I Hate My Ex Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 544 People

    The Woman Who Suffered With The Devil Family.

    I got married at the age of nineteen. I was so happy and I thought my life would be roses and daisies from there on. I was horribly mistaken, my life was a living hell. My ex would hit me for nothing. His sister would take all my clothes and never return them. The problem is she...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Oct 12, 2013

    HATE Is Not a Strong Enough Word...

    I seriously hate my ex-husband with a passion. He has screwed me over in so many ways that honestly I wish he would just die. Here's the backstory…we started dating back in HS when we were 15. I was never physically attracted to him, but he was first b/f and I never...
    Twest22 Twest22
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2008

    Why am I still hating my ex?

    ? We've been divorced for 3 years. I have really tried to let this go. I have to pay alimony for another year and every time I think I'm over it, I start remembering all the horrible things he did.
    runner95 runner95
    51-55, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2014

    I Hate My Ex Husband So Much...

    He's a lying, cheating thief. Why because he was sleeping with every woman in town behind my back, 8 years of my 12 year marriage he was having affairs. We had two children together and I regret knowing they share genes with him. He divorced me for a woman that pretended to be...
    dsvet9091 dsvet9091
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2012

    my ex husband is getting too chummy with my

    parents ,and is going with his new wife on a trip together,he's a complete ******* to me. and my parents just let them hang and they go places with my kids. makes me feel replaced
    sargeswife2014 sargeswife2014
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    New Here - What's Wrong With Hating Someone Who:

    1. Let his adult children insult me and blamed me for their hatred 2. Lied to me about his second wife.  He rally did live with her for eight years after they were divorced. 3.Called me fat and ugly and told me I'd fall apart when things got rough 4. Signed my name to...
    shushu shushu
    56-60, F
    5 Responses Apr 12, 2008

    We have been together 10 years,

    married 5. We are older.. No children except my grown son from previous marriage many years ago... Very disappointing and sad.. I know you should not stereo type but my husband the pipe fitter...has the mentality of what you would imagine some would say of a "blue collar worker...
    bekah930 bekah930
    46-50
    1 Response Mar 15, 2015

    I can say with all honesty

    that I have never hated another person until my exhusband. He is a lying, conniving, sadistic narcissistic jerk. He uses money and power to buy people and pay off government entities. He is involved with every fraud imaginable and is able to get away with it because he knows...
    WiltedTulip WiltedTulip
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2015

    A Decade Later . . .

    My 10th "divorce anniversary" will be celebrated on March 17.  I still despise that sick sob as much as I did the day that I was set free.  Controlling, conniving, conscienceless, corrupt, humiliator, tormentor, morally bankrupt, user and abuser of...
    whatdoesnotkillme whatdoesnotkillme
    31-35
    1 Response Mar 14, 2009

    Still Hate Him For What He's Done.

     Hello, I'm new.  My story - "out of the blue" my husband (aged 44) tells me that our 16 year marriage is over because there isn't enough "spark".   WTF?  We have 2 daughters, aged 12 and 13.  I just turned 40.  Our world all fell...
    AngryMummy AngryMummy
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jun 6, 2009

    I am so tired of putting up with this man.

    He has lived off me now for 7 months. No job, sleeps all day, eats my food. Doesn't pay his child support. Never lifts a finger to help out at all. I have told him to leave repeatedly, but he just sits there and ignores me. Someone please tell me how I can get him out of my home...
    NotFreddiesGirlAnymore NotFreddiesGirlAnymore
    46-50, F
    Sep 4, 2014

    Hate Is Not A Strong Enough Word

    I married in 2004 and within a couple of months I knew it was a horrible mistake.  He wouldn't let me do anything, even go to sleep at night, without him.  The only freedom I had was in my car to and from work.  Then I got pregnant in 2005, and his job moved to...
    lmozilo lmozilo
    41-45
    1 Response Jun 9, 2010

    The woman who lived with the devil family .

    I got married at the age of nineteen. Thinking my life was going to be joyful and great . It turned out to be a nightmare . My ex was very disturbed and abusive. His sister would take my clothes and never return them. She was about 90 pounds and I was 130. Imagine how stupid...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 21

    He Makes Our Daughter Feel Guilty

    My ex called our 12 yr old daughter a few weeks ago and scolded her for not calling him when a tropical storm was approaching him.  Then he calls her a few days ago after we sent her school fundraiser info to him via email.  He says, "You barely call me, but you...
    hllbllygrl hllbllygrl
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 18, 2008

    Give Me Back My Children!

    -In November 1999 I arrived back in the United States after 10 years abroad first in the Army then married. I was back for my father's funeral but I didn't intend to go back to Azerbaijan. I had married in 1991 while pregnant,but that was in Europe and I was too much of a country...
    Cherokeebelle Cherokeebelle
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2015

    I hate my ex husband.

    I hate you Mike Wheeler. You lied to me, cheated on me with a gross looking pig of a woman. You were inconsiderate, selfish, lazy and you ruined many significant moments of my life. You only ever cared about yourself. You lied on your resume to get a job. You were bad in bed...
    williamarthur1988 williamarthur1988
    26-30, F
    Mar 9

    I Hate Him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I was going to try not to talk about my ex on this site, but I just need to blow of some steam.   First off, I'm not a saint by any stretch of the imagination--I make mistakes, I do stupid stuff, I say the wrong thing--I'm a human being with all of the trappings, OK...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 9, 2008

    Mine may not be as worse

    as most of the posts in this group but I really really hate my ex husband. I left him 4 years ago because he was physically and psychologically abusive. When he found out a few months back that I am single again, he just comes creeping back like a an idiotic, insecure man that...
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    My ex and I got a divorce last year finally.

    After years of emotional abuse, drunken rages, and other woman I thought i was finally free. If anything it got worse. During the process he treated me worse than he did while we was married. I didn't think that was possiable. We have a duaghter together and he uses her as a...
    maria1973h maria1973h
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    A couple of years ago I divorced my

    now ex-husband. He cheated on me a year after we were married. Our relationship changed the day I caught him cheating and went downhill from there. He became verbally and physically abusive. I spent 8 years of my life with him and finally I couldn't stand him any longer. I told...
    scifyblue scifyblue
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2015

    When he decides to be caring

    and thoughtful,then pulls his normal BS ..I really hate that!!
    HealingSadness HealingSadness
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2015

    I'm not sure how well I will be received here

    but I am sharing my story nonetheless. I was widowed at the age of 32 and my son was 2 1/2. I was not looking for a relationship after my husband passed and was content with the thought of raising my son alone. I was a stay at home mom and was able to continue that with the life...
    MomofOZ2003 MomofOZ2003
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2014

    Hate Ex-husband And Can't Find A Way To Move On...

    I was married to my ex-husband for six years, together for nine total. We both thought we were one another's "soul-mate" and then within the second year of knowing him, things went down hill, but I still married him!?!?...I found out he had been cheating on me with many women...
    soulmisery65 soulmisery65
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Sep 3, 2011

    I hate my ex husband.

    I hate you Mike Wheeler. You lied to me, cheated on me with a gross looking pig of a woman. You were inconsiderate, selfish, lazy and you ruined many significant moments of my life. You only ever cared about yourself. You lied on your resume to get a job. You were bad in bed...
    williamarthur1988 williamarthur1988
    26-30, F
    Mar 9

    I Have Never Hated Anyone As Much As You!

    I look at you and I get disgusted that I ever wanted to touch you, kiss you, love you.  You make me want to vomit. You want to know why I moved 300 miles away with our kids?  Because you would never allow me to have a life of my own if I was still there.  You...
    floridagirlal floridagirlal
    36-40
    5 Responses Nov 13, 2010

    Well, I had to pay another delinquent bill this

    morning that was HIS responsibly once we were divorced... He now owes me close to $2900... Back to court we go!! Sorry sack of worthless ****!!!
    Baer2113 Baer2113
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2015

    My Ex and His Wife Are Driving Me Insane

     I am so thankful I found this forum to vent.  I've spent the entire day communicating with my ex husband and his wife about expenses for my 14 year-old son that has autism and  10 year-old daughter.  He left when they were 7 and 3!  They trotted off and...
    helpmegetagrip helpmegetagrip
    46-50
    10 Responses Aug 6, 2009

    OMFG!!

    Alright a$$hole!!! I called this morning to talk to our children and find out how they were and how their day off yesterday was. I am talking to our oldest son Cameron, who says he is making oatmeal for his brother Colby. I am thinkin, awww that is very sweet hunni for you to...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM
    36-40, F
    15 Responses Apr 11, 2009

    Him

    The one thing i try not to do is hate anyone off course we all dislike people thats life but hate is so strong but thats how i feel over my ex he is a control freak always has been guess he always will be, he made me a promise that he will destroy me and silly as it sounds i...
    mindy74 mindy74
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Jan 26, 2008

    When Does It Stop!?!?

    I have been separated for almost 3 years & divorced for 1 1/2 years.  There have been moments of happiness in my life between then & now, but it doesn't seem to last.  Just when I think I've hit my stride at being divorced, adjusting to being a full time working mom & a student...
    momofthree2008 momofthree2008
    31-35
    1 Response Aug 25, 2011

    My ex husband ruined the way I think about

    relationships. He was my first boyfriend and he took my virginity. I was with him for about 9 years but only married for 2. Because he was my first for everything, I was blind and ignored the people around me (friends and family) who tried to warn me about him. They saw the way...
    CannibalisticUnicorn CannibalisticUnicorn
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    I hate seeing things

    that reminds me of him.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    I HATE MY HUSBANDS EX Yes my husband divorced a

    horrible person who he had two kids with. She has never worked and she lives off her two kids disability checks while she has multiple different boyfriends weekly.
    Beautifulrose71 Beautifulrose71
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

    I hate my ex husband.

    I hate you Mike Wheeler. You lied to me, cheated on me with a gross looking pig of a woman. You were inconsiderate, selfish, lazy and you ruined many significant moments of my life. You only ever cared about yourself. You lied on your resume to get a job. You were bad in bed...
    williamarthur1988 williamarthur1988
    26-30, F
    Mar 9

    Ex Husband, The Bully, The Abuser

    I almost don't know where to start other than the biggest mistake of my life was marrying a man who grew up bullied by other children, bullied and abused by both his mother and father and filled with so much pain and hatred.  That pain and hatred was manifested to me and my now...
    karen92 karen92
    41-45, F
    32 Responses Jan 24, 2011

    I hate my ex husband.

    I hate you Mike Wheeler. You lied to me, cheated on me with a gross looking pig of a woman. You were inconsiderate, selfish, lazy and you ruined many significant moments of my life. You only ever cared about yourself. You lied on your resume to get a job. You were bad in bed...
    williamarthur1988 williamarthur1988
    26-30, F
    Mar 9

    I was married for 7 years to a man

    that destroyed me. He is the reason for my sex addiction. from the age of 19 to 26 I had absolutely no sex life, was emotionally abused, and physically abused at the very end. When I left him, found out that for 7 years he was actively destroying my credit and left me in debt. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 25, 2014

    You know what's sad? I know hate really is hurt

    love, and that makes me mad. I wish I could get to the point of just not caring. I am one of those people who made her mistakes, but also went through stuff no one should go through. I think 20 years of disrespect was enough. We met in high school. He was the first guy I ever...
    qwirkyone qwirkyone
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    told me my kids deserve a better mother.

    .. why didn't he just kill me then so I wouldn't be in all the pain that I've been going through since I was 12...
    babygirlransom babygirlransom
    26-30, F
    Nov 1, 2014

    he almost killed me by smashing me between two

    cars with my son in the truck...
    babygirlransom babygirlransom
    26-30, F
    Nov 1, 2014

    I Wish He Was Dead

    He's totally ruined my life in many ways I dont have enough space to write them all down. Im not the same person I was he abused me physically. mentally, emotionally and now hes doing it to our kids (not physical tho - I think) He told me he didn't like the way I looked while we...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy
    36-40, F
    7 Responses May 13, 2011

    I Feel Silly For Even Complaining....

    BUT I'm so stuck.  I've been divorced for 6 years and every once in a while I HATE my ex-husband.  He still treats me with disrespect and hasn't been very good at paying regular child support for two years.. We had an incredibly amicable divorce and fairly calm 6...
    need2laff need2laff
    41-45
    5 Responses May 31, 2009

    I don't understand after 17 years of marriage

    counseling, reading marriage books together, praying together, I stil cannot understand my ex husband. Misunderstanding after misunderstanding, leading to constant heartache. Tears, tears and more tears. I finally left him. He was a true mamas boy for sure. He seemed so kind...
    2muchhate 2muchhate
    41-45, F
    Apr 8, 2014

    My ex husband of 18 years called me today

    and was extraordinarily and unusually kind. He was conversational and sweet- even a bit flirtatious. After years of abuse, kindness feels soothing to me from any source. He called me and asked to sleep with me (again, and um, no, again), and then invited me to dinner with him...
    PeachMoscato PeachMoscato
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 17, 2015

    I Hate My Lying Cheating Narcissitic Alcoholic Ex Husband, He Used Me In Every Way

    I just divorced this year after a 3.5 year marriage and one child later. Early in the relationship my ex was constantly talking about wanting children. A year later he asked me to move in and we were pregnant 3 months later to his run down house he promised we would fix up and...
    lucyloo22 lucyloo22
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 2, 2013

    I hate my ex h for what he did to me

    and his sons.he was such a great dad n h .till he started affair with his best mates wife.who we had known years.he kept coming back promising me and his sons he loved us.watched the ow come after us through texts on NYE valentines etc lying to police getting me locked up over...
    Pommy8 Pommy8
    51-55, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2014

    There is only one person I hate in this world

    and that is my ex. That anyone can treat his spouse and family like he has is despicable. It should be a criminal offence. If he treated anyone else like that he would be convicted - why can he get away with treating his family like crap?
    Hidihi Hidihi
    46-50, F
    Feb 15, 2014

    You Are Literally The Worst Thing That's Ever Happened To Me.

    We met through mutual friends and ended up becoming best friends for five or six years. We became romantic during his recovery from a drug addiction. I stayed with him and supported him the entire time. I even stayed with him relapse after relapse, and even when he had to go to...
    sistersyntax sistersyntax
    22-25
    4 Responses Jan 19, 2011

    Oh He's At It Again

    If there really is a God, then I implore him to finally give my ex just what he has sown. I am not a hateful, vengeful person, but this man has done so much to me and he doesn't stop. I want so badly for his life to be destroyed, but instead he seems to be blessed. New wife, new...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 28, 2012

    Reasons As To Why He Is The "Ex Husband"

    When I first laid eyes upon my ex the first words out of my mouth were, "Who the hell are you?" He was a short, chubby, little country bumpkin, balding on top, and talking to the "hot" guy I had stopped to talk to. It was outside of a convenient store and I noticed he was...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jan 27, 2013

    He has emotionally abandoned his teen boys to

    go with his new doctor girlfriend - he puts her first - my boys have a gaping hole in their heart. I didn't have a lawyer and he did because he has the job and control of the money - I got royally screwed. I got the house and all the debt and two emotionally screwed up angry...
    LeanneTorio LeanneTorio
    56-60, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2014

    I hate my (soon-to-be) ex-husband.

    I can’t even begin to tell you how much he’s destroyed my life. I won’t even get into the years of abuse—physical and mental cruelty and violence. Him trying to crack my head on the edge of the refrigerator like it was an egg…. Or throwing my dinner on the floor and...
    juliannagoldenstein juliannagoldenstein
    36-40
    3 Responses Feb 19, 2014

    My Ex Called The Police On Me For Sending My Son Outside To Play....

    So, my son is 12, a typical pre-teen and all he wants to do is play his Xbox game. He was misbehaving at the grocery store about a week ago and so I told him I was taking away his Xbox. He freaked out in the store because his games seem to be his life. We recently moved to Texas...
    TheFTmomvsDisneylandDad TheFTmomvsDisneylandDad
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2011

    Betrayed And Replaced!

    This was my secound marriage. So I was determined to make it work. For 27 years I took his abuse. In the begining it was pretty physical. When he was finally arested for beating me up. The physical turned to mostly mental. Just when I thought things were really turning around. He...
    misd7 misd7
    51-55, F
    2 Responses May 19, 2012
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