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I Hate My Ex Boyfriend

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    I have a ex even after five years of off

    and on again and two years of stay the hell away from me . Still calls me and want to see me . Won't come to grips and move on with his life. Yes I was a good women somewhat cooking, make love whenever . Which he will never find and it . I will not take him back this is his...
    nana70 nana70 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    My ex boyfriend: " hey,

    u know that band? You like Imagine Dragons?" Me: " yeah... Why?" My ex boyfriend: " well just Imagine me Dragon my balls across your face" Wow... That's the last time I'm ever listening to you... Or Imagine Dragons
    Hailey229 Hailey229 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    queen100 queen100 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    I really HATE how you make me feel weak every

    time, how you control me, how you make me feel stupid of myself.. Aaah!! >.< I wonder if you ever really loved me the way I did :(
    AmyL0ve AmyL0ve 18-21, F Feb 6

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    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    queen100 queen100 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    I hate him he honestly brings out the worst in

    me . He makes me so angry I've done everything to try to make us work but he keeps messing it up . He doesn't realize how much I love him I loved him more than myself .. We broke up a week ago because I'm tired if him cheating and he claimed that he got another girl pregnant...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I was with my sisters kids dad

    for over 8 years and hes still is around me everyday, I don't understand myself why I need to be around him or why he wants to be around me we still do everything we did the same as before but he has been with 2 other girls at different times for a year but still comes back to...
    27dallas 27dallas 36-40, F Jan 22

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    This Is Four Years Long Overdue. But Finally:

    Do you want to know how much I hate you? I ******* hate you from the deepest roots of my heart. I hate you more than I've ever hated anyone or anything. You are the most miserable human being I've ever met in my entire existence. You ******* corrupted me until no end. You couldn...
    Medusa1 Medusa1 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    I Hate Him..nd I Dont...

    its not that i hate him.. its more that i hate the way he is acting.. he keeps trying to get back with me and its annoying me because i rather be single and apart from HIM in general.. its like..i Dont Love Him at all.. i Love him as a Friend.. he doesnt understand...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22, 2007

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    I don't really hate him.

    I kind don't care what's he doing right now. If he's already dating someone else or cheated on me. I really didn't care. But now after all this time I get these sudden urges to talk to him. Like... I wanna be friends. Just friends. Just talk to him. I'm someone who forgives...
    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    What The Hell Did I See In You?

    When I met my ex boyfriend, it was basically love at first sight.. for me at least. I look back and I'm pretty sure he just saw a meal ticket and a trophy girlfriend. When we started dating he had just quit his job, and was getting kicked out of his house. Why, did I not then...
    gutterglitter gutterglitter 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 16, 2010

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    I want to let you go,

    and after this I officially will. Warning, this is very provocative language and laced with hatred. Wasted 3 years on you. So here it goes: -I hope your tires pop on your way back to college. -I hope your new girlfriend cheats on you with a horrible point guard. -I hope she...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I Hate His Guts

    i wrote something in this before..but ignore it... ...Well i was on my myspace yesterday morning i was about to go to sleep...well before i left i made this Graphic Quote for this site glitter-graphics..well anyways i posted it on my myspace bulletin and This MORON Came writing...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F 2 Responses May 28, 2007

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    He was like all of the stories already

    mentioned. The pain of his manner of treating me made me want to kill myself. Only my cat stopped me. And because she stopped me, I decided to get revenge. Now, before all the Christians and Buddhists on here wave their fingers at me disapprovingly, please remember that not all...
    borderlinebastardbuster borderlinebastardbuster 36-40 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I found out that my ex was engaged to be

    married to the woman he's with today. When we were intimate he told me he was married but divorced when he's child was 18 months old. He told me he was single, there was no mention of the other woman he was seeing at the time. He then told me was going back to his 'Ex wife' for...
    Kittyissad Kittyissad 41-45 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I lost my virginity too him,

    he found out I cut myself & sent me a five page text telling me how much of a freak I was, but of course I loved him and stayed with him. Eventually he broke up with me , because he didn't want a girlfriend. Well now he wants me back, and personally I think it's funny.
    huntinbaby huntinbaby 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    The Egoistic Ex Boyfriend.

    it's been ten months since i dumped his a s s. why? he cheated on me twice, with a girl that was supposedly my friend. it was my mistake for letting it go the first time. ANYWAYS, all of a sudden he got a hold of my home phone; and has been pranking me for the past two weeks. my...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    He is posting check ins with his new girlfriend

    on Facebook knowing I will see them. He says he hates facebook and does not log in for months until recently when he has to flaunt his new relationship. It is hard enough to let him go, but seeing reminders of his new girl toy is torture
    shaygirl1992 shaygirl1992 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 11

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    I hate how he says things to his friends

    when he knows I'm close enough to hear just to make me jealous!! ( And it works) :(
    brit621 brit621 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    Dear X

    Thinking about how much I hate you is distracting. I hate you more than I can say.We haven't contacted each other in 2 months.Thoughts of you haunt me. How much you hurt me. How much I hate you. I would hurt you if I knew how. I would destroy myself just to hurt you. Because...
    Threetimesthree Threetimesthree 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2011

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    I Wish He Would Just Leave Me Alone

    A few nights ago, my ex boyfriend emailed me a few times, and kept messaging me on facebook. He kept saying he misses me and wants me back, I just ignored him. The last message he sent me on facebook was monday morning, and yesterday morning I finally told him to leave me alone...
    melissaxo melissaxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    Hate Him

    you crushed me when I was still blooming and came backfor another spin this time trying to ruin meYou think I care how you feel and what you haveto say you were the one to walk away I may not be esctatic but I do find some joy in my dayI do not want you calling or writing I have...
    natalie343 natalie343 31-35, F Jun 14, 2012

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    I Never Thought I Could Hate Anyone

    I hate him.I really do..we were together for 6 years and a child later... I didn't ever hate him until my son started hurting because of his inability to be a man,no I can't ever imagine hating anyone more......... My ex best friend's kids are getting all his affections...
    jessabellcool jessabellcool 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 10, 2007

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    Dear Darling!I Thought You Were My Amazing

    Boyfriend. Exactly Hell no!You're so ugly, You disgust me! Screw You!
    FreakTurtle FreakTurtle 22-25, F Mar 31

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    Sometimes I Do.....

    ....and sometimes I don't. I thought we had a great thing at one time. The relationship I had always wanted, but things began to get sticky quite early on. He had a wife. (They were separated.) She didn't like me, and didn't want their kids around me. It was constant problems. We...
    LadyRant LadyRant 21-25, F 2 Responses May 22, 2007

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    Be Yourself.

    I cannot understand men. Why do they always assume that we, women, are always up to something. Is it our fault that we have guy friends? Is it our fault that a guy acts too friendly towards us? Why are they so jealous? I just don't understand. I thought I was just being myself...
    mikanippon mikanippon 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Button Pusher.

    Why is that ex boyfriends always try to push your buttons? Do they think its funny? I have an exboyfriend who always laughs at me, and thinks its funnyto call me on restricted numbers or to just call me and ask me stupid questions like "have i ever done it in the pooper?" Who...
    lamourestlavoie lamourestlavoie 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    He Broke My Heart and Left Me With Nothing But Questions

    I never ever dreamed I'd feel such hatred towards him. Because just a few months ago we were so in love. The worst part about my story is that there was no dramatic event that lead to our breakup. I wish there was, it would've made it so much easier to focus on something bad when...
    joloholo joloholo 31-35 41 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    The Horrible Exes!

    Of all the boyfriends i had, 2 of them really sucks...and i hate them to the bone. both of them took advantage of me...and abused me. I would not explain the horrible details but in general, the one ex, made me his punching bag to fill his ego up. he psychologically tortured me...
    Tinkershell Tinkershell 31-35, F 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    So I was nothing yeah?

    Well that's what you say. Know what I say? Your full of yourself and can't tell a good person from a bad person. The hell with you. I'm perfect the way I am and you can't change me! Haha.
    GaleJake GaleJake 13-15, M Feb 9

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    Optimism Killer

    For your 22 birthday, I wrote you a two page letter reminding you of all the lovely things you had done for me. In this letter, I thanked you for not only being the best boyfriend, but also my best friend. Well, thank you again for slapping me in the face with your ****** up...
    nstoont nstoont 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2013

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    Well He Did It....

    He married the next girl that came along. I spent 10 long agonizing years trying to be perfect for him. And all I got was abuse. Funny it didn't hurt as much as when I found out they were engaged.And don't get me wrong, I've moved on and married myself.I guess I'm just not...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    I Wasted A Year On You! What I Hate About You!

    I hate that I wasted so much of time on you, I hate that I let you be a big part of my life, I hate that I gave so much in return for so little, I hate that you never told me you loved me, but you acted like you did, I hate the person I became while I was with you, I hate your...
    AngryinRGC AngryinRGC 26-30 6 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Hate is a strong word,

    but an appropriate one. I hate to love him most of the time. Most amazing yet worst relationship I've ever been in. He cheated, multiple times. I was that stupid back then to forgive and take him back because I believed his bullshit. Put me through emotional hell to say the...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Doesn't every girl despise her ex?

    I mean there is a reason why she isn't with him anymore. I dislike all of mine. They're all asswipes honestly.
    foreverstrong17 foreverstrong17 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Now I'm The One Who's Laughing!

    Hey I think I'll start off by saying hate is a strong word,  my ex did give me a wonderful son afterall but I do dislike him strongly for the things he did to me and mostly for the way he made me feel   He made me feel worthless He made fun of me when I cried...
    Wonderfulinsanity Wonderfulinsanity 26-30, F 15 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    Got a text from my no good lying cheating ex.

    Seeing his name pop up on my phone literally made me nauseous.
    ahaydonh ahaydonh 16-17, F Apr 13

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    Torn Between Two People

    My ex did one of the most horrible things that a person could ever do to their partner. I'm keeping his part brief because that's not why I'm here. He is not why I'm telling my story. This year, I found out that my ex boyfriend - my boyfriend at the time - had been cheating on...
    ZappedToTheUnicorn ZappedToTheUnicorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Damn Boyfriend!

    I hate him because he didn't trust me and left me without explanation. The fact that we experienced different problems and i really thought that he will never give up and leave me. I did everything just to make up with him but he never talk to me. For how many years, I've been...
    Kyouko05 Kyouko05 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    What Was I Thinking?! Oh Well...Life - Here I Come!!! =P

    I went through a 'quick split' just recently. He was really upset that I would want to end things, but at the rate that our relationship was going I figured that it would be for the greater good. Sure, we had a flaws. To me there is no such thing as 'the perfect' relationship...
    LearningToFlyAgain LearningToFlyAgain 36-40, F 10 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    I don't know what do to.

    My ex dumped me about fourth months ago. Since then I have done so well getting on with my life and being happy. He dumped me for another girl and it didn't work out between them I guess. Now he's Back at my school and trying to "get laid" he started hooking up with a girl on my...
    ccpass22 ccpass22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Stabbed

    The ****** took my heart out and stepped on it. He called me horrid names and judged me all the time. And he didn't like other people see we whee together! I swear he was the worst person ever! He tried to convince me to do drugs just for a kiss! Who the hell does that?! Its...
    Tatteredheart Tatteredheart 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    Did I Burn The Bastard?

    A month before I started dating my boyfriend, or before even knowing him, I tried to get back to my ex (I know that was stupid, i felt lonely, that was like on January 2014), anyways, things got complicated because that ******* didn't tell me that he was already in a...
    Masquerade91 Masquerade91 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    My ex was a player, smoke,

    drank, got in fights/trouble all the time before he met me. There was some issues at first in our relationship but we were together for 3 years and in those 3 years he changed so much. He didn't do any of that stuff anymore, didn't talk much to his family seeing as to how they...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Mar 20

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    just another number so here I go leaping into

    the pool of the emotionally spiteful. not where I thought I would be. I dislike you not because of what you did to me. but because you made me realize I still love my previous ex. you also have made me SEVERELY recheck my standards. this ride now has a height requirement. I...
    Gainingsmileslosingweight Gainingsmileslosingweight 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Smh how can you tell someone you will stay

    but won't , how can you lie to someone you supposedly inlove with, im this ****** up girl because of him .. 😔😞
    harmfulone harmfulone 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    Sucka

    He had the nerve to think that I would allow him to come back inHe threw my my love away it took only once to destroy itand he has no second chances not with meIt is sad to think that he can't grasp that  through heartache and painThe mistakes we made not  to touch the stove...
    natalie343 natalie343 31-35, F Jun 14, 2012

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    Crazy M0therfuck3r!!!

    I fvcking hate the manwh0re I wasted more than 4 years of my life on. I wish I had a time machine so I could take back all the years of my life he stole. I am so glad I DUMPED HIS A$$!!!! Now that we're done its all so clear to me! The little slvt only used me to make everyone...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    R.I.P. To My Feelings For You.

    Very damn, I actually miss my ex and I kinda hate him from what he did to me but, I forgive him the only thing is I can't forget all the things he did, even though its a good and a bad memory I still remember it. It's actually our 3rd anniversary but sadly it will never happen...
    YourQueen YourQueen 18-21, F 2 Responses May 21, 2013

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    I don't really hate him.

    I kind don't care what's he doing right now. If he's already dating someone else or cheated on me. I really didn't care. But now after all this time I get these sudden urges to talk to him. Like... I wanna be friends. Just friends. Just talk to him. I'm someone who forgives...
    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I'm usually cool with my ex's

    but I have one ex-boyfriend who just doesn't know his place even after we have both moved on with our lives. So we dated for a bit and he was pushing a serious commitment with me. I didn't want that - I was just having some fun and he had some stuff to deal with before being...
    CallMeFriday CallMeFriday 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Failed Relationship

    I'm not sure when did we broke up. But I think I've been single for over than five months. I had such a sweet and lovely boyfriend. He's clever and romantic. But sadly he has a very high ego. Yes he is egoistic. And selfish. After few months breakup, there was this one day I...
    thebrokenvow thebrokenvow 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    All I do is fight for him,

    knowing I shouldn't. I've given him money, my love, my affection, physical, and emotional things. Things I will never get back and he doesn't care.
    tmariiee tmariiee 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    Good Riddance

    My ex was a blasted smooth talker who talked his way to my family's hearts but later turned out to be a cheating, user scumbag. I hate his guts for wasting my time but I couldn't be happier that our relationship ended when it did. I cried and all, went through the required...
    elle808 elle808 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2013

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    Honestly I don't hate him is just

    that he put me through A LOT and it got to the point where I just couldn't anymore. I tried to be friends but still he was being selfish so after a long time I can finally say I'm happy and I don't need him. I mean I don't wish him anything bad but I can honestly care less if he...
    carolinam96 carolinam96 16-17, F Apr 8

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    Over Before It Even Began

    This relationship that I'm about to write about has pretty much destroyed me.  It has magnified the depression that I already had before I met this person.  I feel as though I am carrying around this weight.  I can't get out from under this cloud of sadness and miserable...
    NowImNothing NowImNothing 26-30 2 Responses May 25, 2011

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