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I Hate My Ex-wife

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    I Hate My Ex Wife So Much Id Kill Myself Just To Spite Her. - I was with my missery for eleven years, we only got married on our 10 annaversary and didnt even make our first...
    myexsuxdogsoff myexsuxdogsoff 36-40 3 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    Can't Seem to Let Go - I really don't want to share my story right now, but I would like to ask what people have done to let it go. We separated in Septmember of '08, divorced...
    tex567 tex567 26-30 18 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Where To Begin? - This will be an ongoing saga of my divorce experience. Originally I was searching for methods to avoid hating my former wife. Apparently, I'm supposed to go...
    Exiled17 Exiled17 41-45, M Jun 23, 2013

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    Not Hate - After reading some of these stories, I had to write, there are a lot of similarities to my story. In 2004 my wife told me to leave, this happened on Christmas day, soon...
    soundhore soundhore 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2009

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    My Ex-wife Is A *****!!! - I hate my ex-wife for many reasons!! Where to start!!! Oh My GOD!!  She had a temper from hell, didn't know how to keep her legs closed, was hateful...
    bigfootfanatic bigfootfanatic 41 Oct 24, 2009

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    My Experience..Ten Years After - I don't know if I can say I actually hate my ex-wife, but hopefully my experiences may help.  These days, to me at least, she's just a sad...
    FreeinNewEngland FreeinNewEngland 36-40 1 Response Sep 24, 2010

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    Why - Me and my wife were married for 10 years..im 20 years older than her..she was jut turning 19.and i was 30''.i lived with her for 2 years befor we got married.told her i...
    myfurrylittlebabies myfurrylittlebabies 46-50 Jan 11, 2013

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    It Never Ends . . . . - God where to begin. . . .well i guess i can post this in several seprate posts. . . . I got divorced 4 years ago, and things are getting even worse for me...
    Herder Herder 31-35 5 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    Deliverance From Evil - As I ponder the years of marriage...marriage that wasn't all so bad that has taken a toll on me and my little girls. It is not HATE that I have in my heart...
    drttt drttt 41-45 Apr 7, 2013

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    Thank You, For Finally Leaving Me.... - Wow. How about that? Love, Marriage & Commitment – these things mean nothing to you... You can just walk away. Everything we had, gone. I...
    TSmokin TSmokin 31-35 Aug 14, 2012

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    20 Years...i Got The Kids She Got Her Freedom.... - I married her while she was pregnant with another man's baby. I knew the baby wasn't mine when we married but I thought I...
    TonyClifton TonyClifton 41-45 Apr 17, 2011

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    Feel Nothing But Hate - After 10 years of marriage I was thrown out like a piece of trash. I spent our entire time together working 6 or 7 days a week to provide a good life for...
    trdgrr trdgrr 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 25, 2010

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    A Little Background - I grew up in a broken home and therefore tried my best not to have one myself after I got married. I was married for almost 12 years and of that my ex-wife...
    Runoverbylegalsystem Runoverbylegalsystem 41-45, M Jun 28, 2012

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    I Didn't Know The Level Of Crazy I Married - Sum things up quickly. Met my wife at 18. Had a horrible on and off again relationship for two years. I enlisted in the USMC. Kept in...
    JBsetfree JBsetfree 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 16, 2010

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    The Queen ***** of the Universe - On May 26th of 2008, my first sergeant came up to me at work and told me, "I just got a call from your wife. She's on the mainland with the...
    Cunninglinguist Cunninglinguist 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 2, 2009

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    I Know I'm Supposed To Hate My Ex. But I Can't Seem To Let Go. - I don't hate my ex like Im supposed to, but she's unintentionally ruining my life I had met my ex when I was 21. we...
    happysawfish happysawfish 36-40 1 Response Jan 2, 2012

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    The Lying - I never realized who I was married to until after the process of this Divorce. I always thought we'd be married till death. When a woman says she's leaving because...
    BrokenHeartedBubba BrokenHeartedBubba 41-45 2 Responses Sep 4, 2010

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    Good Men/lying Trifling Women - She put on a good show. She's a lying, manipulative, poisonous woman. My poor brother and his children are the victims of her psychosis. All she...
    marksgirl143 marksgirl143 41-45 3 Responses Jul 29, 2011

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    Crazy Ex Wife - Married 19 years,to a woman who controlled,threatened,screamed,insulted not just me but the kids too,stayed with her for the kids sake because I figured if we...
    ThankGodIEscaped ThankGodIEscaped 46-50 Apr 4, 2011

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    Cheating, Lying, Thief. I Hate Him.. - Yes I truly hate my ex.  We were married 12 yrs.  I never saw it coming but one day after sex he asked me for a divorce.  I was hurt, he...
    Hesapig Hesapig 41-45 3 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    I Hate Ex Wife She Still Caused My Life Wrecked! - I have divorced her but she told judge im the moldesation, but She had 16 year old sex with their parent called police when i was...
    tbubba tbubba 41-45 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    The Facts Just the Facts, -   The fact she hurt our kids when she destroyed our marriage is a good place to start. The fact she kicked our daughter out of her apartment...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    I Hate Enough For Two Or Three Life Times - That's right I'm going to take this hatred to my grave. I provided a life for the money grubbing piece of crap that I married and now...
    givenup2180 givenup2180 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    She Took It All! - My ex wife is a psycho. 15 years ago we got divorced. She kept all my things, took my children away from me, & took most of income. She followed me...
    Taken2thecleaners Taken2thecleaners 46-50 2 Responses May 11, 2009

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    Over 20 Years And I Still Hate Her! - She was awful as a wife but she is worse as an ex wife!
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M Oct 4, 2011

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    Beat Me/ Robbed Me/ Cheated On Me. / Lied To Me - she lied to me, ran up cc bills, assulted me,( more than once) last time she put me in hospital with her beating.. when i got...
    newmexman newmexman 61-65, M Nov 23, 2013

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    Hate Is a Little Weak... - Well I thought that she could no longer hurt me or make me angry, YA little did I know. Well she has meet the love of her life now and she is moving back...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 6 Responses Apr 7, 2009

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    A Mix of Hatred and Hurt That I Want Ot Let Go Of. - I was married to a woman I had been with for 4 years our relationship was always rocky and she was very controlling, I...
    enigma69 enigma69 31-35, M 5 Responses Oct 7, 2008

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    I Do Hate My Ex-wife! - There are very few people in this world that I actually hate, and my ex is on the top of that list. I have only been at it for almost 5 years, and it seems...
    taharper071117 taharper071117 26-30 3 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    I Hate Brittaney Sooo Much! - Watch what happens when somthing goes wrong right befor her eyes! Oh what a surprise she is pissed off... Again! The worst thing that I have ever...
    Rynoman Rynoman 22-25 May 4, 2012

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    I Lived With Satan And Survived!!! - My story starts the same as many others. I was young and in love. I Married my High School Girlfriend by the age of 20 and I still regret it to...
    ironspirit ironspirit 26-30 May 10, 2011

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    Dealing With Hate - I never hated anyone before but I can't shake this feeling of hate I have for my soon to be ex wife for what she has done to my children and myself. It's been 3...
    mwm555 mwm555 51-55, M Oct 30, 2013

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    I Couldn't Have Been A Better Husband...but Feel The Worst I Ever Have!!! - What can I say? I used to be a real bad guy, the kinda guy that Oprah made a living of hating. I quit...
    smorin71 smorin71 36-40 Jul 12, 2010

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    It All Came Crashing Down ! - My wife of fifteen years left me for her her boss. Who also happened to be my best friend ! Left me last November and it still kills me. DOn't think...
    angryandsad angryandsad 36-40 4 Responses Jul 26, 2008

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    Deceived - I married my wife on 07 07 07. I thought it was going to be a forever marriage. Knowing what I know now it looks like she could have been using me all along. She told...
    dengen dengen 36-40 1 Response Jan 5, 2012

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    Daughter Found Out Ex Wife Was ****! - I had been divorced a long time when my 18yo daughter called me in tears saying she wanted to move back home with me said her mother was a...
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M Dec 14, 2011

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    Ex Is A Sicko - For as long as know, my ex wife has encouraged my daughter to call me Darren,  "my first name" to my daughter instead of 'Dad'. My now 21 year old daughter...
    drgardiner drgardiner 41-45 1 Response Oct 10, 2011

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    Ex Is Tring To Make Me Broke - out of 3 sons, one won't live with me. Plus he's the only one in Catholic school. Ex is coming at me for child support and school support - just...
    BluesPlayer76 BluesPlayer76 51-55, M Jun 2, 2011

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    Hate Filled - It takes too much energy to hate her.  She left me for another man.   My daughters softball coach.  I begged her for two years to stop having this "emotional...
    greenman1966 greenman1966 41-45 Jun 2, 2012

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    Crazy Ex Keeping Us Jailed In The Same Street!!! - I met my partner just over a year ago now. He was in the middle of a messy divorce and had been off again on again with his ex...
    prisioned prisioned 26-30 May 25, 2011

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    Mrjohnson - I HATE MY EX WIFE STINKIN ***** LIED AND CHEATED ON ME TOOK MY HOUSE THOUGH MY STUFF OUT IN THE ****** STREET AND MARRIED SOME FAT MOTHER ****** IN JAIL ITS OVER THERE...
    mrjohnson2462 mrjohnson2462 41-45 Sep 15, 2012

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    And I'm Supposed To Be The Bad One - I don't like to use the word "hate", but it really fits my ex-wife. This is just one of the reasons (I could probably write a few dozen stories...
    JAGandVSfan JAGandVSfan 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 29, 2011

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    Distance - my parents were divorced, I never knew my father, I've haven't been very consistently successful in my life. I've gone from job to job and relationship to relationship...
    jeorgew jeorgew 46-50 Sep 3, 2012

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    I Don't Hate My Ex But I Hate What She Does To Me, My Wife And Our Children - I don't hate my ex wife but I do hate how she act and what she does. My ex and I have been divorced...
    LoveMyKidsHateMyEx LoveMyKidsHateMyEx 26-30 1 Response May 17, 2010

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    It Was Never Enough - My ex-wife is a few years younger than I am. We got married, and she never told me she had outstanding fines, and warrants against her. Our love life was...
    hillbilly4570 hillbilly4570 31-35 1 Response Aug 28, 2012

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    Mr Sick Of It - Im a father of 4, Married and very happy. I was divorced from my first wife 7 yrs ago in which we had a son together, remarried 5 yrs ago, when me and my now wife...
    Tired73 Tired73 36-40 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    COWARDLY Ex Wife - Let's see...a few years ago, my Ex-wife was just finishing Med school. We were haveing some difficulties with the physical side of the relationship, as she was...
    Karmaisabeast Karmaisabeast 36-40 3 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    Let Me Live My Life. - I have been divorced from her for more that a decade, we have two children.  I can never do anything right.  I am constantly hounded about money...
    floridad floridad 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    What a ******* Piece of ****... - My children were supposed to leave on an airplane tonight at 7:16 pm to make their way here accompanied by their mother. Their mom called me from...
    Cunninglinguist Cunninglinguist 36-40, M 7 Responses Jun 7, 2009

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    I Did Not Realize The Extent Of Her Lying Until The Divorce. - This is still difficult to think about and discuss even after 20 yrs. But when you spend the last year and a half of...
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    24 Year Deception - My soon to be Ex Shall we call her MKC,has taken me for a 24 year ride.Well the ride is over good riddence.A little history here when we met she was the light...
    DJC59 DJC59 51-55 1 Response Dec 12, 2011

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