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I Hate My Ex Husband

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    I Wish He Was Dead

    He's totally ruined my life in many ways I dont have enough space to write them all down. Im not the same person I was he abused me physically. mentally, emotionally and now hes doing it to our kids (not physical tho - I think) He told me he didn't like the way I looked while we...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 6 Responses May 13, 2011

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    God ,i can't stand him!

    He is such a loser!Never has a dime to his name,steals money from the kids,(we have 2 kids,12 and 16).I'am remarried,for five years now,and i can't get my kids on my husband's insurance,because they are not his kids.He cancelled the kid's insurance to get more money for his...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    Mine may not be as worse

    as most of the posts in this group but I really really hate my ex husband. I left him 4 years ago because he was physically and psychologically abusive. When he found out a few months back that I am single again, he just comes creeping back like a an idiotic, insecure man that...
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    Betrayed And Replaced!

    This was my secound marriage. So I was determined to make it work. For 27 years I took his abuse. In the begining it was pretty physical. When he was finally arested for beating me up. The physical turned to mostly mental. Just when I thought things were really turning around. He...
    misd7 misd7 51-55, F 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    I Hate Him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I was going to try not to talk about my ex on this site, but I just need to blow of some steam.   First off, I'm not a saint by any stretch of the imagination--I make mistakes, I do stupid stuff, I say the wrong thing--I'm a human being with all of the trappings, OK...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 9, 2008

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    Give Me Back My Children!

    -In November 1999 I arrived back in the United States after 10 years abroad first in the Army then married. I was back for my father's funeral but I didn't intend to go back to Azerbaijan. I had married in 1991 while pregnant,but that was in Europe and I was too much of a country...
    Cherokeebelle Cherokeebelle 41-45, F Apr 11

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    I Hate Him

    I hated myself for the longest time and I blamed myself for all that happened. If I lost the weight he wouldn’t have to call me fat. If I cleaned the house better he wouldn’t have to hit me. If I was prettier he wouldn’t have to cheat on me with other women. If I were...
    breesusrocksmysocks breesusrocksmysocks 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    A Decade Later . . .

    My 10th "divorce anniversary" will be celebrated on March 17.  I still despise that sick sob as much as I did the day that I was set free.  Controlling, conniving, conscienceless, corrupt, humiliator, tormentor, morally bankrupt, user and abuser of...
    whatdoesnotkillme whatdoesnotkillme 31-35 1 Response Mar 14, 2009

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    Oh He's At It Again

    If there really is a God, then I implore him to finally give my ex just what he has sown. I am not a hateful, vengeful person, but this man has done so much to me and he doesn't stop. I want so badly for his life to be destroyed, but instead he seems to be blessed. New wife, new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 28, 2012

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    When Does It Stop!?!?

    I have been separated for almost 3 years & divorced for 1 1/2 years.  There have been moments of happiness in my life between then & now, but it doesn't seem to last.  Just when I think I've hit my stride at being divorced, adjusting to being a full time working mom & a student...
    momofthree2008 momofthree2008 31-35 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    I can say with all honesty

    that I have never hated another person until my exhusband. He is a lying, conniving, sadistic narcissistic jerk. He uses money and power to buy people and pay off government entities. He is involved with every fraud imaginable and is able to get away with it because he knows...
    WiltedTulip WiltedTulip 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I Hate My Ex Husband

    My ex husband used me in every possible way. He lied, cheated and stole from me. He separated from me when i had just given birth to our daughter. My ex didn't let me grieve the death of my father when i was 8 months pregnant. He threw me out of the house with a newborn. he didn...
    purplegirl999 purplegirl999 31-35, F Sep 27, 2013

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    He's A Like A Turd That Won't Flush...

    During our 7 year marriage, he physically abused me and terrified our children, almost killing me on one occasion. My two grown daughters can't have normal relationships with men because of what they witnessed, and because of having to rescue me from my husband. Three weeks...
    Bwetter6 Bwetter6 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2013

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    Why am I still hating my ex?

    ? We've been divorced for 3 years. I have really tried to let this go. I have to pay alimony for another year and every time I think I'm over it, I start remembering all the horrible things he did.
    runner95 runner95 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 28, 2014

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    My Ex Is A Y!!!!

    it amazes me how I spent 14 years of my life with someone so awful!!. When I was trying to save my marriage I would remember all the great times he and I had. Now that we are divorced and I wish I never had to speak to him again I cant seem to remember any at all. I think of...
    notmylife notmylife 31-35, F Aug 7, 2013

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    There is only one person I hate in this world

    and that is my ex. That anyone can treat his spouse and family like he has is despicable. It should be a criminal offence. If he treated anyone else like that he would be convicted - why can he get away with treating his family like crap?
    Hidihi Hidihi 41-45, F Feb 15, 2014

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    my ex husband is getting too chummy with my

    parents ,and is going with his new wife on a trip together,he's a complete ******* to me. and my parents just let them hang and they go places with my kids. makes me feel replaced
    sargeswife2014 sargeswife2014 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Omfg

    Okay .. I am sure I have one of the most heinous exes out there !! I have been divorced since December 2009 , separated since October 2008 . In our decree it says he pays my car note until its paid in full . Also he pays any medical or dental that is not covered by insurance...
    mommymel mommymel 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2010

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    My Ex and His Wife Are Driving Me Insane

     I am so thankful I found this forum to vent.  I've spent the entire day communicating with my ex husband and his wife about expenses for my 14 year-old son that has autism and  10 year-old daughter.  He left when they were 7 and 3!  They trotted off and...
    helpmegetagrip helpmegetagrip 46-50 10 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    When he decides to be caring

    and thoughtful,then pulls his normal BS ..I really hate that!!
    HealingSadness HealingSadness 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    he almost killed me by smashing me between two

    cars with my son in the truck...
    babygirlransom babygirlransom 26-30, F Nov 1, 2014

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    OMFG!!

    Alright a$$hole!!! I called this morning to talk to our children and find out how they were and how their day off yesterday was. I am talking to our oldest son Cameron, who says he is making oatmeal for his brother Colby. I am thinkin, awww that is very sweet hunni for you to...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 16 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    I am so tired of putting up with this man.

    He has lived off me now for 7 months. No job, sleeps all day, eats my food. Doesn't pay his child support. Never lifts a finger to help out at all. I have told him to leave repeatedly, but he just sits there and ignores me. Someone please tell me how I can get him out of my home...
    freddiesgirl69 freddiesgirl69 46-50, F Sep 4, 2014

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    I'm not sure how well I will be received here

    but I am sharing my story nonetheless. I was widowed at the age of 32 and my son was 2 1/2. I was not looking for a relationship after my husband passed and was content with the thought of raising my son alone. I was a stay at home mom and was able to continue that with the life...
    MomofOZ2003 MomofOZ2003 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2014

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    HATE Is Not a Strong Enough Word...

    I seriously hate my ex-husband with a passion. He has screwed me over in so many ways that honestly I wish he would just die. Here's the backstory…we started dating back in HS when we were 15. I was never physically attracted to him, but he was first b/f and I never...
    Twest22 Twest22 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2008

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    Still Hate Him For What He's Done.

     Hello, I'm new.  My story - "out of the blue" my husband (aged 44) tells me that our 16 year marriage is over because there isn't enough "spark".   WTF?  We have 2 daughters, aged 12 and 13.  I just turned 40.  Our world all fell...
    AngryMummy AngryMummy 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    Man Up

    My exhusband has got to ne the biggest douch bag ever! He owes money for his half of dental and medical bills. Instead of being a responsible man he looks for loop holes so he doesnt have to pay. He acts like he is father of the year but in reality he's a piece of crap! When...
    melanie3030 melanie3030 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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    My ex husband of 18 years called me today

    and was extraordinarily and unusually kind. He was conversational and sweet- even a bit flirtatious. After years of abuse, kindness feels soothing to me from any source. He called me and asked to sleep with me (again, and um, no, again), and then invited me to dinner with him...
    PeachMoscato PeachMoscato 31-35, F Mar 17

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    I was married for 7 years to a man

    that destroyed me. He is the reason for my sex addiction. from the age of 19 to 26 I had absolutely no sex life, was emotionally abused, and physically abused at the very end. When I left him, found out that for 7 years he was actively destroying my credit and left me in debt. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 25, 2014

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    I Feel Silly For Even Complaining....

    BUT I'm so stuck.  I've been divorced for 6 years and every once in a while I HATE my ex-husband.  He still treats me with disrespect and hasn't been very good at paying regular child support for two years.. We had an incredibly amicable divorce and fairly calm 6...
    need2laff need2laff 41-45 5 Responses May 31, 2009

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    Ex Husband, The Bully, The Abuser

    I almost don't know where to start other than the biggest mistake of my life was marrying a man who grew up bullied by other children, bullied and abused by both his mother and father and filled with so much pain and hatred.  That pain and hatred was manifested to me and my now...
    karen92 karen92 41-45, F 29 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    New Here - What's Wrong With Hating Someone Who:

    1. Let his adult children insult me and blamed me for their hatred 2. Lied to me about his second wife.  He rally did live with her for eight years after they were divorced. 3.Called me fat and ugly and told me I'd fall apart when things got rough 4. Signed my name to...
    shushu shushu 56-60, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    My ex husband ruined the way I think about

    relationships. He was my first boyfriend and he took my virginity. I was with him for about 9 years but only married for 2. Because he was my first for everything, I was blind and ignored the people around me (friends and family) who tried to warn me about him. They saw the way...
    MammaWolfie MammaWolfie 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    Hate Is Not A Strong Enough Word

    I married in 2004 and within a couple of months I knew it was a horrible mistake.  He wouldn't let me do anything, even go to sleep at night, without him.  The only freedom I had was in my car to and from work.  Then I got pregnant in 2005, and his job moved to...
    lmozilo lmozilo 41-45 1 Response Jun 9, 2010

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    Grrr I need to vent! I'm tired of my ex lazy

    husband taking advantage of me. Guess I'm going to court I pay him for a lazy 19 year old who doesn't go to school full time (that was one of the stipulations), and a 14 year old who I have full time all summer! Plus, he expects me to pay for 45% of all other expenses! I have...
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    Parent At His Convience.

    Alright, here goes. I met my ex husband, collectively known as 'jerk face' by my family, when I was trying to rebuild my life... re-enter college, get myself together. Children weren't in the plan for years, but sometimes, things don't go as planned. I became very quickly...
    angryexarmywife angryexarmywife 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    He has emotionally abandoned his teen boys to

    go with his new doctor girlfriend - he puts her first - my boys have a gaping hole in their heart. I didn't have a lawyer and he did because he has the job and control of the money - I got royally screwed. I got the house and all the debt and two emotionally screwed up angry...
    LeanneTorio LeanneTorio 51-55, F Dec 28, 2014

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    We have been together 10 years,

    married 5. We are older.. No children except my grown son from previous marriage many years ago... Very disappointing and sad.. I know you should not stereo type but my husband the pipe fitter...has the mentality of what you would imagine some would say of a "blue collar worker...
    bekah930 bekah930 46-50 Mar 15

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    I Hate My Lying Cheating Narcissitic Alcoholic Ex Husband, He Used Me In Every Way

    I just divorced this year after a 3.5 year marriage and one child later. Early in the relationship my ex was constantly talking about wanting children. A year later he asked me to move in and we were pregnant 3 months later to his run down house he promised we would fix up and...
    lucyloo22 lucyloo22 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    He Makes Our Daughter Feel Guilty

    My ex called our 12 yr old daughter a few weeks ago and scolded her for not calling him when a tropical storm was approaching him.  Then he calls her a few days ago after we sent her school fundraiser info to him via email.  He says, "You barely call me, but you...
    hllbllygrl hllbllygrl 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2008

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    Hate Ex-husband And Can't Find A Way To Move On...

    I was married to my ex-husband for six years, together for nine total. We both thought we were one another's "soul-mate" and then within the second year of knowing him, things went down hill, but I still married him!?!?...I found out he had been cheating on me with many women...
    soulmisery65 soulmisery65 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    I hate my (soon-to-be) ex-husband.

    I can’t even begin to tell you how much he’s destroyed my life. I won’t even get into the years of abuse—physical and mental cruelty and violence. Him trying to crack my head on the edge of the refrigerator like it was an egg…. Or throwing my dinner on the floor and...
    juliannagoldenstein juliannagoldenstein 36-40 3 Responses Feb 19, 2014

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    I Have Never Hated Anyone As Much As You!

    I look at you and I get disgusted that I ever wanted to touch you, kiss you, love you.  You make me want to vomit. You want to know why I moved 300 miles away with our kids?  Because you would never allow me to have a life of my own if I was still there.  You...
    floridagirlal floridagirlal 36-40 6 Responses Nov 13, 2010

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    The Woman Who Suffered With The Devil Family.

    I got married at the age of nineteen. I was so happy and I thought my life would be roses and daisies from there on. I was horribly mistaken, my life was a living hell. My ex would hit me for nothing. His sister would take all my clothes and never return them. The problem is she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Him

    The one thing i try not to do is hate anyone off course we all dislike people thats life but hate is so strong but thats how i feel over my ex he is a control freak always has been guess he always will be, he made me a promise that he will destroy me and silly as it sounds i...
    mindy74 mindy74 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 26, 2008

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    I don't understand after 17 years of marriage

    counseling, reading marriage books together, praying together, I stil cannot understand my ex husband. Misunderstanding after misunderstanding, leading to constant heartache. Tears, tears and more tears. I finally left him. He was a true mamas boy for sure. He seemed so kind...
    2muchhate 2muchhate 41-45, F Apr 8, 2014

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