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I Hate My Family

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    I'm at a point in my life

    where I've reached crisis. I'm in my mid 30's and have begun to realise that for nearly all my life I've had very little love or support from my family. My father is what I'd refer to as a 1940's father, he provided for us but really wanted nothing to do with us in terms of...
    shegeek shegeek 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    I hate myself for having dedicated

    so much time and attention to my parents. I live overseas, and I have to travel at least 124 hours on a plane to go and visit. And until now, I have gone 3 times per year, even if for 3 or for days. I am not going to list what it costed me until now in dollars, but rather I want...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I'm 18 years old and I'm an avid Christian,

    but I can't help but hate my family for the things they put me through. They call me the "accident baby" in the family cause my parents didn't expect for a 4th baby (which is me), and until now they do. I used to be the ugliest and the smallest among my sisters while people...
    Lilliane19 Lilliane19 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I want to leave home am 16 my parents are

    always ignoring me and yelling at me for everything/always say negative things about me they also wish that I was gone out of their life's I cry almost everyday asking god to take my life away am miserable help anyone?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    My life sucks, my family

    and I don't get along and I don't want to live with them anymore. Sometimes I act childish but 50 percent of the other time they are just as bad. I also have needs that aren't being met, like I don't have friends and even if I would hangout with someone my mom can't afford to...
    Silence2021 Silence2021 16-17, F Mar 6

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    They blame me for every thing I can't feed my

    puppy Or trained her I have no life my father hates because I was born My mom tries but with three sister and their husbands plus the grand kids I don't matter any more Their are times I think bad things I'm not sure what to do they let me stay but they would rather I was...
    divanme1 divanme1 26-30 Mar 16

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    Everyday its the same routine .

    All we do is argue and fight , were fighting right now , well they are. im trying to get away from it all . No one is Happy anymore , im happy when im away from them and im alone . i dont even like to walk near them or sometimes be in the same room as them Holidays are the only...
    LunarDream LunarDream 16-17, M 5 Responses May 19, 2014

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    "family". A Joke.

    Most normal people have pretty normal families. My whole life I've secretly dreamed of having a mom, dad, a house with a garage and a dog, or something. Something "normal", that would make my house feel like a home. Your family is supposed to understand how you feel and...
    SylphNoir SylphNoir 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    My mom bought my sister a car

    but she won't get me a new phone. Yeah I can really feel the love mom.
    XxOrbitaxX XxOrbitaxX 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    My family does everything they can to put me

    down. I have zero support from anyone. I just moved in with my boyfriend and they all are being so mean to me. They're questioning my job, where I live. I'm so happy where I am but they just love tearing me down. All of them! Usually it's just my mom but now my sisters are...
    Beth215 Beth215 18-21 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Having a superb dysfunctional family.

    . Self centered brother.. Indecisive mother and a Narcissistic father... Problems started with my dad being a Narcissist.. Controlling everyone in the family.. It is either his way or the highway... And over years.. mom started to work to support his stupid gambling habits and...
    JNTXY JNTXY 31-35, M Mar 10

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    I made a great dinner,

    it took me over an hour, and he comes home with a pizza :-*
    JamieMostra JamieMostra 26-30, T Feb 27

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    I am 14 years old this year

    and I enjoy playing my laptop all day Besides that I love to text to my friends but everytime I am always getting nag, Because I play games the whole day and the thing is they are still nagging at me even if I got like good marks in exams like 70% and above.I wish I could kill...
    Ericstation Ericstation 13-15, M Feb 19

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    My mom left to work in another country

    when i was months old so my dad basically took care of me. My mom went back home after years and the gap between us is always there. One day,my dad died, was hard for me since i was never close to my mom.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    This probably isn't the best way to talk about

    a family member but I just wish my brother was dead.... All he does is lie and steal just for his ******* drug habit (that he says he doesn't have anymore) oh that reminds me did I mention he's a manipulative lier? Well this piece of **** is! He's been lying about stealing stuff...
    Smitty280 Smitty280 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    Ugh. I hate my mom side of the family.

    I really really do. They hate my dad because he cheated on my mom. Really guys?! Really?! You don't hate my uncle and he cheated his wife! And you don't hate my other uncle and he was a freaking junkie!
    awayoflife123 awayoflife123 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I hate family get togethers,

    I hate Christmas. I hate thanksgiving, I hate Easter, I hate everything. They are all drama, someone always ends up getting hurt from a fight, I'm always the one to clean up after everyone else and I'm just sick if hearing everyone complain.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Why am I blambed for everything?

    Why does everyone gang up on me in my own house? I can't wait to move out..
    Dacer13 Dacer13 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Why did i have to be put with this group of

    people. My mom gets mad over every little thing and even things i dont have control over but still she gets mad and gives me more death threats and tells me how worthless i am and how im not anyone important . im kinda use to it and it doesnt hurt as much cause i really...
    LunarDream LunarDream 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 4, 2014

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    Except My Brother...

    My mom is sooooooooooo over controlling, when I was a kid all she would do is threaten me to get me to do what she wanted. Take away this that and the other thing until I had nothing at all and she could get me to do whatever she liked. My dad was right... Because of her actions...
    EmpowermentProject EmpowermentProject 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    my family sucks. They're

    so rude and only care about themselves. Is this what you call a family?
    TheDevilInTheMirror TheDevilInTheMirror 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    My dads never home and

    when he is he wants nothing to do with me and my mom is a narcissistic woman who drinks white wine from the bottle
    awesomeboy98 awesomeboy98 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    I am six weeks out from leaving my

    narcissistic husband. I am pregnant and have a1 year old. Most of my family has not reached out to me at all. They hate me and the feeling is mutual. They probably feel like...I told you so and you embarrass us. My immediate family skiooed my wedding, skipped my son's...
    cellogal cellogal 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    My family is rude to me

    and abusing me
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    To Be Hurt

    At the age of 12 is when i realized the world isnt perfect. I noticed patterns in the way people lied and how they were able not to be caught.After seeing my sister sneak away from the mall to go sleep with a crack head and return to the mall just when our parents...
    solisgirl solisgirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    I hate my family so much,

    they're never supportive of anything I do and they're constantly yelling at me. I can't ******* take it anymore, I hate them.
    selasf selasf 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    My Family

    My dad hates me... a lot... he says that im an accident. Even when i have friends over, he'll say im a stupid f@got.. ive gotten so used to him saying that, that whenever my friends comes over, i tell them to not respond to what my dad says... he doesn't even consider me as his...
    FrozenNightmare FrozenNightmare 18-21, M 10 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I am alone now. I ran away

    after I finished my graduate degree because I know that my parents have manipulated me for almost 30 years and they still plan on doing so. I don't want them to manipulate me anymore. I decide never going back. However, when my grandmother is very, very sick and my family...
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Im Tired of Being Abused

    i dont want this anymore.   i ask for help, but nobody hears me.   im tired of being beaten up and ridiculed and yelled at and im tired of having to defend myself all the time to deaf ears, im tired of having to hide when everybody comes home, im tired of...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 15 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    There are only certain people

    that I absolutely love on my mom's side out of the people i see semi regularly and that's one of my little cousins, my grandfather, and great grandparents. My aunt that my mom talks about and vice versa is childish and petty and so is her daughter . My mom is a jealous abusive...
    hardlyalive hardlyalive 18-21, F Mar 18

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    My mom asked me to mop the floor

    and I didn't do it so my brother did. He then stands outside my door and yells at me how I don't do anything around the house and how he thinks I am going to drop out of high school in 11th grade. He also said that I am a worthless, no good, lazy *****. Thanks man, but I know...
    ThePumpkinQueen ThePumpkinQueen 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I absolutely hate my family.

    The only one I can tolerate is my dad and in order to do that I have to see the evil mother and sister. Everyone thinks my sister is the most beautiful, funniest, sweetest girl in the world. They constantly commend her on how great she is. She is going to school to be a teacher...
    xoshelbsxo xoshelbsxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    I love my room. I love how cute

    and versatile it is, my palace. But I step out to get food, to simply eat, and a large wave of disgust sweeps over me. I just look around and see leftovers. I see joyful baby pictures of my dad's girlfriend, but she is simply rotten now. My father gives her the happiest life...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    I've never felt like I belong.

    ..anywhere. I want to love my family again, I think we used to know how, or at least we had a good illusion going between mom and dad's fighting. Now my stepmom fighting my dad and my mom fighting my stepdad and letting me know lazy and burdening I am it just feels difficult to...
    zeframcochrane zeframcochrane 16-17 1 Response Mar 1

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    so I received a letter from my nan yesterday,

    but it wasn't a nice or happy letter, nope, it was a letter telling my that I was supposed to get aborted, by her daughter, and that I was a mistake, so last night I tried to kill myself, but thanks to I'm using their username and not their name, Ditum and I think its Preston I...
    Suicidesilenced Suicidesilenced 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I'd Kill Them If I Could.

    I hate my ******* family. I hate everything about them. I believe 95% of my life problems stem from them. They are the reason everything is wrong in my life. They are two-faced, gossiping, judgemental, narrow-minded pieces of ****, who deserve the worst.I dont know what I did to...
    Sillymee Sillymee 18-21, F 56 Responses Jan 17, 2009

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    It's funny how everyone says you can always

    trust family but yet when you're in trouble or have problems they're the first ones to judge and make you feel like **** and turn their back on you but man **** my family I'm done with those fake ******* I honestly don't need them but I still can't believe they where capable...
    PrettyEvelin PrettyEvelin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2014

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    i wish i could just leave em,

    cause there's no reason to be here except i was born here. no one understands me, no one actually loves me yet they are mad if i dont join them in dinner, vacation etc. i dont feel happy at all
    xxgurl98 xxgurl98 16-17, F Mar 8

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    I wish that my human family could leave me

    alone forever. I'm tired of the constant "We love you very much." bs that they use daily. I don't give worth two hoots if you say love me it would be better for you to actually you better prove it by letting me go be with my actual family[I'm reffering to the Wolves] or else I'm...
    LoneWolf32 LoneWolf32 18-21, M Mar 6

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    my family is so annoying.

    they always attack me when I don't even do anything. I cant wait till I leave. I wish I didn't even know them
    thatgirlv thatgirlv 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    I'm going to my dads tomorrow

    for the weekend and I'm really not looking forward to it. I get really bad anxiety when I go there and I feel very claustrophobic and uncomfortable in his house. I honestly can't stand spending time there as I feel so nervous and tired and I think being there is having a real...
    Zel30 Zel30 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I hate my family ): im the youngest

    and it hurts alot when my parents would always compare me to my sisters :/
    nicolemwuah nicolemwuah 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I Am Done..theur all cut off.

    ..my mom makes it very clear that she doesn't love me. she says it daily. my brother does the most messed up stuff and my mom makes me take the fall.. tonight i almost got arrested cause of something my brother did.this is the second time iv almost went to jail cause of him...
    LunarDream LunarDream 16-17, M 9 Responses Jan 20

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    i HATE my family their

    so annoying-_-
    nicolesf nicolesf 18-21 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Today I missed my dad

    so I called him and I asked if I could go over his house and he said no I don't want to see you,you're very disrespectful!and then he said I'm taking Chloe to the mall but I don't want u going since u have an attitude!and he hung up.....so I called him back after crying and I...
    xxangellynnxx xxangellynnxx 16-17, F Feb 28

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    My ******* Stupid Family

    well i was just down staires and my mum and my ******* dad are talking to me about my health and that i need to lose some weight and i am already 5.2 and i need to get to a size 0!  they keep on nagging me to ******* hell! i hate my family for instants: My dad is a...
    nicole040396 nicole040396 16-17, F 55 Responses Oct 21, 2007

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    My grandfather enjoys telling his friends I'm

    autistic, which I'm not. He's constantly trying to embarrass me in front of them. Why can't he just die?
    hreinn hreinn 18-21, M 2 Responses