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I Hate My Family

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    And even hate isn't strong enough.

    I just don't like how they make me feel when I'm around them. They always have to criticize me for every little things I do. I can't be myself when I am with them and they are ******, close-minded and don't understand my struggles. They are overprotective with me and they just...
    winemom winemom 16-17, F Aug 23

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    I really am in disgust with this rotten family,

    and constantly think of killing myself. Never have they ever showed any love twords me. My idiotic mother - Early back on she had a divorce with my father after he cheated with her another woman. We were a happy family before he did, but all that lyes now is hate. I wish to...
    MysteryZ MysteryZ 18-21, M Aug 17

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    Another fight with my mom

    and my sister, but that's no surprise to me anymore. It happens every day, whether it be a minor or major fight. I hate it so ******* much. Trying to resist the urge to cut. The previous ones have just started to disappear. I want to leave.
    artelutio artelutio 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Why am I blambed for everything?

    Why does everyone gang up on me in my own house? I can't wait to move out..
    Dacer13 Dacer13 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 23

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    So I just got my first paycheck a few days ago,

    and now my parents are demanding money out of my paycheck because they think it's a way for me to show "gratitude" towards them. So not only are they being greedy as well as extremely stupid, but I have to show gratitude to a family that has depressed me and nearly drove me to...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I'd Kill Them If I Could.

    I hate my ******* family. I hate everything about them. I believe 95% of my life problems stem from them. They are the reason everything is wrong in my life. They are two-faced, gossiping, judgemental, narrow-minded pieces of ****, who deserve the worst.I dont know what I did to...
    Sillymee Sillymee 18-21, F 69 Responses Jan 17, 2009

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    And even hate isn't strong enough.

    I just don't like how they make me feel when I'm around them. They always have to criticize me for every little things I do. I can't be myself when I am with them and they are close-minded and don't understand my struggles. They are overprotective with me and they just can't...
    winemom winemom 16-17, F Aug 23

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    I'm 18 years old and I'm an avid Christian,

    but I can't help but hate my family for the things they put me through. They call me the "accident baby" in the family cause my parents didn't expect for a 4th baby (which is me), and until now they do. I used to be the ugliest and the smallest among my sisters while people...
    Lilliane19 Lilliane19 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 9

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    You want me to grow up

    and be an adult. You want me to make adult decisions. How the **** am I supposed to do that when you constantly yell at me like I'm a child? Stop yelling. Stop. Yelling. I've told you countless times how yelling stresses me out, yet you continue to do it. I do something you...
    artelutio artelutio 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I honestly hate being talked down to.

    I don't care how old a person is they do not have a right to consider me responding to them talking back. I am 18 years old, I am never rude to people, I go out of my way to be nice to them most of them time. If I had the choice I'd be alone all of them. These people can go to...
    corissajane corissajane 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1, 2014

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    I love my room. I love how cute

    and versatile it is, my palace. But I step out to get food, to simply eat, and a large wave of disgust sweeps over me. I just look around and see leftovers. I see joyful baby pictures of my dad's girlfriend, but she is simply rotten now. My father gives her the happiest life...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    There something seriously wrong with

    but of coarse my idiotic family thinks they know everything and just says there is nothing wrong with me because they want this perfect ******* child they ignore me all the time and when they do notice my presences they just Blame everything that's wrong I just want to...
    thatgirl180 thatgirl180 16-17 Aug 18

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    I know it's wrong to hate on family

    but I'm just so angry at them all the time.All the pent up frustrations since I was a kid, its just getting harder and harder to keep quiet like I always do. I want to yell and scream and just throw things at them like they do. But I don't want that. I don't want to be that...
    ThinaElise ThinaElise 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    i hate my familly i was always the weird one my

    parents didnt want to have cuz they already have my sister she so beautiful and im the ugly the treat me like **** i wanna kill them
    safa97 safa97 18-21, F Aug 11

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    "family". A Joke.

    Most normal people have pretty normal families. My whole life I've secretly dreamed of having a mom, dad, a house with a garage and a dog, or something. Something "normal", that would make my house feel like a home. Your family is supposed to understand how you feel and...
    SylphNoir SylphNoir 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    I Hate My Blood

    My family is the worsed I think about leaving everyday,i would leave right this second if i had anywhere to go I have no connection to any of them,every one of them hate me and not just my family like cousins familly all of them hate me,yell at me,put me down,dispise me,abuse...
    AussieListener AussieListener 18-21, M 8 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Okay, so I love my family,

    as people. But I hate their way of doing things. My family are SUPER old fashioned, basically, men are meant to work, and only work. But that's the issue, in my family, men have it Reeeeaaally easy, that's all they have to do. Girls, on the other hand, are meant to work...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 16

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    i hate my family. i don't just hate them,

    i hate them with a passion. I hate them to the point that i ask them to not celebrate my birthday with me. I hate them to the point that i chose to snub them off my future completely. I hate them to the point where i truly and genuinely don't have any sympathy or compassion for...
    Sublevarse Sublevarse 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I need to experience the freedom of being an

    adult, and let my mom know for real how sad and uncomfortable I have been for years, and I can't wait to see freedom for real.. Why is it that I felt more free in chains? My mom has access to my facebook but thinks that I don't.. I love the adrenaline rush of sneaking around and...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17 16-17, F 3 Responses May 8

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    I just wanna put myself up

    for adoption I hate my parents
    SpiritOfOrpheus SpiritOfOrpheus 16-17, M 7 Responses Jul 26

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    I haven't had any contact with my family

    since I left my hometown almost 8 years ago but they just can't seem to leave me the hell alone. Since I've told them that I want nothing to do with them, they try to get any information they can by enlisting others to contact my children. It's hard to explain and a very...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F Aug 23

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    For some reason my family can't figure out

    anything nice to say about me to my face. They feel the need to criticize everything about me and they never tell me anything positive or good. And they wonder why I feel horrible about myself.......
    Juliette19 Juliette19 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    For not being there for me

    when I need them the most.
    foreveralone22 foreveralone22 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I hate myself for having dedicated

    so much time and attention to my parents. I live overseas, and I have to travel at least 124 hours on a plane to go and visit. And until now, I have gone 3 times per year, even if for 3 or for days. I am not going to list what it costed me until now in dollars, but rather I want...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I've had a job since I was 17,

    contributing verily, but in essence equally, to the household income over that span. 3 months ago I was downsized (through no fault of my own). Since then I've been having difficulty finding work. Tonight a disagreement about the safety of jogging at night turned into "I'm...
    PicklesAndPie PicklesAndPie 26-30 Aug 22

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    I doesn't really hate my family

    but I think they r the one who hates me My dad alway shout and slap me even I didn't do anything wrong sometime I wish I could take out a knife and stab myself in front of my family
    lookket lookket 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    My family is rude to me

    and abusing me
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    To all the recent posts here,

    I feel for you. You all are young, I'm nearly three times your age, and just about everything you all have written about your families, I've gone through. That said, I do want to tell you: HANG IN THERE! Life isn't easy but it is WHAT you make of it. My mother is 91 at this...
    katmaninva katmaninva 56-60 1 Response Aug 6

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    Ok I'm one of them people

    that had a bad childhood , I was never shown love by my mom, and it has effected me in many ways , I feel like nobody cares about me .
    Hotsexychick222 Hotsexychick222 22-25, F Aug 11

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    I Divorced My Family, And It Was The Best Thing I Ever Did!

    I don't understand why "other" people think families are so wonderful.  My parents raised paper dolls and tore them into strips with great regularity.   I had to run away and use a lot of scotch tape to put the pieces back together.  It is my greatest hope in life to become...
    Unfazed Unfazed 51-55 8 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Another fight having to do with me being this

    horrible person who's always angry. Why do you think I'm angry a lot? I don't want to be angry. You make me this way every time you try to pick a fight with me. I'm not the horrible person you picture me as. I promise I'm not. Please stop looking at me that way. It hurts so...
    artelutio artelutio 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My brother always blames everything on me.

    Everything I do is always MY fault. He calls me fat and ugly, and sometimes even hits me, and when I try to tell my parents, my mom tells me to stop talking out my *** and my dad says 'Because you are.' Sometimes my mother supports me, sometimes she doesn't. She never lets me...
    Kohlerror Kohlerror 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    especially my parents they're too loud,

    they really like to shout at each other and then pretend like it's fcking doesn't matter and everything's completely fine and it's not my business it's really sad to look at the people who aren't happy together at all and realize that they have to live with each other .-.
    curs curs 22-25, F Aug 15

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    My family are just selfish self centred

    and self centred to the point where I don't understand why I bother being around them. they have no respect for me or my time and both ***** a bout each other but readily gang up and turn on you as they see fit. Any time I try and spend is a total waste as they're either...
    Sconstan Sconstan 26-30, F Aug 15

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    My family is crazy. I'm completely

    and totally pissed at my family. My uncle and his partner, god knows who else. Is saying that all the sexual abuse, the rape, sexual assaults I went through as a kid aren't real. I made it up. So I can manipulate my mother and others to get them to do everything for me. Because...
    BeautifullySickkk BeautifullySickkk 31-35, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Last night everything became too much.

    My little brother is a vindictive little s**t. He constantly makes accusations of people beating him up including me for no reason or something that he'd let you get arrested for (hes 12) well last night he randomly told me he'd reported me without saying what for. it was the...
    LewisCollins LewisCollins 31-35 Aug 23

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    Everyday its the same routine .

    All we do is argue and fight , were fighting right now , well they are. im trying to get away from it all . No one is Happy anymore , im happy when im away from them and im alone . i dont even like to walk near them or sometimes be in the same room as them Holidays are the only...
    LunarDream LunarDream 16-17, M 5 Responses May 19, 2014

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    Unfortunately, my mom is off all day today

    and tomorrow. I am much happier when she is gone. I wish my grandma would move around here and away from that bad area. If she lived in a better area I would move in with her in a heartbeat. I just can't stand my mom's complaining, yelling, and cussing. I understand people may...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 1

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    I wish my Dad wouldn't make it

    so obvious that he prefers my sister's family over mine. My kids can see it and make comments about it.
    JohnSpartan JohnSpartan 41-45, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I can't take this family anymore,

    I hate living here, and I hate being around everyone here. I can't even consider them a family and I never felt like I belonged to them. Never have and never will. No one in this house ever wanted to form a relationship with me all because I'm the youngest. All everyone here...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    They always think that they're the most

    important thing in your world and insist that you spend time with them. Just by them insisting that makes me want to dump them immidiately.
    Calamityy Calamityy 22-25, M Aug 15

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    My ******* Stupid Family

    well i was just down staires and my mum and my ******* dad are talking to me about my health and that i need to lose some weight and i am already 5.2 and i need to get to a size 0!  they keep on nagging me to ******* hell! i hate my family for instants: My dad is a...
    nicole040396 nicole040396 16-17, F 56 Responses Oct 21, 2007

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    Why do we as humans feel bad

    when we Have to lose all contact with family members. Sometimes family is the first to bring u down or even ruin u.
    Monki3 Monki3 26-30 1 Response Aug 14

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    Im Tired of Being Abused

    i dont want this anymore.   i ask for help, but nobody hears me.   im tired of being beaten up and ridiculed and yelled at and im tired of having to defend myself all the time to deaf ears, im tired of having to hide when everybody comes home, im tired of...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 15 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    junglejimlove junglejimlove 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    BUNCH OF CRETINS. The short version is nearly

    the whole lot of them are disrespectful, duplicitous, ignorant, aggressive f******s. They use my submissive and reserved nature to manipulate me with complete disregard. They talk bad about me, even when I'm five f******g feet away. They can't get along for a single day. It...
    bigmitch0800 bigmitch0800 18-21 1 Response Aug 7