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I Hate My Family

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    I hate myself for having dedicated

    so much time and attention to my parents. I live overseas, and I have to travel at least 124 hours on a plane to go and visit. And until now, I have gone 3 times per year, even if for 3 or for days. I am not going to list what it costed me until now in dollars, but rather I want...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    Well its thanksgiving,

    Some of my dads side of the family are here. Thanksgiving and Christmas are my least favorite holidays, because they are suppose to be about family, which ours doesn't have that family love going. Before I start I want to say there are millions of more people out there with...
    wesv wesv 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    I Rather Be An Orphan From The First Day Of My Life

    I've had enough of staying in a home that treats me like a convict and frames me for everything I did not do. Many people desire a family out there, but what is the point of having a family that is no better than your enemies? Born as a middle child and a black sheep, I never ask...
    Reccur Reccur 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I honestly hate being talked down to.

    I don't care how old a person is they do not have a right to consider me responding to them talking back. I am 18 years old, I am never rude to people, I go out of my way to be nice to them most of them time. If I had the choice I'd be alone all of them. These people can go to...
    corissajane corissajane 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1

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    My Family

    My dad hates me... a lot... he says that im an accident. Even when i have friends over, he'll say im a stupid f@got.. ive gotten so used to him saying that, that whenever my friends comes over, i tell them to not respond to what my dad says... he doesn't even consider me as his...
    FrozenNightmare FrozenNightmare 18-21, M 10 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Sometimes Wish I Could Just Divorce'em All

    I really hate my so called family. A realtive of mine enjoys starting arguments and like to talk people down to make itself feel righteous. It shared "anonymous" post about and put out false fact as said i don't have my priorities straight. F*** her, it don't pay all my...
    dontjudgementovanite dontjudgementovanite 22-25 2 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    i hate my family. my parents

    and sister are always fighting. i feel stressed out all the time. i have anxiety problems but no one believes me. i just want to run away from them. i hate how i am treated. i have blackouts(google about them) , but my mom does not even care. i fell down and fainted my mom was a...
    drag9624 drag9624 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    How I Learned To Stop Hating My Family And Hate Myself

    The title of this post says it all. My family taught me to hate everything about myself and has made my life a living hell as far back as I can remember. In fact, I can't even remember a time when I enjoyed being around them at all. I realize that my past thirty years have been...
    ricomaurer ricomaurer 26-30 6 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    They are only willing to accept

    and love me if I conform to certain standards and convention regardless of my personal feelings, they threaten me with either violence, isolation and abandonment if I, even in small ways, express the fact that my world view is different. They ask me to hide myself and lie. If...
    morphinecloud morphinecloud 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I hate not getting along with family,

    u feel bad so u get angry at someone else... Go away
    papparrazzi papparrazzi 16-17, F a week ago

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    I Hate My 'family'.

    I absolutely, positively, hate my family.  Not just hate them in the way some people do, like 'Oh they annoy me' or 'They're always in my business'. I hate them for who and what they are more so than for what they've done to me.  If I didn't know any better I would...
    krystarp krystarp 22-25 4 Responses Sep 2, 2010

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    People think its just

    because of my age. No. I don't care if these people are supposedly related to me, I hate who they are. I hate their personalities, not just because I have to live with them.But I will change that one day, and it all will finally be over.
    JezebelWhitman JezebelWhitman 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I know people expect to hear

    that teenagers hate there family, but I honestly despise them, hate feeling invisible in a room full of relatives, usually people have a parent they can rely on.. mine's definitely NOT my mom, funny thing is, my dad left when I was younger and I haven't seen him since, strange...
    DayzEvenden DayzEvenden 16-17, F Nov 17

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    Everyday its the same routine .

    All we do is argue and fight , were fighting right now , well they are. im trying to get away from it all . No one is Happy anymore , im happy when im away from them and im alone . i dont even like to walk near them or sometimes be in the same room as them Holidays are the only...
    LunarDream LunarDream 16-17, M 6 Responses May 19

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    ******* hate them.. At times I appreciate them

    but most of the time they **** me off and annoy me and invade my space...
    catho catho 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    To Be Hurt

    At the age of 12 is when i realized the world isnt perfect. I noticed patterns in the way people lied and how they were able not to be caught.After seeing my sister sneak away from the mall to go sleep with a crack head and return to the mall just when our parents...
    solisgirl solisgirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    My ******* Stupid Family

    well i was just down staires and my mum and my ******* dad are talking to me about my health and that i need to lose some weight and i am already 5.2 and i need to get to a size 0!  they keep on nagging me to ******* hell! i hate my family for instants: My dad is a...
    nicole040396 nicole040396 16-18, F 53 Responses Oct 21, 2007

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    Father- physical abuser likes to shove his kids

    into walls, strangles me and pushes us through glass doors- for merely talking back to him. Mother- the most fakest person you will ever meet. She is envious of her children and always sees us as a punching bag for her to yell abuse at. Everything is apparently my fault, as...
    wazza7 wazza7 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    Having come from a broken home,

    you kinda accept certain ***** easily with out any hesitate.
    alissabd alissabd 18-21, F 1 Response May 30

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    Im so ******* tired of my family telling me

    that I'm not trying. Im so tired of coming in this house every day and them making me feel like ****. I am trying my damn hardest. You cannot be mad at me because I didn't do something I was never taught to do and you're not even bothering to help me when I ask for it. I knew as...
    n0rthernwind n0rthernwind 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    Love my husband but hate his entire family (3

    young adult kids and a brother & sister)--I seem to be allergic to them! It's especially tough around the holidays. Can anyone relate?
    BAR112 BAR112 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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    my ******* mom is an alcoholic my dad is the

    worlds biggest ***** and my brother gets high off of axe spray
    jason129 jason129 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    I wish I could have been one of those people

    that raves about how close and loving their family is, but I'm not. I'm the ******* opposite. Something wrong always happens among my family members. And when that **** happens, they exert their negativity and problems on others. It's extremely annoying. And since I still live...
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 16-17, F Dec 5

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    I want to leave home am 16 my parents are

    always ignoring me and yelling at me for everything/always say negative things about me they also wish that I was gone out of their life's I cry almost everyday asking god to take my life away am miserable help anyone?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 27

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    My family is rude to me

    and abusing me
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I've always had issues with my family,

    but over the past few years, things have hit a head. When I was younger, I battled with anorexia and suicide. My mother knew, but didn't do anything about it. I literally gave her a book of poetry I wrote outlining everything and I found it in the same spot it was in after I...
    twiztx twiztx 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 18

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    popcornpillows popcornpillows 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I hate my family... I get shouted at by my mum

    and my dad sit there and does nothing... Like a *****... somedays I want to curl up in ball and cry... Also I want to run away but j can't I have no way yo go... Stuck in a hell hole
    littletease littletease 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 7

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    I know I'm not a perfect child.

    But my family (mostly my mom) feel the need to constantly remind me im ****** up. My mom made fun of me when she found out I self harm. She constantly tells me i have no potential and I'll never finish school being who I am. She isn't a good mother. She needs to walk out on this...
    oxoxJillianxoxo oxoxJillianxoxo 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 26

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    I hate it when my grandmother sister comes

    downs. All she does it yell at me and tell me how mess up I am. She say everything that happen to me was my fault. I don't need her telling me it was because I believe it was. I'm trying not to cut but it's so hard not to cut. I feel like I'm no good for any thing. I want to cut...
    wisdomgirl wisdomgirl 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    "family". A Joke.

    Most normal people have pretty normal families. My whole life I've secretly dreamed of having a mom, dad, a house with a garage and a dog, or something. Something "normal", that would make my house feel like a home. Your family is supposed to understand how you feel and...
    SylphNoir SylphNoir 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    i feel like there always attacking me ,

    trying to see me fail . i try so hard to make them love me but its like everything is my fault. i also think i have depression i cant control my anger , im scared and sad . i didn't even mean to hit her that one time she just kept screaming and reminding me that i'm dumb and...
    summersusie summersusie 13-15, F Nov 28

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    My dads never home and

    when he is he wants nothing to do with me and my mom is a narcissistic woman who drinks white wine from the bottle
    awesomeboy98 awesomeboy98 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 26

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    It's the day after Christmas,

    this time of the year should be filled with joy, laughter and love. But all I can think about is how much I hate my family. I never asked to be born into this family, now the thought of continuing to live in the same house as them makes me depressed. I have no emotional...
    staythenight staythenight 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Ever since I was a child I hated my family.

    Mainly my distant family and sometimes my close family. They have always put me down, making fun of my weight, how I look, and what I did. I am in my early 20s now and try my best to avoid them. I still live with my father and step-mom. I don't like staying home and when I don't...
    ksgirl93 ksgirl93 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    They are ignorant, judgmental,

    and racist. I can't stand them. I'd prefer not even to be near them if it were possible. Not only that but they are so depressed over my views. I think it's about time they've gotten over my views on religion, and start fixing their judgmental and prejudice views.
    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I hate family get togethers,

    I hate Christmas. I hate thanksgiving, I hate Easter, I hate everything. They are all drama, someone always ends up getting hurt from a fight, I'm always the one to clean up after everyone else and I'm just sick if hearing everyone complain.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Doesn't everybody?!!!

    ???................
    BloodRedDarkness BloodRedDarkness 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I Divorced My Family, And It Was The Best Thing I Ever Did!

    I don't understand why "other" people think families are so wonderful.  My parents raised paper dolls and tore them into strips with great regularity.   I had to run away and use a lot of scotch tape to put the pieces back together.  It is my greatest hope in life to become...
    Unfazed Unfazed 51-55 7 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    I'd Kill Them If I Could.

    I hate my ******* family. I hate everything about them. I believe 95% of my life problems stem from them. They are the reason everything is wrong in my life. They are two-faced, gossiping, judgemental, narrow-minded pieces of ****, who deserve the worst.I dont know what I did to...
    Sillymee Sillymee 18-21, F 50 Responses Jan 17, 2009

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    Except My Brother...

    My mom is sooooooooooo over controlling, when I was a kid all she would do is threaten me to get me to do what she wanted. Take away this that and the other thing until I had nothing at all and she could get me to do whatever she liked. My dad was right... Because of her actions...
    EmpowermentProject EmpowermentProject 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    My mom asked me to mop the floor

    and I didn't do it so my brother did. He then stands outside my door and yells at me how I don't do anything around the house and how he thinks I am going to drop out of high school in 11th grade. He also said that I am a worthless, no good, lazy *****. Thanks man, but I know...
    ThePumpkinQueen ThePumpkinQueen 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    They never listen to my side of anything,

    just my sisters or whatever one they want and yell at me! My dad constantly makes fat jokes and calls everyone a ****** even though he knows it annoys me. I am blamed every time he is low on money, even though I mostly buy my own stuff or have my grandma buy it for me. My entire...
    8pointhunter 8pointhunter 16-17, M Dec 4

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    I Hate My Blood

    My family is the worsed I think about leaving everyday,i would leave right this second if i had anywhere to go I have no connection to any of them,every one of them hate me and not just my family like cousins familly all of them hate me,yell at me,put me down,dispise me,abuse...
    AussieListener AussieListener 18-21, M 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    They're just horrible people.

    That's all I need to say.
    BloodRedDarkness BloodRedDarkness 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    Why did i have to be put with this group of

    people. My mom gets mad over every little thing and even things i dont have control over but still she gets mad and gives me more death threats and tells me how worthless i am and how im not anyone important . im kinda use to it and it doesnt hurt as much cause i really...
    LunarDream LunarDream 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 4

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    sometimes i ******* hate my family.

    ..they dont give a **** about me at all and only care about my siblings,it really hurts...im still in high school and im facing so many challenges on my own,even my friends cant help cause its my own private problems...my family is very broken and i have no idea what to do since...
    mylifeisfuckedup mylifeisfuckedup 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    When I'm with my friends I'm laughing all the

    time and I feel like myself with them. Whenever I have a prooblem I let it out with them. But when I'm at home with my family, I never want to talk to them. I don't feel comfortable with them to talk about anything, or even joke with them. I feel like I connect with strangers...
    Nothingfeelsright Nothingfeelsright 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm Nadia. I'm 15 years old living in Sydney,

    Australia and unfortunately, I despise my family. I was born and raised in a strict Muslim household and am not allowed to do anything. My older sister, aged 19, is now getting an arrange marriage and honestly, she couldn't be happier. I know when my time comes I'll be...
    int3gritee int3gritee 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Really. My moms side is Christian.

    .. Gay hating scumbags. My dads side ... Don't even get my started. (Only know my dads siblings)
    walkinwonder walkinwonder 16-17, F Nov 18

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    so I received a letter from my nan yesterday,

    but it wasn't a nice or happy letter, nope, it was a letter telling my that I was supposed to get aborted, by her daughter, and that I was a mistake, so last night I tried to kill myself, but thanks to I'm using their username and not their name, Ditum and I think its Preston I...
    ayyeitsellie ayyeitsellie 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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