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I Hate My Family

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    Ok I was a foster child till 19.

    My dad and mom didn't want me but they kept my brother don't know how. So now I'm 31, the family is mad at me because I want nothing to do with any of them. Now they want to be all nice and say they love me. This really makes me mad. They tell me I need to get over things in the...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I'm Nadia. I'm 15 years old living in Sydney,

    Australia and unfortunately, I despise my family. I was born and raised in a strict Muslim household and am not allowed to do anything. My older sister, aged 19, is now getting an arrange marriage and honestly, she couldn't be happier. I know when my time comes I'll be...
    int3gritee int3gritee 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2014

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    Why did i have to be put with this group of

    people. My mom gets mad over every little thing and even things i dont have control over but still she gets mad and gives me more death threats and tells me how worthless i am and how im not anyone important . im kinda use to it and it doesnt hurt as much cause i really...
    LunarDream LunarDream 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 4, 2014

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    I Am Done..theur all cut off.

    ..my mom makes it very clear that she doesn't love me. she says it daily. my brother does the most messed up stuff and my mom makes me take the fall.. tonight i almost got arrested cause of something my brother did.this is the second time iv almost went to jail cause of him...
    LunarDream LunarDream 16-17, M 10 Responses Jan 20

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    This "family" is driving me insane,

    and I can't take it anymore. I was trying to make myself something to eat. I wasn't anticipating our eggs to be in sub-par conditions because one of them exploded in my face. So, I'm trying to clean up the mess from the egg and my mom starts yelling at me for the mess. I...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i'm studying overseas,

    the day after tomorrow my family came to visit me. but i stay together with my boyfriend, since my family doesn't know we stay together and they not encouraging us to stay together my boyfriend must move out when my family come to visit me.
    sweetberry88 sweetberry88 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Im Tired of Being Abused

    i dont want this anymore.   i ask for help, but nobody hears me.   im tired of being beaten up and ridiculed and yelled at and im tired of having to defend myself all the time to deaf ears, im tired of having to hide when everybody comes home, im tired of...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 15 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    I'm 18 years old and I'm an avid Christian,

    but I can't help but hate my family for the things they put me through. They call me the "accident baby" in the family cause my parents didn't expect for a 4th baby (which is me), and until now they do. I used to be the ugliest and the smallest among my sisters while people...
    Lilliane19 Lilliane19 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    my family sucks. They're

    so rude and only care about themselves. Is this what you call a family?
    TheDevilInTheMirror TheDevilInTheMirror 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I Hate My Blood

    My family is the worsed I think about leaving everyday,i would leave right this second if i had anywhere to go I have no connection to any of them,every one of them hate me and not just my family like cousins familly all of them hate me,yell at me,put me down,dispise me,abuse...
    AussieListener AussieListener 18-21, M 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I am a 20 year old full time college student

    and my family everyday mental screws with me about not having a job and treats me like a cancer. I have almost a 3.5 gpa but that is nothing to them I lost my job back in October and they never let me forget about it I have put out resume after resume and nothing to make thing...
    Ac3Merc Ac3Merc 18-21, M 2 Responses May 17

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    My family is sooo annoying on my dads side .

    They always pick on me cause I'm skinny . It's so annoying like who gives a **** if I'm skinny if I was fat they would tell me to lose weight hate that **** .
    anaaaa188 anaaaa188 18-21, F May 16

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    I need to experience the freedom of being an

    adult, and let my mom know for real how sad and uncomfortable I have been for years, and I can't wait to see freedom for real.. Why is it that I felt more free in chains? My mom has access to my facebook but thinks that I don't.. I love the adrenaline rush of sneaking around and...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17 16-17, F 4 Responses May 8

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    I'm going to be big and that's

    when they are going to regret treating me the way the do
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F 4 Responses May 13

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    My mom asked me to mop the floor

    and I didn't do it so my brother did. He then stands outside my door and yells at me how I don't do anything around the house and how he thinks I am going to drop out of high school in 11th grade. He also said that I am a worthless, no good, lazy *****. Thanks man, but I know...
    ThePumpkinQueen ThePumpkinQueen 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Hi! I am writing this during a low moment.

    I need an opinion please. I come from another country of Europe and I live in London. I lived here for almost 3 years. And most of the time with my sister. My parents never supported me, so I had to work a lot and then i studied English and now i changed career and...
    FedLondon FedLondon 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    junglejimlove junglejimlove 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    my family just making my life difficult,

    i just wish i could live my new life and they stop contact me and distrub my life
    sweetberry88 sweetberry88 26-30, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I hate my family so much all they care about is

    themselves I hate them I hate them I hate them
    wishaponstar wishaponstar 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    I Divorced My Family, And It Was The Best Thing I Ever Did!

    I don't understand why "other" people think families are so wonderful.  My parents raised paper dolls and tore them into strips with great regularity.   I had to run away and use a lot of scotch tape to put the pieces back together.  It is my greatest hope in life to become...
    Unfazed Unfazed 51-55 7 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    I need advice. Should I go to my brother's

    wedding? Read through all of this before yielding advice Growing up I was always the blacksheep who could do nothing right. Both my extended and immediate families disrespected, mocked, and berated me from the time I was a child until recently. My brother (who fueled their fire...
    tribe1855 tribe1855 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate family get togethers,

    I hate Christmas. I hate thanksgiving, I hate Easter, I hate everything. They are all drama, someone always ends up getting hurt from a fight, I'm always the one to clean up after everyone else and I'm just sick if hearing everyone complain.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    what i really want now is moving out

    and start planning my new life
    sweetberry88 sweetberry88 26-30, F Apr 13

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    It's funny how everyone says you can always

    trust family but yet when you're in trouble or have problems they're the first ones to judge and make you feel like **** and turn their back on you but man **** my family I'm done with those fake ******* I honestly don't need them but I still can't believe they where capable...
    PrettyEvelin PrettyEvelin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2014

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    I think my dad favorites

    and chooses his step daughters over me. Why? He promised me he would cut them out is his life but he never did. His stepdaughters would constantly ask him for something he would give it to them. With me I get yelled at for everything. I hate him so much
    jellyycook jellyycook 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    For some reason my family can't figure out

    anything nice to say about me to my face. They feel the need to criticize everything about me and they never tell me anything positive or good. And they wonder why I feel horrible about myself.......
    Juliette19 Juliette19 18-21, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Drains and detriments in more ways

    than one. The dream of one day not having to deal with any of this **** is the only reason i still bother getting out of bed in the first place. honestly id rather die now if im to never escape this ****.
    expectasnaketobiteyou expectasnaketobiteyou 18-21, M 1 Response May 1

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    God bless her, but my mother is

    such a dummy. I don't even mean it in anger, she just has a very low IQ. She cant seem to hold a basic conversation, or piece together any contextual factors. For instance, my father said "I want to bring the TV from the bedroom into the living room." And my mother replies, "We...
    JamieMostra JamieMostra 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 19

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    They are ignorant, judgmental,

    and racist. I can't stand them. I'd prefer not even to be near them if it were possible. Not only that but they are so depressed over my views. I think it's about time they've gotten over my views on religion, and start fixing their judgmental and prejudice views.
    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    Sometimes I just want to punch a hole through

    the ******* wall. Like my brother was supposed to get me some money that my mom had on Friday, today is Sunday and I still don't have my ******* money. Like does he even know u shouldn't play with people's money like that. I'm just so frustrated with him. Like it's not that hard...
    LiveOnYourRadio LiveOnYourRadio 13-15, F May 3

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    Why am I blambed for everything?

    Why does everyone gang up on me in my own house? I can't wait to move out..
    Dacer13 Dacer13 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I Rather Be An Orphan From The First Day Of My Life

    I've had enough of staying in a home that treats me like a convict and frames me for everything I did not do. Many people desire a family out there, but what is the point of having a family that is no better than your enemies? Born as a middle child and a black sheep, I never ask...
    Reccur Reccur 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Except My Brother...

    My mom is sooooooooooo over controlling, when I was a kid all she would do is threaten me to get me to do what she wanted. Take away this that and the other thing until I had nothing at all and she could get me to do whatever she liked. My dad was right... Because of her actions...
    EmpowermentProject EmpowermentProject 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    How to cut out your family member out of your

    life? Please do not ask me to tell my story nor change my mind. I need instructions not 'but he's your dad'
    jellyycook jellyycook 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    Well besides my mom & dad

    since they haven't done anything wrong to me, it's my siblings I can't stand. There both 5-8 years older than me and we live in the same house, but they both ignore me and team up together to find ways to subliminally **** me off. I used to get along great with them both when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 9

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    How I Learned To Stop Hating My Family And Hate Myself

    The title of this post says it all. My family taught me to hate everything about myself and has made my life a living hell as far back as I can remember. In fact, I can't even remember a time when I enjoyed being around them at all. I realize that my past thirty years have been...
    ricomaurer ricomaurer 26-30 6 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    My family is rude to me

    and abusing me
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    I hate my family. I would trade families with

    anyone I knew. I really, really despise of them. They always have to plan everything, and I mean everything. They plan toilet stops, meals a month in advance, sleeping times, finance, just absolutely everything in extreme. Do you have no respect for spontaneity? What if I just...
    kathygrindley kathygrindley 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    To Be Hurt

    At the age of 12 is when i realized the world isnt perfect. I noticed patterns in the way people lied and how they were able not to be caught.After seeing my sister sneak away from the mall to go sleep with a crack head and return to the mall just when our parents...
    solisgirl solisgirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    I hate myself for having dedicated

    so much time and attention to my parents. I live overseas, and I have to travel at least 124 hours on a plane to go and visit. And until now, I have gone 3 times per year, even if for 3 or for days. I am not going to list what it costed me until now in dollars, but rather I want...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    "family". A Joke.

    Most normal people have pretty normal families. My whole life I've secretly dreamed of having a mom, dad, a house with a garage and a dog, or something. Something "normal", that would make my house feel like a home. Your family is supposed to understand how you feel and...
    SylphNoir SylphNoir 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    My ******* Stupid Family

    well i was just down staires and my mum and my ******* dad are talking to me about my health and that i need to lose some weight and i am already 5.2 and i need to get to a size 0!  they keep on nagging me to ******* hell! i hate my family for instants: My dad is a...
    nicole040396 nicole040396 16-17, F 56 Responses Oct 21, 2007

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    Everyday its the same routine .

    All we do is argue and fight , were fighting right now , well they are. im trying to get away from it all . No one is Happy anymore , im happy when im away from them and im alone . i dont even like to walk near them or sometimes be in the same room as them Holidays are the only...
    LunarDream LunarDream 16-17, M 5 Responses May 19, 2014

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    I think my dad favorites

    and chooses his step daughters over me (I'm adopted)...
    jellyycook jellyycook 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I honestly hate being talked down to.

    I don't care how old a person is they do not have a right to consider me responding to them talking back. I am 18 years old, I am never rude to people, I go out of my way to be nice to them most of them time. If I had the choice I'd be alone all of them. These people can go to...
    corissajane corissajane 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1, 2014

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    It's the day after Christmas,

    this time of the year should be filled with joy, laughter and love. But all I can think about is how much I hate my family. I never asked to be born into this family, now the thought of continuing to live in the same house as them makes me depressed. I have no emotional...
    staythenight staythenight 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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