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I Hate My Ex Boyfriend

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    So my ex boyfriend and I are attempting to be

    friends, and it is slightly inaccurate to say that I hate him, but he is a jerk. He knows that I still like him somewhat, and yet he just LOVES to tell me about what new girl interests him. He never says that he likes them, but he'll talk about the constantly. I might be okay...
    Em518 Em518 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Why We Split Up

    It's not all his fault at all, I didn't even tell him that I was bisexual at all, but if he had stay calm and we could have had a conversation then a big argument like we did, I am not even in a relationship with a woman at all, but how this all got started is, I was texting my...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 18, 2012

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    The Horrible Exes!

    Of all the boyfriends i had, 2 of them really sucks...and i hate them to the bone. both of them took advantage of me...and abused me. I would not explain the horrible details but in general, the one ex, made me his punching bag to fill his ego up. he psychologically tortured me...
    Tinkershell Tinkershell 31-35, F 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    I want my ex to disappear.

    I don't want to hear about him. I don't want to see him. I wish it's like he doesn't exist. Unfortunately, we have mutual friends. I hate him and wish he is forever gone from my life! He cheated and used and abused me. He contacted me a month after I left and I ignored it. Just...
    kendracarey321 kendracarey321 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Dear X

    Thinking about how much I hate you is distracting. I hate you more than I can say.We haven't contacted each other in 2 months.Thoughts of you haunt me. How much you hurt me. How much I hate you. I would hurt you if I knew how. I would destroy myself just to hurt you. Because...
    Threetimesthree Threetimesthree 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2011

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    What Was I Thinking?! Oh Well...Life - Here I Come!!! =P

    I went through a 'quick split' just recently. He was really upset that I would want to end things, but at the rate that our relationship was going I figured that it would be for the greater good. Sure, we had a flaws. To me there is no such thing as 'the perfect' relationship...
    LearningToFlyAgain LearningToFlyAgain 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    I hate my X boyfriend

    because he is a loser who never deserved me. He has a stupid career. I am way more accomplished, better personality, and better looking than him. But I stayed with him because we were best friends even before we started dating. He broke up with ME saying he wanted to be with...
    sweetbee33 sweetbee33 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I had established a perfect balance in my life

    after finally recovering from the depression my last relationshit (4 years) left me in. New job, getting my bachelors, happy and medication-free. He came out of nowhere and my god he was everything I had ever thought I'd never find. I reluctantly let him in. He was confident...
    jsaenz3 jsaenz3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    imagirlandiloveyou imagirlandiloveyou 18-21, F 1 Response May 20

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    Hi guys my last relationship of two years with

    my ex still follows me on Instagram, It's getting to the ridiculous point of him with a case of 'the green eyed monster' as I can witness, because he knows I'm dating another guy now..anyway, all he seems to be doing is follow lots and lots girls each day and 'liking' Their...
    jaexo jaexo 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    Legit all he did is made me hate myself.

    I've always true my hardest to be accepted by him.
    katstho katstho 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    Torn Between Two People

    My ex did one of the most horrible things that a person could ever do to their partner. I'm keeping his part brief because that's not why I'm here. He is not why I'm telling my story. This year, I found out that my ex boyfriend - my boyfriend at the time - had been cheating on...
    ZappedToTheUnicorn ZappedToTheUnicorn 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    OreoWellington OreoWellington 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    I don't like the word "hate"

    so I will replace that with "strongly dislike". I have never openly not liked a person until he did what he did to me. I waisted so much time on him and I hate that. I was so blind to what a selfish and just mean person he is. He's manipulative and I can't stand the person he is...
    Carissamae Carissamae 18-21, F May 18

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    I hate my ex now...I guess that's progress

    ๐Ÿ˜„I was busy accepting and coping with his flaws, you know, loving him unconditionally; but he saw my flaws and imperfections he bailed, used any excuse to jump ship. So, yes, I hate him. No, I do not wish him well and I don't wish him love or happiness. I won't wish anything...
    Foolhearted18 Foolhearted18 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Texting me with nonsense .

    _. Thank you apple for block button
    muffinpowers muffinpowers 22-25, F 5 Responses May 21

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    ever since we broke up he's been treating me

    like ****. he tries getting me jealous by flirting with his ex and other girls and gets mad when I don't pay attention to that. we didn't have any classes this year but he recently switched and ended up in my art class, and now I hear him talking **** about me and just makes up...
    kawaiilucipurr kawaiilucipurr 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    Damn Boyfriend!

    I hate him because he didn't trust me and left me without explanation. The fact that we experienced different problems and i really thought that he will never give up and leave me. I did everything just to make up with him but he never talk to me. For how many years, I've been...
    Kyouko05 Kyouko05 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47 13-15, F Oct 14

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    Now I'm The One Who's Laughing!

    Hey I think I'll start off by saying hate is a strong word,  my ex did give me a wonderful son afterall but I do dislike him strongly for the things he did to me and mostly for the way he made me feel   He made me feel worthless He made fun of me when I cried...
    Wonderfulinsanity Wonderfulinsanity 26-30, F 15 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    My ex use to invite me to his parties then tell

    me I couldn't talk to any one cause I'm stupid or ill embarrass him... So id sit there doing nothing cause he didn't want me around him cause " I wasn't looking hot enough tonight" what ever the **** that meant lol I'm so glad I woke up and moved on.
    tigersfan195 tigersfan195 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    He deleted me on facebook.

    His aunt did though. 2 days since we talked. I single and proud โค๏ธ
    RainbowGamerSally RainbowGamerSally 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    Be Yourself.

    I cannot understand men. Why do they always assume that we, women, are always up to something. Is it our fault that we have guy friends? Is it our fault that a guy acts too friendly towards us? Why are they so jealous? I just don't understand. I thought I was just being myself...
    mikanippon mikanippon 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    My ex boyfriend is going to prison

    for life, he's being charged as an adult. He almost beat a 70 years old man to death and stole all his stuff. The man lived but was in horrible condition. My ex might get charged with attempted murder along with other things. He was a good friend after we broke up though. But...
    Wynnieskye Wynnieskye 16-17, F Sep 10

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    He Broke My Heart and Left Me With Nothing But Questions

    I never ever dreamed I'd feel such hatred towards him. Because just a few months ago we were so in love. The worst part about my story is that there was no dramatic event that lead to our breakup. I wish there was, it would've made it so much easier to focus on something bad when...
    joloholo joloholo 31-35 53 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    The Egoistic Ex Boyfriend.

    it's been ten months since i dumped his a s s. why? he cheated on me twice, with a girl that was supposedly my friend. it was my mistake for letting it go the first time. ANYWAYS, all of a sudden he got a hold of my home phone; and has been pranking me for the past two weeks. my...
    nonnibe nonnibe 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    Why do men feel the need to have sex with

    anyone they can get their hands on? How can you really tell someone that you love them then go and betray their trust? You have made me lose all trust in men. You have made me lose all trust and all hope in humans...because people hurt people. I feel so nauseous. I can't do this...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Optimism Killer

    For your 22 birthday, I wrote you a two page letter reminding you of all the lovely things you had done for me. In this letter, I thanked you for not only being the best boyfriend, but also my best friend. Well, thank you again for slapping me in the face with your ****** up...
    nstoont nstoont 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2013

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    Crazy M0therfuck3r!!!

    I fvcking hate the manwh0re I wasted more than 4 years of my life on. I wish I had a time machine so I could take back all the years of my life he stole. I am so glad I DUMPED HIS A$$!!!! Now that we're done its all so clear to me! The little slvt only used me to make everyone...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    I want to let you go,

    and after this I officially will. Warning, this is very provocative language and laced with hatred. Wasted 3 years on you. So here it goes: -I hope your tires pop on your way back to college. -I hope your new girlfriend cheats on you with a horrible point guard. -I hope she...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    If I catch Ebola, I'm going to my exes house.

    He said I never gave him **** well here you go *****.
    Katiepoohmm Katiepoohmm 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    He abused me mentally

    and physically and I have him two chances . The second time I thought he changed cus he lost me once , but he proved that wrong . I am so upset . Why am I not good enough to change for . I hate him . He convinced me to give him a second chance just to hurt me again.
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    Sometimes I Do.....

    ....and sometimes I don't. I thought we had a great thing at one time. The relationship I had always wanted, but things began to get sticky quite early on. He had a wife. (They were separated.) She didn't like me, and didn't want their kids around me. It was constant problems. We...
    LadyRant LadyRant 21-25, F 2 Responses May 22, 2007

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    I Wish He Would Just Leave Me Alone

    A few nights ago, my ex boyfriend emailed me a few times, and kept messaging me on facebook. He kept saying he misses me and wants me back, I just ignored him. The last message he sent me on facebook was monday morning, and yesterday morning I finally told him to leave me alone...
    melissaxo melissaxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    I have been dating this kid

    since 6th grade and I hate him now. I was so inlove at first but now it's like he rules me. Whatever he says goes. I wish there was someone out there who I could really love and they wouldn't dare be like him. ๐Ÿ˜”
    deadinsidebutscared deadinsidebutscared 13-15, F Aug 31

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    Wasted Four Years Of My Life With A Cheater

    I hate you so much. I can't even put into words how much hate I have for you. I hate your mother. I hate your family. I hate everything about you. You are scum. Your are a coward. When things get serious you run. You will never find a girl like me. I hate you for cheating on me...
    10 Responses Jan 30, 2013

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    So I dated him for 3 months I only dated him

    cause I had just gotten out of a long relationship and the guy I broke up with didn't want anything to do with me didn't even talk to me unless it was to tell me to date someone else cause he though I should be with someone else better someone who would not hurt me like him so I...
    kaylaDem kaylaDem 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I Wasted A Year On You! What I Hate About You!

    I hate that I wasted so much of time on you, I hate that I let you be a big part of my life, I hate that I gave so much in return for so little, I hate that you never told me you loved me, but you acted like you did, I hate the person I became while I was with you, I hate your...
    AngryinRGC AngryinRGC 26-30 6 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    One of my exes doesn't believe

    that I'm done. He keeps telling that I'm just mad and really love him .... Why would I love him after that he cheated on me twice?
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I don't hate any of my ex-boyfriends,

    I just hate how they act. At least I can say it taught what I'm really wanting in a guy, and taught me I deserve so much better. I made my mistakes with them, but I'm learning not to make it again. I'll always hate how they treated me, and will never forgive them though.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Oct 15

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    This Is Four Years Long Overdue. But Finally:

    Do you want to know how much I hate you? I ******* hate you from the deepest roots of my heart. I hate you more than I've ever hated anyone or anything. You are the most miserable human being I've ever met in my entire existence. You ******* corrupted me until no end. You couldn...
    Medusa1 Medusa1 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    I Hate His Guts

    i wrote something in this before..but ignore it... ...Well i was on my myspace yesterday morning i was about to go to sleep...well before i left i made this Graphic Quote for this site glitter-graphics..well anyways i posted it on my myspace bulletin and This MORON Came writing...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F 2 Responses May 28, 2007

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    God!!! he was such a control freak.

    And the biggest hypocrite in the world. Once, he tried to forbid me to go out with my friends, because i might ' Cheat ' on him. I never did ever cheat on him, nor flirted with anyone else, yet he still thought i would. The reason hes a hypocrite is because he cheated on ME...
    KelseyB1903 KelseyB1903 18-21, F Aug 31

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    I hate him with everything I own.

    I just hate him so damn much it's freaking crazy. I hate how he played me, and cheated. And made me feel bad for how his mom abused him but then used that as an excuse to be cruel to me. I hate how he would judge me and talk down to me telling me to "put down the fork fatty, and...
    katstho katstho 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    We dated for years. I thought he was everything

    I wanted and more. I experienced everything with him. And it was great. Then when a year hit, stuff started to go down hill, he started getting violent, and didn't care if he hurt me. I told him I thought I might be pregnant, you know what he did? He threw me down a flight of...
    Kaytee120 Kaytee120 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    Omg "what the hell was I thinking?

    " Comes to mind when I think of my ex.. He's immature, flatulent, gross and always smells like deep fryer grease.. Gross, I was with him for 8 years! Somebody slap me!
    Butters420 Butters420 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 8

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    I miss him more than anything,

    but he's a selfish egotistical ****. Emotionally and physically abusive , and never appreciative
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    He affects me everyday.

    ..never been so depressed
    MommytoSeis MommytoSeis 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 24

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    Button Pusher.

    Why is that ex boyfriends always try to push your buttons? Do they think its funny? I have an exboyfriend who always laughs at me, and thinks its funnyto call me on restricted numbers or to just call me and ask me stupid questions like "have i ever done it in the pooper?" Who...
    lamourestlavoie lamourestlavoie 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    My last one. He is a pain in the butt.

    We're talking all the time! It's so annoying, and he won't leave me alone. Get a life! We are friends, but he doesn't see it at all. He's been doing this for awhile now. Maybe making friends with your exes isn't good, after all... ๐Ÿ˜‘
    MajesticDreams MajesticDreams 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    He never communicated in our relationship

    so why the heck would he communicate now? Silly me. My ex has my gameboy and he only will give it back when it's convenient. It's been 2 months and I've been asking him every week for it. If I have to go get it and use my gas I'm going to be so mad. I texted him yesterday and he...
    xoxohayley xoxohayley 18-21, F Sep 23

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    Dude, quit staring at me

    when I hug my boyfriend. Are you jealous? Well too damn bad because you lost me. Quit staring at us.
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17 Sep 3

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    He Absolutely Disgusts Me

    I have literally never felt so disgusted by someone as much as him.My heart... my poor heart had to deal with him for 4 years. I said I was sorry and I meant it. He'd always make it seem like it was my fault if something went wrong.ย This relationship was nothing sure of abuse...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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