I Hate My Family

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    I'm 18 years old and I'm an avid Christian,

    but I can't help but hate my family for the things they put me through. They call me the "accident baby" in the family cause my parents didn't expect for a 4th baby (which is me), and until now they do. I used to be the ugliest and the smallest among my sisters while people...
    Lilliane19 Lilliane19
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 9, 2015

    Where do I began, i have always been in split

    custody, but my mom passed away 3 years ago so now i stay with my dad, step-mom, brother, and half sister. I hate it my dad is totally whipped by my ***** of a step-mom and she spoils my little sister as leaves us the scraps. SHE DOSNT EVEN HAVE A JOB! I ask for a ride after...
    TickTickTick0000 TickTickTick0000
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 8

    My cousin moved in with us not too long ago

    and I already don't like him, I thought it could maybe be fun having him move in since I'm 18 now and I haven't seen him since I was 4, but I regret ever saying yes to letting him move in, he's only made me mad since he's been here, I'm happy when he's gone and I hope he moves...
    Fred363 Fred363
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 12

    Idk, I don't HATE them

    as people but I hate that I'm in this family. I'm 18-turning-19yo girl, 19-turning-20yo brother is autistic so I never got to be close to him, and all 5 cousins are turning 22-34. The new youngest, 2nd cousins, are turning 5 and 7. There's no one my age here and I never get to...
    RainbowPastel RainbowPastel
    18-21, F
    Apr 13

    I feel like my experience wouldn't have been

    worse if I was raised by wild boars in a pig pen. Both family sides only care about appearances and not how the person really feels. Even worse, if they find out you are too different from them they will cut off contact. I'm atheist and find them to be stupid and ignorant...
    dharmafox dharmafox
    36-40, M
    Feb 18
    junglejimlove junglejimlove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2014

    I'm trying to decide If I should cut them out

    of my life completely. I feel like it shouldn't be a hard decision. I need help with this.
    Shadowmantle Shadowmantle
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 28

    "family". A Joke.

    Most normal people have pretty normal families. My whole life I've secretly dreamed of having a mom, dad, a house with a garage and a dog, or something. Something "normal", that would make my house feel like a home. Your family is supposed to understand how you feel and...
    SylphNoir SylphNoir
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Jan 6, 2010

    I dont even know how to write this.

    When i was 14, my mother took me out of school for a yr to take care of my dad. i had to change his dipers and feed him and turn him so he wouldnt get bed sores. My brothers were all older and none helped. My mother was in and out of the hospital herself, she couldnt help. i...
    wolfgunz wolfgunz
    46-50, F
    Apr 12

    Im convinced that DNA has made a mistake.

    I wouldnt be around you if i wasnt "related" to u, why should i let a small thing like matching chromosomes dictate if i like you or not.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 4

    Had a really bad day today.

    I cant wait to leave.
    ConnerC123 ConnerC123
    18-21, M
    Mar 5

    I hate my whole family.

    I wish I was lucky enough to have no family, but I guess after I'm 18 I can just move away and pretend I don't. As a child, my mother would say "I love you" and I never knew what love meant, I thought it was something people said to be nice. I don't feel any connection to them...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 6, 2015

    but I also love them.

    ugh, one or the other would be so much easier :/
    DeathAngelS300 DeathAngelS300
    18-21, F
    Feb 27

    My mom's just told me to go to my friend's

    house alone, she wouldn't care if I got raped or abducted because she didn't care about me anymore. My brother hit me in the jaw and broke one tooth just because I insulted him. My dad used his cane and hit me in the head and stepped on my head just because I lost my calculator...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    So I just got my first paycheck a few days ago,

    and now my parents are demanding money out of my paycheck because they think it's a way for me to show "gratitude" towards them. So not only are they being greedy as well as extremely stupid, but I have to show gratitude to a family that has depressed me and nearly drove me to...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    I honestly hate being talked down to.

    I don't care how old a person is they do not have a right to consider me responding to them talking back. I am 18 years old, I am never rude to people, I go out of my way to be nice to them most of them time. If I had the choice I'd be alone all of them. These people can go to...
    corissajane corissajane
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 1, 2014

    I think my family is backwards.

    When my cousin had a boyfriend, she had a one bedroom apartment. Well, they broke up (probably because he found out that she was related to me) and now she just bought a two bedroom house for just herself. If you ask me, that's kind of backwards. Don't you think?
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 18

    I love my room. I love how cute

    and versatile it is, my palace. But I step out to get food, to simply eat, and a large wave of disgust sweeps over me. I just look around and see leftovers. I see joyful baby pictures of my dad's girlfriend, but she is simply rotten now. My father gives her the happiest life...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2014

    My ******* Stupid Family

    well i was just down staires and my mum and my ******* dad are talking to me about my health and that i need to lose some weight and i am already 5.2 and i need to get to a size 0!  they keep on nagging me to ******* hell! i hate my family for instants: My dad is a...
    nicole040396 nicole040396
    16-17, F
    57 Responses Oct 21, 2007

    Lol they suck and im tired pretending theyre

    good i wanna ******* kill them.*******
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 7

    I swear my parents hate me its like my brother

    ****** me off so I yell at him I'm grounded for a month he breaks the $2,500 dollar computer and nothing happens it seems like my parents never wanted me
    HeidiJohnson HeidiJohnson
    22-25, T
    Feb 9

    I think it's okay to hate your family,

    I honestly do. I don't care who thinks I'm a 'bad' person for saying this because honestly I'm so done. When you grow up with alcoholic, gambling parents (personally) I feel its has an extreme effect on you. With the extreme emotional and physical abuse, it's honestly hard for...
    Maybesomedaydarling Maybesomedaydarling
    16-17, F
    Feb 4

    Does it ever go away sometimes I hate my family

    with my whole being but it's all mixed up with some good memories but I still hate them it's so confusing. I want to forgive them and be a real family but I can't
    KrayzyBitch KrayzyBitch
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 22

    For me its the opposite.

    Since the beginning of this year I can't help but think my mom is starting to hate me. Actually instead of hate its more of a dislike of me. My mother rarely is honest with me anymore. She's also gotten a bit short tempered. I don't think it's my fault. But I can't even go...
    GrinchFairy GrinchFairy
    16-17
    Feb 7

    I wish death upon every single one of my family

    members that I'm forced to live with!!!!!!!!!!!
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    16-17, F
    Feb 14

    my family sucks. They're

    so rude and only care about themselves. Is this what you call a family?
    Genexus Genexus
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    Unfortunately, my mom is off all day today

    and tomorrow. I am much happier when she is gone. I wish my grandma would move around here and away from that bad area. If she lived in a better area I would move in with her in a heartbeat. I just can't stand my mom's complaining, yelling, and cussing. I understand people may...
    moose73630 moose73630
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    I hate my family. It's simple

    as that. Why you may ask it's because they ruined me. My family ruined my life. I don't if it was or purpose or by accident. But what I do know is you cannot accidentally ruin someone's life.I'll tell you about my childhood by there are something's that are too personal and I...
    ReinaDelDolor ReinaDelDolor
    18-21, F
    Mar 27

    For not being there for me

    when I need them the most.
    foreveralone22 foreveralone22
    26-30, F
    Jun 27, 2015

    I hate it when people say "you'll learn to

    appreciate your family more as you get older." Well, my tolerance for my family is dropping every single year that passes. It just doesn't apply for everyone.
    Calamityy Calamityy
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Oct 25, 2015

    I'd Kill Them If I Could.

    I hate my ******* family. I hate everything about them. I believe 95% of my life problems stem from them. They are the reason everything is wrong in my life. They are two-faced, gossiping, judgemental, narrow-minded pieces of ****, who deserve the worst.I dont know what I did to...
    Sillymee Sillymee
    18-21, F
    90 Responses Jan 17, 2009

    My dad just tried to start a fight with me

    because my brother was being loud. Oh, and I was apparently late night snacking even though I got up to use the bathroom. I swear, I would've killed both of my parents if they went and started a fight with me. So ******* tired of these two wastes of oxygen and I just want them...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97
    18-21, M
    Apr 5

    I know it's wrong to hate on family

    but I'm just so angry at them all the time.All the pent up frustrations since I was a kid, its just getting harder and harder to keep quiet like I always do. I want to yell and scream and just throw things at them like they do. But I don't want that. I don't want to be that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2015

    Fed up with my family!

    My mom sometimes yells at me for no reason! I don't feel comfortable living with them, I just wanna get away from them. I don't know what to do
    A7madh A7madh
    13-15, M
    1 Response Apr 10

    I just wanna put myself up

    for adoption I hate my parents
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    I hate my mom always going on

    and on about how awesome my sister is. She never shuts up about it!
    PearlRose PearlRose
    18-21
    1 Response Mar 24

    My dad specifically at times.

    Like, when he says "What happened to you, this isn't the *Insert My Name* I used to know" I'm over here like, "Well fūck you. I've always been this way its just that you only see my when i have to try and act happy for you". =3= and he calls me sensitive, point at the...
    Crossfire15 Crossfire15
    16-17, M
    Mar 9

    They are ignorant, judgmental,

    and racist. I can't stand them. I'd prefer not even to be near them if it were possible. Not only that but they are so depressed over my views. I think it's about time they've gotten over my views on religion, and start fixing their judgmental and prejudice views.
    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2014

    I need to experience the freedom of being an

    adult, and let my mom know for real how sad and uncomfortable I have been for years, and I can't wait to see freedom for real.. Why is it that I felt more free in chains? My mom has access to my facebook but thinks that I don't.. I love the adrenaline rush of sneaking around and...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 8, 2015

    For the past four years of my life everything

    had changed. We lost our money, dad had to go to rehab and got into two serious accidents, mom started working, I been to treatment twice for anorexia, moved twice, moved schools and have been sexually abused (by my ex bf). So that is a lot of change to happen from the start of...
    BooBear99 BooBear99
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 15

    My mom always is acting like the rich

    and wealthy one. She just wont let me wear anything that is sweat pants or other ****, and she gets pissed off for 1 ******* thing on the floor. My dad is just never going to stop with all the things that will always get you to just ******* go and shoot him. They keep talking...
    potuti potuti
    22-25, M
    Mar 5

    I Hate My Blood

    My family is the worsed I think about leaving everyday,i would leave right this second if i had anywhere to go I have no connection to any of them,every one of them hate me and not just my family like cousins familly all of them hate me,yell at me,put me down,dispise me,abuse...
    AussieListener AussieListener
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Oct 21, 2013

    I Divorced My Family, And It Was The Best Thing I Ever Did!

    I don't understand why "other" people think families are so wonderful.  My parents raised paper dolls and tore them into strips with great regularity.   I had to run away and use a lot of scotch tape to put the pieces back together.  It is my greatest hope in life to become...
    Unfazed Unfazed
    51-55
    7 Responses Dec 20, 2010

    My moms a trophy wife

    and my dads some big lawyer. My sister is some perfect princess. You all know the type. Beautiful, smart, social butterfly. Perfect I was always supposed to be the same. No one in my family cares how I'm feeling. If it doesn't fit into their perfect world then it's ignored...
    AnnaSpahnTX AnnaSpahnTX
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 7

    For some reason my family can't figure out

    anything nice to say about me to my face. They feel the need to criticize everything about me and they never tell me anything positive or good. And they wonder why I feel horrible about myself.......
    Juliette20 Juliette20
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 29, 2015

    Everyday its the same routine .

    All we do is argue and fight , were fighting right now , well they are. im trying to get away from it all . No one is Happy anymore , im happy when im away from them and im alone . i dont even like to walk near them or sometimes be in the same room as them Holidays are the only...
    LunarDream LunarDream
    18-21, M
    4 Responses May 19, 2014

    It's funny how my family saw me

    as the black sheep of the herd. all my other siblings got more cloths or toys then me when I was little my sister would ask to have sleepovers and my parents would immediately agree then I'd ask and they flip their crap. I remember times where I would hate to come home because I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 31

    Im Tired of Being Abused

    i dont want this anymore.   i ask for help, but nobody hears me.   im tired of being beaten up and ridiculed and yelled at and im tired of having to defend myself all the time to deaf ears, im tired of having to hide when everybody comes home, im tired of...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Nov 12, 2007

    I need a new family. my parents are really

    strong Christians who have a son (me) who apparently is the only pervert in the world and will never change his ways. I definitely need a new family. please!
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover
    22-25, M
    Feb 1

    I hate my family especially my mum

    so my dad lost his money and they accused of me of stealing just because I made a mistake a long time ago they are blaming me for everything my mum was like your siblings couldn't have done it cause they never steal my mum threatened me with a knife to tell the truth when I'm...
    iwish524 iwish524
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Feb 15

    Even though family is family

    but sometimes exceptional situations and circumstances change the rule. I have a family... A family that sees me as a refugee in the household and not a family member and I don't know how to deal with it. Can anyone that's facing the same give me some pointers on how to handle...
    Kelsibarka Kelsibarka
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 18

    I can't take this family anymore,

    I hate living here, and I hate being around everyone here. I can't even consider them a family and I never felt like I belonged to them. Never have and never will. No one in this house ever wanted to form a relationship with me all because I'm the youngest. All everyone here...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 6, 2015

    My dad was hitting me again yesterday.

    I broke down today and I told my brother. He didn't believe me. I even showed him the bruises. He thought I did it to myself. I'm upset. I cried for a few hours today and I just feel so numb. I don't know what to do anymore.
    Maaaadison Maaaadison
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 22

    Okay, so I love my family,

    as people. But I hate their way of doing things. My family are SUPER old fashioned, basically, men are meant to work, and only work. But that's the issue, in my family, men have it Reeeeaaally easy, that's all they have to do. Girls, on the other hand, are meant to work...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    I hate myself for having dedicated

    so much time and attention to my parents. I live overseas, and I have to travel at least 124 hours on a plane to go and visit. And until now, I have gone 3 times per year, even if for 3 or for days. I am not going to list what it costed me until now in dollars, but rather I want...
    pistacchia pistacchia
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    Why am I blambed for everything?

    Why does everyone gang up on me in my own house? I can't wait to move out..
    Dacer13 Dacer13
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 23, 2015

    How I Learned To Stop Hating My Family And Hate Myself

    The title of this post says it all. My family taught me to hate everything about myself and has made my life a living hell as far back as I can remember. In fact, I can't even remember a time when I enjoyed being around them at all. I realize that my past thirty years have been...
    ricomaurer ricomaurer
    26-30
    8 Responses Jun 23, 2012

    My mom just makes me

    so mad! I don't know why, since I'm the one who doesn't know how to talk without being sarcastic or saying hurtful jokes.
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover
    22-25, M
    Mar 6

    Stop bothering me....

    ...............
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 25
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