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I Hate My Ex-wife

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    I Know I'm Supposed To Hate My Ex. But I Can't Seem To Let Go.

    I don't hate my ex like Im supposed to, but she's unintentionally ruining my life I had met my ex when I was 21. we had a 4 year relationship that was relatively good. we had our spats, but all in all it was ok. however my family did not like her and that became a major source of...
    happysawfish happysawfish 36-40 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    I Couldn't Have Been A Better Husband...but Feel The Worst I Ever Have!!!

    What can I say? I used to be a real bad guy, the kinda guy that Oprah made a living of hating. I quit drinking (over 12 years now) went to college and got a good job. I met what I thought was a nice women and started dating.  We eventually got married and had 2 girls. Now...
    smorin71 smorin71 36-40 Jul 12, 2010

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    The Queen ***** of the Universe

    On May 26th of 2008, my first sergeant came up to me at work and told me, "I just got a call from your wife. She's on the mainland with the children (we live in Hawaii). She wouldn't tell me where, but said she left 2 days ago." I was devastated... Shocked... We were...
    Cunninglinguist Cunninglinguist 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 2, 2009

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    Cheating, Lying, Thief. I Hate Him..

    Yes I truly hate my ex.  We were married 12 yrs.  I never saw it coming but one day after sex he asked me for a divorce.  I was hurt, he never gave me a reason but that he didn't love me like he should.  Shortly after the divorce I found out  he had been lying to me along...
    Hesapig Hesapig 41-45 3 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    I Did Not Realize The Extent Of Her Lying Until The Divorce.

    This is still difficult to think about and discuss even after 20 yrs. But when you spend the last year and a half of your marriage asking if she was cheating on me and her answer was always NO! Then she tells you she is leaving you for another man it hurts and then she makes you...
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    I Lived With Satan And Survived!!!

    My story starts the same as many others. I was young and in love. I Married my High School Girlfriend by the age of 20 and I still regret it to this day. Things seemed to change after the 1st day of marriage. We lived together for a couple month before we got married to save...
    ironspirit ironspirit 26-30 May 10, 2011

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    It All Came Crashing Down !

    My wife of fifteen years left me for her her boss. Who also happened to be my best friend ! Left me last November and it still kills me. DOn't think she even thought about our kids. Especially when all she could tell was that "She needed to find out who she is". Or...
    angryandsad angryandsad 36-40 4 Responses Jul 26, 2008

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    Mrjohnson

    I HATE MY EX WIFE STINKIN ***** LIED AND CHEATED ON ME TOOK MY HOUSE THOUGH MY STUFF OUT IN THE ****** STREET AND MARRIED SOME FAT MOTHER ****** IN JAIL ITS OVER THERE IS NOTHING SHE CAN DO TO ME EVER AGAIN ITS MY TURN NOW
    mrjohnson2462 mrjohnson2462 41-45 Sep 15, 2012

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    It Was Never Enough

    My ex-wife is a few years younger than I am. We got married, and she never told me she had outstanding fines, and warrants against her. Our love life was very active, and she knew how to twist me to open the bank account. 3 years, $35,000 in fines and restitutions, and untold...
    hillbilly4570 hillbilly4570 31-35 1 Response Aug 28, 2012

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    Thank You, For Finally Leaving Me....

    Wow. How about that? Love, Marriage & Commitment – these things mean nothing to you... You can just walk away. Everything we had, gone. I’m ****** angry. Think back over the 5yrs. The house, the apartment, the coast, the travel, the fun and the games, the effort we went to...
    TSmokin TSmokin 31-35 Aug 14, 2012

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    COWARDLY Ex Wife

    Let's see...a few years ago, my Ex-wife was just finishing Med school. We were haveing some difficulties with the physical side of the relationship, as she was always stressed out about exams (which I didn't understand, because hell...when I'm stressed I WANT to get physical!). I...
    Karmaisabeast Karmaisabeast 36-40 3 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    I Hate Enough For Two Or Three Life Times

    That's right I'm going to take this hatred to my grave. I provided a life for the money grubbing piece of crap that I married and now she sits in the house that I bought for us and hosts whoever she wants and she got it for half price since I divorced her because I couldn't...
    givenup2180 givenup2180 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    Crazy Ex Keeping Us Jailed In The Same Street!!!

    I met my partner just over a year ago now. He was in the middle of a messy divorce and had been off again on again with his ex wife for a decade. I felt for him as his ex wife had total control over his whole life. Even after the divorce she shared a car with him, lived in the...
    prisioned prisioned 26-30 May 25, 2011

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    I Hate Brittaney Sooo Much!

    Watch what happens when somthing goes wrong right befor her eyes! Oh what a surprise she is pissed off... Again! The worst thing that I have ever called her is lazy, but yet I get called a **** and ******* everyday of my life. And why am I these things to her? Because I work two...
    Rynoman Rynoman 22-25 May 4, 2012

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    The Facts Just the Facts,

      The fact she hurt our kids when she destroyed our marriage is a good place to start. The fact she kicked our daughter out of her apartment because she wanted to live with some guy. The fact that our kids are still in therapy dealing with there emotional scares...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    A Mix of Hatred and Hurt That I Want Ot Let Go Of.

    I was married to a woman I had been with for 4 years our relationship was always rocky and she was very controlling, I have frequently had trouble with woman walking all over me. Once we got married it only became worse and she became habitally unemployed and we took on alot...
    enigma69 enigma69 31-35, M 5 Responses Oct 7, 2008

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    Deceived

    I married my wife on 07 07 07. I thought it was going to be a forever marriage. Knowing what I know now it looks like she could have been using me all along. She told me she was an artist and sold paintings in Chicago and made about $10,000. She worked on her own time because...
    dengen dengen 36-40 1 Response Jan 5, 2012

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    My Experience..Ten Years After

    I don't know if I can say I actually hate my ex-wife, but hopefully my experiences may help.  These days, to me at least, she's just a sad excuse for a person.  I'm sure a shrink would still say I have issues with her, but I honestly feel I moved on years ago.  We...
    FreeinNewEngland FreeinNewEngland 36-40 1 Response Sep 24, 2010

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    Let Me Live My Life.

    I have been divorced from her for more that a decade, we have two children.  I can never do anything right.  I am constantly hounded about money, what I do on my time with them, etc.  She is the one that ruined our marriage by being unfaithful.  Why can't she...
    floridad floridad 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    I Didn't Know The Level Of Crazy I Married

    Sum things up quickly. Met my wife at 18. Had a horrible on and off again relationship for two years. I enlisted in the USMC. Kept in touch kind of kept up our relationship. Long distance fighting basically. Well she dumped me a few months before I was set to deploy to Iraq. At...
    JBsetfree JBsetfree 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 16, 2010

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    My Ex-wife Is A *****!!!

    I hate my ex-wife for many reasons!! Where to start!!! Oh My GOD!!  She had a temper from hell, didn't know how to keep her legs closed, was hateful as hell.  She had many affairs on me(i was stupid for staying with her) while we were married.  I had to go by "...
    bigfootfanatic bigfootfanatic 41 Oct 24, 2009

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    Beat Me/ Robbed Me/ Cheated On Me. / Lied To Me

    she lied to me, ran up cc bills, assulted me,( more than once) last time she put me in hospital with her beating.. when i got out of hosp she had moved out , robbed me, and reported to p[olice i assulted HER ! i showed police my hosp photos and hosp report.. they stopped...
    newmexman newmexman 61-65, M Nov 23, 2013

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    Good Men/lying Trifling Women

    She put on a good show. She's a lying, manipulative, poisonous woman. My poor brother and his children are the victims of her psychosis. All she wants is money. She doesn' t want to work for her own money, or provide stability for her 3 children. On the contrary, she wants to...
    marksgirl143 marksgirl143 41-45 3 Responses Jul 29, 2011

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    Deliverance From Evil

    As I ponder the years of marriage...marriage that wasn't all so bad that has taken a toll on me and my little girls. It is not HATE that I have in my heart but a strong sense of my emotions that have boiled over to the state of mindless garbage spewing from my clenched jaws for I...
    drttt drttt 41-45 Apr 7, 2013

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    I Do Hate My Ex-wife!

    There are very few people in this world that I actually hate, and my ex is on the top of that list. I have only been at it for almost 5 years, and it seems to get worse every year. She is a redhead, and in this case stands true to the stereotype. I was still in the Marine Corp...
    taharper071117 taharper071117 26-30 3 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    Daughter Found Out Ex Wife Was ****!

    I had been divorced a long time when my 18yo daughter called me in tears saying she wanted to move back home with me said her mother was a **** and she couldnt live with her anymore. I agreed to drive over the next day and talk to her if she was still upset I would take her back...
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M Dec 14, 2011

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    Ex Is A Sicko

    For as long as know, my ex wife has encouraged my daughter to call me Darren,  "my first name" to my daughter instead of 'Dad'. My now 21 year old daughter still calls me by my first name. And I hate it. I try not to take it personal and try to ignor it, but it upsets me...
    drgardiner drgardiner 41-45 1 Response Oct 10, 2011

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    Where To Begin?

    This will be an ongoing saga of my divorce experience. Originally I was searching for methods to avoid hating my former wife. Apparently, I'm supposed to go through this cycle of "hate" or hateful feelings-- more like loathsome feelings for her ineptitude period during the course...
    Exiled17 Exiled17 41-45, M Jun 23, 2013

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    Feel Nothing But Hate

    After 10 years of marriage I was thrown out like a piece of trash. I spent our entire time together working 6 or 7 days a week to provide a good life for her and our 2 daughters, just like that she decided she no longer wanted to be with me and everything wrong with our marriage...
    trdgrr trdgrr 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 25, 2010

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    I Hate Ex Wife She Still Caused My Life Wrecked!

    I have divorced her but she told judge im the moldesation, but She had 16 year old sex with their parent called police when i was separated her and she left the 3 sons, alone while she gone to sex 16 year old, but shes Free lady so finally i divorced last year and then she ran...
    tbubba tbubba 41-45 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Hate Is a Little Weak...

    Well I thought that she could no longer hurt me or make me angry, YA little did I know. Well she has meet the love of her life now and she is moving back to South Ga. to be with her new love. All of that is fine with me I have moved on and could care less who she is in bed with...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 6 Responses Apr 7, 2009

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    She Took It All!

    My ex wife is a psycho. 15 years ago we got divorced. She kept all my things, took my children away from me, & took most of income. She followed me, vandalized my car, sat in front of my house. After a few weeks of this I returned some of her bad behavior. She then called a...
    Taken2thecleaners Taken2thecleaners 46-50 2 Responses May 11, 2009

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    Ex Is Tring To Make Me Broke

    out of 3 sons, one won't live with me. Plus he's the only one in Catholic school. Ex is coming at me for child support and school support - just around $2k a month. I asked her lawyer "how am I supposed to take care of my other two kids?" and he basically shrugged. Not his...
    BluesPlayer76 BluesPlayer76 51-55, M Jun 2, 2011

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    Distance

    my parents were divorced, I never knew my father, I've haven't been very consistently successful in my life. I've gone from job to job and relationship to relationship my whole life, so, obviously, I have lots of issues. 7 years ago I met my soon to be ex wife. I was getting over...
    jeorgew jeorgew 46-50 Sep 3, 2012

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    20 Years...i Got The Kids She Got Her Freedom....

    I married her while she was pregnant with another man's baby. I knew the baby wasn't mine when we married but I thought I loved her so it didn't matter. We had three more kids together, a total of four kids, three boys and a girl. At around our 18th anniversary she announced...
    TonyClifton TonyClifton 41-45 Apr 17, 2011

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    The Lying

    I never realized who I was married to until after the process of this Divorce. I always thought we'd be married till death. When a woman says she's leaving because she "just can't take it anymore!" DON'T YOU BELIEVE IT!!! It's just the beginning of the taking. First she...
    BrokenHeartedBubba BrokenHeartedBubba 41-45 2 Responses Sep 4, 2010

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    Crazy Ex Wife

    Married 19 years,to a woman who controlled,threatened,screamed,insulted not just me but the kids too,stayed with her for the kids sake because I figured if we divorced she would get custody and my kids would be soley raised by this wacko abusive woman.Looking back I see I should...
    ThankGodIEscaped ThankGodIEscaped 46-50 Apr 4, 2011

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    Why

    Me and my wife were married for 10 years..im 20 years older than her..she was jut turning 19.and i was 30''.i lived with her for 2 years befor we got married.told her i wanted to be sure because i had been married 3 times before.she told me not to worry that she would never do...
    myfurrylittlebabies myfurrylittlebabies 46-50 Jan 11, 2013

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    And I'm Supposed To Be The Bad One

    I don't like to use the word "hate", but it really fits my ex-wife. This is just one of the reasons (I could probably write a few dozen stories in this group alone). I'm supposed to see my daughter for 30 days in the summer as long as they're not contiguous. This year,. I decided...
    JAGandVSfan JAGandVSfan 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 29, 2011

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    Over 20 Years And I Still Hate Her!

    She was awful as a wife but she is worse as an ex wife!
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M Oct 4, 2011

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    I Hate My Ex Wife So Much Id Kill Myself Just To Spite Her.

    I was with my missery for eleven years, we only got married on our 10 annaversary and didnt even make our first wedding annaversary. So the story goes, we had a child together 10 years ago who is severely disabled, wheelchair bound for life. So needless to say we had a pretty...
    myexsuxdogsoff myexsuxdogsoff 36-40 3 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    A Little Background

    I grew up in a broken home and therefore tried my best not to have one myself after I got married. I was married for almost 12 years and of that my ex-wife (wife) cheated on me. I was more accepting of this than I should have been but I was in the military and gone for long...
    Runoverbylegalsystem Runoverbylegalsystem 41-45, M Jun 28, 2012

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    24 Year Deception

    My soon to be Ex Shall we call her MKC,has taken me for a 24 year ride.Well the ride is over good riddence.A little history here when we met she was the light of my live even though I was Married at the time. She said I was her true love and all that good stuff I was on cloud...
    DJC59 DJC59 51-55 1 Response Dec 12, 2011

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    Can't Seem to Let Go

    I really don't want to share my story right now, but I would like to ask what people have done to let it go. We separated in Septmember of '08, divorced in March of '09. This week would have been our anniversary...I guess that's why its been hard recently. I want to let...
    tex567 tex567 26-30 19 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Dealing With Hate

    I never hated anyone before but I can't shake this feeling of hate I have for my soon to be ex wife for what she has done to my children and myself. It's been 3 years now and I just can't let it go. The only reason I'm civil to her is for the sake of my 2 young children, but I...
    mwm555 mwm555 51-55, M Oct 30, 2013

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    Not Hate

    After reading some of these stories, I had to write, there are a lot of similarities to my story. In 2004 my wife told me to leave, this happened on Christmas day, soon after, she hooked up with some guy, it lasted about 2 months. The divorce process lasted for 2 years then she...
    soundhore soundhore 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2009

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    Hate Filled

    It takes too much energy to hate her.  She left me for another man.   My daughters softball coach.  I begged her for two years to stop having this "emotional affair" while is slept downstairs every night, not even allowed to see her.   I hate her so much for what she has...
    greenman1966 greenman1966 41-45 Jun 2, 2012

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    It Never Ends . . . .

    God where to begin. . . .well i guess i can post this in several seprate posts. . . . I got divorced 4 years ago, and things are getting even worse for me becuase of my ex-wife.  When I got divorced, I was making a lot of money each year, (about 65k/year) and I got...
    Herder Herder 31-35 5 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    What a ******* Piece of ****...

    My children were supposed to leave on an airplane tonight at 7:16 pm to make their way here accompanied by their mother. Their mom called me from the airport at 6:54 pm stating she had been there for almost 30 minutes... she claimed she'd JUST returned from a trip to Florida to...
    Cunninglinguist Cunninglinguist 36-40, M 7 Responses Jun 7, 2009

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    Mr Sick Of It

    Im a father of 4, Married and very happy. I was divorced from my first wife 7 yrs ago in which we had a son together, remarried 5 yrs ago, when me and my now wife had our first child together, My ex started! She demanded that I spend all my time with our son and no one else when...
    Tired73 Tired73 36-40 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    I Don't Hate My Ex But I Hate What She Does To Me, My Wife And Our Children

    I don't hate my ex wife but I do hate how she act and what she does. My ex and I have been divorced for almost three years, we have to children together. I have been remarried for alittle over two years now my new wife and I have two children together. My ex has threatened me...
    LoveMyKidsHateMyEx LoveMyKidsHateMyEx 26-30 1 Response May 17, 2010

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    Today I just need to vent. I know that I shouldn't hate her, and that honestly, love - not romantic- but agape or unconditional love is the only way ahead. I honestly don't know if...
    Boredonline4discovery Boredonline4discovery 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 14

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