeps with my sister thats so wrong u don't do that to ur sister and I just heard my ex say that ur sister stepped on my back and she was heavier then u so basically my ex said that I'm fat this is why I hate exes and he...
    bichick19 bichick19
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    Damn Boyfriend!

    I hate him because he didn't trust me and left me without explanation. The fact that we experienced different problems and i really thought that he will never give up and leave me. I did everything just to make up with him but he never talk to me. For how many years, I've been...
    Kyouko05 Kyouko05
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Nov 18, 2013

    I want to let you go,

    and after this I officially will. Warning, this is very provocative language and laced with hatred. Wasted 3 years on you. So here it goes: -I hope your tires pop on your way back to college. -I hope your new girlfriend cheats on you with a horrible point guard. -I hope she...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 3, 2014

    I would never take him back

    for being a ******* jerk.
    shykitty94 shykitty94
    22-25, F
    Feb 18

    Hello monster, my old boyfriend I'm here to

    stand up to you once again Our memories haunt me Memories left like seeds for trauma Planted deep in my mind, without a warning Your abuse still remains Within the sounds of crying In restless times I walk alone Narrow roads lead me to a broken home Where a lamp flicker in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Mar 18

    I found his old hoodie

    and donated it. Might as well have something good come from that relationship *hairflip*
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 6, 2015

    I wish he'd stop trying to get in fights with me

    when I'm not the person who did anything. He making assumptions Not me! ******* hate the bastard. Trying to make useless fights. When i didn't even do anything to him! I want him out of life forever! Im blocking and unfriending him on ever account i have and I'm blocking him on...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 5, 2015

    I Wasted A Year On You! What I Hate About You!

    I hate that I wasted so much of time on you, I hate that I let you be a big part of my life, I hate that I gave so much in return for so little, I hate that you never told me you loved me, but you acted like you did, I hate the person I became while I was with you, I hate your...
    AngryinRGC AngryinRGC
    26-30
    7 Responses Sep 8, 2012

    WHY DO PEOPLE ALWAYS GOTTA BRING UP THAT ONE EX

    YOU HATE SO MUCH DON'T BRING HIS *** UP **** HIM IN THE *** WITH A SWORD WITH NO LUBE
    Chelle14 Chelle14
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 7

    So we were on and off

    for like a year. He didn't want to date at first so we were just a fwb kind of thing. But then I got feelings for him (because even in his egotistical, selfish, snooty, bratty *** way, he was sometimes cute, funny, and fun to be around). It was drama for a year, then I dropped...
    KimmyWhite920 KimmyWhite920
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2015

    I've found new light.

    His best friend and I had a little chat about my ex's mental health because he's been having severe issues (and been scaring me because of his issues). We both had a heart-to-heart conversation with him about his problems and he broke down in tears. I felt so bad for him. I paid...
    ghostofthesun ghostofthesun
    22-25, F
    Mar 24

    We didn't last long because he was arrogant.

    He showed me off like a trophy and at first it was flattering, but then he started to get cocky with it. When I said I was leaving him, he threatened me, saying he secretly videotaped our intimate moments and was going to post it on a **** site. At the time I was in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 17

    I don't get why b*tches freak out about other

    b*tches hooking up with their exes like you can have mine I don't want that sh*t.
    Missmini5 Missmini5
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 5, 2015

    He Broke My Heart and Left Me With Nothing But Questions

    I never ever dreamed I'd feel such hatred towards him. Because just a few months ago we were so in love. The worst part about my story is that there was no dramatic event that lead to our breakup. I wish there was, it would've made it so much easier to focus on something bad when...
    joloholo joloholo
    31-35
    61 Responses Jul 19, 2009

    Today my professor told me every cell in our

    entire body is destroyed and replaced every seven years How comforting it is to know one day i will have a body you will have never touched **** u my ex Sorry
    imane15 imane15
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2015

    Optimism Killer

    For your 22 birthday, I wrote you a two page letter reminding you of all the lovely things you had done for me. In this letter, I thanked you for not only being the best boyfriend, but also my best friend. Well, thank you again for slapping me in the face with your ****** up...
    nstoont nstoont
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2013

    I Hate His Guts

    i wrote something in this before..but ignore it... ...Well i was on my myspace yesterday morning i was about to go to sleep...well before i left i made this Graphic Quote for this site glitter-graphics..well anyways i posted it on my myspace bulletin and This MORON Came writing...
    SourLove SourLove
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 28, 2007

    Why do men feel the need to have sex with

    anyone they can get their hands on? How can you really tell someone that you love them then go and betray their trust? You have made me lose all trust in men. You have made me lose all trust and all hope in humans...because people hurt people. I feel so nauseous. I can't do this...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2014

    I miss him more than anything,

    but he's a selfish egotistical ****. Emotionally and physically abusive , and never appreciative
    leaom22 leaom22
    22-25, F
    Sep 3, 2014

    Love him but I hate him.

    You guys feel me? He didn't cheat or anything but he's a real asshat sometimes.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 3, 2015

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    tammyccaa tammyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 17, 2015

    Sometimes I Do.....

    ....and sometimes I don't. I thought we had a great thing at one time. The relationship I had always wanted, but things began to get sticky quite early on. He had a wife. (They were separated.) She didn't like me, and didn't want their kids around me. It was constant problems. We...
    LadyRant LadyRant
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 22, 2007

    I'm looking for someone to be with my friend.

    He's the nicest guy I've ever met. He's smart, funny, and mature for his age. He is 18 years old, and readily available to anyone who is interested in being his one true girlfriend. The only reason I don't date him myself is because I only view him as a friend. Also, I am...
    tammyjones6 tammyjones6
    18-21, F
    Dec 17, 2015

    that pathetic little guy he's a crybaby.

    Cry baby softy probably is probably gone that soft little guy
    ErbiumbInTheEr ErbiumbInTheEr
    16-17, F
    Feb 23

    Ok so I wasn't too communicative,

    we spoke in bed! Some guys don't appreciate a girl with a little baggage not talking too much, but enjoying the sex. I think it was awful to go off with my friend instead!
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 3

    The Egoistic Ex Boyfriend.

    it's been ten months since i dumped his a s s. why? he cheated on me twice, with a girl that was supposedly my friend. it was my mistake for letting it go the first time. ANYWAYS, all of a sudden he got a hold of my home phone; and has been pranking me for the past two weeks. my...
    nonnibe nonnibe
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Nov 3, 2012

    Ahhh I'm so horny and I don't have a boyfriend

    at the moment what to do?๐Ÿ˜
    hornymegan69 hornymegan69
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    My ex. Everyone I know hates their ex.

    Me. I actually hate my ex. Certain childhood memories I can't remember. I mean I remember but I can't bother to think about them. No emotions tied to them. My ex and I met September. Late September. We spent 3months getting to know each other. At first I didn't like him. But...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Feb 14

    i hats my boyfriend for leaving me behind

    after all the things that we've done and shared together for almost 2 years. He was my first boyfriend-first in everything.
    PamBianca PamBianca
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2014

    My ex boyfriend told me to "go sit on a knife

    you slag". I was with him for 2 weeks and he ended it because he said he wasn't up for commitment. I've only had 3 relationships in my whole life and only two have I had intercourse with (I'm such a slag aren't I?๐Ÿ˜‚) and as for the knife part, I'd rather sit on a knife any...
    TinkerbellTia TinkerbellTia
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    If I catch Ebola, I'm going to my exes house.

    He said I never gave him **** well here you go *****.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2014

    Be Yourself.

    I cannot understand men. Why do they always assume that we, women, are always up to something. Is it our fault that we have guy friends? Is it our fault that a guy acts too friendly towards us? Why are they so jealous? I just don't understand. I thought I was just being myself...
    mikanippon mikanippon
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 25, 2012

    Dear X

    Thinking about how much I hate you is distracting. I hate you more than I can say.We haven't contacted each other in 2 months.Thoughts of you haunt me. How much you hurt me. How much I hate you. I would hurt you if I knew how. I would destroy myself just to hurt you. Because...
    Threetimesthree Threetimesthree
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2011

    Texting me with nonsense .

    _. Thank you apple for block button
    muffinpowers muffinpowers
    26-30, F
    5 Responses May 21, 2014

    I'm nearly as thin as the women in his prn

    collection, can't wait see his face!
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 18

    Today was the first time I had seen my ex

    since like a month ago. It was a weird feeling because I miss his voice and his weird jocks and what not but I also hate the everything else about him from his cocky little attitude to his stupid sisters. So it was bunch of weird feelings at the same time. He was my first...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 13

    Just found he's gone on holiday to Amsterdam.

    I still hate the idea of him looking at other women and getting turned on by them.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86
    26-30, F
    Mar 29

    Just sharing an experience I had in college.

    I wasn't sure which category my ex tomboy girlfriend would fit under cause she always hated when I called her my "girlfriend". Anyway, I was bi-curious and got into a relationship with this tough butch lesbian in my college years. She was very strict. I understand when she'd...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 11

    Got a message from him earlier,

    through another fake facebook account he made just to talk to me, which happens to be the 5th account of his I've blocked in 5 months. He's so ******* pushy and obsessive, it really gets to a point where it's scary.
    ghostofthesun ghostofthesun
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 11
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