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I Hate My Ex Husband

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    Reasons As To Why He Is The "Ex Husband"

    When I first laid eyes upon my ex the first words out of my mouth were, "Who the hell are you?" He was a short, chubby, little country bumpkin, balding on top, and talking to the "hot" guy I had stopped to talk to. It was outside of a convenient store and I noticed he was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    He's A Like A Turd That Won't Flush...

    During our 7 year marriage, he physically abused me and terrified our children, almost killing me on one occasion. My two grown daughters can't have normal relationships with men because of what they witnessed, and because of having to rescue me from my husband. Three weeks...
    Bwetter6 Bwetter6 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2013

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    Him

    The one thing i try not to do is hate anyone off course we all dislike people thats life but hate is so strong but thats how i feel over my ex he is a control freak always has been guess he always will be, he made me a promise that he will destroy me and silly as it sounds i...
    mindy74 mindy74 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 26, 2008

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    I Wish He Was Dead

    He's totally ruined my life in many ways I dont have enough space to write them all down. Im not the same person I was he abused me physically. mentally, emotionally and now hes doing it to our kids (not physical tho - I think) He told me he didn't like the way I looked while we...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 6 Responses May 13, 2011

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    I'm not sure how well I will be received here

    but I am sharing my story nonetheless. I was widowed at the age of 32 and my son was 2 1/2. I was not looking for a relationship after my husband passed and was content with the thought of raising my son alone. I was a stay at home mom and was able to continue that with the life...
    MomofOZ2003 MomofOZ2003 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    You Are Literally The Worst Thing That's Ever Happened To Me.

    We met through mutual friends and ended up becoming best friends for five or six years. We became romantic during his recovery from a drug addiction. I stayed with him and supported him the entire time. I even stayed with him relapse after relapse, and even when he had to go to...
    sistersyntax sistersyntax 22-25 3 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    The Woman Who Suffered With The Devil Family.

    I got married at the age of nineteen. I was so happy and I thought my life would be roses and daisies from there on. I was horribly mistaken, my life was a living hell. My ex would hit me for nothing. His sister would take all my clothes and never return them. The problem is she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Cannot Stand My Ex

    We all have issues with ex's! Which is why they are ex's! If things were going well then we would all still be together. My ex is like clockwork. When ever things are going wrong in his life he takes it out on me. Now I have to file paperwork to switch the agreement to the state...
    sasha0309 sasha0309 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2013

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    I Hate My Lying Cheating Narcissitic Alcoholic Ex Husband, He Used Me In Every Way

    I just divorced this year after a 3.5 year marriage and one child later. Early in the relationship my ex was constantly talking about wanting children. A year later he asked me to move in and we were pregnant 3 months later to his run down house he promised we would fix up and...
    lucyloo22 lucyloo22 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    I Hate My Ex Husband

    My ex husband used me in every possible way. He lied, cheated and stole from me. He separated from me when i had just given birth to our daughter. My ex didn't let me grieve the death of my father when i was 8 months pregnant. He threw me out of the house with a newborn. he didn...
    purplegirl999 purplegirl999 26-30, F Sep 27, 2013

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    Betrayed And Replaced!

    This was my secound marriage. So I was determined to make it work. For 27 years I took his abuse. In the begining it was pretty physical. When he was finally arested for beating me up. The physical turned to mostly mental. Just when I thought things were really turning around. He...
    misd7 misd7 51-55, F 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    OMFG!!

    Alright a$$hole!!! I called this morning to talk to our children and find out how they were and how their day off yesterday was. I am talking to our oldest son Cameron, who says he is making oatmeal for his brother Colby. I am thinkin, awww that is very sweet hunni for you to...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 17 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    Still Hate Him For What He's Done.

     Hello, I'm new.  My story - "out of the blue" my husband (aged 44) tells me that our 16 year marriage is over because there isn't enough "spark".   WTF?  We have 2 daughters, aged 12 and 13.  I just turned 40.  Our world all fell...
    AngryMummy AngryMummy 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    He Makes Our Daughter Feel Guilty

    My ex called our 12 yr old daughter a few weeks ago and scolded her for not calling him when a tropical storm was approaching him.  Then he calls her a few days ago after we sent her school fundraiser info to him via email.  He says, "You barely call me, but you...
    hllbllygrl hllbllygrl 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2008

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    You Lost Me

    Soon it will be the first anniversary when I finally decided to put an end to our toxic relationship.  I don't recall the exact moment when you lost me. Was it when I discover your lies when you move in?  Was it when I realize the kid you really were, instead of the man you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    told me my kids deserve a better mother.

    .. why didn't he just kill me then so I wouldn't be in all the pain that I've been going through since I was 12...
    babygirlransom babygirlransom 26-30, F Nov 1

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    Why am I still hating my ex?

    ? We've been divorced for 3 years. I have really tried to let this go. I have to pay alimony for another year and every time I think I'm over it, I start remembering all the horrible things he did.
    runner95 runner95 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Grrrrrrr

    I've been married now the last 15 year first 7 were great the last 8 have been a living hell .... Why am I still here in this marraige I loathe, I can put up with it for my daughter and I will do until she has left home. You see my husband is an amphetamine addict, he's not...
    Barnzi Barnzi 41-45 Mar 24, 2013

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    I Hate Him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I was going to try not to talk about my ex on this site, but I just need to blow of some steam.   First off, I'm not a saint by any stretch of the imagination--I make mistakes, I do stupid stuff, I say the wrong thing--I'm a human being with all of the trappings, OK...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 9, 2008

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    he almost killed me by smashing me between two

    cars with my son in the truck...
    babygirlransom babygirlransom 26-30, F Nov 1

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    I Feel Silly For Even Complaining....

    BUT I'm so stuck.  I've been divorced for 6 years and every once in a while I HATE my ex-husband.  He still treats me with disrespect and hasn't been very good at paying regular child support for two years.. We had an incredibly amicable divorce and fairly calm 6...
    need2laff need2laff 41-45 5 Responses May 31, 2009

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    I was married for 7 years to a man

    that destroyed me. He is the reason for my sex addiction. from the age of 19 to 26 I had absolutely no sex life, was emotionally abused, and physically abused at the very end. When I left him, found out that for 7 years he was actively destroying my credit and left me in debt. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 25

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    A Real Man Would Confront His Own Actions

    Growing up I had three older brothers, and they were the only ones allowed to "rough house" with me. Anyone else was beaten to a smear for messing with their little sister. That being said my marriage was done in 2009. Here it is 2013, and he refuses to sign divorce paperwork. He...
    Av8nMytMouse Av8nMytMouse 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2013

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    God ,i can't stand him!

    He is such a loser!Never has a dime to his name,steals money from the kids,(we have 2 kids,12 and 16).I'am remarried,for five years now,and i can't get my kids on my husband's insurance,because they are not his kids.He cancelled the kid's insurance to get more money for his...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 9 Responses Sep 29

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    I Hate My Ex Husband So Much...

    He's a lying, cheating thief. Why because he was sleeping with every woman in town behind my back, 8 years of my 12 year marriage he was having affairs. We had two children together and I regret knowing they share genes with him. He divorced me for a woman that pretended to be...
    dsvet9091 dsvet9091 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    New Here - What's Wrong With Hating Someone Who:

    1. Let his adult children insult me and blamed me for their hatred 2. Lied to me about his second wife.  He rally did live with her for eight years after they were divorced. 3.Called me fat and ugly and told me I'd fall apart when things got rough 4. Signed my name to...
    shushu shushu 56-60, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    Just...Ugh

    I have almost officially been divorced for a year. It has been the best year of my life. Also a bit of a roller coaster. I first knew that my marriage was over when I fell in love with someone else. I had never ever felt that wasy about anyone before. Okay I should back up. I...
    Xtremegirly789 Xtremegirly789 22-25 1 Response Apr 9, 2013

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    I HATE MY HUSBANDS EX Yes my husband divorced a

    horrible person who he had two kids with. She has never worked and she lives off her two kids disability checks while she has multiple different boyfriends weekly.
    Beautifulrose71 Beautifulrose71 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Ex Husband, The Bully, The Abuser

    I almost don't know where to start other than the biggest mistake of my life was marrying a man who grew up bullied by other children, bullied and abused by both his mother and father and filled with so much pain and hatred.  That pain and hatred was manifested to me and my now...
    karen92 karen92 41-45, F 26 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    HATE Is Not a Strong Enough Word...

    I seriously hate my ex-husband with a passion. He has screwed me over in so many ways that honestly I wish he would just die. Here's the backstory…we started dating back in HS when we were 15. I was never physically attracted to him, but he was first b/f and I never...
    Twest22 Twest22 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2008

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    I hate my (soon-to-be) ex-husband.

    I can’t even begin to tell you how much he’s destroyed my life. I won’t even get into the years of abuse—physical and mental cruelty and violence. Him trying to crack my head on the edge of the refrigerator like it was an egg…. Or throwing my dinner on the floor and...
    juliannagoldenstein juliannagoldenstein 36-40 3 Responses Feb 19

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    Wwyd?! Ex Posted Pics On Facebook Of My 4 Year Old And 8 Year Old Shooting An Assault Rifle!!!

    I am so beyond upset. I emailed my lawyer but I'm not sure what to do. I will also call first thing Monday morning. My ex-husband knows how much I don't like him having guns anymore. In 2011, when we separated he threatened to kill himself with his concealed carry weapon (a...
    mesearching mesearching 31-35 3 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    A Decade Later . . .

    My 10th "divorce anniversary" will be celebrated on March 17.  I still despise that sick sob as much as I did the day that I was set free.  Controlling, conniving, conscienceless, corrupt, humiliator, tormentor, morally bankrupt, user and abuser of...
    whatdoesnotkillme whatdoesnotkillme 31-35 1 Response Mar 14, 2009

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    When Does It Stop!?!?

    I have been separated for almost 3 years & divorced for 1 1/2 years.  There have been moments of happiness in my life between then & now, but it doesn't seem to last.  Just when I think I've hit my stride at being divorced, adjusting to being a full time working mom & a student...
    momofthree2008 momofthree2008 31-35 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Why I Hate My Ex........now Heres A Story

    I was married to this guy, we will call him butthead, for 13 years. He was in the military and was away for a change of MOS. He left in May of '08 and I thought everything was going well with our relationship. I mean it was not perfect, my oldest son and butthead fought all the...
    emg1968 emg1968 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    Man Up

    My exhusband has got to ne the biggest douch bag ever! He owes money for his half of dental and medical bills. Instead of being a responsible man he looks for loop holes so he doesnt have to pay. He acts like he is father of the year but in reality he's a piece of crap! When...
    melanie3030 melanie3030 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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    My Husband Is Angry And I Feel Like I Deserve It

    My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years and have 2 young sons. I lost my job las year from a very responsible position due to financial negligence. I am almost $60000 in debt with a line of credit and a loan. I have aways had a great job but with after the birth of...
    torontomum torontomum 36-40, F May 3, 2013

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    Chronicle Of A Foretold Nightmare

    When I met this man highly recommended by my sister and other friends who knew him I imagined that my single status had come to end. Professional, single, childless, without family, a good job, was not ugly and was quite intelligent. It was perfect for a 29-year-old woman single...
    UCHI UCHI 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2013

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    My Ex And His Video Camera

    My ex husband and I were married for 14 years. He started to be extremely paranoid.  He is a trained interrogator, with counter intelligence background, he is very video and camera savvy.  I had 2 kids and I couldn't even have my 8 yr old daughter walk 2 houses down to the bus...
    caroline729 caroline729 36-40 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Hate Ex-husband And Can't Find A Way To Move On...

    I was married to my ex-husband for six years, together for nine total. We both thought we were one another's "soul-mate" and then within the second year of knowing him, things went down hill, but I still married him!?!?...I found out he had been cheating on me with many women...
    soulmisery65 soulmisery65 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    Omfg

    Okay .. I am sure I have one of the most heinous exes out there !! I have been divorced since December 2009 , separated since October 2008 . In our decree it says he pays my car note until its paid in full . Also he pays any medical or dental that is not covered by insurance...
    mommymel mommymel 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2010

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    I Hate Him

    I hated myself for the longest time and I blamed myself for all that happened. If I lost the weight he wouldn’t have to call me fat. If I cleaned the house better he wouldn’t have to hit me. If I was prettier he wouldn’t have to cheat on me with other women. If I were...
    breesusrocksmysocks breesusrocksmysocks 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I Have Never Hated Anyone As Much As You!

    I look at you and I get disgusted that I ever wanted to touch you, kiss you, love you.  You make me want to vomit. You want to know why I moved 300 miles away with our kids?  Because you would never allow me to have a life of my own if I was still there.  You...
    floridagirlal floridagirlal 36-40 6 Responses Nov 13, 2010

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    My Ex Called The Police On Me For Sending My Son Outside To Play....

    So, my son is 12, a typical pre-teen and all he wants to do is play his Xbox game. He was misbehaving at the grocery store about a week ago and so I told him I was taking away his Xbox. He freaked out in the store because his games seem to be his life. We recently moved to Texas...
    TheFTmomvsDisneylandDad TheFTmomvsDisneylandDad 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2011

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    He is one of a hell liar!

    He still thinks that he is handsome just because he has blue eyes, but what he doesn't know that when he was in my life, all of the ladies who were flirting with were just showing me how bad he is, and he took it as an advantage to get bored of me and start acting selfish. Now...
    Sahour221286 Sahour221286 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    My Ex Is Extremely Manipulative

    I have been sepaarted for 2 years and until 3 months ago, I had primary custody of my children (2 boys aged 13 and 11 years) and no child support from my ex. When i went to court asking for child support, he has started maniuplating the kids and got the kids to request that they...
    klgal klgal 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    Parent At His Convience.

    Alright, here goes. I met my ex husband, collectively known as 'jerk face' by my family, when I was trying to rebuild my life... re-enter college, get myself together. Children weren't in the plan for years, but sometimes, things don't go as planned. I became very quickly...
    angryexarmywife angryexarmywife 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    My Ex Is A Y!!!!

    it amazes me how I spent 14 years of my life with someone so awful!!. When I was trying to save my marriage I would remember all the great times he and I had. Now that we are divorced and I wish I never had to speak to him again I cant seem to remember any at all. I think of...
    notmylife notmylife 31-35, F Aug 7, 2013

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    I Don'T Want To Feel This Way. I Don'T Want To Hate Anyone.

    I was married for 13 years to a verbally abusive alcoholic man who regularly exploded at me, refused to work for the last two years of our marriage, and was just plain mean. I stayed a long time for my son, who is now 8, but I finally became empty inside and left him. I don't...
    dontgetitatall dontgetitatall 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    My Ex and His Wife Are Driving Me Insane

     I am so thankful I found this forum to vent.  I've spent the entire day communicating with my ex husband and his wife about expenses for my 14 year-old son that has autism and  10 year-old daughter.  He left when they were 7 and 3!  They trotted off and...
    helpmegetagrip helpmegetagrip 46-50 10 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Oh He's At It Again

    If there really is a God, then I implore him to finally give my ex just what he has sown. I am not a hateful, vengeful person, but this man has done so much to me and he doesn't stop. I want so badly for his life to be destroyed, but instead he seems to be blessed. New wife, new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 28, 2012

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